an evening self-care routine at the cottage

[@SamLowry_DZ-015]

Your physical beauty is exquisite, but as you said that is the least interesting aspect of you as a person. Your inner beauty will not diminish as you age. I admire you for your creativity, your peaceful presence and your living life on your own terms.

[@ItCameFromAVlog]

Well said

[@monicaravenwolfwilliams4755]

❤️💕

[@soilgrasswaterair]

External beauty is usually considered as something that diminishes with age due to external beauty standards set by society. Beauty comes in many different forms and ages, even though society has indoctrinated people to believe the only/highest form of external beauty comes in the form of white, youth and slender. With that said, they way people look is never a reason to admire or wish to be close to them. It’s the inner qualities to look for in each other. /Scandinavian

[@ElisavetKioseoglou77]

❤️❤️

[@Abrar-ho9tz]

“ I found a lot of confidence by realising that I reflect the love my parents shared” 💗

[@TheCottageFairy]

THERE MAY BE AN EXTRA AD IN THIS VIDEO. I never put ads in the middle of my videos, however I decided that I would make a one-time exception in order to raise extra funds for wildfire relief efforts in my county. My valley is currently burning - I filmed this video before things got as serious and I will share an update soon. I hope you can understand that it is a one-time decision and I will take the advert down once I have made a donation ❤️ THANK YOU! A lot of wildfires in my part of the world this month. Many homes lost, unbreathable air, power outages, and an enormous fire burning through my valley. Seems there will be no respite for a couple months unfortunately, until rain comes. This is not meant to perpetuate fear, only update you on my situation. This is not abnormal for this area. It is important to stay positive and focus on caring for each other at this time ❤️ We are all safe and our town is facing the destruction together and supporting those who have lost their homes. It’s a long road ahead, and this disaster will affect my channel in several ways: 1. When I first heard about of the fires I worked ahead and made some videos, knowing the blue skies might disappear. Soon I’m hoping to get some respite from the smoke by visiting family on the coast. 2. I do not want this channel to be focused on the wildfires, these videos are my haven to retreat from stressors like this (especially since we will probably have fires until fall, and I do not want to dwell on it more than needed). However, I will make a single video on this topic soon updating you on the situation, hoping by then to know whether or not my home is safe and no evacuation will be needed. 3. HOW YOU CAN HELP: If you feel inclined to help with any relief efforts I will be donating half of the proceeds from this weeks video to support our natural areas and firefighters, so simply by watching it you will be able to help. 4. At this time it is unknown, but I may have to evacuate on very short notice. That means there may be an unexpected halt in my video postings with no updates, as power outages and smoke may not allow me a stable enough wifi connection for uploading. 5. For more information and ways to help, here are some relevant links: Support relief efforts for our wild lands: methowconservancy.org Fire Updates: methowvalleynews.com/2021/07/20/breaking-cedar-creek-cub-creek-fires-force-level-3-evacuations/ (I recommend Dr. Dray on KZbin for advice for skin conditions! She busts skincare myths and helped me drastically improve my acne) Products I use for my oily, sensitive, irritation and acne prone skin (eczema friendly skin care. I also use Differin for my acne. Please research how to use each item): Cerave Healing Ointment amzn.to/3iCxdQf Cerave Calming Cleanser amzn.to/3BCtV8H Gentle Moisturizer amzn.to/3iDiFQm Shampoo for dandruff prone thick curly hair (clarifying, this helps me keep my scalp clean with very thick hair, the nozzle helps apply directly to the scalp and not dry out hair. It has salicylic acid in it that helps exfoliate the scalp. I only wash my hair once a week so it really helps as a stronger clean.) amzn.to/3kHRUwV My soap recipe is simple, I buy local melt and pour goats milk soap in bulk, and add extras of honey, herbs, oatmeal and fragrance. Very simple and cheap! Making soap from scratch is far too a complex operation for me, this alternative is quite fun and budget friendly.

[@pamzibell6309]

I so hope you will be safe and your home is undamaged. 🙏❤

[@kita3256]

I’m in California and the fires have been so stressful! I hope you stay safe! I pray all this goes away soon. Also, I love watching Dr. Dray! I can’t go to my derm often (insurance issues) but with her recommendations, I have seen improvements. Take care Paola , and know we understand if you can’t upload on a regular basis with all that’s going on with the fires. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[@jenemar14]

Now that I know what the ad is for, I will go back and actually watch it. :) Thank you for your delightful videos. I hope you're staying safe. Sending prayers for you and your loved ones, including the fur baby loved ones.

[@simpleextrovert]

You’re so sweet ❤️

[@petitsjoujoux5011]

Please let us know if you are alright in the upcoming days when you have the chance to!

