How I budget and live simply - finances, living within means, and rural life

[@suzyjones8387]

I’ll try to make this comment as short as possible. I stumbled across your videos more than a year ago. I was going through a terrible time in my life, my beautiful daughter was very sick (she passed away in 2020) and for whatever reason I found your videos to be very calming. I was able to put my worry aside for a few minutes and simply enjoy a few moments of peace. All this being said, I appreciate and look forward to watching your videos each week, no matter the content. Enjoy your day. Sending much love and appreciation

[@phyllisharries2742]

Suzy, I wish you love and comfort at this sad time. 💕

[@cherylwebb8340]

❤🙏❤

[@suzyjones8387]

@@phyllisharries2742 thank you for being so kind. Losing Lorie is something I’ll never get over. I don’t mean to say that every day is a bad day, that’s simply not the case, but I feel her loss with every beat of my heart. I’m making plans to redo her room and keep the door open. This will be a huge step for me. Again, thank you for your kindness

[@lucievezina3696]

Suzy,may the Lord Jesus-Christ place his hand in your heart and comfort you. i will pray for you and for you have the courage and peace. scuse my little english ...i am Québécoise french.

[@lakemichigan6598]

I've known too many people who have lost children before their time. Now you. Of this Nothing can be said that will help. Nothing can be done that will soften this. No explanation will suffice. All we can do is grieve with you. But I do hope that someday Something funny she said Something noble she did Or something important she felt Will bring an easy smile. That will be a good day. All you can do After enduring such a loss Is all any of us can do: Press on in the way God insists we must: With dignity, honor, truth, generosity, kindness, & love.

[@marygjoannaofficial]

does anyone else feel like these videos are like a peaceful soap opera and so much needed because we've been bombarded and brainwashed with so much drama and craziness from the entertainment industry, media and so on so that these videos are kind of healing us back into normality?

[@remedyisrael705]

Absolute these videos are an escape

[@ignacioduran5993]

Or also confirmation and inspiration.

[@joanmyron]

Yesss ❤

[@missk7145]

Yes. SOAP opera that is truly CLEAN as SOAP.

[@flabbytobaddie]

Yes

[@ivansasso1191]

I use your videos to practice English, but I also come here because of the peace! Thanks.

[@angelaknight7184]

We learn from our mistakes,no matter how old we are.I’m your friendly witch, I don’t believe we do get things wrong..They just teach us ❤many blessings

[@mariac4602]

Such a joy watching you laugh over your “candle addiction “. Being the mother of a young adult I can tell you two things: 1) we will Always have our children’s back. Period. Never be afraid or ashamed to ask for help. It’s the power and the gift of family. 2) we love to see our children joyful-laughing and finding lighthearted moments. Your joy gives US joy 😊💕 God bless you and your lovely family and your fiancé.

[@Луноцвет]

Unfortunately not all parents are like that, some want to tear you down if you are not doing things the way they approve of.

[@rozaliaslaboiu7810]

Amen!!!! :)

[@Homewithtabassum]

True @Maria I had go along with you .

[@loisclark8616]

So very true!

[@juliejackman2649]

As a mom of a mid twenties daughter, I agree.❤

[@nadiagoddard227]

You say that we have changed your life, but you have enhanced the lives of so many people with your weekly vlogs. I wait for the next one and save it for a quiet time when I can really appreciate it. You bring peace, happiness and affection into the lives of all of us. You help us to remember the natural world around us, even, if like me we live in cities. Your videos are beautifully filmed a real treat. You remind us that we are all unique and help me to appreciate people who are very different from myself. I am very grateful to you.

[@bndergltd3053]

I also save it for a time when I can give it my full attention to savor it, so to speak

[@kristaw206]

Just found this channel today, as I'm on my last day at a job that wasn't serving me, and heading towards a future similar to what Paola practices. Bless this woman.

[@adriennemorris536]

One thing I've noticed over the years is that sometimes in our desire to help the environment, we forget that humans are part of that environment and should be equally considered. I've worked on a few organic farms run by Ivy League grads who showed real contempt for the poorer farmers who had grown up on farms their grandfathers and great grandfathers had run. The grads were outsiders who wanted to run things by their theories at the expense of the feelings and relationships of the "ordinary" people. I think activism has to be tempered with real love for even the people who do things differently.

[@fortheloveofcrosstitch6230]

I come from a family of farmers. No one works harder than a farmer and most people have no clue how important they are to the world. My father was not formally educated but I guarantee he forgot more about farming than any of those Ivy Leaguers. Personally I'm tired of people who thinks something that looks good on paper is actually good in practice :)

[@adriennemorris536]

@@fortheloveofcrosstitch6230 The incredible amount of handed down knowledge is lost on most people. I agree with you 100%.

[@molly5262]

Well said!👌

[@jackieo8693]

Great point.

[@queens6583]

@@fortheloveofcrosstitch6230 Farmers are the heart and soul of this country. Nothing beats experience when it comes to any profession or skill set. We all can learn from each other no matter the generation.

