Q&A Age Gap Struggles - 5 Assumptions People Make About Age Gap Couples

[@CoachSherri]

I see love. I’ve been married for 27 years and I learned many years ago not to judge relationships because I don’t know the in and outs, nor is it my business. I love love and happy the two of you made the connection and went for it.

[@thebonnicks]

Aww thank you!! So glad we did💚💚

[@merlynbennett4330]

Tonya is a real Queen, she treats her husband with respect. Pray they continue to love and respect each other.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@suzettehart2961]

I respect this young man a lot i hope he doesn't change he has more wisdom than these older men you need to teach them how to take care of their women. Love you guys

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jillmyrie1864]

So true Suzette

[@pampatriciae3937]

@@thebonnicks he needs to fix his head (hair like a gentle man

[@sweetladycoupon9047]

@@pampatriciae3937 are you serious! He’s a trucker, they have there own business and NOT bothering anyone. Leave the man alone! You seem jealous!

[@jassettstswart7562]

​@@pampatriciae3937what's wrong with his hair

[@ritaanderson304]

I’m a Jamaican living in Florida and I just discovered your channel and I see nothing but love and happiness the way you two interact with each other is awesome you can see the great chemistry between you two, keep loving 🥰 each other age is nothing but a number.

[@thebonnicks]

Big up💚

[@annmariekelly342]

Love both of you

[@chick5500]

What I see is two people who really love and respect each other and that’s all that matters

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️

[@doreenrose4080]

@@thebonnicks hey girlfriend don't let me hear the word breakup come out of your mouth again

[@barbarabennett2753]

Don't care what friends wanna say continue to stay up and love each other .🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@sandrashrowder9539]

Stay strong young man!take care of your beautiful wife!!dont you ever let her down!!she is a positive,strong and progressive lady.NO BREAKING UP ! JUST STAY BLESS UP!!

[@blossomwalters2714]

I read your video Tanya I like your spirit u like to laugh may God blessed your marriage

[@phyllisbulgin980]

Love the vibes, you guys look so great together, you can see the love in you guys eyes ❤️❤️❤️

[@RésilienteLorraine2rhatid]

Just discover your channel today,and already watched 4 videos. I am hooked. Blessings Tonya and Kemar.

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings, respect💚🖤

[@romaynedawkins1692]

Just discovered your channel, even got my husband to look too! Me love unu! You are a younger version of me and my husband! We met in church in North America, and he is from Spanish Town as well! We dated for 8 months before we got married. He was 26 and I was 39 at the time and he had a "baby-face". We quickly adjusted to the age-gap and folks' perceptions did not matter for long. Like you and Mr Bonnick , we both always worked! We have been married 30 years, I am retired, he has not and I feel like a kept woman as we continue to enjoy each other! Remember that your man loves you and you love him back! You are both blessings to each other, just continue to take care of each other and when anyone calls you a "cougar" just accept it with a big smile on your face like the cat who got the cream!

[@thebonnicks]

Wow such parallel stories! Love it❤️❤️❤️

[@sistersinternational779]

Jamaican men are hard working, they like to look after their women and be financially independent.

[@amarshawilliams6127]

Dont give a rat's tail what ppl wanna say...live your best life and let them wonder you look beautiful together just continue to look after yourself Tonya and I know you carry yourself well🥰Love you both💞blessings 🙌

[@thebonnicks]

That is it!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽❤️❤️❤️

[@lisabrannock8182]

You and I have so much in common. I liked music my hubby liked and we had a big age gap, but he used me to get to someone in the US and other females. Kemar seems more responsible and independent. I’m proud of his hard work and goals. He bringing money to the table. My husband wasn’t sharing his money. He wanted to just use my money. Kemar is much more mature for a young man. You got a good husband, and he got his own business 👏🏾. I love it, and you two are so affectionate ❤️💕

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you Lisa! Some younger people don’t understand that there are responsibilities. Especially when they come from other countries and are making what they perceive is more money. They don’t understand the cost of living in America is expensive too so the money doesn’t equate to “rich”. I hope what he did doesn’t deter you. There are still some good guys, younger guys and Jamaican guys out there.🙏🏽

[@michelleclarke1394]

Congratulations to the Bonnicks. Live your best lives 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Secxysauce]

I love this friendship loveship marriage! Who cares what others try to portray on our relationships. You both are beautiful together and actually in the Caribbean this is the norm!