[@haleya1066]

The detail about how changing part of your body would be erasing a marker of where you came from is so beautifully said. Instant perspective shift

[@fee1051]

I totally 100% agree! I never saw it that way but I guess those are the words I had to hear and that everyone needs to hear at least once in their lives 🤍🤍

[@consciousbeing912]

Who needs a therapist when you have The Cottage Fairy🕊 Thank you for your vulnerability and for sharing your life with humanity. Your words touched my heart & soul this evening🙏

[@yourmajesty3569]

Don't be silly. This is not her real life. Someone is filming her. And she's already said that she doesn't have internet so her team doesn't edit the film here. It's a beautiful illusion.

[@whenitgrowsbright]

Hey, that was a bit rude.

[@whenitgrowsbright]

Not you Concious being

[@numivis7807]

@@yourmajesty3569 what makes you think someone is always filming her? Most KZbinrs are filming themselves. You just need to position your camera

[@monicaravenwolfwilliams4755]

❤️💕

[@dr.fajeraljumairi]

I admire your hair so much , you are very beautiful .

[@glowinbble5082]

I admire everything she's got♡

[@HanzoDSagittarius]

Her hair is truely beautiful.

[@rbivproductions7146]

I hope the people who disliked this wonderful video have a better day

[@jayb3931]

What a kind and lovely person you are. x

[@sallylunamoth5542]

Ditto 💕

[@endriandri7914]

Sometimes you click dislike by accident just scrolling down. Happens to me sometimes

[@ruthieruef2185]

And the other 18 too

[@rbivproductions7146]

@@tinkerbelle1763 could be

[@gaddic.5593]

I really appreciate your lovely content. I used to be worried about vain things, such as clothes, shoes , make up, skin products but I have realized during this year, I can perfectly survive having 2 outfits only ,basic make up and some basic skin care oil. The most important thing in this life is having faith in God , inner peace and be heathly. I LOVE the small reading night lamp and your kitchen , it is so cozy and warm. Take care 😉

[@luannedimaggio7025]

Prayers to your firefighters, we too are surrounded by fires. They are our heroes. Be safe

[@Gleich200]

Have here big troubles with sudden floods in Germany. Nature rebels against human interference. Our and the next generations will have to handle the problems caused by former generations

[@deligracy]

Ahh I love these calming videos. So wholesome and every post is a reminder to me to live peacefully ☺️❤️🌸 thank you!

[@spokinabout2236]

i just adore the scenes where you do things with your hands. breaking down wildflowers and herbs; laying them out to dry; mixing them with oils in niftily lidded jars; mixing ingredients for baking, handling the hot baked goods, lathering on a layer of some delectable spread you made and decorating it with flowers or herbs. and string! oh my, the endless wondrous things you do with raw twine! i could watch your sensitive sure hands all day long. there is such clarity and comfort in their movements, a familiarity and intimacy between your fingers, the materials you handle and your intentions. clearly all the moves you make and all the objects you handle are old friends and your connection to them is tender and true. it is all quite magical, really, and watching it never fails to bring a peaceful meditative delight to this viewer. thank you, for this dance in particular. may you, all your creatures and your valley be well.

[@lakemichigan6598]

Excellently put. She is so very clearly well studied & highly practiced in how to take what nature freely provides to produce interesting, useful, & always artistically arranged personal & home items. And I'll bet they're usually more effective, and certainly more attractive, than anything similarly purchasable from over the counter.

[@spokinabout2236]

@@peacockyman thanks!

[@spokinabout2236]

@@lakemichigan6598 agreed! who needs the mall when you have her meadows and mountains and forests...and capability.

[@lakemichigan6598]

@@spokinabout2236 And she's not just trying to save money. These are clean, healthy, practical products she's having fun making - and I think it's plain to see whatever her endeavor, artistic expression is always part of it.

[@ariannataba1949]

Absolutely love love your content. You bring a sense of tranquility into my life since I’m always so busy with school and work. I love the way you edit your videos. You have a great eye for setting scenes. I am also multi racial and have always been self conscious about my nose. It wasn’t until 2 years ago I realized how special it is to my background and how it really isn’t the most important thing about myself. Thanks for posting these lovely videos

[@bmknighton]

I LOVED this video. Especially where you talk about your ancestors and how you are a culmination of your ancestors and all their hopes, dreams, and experiences, and that's reflected in your appearance. Such a beautiful way to think of it.

[@1888starz]

Hello Paola, like you I've spent many years worrying about my image, looks, shape etc but realize that we are all different, have different looks and shapes and that's why we're all unique. I spent my teens worrying about my pimples, but they vanished and I was always ready to wear make-up to make me feel better. As I grew up (literally) I realized that our looks are what makes us who we are and there is no-one any better than any one else. We must love ourselves first and appreciate our differences. A good diet is the best remedy for health, body image and looks. Blessings to you.

