everyday self-care at my cottage - simple steps to start my day

a morning beauty routine at my cottage - simple steps to start my day
This morning I wanted to share a bit of my simple morning routine, it's only a few minutes of tidying myself up for the day, but it makes a huge difference for me, a small but meaningful accomplishment that starts my day out on a better note. Not everyone gains much from having a morning routine, but for me it helps start things off peacefully. I forgot to film putting on my moisturizer and sunscreen, but I linked below the products I use. Hope you enjoy the other autumn adventures I got up to, sending much love.
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[@AyumiLemura]

I'm from Kyiv, Ukraine, and your videos, your voice, your choice of footage and music, that all make me so relaxed and free from stress for few hours. Thank you so much!

[@lianahart24]

Keeping you, your family and all of Ukraine in my heart. Sending so much support and love. ❤️

[@AyumiLemura]

@@lianahart24 Thank you so much! We feel this support from the whole world and it makes us stronger!

[@lianahart24]

@@AyumiLemura Well I promise you have it from us over in Canada.

[@Carolmaizy]

Sending you love, Kiev, from the USA.

[@Carolmaizy]

Sorry-Kyiv.

[@Gwaycee]

I think we're all here for different things; the dry humour, soothing voice, nature walks, the doggie, creative moments captured on camera etc. Me, I'm just here for the kitty cat. 😺 A glimpse of her happy-looking self does wonders for my spirits.

[@albertstraumVLOG]

well said. :)

[@jaimecole4656]

Watching her videos is calming. :)

[@Mel92py]

Me too xD so big sweet cat

[@marleymemphis8596]

Couldn’t agree more with your comment Gracie. I love all of the above about these videos and also adore the precious little kitty that is growing so fast! 😻

[@Amanda-jd8xs]

I love it all 😊

[@saftabc5962]

You truly are beautiful. I love your walks through nature, your choice of music and your filming is exquisite. Everything about you and what you do is soothing. Thank you for the lovely way to start my day!

[@erinlee7216]

I agree whole heartedly!!!

[@AM-br4ix]

You are truly right….😊

[@freefall54]

Paola! I beg of you to create a children’s book of stories with illustrations! And definitely include the snow fairy winter tale in it ❤🥺 Also would love to hear the story/ inspiration behind your art prints 🖼️ And pretty please make more bookish videos 📖

[@katheejasuhail8280]

"What's the interesting thing about you will never be your appearance". Thank you for this. A lot of us deal with appearance issues and body insecurities. This feels like a gentle reminder to work on building our characters and personalities above beauty. Paola, your wisdom truly intrigues me.

[@cathy2465]

Thanks for that, I missed it and found it at the end of the video.

[@elizabethevett9258]

I watch Paola’s videos as my nighttime routine. They give me peace before I go to bed 😊

[@shagufta5677]

Me too

[@melihdarcan]

I really love how you use nature in every aspect of your life to decorate and nourish your living. It is so beautiful to witness that joy!

[@Amicay2]

Did anyone ever watch the TV show "little bear" in the 90s? This gave me major little bear vibes! Soooo relaxing and sweet 🥰

[@littlegreylogcabin]

Oh my goodness, you’ve just given me such nostalgia! You couldn’t be more right!

[@loreleifriedl8715]

I found it on KZbin! My children loved it when they were small.

[@elisasmith1609]

Love little bear!

[@bluemoon472]

Oh yes!! Little Bear was my family’s favorite. The sweet mother’s calming voice, (like Paola’s), their little cabin in the woods, baking cakes or taking a bubble bath…they always gave us a peaceful & joyful feeling, like Paola’s lovely videos!🐻🥮🧡

[@THEMAX00000]

My mother died one month ago today. I’m so grateful for these videos and how peaceful they are. They lend a tremendous amount of perspective. I too long for a very simple life. Thank you for providing some comfort

[@moriel01]

*_Your videos helped me relax during the height of the pandemic when I felt really anxious... and I thank you for that._* 🙂

[@aidajose764]

Same here

[@sandrathomson7288]

This is so beautiful- I just clicked on the video as I was starting my own morning care. I give myself a short time every morning, and it has become a self love ritual. Just simple things, like moisturising my hands and face, a little concealer, but I light a candle and use this special time to set an intention for the day. We all have beauty- no matter our age, the shape of our body or features. Nourishing our skin nourishes our soul- and that is beautiful too. I rub my feet with coconut oil and thank them for carrying me so well, nourish my hands for the work, healing and love they communicate, and tenderly apply cream to the wrinkles on my face. For I am old, but the lines on my face reflect a life of laughter and pain, happiness and grief- but it is my face- and I wouldn't have it any other way. In having self compassion we can love ourselves and others more deeply.

