Let's answer your questions (because I'm snowed in) - money, bullying, moving on from youtube

Timestamps are below so you can skip to the question you are interested in! I was snowed in and unable to get outdoors for a long time due to plummeting temperatures, so my options were limited. So, I thought I’d just sit down and do a little QnA, in hopes that it can offer a cozy evening and opportunity for us to connect. Please let me know what your New Years goals or dreams are. Hope you can grab a cup of tea and enjoy this chat. Warm Wishes
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[@catholicpeaces6257]

I hope you make videos and sprinkle the fairydust for a lifetime! Your videos soothe and inspire so many of your fairy followers!

[@belindaknowles7440]

I agree!

[@SassySue67]

My thought exactly, her videos are so calming.

[@amybooth5458]

❤️❤️❤️

[@monicamcgahan]

Agree!😊

[@PrincessKladia]

Beautifully said 🌲 🧚‍♂️ ❤

[@TheCottageFairy]

I reached my limit this week as our temperatures were so low that both my camera and I just couldn’t handle being outdoors, so while I was a bit limited I hope you enjoy this simpler video. Things are already warming up over here and I am outdoors again with my puppy, see you again very soon ❤ do use timestamps in the description to skip to specific sections If I didn’t answer a specific question, I may have in a previous QnA: 1. my first sit down chat: answering more personal questions kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6rMpINtn9meo6M 2. Answering some questions on rural cottage life kzbin.info/www/bejne/g4KkiGmOltOabM0 3. More questions: kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4TCiHqEjMmbock Also, my Etsy shop has Re-opened! Yay! Thank you so so much for the support of my art! 🎉🎉🎉

[@emiliasolis6141]

Hi paola espero te encuentres bien espero beas este tex me refiero al extremado clima,paola puedes poner fecha de tus audios porfabor DIOS te bendiga

[@sajankarmakar4544]

Hi paola love from India , please make a video about your video making process , which camera , which lens and which software you use ,how you write your script . Thanks

[@dkm6054]

I love this video. Your words and views on bullying and negative people resonate so strongly with me and your advice makes a lot of sense. So many times I've reacted to negativity with more negativity, and of course that doesn't make me feel better. I think you're absolutely right: the best thing you can do (especially for your own sanity) is to try to have courage to not let other people define you based on their own insecurities and counteract their energy with a generous or kind deed for someone else. Another quote that I feel applies to what you're saying: Let them misunderstand you.

[@dra.veronica5048]

Ánimo con ese frío preciosa!

[@lanaheroin623]

Take care ❤ we love you!

[@trish3580]

A bit of an emotional rollercoaster I must admit. I was so glad to see you in my feed and then terrified to see mention of quitting youtube. I know others have said this - and I have too - there is no one like you on youtube - we've mentioned many times what makes you so special...you are the woman I wish I was at your age. Now at 60 I have many regrets and sadnesses as I have few years left and am "getting it" late in life- seeing you have "gotten it" at such a young age is so precious for me and it inspires me. I'll likely type more later but wanted to mention this as I quickly listened to the youtube answer and am now typing through tears...of gratitude. Wishing you all the very best.

[@littlefairyland763]

Me too... Seeing her success in young age...admired how she Know what she really want to do in her young age. At her age i knew nothing. I don't know what kind life i love to live... I spent my salary for nothing... Now i regret all... And try from the zero point again... Feel so many fear of what would happen but a challenging too.

[@amysimpson646]

Trish, I'm 54 and share your sentiment. Winter takes a toll on my depression but the last couple weeks have really been a battle. I feel like my time is nearing a end and I'm alone. Literally alone.

[@loving_love_loving]

Dear Amy, you are not alone. I hug you and i love you. I pray for you. I am here with you. Im literally alone too. But we are not alone. You have me. I have you. I know you don't know me and i don't know you, but doesn't matter. I love you and send you embrace. Elena from Russia. ❤❤❤​@@amysimpson646

[@luluandmeow]

I have dealt with bullies by looking after my body first, after I became vegan I lost a bit of weight and at 56 I started following fashion for the first time in years. I am on a budget but I treated myself to some nice clothes that fit me and look current. I make an effort to go out every day for a little walk to the park or to the shops, to do that I have to walk past the miserable bullies' house and I always have a serene smile on my face, at first I faked it, now I really feel it because I love walking and being in nature so it makes me happy. I try to find something good every day that makes me appreciate life, which is so fragile (my best friend died last year), even if it's just spending time with my cat or watching the birds eating from the garden feeders. I have become a positive person after being negative all my life despite the fact that the bullying continues (sadly I have no control over that). I hope 2023 will be a better year for everyone!