[@rickguarcini2407]

wow, finally, peace and sanity, refuge from the storm. Thankyou for all of this.

[@homebodyheaven6114]

Beautiful and touching story. Poverty is so hard. I remember being very young and very poor. My parents and I lived in a two room furnished flat on the top floor of an old house. We all slept on the fold-out couch in the living room. My mother washed clothes in the kitchen sink and hung them out to dry on the clothesline outside the kitchen window. My toys were kept in a little cardboard box in the bottom of our only tiny coat closet. I didn’t know we were poor; it was just life as I knew it. Life gradually improved with my father’s hard work. Nothing good comes easily.

[@johncairuspriol]

Hi😊....

[@milay5734]

I was going to fall asleep when watching your videos. The scene,the sound,the music,your voice are so smooth and gentle and peace.

[@BookNooksandpages]

Just a random teenage girl who's trying to figure herself out, thank you so much being you and reminding me how much I take for granted. Really love your videos. Stay happy... ❤️❤️

[@sharinnature]

She is such an inspiration ❣️Glad we all found her🤗🙏

[@cortega4474]

Just remember, everyone starts somewhere. Good luck and stay safe!👍🏼

[@cherylwebb8340]

The best way to figure yourself out is to serve others. A good dose of humility in all areas of life is a good thing. John 3:16❤

[@DaestrumManitz]

Garner the experience of those who have walked the path already. Apply their words of wisdom to your own life. It can save you a lifetime of regret! But above all else, live your passion unreservedly.😎🔥

[@susanharkema2888]

I’m a random 51 yo woman on the same journey, little sister. Enjoy the ride and always be kind to yourself on the path.

[@bruna-vivendoemmissao3729]

You are the most peaceful and lovely lady I’ve ever seen on social media! Thanks for being so honest, so pure, so loving ❤ your videos are beautiful 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@williambent9636]

A good part of my clothes r second hand, and often those are the ones that get the most compliments. I really love the look of vintage items, too. Some things never go out of style. It's also good that places such as Good Will and Salvation army employ people and give them experience for other jobs. One store I visit whenever I go to Pueblo Colorado supports babies born in prison. You never know whose life you'll touch when you visit such places. I loved this video. In our consumer-driven society we could all stand to think more about what we buy and why we are buying it. Another point is taking care of what you have instead of buying more. My 98 year old grandmother cooked three meals a day for 80 years in a set of pans she got as a newly wed and they are still in good condition. I love to use them. Most of my things come with family memories.

[@StayStitching]

What store is that? I live in Pueblo and am an avid thrifter. Is it possible that there's a thrift store I don't visit? Do tell.

[@homebodyheaven6114]

Fortunately your grandmother’s pots and pans weren’t Teflon coated Made In China junk. Which may account for her longevity. ❤️

[@GoldenGarden9]

I have had such good luck with my local Goodwill store....clothing, household goods. I don't even enjoy shopping in "regular" stores because everything looks the same and the quality is often poor. If I don't have a particular agenda and lots of patience when I thrift shop I find many great name brand items that I just love.

[@williambent9636]

@@StayStitching It's New Horizons, 2930 Elizabeth St.

[@williambent9636]

@@GoldenGarden9 Yes, you never know what you will find. For instance, I recently purchased an entire wardrobe for my new born granddaughter, including Carters and other expensive brands, for less than $30! I couldn't find anything like what I bought at Walmart, Target, or a mall store I went to.

[@helgaherbstreit5102]

Today my mother passed away and I got some pictures from friends with candles who told me that they have lit their candle for her and for me. Candles are so comforting and warm. I also keep in mind that I have to watch the candles in my living room carefully. Many years ago, when one of my daughters was a toddler, she came out of bed, joined my husband and me, sitting at the table, and put her little cloth right into the candle in front of my husband. The cloth was instantly on fire and the living room full of smoke. We were happy to have had a fire blanket close by. so I still enjoy my candles, especially today but I still have a fire blanket And your firefighter: He was your guardianangel. Thank you very much for your video.

[@TheCottageFairy]