[@keamogetsoeipeleng5565]

Beautiful comment! I love the gentle sentiment.

[@Carolmaizy]

Thank you, Sandra. Sometimes I feel a bit alarmed about my ageing body. I'm 2.5 years in remission from breast cancer so far and the med I take makes me tired. I feel so much younger inside than I look. You remind me to treasure this time in my life, and to keep loving this body as it ages. Bless you.

[@sandrathomson7288]

@@Carolmaizy Look how your body is serving you- healing from a serious illness, carrying you forward in health.No matter how your body looks it is beautiful- like the soul inside.

[@DoeRaeMe]

Aw❤ you have no idea how much this just made my day! I grew up in a log cabin in the woods just like this and we’re saving money to buy that place back off my dad! Honestly, I can’t wait to get back to it…I’m so sick of a modern lifestyle! I miss the happiness of pure simplicity❤

[@gloriagomez2327]

You are a natural beauty my goodness ! I’ve always had extremely oily hair and skin and as a teenager no amount of make up would stay on my face. Having an oily scalp would make my hair gleam with shine. I also have thick, black hair, but alas straight. As I aged I noticed my skin was wrinkle free, and now that I’m in my 60’s, my skin is finally drier, but youthful looking. My hair is still thick but has gotten wavier ! So your body, skin and hair can change as you age. I was excited when I saw your video posted a few minutes ago and I was happy, happy ! You are in my opinion a natural beauty, and also have an enchanting spirit ! I too love vintage item, glass, jars, porcelain you name it ! Have a most amazing day my friend ! And I bet your spice cake was delicious and I loved the floral decoration on top of it. Warm wishes to you from rural Ohio !

[@karencarey2739]

Paola, you are so adorable. You have touched so many of us with your kindness and pure ways. Thank you for being you ❤️❤️❤️

[@erinlee7216]

Amen!!!

[@daisymaeajoc5774]

Hi Paola, thank you for keeping me calm when the turmoil inside me is unbearable.

[@tasniazaman5738]

There are so many thirsty souls eagerly waiting for your artistic visual!

[@ldellan3211]

I, too, have had the experience of finding a bee stuck in my thick hair hours drive after having been out in the forest, and thought the same - what a frightful, unexpected, and exhausting experience that must have been for that tiny creature! 🐝 At least I now know there are other bees out there that can share that common life experience! 🌻

[@Tamara-ik9dd]

You should do a show of all your favorite things, That would be awesome

[@leonoreburciaga2023]

You may not realize the simplicity of your perspective is so spiritually refreshing ...I'm a Christian and watching your videos is just like going to church...lol. True though. For me, church and your videos are good for my soul. Keep being a little light. Gracias, Chica!

[@truthseeker1954]

People who watch your videos repeatedly say that they get so much from them spiritually, emotionally, mentally. To me, they are part of my morning routine before I meditate and journal. Thank you for being you and for creating these most sensitive and hygge videos.

[@judith4158]

I was thinking while watching this, your voice would be so perfect for recording poetry or children's books. You have the gift to relax those listening to you. I know exactly what you mean about thick hair, in my elder years, I just braid mine, it's so heavy. They'll tell you it will get thinner when you're older. I'm still waiting at 81.

[@zibobpompon5768]

This young woman is an angel , so calm and always take care of others !!!

[@c.8192]

I can’t sleep so I’m watching your videos it’s so calming

[@flowergirl7260]

Lovely way to start the day. Love what you said about external appearance being the least interesting part of us. It's our "inner" that animates our outer appearance and makes us glow! Thanks for another beautiful video. p.s. i had acne in my thirties and it is an interesting journey out of it, mainly de-stressing for me.......

[@sumitrasharma203]

It's just.... so cozy to just watch you ... in midst of chaos!..