[@ayeshaabdulghaffar7308]

These videos always make me feel like I want to cry. Its like therapy for me and reminds me to slow down. I can relate so much to when you said that you had to develop a taste for whole foods. I lived almost 30 years eating a completely junk processed diet. I have slowly added many natural things like plain unsweetened yogurt, fresh milk, herbs etc and I would literally gag at first but now I love these things.

[@pouponcrazycat5987]

Me too

[@MimimooIllustration]

"My appearance is the least interesting thing about who I am" ❤ I love that, and really enjoyed yet another beautiful video of yours! Thinking of you and your area with all of the wildfires, I hope you get some respite soon ❤❤

[@sharronvoth6208]

I loved this video! I stopped watching television about 12 years ago and it has been one of the best things I have done for my health and peace of mind. I also became more introspective and learned about meditation. And, I try to be outside in nature. Thank you for your wonderful videos, which always make me happy!

[@Fitzy222]

Funny how we perceive ourselves.💚 You've always reminded me of one of those literary heroines from Jane Austen's time, with their classic beauty (the kind that transcends the "fashions" of the times). Their beauty was so skillfully written about as a beauty (both internal AND external) that they were never fully aware of-like an Elizabeth Bennet from Pride and Prejudice. Thank goodness female written literature of such quality survived to our times as, let's face it, it takes a female to properly write about the irony of naturally beautiful women who are not fully aware of that beauty. Take care, Paola.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Awww thank you very much ❤️

[@Fitzy222]

@Subtle Nature I think so. Very appropriate💚

[@cecilyerker]

Paola, you’re going to be one of those naturally beautiful women your whole life even if you’re 100.

[@PeachesSkinCare]

You said things so perfectly. You didn’t like the state of your skin, but you were not willing to give it the time and patience. It really is that simple. What we put on our skin and body and in it, make a huge difference. You do not always need a doctor and pills, the skin is an amazing organ. Your on the right path. In our society we show false images and we also don’t value an aging and wise face. We need to change that story and realize we are all beautiful and unique and we don’t need to do invasive things to change that and in fact look like everyone else. Your videos are beautiful and so are you and you exude love and peace and that is a very beautiful thing and a beautiful gift. Blessings 🍑🙌🏻🧡Lisa

[@TheCottageFairy]

Well said Lisa! Inspiring words, thank you for sharing ❤️

[@PeachesSkinCare]

@@TheCottageFairy Thank You for allowing me 🙌🏻🙌🏻🧡🧡🍑🍑

[@janetgenolos7245]

"You are fearfully & wonderfully made." Psalm 139

[@nons1206]

I literally wait for all her videos every week I just got into college and online class is so draining and life feels so fast your videos are the only time I stop and reflect in life 💜

[@Elizabetha2514]

I look forward to them all week, too. I'm not a busy student, but they still de-stress me.

[@ginamarieofficial]

I so agree!! Best of luck with college :)

[@nons1206]

@Marianne im so sorry u feel like no one cares but this is a safe space for everyone ☺️

[@joychabala3040]

I never realised what drew me the most to you but now i realise its your wisdom. You are a wise woman.

[@brightpurpleviking]

So beautiful. You are wise to come to these conclusions at such a relatively young age. As a woman in her fifties, I encourage you to continue doing your body a great favor by not being in the sun all the time. However make sure you do get some “pure sun” time with no sunscreen so you can fully absorb the rays as we are photo dependent on the sun for a healthy life. Some direct sun is good but all in moderation of course! Just like those who go “earthing” and take off their shoes to connect to the earth through contact with their feet, connecting with sun, wind, rain, and even the snow is good for our bodies. What a journey we are all on! Take care and be safe in your beautiful valley.

[@pollypocket4323]

Words of wisdom! So many people never go into the sun and i can’t imagine that’s good for us. Who cares about a possible future extra wrinkle from it!

[@ninawildr4207]

Yes vitamin D from the sun is needed! I dont use sunblock...agreed

[@brightpurpleviking]

@@ninawildr4207 yes, dozens of sunscreens have benzene or benzene-like ingredients which are quite carcinogenic. There are a few good alternatives worth checking out!

[@brightpurpleviking]

@@blancaah6 nobody is being “stupid.” Educate yourself on vitamin d absorption and sunblock and the sun’s importance as far as human biology. As I said in my comment, everything in moderation.

[@jonetsu8890]

And here I sit, baffled by the secret of her gorgeous curls...water. Huh.

[@ashlee883]

I can't get enough of your eloquence... it's truly captivating. Thank you for each lesson you bring, in life and simple living. You're a beautiful and beloved soul.

