“Ask yourself what would James Bond do... and do it” * S N A P S W A I T E R S N E C K *
@emanergza63835 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mike
@marlixtorrealba57015 жыл бұрын
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@crashoverride3374 жыл бұрын
Even if he needs to kill someone😂
@moelesterofficial59204 жыл бұрын
Marlix Torrealba wtf you talking about
@steveolden89054 жыл бұрын
@@emanergza6383 Aàa
@PursuitofBetter2 жыл бұрын
Notes: 1. Move slowly. Your movements shouldn't be jumpy. 2. Take initiative even when not asked. 3. Lean back. Leaning forward creates pressure on the woman and shows that you're into her, which can seem needy. 4. Mystery creates interest. The more clues she has but the less answers she has, the better. Smirks are good. 5. You have to challenge her sometimes. This also makes your compliments seem genuine 6. When a girl challenges you, be non-reactive and smirk
@kamiltomas7549 Жыл бұрын
Cool! Thanks a lot man
@davidarbelaez43957 жыл бұрын
James Bond is an introvert but also alpha. He has quiet confidence. What creeps a woman out the most is when a man approaches her but thinks that he's not good enough for her. It shows in his demeanor. We also never see Bond loudly entering a room, spilling the chips and boisterously asking for a drink. That is not alpha.
@Viper-sn5cx7 жыл бұрын
David Arbelaez would that make him a sigma male then? The lone wolf, the maverick?
@ronabel36686 жыл бұрын
That's right, James Bond is sigma, not alpha.
@GustavoFlores-vu2we6 жыл бұрын
How would u enter a room and ask for a drink?? Or any alpha for that matter.
@tonycornea69455 жыл бұрын
Sigma is an introverted alpha.
@nickperez34525 жыл бұрын
James Bond isn’t an Alpha. He’s a Sigma. Simply put, he doesn’t give a fuck. He cares what he thinks. And that’s enough.
@ciri1517 жыл бұрын
IF you're watching these kind of videos, don't read the comments. It's full of kids
@redwankarim26835 жыл бұрын
Thanks mate for the advice.
@djlarspeterson70995 жыл бұрын
🤣
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
Chances are it is kids who need the advice because society is currently so toxic.
@sillimilli38024 жыл бұрын
Thanks man
@gamesxseries75433 жыл бұрын
So how old are u kiddo
@MitevValentin6 жыл бұрын
You can’t fake your energy, so if you want to be attractive, you must find the way to high your energy (to know you are unique, good shape, smart, and the fact you have options, because you can have everything, only if you want). This is the key for hight energy.
@bahaatamer12454 жыл бұрын
Notice how he speaks: low voice TONALITY is seriously attractive as it adds mystery as well!
@ayan73414 жыл бұрын
Girlfriend: Are u cheating on me? This guy: Just smirk.
@Cooper_19983 жыл бұрын
😆😆😆
@alphastudios62203 жыл бұрын
😂
@Number1ZERO697 жыл бұрын
Also notice that Daniel Craig,While sitting never ever crosses his legs.He always has both legs planted on the floor legs slightly open back completely planting in back of chair.Always..
@rtx2080ubermacht6 жыл бұрын
NeverTheMachine4ever crossing legs makes men look more feminin IMO
@cliffordfernandes27266 жыл бұрын
BloodMilk&Sky tell that to don corleone
@fitnesswithdavidau6 жыл бұрын
Women, gays and drag queens cross their legs. Strong men don't.
@hemidart75 жыл бұрын
How can a guy actually cross his legs in the first place I've tried even when I lift the junk up it just feels like my ball are gonna pop out of my ball sac... like seriously no joke! How???
@hemidart75 жыл бұрын
@@fitnesswithdavidau Brad Pitt crosse's his leg's hahahahahahahaha
@RahulKumarNirala7 жыл бұрын
mystery creates interest...
@ThruThe96 жыл бұрын
Corey?
@Hardeneer6 жыл бұрын
Indian cringy idiot.
