The Yuletide is Gay! How to survive the holidays - Sweet Aunt Spicy Aunt [ep3] Jessica & Stevie

[@NoticeMeSenpaiii]

This feels like watching the 2 sides of my personality, but they're friends instead of battling each other.

[@Turnpost2552]

I am a guy I feel like these women. Are the evil and good angels on the side of the shoulder lol

[@taesirejasper4267]

Yeah, it's pretty cool!

[@aprildawnsunshine4326]

Same! Why I love them so much 🥰

[@bruceboa6384]

It's so cool that Stevie and Jessica are friends. I've been subscribed to both channels for years and years.

[@truecrimelover2022]

same aren't they lovely

[@venessalizabeth]

YESS

[@taesirejasper4267]

I know right? They're both adorable together, man!

[@taesirejasper4267]

@@venessalizabeth Indeed!

[@taesirejasper4267]

@@truecrimelover2022 Yeah, they are!

[@firefly24601]

Stevie is totally wearing the proper liturgical color for Advent. The colors don't change until Christmas Eve, when they go to white. 💜

[@ekaterina6758]

Jessica's explanation of Christmas is so sweet and pure, and then Spicy Aunty just says "sperm donor" and I'm left laughing out loud in the middle of the night 😂😂😂 I mean... why don't we watch this video at 3 a.m., sounds like a great idea to me))) Desperately need a video of Stevie just explaining the meaning of the main holidays, pretty sure it would be hilarious 🤣

[@rosieblyther444]

Stevie, you look like a disney villain and I'm LOVING it!

[@TheMntnG]

I used to hate the commercialised christmas is, but now I embrace santa as an unreal myth thats just fun.

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

The original, not the Coke version, Santa myth is very nice. An old man making toys to give to poor children during winter solstice celebrations.

[@nehamaaleixandre4879]

The sponsorship bit makes me feel like I’m having a stroke lmfaooo but it kept my lizard brain entertained so it works!!

[@bbybovine]

Oh my goodness Jessica explaining how her wife and her dance randomly around the house made my gay heart so happy. Also, love Stevie's advice to medicate yourself for the holidays 🤣

[@jennifers5560]

We give our dog parents friends DNA tests for their dogs...I don’t know if that is better or worse than giving 23 & Me.

[@stevie]

😂

[@TheMntnG]

better

[@shaliekk]

I am seriously loving the feathery velvety scarf thing

[@annabelyates5219]

I would NOT let Santa in my room - he was strictly confined to the living room. I also wrote a note to the tooth fairy asking her to please stop stealing from me... I was big into stranger danger 😅

[@Tomatry]

Your friendship is so cute omg 😩 love you both!!

[@whendnewzum3058]

This so works ! You should have a number one hit tv show! Love you both!!!

[@aprildawnsunshine4326]

Santa is a fairy/spirit/angel who whispers in your ears while you're shopping what to get. You'll know it's him because you'll see something and be surprised by how perfect it is and think, or even say aloud something like "Wow, that's perfect for them!" 🎅🧚‍♂️

[@31051982loz]

Love this new segment thing you guys are doing

[@zhenia2511]

Buying gifts is such a nightmare. I want to make a present for my family for New Year, but I'm totally lost on what to buy and I grew up alongside these people. I'm a sucky gift giver.

[@stevie]

Omg I feel the same way! Things I think other people will like regularly backfire on me 🙈 Now I try to get them to make wishlists so I don’t have to guess!

[@zhenia2511]

@@stevie It's hard to get a wishlist for 3 people if you can make only one collective gift and their tastes are not similar in the slightest. If not for war, I would buy everyone something and chill out, but I can't cough up the limited money supply, so I'm stuck in this uncomfortable position.

[@floreya67]

Y'all are so awesome together, these videos are great:)

[@karoinvintage]

0:23 "and we are..." Me: "... GAY!!"

[@tammysantana7200]

Love you both Merry Christmas 🎄

[@user-df3kp9nn7b]

This purple number = STUNNINGGGGG

[@FelipeAntonioOnline]

I come from the other video and have just realised that Stevie got to look fancier than Jessica in casual clothes. Love the look by the way.

[@stevie]

Well that’s simply impossible, but plot twist, my two piece purple suit dress I’m wearing was given to me as a gift from Jessica 😉

[@ireallyreallyhategoogle]

@@stevie That explains it.