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@marleiserashford396]

Just saw your channel today n watched 3 episodes already. You both give me joy. I am a cougar. I love the young ones. 25 n upto 45 n I am over 55. Lol. Living n loving life. Stay blessed.

[@thebonnicks]

Bless up and thank you!💚🖤

[@arithaparson1828]

Age is only a number , Love does not look at age it looks at the heart embrace what God has given u live your life aye ❤

[@paulachin9130]

Brilliantly said.

[@sandrashrowder9539]

Thank you guys for sharing your videos,I enjoy watching .Age is just a number,true love conquers all.You both appear to be happy with each other,you both are two progressive people .Keep loving each other and take no notice of the negative comments.More blessings.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you for the positive words!

[@claudetteolivier1271]

I see a loving couple. That’s all that matters. Big up the Bonnicks all the time. True love is the answer. One love Jamaica 🇯🇲 all the time.

[@thebonnicks]

Big up and thanks much!

[@donnareid4318]

It's real lovely to see you 💖 each other. He's a good cultured Jamaican man. Taking care of his family 👪. Truth be told you don't seem like a notable age gap. Looking good Tonya. A real lovely family based in your comments sharing 😊 with each others family

[@juliejones58]

Omg sooooooo sweet ❤️ ❤️ The way Tonia said, "Everybody likes you, an' I Love you" I wish you health, wealth and happiness always!

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@dorettwhyte5467]

My nephew married to a older woman, she can't give him a child, but they married for over ten years now,and they live together, that's his life,age is just a number,now is modern time we're living in, I need my happiness, I don't care who vex.your friends is not your match maker,some of them just jealous, don't let no friends or anyone break you guys up.keep the love going, perfect couple.

[@thebonnicks]

Exactly!! Bless up!

[@elainelee5595]

Mr president and first Lady. You have my Blessings and full support. You two gave me the courage. To step up with my man.

[@thebonnicks]

👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️

[@junebelgrave1880]

You both did what made you all feel comfortable. The way to go and love is the answer. Amen

[@thebonnicks]

Yes! Thank you❤️

[@carmenbeaumont8249]

Forget about people, continue being your self an love an respect each each other.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@gary..r640]

I love you guys relationship. The one thing that matters is that you’re in love love conquers everything keep loving.

[@LadyKv]

When I see you guys, I don’t see a huge age gap. I agree that those early pics does show the gap more. But now, girl you glowing and Kemar put on some married man weight and to me, it’s a match!

[@thebonnicks]

This is the truth🤣 when I look back at old pics I’m like wtw🥺 but it’s all love☺️

[@sonyajames2093]

I don't see no age gap..just raw love n 2 happy loving ppl..u look more energetic n extroverted..the smiles are infectious , just keep doing yall beautiful selves💯💃💥💥

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you! Appreciate the love!! 💚💚

[@ihtemylifwhabsbaba6006]

Fi real son i teach you hard work and how to take care of your woman I'm proud of you love you guys ♥️♥️🔥🔥

[@outofmanyweareone6429]

Hello age gap family 💗💗💗I see a loving couple. When it's an older man younger women society accepts that. You live in a misogynistic society. You will get negative reactions. Live, love and 😃 😀 one love🖤💚💛

[@thebonnicks]

Society’s “norms” will have you miserable and chasing what people think instead of living your best life.