@fawaaza70915 жыл бұрын
@@Hardeneer racist cringy idiot
@emanergza63835 жыл бұрын
Your face won't
@fawaaza70915 жыл бұрын
@@emanergza6383 nor would an weeb
@kerryfoster15 жыл бұрын
Yes good points. Do not be intimidated by gorgeous women. Command the situation with calm and decisive reaction. Took me years to learn this! Now I can go up to a quality woman and not CARE what she thinks. By maintaining eye contact you show your lack of fear but complete interest. If she reacts badly you are not doing the right things. She may not be attracted but she WILL remember you. And attraction is NOT always immediate.
@hamzzak2 жыл бұрын
+1. Well said, attraction is indeed not always immediate.
@vicary122 жыл бұрын
Attraction definitely is not always immediate. Sometimes is better to plant a seed in someone’s brain that will gradually grow than go all in.
@nikod95308 жыл бұрын
great dialogue in this scene but most women I know remember the shower scene more, because he becomes very human and sympathetic towards her.
@ShitGetsOld7 жыл бұрын
I think what the video emphasizes is what to do on first impressions/encounters. Since a lot of men don't know how to deal with it, the narrator/this channel focuses more on that and less on how to open up to women (easy shit).
@zibtihaj32137 жыл бұрын
great scene
@Tankybuff6 жыл бұрын
Lmao maybe because they saw him being alpha in the beginning
@thearchitect89085 жыл бұрын
It's because they already created love of Bond. If he acted like that everytime they'll see him as a weak beta.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
+Niko D That is pure Beta male nonsense.
@TheGroovyGuitarDude6 жыл бұрын
The summary of this whole video is: Smirk 😏
@fitnesswithdavidau6 жыл бұрын
The Groovy Guitar Dude - Daily Guitar Lessons and slow down and lean back and relax. Let her do most of the talking and work for your interest.
@yukizaraky77093 жыл бұрын
Even though she aspirin. Lol, look at the cc
@dondiablo55832 жыл бұрын
No
@justindartenay78834 жыл бұрын
I love the comments. Great idea. The key to attraction in this situation is Bond has been there before, he's smart, handsome, charming, can read her and everyone on the train and he's lethal - he has to be. Confidence is the least of his concern during this encounter. Not only is he focused on winning her over to make his mission easier, he's calculating how to woo her in the most intriguing way (without her falling in love with him) and potentially using her as an asset if need be.
@HighSpeedNoDrag3 жыл бұрын
Uh, No.
@trueblueedits46734 жыл бұрын
I love this scene because it's such an amazing piece of dialogue and incredible moment of psychology. If you analyze James, you learn a lot about confidence and taking initiative. If you analyze Vesper, you learn a lot about keeping a cool exterior and redirection of pressure and attention during a conversation to better benefit you. Even though the "alpha male" title is a little cringe, the content of the video is rather interesting.
@aravindnarayanan56642 жыл бұрын
Totally concur!
@Albani3107 жыл бұрын
Lol at that yify torrent... You are one of us brother
@BAlvn-yr6ej6 жыл бұрын
you saw that too.... lol
@rolexyesuraj87365 жыл бұрын
One of us one of us one of us haha 😂
@Msdislam995 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁😁
@death.for.breakfast4 жыл бұрын
One of us! One of us!
@haSHAH14 жыл бұрын
but what's with the KZbin navigation seek bar and buttons?
@Rickeht4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching these videos for about a year now, and I’m happy to say I’m living out my inner James Bond.
@hunterking96877 жыл бұрын
Simply: (Minimum expression means maximum effect!)
@goodlookincookin7 жыл бұрын
I like the video, and even though it IS a scripted movie, these tips are true to life. This is my first visit to this channel, and this video is a few months old, and this may have been rectified in later videos, but I have a suggestion. In future videos, I would suggest that you match both the movie example volume and your narration volume. I had to turn the sound up quite a bit to hear the movie part, but then your voice was way too loud.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
The people directing, scripting and producing know all of this. Hence why it is present in the movie. The film has movie stars, supermodels and lots of attention on it. The people making the movie know all of this and the males involved will be alpha males.
@awardwin7 жыл бұрын
The biggest attraction is the fact that she knows $10 million was wired to his account
@triggertrader90817 жыл бұрын
your comment only tells one thing > you don't understand women. x
@awardwin7 жыл бұрын
Oh really?? What I am missing about women that you clearly understand? Women are obviously attracted to money & power = confidence. Am I wrong?