[@kaulie9657]

Oh wow I love the Aunties!!!

[@kaulie9657]

Waiting on more from the Aunties

[@michellemachesney1487]

these videos have come at a brilliant time bc i think i just received the weirdest gift ive ever gotten and im like why???? lmao i rly enjoy you and jkf’s videos and the collabs make me happy!

[@derikanolen8201]

Ty for the tasteful touch on religion I’m religiously damaged

[@Tomatry]

Same I love when people honestly acknowledge the religious bs as it is

[@eliasramos1145]

Me an my boyfriend had been dating for almost a year in our first christmas together (our aniversary is on the 28th of december), so i gave him a hand painted mdf box, rpg themed, were he could store all his sets of dice, and a new set. So for anyone thinking about what the "appropriate" gift for the first christmas, it really depends on the time you know each other, what are their interests, and what you would like to gift them! I really like making thing by hand, so it was my to go, but something you can buy, but you know they will really like, is great too!

[@sylvia6706]

My girlfriend's company gave them DNA kits for Christmas 🤣 so it's funny to hear it described in this video. But totally, because not everyone wants to know their ancestry or have their info out there.

[@fujoshipeanut5074]

My girlfriend and I had our first Christmas this year. Since we live far from each other and trains are all screwy, we decided to give our gifts early. I got her a cross stitch I started making approximately one and a half months in of us dating 🙈 and she made me a FREAKING ESCAPE ROOM BOX 😆😆😆 like we've only been dating four months and she really went all out for me 🥰🥰🥰 and there were like six presents in the box which I haven't opened yet because 1) I'm saving them for Christmas and 2) all the presents have puzzles on them so I can't open them until I solve them 😂😭 I've done 3, just 3 more to go 😂

[@Kaltag2278]

We started dating in March and I proposed on Christmas. Looking back that wasn't a good idea but I was 21 ok? Don't judge me! 😂

[@immorethanthischoudhary9019]

Hehe that's just you gaying around. No judgement 😇

[@Kaltag2278]

@@immorethanthischoudhary9019 we're still married 10 years later so I think she forgave me for doing it in front of her family 🤤

[@kiarimarie]

I had Christmas at my husband's house after only dating 2 months and some change, his parents were like "you should ask if she wants to come over for dinner 👁️" I think his parents were hyped for him to have a girlfriend.

[@pao1496]

Nobody does ads like Steve 😂

[@laurataylor29]

luv you guys..so awesome and lovely

[@chantelcain3297]

My baby loved to undecorate our tree 😅 my only advice is shatterproof only

[@imbluedubbadee]

My kid is terrified of Santa, but we celebrate Yuletide not Christmas anyway (southern hemisphere, ours is halfway through the year not on the same day as Christmas so its our own special thing that Santa has nothing to do with 😂)

[@debrabrown5958]

The SON gives you light and warmth as well.

[@felicitymoorcross198]

Calm down, Debra.

[@airohtheenby]

I really want to see someone who has never heard of spoon theory react to the first question and answers without context lol

[@Ulthar_Cat]

Stevie I TOO have religious trauma and the HP Lovecraft Historical Society has solved the problem of the carols. They changed everything "christmasy" with Cthulhu stuff. Scary Solstice to all! >83 🖤🖤🖤

[@venessalizabeth]

this made me lmfao I LOVE MY AUNTIES

[@bloodymary3008]

are yall lesbian witches that celebrate YULE too ?? That's AWESOME 😃👌 which coven are y'all in ??

[@girllovefilms8338]

Stevie 2nd video in a week ❤ 😍

[@mikaylaeager7942]

Christmas is just a solstice celebration in disguise… and the solstice, although it is significant to many religions around the world, is also just an astrological event that marks a important point in the year (the shortest day) and you can choose to celebrate it in whatever way you like. That is how I personally justify going all out for Christmas even though I am not and have never been Christian.

[@yolandahsiao1969]

Who knew bidets could come with speakers!

[@agustinarevenga8800]

here ins argentina most of the society celebrate christmas centered arround the family gathering. It's never about religion or christianism (except for people that are actually religious)

[@aurora3655]

I think we should mash disco with Christmas. It could be like Lady Gaga meets Mother Mary. (We did it with the Beatles, so, not impossible.)