[@bobinagebobinage2052]

hello how are you nice day from which country are you

[@OriginalAcefanatic]

You have beautiful hair!! You have such a great attitude towards yourself. I’ve been VERY self conscious about my appearance my whole life. I can remember as far back as 5 years old being picked on for not being attractive. I was hoping that as I got older my feelings about myself would change. But, here I am, 53 years old and still hate how I look. Its all I can think about. I have days when I really don’t care about such things but more often than not, I’m obsessed with my appearance. Thank you for all your great videos.

[@annchovey2089]

People who affect the world in ways that matter do it because of the acts of the heart and not external beauty.

[@TJ-kz1ul]

I think you are absolutely beautiful. I come from 2 bloodlines of toxic, abusive, appauling behaviour. It has bothered me for so many years, and sometimes I make up characters in my mind of people I would love to say I come from. Maybe this is partly why I enjoy reading so much! However, as I get older I am learning I was unable to chose my family/heritage and I'm not defined by them. I am my own person and I can make a beautiful life despite where I come from.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Well said ❤️ my grandmother broke a cycle of generational abuse in her family - while I am not proud of those people in my immediate past, I focus instead the culture and ancestral ties of people who came far before them, my Taíno indigenous roots as well. It has helped me heal my relationship with my ancestors, but I understand that approach does not work for everyone. Thank you for sharing, very insightful 🙏

[@karenmininni4962]

@@TheCottageFairy Thank you for sharing this information. I have been attempting to break cycles of family abuse as well. My mother just passed away and I found out the day of her burial that her father had been an abuser of the family. I suffered sensing this abusiveness in my mom and loving her through many years despite rage was a sincere process of my soul. She died at 88 years old. I feel that abuse is a spirit that is passed down generationally and must end.

[@milenaandreamarchetti2969]

Life can be quite hard and challenging sometimes...people have suffered much violenc in the past...( not that it iis an excuse for maltreating others) One needs to be strong to deal with it not passing ahead but care for those around... It is worth the efort !!!!

[@asil6069]

So was the case for me. I came from a very abusive family..l suffered a lot in my childhood 😢 tears roll down my face when l reflect back on those days.. cursing, smashing plates, throwing furniture around, shouting and slamming doors are all l remembered about my childhood.. l am actually typing this with teary eyes and a lump in my throat.. l have no qualms to share the story of my life with you guys.. lt's very long and rough that l could write a novel about. lf it were up to me to choose my family, l would opt for gentle, laidback and caring ones. l feel happy that l left the nest and broke free from them .. l am not defined by anyone else but myself.. l am my own person l'm doing my best to be the best version of myself.. l love how l am now and still working hard to be better.

[@illuminatedgalaxies7777.]

Well said I too broke the cycle of mistreatment and broke away and made a life of my own 💜😘

[@ladyquinn2559]

Another girl with a strong nose here ~ I've grown to love it, and recently I learned from an old highschool friend (way back in the 80's) that she always admired it. Even when we are painfully self conscious, others often perceive us very differently.

[@nfij]

Paola, your type of beauty is much more lovely than the airbrushed ones in advertisements. Would you be willing to share your soap recipe?

[@odaline8629]

I d love that too! Please make a video about it

[@sallylunamoth5542]

Yes Yes Soap Recipe

[@beaghmne2369]

Yes, yes, yes! Soap recipe!

[@solacesoul1881]

Yesss pleaaassee

[@lilglowfairy1585]

yesss!

[@debjh]

When you turned out the lights, I actually said out loud “Good Night Sweet One”. And then morning came, and I was glad there was more! Have a beautiful day!

[@SelfcareforBodyMindSpirit]

I was thinking of dying my hair, you've convinced me to postpone the decision. Indeed, so much of what we do for our appearance is fueled by advertisements. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@ginamarieofficial]

Have you tried henna? I didn't want to dye my hair either and found henna to be a nice alternative! It isn't the best fit for everyone, but it's all natural :)

[@salmaa3801]

It's totally okay if you wanna dye your hair.

[@avew6448]

@@salmaa3801 i think they were doing it in the wrong way

[@avew6448]

@@salmaa3801 like wanting to dye your hair just to adhere to beauty standards and stuff

[@salmaa3801]

@@avew6448 oh yeah that is

[@moonch1l_d]

I have also gone through periods in my life where i avoided being in pictures, I have gotten sad over this but i feel comfort that it’s not just me, thank you!

[@moonch1l_d]

@@burntsoup yes that’s me with makeup! working on my confidence without it is another story, but i appreciate it so much thank you! (:

[@cherylfrey7318]

Can you provide a recipe and process for your little hand soaps. I would like to make some for my friend. All of your videos are so very special!!!