@joeysparetti72767 жыл бұрын
Lol, yup
@HeeshamCedrus7 жыл бұрын
amen
@GIGANTUSful7 жыл бұрын
She borrowed him her own money later on.
@bekabeka718 жыл бұрын
You're the best advisor I've came across so far. Your videos are so helpful man keep up the good work.
@Jarack1237 жыл бұрын
What if she compliments you over text mesage? how do you respond?
@gandolf86377 жыл бұрын
you appreciate that
@HighSpeedNoDrag3 жыл бұрын
The presenter is a Loser mimicking freaking MOVIE, ACTORS, Writers? God Luck you'll need it.
@abdulmalikumar58385 жыл бұрын
Ive been watching many videos on this topic on KZbin for many years but yours is outstanding and for the first time i learnt new strategies HERE. Damn... You're Awesome
@theattractionswitch94255 жыл бұрын
Thank you. That’s why I keep doing this for so long :-)
@infinatiAM3 жыл бұрын
@Umar So,and there you go! Approved by @The Attraction SwitchSince, two years are you better of? Curious. 007 fan since decades. From India with Love.
@danieljrs5077 жыл бұрын
sounds like walt junior from breaking bad
@muhsinosman62765 жыл бұрын
damn right bro..you're genius
@Kevin-cy2dr5 жыл бұрын
I mentioned this(except Flynn instead of Walt jr.)in his another video.
@javedfaizal54734 жыл бұрын
You’re goddamn right.😏
@sreeragmr73017 жыл бұрын
its very true.girls will be intersted if you are classic and cool at the same time.
@vampirehunterv64807 жыл бұрын
He already has recognition (he is known to her), money, and intimate setting, they are stuck in a plane together for hours. She plays him for a sucker in the end.
@peterozvald34515 жыл бұрын
I watched this video for like a hundred times. I visualized more than hundred times. Belive me guys It works!
@Scoonertuna7 жыл бұрын
OK, first of all this is a movie and no matter what James Bond says he's going to get the girl
@jhonhernandario23354 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 I almost forget about that
@abdisamadadam2883 жыл бұрын
Kkkkkkk
@ravichandbaddula10253 жыл бұрын
The James was so cool,attention and attitude I love😍 it
@slappy89416 жыл бұрын
The best part was how he reacted after she was done roasting him, and concluded the conversation with a polite nothing: "How was your lamb?" "Skewered. One sympathizes." He masterfully acknowledged her stinging observations, and played it off with a joke. If he had gotten upset, she would've had the upper hand.
@ak-47intelligence754 жыл бұрын
It would have stroked her ego.
@serganteddy56 жыл бұрын
I’ve asked “what would Bond do?” Before to myself especially when I am in a situation with men hitting up on someone I’m targeting for attraction.
@kristiyanksenofonov57102 жыл бұрын
You could go to her and say i think you should ho for him he looks like he will be a nice boyfriend with a smirk at the same time touch the guy shoulder that is close to you.That way you show dominance also she will start believe that he is nice guy wimp and soon she will get bored.But that takes lots of balls so dont flinch when you deliver it
@VampiresCrypt5 жыл бұрын
I looooooooooooooove this scene and I love Eva Greene. This movie is honestly one of the very best Bond movies if not THE best Bond movie out there. Daniel Craig is just out of this world!
@Hannibal0827 жыл бұрын
How about one on Frank Sinatra, he's a classic.
@benquadinaros22107 жыл бұрын
Ozzie Solo My man Hendrix
@Arjunkale54 жыл бұрын
I love him
@Hugatree14 жыл бұрын
Most attractive scene? He emerges from the ocean! OMFG!
@janicemurphy78784 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that was a police officer and when he was going to qualify he would listen to James Bond movie music music on the way to the qualification, and he said he performed much better. A W a.m.
@1091Floyd215 жыл бұрын
Bond takes the bait when she asks "and you're good at reading people?". He's then in a position where he's forced to show off, and of course, she doesn't tell how well he did.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
He knows exactly how he did hence why he looks at her walking away.
