My THEORY On Why Many Young Men Suffer From Anxiety

[@Dom2k16]

this shit was so real

[@purplegorilla99]

What up dom

[@firstlast6226]

Domathan 2000

[@GMONEY-vr7ti]

There's parents that don't teach their kids and scold them for not knowing about life

[@GMONEY-vr7ti]

Also parents that don't let their kids live life at 16 then get confused when their kids don't leave the house

[@Karmalu]

That’s very true

[@Designa10k]

@@GMONEY-vr7ti i guess our best bet is to work with them but also challenge them in most scenarios

[@DreadKnight96]

Remember gentlemen it don't matter what age we are as long as we start now things will happen with patience and time comes wisdom we got this stay up kings 💪

[@mythoclaust1283]

Love your pfp

[@Alief.Prophet]

patience*

[@erickmtpittman]

One more edit bro *will

[@killacamron93]

A thing I noticed about everyone who’s jumping on the self improvement bandwagon is that they always neglect how to get there. It’s detrimental to just say “move out” without emphasizing the importance of learning a skill. I see people moving out just to work a deadend job just to make no improvement 10-20+ years later. It’s a horrible stereotype to immediately assume men (I’m not including women from personal experience) who still live with their family are just basement dwellers who’d rather watch porn all day than make something of themselves. I’ve listened to all the wrong advice in the world (keep your head down and work 2 jobs) and the only progress I’ve made is premature balding. It wasn’t until I ran into the likes of AMS, Dr. Jordan Peterson, Aaron Clarey and TRP I was given the right advice (make sacrifices to learn a skill) and I’ve made more progress in the past year alone than I’ve had 9 years of working like a slave. My best advice for younger men who aren’t able to move out but want to is to learn a profitable skill, have a minimum of $5k in liquid assets and have a driver’s license ( it’s shocking how much not having one holds you back). I recently left my job to enroll in an IT program (with employee placement) along with $25k in assets ($5k cash, $20k stocks) and moving out to a new area in my late 20’s. Also as a warning, during these times many jobs with little to no foreseeable advancement are starting out at $15/hr. Yes, get that job, but use that job to get yourself into a career that requires learning a skill. “It’s okay to not be okay, but it’s not okay to stay there”

[@myra-yves]

Killswitch!!!

[@TheMasterGEA]

I stayed home until I was 24. I could have left earlier but I wanted some stability so I saved enough to buy a house. I didn't want to rent because I wanted to have home equity and start building wealth. It definitely wasn't comfortable living at home that long but I think it will pay off in the long run. I had a plan. Yeah I was at home but I was going to school, working full-time and had a social life of abundance. As long as you're at home making use of the time it's not bad. Just don't be living off your folks doing nothing. And TBH is right...your mom will never respect you as long as you're there so have a plan in place.

[@Crimsongz]

ALL FACTS !!!

[@fkm512]

24 is all good bro I think its more if you wait til like 30 doing that is not ideal

[@bigdaddyjuan21]

I think that’s the most important part of the whole living dynamic is to have a plan and purpose for your life and actions, instead of rationalizing complacency and deficiencies. Also building equity and limiting/minimizing debt as early as possible will always put you in a better place to be successful, congrats on the house you’re doing big things ✊🏿.

[@fkm512]

@@bigdaddyjuan21 yeah too many people go yeah I'm 32 at home but the pandemic is tough, like come on man, too many excuses

[@SpXceCxdet]

People are afraid of failure without realizing that without the concept of failure there is no concept of succeeding. Some people watch and envy confidence or comfort of other people in situations that make people anxious fail to realize that before that comfort level was established they was just as or more anxious or scared as the rest of people. Taking risks and doing shit urself pays off for you, ya family, and anybody you wanna pass that knowledge off to like your children, friends, or relatives that look up to you. Comfort Isn’t taught its earned through confronting life and doing things your way. I’m going through this cycle myself and I hope all of ya do too

[@HealthCons]

It deadass felt like you were talking to me personally. 24, still living with my parents and anxious about everything. Tbh this really just opened up my eyes.