[@j9keystone806]

Me too!

[@SMichelle626]

I needed this! Thank you so much!!! 💜. That soap looks beautiful! What’s helped me *Cleaning up my diet (😩) *Cutting out toxic people in my life (family). *reading *getting sunlight *early morning workout

[@lindamaldonado6807]

What you eat really influences how your skin, is, also water is so important, how much sun exposure.

[@aneasetucker6115]

When you spoke about how embracing your ancestry helped you feel less insecure about certain parts of your body, that really hit home for me and changed my perspective. Thank you!

[@dannihernandez9580]

This channel is amazing, it gives me peace of mind that remains and inspires me to follow my art dreams and have a clean and healthy life. I really thank God for showing me this channel a week ago. I even started my own garden... 🌿 Greetings from the Mexico City Con amor para Paola🌸

[@hillystudies487]

The Beauty of Freedom is Immeasurable The Satisfaction of Dignity is Divine You Do Not Need to be Someone You Are Not JUST you are FINE The world Needs You Because There is Only One You And Only You Can Be You, Like You Do LOVE from Cappadocia!

[@nilox2823]

I've been feeling a lot of pent up garbage lately, especially regarding my appearance since I'm newly pregnant. I've always had body image problems, even though I have been more or less fit and lean most of my life. But being in a happy relationship, busy new life and now expecting a child, I'm afraid of what these life changes will do to my body. I'm terrified of the prospect, so much that I can barely enjoy these blessings. This video really put my thoughts into perspective and touched my heart beyond words. Thank you!

[@pollypocket4323]

Awe, I’m so sorry you’re going through that. It’s not easy but have you ever imagined if you would talk to a friend instead of yourself? Imagine your amazing, kind, smart and beautiful friend is growing a human in their belly all by themselves! A mini human looking like her and her husband. What would you say to this friend, I’m sure its nothing alike what you might feel about yourself. You’re growing a little miracle right there and I’m convinced you look absolutely amazing in the eyes of everyone who knows you. Maybe you need a little break, a quiet day out in nature or a spa day where you really feel and look inside - what do you actually think about yourself and how much of it is shame about how others might see you? I know to me, my mother is always the most beautiful. Loose skin, stretchmarks and all. None of it matters when she smiles. I hope so much for you that you are able to enjoy this magical time - you deserve it so much

[@ahandfulofbliss3045]

I went through a similar experience when I was pregnant with my little girl and the only thing I can tell you is that once you hold that baby in your arms you will only remember your pregnancy as the miracle that brought you the most precious gift. I don't even remember how I looked pregnant but I do remember the little kicks and I miss them dearly.

[@bianka94825]

My god, this video is a literal therapy. You are so soft spoken and the background calming tunes were lovely❤ I got some proper tingles watching and listening. Thank you❤ so happy I found your channel

[@bobinagebobinage2052]

welcome! How are you. Good day. where do you come from

[@kita3256]

I have suffered from acne since age 12. Now in my 30’s, I still with it. It comes and comes and I’ve tried it all. Veganism, sugar free or low sugar diet, Whole Foods, skin care routine. Everything has helped a bit but a skin care routine given to me by my dermatologist has made a huge difference. No oils on my face whatsoever. But stress and hormones always flare things up on my face and back. So it’s a constant battle. I also have very curly hair. And since the age of 15 I had been straightening my hair all the time. No one knew other than my family knew I had curly hair. 2 years ago I started my natural hair journey and I love my curls and now they are coming back to life. I’m learning to love myself just as I am. 😊 I appreciate this topic and this video.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Ahh! I love your story about your hair. I feel the same, hormonal issues keep my acne coming back consistently, but yes I also got improvement after following a experts regime. You’re right though, I’ve accepted I will probably always have flare ups, it’s been a journey to accept it as part of me and find peace in it ❤️ thank you for your thoughts

[@ninawildr4207]

@@danat5983 me too cant do gluten nor dairy...no sugar...

[@van355a6]

i almost teared up at the mixed race comment. i’m puerto rican and white and me and my sister talk about the struggles growing up mixed. hearing this was very inspiring and comforting

[@SisterSherryDoingStuff]

we always want what we don't have. I'd love to have curly hair...bone straight, baby fine! It is what it is. As a 55 year old women, I don't buy any anti-aging products. They don't work. Had I been smarter when I younger I would have used sunscreen. Never did, but now I can't get enough of it. Simple, natural is the secret. Thank you

[@liz3511]

Same here. Dead straight hair. I used to pray every night for curly hair!