[@rsmith6909]

Love this time of the year. So peaceful after a busy summer

[@lydiaredl9879]

You are a sweet girl and very encouraging to all who watch you.I am in my 70s I am retired horse breeder,farmer,I am also an artist I work With oils and ceramics water colours when I am out and about weather is better here in Australia so the vedges,flower plants will get a makeover.I am also a servicer of terrible parent abuse which has caused so many problems.Look how many years it has taken me,I am originally from England,I wish I had people like you to watch,don't listen to negative people you are a warrior we are warriors .Lydia

[@robertashaffer3950]

Paola, you are beautiful inside & out. I love your videos. Your talents and abilities amaze me! You create beauty with everything you touch. I am genuinely so appreciative of the calm and peace your videos exude. This is the best break I have taken in days. Gratitude 💗

[@leanneeggenberger9127]

This was so relaxing! Having routines like this really help me with my overall anxiety..thank you so much for sharing. Would love to see a nighttime routine too! 💜☀

[@TheCottageFairy]

Same here! I found having a routine - even a few minutes - really helped me stay calmer throughout the day ❤ glad it does the same for you - warm wishes

[@sawmillcreativedesigns7384]

Your spirit is so gentle and healing, thank you for sharing your energy and being with us.

[@Hannah-FleursDeMontagne]

Making a cup of tea or coffee is a little ritual that I very much cherish and starts my day off right.

[@loomonda18]

Literally nothing better than waking up and playing one of your videos to start the morning 🙂

[@paulinecallahan6888]

Your kitty has grown so much!😻.I believe a house is not a home without a cat. .. I look forward to your videos so much. They are a wonderful repreve in this chaotic world. 💕

[@dickybirdsnest]

I’m extremely near sighted I was in 5th grade when I got my first glasses. My mom felt so bad because when I put them on I said “I didn’t know our walls had lines on it (paneling)”. I also struggled in school to tell time and read the board 🤷🏻‍♀️. Truthfully I’m the last of 6 and sometimes I’m forgotten - 😬. I didn’t complain because I didn’t know I couldn’t see. I’m basically useless without my glasses. Have a wonderful weekend.

[@witch8794]

Your not forgotten, You are Loved!!! Blessed Be🖤

[@suemichalka7941]

My mom was 16 when she got her first pair of glasses 🕶️; she didn't know there were individual leaves on the trees!!! So 😭, but 😊 she finally got the glasses. Aloha, Sue 🌺💜🦋

[@julies7517]

You are so beautiful, elegant and classy young lady, Paola❤️. Such a perfect role model for girls. Always enjoyable to watch your inspiring and calming videos, with soothing gentle voice of yours😘❤️

[@horaciobalieiro2479]

paola is the most elegant and natural

[@francesfurry2669]

You make me feel amazing with your baking, decorating, fuzzy kitten…now cat, and your soothing voice. I love the positive vibes! Thank you, beautiful one!

[@sylviacarlson3561]

But our external appearance is part of the package and a wonderful package it is! I love how you do your hair. It's very pretty. I love your voice, the nature walks with your dog, your sweet cat, the food, your home. Everything and it says simplicity yet elegance.

[@WisdomClarity]

None of my sisters talk to me so thanks for being like a cyber friend and giving me inspiration!

[@jaimecole4656]

"The most interesting thing about you will never be your external appearance." Love that!

[@ashley_murphy]

You are my absolute favorite. You inspire me so much. Thank you for being here.

[@manar8019]

how much i love these vidoes! give me peace like a asmr ❤😅

[@angelahagood7143]

😂I’ve heard of a bee in your bonnet, but never of a bee stuck in your hair! Oh my! So relaxing to watch your nature walks, and there is something so soothing when you bake; simply adding each ingredient in its own little special container. Just that little attention to detail makes me smile. I believe you and Tasha Tudor would have been great friends! Your simple lifestyle and love of nature remind me of her. Thank you for each enchanting episode!

[@hopefulvibezz]

Thank you so much for sharing your cozy routine! Your wreath looks gorgeous, and I adore your glasses! Thank you for always sharing your amazing videos, I send you much love and happiness! 💖

[@spartan117sj]

I struggle a lot with multi-tasking and taking time to "single-task," slow down, and really be and enjoy the present moment for all that it is. Your videos are one of the few things that help me do this. Your content, message, education, and creativity truly inspire me and bring me back to parts of myself that have gotten bogged down in the bustle of every day life. Thank you so much for doing what you do

[@LB-ku6ry]

Same, friend.

[@onestep1532]

How different world 🌎 what a peaceful and beautiful video i feel tired working on the field but your video give me peace and strength respect a lot 🙏 from India

[@maryryan]

Paola.... you exhibit peace..... your style is adorable 😍.... Simply love your vlogs.... Your Channel is soothing... peaceful.... And identifiable.... Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦

[@ldyshallott]

I also had severe acne, even into my adulthood. A makeup artist at Sephora told me to treat my skin as sensitive skin, cetaphil cleanser, hyaluronic acid serum, and straight argan oil (Josie maran saved my skin), any korean spf, isntree is a great one on Amazon (Korean made spf never breaks me out), and after about 6 months I was clear. I’m in my 40s now and just as diligent. I also have super thick hair, thinning shears became my best friend. I Love your channel ❤

[@roudwana7843]

I Love hearing you every day makes my day beautiful just like YOU.