[@kencoleman5007]

I feel like the phrase "Church over State" is a very American thing, because it rhetorically deflects attention away from much stricter theocracies in the world. Even though our politicians use church congregations affect the government, there a theocracies where being out is literally illegal (in one case, FIFA prohibited athletes from specifically addressing that rights issue). I even heard from a friend living in Israel that evangelism has been federally banned, and I wondered if it had been so trict that ut blocked any music from the gospel genre.

[@stevie]

Sorry if you misheard, but it’s “Separation of Church and State” meaning they are separate entities that can not infringe upon eachother. So, churches can’t be taxed in the USA, and schools can’t make children talk about Jesus.

[@kencoleman5007]

@@stevie That's what I mean. "Separation between church and state" is usually spoken of in the context a legislature created so much in the image of religious doctrine. The term for it is "theocracy". In many ways, it's about the wording, and what it implies. When you look at more strict examples of theocracy, you can take Morocco and the UAE as examples. Both are legislatively constructed in adherence to Sharia, but the UAE is more strict in how closely the laws are in adherence. No joke, LGBTQ relationships involve more severe sentences in the UAE. Both countries however are about equal in being "dry" states. Living in Dubai is at least better on Lohan's liver. Standing up to those strict laws are more often not out of Islamophobic intent, but a poorly worded stance against strict theocracy. You can disagree with some interpretations of Sharia without being Islamophobic, just as you can disagree with some interpretations of the Talmud and not be antisemitic, and that you disagree with some of Christian doctrine without being anti-Christian. Speaking as a lapsed Catholic who's gotten really into esoterica. The more that I physically look less cisgender, the more that fundamentalists want to speak with me about Jesus (I work in a "blue state" public hospital with so many bibles and hymn books that you'd think it was run by the Gideons). So when people start getting particularly Evangelical, I openly display what I learned as a closeted Catholic teen, coupled with lightworker learnings, crystals, card divination, mandalas, meditation, mantras, astrology, and manifestation (with all sinceritty). 7 times out of 10, that leaves the Evangelist frantically trying to find their way back to their planned script, and other times are usually met with some sucking on teeth, and "I'll pray for you.", and my replying "You're too kind. I'll pray for you too!".

[@kencoleman5007]

@@stevie What I meant about the phrase "church over state" also speaks of the relative privilege that Americans live in. Where we have a problem with children merely learning about spirituality in school is seen as problematic than may boys and girls studying separately, teachers scarily teaching of damnation, abd corporal punishment. I went to 13 years of Catholic school, and many of those teachers couldn't follow their own teachings in practice.

[@kencoleman5007]

@@stevie There was a great episode of "Any Day Now" (an old Lifetime drama starring Annie Potts and Loraine Toussaint in an Alabama setting). It paired "church over state" with "witch trials" in a way that showed even the lrotagonists to be hypocritical. In a public school, a beloved teacher was a witch, and at one point, she gave a student a crystal to help him do well in school. While the PTA was all to accepting of school children learning to be "good little Christians", they wanted the teacher fired for being just as open about her faith.

[@kencoleman5007]

@@stevie I apologize for all the typos abd edits, I'm trying to get into the habit of having Bixby read back my writing so that it doesn't get bogged down with poorly executed spellcheck. It's funny (not in a good way) that my phone doesn't see "spellcheck" as a word, but accepts "evangelust". What is "evangelust" anyway? The fetishization of missionaries?

[@acc45460]

I did not know that I was craving to dance with my girlfriend this bad until Jessica mentioned her and Claudia dancing together. I can not dance. I will absolutely ask her to dance with me the next time we see each other. (Or maybe not because I'm awkward and shy even after over a year of dating)

[@cboyd3469]

Giant Lobsters?!

[@RobinPalmerTV]

Doesn’t steezy mean stylish and yep!

[@shadow1961]

a bidet is not a weird gift. in fact 2020, 2021, and 2022 were all years of the bidet.

[@claudiak22]

Explaining anything religious to my child has been difficult. I’m Catholic so I share that part of my life with my daughter and though she is too young to grasp it, I make sure to explain it fully. Christmas is so commercialized though that it has been the hardest. It’s her third Christmas and explaining it her the same way with more age appropriate language has been helpful. Though, i’m currently pregnant and so she thinks baby Jesus might actually be her new sibling, haha. That’s been a fun time.

[@Charlotte-hv6ll]

Leaving a comment for the algorithm

[@bawzzzz]

fun to watch crazies!