[@SisterSherryDoingStuff]

@@liz3511 💯❗

[@cherrycain6425]

Thank you for this video. I’ve always been self conscious of my looks. Even though I’ve had a number of people to compliment me on my looks. I too always was unhappy with my nose. I’m almost 55. My son is always telling me I still look like I did in high school. I’ve had cancer and lost most of my hair and my teeth are very damaged from the chemo, radiation and medications I have taken. I suffer from depression so I don’t take care of myself as well as I used to. But, you video has helped alot. Thank you and God bless you. And, I think you are a beautiful young lady. ❤️🙏🏻

[@shirleycirio6897]

Clara in "The Cook of Castamar" seemed so familiar to me. Her grace, poise, charm, beauty, perseverance, calm kindness, and creating in the kitchen, reminded me of someone. Then it dawned on me. The Cottage Fairy! Such a pleasure to be acquainted with both admirable characters. I am grateful. :)

[@chereeharder3871]

That was truly a stunning series ! I couldn’t stop watching over several days till the end!💕

[@Zacatecana91]

I just watched it too! You’re right about the resemblance!

[@andreamarr7213]

Binge watching as we speak.

[@leeann6662]

Binge-watching now as well. I wish there were a season 2. And yes, I see the similarities between the CottageFairy and Clara.

[@Dr.med.GeorgeGrant]

A wiser counsel rarely heard. Its tender message like a flirt. With words that ring soft as a kiss and give the listener endless bliss. Embrace yourself and all you are. And shine the light of your own star. A true Cottage Fairy highlight ! 🥇

[@rzch6092]

It's 4.20am in London atm. Just retiring for the night at what better vlog to watch to unwind. Thank you good night /morning wherever you are peeps.

[@huh4963]

4:51 same. I’ve done this to. It really gave me peace in loving myself

[@Isa-yv3ce]

I just want to say thank you for the love and comfort you send through in each and every video. It’s a lovely passage into such a beautiful life. Your content calms me in a way nothing else can .You have a genuine way of touching so many souls, you’re truly amazing. Thank you 💕🥰

[@ValedasBrumas]

It's a long process to learn to like and accept our appearance. It never ends, we have to constantly remind ourselves that we are unique and that it's okay! I love your videos! Hugs from Brazil =) 🇧🇷💖

[@amandal8404]

'And now the body I find the most attractive is a healthy one'. It's amazing how intentionality and reflection can transform your perspective on things, I too find a healthy mind, body, spirit to be very attractive. I also love that you prioritize suncare, something that's underrated in the US!

[@ojxolape]

First time I’d actually sit through a 3min ad. Sending all my love! 🤍

[@valentinatiu8353]

If such a small thing like watching an ad could help you, your area, your neighbours, i will watch it over and over again.... Big hugs and kisses from very far away! ❤️❤️❤️ Valentina from Romania

[@franhu600]

I am 39. Last year i decided to grow my gray hair out. I`m still having Acne and im a little overweight but I never felt more free! I wear what i want, i enjoy my kids and i try to surround me with beautiful moments. Your Videos are such beautiful moments. Thank you

[@kathy.7475]

Good for you! I'm 68 and just started letting my gray grow out. No more chemical hair color on my hair and scalp.

[@caga-ananchristine2885]

Your voice is so relaxing. I could listen to you for a whole day😅😍😍

[@jennifertomlinson7726]

Thank you for sharing you story. You are an inspiration to many. May the Lord Jesus bless and keep you.

[@mrs.w3058]

This video was medicine for me. As I’m staring into my midlife I can reflect back at my younger insecure self and say you have to love yourself before you can love somebody else. So glad you figured that out quicker than I did. Thank you for relaxing my mind before I go to sleep. I have my father’s funeral in a couple of days and the roller coaster of emotions have been overwhelming. You are an angel on earth. Dios te bendiga.

[@lorenenoe4472]

May happy memories help you on your journey of grief in your father’s transition, blessed be Mrs W. 🦋

[@mrs.w3058]

@@lorenenoe4472 you are a very sweet soul. Thank you for your kind words. God bless you…

[@jenjem5810]

🙏😔😘

[@mrs.w3058]

@@jenjem5810 😘

[@abeagleslife]

I would never believe someone so talented and beautiful as you would have insecurities...thank you for showing us the vulnerable parts. They are what make us a whole person. Super proud of your outlook on life and the past. Hugs.