[@leliethcunningham2242]

Keane looks younger and he is but now I know that age is just a number because you both let the relationship work. The love and respect I see as a person who just start watching , is endless. Kemar you have a cool wife . You both just keep the respect lock. Wishing you all the best.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@adaezeokafor4331]

Sorry, age is not a number!! If it is a number why is it every year to add a year!

[@terennawilliams6830]

so glad I found your channel. my life is so parallel to you guys... I'm happy too.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you, welcome!

[@racyahnadab5589]

Kemar is a go getter straight! and with his mindset you both will accomplish all that you set out to achieve. Kemar keep your blinkers on and continue to luv on your wife.

[@TheFlojo1958]

I see a beautiful couple in love.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@soniachapman6359]

When I look @ you guys, I DO NOT see AGE!!!!!!!!!…….. I see TWO people SOOOOOOOOOOOO IN LOOOOOOOOOOOVE with each other,……& I LOOOOOOOOOOOVE THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! & THAT foes without question!!!!!!!!!!!!!!❤️🥰👌🏾

[@godisgood5038]

Sis, you do NOT look like you could be his mother at all! People are absolutely ridiculous. The age difference isn't as blatant as you think it is. If I saw you publicly I wouldn't think there was a big age difference. God bless you both ABUNDANTLY! New subscriber.

[@thebonnicks]

People be tripping🤷🏽‍♀️🤣 thank you❤️❤️❤️

[@adaezeokafor4331]

Really!! She looks older than her husband. Her husband looks younger. Say the truth! The couple look like good people!

[@godisgood5038]

@@adaezeokafor4331 Let's agree to disagree. In my humble opinion, I would not do a double take and think wow... he's much younger and I definitely wouldn't think that was his mother. Let's just embrace black love in any form. We are belittled and insulted enough by others. God bless you ABUNDANTLY!

[@adaezeokafor4331]

@@godisgood5038 Listen Good!! Understand simple English, the above couple look like very good people and love each other!! I do not know them in person, right!! Stop lying and deceiving yourselves, looking at them, the lady is older than than husband. Sorry, the difference of age gap is very clear!! My advice, do not come after me with your comments/ ideas of this and that!!

[@godisgood5038]

@@adaezeokafor4331 I disagree but God bless you ABUNDANTLY!

[@millicentevans8705]

I am new to your videos I was up last night not feeling well. And when I saw your video it made me smile. You both look so happy. I am a British born. My both parents are originally from Jamaica the beautiful island in the sun. I lived there for ten years. My story is long but I like the fact that you both found each other your married. Try your best not to let people get in your way of happiness and contentment. AGE IS NOTHING BUT A NUMBER. I realised more and more about living in this era that young men are very attractive to mature women. And it’s wonderful and I heard what you said about the terms that are used in today society. Mature women with young men. I know that your telling the truth. You met fell in love it’s just happen that way and he is just younger than you. You love who you love. As long as your both adults your not breaking the LAW. So just carry on with your lives together happy for you both. Hun no man if he is a decent man would never expect a woman to take care of all of his needs. Glad that your husband has a job and so quickly it’s all positive. Two wages is good in a household. I am not officially a fan of both of you. 😂 your both on the right path I wish you both all the best and take care of yourself. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@thebonnicks]

Awww thank uiu❤️❤️

[@Naturallyliz41]

I never thought I would be with a younger man either. You guys remind me of our relationship. Real love for each other

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@mureenporter9981]

This is so sweet, live your lives the way you want to.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@barbarabennett2753]

Nice couple .love you both Jamaican straight 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲💫💫

[@imaniexecutivesllc9155]

Yes I’m binge watching! I see the love you guys have for one another. And NO you don’t look like his mum, maybe when first married, but now, no. You too compliment one another. Much Love guys!

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@claudettejohnson7892]

You too are a lovely couple....