@weirdshibainu7 жыл бұрын
I just act natural. ..if someone doesn’t like it, I don't know what to tell them
@mafioso85827 жыл бұрын
weirdshibainu Always act natural.''Alphas'' act normal and dont pretene,be you.
@mgdiaz21586 жыл бұрын
weirdshibainu good one.
@BluBoulzor5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. I'm not gonna change my behavior to attract women. That also means NOT intentionally going slower or acting seductive. I'm acting the same with a 90 years old woman and a super hot 20 years old, I don't give a single fuck. I might occasionally check out the 20 years old but acting different? Lol what? This implies you are desperate enough to want to bang her or that you adapt to other people. Alphas do that but Sigmas don't. Take it or leave it and if you don't like it then fuck you.
@golkeeper85175 жыл бұрын
this is a good atart for being alpha
@livinglifeoutdoorstv65504 жыл бұрын
Don’t tell them anything. Ignore them as inconsequential. Alpha males are confident in themselves and don’t care. If they start something you should finish it.
@aravindnarayanan56642 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this analysis! Lots to learn from every scene of Craig's Bond
@DJRick313rd6 жыл бұрын
I have been getting compliments from women these days, but have also been non-responsive to it naturally. So, I guess I'm not out of my mind for doing that.
@sjshwgwgwh21927 жыл бұрын
Best video in the KZbin. 😍😍 loved it brother
@d_elite27944 жыл бұрын
8:40 Challenge her in a non-rude, but challenging way this one is HUUUUUUGEEEEEE
@ciphergamingsouthafrica85022 жыл бұрын
simple, follow the rules of Bushido of being calm, strong and proud and show respect to everyone and remain confident
@Guy_LastName2 жыл бұрын
the wine pour is a great observation. its subtle but she notices. love doing it on dates
@GhostSal5 жыл бұрын
The biggest thing about what’s happening here is the chemistry and the fact she thinks he is physically attractive. If a woman thinks you’re hot, she’ll laugh at the stupidest things you say, she’ll rationalize otherwise awkward moments and she’ll chase you. That’s not to say, knowing what to say, how to say and body language doesn’t help... But most all women always chase the best looking guys and you’re kidding yourself if you don’t realize that’s the most important factor.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
+Sal Agnello That is a typical beta thought process. Women do not chase men. Never have and never will. The role of males is to approach women not the other way around.
@SinWuu4 жыл бұрын
This is actually true tho. I watch so many k-drama and I didn't notice that my postures and behaviour follows all of these instructions, I got compliment from many of my female friend said that I behave calm and polite
@Alex_basha7 жыл бұрын
their speech volume is loww
@jeanpierre98392 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 I cannot tell you how many times I've found myself in tricky or difficult situations, and I said to myself "what would James Bond do?" 🤣🤣🤣
@rml16435 жыл бұрын
And James B. is drinking Chateau Angelus ... Wow! By the way- great analysis!
@Aerial_Imaging2 жыл бұрын
The true key is to figure out what Bond was doing in that room at Skyfall for the two days after his parents died.
@popcornbuster7525 жыл бұрын
Be like Bond
@TheHappyWanderer5 жыл бұрын
"The next time you're talking to girl" Yes me talking to girl. Me grammer gud. Yay
@ashishraskar70744 жыл бұрын
But mistake in spell
@blazer64116 жыл бұрын
I might start watching bond movie again!💯💯😎
@phant0m1653 жыл бұрын
Do know this dudes that this is correct in attraction phase. But if you keep up this during a relationship phase, like not opening up you will find yourself being dumped quite fast. As it becomes quite boring.
@djoleizfontane3 жыл бұрын
One HUUUUUGE thing you're not mentioning here is that SHE aproached him, leaving her exposed and him in a position of power and all he had to do is not blow it up. It's easy to play on home turf.
@LPrulezhard7 жыл бұрын
Try 1 of the classic people : gable, mcqueen, yul brynner, humphrey bogaert, Cary grant. or al pacino in his young days
@yabuman21843 жыл бұрын
Ayayay James is the great
@sebholding7 жыл бұрын
the key is his voice, too bad that's not Something you can really emulate
@kpec35 жыл бұрын
I appreciate this video. I think it's good information.