[@PKTLFE]

I love your message in this video! One that needs to be shared more. Instead of trying to look like each other we needs to learn to love our uniqueness. Xx

[@spiritreins1]

Paola, I follow your channel bc it brings me such peace. I had to go back and watch this video again to remind me to love my body how it is. I have PTSD and Anxiety disorder. I am 57 years old and still to this day have struggled with my body image. Your raw, vulnerability is comforting to me. Thank you from my heart ❤ to yours ❤ for all the love, positive messages and creative healing energy you put out in the world! BTW I got one of your print cards and bookmark for Xmas from my daughter and I cried when I opened it. I felt so connected to you when I saw it! I'm going to frame it and place it in a special place! 🥰

[@dorisfranco9897]

You videos always bring me joy and peace. It makes me reflect in my choices of life maybe moving in the future ✨✨✨🥰🥰💕🥀🥀

[@ameliarose6688]

I’ve been struggling with depression for 2 years. Over that time period, I gained 50 pounds due to binge eating disorder. This has given me a new found motivation to care for my health, and I thank for that.

[@spd6318]

I just want to keep listening you..you have a beautiful voice...when i see your videos..i feel we are all unique and should embrace ourselves..

[@barbaramartin1485]

Thank you so much for your videos. Although I’m a 50 year old woman I still find I have new things to learn. The way you openly share your thoughts, feelings, and way of life shows me how I yearn to have more peace and serenity in my life. You are a beautiful person and I hope - selfishly I admit - that you keep posting videos because they bring me peace and happiness. Sending love back to you - Barbara

[@kellieborriello9028]

Thank you for posting the organizations above. Prayers for the community and wildlife need our support and prayers. Good bless the Forestry Firefighters. I enjoyed this video very much. I was wondering if you could share your soap recipe? ❤️

[@marybooth1361]

I have an herb garden and grow lavender, rosemary, eucalyptus and make my own soap too. Simple and beautiful.

[@jareddunlop]

Prioritizing your own self care is the pathway to a deeper connection with not only yourself but the people around you. Take the time and watch your heart expand ❤️

[@grettalemabouchou6779]

How healthy and well adjusted you are fairy!🦋💓🌷🌺🥀🌺🌷💓🦋🌸🦋💓🌷🌺🥀🌸🌹

[@miriamgillham6701]

Thank you for charming away the distress of some of the things that came my way today. I love your gentle grace and serenity, it always speaks wisdom and kindness to my soul. Blessings always!

[@orchid3457]

Even from here, thousands of miles away, at the other end of the earth, I can see your inner beauty radiates outwards, beyond you! You are indeed a beauty! Thank you for the soothing video, fairy! Love from Sri Lanka!

[@followthefreemans]

Wow this was so needed. Thank you for your thoughts and insight. I’m so encouraged and inspired. I love how you said your looks were the least important thing about you and just a bonus or compliment to who you are as a whole. I am going to remember that and pass it along.

[@rhondabutler4172]

Paola…you are wise beyond your years. It only took me close to 58 years to embrace my curly hair after being teased about it for so many years. The only person I need to worry about what they think of me is God. Thank you for another lovely and calming video…💕

[@oceanbreeze9248]

Your hair is absolutely stunning! I've wanted hair like yours ever since I was a little girl! What an absolte beauty you are Paola - inside and out 😍😍

[@CrystleSky]

Your amazing loving your vibes. Thank you for being the beautiful you that you are. May we all receive love, gentle loving healing, happiness, strength and always amazing well being. To those that read this just know you are a gorgeous soul, ✨🐎✨✨✨

[@kathysavage2548]

I too have curly hair, and as kid was made of for my "frizzy" hair. Today, I embrace it. You are so beautiful and am inspired by you. Thankyou.

[@purplepumpkin6894]

Your wisdom is so profound. Paola, especially for someone your age. Many people go through their lives nowhere near the level of maturity you have about beauty. You're going to stay beautiful forever with that perspective.

[@susanwilliams2807]

As always, simply beautiful.... yourself, your story and the video

[@giorgia3956]

your videos literally make me cry of joy cause they make me feel like everything's ok. thank you.

[@betsylohr214]

Thank you for sharing! I’ve found going thru menopause, my complexion is a mess! So appreciate this video.

[@amaise1480]

This is so beautiful. Everyone who is not happy with their look should watch this and listen to your words. I liked that you mentioned that hobbies, interests and the ancestors are more interesting than the appearance. Very, very important. And i also liked when you said „i don‘t care about anti-aging“ and that we don‘t need all those products. So true. Thank you so much. It‘s important that we all think about this once in a while and you made it so beautiful

[@healthwithgrace2083]

Yes, we need to have a healthy lifestyle change to take care of ourselves 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@galedavis3198]

The fact that you do not see that you are, makes you that more BEAUTIFUL. You are a sweet soul. Best wishes, Love your videos.

[@dianefilteau5199]

Thinking of you and your beautiful cottage in this uncertain scary time.