More details ⬇️ Hello everyone, this is a chattier video that usual ❤️ I just wanted to share a bit about my experiences -> I will not speak this much in future videos, somehow this topic got me talking haha! Definitely the biggest unexpected expenses for me were car repairs and food (and candles 🕯apparently, lol). I have a small grocery store that cannot carry a lot of back stock, so the prices can be absolutely insane sometimes. The first month I was here I spent $400 on food for myself and was absolutely shocked!! I have now cut down on that in a big way (several hundred dollars less now) by buying in bulk when I visit a Costco and prioritizing very filling staple ingredients. This is an expensive state in general, so I am grateful to have a place to live and be able to work here full time. *Correction of my poor wording: Okanogan County is one of several lower income counties in the state, there were some slightly different rankings depending on the article you check :) this doesn’t really matter but I wanted to clarify anyway as my sentence came out weird. My goal is to own a home, so a big motivation for saving money in other areas is to be able to afford a down payment and assist in renovations of a barn on Luke’s parents property (our future home we hope!). Currently, I have a furnace and wild prairie growing around me so I don’t need to chop wood or maintain the property (thankfully). However, that will change once I move to a new place. Luke and I want to have children, so we are planning accordingly to be able to provide for them when the time comes. A lot of changes on the horizon, no doubt I will manage my money differently with a new home and life. I definitely had a scarcity mentality during a phase of my life when I felt less stable, so I have been slowly teaching myself to let go of that anxiety and believe that things we be ok, no matter what. You are not alone, worrying about the future and finances is not always be beneficial, you just need to keep working hard, live within your means, and manage the fear of the unknown ❤️ I moved to this county initially because I missed my family and needed a new job. My mother and father live in the valley too, so I absolutely love having them so near! It’s something I am so grateful for everyday. I did make a past video on how I make a living, and my story of how I got here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hHqlq52rncaqmNU

[@Sanav697]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@lakemichigan6598]

I hope you'll continue to expand the results of your artistic expression. You have a ready market just among us, your many admirers, for more of what you are so accomplished at doing. Plus you are going to soon have a house & kids, both of which are experts at eating deeply into family savings, so more of what you so beautifully create for us to acquire would be a win/win for everyone.

[@calmcalm6203]

I was wondering y U draw Ur fairies sad and worried?

[@Paul020]

Paola, you made a beautiful example of what gratitude is. That is perhaps the most important message in this video. Thank you.

[@jenanalleman6285]

How long have your parents lived in the valley? Were home prices better when they moved there? You've mentioned your area is a popular tourist destination. Does it have the same problem other tourist heavy areas do with people buying homes that sit empty large chunks of the year and are only used a few weeks or months out of the year or turned into Airbnb rentals?

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

I moved to a rural area 20 years ago because my husband and I could live there on our modest means. We loved the natural beauty and the quiet we found there but the isolation in the 6-7 months of winter was difficult. Also unfortunately, that rural community was so depressed that it made living there uncomfortable. The infrastructure was not good, so we could easily be without heat or power for days. It was hard to drive long distances to doctors as we aged as well as the 25 miles just to find a grocery store. Then when my husband got his cognitive decline diagnosis, I found out there was zero senior benefits for us in that area. That was a deal breaker for those of us who were older. I don't to be negative, but these are issues that need to be considered as one get older.

[@soverato99]

I agree with this very important point. Many people are drawn to the simplicity and beauty of living a rural lifestyle. I understand that completely. However, there are many logistical issues to consider when planning for a place to live, especially as we get older. I'm not comfortable being so far removed that if I needed ongoing medical care, much less an emergent situation, that resources could be many precious miles away. With the current cost of gas, this could greatly burden the monthly budget. I enjoy many hobbies but driving is not one of them. I drive out of necessity and if it means I'm in the car 45 minutes to 1 hour to get basic supplies, I'm going to feel resentful after a while. Having said that, if a person has the means, the time, reasonable good health, and the ability to plan ahead for any eventuality to live off the grid so to speak, then go for it. Our decisions are often based on our circumstances. Paola is a delightful young lady and this lifestyle clearly suits her and her husband (happy for them!!).

[@OrangeNash]

Yes, those issues need to be considered in the future, however , need right now we may have different issues to consider. Trying to plan ahead can be sensible, but there's a balance between the now, the short term future and the long term future. The risk is that those plans for a life of minimal discomfort in the future, prevent living the life that is possible now. Wanting control over the future, it's an illusion. Apologies for the bluntness, but one thing for sure is that we all wind up in the ground eventually, but that's no reason to lie in the ground now to prepare for it!

[@missymischief1802]

@@OrangeNash Well said.

[@Large011]

I hope you and your husband are fairing well these days.

[@janakipke8179]

Much love 💕 to you!

[@tessabrowning]

Bless that firefighter for saving such an incredible human being 😭 along with so many others. I resonate with your words. Thank you for contributing to this online community. Your videos impact me in such a positive way and I can’t thank you enough for sharing your perspective and words. The time you put into creating these videos does not go unnoticed ♥️✨🌲❄️

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@jamie3593]

Amen to that! 🙏

[@johncairuspriol]

Hi😊...

[@johnleo-yb1jv]

@@TheCottageFairy hi friend faiiry u r so nice

[@natasharose]

I had to laugh when you explained how your candle collection tripled in size in 24 hours. It’s funny how we experience abundance with the things we really love - I had a similar experience with my herbal tea collection. 🥰

[@bethfarley6969]

I thought so too.

[@adriannamarszal]

and me with watercolor art supplies 😆

[@danielbirch212]

Your kindness, intelligence, sincerity, innocence and understanding, all these qualities make you so noble and rare. The attention you pay to the simple aspects of life, which are barely visible, highlights the light that springs from your soul.