[@OseiTheWarriors]

Username checks out

[@King-Beezy]

Good, I'm 24 too when you move out you feel a certain freedom and gain responsibility just grind up b4 you leave make sure you have car then I'd say move out some parents are cool and helpful tho

[@SkillOPill]

I'm 24 about to be 25. I just moved out this year. I've been wanting to move for so long but was waiting for a better job in the area I wanted to move to. I got over the living with my parents anxiety at some point but it doesn't compare to the feeling of being on your own. If you're staying at home, make sure you at least have a plan that you're actively working on.

[@therealswagking1]

I was with my mom until I was 24 mainly because we were taking care of my dad who was sick at the time before he passed, I didn’t like the idea of my mom being alone but she encouraged it and I appreciate her for that, we still keep in touch everyday like normal

[@Bigp1077]

I moved abroad to Korea when I was 25 to work as an ESL teacher a few months after graduation in Dec 2015. Was i nervous? Definitely! But it's the best decision I've made. I became more confident, more independent than I would've been if I stayed home. Now I'm a author of two books and a teacher at an elementary school.

[@primusmaximum]

What are your books about?

[@Bigp1077]

@@primusmaximum I made two black travel guides for the cities of Incheon and Daegu South Korea. I was about to start research for my next book. But at the time of posting (Aug 11) covid cases are over 2000 in Korea. So I'll have to wait to start.

[@primusmaximum]

@@Bigp1077 That's really cool! I hope you'll be able to get back to writing soon.

[@icestrong25]

@@Bigp1077 Link the books in the chat fam. I would definitely purchase those for future reference

[@jayakbar915]

@@Bigp1077 Great story brother

[@verbage432]

Some of y’all need therapy fr. It’s not the save all solution but a lot of black men are dealt some of the worst cards on this burning earth we live on and we usually do not have the people in our circle to help us get out that pit.

[@Tristen_Smith]

Can you be my therapist please

[@DMAN4u2]

I agree with that, sometimes we simply have no outlets and society tells us we need to be stoic and pretend nothing phases us but that is harmful in the long run.

[@TheStormieKnight]

Raised by a single mother, she went to jail 3 days after my 18th birthday. Got a full time job to take care of myself, barely finished high school, and been grinding ever since. Joined the military for that extra taste of discipline and been Gucci ever since.

[@DJThomas59]

I'm definitely in the crippling fear category. If anyone young reading this, take chances now. Don't end up a loser like me. I know it's scary, trust me, but the regret and issues that can come from it later on is not worth it. I've got depression and I would not wish it on anyone. I was scared to be myself in hs and beyond because I was afraid of what people will think. I couldn't speak up for myself, and my parents didn't help with that at all. I thought liking nerdy stuff was taboo even though I'm literally typing in a comment section of someone making a career involving those things. Learn to stand on your own, to be yourself, grow, and that's where you'll find that happiness. I'm not saying it's impossible to do this later in life, but you gonna be playing on veteran when you could've tried it on recruit.

[@devinwatkins8953]

Don't call yourself a loser

[@DJThomas59]

@@thatguysixx that's an amazing thing! Glad you broke those feelings and hope things only continue going up

[@MasamuneIceDragon]

Wise words, I hope found success in your later years.

[@DJThomas59]

@@devinwatkins8953 sorry, just often hard to say I'm not when I think about everything past and present. It's a bad mindset

[@DJThomas59]

@@MasamuneIceDragon thx and hope you find success as well. If you found it already then hope it continues and grows

[@thebigson8721]

That losing your virginity analogy couldn’t be more true. That “crippling anxiety” goes away quick when it’s caused something you actually WANT to do

[@WavyCLB]

Hokage dropping knowledge on us youngsters as usual 🙏

[@Vortexnicholas]

Very Inspirational. I think it depends on the culture , in which you grown up in. I come from a Jamaican background currently living in Canada I mentioned to my parents last year that I’m planning on moving out they and my brother looked at me like I was crazy and went on a whole rant . I said to them guys it can’t be that bad.

[@xhunter9927]

Like I heard TBH say a long time ago, “if it don’t apply, let it fly”. Taking things personal is why people miss crucial information. If you have a plan, if you’re working towards something important to you, if you know, the basement is not the end of your journey, he can’t be talking about you. If it stings a little, that’s complacency, if it’s a slap in the face, get up! Thanks TBH!