[@jannier9766]

I couldn’t love this more! Thank you. So much wisdom. I deeply appreciate your comments about older people. I am older, will be 63 next week. I often feel ignored by young women, like in women’s Bible study. I believe I was born an “old soul” and when I was young, I had friends of all ages. I loved them for who they were and never gave age a thought. I am so grateful for all the older women who treated me as an equal and spent time with me.

[@cindylucero5582]

YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL,YOU BRING SO MUCH JOY TO MY LIFE . YOU ARE TRUE AND AMAZINGLY BEAUTIFUL. LOVE FROM CHILLOQUIN OREGON

[@scribbledjoy]

I've always struggled not to judge people who spend any amount of time or money on self care, be it make up or indulgent food or skincare routines. I don't struggle with self-image, which plays into that. But seeing self-care as a shield against insecurities was a new thought for me, which makes it much easier to not judge others. I have my own insecurities, even if they're different from other people, and we can bond over our shared feelings of smallness and dissatisfaction even with different manifestations. Thank you for being my bridge to empathy and understanding.

[@elcoreelcore]

Please be safe during these trying times. I’m in Alberta Canada and the smoke from all the fires is over the top. Lovely video xoxo

[@gemmagomez3556]

I love the way you worded how genetics shape our bodies - hearing the word "inherited" legitimately made me tear up, because it's true that we look the way we do for a reason, because people in the past looked the same way.

[@gemmagomez3556]

It reminds me of a song I heard a few times, where the line (in a different language) goes roughly like - "He stood with the stern expression he inherited from his grandfather", but the English translation doesn't do justice for the word "inherited". It's really implied to have more of an active, participatory inflection - the literal translation is more of a "the face that he took [with] heritage", which I think is beautiful.

[@laurenwilliams5815]

Thank you I have been struggling with my mind and negative thoughts recently I've been in a mental rut you could say so this video was so refreshing for me to watch! I needed to hear your perspective so I could change my own about how I view my appearance! I really appreciate all the effort that you put into your videos they are like a gentle hug for me! ❤

[@melissar6365]

Beautifully done! You are a natural beauty. A reminder that aging is something that sadly so many never have the opportunity to do. Live each day with gratitude, be comfortable in your own skin. When you look in the mirror, you are not just seeing your reflection; you are looking back at your ancestors. Perhaps you have your grandmother’s nose, you mother’s eyes, your father’s dimples, etc. As we grow older, we do realize that it’s the beauty of the heart that matters most. Prayers to you and everyone who are suffering from the wildfires. May you all stay safe!

[@liz_21]

Your videos gives me a sense of peace everytime i watch it and your voice, ahh! You're amazing, Paola. ♥️

[@RyverBlu]

I am half Guatemalan and the other half is Norwegian, Irish, German, and Czech. My skin tone is a light yellowish tan and my hair is dark brown. I was raised by my mother and her side of the family(white) and I’ve never had contact with my Guatemalan side(they live in Guatemala). When I was younger I noticed I was different. I grew up in a mostly white community and school. I use to want my skin white and hair straight instead of curly but as I grow older I’m trying to embrace my Guatemalan side. I still feel very disconnected from it but I plan on studying Spanish and finding my family there someday but for now, we’ll start with embracing my looks.

[@healthwithgrace2083]

Oh yeah! Spraying water on your curls is the best🥰🥰🥰🥰 I do the same to moisturize my afro

[@nadinedieringer4237]

You can't beat peace and serenity.....clear mind shows on the face

[@TheAutumnGypsy]

Your appearance is the least interesting thing about you and yet you are one of the most beautiful people I've ever seen, inside and out. Never forget that.😘 I am praying for everyone having to deal with wildfires. And a special prayer for you and your family.

[@joniuptain5509]

Oh my God. I hope you don’t underestimate how joyful it is to watch these. Maybe nothing crazy happens... but for those of us who are overloaded with “crazy”, this is just soothing and good. I hope you always continue making content.

[@mutiaradianhergiati2220]

Paola, it's really nice to see this video since yesterday I discussed about body positivity with one of my best friend. Thank you so much 🌻

[@jimenabloom5238]

I really do not know how else to say it but i LOVE your content. Once i saw your social media video and i deeply liked it and i was looking my "see later" videos and your videos came to find me again. I love the way you film and your vibe. Thank you for being just as you are

[@simpleextrovert]

If you’re reading this, remember that you’re loved and all things will be better soon.

[@KM-nq7ez]

Thank you for your sweet message♥️

[@simpleextrovert]

@@KM-nq7ez you’re welcome. Blessings ❤️

[@zonkebellamkhomazi2977]

Thank you blessings to you too

[@viccimauldin2235]

You are a fascinating young woman. Your inner beauty is what comes through. A peaceful, strong, compassionate heart. You hair is so beautiful!! You keep trying and do not give up young woman. I so enjoy your videos. ❤