[@patraunick3985]

I believe you to be a very upright lady. I salute you and you kindness. I watch your videos often, I am near 80 years young,

[@happyhippytreehugger1283]

Well, on the subject of candles? I kinda, sorta have the same issue. I LOVE candles! I have a very large backstock of them. Probably about 50, at least. There is a definite reason for it though. Whenever I'm feeling stressed, sad, or drained from the day's activities I find lighting a lovely scented candle a huge comfort. My happiest place is with my crocheting, my Johanna Basford coloring books and colored pencils......and Candles. Its the simpler things that make peace and joy in our lives. I watch your videos pretty much every day now, and they have been a truly HUGE source of comfort. Being a front line worker can get really crazy, and even sometimes heartbreaking. Its nice to have a place to escape to. Thank you, Paola. Sending my love right back to you.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Oh! A fellow candle lover! You described it so well, it is such a huge source of comfort, especially when you are working on something (I should try colored pencils, I usually paint). Thank you for your service! ❤️ much love

[@happyhippytreehugger1283]

@@TheCottageFairy For me, color pencils travel well, and I don't have to worry about carrying water and other things with me for painting. I have been known to take my books and pencils up to my Smoky Mountains and sit for a while and color. It's a magical time where stress doesn't live. 🥰

[@BethGrantDeRoos]

I only wear natural fibers (cotton, linen, wool) and find some amazing used clothing items at specific thrift stores in my area, and I only buy an item if I NEED to replace the item. And even if an item has become unwearable after 10 years, I take it apart, cut in strips and make braided rugs or for quilts I make for others. Love the word Contentment, which I ponder when I sit outside and remind myself how blessed I am to know my needs are met and I have few wants. Since wants often denote 'stuff' I do not need.

[@kentuckylady7344]

I don't think any of us ever skip your any part of your videos. I know I never do. I love your videos, I love your stories and your kind voice. You are very calming to me. I love your theory on life and the way to live. Thank you for sharing with us.

[@stevewithers5317]

No, Thank you. You've changed our lives for the better!! ☺️

[@stephaniebrogdon4024]

Paola, as a mom to two young adults close to your age, I will say that being able to help them brings me happiness, when I see them trying so hard to be independent. I like to view help in a family as an ongoing circle, one day we are helping our children, and eventually they are helping us as we age. Sending you much love❤️

[@SisterShirley]

The Circle of Life.💞

[@kathieswan3830]

Wise words. At 65, l have been spending the last few years caring for grandparents until they passed, and now have the blessing of caring for my mother. We moved her in with my husband and l and while some days are difficult, l think of all she did for my brother and l. She isn't a burden but a blessing. We have come full circle.

[@christined2495]

No words truer said…

[@SannaJankarin]

Wtf? No

[@charliethompson7042]

Paola, you don't know how much I look forward to every new video you publish! I turn 70 next month and I relish your youthful outlook on life with each story you share. Watching this one had me pause and get my wife of 49 years to join in. You see, she, too, has a "candle addiction!" We laughed with you as my bride smiled, shook her head "YES!," and openly spoke to you as you described this shared malady! I think you have a new subscriber!!!

[@loipasaiseserdez1764]

Saludos a todos Bendiciones 🙏

[@christinebarone2151]

You are wise beyond your years. We are all excited to see what is next for you on your journey… Sending virtual hugs from sunny North Carolina

[@aplaceofstones8999]

Shine brightly Paola, sage advice you’re offering viewers

[@addyyy18]

I love your energy, you are so graceful! Thank you for posting each week and giving us some peace to take with us ❤️

[@SparrowMountain]

I love the idea of minimalism, and right now I'm just starkly poor with advantages (roof over my head, food on the plate, my own bedroom/studio, most of the technology I need, skill sets and so on) but if I had more than enough (my own home, friends, business, LOVE?) I am sure I would prefer a fireplace (the work needed to keep it going) compared to enough money to run electric heaters to the perfect temperature and simply forget all of those people struggling to remain warm. Everything costs something, but every good deed costs selflessness, and I think we can often be the ones who need a good deed done for us, and thus minimalism is good, we cause ourselves to value truth and the security of self and others instead of wealth. I hope you're taking relaxing measures to prepare your heart for your son. :) God bless Dave from Canada

[@benjaminbrewer2569]

I have a group of friends that talk about “mapping to someone.” It’s an expression that refers to learning through seeing someone do something and copying it by osmosis and harmonizing with it. All this to say I map to your gentle attentive love of the world around you and the quiet way you make your life a gift for your fans and viewers.

[@Saforra99]

That is a *wonderful* thing to map to :D

[@juliasugarbaker3859]

beautifully put

[@joanmyron]

I love that term, I'm going to use it too 😊

[@Phyllygirl1]

Who knew candlelight could look so beautiful through the popcorn? So lovely.