@yaktd57043 жыл бұрын
Moral of the video: "Girls think waay much about you" XD
@flowerpt2 жыл бұрын
I like how he pours an equal amount of wine in both glasses when both know full-well that she has the smaller liver.
@Athrun0006 жыл бұрын
I cannot really hear the clip of James Bond's interaction TBH
@durgapur_97 Жыл бұрын
1:30 2:00
@monsieurcesar2587 жыл бұрын
NATIVE,LEGEND SYSTEM IN SPANISH. THANK YOU SIR
@biscuitcrow70914 жыл бұрын
Step one: *binge watch all james bond movies.*
@David-ko8hu7 жыл бұрын
This is how I am. The girls are all over me here at the home.
@KuldeepGhadiali5 жыл бұрын
Every single is guy is automatically James Bond unless his heart breaks after so many expectations.
@chithragnanasundaram949010 ай бұрын
Good evening Sir ...taking notes 9:26 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤
@themanchestercollective36163 жыл бұрын
James Bond is not an Alpha. He's a Sigma, the lone wolf willing to take action most are unwilling to and speak truths most don't want to hear, unafraid of being ostracized as he knows he can look after the pack more efficiently from the outside. Alpha' s are more diplomatic due to their reliance on a following. The difference is similar to that between the chief and the shaman, king and magician archetypes.
@littlecaesar18425 жыл бұрын
the.secret is good lighting and screen writers making sure u dont die.
@Upward_SpiralMotivation4 жыл бұрын
James Bond- original Alpha
@edgarvenegas77716 жыл бұрын
Well just remember”is just a movie 🎥 they play these part multiple times, to perfect the scenes, to create the perfect James Bond....
@BluBoulzor5 жыл бұрын
There's a lot of good stuff you can get from James Bond but copying him 100 % automatically makes you a joke. Real life isn't a spy movie Being non reactive is the best trait you can get from watching him, but then again to reach a similar state the best way to do so is to meditate. You need remains unfazed if women insults you, compliments you, throw themselves at you or try to get your attention. Being Self-validated 100 % is the way to go. Then again once you are Self-Validated you stop caring about getting women and let them come to you. You don't even care if they come or don't. That's a more realistic approach rather then being a super spy or lying to yourself and clowning around trying to get noticed by women.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
@B. You are confusing the intimacy of relationships with that of being an Alpha Male. Bond is not in an intimate relationship with the women at that time he is being him self which is an Alpha Male.
@shahidhassanboni35557 жыл бұрын
can you compare another body language with that BOND. These videos will be more intresting....
@MatijaH937 жыл бұрын
This video is awesome, and others are too. Keep up your good work, I appreciate it so much.
@BAlvn-yr6ej6 жыл бұрын
good advice and well done...thanks for sharing :)
@aleksandartopic37115 жыл бұрын
For some reason, I believe that the narrator of this video is Jake from Twilight Saga.
@TerryGene19576 жыл бұрын
Love your analysis. I found a funny version of what we saw on James Bond done by Trace Adkins on the Craig Ferguson show. Craig shows lower status in a funny way and Trace responded very similar to James Bond check it out. Very hilarious a must-see.
@shreehariraam22903 жыл бұрын
Smirk, smirk, smirk, smirk, smirk, smirk
@umarfarooq-qv5sj4 жыл бұрын
These videos made me do a lot of stupid things back 3 years ago,the thing is we should take concept,not lines
@explorechanel8135 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine everybody start acting like James Bond lol ! Just be yourself
@dudewat2128 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on Donald Trump & his success principles ?
@jrsavage43777 жыл бұрын
dudewat212 Nd brad pitt
@Jucelegario7 жыл бұрын
The Attraction Switch awful example using Craig, he implied to Javier Bardem that he likes to fuck guys too. Please use Pierce Brosnan the next time.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
@@Jucelegario No. He implied it was not his first time being tortured which clearly it was not if you seen Casino Royale.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
@@Jucelegario At no moment did it actually suggest that Bond was gay. It was a joke from Bond who was looking like he was about to be tortured. Just as Bond reacted to Le Chiffre when he was being tortured. Did you actually believe Bond was getting sexually aroused when Le Chiffre tortured him?