[@B1ACK13aron]

An example of me being anxious is me avoiding getting my drivers license. I plan to pursue it before the end of the year, preferably end of the summer. If you can, get a therapist and/or journal to get your thoughts down. Living in fear is no life to live

[@kenking2536]

Having your own place is peace. I can't imagine living under someone else's roof ever again. I'm married with a family and our apartment is our sanctuary. Can't nobody tell me shit about me or mine because they ain't putting food on the table or paying any bills. That's peaceful.

[@tone2812]

Ngl living in New York is preventing me from moving out on my own a studio is expensive

[@blacgrav410]

@@thatguysixx same but california

[@aeon_media]

Major Facts, plus I work as security in a homeless shelter and I'm not trying to end up in there because I can't pay rent.

[@narutoxzx123]

@@aeon_media damn that's crazy.

[@dmax7400]

Had to rewatch this twice in a row just because this shit is so inspiring as a 20-year old.

[@firstlast6226]

You better save your money while living there

[@dmax7400]

@@firstlast6226 No doubt 💯

[@Discount_Aquaman]

I'm getting my feet wet with this kind of stuff at 23, things like the bank account stuff I was able to do on my own, but my dad used to take care of literally everything. He passed last November so I had to jump into the deep end to take care of my own stuff like filing my taxes and paying for school. I was scared as hell at first, but it wasn't as bad once I got it going, so now I'm finishing my last semester no issue. It's the small victories that keep me going

[@SchwagGamingandMusic]

I’m so glad you said if it doesn’t apply let it fly because from somebody that actually suffers from anxiety who has a bunch of life experience, if you would not have ended it on that this would’ve been a very bad take.

[@NOVOJALITY]

I moved out when I was around 20 and I really should have saved, been struggling since but I am glad I made that move. I am currently 26 but I could never move back with my parents. I have anxiety but I feel it’s always been a financial thing and I hate it.

[@DreadKnight96]

I'm 24 I just finish getting my degree now I'm still working on finding a job in my computer information field so i stack up and move out of my parents from there good job to u though making it out on your own

[@blindbutcansee3266]

Well I try to get multiple jobs to help the financial situation.

[@Bluegofuccincrazy]

25 and my girl 21 we got our own shit rb as we speak fam tryna level up shit mos def is a struggle but I got plans for my future stay focused cuddi

[@DMAN4u2]

@@blindbutcansee3266 thats a good idea on paper but it's simply not viable if he works full time and nowadays if you work 50 hours a week you barely get enough sleep to work efficiently if you factor in other activities and travel time just saying.

[@ahrims7]

There isnt a problem with comfortability, until that comfort stagnates your ability to take risks. Something i struggle with quite often

[@justinayala9881]

You couldn't have worded it better fr

[@blindbutcansee3266]

I found myself building confidence in myself as I'm getting older. Self motivation to have less anxiety/ minimal anxiety.

[@kollisioncoursemusic172]

It’s Crazy Because when you ask For Help you can’t get but you can always be told what your doing wrong Mfs Need to start helping each other

[@awsomeboy360]

I still live with my parents at 21. But I'm currently in college with a part time job. Somewhat regulated, but not that anxious about things. I tend to look forward upon trying new things.

[@HimFinancial]

youre straight bro just be consistent and look for investments

[@rezo3666]

I’m planning on moving out within another year and a half alongside buying one of my dream cars (Scat Pack Charger). This video is basically everything I told myself during the process of me finalizing my decision. “I know the life I wanna live and I’ll never get there if I don’t get up off my ass and get it.” I’ve already done a decent bit with this mindset, and it’s unfortunate that a lot of people around my age don’t have that same incentive. But you can only lead a horse to water, whether that mf drink or not is on them.

[@KiddOmni]

Another banger. Tbh the big bro we never had. Straight gems.