[@elizabethanne8729]

As a recovering candle hoarder, I simply break it into seasons. Spring is lilac scented candles, summer is peonies, fall is leather, smoke, sandalwood, tobacco and winter is pine or spruce. I do not deviate from my season strategy although if I found a good frankincense candle I would add that one to my winter roster. 🤣

[@FeetintheGrass]

That’s such a beautiful idea!

[@improvisedsurvival5967]

Charming woman. Gratitude attitude will get you far.

[@mmarsh17]

We send our love too and are so very proud of your own accomplishments ❤️. Look what you’ve done with this channel: it is a beacon for hope and humility, slow, quiet and peaceful living, and gratitude. We are grateful too

[@emibennett1357]

I don't miss your videos.They give me peace of mind.I have learn to go on a slower pace in life

[@therewillbecatswithgwenhwyfar]

I love that you found a solution for housing that makes your heart happy! Housing instability is incredibly stressful but being able to find a place that you can make your own in the place where you want to live is just magic! I’m so happy for you!

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you! Yes, having a home will make such a difference, it can be stressful not knowing when you will have to move. Until the last couple years I was constantly changing apartments, but I’m grateful it helped me shape my goals. Wishing you the best

[@greatbigbeautifultomorrow113]

@@TheCottageFairy Usually when I am alerted that your video posts I am feeding my 3 month old son. Your soothing video is what we both need at that time. You are what the world needs more of. I like the calming essence of your videos and your personality. I am sure more would agree we can listen to your stories for hours. The candle story made me laugh out loud. We all have something that we have too much of. Candles and books are my pleasure as well. I have a whole stack of books that I have yet to read. You have such passion. Thank you for being you and sharing your world with us.

[@sujathaan7225]

I also didnt have my own house till now my childhood was spent in rented home but i didnt know we were poor.we were happy ven in those conditions.now i have a home but the childhood happiness is only in memory.love bonding and laughter makes homes.

[@manutaputalatiu1051]

Hey friend you live your life like queen and princess in the wild life that must peaceful and beautiful place

[@Ashley4DS]

I never skip ahead on your videos. Every moment is unique and precious. Thank you for being so open and honest.🕯️

[@nnatey4977]

"I will no longer compare my path to others" awwww it catch my attention

[@heavenbound563]

Paola I received your cards yesterday and I just love them. They are so beautiful and they brought me back to when I was a child. They have put a smile on my face. I will cherish them always. Thank you so much. Keep painting it's a wonderful gift from God. I'm praying that you and your fiance will have a blessed marriage. I would like you to know that I'm reading The Wind in the Willows and Other Stories. I love all your video. God bless. From Ontario Canada.

[@georgigeranov9778]

What a soft voice to listen to

[@HomeHunter-in-Moscow]

OMG!!! Paola!!! These ice decorations are just so amazingly easy and brilliant!!! Yet, I’ve never ever thought about doing something like this!!! And I never even thought of getting them freeze outside, naturally 🙈 Stunning!!! Will try to repeat! ✨

[@Ladybird.21]

on my list of things to do with my young nieces now this winter in our water-winter wonderland in Michigan. So simple, creative, & lovely.

[@kimsjourney_]

Beautiful human. Thankful for genuine , comforting content. 🙏🏼

[@eliciakristine]

I always love your soft-spoken ways and kindness in this noisy, sometimes scary world. 🙏💗 Sending love from France 🇫🇷 and the US. 🇺🇸

[@rafikamelici5809]

Hi, I'm Rafika from Algeria, I like so much your videos, you are grateful for all you do to share us your interesting videos. I'm really passionate by your kind of life. Me too I live alone, so I know that isn't easy to fight every day, to have the same life than the others. But , living alone, is so sweet when we know the merit of the persons and things around us. Thank you and good luck.

[@karenroberts781]

Aw. You made me cry today, Paola. You are so sweet and I am certain that your parents are very, very proud of you. You have a remarkable head on your shoulders for one so young. I have a 28 year old son who lives in a basement apartment that I know isn’t really safe. He knows we are available to him for help, but he is trying to make a life for himself and do things on his own. It is very difficult for a parent to stand by a little helplessly and pray a lot for things to be ok for our kids. I’m so glad that things are really working out for you in your, and a happy love story as well. Thanks for sharing with us. ❤️

[@judithwurtz1301]

You’re so special and sweet!!!🥰😍

[@dekinquevedo5261]

Sorry for my english, i am beginner in this idiom but thank you for your videos, i like so much

[@megs4163]

Kindred spirit. I adore you. Thanks for sharing your light.

[@cassidygan159]

You are such a sunshine despite not earning much.

[@DEPARTMENTOFREDUNDANCYDEPT]

How to describe you, Paola? The words which come to mind are lovely, wise, thoughtful, insightful, kind, loving, creative, and genuine. You are a virtual fountain of empathy and loving kindness, and anyone who knows you personally must count you as one of their greatest blessings in life. This tired world could use a few million more just like you. Thank you for all the positive energy you bring into the world and into the lives of all who follow you on KZbin.