[@DeeDe730]

Yep they said this about me- yep I hate that term as well( cougar) and my husband is the first young man I ever dated. I never run or target younger men. Yes, I wouldn’t have looked or taken the step.

[@thebonnicks]

Yup not a cougar at all🤣 blessings❤️❤️

[@sherryjohnson9463]

Omgoodness, when you started getting all, “I ain’t a cougar!” The way he was soothing you with his arm around you, his hand immediately started rubbing your shoulder, like, “no you ain’t baby…” 😆🥰♥️🎉 So in love ♥️♥️♥️

[@thebonnicks]

😂🥰❤️❤️

[@paristhequeenvlogs8785]

Okay, this is what I thought went I saw you two together. I said to myself you two look so cute together ❤

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@paristhequeenvlogs8785]

@@kemarprezident2212 Your most welcome

[@paristhequeenvlogs8785]

@@thebonnicks 💖💖💖

[@bernadetteedwards2369]

Listen you both love each other,if anyone have a problem let them drink water and mind their business.

[@thebonnicks]

That is it👏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Hotjan109]

He is so touchy Feely , wish you all the best

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️

[@shannalynch4794]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ you guys look really happy together. Good bless your marriage. ❤

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️❤️

[@odracir5597]

It's inculcated in us jamaican men no matter what you have to offer on the table we gotta get it for ourselves.

[@thebonnicks]

No lie told!

[@theexoticalaspielady]

Dear please not every Jamaican man is like that a lot of women are carrying the load perhaps you mean responsible Jamaican men are like that 😎

[@rhonacampbell680]

Tonya you are the real deal girl, don't care about what people think,your husband is the real deal he is wise and you can see the love live your life girl.

[@annroache1760]

Hey you guys i just pounce upon your videos and it seem very interested to watch.I'm a Jamaican living in Canada i was also in a age gap long distance relationship that did not work out. but for me age is just a number once you love and respect each other your relationship and marriage will go a long way and most of all put God in it.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️

[@Millie-qd6tr]

Forget about the age gap he is a keeper this is love moving forward 🎉🎉🎉

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@joycehiggins5640]

I see love ❤️ when I see u guys I'm a Jamaican living in Canada 🇨🇦 I'm new to your channel I just love watching u guys may God continue to bless your union don't worry about age its just a number love conquers all big up urself kemar very ambitious, hard working proud of you 👏 blessings always ❤️ 💙 one love

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!!❤️❤️❤️

[@elainelawood7667]

You guys are so loving and real The chemistry is real

[@thebonnicks]

❤️

[@margretcampbell698]

Age is just a number true love conquers all you guys are so radiant.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@imanihaidara2994]

I would like to know if the ÚS Consulate Officer appeared to question Kemar harder because of the age gap? For me, I see the Love between You both shin ing thru genuinely. As for those who may have removed themselves from Your Life, because they could not deal with the age gap, consider it a Blessing and proof that God is watching over You. 😊🙏🏾

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you, true words❤️ No the CO didn’t question Kemar harder because the evidence we submitted was solid. Once the evidence is there, it should be no problem unless they see a reason to question something.

[@imanihaidara2994]

@@thebonnicks That is really great to know, because the CO’s can be brutal when the woman is older. 😊🙏🏾

[@ChelloBello101]

I'm here...these are my people.

[@michellemurray1966]

I get started to watch your videos and u both are okay. People always going to talk , that’s how people are. I like younger guys because I feel alive and not be older, but I always ask myself if it’s okay to dates younger guy’s. Which I’m doing rite now, he lives in Jamaica and I’m living in New York. Life is short so live and enjoy your life.

[@cecakhan2581]

Iam in the same situation my bf is 28 years younger never expected this either at first it was hard on me all the judging Much love to both of u

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings💚

[@sandyjohnson9935]

I came across your channel today and trust me I am hooked. Can't get enough.