[@femme-roo]

a tad late and tmi warning but in terms of sex and intimacy my partner and i (who weren't even allowed to stay in a room together w the door closed when we stayed at my grandparents' place at christmas, let alone sleep in the same room) just waited until everyone went to bed and fucked in the room i stayed in/on the couch in the living room while covered by blankets and made sure to be really quiet and have the tv on to drown any possible noise out😬

[@sarahwithstars]

"Who the F are you? Take this DNA test!"

[@tempvsfrangit3854]

Not quite Angel v Devil on our shoulders, more like the "Be Kind" vs "DO IT!" two Kermits meme. "God was Mary's sperm donor"; I wish that one site weren't a total bin-fire, because this is something I would say over there to the very overtly USian Xtians (might still be time left).

[@darksideofthemoon3039]

The runner, haha Amazin

[@learningenglish9592]

💜💙

[@kokobananas1811]

Stevie looks so British in this video 🤔🤔

[@unguardedtruth954]

Just seen the fallen States interview. 😄 A person of your status would never answer a question against your brand. Thus you're not able to answer truthfully.

[@whateverta]

Here we go with the spoons What does this mean?? I spoon is an eating utensil. Help😬

[@stevie]

Google “spoon theory”

[@whateverta]

@stevie I googled it. It is not a British thing, as I thought. It is interesting. Thank you

[@nicholaslandry6367]

Another display of intimacy is kicking people out/ creating a reasom for you and your partner(s) to leave if your partner is being mistreated Basically keeping your partner(s)'s wellbeing in mind and understanding that they may not feel safe or able to defend themselves This is something that should probably be discussed and agreed upon beforehand and that some form of hand-signal/"safeword"/etc. should be decided and practiced with eachother

[@TheMntnG]

spoons?

[@Sophia-Sews]

Reference to an analogy about energy

[@marinashutup]

Yay religious trauma! 😂

[@ElleEstQueTropRoque]

we like a verse, not a metaverse though.

[@MC-iq5ns]

I wish someone would gift me a Bluetooth bidet

[@praalgraf]

get that ad money stevie, but a metaverse ad is pretty cringe

[@stevie]

Lol are you being sarcastic or do you think I’m actually advertising metaverse?

[@praalgraf]

@@stevie sarcasm yeah haha

[@aurora3655]

why did u tell me afterwards. seriously. if u knew, why did u tell me afterwards.

[@Esico6]

Pretty sad.

[@transcendbeing]

Hahahaha u walked away from that interview like a scared closed minded woman.

[@alphaham2130]

Bet she's still running from questions, weakness forever. Tate doesn't run from questions ever!

[@Feverant]

Saw your little tanty storm off Stevie.

[@LilWhitePrivileged]

What is a woman? Asking for Jesse Lee.

[@jand8303]

Why did you walk away like a child?

[@waldekjules3371]

are you still runnin?

[@DavisRicJ]

Jesse Lee Peterson says hi

[@hanshans8612]

You should expand your vocabulary. Classy ladies don’t use vulgar language such as F word. I see sadness in your eyes.

[@TheMntnG]

the Nazis called it Yule. please dont do this.

[@HBG91]

We call christmas Yule or Jul in Scandinavia. It is our language. Who cares what the nazis called it!

[@Tomatry]

Yule is a pagan holiday, which has its roots from WAYYYY before the nazis. The nazis were also religious, is religion now a bad thing as well because of that?

[@HBG91]

In Swedish for example: Merry Christmas= God Jul (Good Yule) Christmas eve= Julafton Christmas day= Juldagen Christmas presents= Julklappar Christmas tree= Julgran

[@charlespentrose7834]

I refuse to let nazi arseholes steal a word that has been used for centuries. They've already done too much harm. Nazis spoke German, are you suggesting that nobody speak German now? Nazis wore uniforms, should uniforms be banned?

[@JessicaLescarbeault]

They called it that because that's what it's always been called... They just wanted to replace the Christian festivities with the old ones that existed prior to Christianity. It was not something made up by the Nazis. Thery were just trying to bring it back to replace Christian Holidays. In some places, it's still called that, with or without religion involved. It is not a bad word in itself. The word and the idea were not invented by the Nazis so when referring to Yule, we're definitely not reffering to that. (I get that that would be uncomfortable if someone was trying to bring back a Nazi Holiday, but it is not the case, it's the other way around.)

[@gazaht]

[@lobaetoile8440]

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