[@robertlee8995]

In this chaos world,I found peace in your vlog,thank you!

[@theartofnaturegermany]

You exude so much happiness and contentment ☺️ I love that so much, it's super inspiring!! A wonderful day to everyone 💚

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you! ❤️ It has been a lovely and peaceful time lately, lets me rejuvenate and deal with the ups and downs with more grace. Sending hugs and hope your day is beautiful

[@theartofnaturegermany]

@@TheCottageFairy That's so lovely! And thank you 🤗

[@AcornHillHomestead]

We too live in one of if not the poorest county in our state. I discovered this area on a family camping trip in 1971. I longed to come back here and did so over the years. My husband and I bought a mobile home near a big lake and rehabbed it in 2001. We found a foreclosure on 7 acres in 2008 and rehabbed it over 12 years for our retirement. We looked forward to the serenity of a slower rural life. A single developer has turned the area upside down with upscale log homes on larger lots, then the greed and density set in. Now we have a multitude of subdivisions packed with homes (purchased by big city people) all facing each other on fake lakes polluted with lawn chemicals that people are swimming in. Our forested areas are no longer and our wildlife is being slaughtered as these creeps speed down our country roads. One even ran and fell dead in our back yard. This is the second such dead deer in our woods since we moved here. One summer season 7 dead deer were spotted within a one mile stretch of road. Its become a travel destination now with vacation rentals popping up all over. My heart aches for the beauty lost forever here and we dont have the years left to make another such move. Not to mention property values and taxes are skyrocketing for the less fortunate residents who moved here for the reasonable living costs. They are being driven out.most of these subdivisions are second homes. These new homeowners now are complaining there is no shopping. Sheer madness.

[@nancypeteja6560]

I love your laugh....if candles are you worst addiction then so be it! You are so precious. I am glad the Fire Fighter woke you up and you were saved because you in turn save so many too! Your soft and simple way of being, your gentle and calming demeanor sends peaceful vibes through out the Universe that Love just bursts forth. Thank you for sharing your life with us and giving us a safe haven to come to in this busy World. Sending warm hugs from Florida 😊💖🌊🌴🍊

[@janshifferd972]

Paola you are remarkable! I am a 70 year young gal and have walked so many paths and learned so many lessons . I am thankful for my husband,my best friend that we gave done thus for 51 years ! We still walk hard lesson paths at this age! Bless you sweet girl!

[@TheGeekMonster]

Watching you prattle and giggle about your candles was so cute!! I love seeing you being a bit less formal and rehearsed. You have a natural humor and charm that is absolutely delightful! I hope you'll let this side of yourself peek through more often

[@eliseelise7504]

It's so cute when she rambles about the candles 😍😍😍

[@itsrainingrosemary]

before watching this, i was frantically looking for a cheaper place to stay for days. i'm about 2 minutes in and your words already made me realize that i should prioritize my health over saving money. i started to make a pro con list which all pros are connected to my health (i.e. clean air, calm environment, near nature etc) so i'm stopping as of now, not going to drive myself crazy for it until i at least feel better. so thank you thank you so much for the reminder 💕

[@jayatkinson1152]

You can NEVER have too many candles, my lovely! Your home must smell divine! XXXXXX

[@MrsLongJohnathans]

I absolutely loved the frozen items you hung outside!! So adorable

[@lanybaturiano1534]

The cottagefairy i love the way u leave and the way u do.i always watch your videos, very informative,inspiring.please make more vidoes.😊😊😊🥰

[@KL9702.]

I rarely watch many KZbin videos all the way through, and yours leaves me in such a trance, that I can't help but watch it all the way through. You're a lovely soul, and a talented artist. I'm going through one of the toughest times in my life, and your channel brings me peace.

[@juliasugarbaker3859]

Sending you love, K L. It's a hard time for me right now, too.

[@rightofwomaninindia9382]

Happy to know that u hv found love peace n stability in yr life n ate doing what makes u happy. God.bless both of u.

[@lin90210]

Candles are a good investment in my books. Needed in case of power cuts. Great for lighting one at night and switching off the electric lights in the home...30 candles gifted or bought will save you some on your electricity bill hehe

[@agilaeric1987]

12:36 Thanks for reminding us to seek to improve not only ourselves, but our communities as well. Take care, Paola

[@laurascholz7334]

I put extra candles, in my to go bags. (Emergency bags).

[@LilacHoney1023]

Since you always say thank you at the end of every video, I feel the need to comment on almost every video and tell you what an amazing and incredible human being you are. lol I just recently found your videos in the past few weeks and they have been a source of peace and hope for me, especially when I feel like crying or when I'm overwhelmed. So thank YOU for allowing us into your life and sharing all your magic and wisdom. You are an incredibly admirable woman and I am just full of gratitude that people like you exist.

[@johncairuspriol]

Hi😊....