[@thebonnicks]

Awww thank you❤️❤️

[@Naturallyliz41]

Oh my goodness you guys are too cute. I’m nine years older than my partner. If the love is there it’s there no matter what people think

[@marissabraithwaite6425]

Hi. What are your ages.

[@Naturallyliz41]

@@marissabraithwaite6425 49/39

[@violetburrell2452]

So much love and happiness between you two. Blessings

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@angelaknight7972]

Kemar you've got a good eye. I love you both and very respectfully to eachother

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@noladowntown]

Great video, 👀 nothing but true love. I smile the entire video. I've been married to my best friend 17yrs. My husband is 3yrs younger than me I am 51yrs old my husband is my everything . He's a people person every one luvs him, he married me with 3 children they all call him dad. Family is everything ya'll look great together.

[@thebonnicks]

Love it❤️❤️❤️

[@mrsveronamayshaw479]

What a Beautiful couple! You both have restored my hope in love again! Bless you both! I too I’m in love with a man younger than me! I am twice is age’ he loves me too, I didn’t pray on this man in question, he prayed on me! I was shocked when he made the first move!! I wasn’t attracted to younger men, before 💕 🙋🏾‍♀️❤️

[@ambitiousjackie921]

I am in a age gap relationship and I am loving and enjoying every moment of it ♥️ we are all together 15 years and no kids involve because I had entromedia ciss

[@thebonnicks]

Thanks for sharing!! Blessings❤️

[@hopehenry29]

I don’t look at the age I love the relationship you both are a wonderful couple I love how Kemal respects his wife

[@caudettaashley3765]

I love the way he looks at you.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!

[@jenniferrobertson6645]

Don't worry about the age greatest thing you love each other

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@jenniferrobertson6645]

Thank you for your reply I love love ,love is the greatest force Beautiful couple Best Wishes

[@ChelloBello101]

You have such a beautiful aura Tonya that's why you husband loves you so much.

[@thebonnicks]

Awww thank you❤️

[@GenuinelyMarie]

I'm a new subscriber and me and my husband are a age gap couple as well. I'm older than my husband also. We are 13 years apart and I'm most definitely not a cougar either. I still look like I'm in my 20's so we don't really get that.my husband pursued me I was like no at first but as we got to know it each I finally said yes to dating. We dated for 3 yrs and been married for 1 1/2 now. I love my husband and he loves me and we could care less what everyone has to say. So bless up and live your best lives happily.🇺🇲🇯🇲

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings to you💚

[@GenuinelyMarie]

Thank you guys ❤

[@claudiablake7746]

I love this video so much and have a different level of respect for you guys and your relationship... kemar im depending on you to represent for all the good men from Jamaica ...much love respect n prosperity

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@adrnstanley]

Girl…. Yo Boo not giving’ Madonna no vibes! LMAO!!! Love the video and ALL of that is true!!!! Our family loves us. We take care of each other. He makes his own money! We both like relaxing and being at home ! We have common interests like playing cards, traveling, bodies of water, swimming. We share common goals and achieve together. I see a beautiful couple enjoying each other and living to the max!! When we think about the differences, we lose sight of the good things. God bless your marriage!

[@thebonnicks]

Real talk and a whole sermon❤️

[@barbaramaxwelle569]

Honestly misii beauty inside and out 💚🇯🇲

[@elainedixon1552]

Big up Kemar, ratings up deh...

[@EvaRocks]

REAL JAMAICAN MAN SAY, HIM HAFFIE SHOOB OUT TOO!!! 🤑🥂...AND WHEN THERE'S OPPORTUNITY HE GOALS FOR GOLD... LOVE TO YOU BOTH!!!

[@carmenhammond5828]

Awwww you two are so sweet ❤️ Blessings to you both Always don’t worry about any negativity you are both truly blessed.