[@theoldaccountthatiusedtous6767]

I watch your videos to be inspired to take good care of myself and be mindful. And once again, you provided exactly what I wanted. I also had acne in my early-mid 20s (before I ever went to therapy/had my experiences validated by another human being), and it's much better now, but I realize I still am not taking joy in caring for my face... and I want to be more mindful about that.

[@lisamarie1280]

Someone in the comments below suggested your writing illustrated children's books. I second that and a story about the bee trapped in little girl's hair would be absolutely charming! (When I was younger and had lots more hair, I came home from a hike, was combing out my hair and a caterpillar dropped out! )

[@farinaceaclover]

Simply beautiful! I am always amazed at how your videos help me to slow down and enjoy the simple things in my everyday routine. I am always calmer after watching. Thank you for sharing!

[@flowergirl7260]

It's great to have someone mirror the need for slowness back to us, isn't it? It's my natural inclination but the world tries to make us speed up.

[@farinaceaclover]

@@flowergirl7260 Yes it is!

[@abbyoller2884]

Your story about the bee was so wholesome and funny. That really made my day!

[@MoniqueDMarcano]

I really appreciate your videos. I either watch them in the morning while I'm having coffee and knitting or a bedtime when I'm ready to knit and get sleepy

[@ayeshatabassum5375]

Every time she talks yes I know it sounds cheesy but it soothes my soul.

[@EnglishCoach3Ts]

Thank you for demonstrating to so many young women and the not so young like myself, "the most interesting thing about you will never be your external appearance". Beautiful!

[@karlroth7082]

You are truly a beautiful soul. Your voice , your surroundings, your videos, and all that great background music. The topics you share and express yourself about in these videos are truly inspiring. A big thank you for just being you.

[@MegNordmann_JourneyToFreedom]

I was having a stressful morning and just seeing you had loaded a video instantly made me relax ...your cinematography and voice are so relaxing. Just beautiful. I've also had a random horrible year if nonstop skin battles. So i appreciated the solidarity in knowing I'm not alone in that

[@yvonnebirch6026]

A beautiful beginning of the day ! Thank you Paola 💕🌷

[@Sue906]

Love your simple & calming morning routine it's such a perfect way to start the day I also do the same quiet morning routine. Spice cakes are the best smell so good & the batter does taste so wonderful. Thank you for sharing your morning routine ....have a great weekend. 🍂

[@deliaeva]

You are such a gentle soul. I smile everytime when I see that you uploaded. ♥️

[@ReigneOrShine]

I wait for the whole week for your video. I love your work, your personality, your talent, your beauty, your cat, dog, everything! If anyone is having problems with acne, the only product that solved mine was a product called Exposed Skin Care. It’s a company from USA so I have to buy it from Ireland. I used hundreds of products before but didn’t help. I was also on accutane but my acne came back after I stopped taking it. Now, I acne free. No more pimples even during my period. The best acne treatment for me!

[@albertstraumVLOG]

Your morning routine is so soothing, it calms my circle thoughts down for a while and reminds me to enjoy the present.

[@moniquecarcel5500]

I enjoy the nature walk in the woods and love the wreath you made. It's wonderful to listen to you embracing the seasons and enjoying what that season offers us. Bless you for your wonderful videos 💖

[@nancyelliott3653]

I love watching The Cottage Fairy very much, it calms me and sets the tone for my day..Thank you! I was wondering if when you put some words on the screen that you could leave them up for a longer period? I consider myself a fast reader but not fast enough to read the longer messages!...much love and peace to you my friend!

[@tanyaa.illustration2371]

Love your videos! A weekly treat! Bless you!

[@dianaramirez3487]

I love the way you use all of nature in your videos. It's all so calming & beautiful.

[@sophiaisabelle0227]

This is a nice yet peaceful video to watch. May God bless you in all your endeavors.

[@fei22xu]

Love your hairstyle look.It’s so pretty. Hope you can make some hairstyles tutorials videos in the future. Sending love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@carolann5427]

Your videos are beautiful and so calming. And you are so lovely inside and out. Thank you for sharing yourself, your thoughts and your life with all of us. Skin issues are almost always diet/gut related. It’s a shame most doctors won’t tell you this or don’t even see the relationship themselves. They are trained to write prescriptions. My adult acne (along with all the other autoimmune issues and joint pain I had) cleared up entirely when I changed my way of eating from many years of mostly plant based to now mostly animal based food (some call it zero carb or carnivore or ketovore). I have incorporated this lifestyle for over 4 years now and my skin and overall health is the best I’ve had in 30 years. I’m 65. Blessings to you! 😇

[@cgdancer7810]

Differin worked wonders for me too. It completely cleared my acne. I enjoy your videos so much. They are so calming. Enjoy the holidays.