[@Mike-qq6qp]

I’m glad I didn’t grow up like a lot dudes nowadays some dudes ain’t got alot real people in their life. I’m glad my parents pushed me to do things I’m paying off my car that I bough myself by this time next year that I’ve only had a year, and plan moving out after that and my parents told me move whenever you ready. and that you need to have own life they always pushed to do many things and I don’t like staying at home cuz that just me I like doing things myself it feels rewarding to me to accomplish things on my own I don’t like asking for help sometimes especially when I know I can do it that’s just me being stubborn sometimes,and didn’t grow up with a lot especially growing up on the south side of Chicago and moving to the suburbs at 15 but at 27 years old I’m proud of myself and how far I’ve came I got decent job working 12 hours making almost 20 an hour but I know I still got plenty of work to do I don’t wanna be like some of dudes I see walking around. My sister is kind like alot dudes it’s really sad to actually see

[@kraken7784]

Trolling --> gaming --> self improvement. The evolution of tbh

[@kwilliams3770]

Long story short don’t be afraid to jump in the deep end. Don’t be afraid to fail forward.

[@Tsunamikiller88]

This shit hits home, i moved out at 19 with a laundry bag, $400, and a dodge neon. Struggled for 10 years but now we making it fam. Investments working for me, Job i love working for me, about to make settlement with my queen. Life is grand fam

[@king_neptune_5963]

This is real shit, there’s a difference between people who conquer their fears and people who avoid them until they have to deal with them.

[@xANIM3EZIOx]

I moved out at 18 and what TBH is saying is facts me and my momma talk like we are friends now because she doesn’t financially support me at all. It wasn’t easy by any means but you get a feeling of accomplishment as a man from doing so.

[@viracio]

when TBH was overweight & down & out he wasn't talking like this. now that he's in a better place, he's talking down on younger dudes who haven't done certain things yet. i hate dudes like this & since TBH watches RP youtubers so much, he proves another RP point. society doesn't care about men. society rarely takes a position of compassion, its always a position of "you're weak, pull yourself up by your bootstraps" as opposed to "hey, you're not alone. i went through this too... this is how you do this" society doesn't care about men & the way he laughs at men who are in a worse place than him, proves it.

[@aaronlloyd3444]

I agree 100% my parents didn’t let me do shit when I was in highschool (not even get a job) and once I had to start doing adult shit it takes me longer and some of the most simple things give me anxiety (I’m 25)

[@homieboyz1]

I think a big problem people have is the fear of losing, it can start so small as "plugging" when you're gonna lose in a video game, if you give even an ounce in the comfortability in quiting in the smallest things, I promise that I will bleed into other things as well, I've seen it happen to others

[@MasamuneIceDragon]

I stay with my parents, but I’ve been doing my own thing for awhile now. I stay with my mom cause of her health.

[@Yamazaki112]

The irony of this conversation when you literally rely on donation culture and influencer marketing is not lost on me. Live with your parents and keep your head down to stack that bread. Don't jump out here and have bills you can't pay for.

[@King-Beezy]

I can see your point here

[@omegadeltazero]

This couldn't be anymore true. Take your time and don't listen to this shit. Cause people wanna make it all nice and dandy when alot of them be barely making ends meet.

[@Xebecs]

I moved out a while ago, but yesterday, at 24, I went to the ER for the first time alone and that really made me more of a man/adult I literally walked in and up to the guard at entrance and was like "idk what I'm doing or how to do it but I have a hole in my hand" lol

[@Xebecs]

@Jordan Vance my dog bit me 🤣

[@NeverKnewMyFather]

Bruh when I tell you I FEEL this shit! I moved out at 19 and I had nothing but a credit card and $100 after I paid for everything! And when I tell you that shit made me! It made me bro!

[@Bernie1714]

He’s moving to San Antonio!!!!!!!!! More podcasts!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@NorthwesternAL]

I really needed this video dog. I'm every negative thing you described and it makes me angry, I felt like shit watching this video and I'd be lying if i said you were wrong. No more excuses.

[@NamelessDeal]

TBH is like a Big Brother with these conversations. Banger Vid

[@artworksbydevante]

I had to learn the hard way that comfortability will kill all motivation no matter what it is.

[@AtypicalWarrior]

There we go!!!! Get into the details!!!!!! This is what I'm talking about!!!!! The people you trying to help need details!! The need the 101!