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you!❤️❤️

[@melrosebaker6205]

Please stop hang up on his age it's what its if whoever watching and is jealous let them skip over and move on u guys shows love with each other and he is mature don't worry what the world think just love

[@estherelson9473]

Since I have been in the states I have learned to value Jamaican men... In JA a man works to take care of his woman and family. No questions asked.... but here I was told that a lot of women have to work and take care of black men...

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Mannamae]

I see a couple that love one another💞

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ivylinstubbs4144]

I see a couple/ husband and wife, respect and love.

[@noamifaulkner2615]

Dont worry about what people say you guys are beautiful together god is in control my friend pray God answer prayer

[@thebonnicks]

Thank you❤️❤️

[@millicentevans8705]

Good morning to you both and wow wow I like to see two people in love with each other and smiling. All that you say I get it people can make your every day life. Question yourself. God gave us this beautiful will to LOVE. And it is so refreshing to see both of you.❤❤

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@lorenocole6722]

7:30 7:31 7:32 7:34 this also happy to my older brother lol but his wife older then him too. He put that person in there place. My brother is happily marryed too. For me all I need is to work on my belly to look and feel even better amen. Ms. Loreno cole

[@kittsgreen6745]

You are a cute couple living your best life

[@keepingitrealwithchinell7565]

Both of you are so beautiful! Thanks for sharing! I need to do video like this. My husband is 20 years older who is also Jamaican. Both of us are yummy and inspire others to embrace age gap relationships.

[@thebonnicks]

Love it!! Blessings💚

[@f-oneill9950]

I see two people in love 🥰 God is good

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@dotmann7673]

Thanks for letting us into your life. Great couple

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@kevinnelson1028]

Jamaican men don't see age when they like or love someone facts

[@thebonnicks]

💚💚

[@BloomingRose60]

Big facts! Honeyyy!!! Lol...

[@juliehicks1165]

What is the age gap?

[@andreathompson1851]

I see you guys living your best life loving each other and ❤

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@patriciasutherland2273]

Hey guys I just love you both and when I see you guys I just see LOVE on both sides bless up uself every time

[@elainaspencer8686]

Wonderful couple l have just stumbled on your social media feed. And you are both encouraging to me.

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings, thank you💚

[@ambitiousjackie921]

Jamaican men they are very hard working 💪

[@thebonnicks]

Yes they are!💚🖤

[@JourneywithBobbsey]

New here . Congratulations..i definitely hit the botton

[@thebonnicks]

Blessing! Thank you and welcome!

[@Lindasdaughterdonna]

I think he knows her songs. Kemar, you represent well. Tonya, I am digging this channel.

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️

[@anakaybekford7294]

I admire you both so much he is a humble young man you two are power house and in love God put you two together ok let name sayers gone talk live your life yah

[@thebonnicks]

Let ‘‘em talk that talk💚🖤bless up!

[@RichAnti]

Great video altho I’m late to the partaaay. My cleaning lady thought my hubs was my son😂I didn’t let it bother me at all.

[@jojoreid7867]

Happiness is what I see ❤

[@maxinesobless4996]

Love love I see and I feel the love up up🙌🏼🙌🏼👍🏼😍😍

[@icentgordon9195]

Two people who love each other is all I see

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️

[@dawnwilson5087]

I only discovered your video last week and I can’t stop looking at them I l❤ both of you

[@thebonnicks]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@racyahnadab5589]

You are not a Cougar Tonya, you deserve Luv and you found it with a younger man. It’s usually hard to swallow for outsiders but its for you to prove them wrong that it’s luv and not infatuation. PPL usually stigmatize these relationships thinking that someone wants something, and in this case It is Kemar because he is a JA and he wld have seemed less off than you. All the best continue to spice up your relationship.

[@thebonnicks]

Blessings, thank you❤️❤️

[@carribeanqueenfitts7277]

You guys are so funny😅😁🥰 A great sense of humor

[@lavernpryce4011]

I see love, respect, friendship, and happiness.

[@thebonnicks]

All of that!❤️❤️