[@zoeeee_333]

You help me relax and feel cozy in the evenings! Thank you for creating, and sharing parts of your life with the world. :)

[@mery_lv_c]

May the kindness and abundance cover us all.

[@natalier.6998]

I can just imagine you as a sweet grandmother whom her children and grandchildren will always remember for her soft voice, her delicate features, and her cooking. ❤🥧

[@catherinejustcatherine1778]

Another lovely video! Thank you for all the peaceful sounds and images

[@amotherslittleway]

Paola love your videos so much your so inspiring and kind and gentle love them all. Blessings to you in your journey and your sweet soul.💕

[@lynngliottone2812]

Whenever I need a peaceful place to go, I go to you!

[@jengonzalez8651]

Great surprise for a Friday!!!!! ❤❤❤

[@idelsiurquijo7259]

Your videos are amazing so relaxing and inspiring!Thank you! 🧚❤

[@annettemurielle]

Simply beautiful, you and your home. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@utubeW6jem8M]

I feel so calm and relaxed every time I watch your video. Thank you and keep it coming.

[@eszterkovacs7687]

Such a lovely video Paola, you are not only so talented but your heart is overflowing of kindness and sweetness!

[@Artbeats_of_a_dreamer]

Paola, you are making this world a better place. Watching your videos calms my mind.

[@SeraLig-mf9ye]

I often watch your videos before falling asleep. They are so calming. Thank you.❤ Your way of living also touches my dreams of a more quiet and simple lifestyle.

[@eleanorbertuch135]

Always love a visit. Peace and joy prevail 💐❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@elisasmith1609]

Lovely surprise to see a fresh video from you pop up during the week! thanks for sharing ❤️

[@rewilding_rose]

Your videos are so lovely, Paola. I enjoy them very much. They make me feel so cozy in the best possible way. ❤️

[@kuromiaa111]

I like watching youre videos it calms me down when I'm anxious or under the weather when I'm not my normal self

[@jawahomestead5371]

Really relaxing and calm to start the day. Thank you for sharing with us, it's really shooting my hectic everyday life. Sending warm love.

[@lauraelisee]

I think you have the most gorgeous curly hair! I have naturally wavy/slightly curly hair and growing up I’d just straighten it to death. Now I just embrace it’s natural beauty 🥰💕🤍

[@evangeline3152]

I love watching you make food or anything really. It’s so calming and always so beautiful in the end. I can’t wait to get your book!

[@theloveyourfacegal2773]

Nice Romp in the woods with Fido he just lives it & you we can all see that so much. Beautiful photography always :)The cats really grown stay warm & cozy as always thanks for sharing 💕

[@gabrieledrewery5910]

I just want to say how much I enjoy your videos! There's a lot to be said for simplicity!

[@majorievanbeest]

Thank you for This video! Love the calming nature and the Beautiful details in the video. I love the positieve comments from people all over the world.

[@gabriellagirardi4741]

Very beautiful video as it shows how nature plays an important role in every aspect of your sweet and peaceful life. Really awesome! Thank you very much

[@magicdreamer8874]

Beautiful Paola🥰. The floral style is just for you. Adorable cat🐈‍⬛🐈🐈‍⬛

[@andreatsai2482]

Thank you for sharing all the beautiful videos with us. Your kind words always inspire me and your videos always bring me joy.

[@sallysmith4492]

Your skin glows...great recovery!!! Love your hair bun...so sophisticated!! Spice cake sounded and looked so scrumptious and presented in such a welcoming manner with the topper and your sweet basket. Your attention to detail is perfection!!! Thanks for the great scent tips!!!

[@erickawilliams778]

I absolutely love all your videos they are so peaceful thank you for your channel ❤

[@dorotheaadams2184]

Hello Paola, I have been watching your videos for weeks now, you bring such comfort to me , I love all of the things you make and the way in which you speak, so softly , thank you for your sweetness , kindness and above all, just being you ,,

[@nancydroge7682]

The 🐇Salt Shaker… 💘 You share another stunning video, Paola; a powerful gift to all of our senses & beyond! Thank you! 💫