[@SickTrucking]

Thank you i needed this sometimes the harsh truth works better than it sugar coated ive been in the crippling fear stage the past 3 years im 23 with a kid now starting to wake up and get my shit together ive had my own place and stuff in college but i came home and got complacent and comfortable but im getting my shit together thank you for these vids u really dropping gems 💯

[@TheGamingRaptor_]

Dude the only thing that I'm afraid of is going out onto the real world then losing everything. Like losing my house, missing taxes, Not paying bill on time, and etc. I mean I'm 19 right now still working on twitch and youtube while having a part time job. I suffer from anxiety.

[@Palkia678]

Man Im 23 and I just moved out on my own for school a few weeks ago and not gonna lie it’s been tough. This video helped a lot

[@SuperT380]

I used to be super anxious about anything that would invoke a big change in my life, there comes a time where you just have to go "fuck it," swallow that anxiety and take the push. unless its life threatening you can bounce back in most cases if you try hard enough. I was 20, living on my family's couch after i dropped out of college, miserable as hell, barely any money. Then i happened to meet some people in an mmo that became friends. No joke they mentioned in passing they were looking for a roommate one night, i said "fuck it" and within a month of having known them, packed up and moved literally from NY to OR (a week before i turned 21 too!) and its been the best decision of my life, I own my own property now and make far more than i owe on everything monthly going on 25 in September, have a good job and am surrounded constantly with some of the most encouraging and strong people i've met. Take the plunge yourself before you get pushed over against your own will eventually

[@TheTiredhermit]

Thanks man!

[@YetAnotherMichael89]

I’m 32 and barely finally feeling like I am JUST at the starting line (left house at 18 due to shit parents, but still had crippling anxiety). Don’t end up a failure like me.

[@stann.3408]

How exactly are you a "failure" in life? You were dealt a bad hand and you're working your way up from that hand. You are only 32. Thirty-two. There's no age cap to living life. Word to advice to you & who's reading this: you only know your life experiences. Don't sit here and dwell on the things you should of been doing and just do them, regardless of the age

[@l4d2as]

Moved out of my mom's house after I turned 18, moved in my cousin's bachelor pad and finished high school. My parents taught me at a early age how to grow and take care of my own responsibilities.

[@tiveoniclarke4318]

This is by far the best video that every man needs to watch. They need to watch this for either clarity because they have unnecessary anxiety or they need it for a wake up call. I watched this for clarity because I moved out at 18 and joined the military. Granted the military took care of me, I still left and lived on my own. I’m out the military now and I still live on my own. I worry about unnecessary shit that I don’t need to because I did it already. I just forgot that I did. And in the process built up anxiety for no reason. Moving out at 18 was the best thing I could’ve done. I have my freedom and respect

[@emmanuel9257]

I'll say this, Florida rent is too damn high, I'm ay home. However I'm building my business in the garage, paying rent, and working my ass off. When I can move out, I'm buying a duplex and making one side a full workshop. I would say for most income brackets, stay at home so you can afford to save your money and leave with a good foundation. But TBH is right, go live your life as well.

[@Tristen_Smith]

It’s cheap compared to nyc

[@emmanuel9257]

@@Tristen_Smith Until you compare the wages you can earn here. NYC is it's own problem, same with Florida

[@Tristen_Smith]

@@emmanuel9257 I’m moving to fl in October, u got any advice

[@emmanuel9257]

@@Tristen_Smith Depending on where you move to really. I would say expect asshole drivers (NYC trains you well in that lol). And for sure don't say your from NYC every 5 minutes to look cool. Nobody cares here bro, we want you to leave back north lol

[@Tristen_Smith]

@@emmanuel9257 how are the women and the rent, weather, danger, racist?

[@QuentinKnowsGames]

10:05 had me weak! TBH you dropped some heavy gems man. loving the content respect your grind and determination probably is over 9000

[@wolverineg89]

This is definitely true i have anxiety about a lot of stuff but I went out of town for an internship for a week and it reminds you can do shit on your own. Now I’m going back to school for my last semester, probably gonna get the full time offer and move out at 23. I’m also buying myself a car to reward myself .

[@TacticalEsp]

I had around $2000 when I left the state I was raised in and moved all the way out to Cali and lived with my brother for a while. Restarting in another state isn't easy and saving money can be harder than people say but 6 years after that, I have my own apartment and I've been in it for a year now.