[@loudfunstrawberry4127]

just found this channel yesterday and I am in awe. This calms me in so many ways

[@johnleo-yb1jv]

Hi sweet loud we can be friend

[@debbietodd8547]

Well, I think the universe was telling you that you absolutely didn't have enough candles so go ahead Paola and light up your little corner of the world💕🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯and thank you for bringing so much peace and joy to so many people

[@elvenaubade]

Hi, Paola, I don't know if you'd be comfortable with this request but I'd love a closet tour of sorts. I find your style so effortless yet cozy and whimsical. I know you mentioned you get most of your clothes from thrift store so I'm aware I won't be able to "get the look" so to speak but I'm sure it can lend some inspiration.

[@kerryhatch1736]

I, too, had to ask for financial help from my mama when I had absolutely no other alternative. I am such and independent (and yes, stubborn!) person and it was very hard for me to initiate that conversation. And I will be forever grateful for her help, which allowed me the opportunity to move into a safe and stable environment where, through hard work, I am able to fully support myself. Looking back, I see that decision to finally ask for help as being one of the bravest things I've done. Thank you for speaking so openly about your own experience, which resonated deeply with me!

[@phyllisharries2742]

Kerry, this happened to me too and it wasn’t easy to ask for help but I will always be grateful as long as I live. Best wishes.

[@marialefcovitch7920]

As someone who is extremely into candles in a big way. U can never have too many candles!!! I have 2 big shelves of them, boxes etc. I’m still finding boxes of them even now. So just enjoy them. Much love xxx💜💜💜

[@donnamartindale4121]

You are such a blessing, you are sunshine 🌞

[@CubanGirl-oo4pg]

The other day I visited a second hand store and I was amazed of the beautiful cloth it has. I couldn't leave the store without buying a few beautiful blouses, some sweaters and a pink suit that was new. I always enjoy your videos so much because you have such a magical and sweet personality.

[@nilsgrafo5999]

You are on an interesting journey, my dear, and I do sincerely hope that you can get the loan for your new house. 2022 is the first year for me without having any parents and it makes me wonder about life and of being "the next in line". Life is such a precious thing - beauty is everywhere. Wishing you all the best /Nils

[@sangeetayadav866]

we younger generation is grateful to you for your kind gesture! it is our fortune to have you guiding us. it is rare. from younger generation thankyou. the way you living is called simple life - living on necessary itmes.

[@missstephaniethemusicteacher]

Thank you for making my day so much more pleasurable . You are inspiring 💜

[@isrisentoday]

Great video. The narrator's voice is both compelling and calming and blends well with the hauntingly beautiful music. I thought I was going through a religious conversion while saving money. New sub here.

[@maryathey280]

You are so deserving of a new home for you and Luke and thank you for sharing with us as you do. Where I live, housing is very expensive - landlords upping the rents just because of the pandemic and people consequently losing housing because too expensive even for the dumpy ones and people losing jobs and now not either being able to go back to work either no jobs that fits their abilities or because of being too picky (i know a few like that) - I'm a senior citizen so I do have to watch my monies, income is not like when I was working making good money - didn't save as I had someone to rely on and now I don't - so my debt is one thing got to work on and trying - Paola, you are such an inspiration to all of us - even to this ole lady. Love listening to you and pray you you'll always be blest with your art and love for others. Til later....take care, stay safe and well. Yes, keeping cars in good drivable shape can be expensive but we need so we can go to grocery, pharmacy, and to work. ♥🤗

[@malissahyatt2425]

I love your candle story. Your excitement is adorable!!!

[@margaritalebedeva8856]

Thanks a lot Paola for amazing life story that you share with us! Money concerns sometimes just poison my life and make me choose jobs that are not appealing to me. This year I moved in rural area and decided to follow my dream and become a gardener. I'm excited and thrilled🙂 looking forward to this new jorney. Your videos is a huge support for those, who want to find the real way to go. Wishing you all the best! And hello from Latvia.

[@mariaetheridge8343]

Our children will ALWAYS come first... I speak for myself and other like-minded parents. I support my hospice charity where I buy a load of nice things and I then take that to the refugee centre: 2 birds, 1 stone! You are a sweet young woman; please stay safe and protected.

[@jolantakozakiewicz1654]

Thank you for another marvelous and truthful video . I’m anxiously waiting every week for a new content and you never disappoint. Greetings from rural PA . 😘

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you! This one turned out a bit chatty but it was a topic that resonated with me, so I found myself sharing a lot ❤️ I appreciate your kind words

[@elizabethfox3769]

Those icicle ornament you made are BRILLIANT! Such a clever, zero-waste outdoor decorating idea.

[@leslieW5177]

There are Angels among us, everywhere. My nephews have been members of my local volunteer fire department for many years. Their dedication to our small rural community is amazing. Thank you for sharing your story; you may have helped someone to a safer place. Take care 🙏💕

[@MrSpringfellow]

I am a man from the Far East. I am so grateful to have had a chance to view your channel and I wish I would be able to send you a few candles from my place.