@niceguy36486 жыл бұрын
04:40 ... just ask yourself, "What would James Bond do" Well, nice.
@karnalaramu67725 жыл бұрын
Make a video on tom cruise
@joseluisnewyork7 жыл бұрын
I saw a mistake of Bond in this scene, you must finish the date before she does, if a hot woman ends the date before you that means: I have better things to do...farewell.
@gimj1_87 жыл бұрын
joseluisnewyork this wasnt a date it was a business meeting she represents "the money"
@fitnesswithdavidau6 жыл бұрын
joseluisnewyork there was no mistake from Bond. Because this was not a date. It was a work meeting on the way to snare a criminal.
@BadassBobY5 жыл бұрын
How close were you to your microphone **I mean the whole video was basically asmr**
@daveselectronicguitarchann99817 жыл бұрын
Bond is ex SBS,not SAS.
@yosuasihombing96495 жыл бұрын
Whats the meaning?
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
@Dave's Electronic Guitar Channel Bond was not SBS he was a trained secret agent similar to what they had in WW2. They have their own specialized training programs that would be on par with the SAS and SBS. The women said he was former SAS type not that he actually was SAS.
@wilburrodriguez28957 жыл бұрын
yo! my man thats good info. Well i guess the 3% is increasing 😉😉😉
@cassidy1093 жыл бұрын
Whenever a woman complements me I was just pass it off and say “I have my moments” 😏.
@greggreg65416 жыл бұрын
I don’t know man, in USA if someone compliment you, like, you look handsome, you better say thank you or she will think you are rude .
@definitelynotyuribezmenov76113 жыл бұрын
Just acknowledge with a nod and go on, don’t speak differently
@shabirahmed23426 жыл бұрын
Cool alpha advice.
@chithragnanasundaram949010 ай бұрын
Thank you Sir .will bear all this in mind 🎉🎉🎉❤❤ 12:30
@zakiuddinwali6 жыл бұрын
10:13 She:Rolex, He: No Omega'...She: China?, He: First copy.
@asifsheikhzaman19677 жыл бұрын
YIFY! we miss you :(
@rosswhitton84634 жыл бұрын
How about you be yourself? Stop trying to be someone you’re not. I’d rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I AM not. If you’re just trying to get laid ya sure be another sheep in the herd...follow the majority who are following the majority...that are also following the majority. I really want to change y’alls mindset from following these channels that are teaching y’all litteraly how to be fake. Be different and don’t follow the crowds. Your life will turn out a lot better if you are yourself and don’t care about opinions of other people that you’ve never met. People pleasing will not end well in the long term for you. Only God can judge me and that’s the only one who I care what he thinks of me. Stay blessed! 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼
@BIGGELATO4 жыл бұрын
I think this guy likes James Bond.
@amitnikam64526 жыл бұрын
Make one about the legend harvey specter
@MarkM3244 жыл бұрын
You missed that after he makes fun of her name he sits at an angle to demonstrate that yes he's cocky but playful...
@WHITE.KNIGHT.5 жыл бұрын
Austin powers is the fannie magnet
@serganteddy56 жыл бұрын
No one told me about that thing in the beginning of this video in or after high school, I was left in the dust, outcasted and abandoned.
@bighands694 жыл бұрын
You have to start with your own confidence. Modern western culture is raising a generation of weak men that are scared of them self. Start and make yourself the center of what you do. Have you noticed that modern culture is promoting the idea that you do not matter that the greater good matters. Your current age is important because it will dictate what you can do in life.
@golkeeper85175 жыл бұрын
being alphe comes naturally,the more you calculate and act the more your definitely are beta
@NitayNostrasifu5 жыл бұрын
Studying charisma for the sake of attracting women is counter intuitive. It's almost impossible to uphold strength of character by getting too close to women through attracting them. Better to develop charisma not for the sake of attracting women anf you have a better chance of maintaining that charisma without being compromised on the long term. If all you want is to get women, then all the strength of character will be lost eventually as there is never any competing with them, as soon as they get you close enough youre done. When it's not for this purpose then people in general, women and men will respect you always. End of story