[@King-Beezy]

Congrats G Good Job

[@TacticalEsp]

@@King-Beezy Thank you, bro. I appreciate it

[@fkm512]

those first 30 seconds especially were absolute facts, I fell into this category and am so thankful I had some people in my life that pushed me out of my comfort zone so I had some great experiences in my early 20s

[@Mrstobastoba]

In the words from one of the GOAT superhero films, It's all a leap of faith. You're always gonna have to do something for the first time, no point living with the regret that you never took risks. Great discussion on independence, this the type of shit I be missing from my other subs.

[@justinayala9881]

This the biggest I need to work being 19 although I plan to live with my parents for a long time I wanna be in a place where I have a job/career that could support myself and getting into the groove of working. The process of applying for a job meeting new people def makes me anxious but sometimes I can't tell if it's just that or im lazy, I have a lot of respect for people who can work jobs where social interaction with many people throughout the day is key

[@ahmadharris8330]

Yo these lil segments are fire

[@-demontime681]

I’m 19 and I feel like I’m wasting time fr with my career

[@Trae_dollasign]

I’m goin thru this rn, family moved all the way across the country told my mom I’m staying here gotta start growing up on my own…

[@JTInfernus]

Man I appreciate TBH so much for stuff like this. Peace to you bro.

[@Blazin720]

I'm so glade there a remen clearing things up in the comment sections. There is a huge difference to what TBH is saying and how some are taking it. Its fine to extend the time you live at home with your parents as long as you have a goal,plan, and drive for the future of a career or wealth. But that doesnt mean to get comfortable and not learn any life skills so once you get out of there you have still have the mentality of a teen who needs conscent from their parents. If you sit and do nothing for yourself and wait til your 30 with no prep for youself then thats where TBHs words come from .

[@ugmo0722]

Won’t even lie this was something I needed to hear 👍

[@turtleturnup8180]

You're lying about opening a bank account at 15 without your mom. Minors, unless emancipated with an income, cannot open a bank account independently without a co signer. Stop the cap cause you be spitting some real facts and I've been a fan since way back but I notice a lot of your content is starting to become unbacked

[@Tristen_Smith]

🤔

[@King-Beezy]

Oh shit lmao

[@exports321]

at least someone said it

[@ojtherrell5344]

thank you for knowledge bombs

[@BryFo]

Right on that. I got my first $10,000 car note at 19 and I moved out a year later.

[@ericwilliams7945]

Thats why i fuck with tbh always keeping real regardless of the topic. I have anxiety myself so I feel this and also live at home with my parents while in college.

[@kijannaplays]

this channel is a gem 😂

[@bencalloway3295]

Love a vid of a real dude talking about real shit !

[@RASH30001]

Ig my question is when is too old? I think late 20s is wild to me max 26 time to go. I’m 24 planning on moving out next year I been supporting family building credit. Now I’m plotting on leaving next year my only problem is. Do I get a apartment or house?

[@Romecross]

I feel like im growing with this channel and maturing contentwise, it’s nice

[@dudelove9]

My roommates sent me your channel. I definitely will be watching more for improvement

[@AtypicalWarrior]

In this video he made the points I wanted him to make in the last one

[@boss4lif31]

This was some good advice

[@thatboirose5525]

This is all facts I move out at 19 I struggle every day I’m 23 now and still working hard

[@JJuiicceee]

I’m 22 years old with no kids and no bills. I have the rest of my life to be working I’m putting off as many responsibilities as I can

[@OmnipotentSaiyan]