[@uhuhuhaha5900]

There can’t be too many books and candles🥰

[@kimcartwright8111]

You are such a kind , thoughtful person. Thank goodness for firefighters and a wonderful family that gave you help when you needed it most. I love candles too. It's surprising how they affect my mood. I wish you the best for your future marriage and plans. You deserve it. Take care.

[@husna8031]

Your channel kept popping up on my KZbin's update videos everyday but I kept skipping it to choose the most trending of these days' topics or my daily interests. Until yesterday, an easy Sunday afternood before evening, I was bored with those world's trending news and celebrities' updates of showing their life styles, I didn't know I ended up click on one of your videos. It was so calming to me and I was so content with your personal beauty and how you've made your videos beautifully, I really enjoyed them. Now I am in another new path of my life. I've just quited my job that had been a big part of my life for 17 years. I also live in a country side, an hour away from the big city. I used to have a crazy hectic way of live when I still worked that I only had a little time for my self, my home, my pets, my plants, and the most important for God. Sometimes these days I feel so worry about my financial condition coz I'm still looking and considering what kind of job should I have to earn income. Since now I really enjoy being at home a lot, I guess I could do farming like planting hot chilly since people in my country (Indonesia) really like spice hot food. We never skip chilly in our dishes or meals, it's our just tradition and taste. Ofcourse farming is kinda a slow process to make money than working in a big city, but just like you've said I also conclude my self that our health especially mental health should come as our main priority in life. Just becoz we want to save or get a lot of money then we ignore what our body and soul need the most: peace. I feel that I couldn't keep up with a rush and fast city life anymore these days, especially after the pandemic. Even though the pandemic has been cooling down, many things have changed to new systems or ways, that's one of the reasons I quited my job. I can't stand to stay in the city too long with the covid protocols. Though I haven't reached my retirement age (more than a decade more to go), physically and mentally I felt so exhausted. So spending more time at home with my husband, pets, and garden in a suburbian area is good enough for me to cure my body and soul. I've realized that I've ruined them for more than 3 decades. Now I think it's okay to live under tight budget, it's okay to feel worry about money sometimes, it's okay just to wear old clothes, it's okay to see less people, but we can still be our selves, arrange our own time to work and to relax, enjoy our selves, and the most important to praise God more than ever who has given so much blesses in our live. Thank you so much Paola for your beautiful videos and for inspiring my soul. ~Love and frienship from Indonesia... 😻💝🙏

[@nandananambiar1317]

Thank you for this insightful video. It came at the perfect time💙 And I love how excited you get about candles😀

[@SherShahHashmatKhan]

One more thing to add, it is all so natural and real that your way has to be appreciated. The real natural self YOU !

[@cowfreezy]

in high stress situations be it a rough work day or anything of the sort, i have found just listening to you speak has been very calming no matter what the topic is. for this, i thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@SorbetCitron17]

Your frozen decorations are so amazing. Never thought about doing that.

[@PollyPlaysYT]

Personally I would love to see a video from you on candles. I would love to learn about all the things. Does bees wax last longer than others? What are your favorite scents? I love a good autumn spice. I wouldnt mind a candle video.

[@sheilaanderson912]

You, Paola, are worthy of all the candles in the world. Everyone is allowed a few indulgences and this is certainly innocuous. Especially when gifted from kind and grateful people. You should consider starting your own candle business. There are many people who teach this on KZbin and it would be another source of income for you. Best wishes!

[@Meja.keciiil]

This really is the perfect thing i need in the perfect time. I was just so anxious about quiting my job to try to manage my mental health and persue my art as a business. I can feel my throat clogged and shoulders tighten. Thanks to your video i can laugh a little, cry a little, and be more hopeful. someday i hope to be financially stable and not scare of money as well.

[@abeach5420]

📢📣📢 *Paola . . . YOU honestly deserve-it-ALLL* !! Do not ever why or how it has come to be . . . I *know people* and feel can *read* many so well. You *OUR* friend ARE GREAT PEOPLE!! You are where you need to and deserve to exist & be.

[@crazzie7]

I absolutely love how excited you got over all the new candles! A true collector! Nothing wrong with it. Enjoy them all!

[@PokemonLoverHeather]

The beginning where you’re gently opening books and caressing their covers brought a smile to my face. It’s obvious you love your bookstore. I chuckled at the candles. Don’t feel bad, my husband and I love candles a lot too and have quite a few. The story you told of the poor living situation tugged at my heart. I can resonate with that to a small degree having made a poor living decision when I moved out of my parent’s home. Glad to hear everything seems to be on the right track for you and your fiancé with the future moving plans. Your videos are always enjoyable to watch.

[@onnes608]

Lady, thank you! Whatever the payback of doing this is, it is nothing compering to what you bring to so many of us though your stories and videos. You deserve a fortune for opening your heart and teaching us what's important in this life. Thank you very much! 🙏🌌

[@elevationview673]

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