22 years old just moved back with Mom again. The first time was when I was 19. I felt free, still anxious but free. I had my own car and roommates though that's probably why I was still anxious. Now it's 2021 I got comfortable with my Covid relief funds and taxes after losing my job last year in September. I moved in with her in April, so it's been 4 months. I don't feel bad about moving back with Mom because I'm the youngest sibling, and I get support from the older ones even if I refuse they still help out of pity. I moved in with a deal that I watch my older brother with Autism while my Mom leaves the house, because she can't take my brother with her because he runs into traffic and stuff like that. All my sisters drop their kids off (5 total) leaving me with my hands full 24/7 with no time to even touch my Computer. I had to replace a keyboard and a headset in the first month, because they broke them. When I was 19 I couldn't take all the kids annoyance they broke 3 pairs of headphones and my PS4 and all the controllers which made me move out for 2 & a half years. Now I'm stuck watching every kid in the family on weekends plus my older brother on weekdays again when I just wanted to Stream, edit, and draw 2 days a week. There is no time if there is a 3 year old trying to break my PC every 30 secs. People thought I died on my Discord I was inactive for 4+ months. Any tips? I can't work from home because people throw all of their responsibilities on me. They see working at home as just being home. Watching my brother with autism is easy and that's why I agreed to it. It's just the Uncle part 24/7 I hate. I didn't agree for all my sisters to dump their kids while my mom worked it's too much. If I say anything about it they yell at me and say grow up... I literally can't attempt to start a career because I never have time to myself no matter where I go they follow, because they love technology. And I can't leave the house because no one else is here to watch them in my absent. My mom works 12 hour shifts of security, so I can only leave when she is off which is 1 day a week and everyone works the same days.

[@bens4235]

THE MISTER IKeepItReal!! Preach dawg, been lookin up to you for this shi right here

[@ChampionBrown-b3t]

Unfortunately not the same for me smh my mother still talks to me like I’m a child and I’ve bought my own house and moved out on my own

[@casualjay909]

1:17 someone told me this once before, knowledge is not power, applied knowledge is power.

[@NeutronFTW]

This is my favorite content. You just spitting straight facts

[@sawedoffshottyshane9637]

Where your pfp from

[@matthewwhitelocke1263]

I LOVE THESE VIDEOS PERFECT TIMING RIGHT AFTER MY METAMORPHOSIS

[@xavieranderson7120]

This video need way more like!!!

[@denzelboyd8100]

Keep telling these dudes the truth.

[@taveonn]

I just turned 20 living with my mom but I don’t ask for shit I help pay my side of the bills in school with a job I stopped asking for stuff at 16 I hated to ask cause I wanted to discipline myself to get it on my own but if I do I pay it back

[@jamaririptoe8555]

I got friends who watched me struggle to get on my feet. But still with live they family. One of which I literally extended him an invitation when I moved to a new state. Fast forward a year later they see I'm doing good and asking can I vouch for them at my job. Like nah some people will watch you struggle then when you succeed will ask you to help them.

[@CaptnNMorgan1996]

"if it doesn't apply, let it fly" good shit

[@AyeYoZay]

As soon as I can buy a cheap little car I’m getting my own place. I just want to be able to have my own transportation to get to work. I’ve done Uber before but that shit cosstttt lol. I can not see myself even at the age of 23, living with my mom, doing some of the things you mentioned, I just can’t. There’s some good having to go through some shit at a young age. You learn how to take yo L’s and keep it pushing. Like you said, some people just never jumped off the porch

[@SnuggyBlxnkz_]

I needed these 2 videos. God damn

[@ASAPEddieJJ]

My dad passed away and I’m 22. Shit hit me when I wanted to call him for advice and he wasn’t there.

[@jordanj809]

10:12 TBH goes that route on people A LOT on stream. I know it be getting under people skin

[@BHMZone]

Needed this

[@DopeItsRegg]

Honestly just keep this kind of content coming!! Love it 🔥🔥🔥💯

[@tevintownsend6323]

Been watching you since I was a jit but I can say even tho means my dad relationship rocky I can appreciate the things he made me do

[@tevintownsend6323]

Even tho I thought itwas 🧢 but he always told me he wants to die knowing his children can fend for themselves

[@GLaSSesNOlenses]

It's hard to apply one specific statement to a mass. Hopefully we all found out who we are so that we can become "individuals". If that's the case, then certain things that might apply for one person won't apply it to others. I'm not saying anything being said is wrong I'm just saying it doesn't apply to everybody 🤷 mental health issues are real is not an excuse. Is the world we live in so please acknowledge that and be respectful 💯

[@WILFXTV]

Year 23 gonna be crazy

[@darthkermit4617]

You would be surprised how this goes down in the projects. 30 year olds still staying under chicks and never tried to move out on their own