[@v.m.8472]

I have the same situation. Why some people bully confuses me. I didn’t need to lose weight but gain it. Stress, allergies and stones in my gallbladder caused me to become skeletal. People made fun of the fact I looked ill. I am almost normal looking now and people respond better to me but I would rather enjoy my animals, my home, my family and my husband.

[@madnessintomagic]

Good for you!

[@ellen823ful]

Your bullies may be secretly jealous of you. What do you think 💭

[@julies7427]

I left my last job as a cleaner in a care home five years ago. I had put up with toxic people trying to undermine me and my work. I have had this behaviour from young toward myself at school and work. I started to believe it was my fault and was an unlikable person. I decided that I couldn't work in mainstream employment with other people and became anxious about finances. Now I am cleaning for people in my village who appreciate me and are grateful for my help. I don't know why people bully , but I have come to the conclusion they are unhappy in their lives. Be what you are and sod the haters. From Uk

[@madnessintomagic]

@@Meirins Newsflash: Invalidation is a form of bullying. Way to go.

[@lifetogether4782]

You are like the best friend I always wish I had growing up. I, too, am an introvert and am introspective soul. I am sitting here today snuggled up with your book and it is enwrapping me in warmth and coziness. Please keep writing. Your style is absolutely beautiful!

[@bethfarley6969]

Loyal viewer-don’t change anything about yourself. Love the Q and A. Love your transparency. Happy New Year.

[@thelittlebluefrog]

Please don't stop making KZbin videos. I just discovered this channel and it kind of saved me.

[@lw7948]

Your last point about returning hurtful comments with kindness toward others reminded me of a verse: "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." Thank you for sitting with us and sharing your thoughts today!

[@govoryaschaya]

"People's negative actions towards you often say a lot more about them than they do about you" - thank you for these words, Paola 🥰 that was healing 🥹

[@ritagreene8376]

Sometimes I wish I could double "like" you.

[@strangetimez]

Right? Her softness and kindness is one of a kind that our world needs so much! ... definitely a double,triple like on Paola's beautiful work

[@stephanied5460]

I was told by another woman that they saw me as someone who lives being my authentic self. I am in my 50s and honestly you care less what other people think the older you get. My authentic self is definitely fed by quiet time in nature, doing any kind of art or craft, photography, time with friends (mostly I have introvert friends who understand me) and living my faith. Even in my 50s I struggle with introversion where people feel hurt or rejected because I am often in my own little world. My goal for 2023 is to be better at reaching out to others so they know they are loved and appreciated.

[@whatbringsmepeace]

My rabbit pictures, bookmarks and stickers arrived this week in Australia, Paola, and it made my heart so happy to open them. They're so beautiful. Over the last year while I've been watching your videos I've developed a rabbit theme at my house with cushions, figurines, wall art and now your lovely cards which sit on my coffee table to be admired every morning while I have my coffee and do journaling. Alice in Wonderland was always my favourite book, and rabbits are such non threatening animals (I'm scared of dogs) being surrounded by rabbits is very soothing. We're not allowed to have them as pets in Queensland because we don't have predators for them and they'd breed uncontrollably and ruin crops, so I can only imagine how lovely it was to have Mr Darcy in your life. Anyway, thank you for your lovely whimsical artworks which I have already had so much pleasure from. You are a very soothing influence on my life and I'm so grateful for that. Blessings to you and Luke for the new year. You deserve every good thing.

[@wajban9773]

Very nice words

[@debb9695]

Who could ever bully you. You are such a good soul. Many many Blessings.

[@ritagreene8376]

That was so sweet. My advice to people that do not like your channel to look elsewhere for something that they may like. We are here because we love you and enjoy our time with you. You are a blessing to our world. May 2023 be all you want it to be.

[@julijajaramaz8127]

I totally agree with you. Her videos are so relaxing

[@maryanngulotta900]

Thank you! I appreciated the end when you spoke on negative people. "Hurt people hurt people." Their negativity or unforgiveness speaks more about them than about you. That was freeing. I hope I can remember this as I continue my journey. It's so easy to allow others to rob us of joy, when we drink in their words.

[@SkySpiral8]

Thank you for your words on teaching. I left teaching after 7 years full-time (and 3 years in childcare) because we aren’t treated well or paid fairly and most importantly, it was impossible for me to achieve a healthy work-life balance. I admire teachers because I know what it’s like!

[@ResetEDU]

Came here to say the same thing. ❤️

[@dianesavant2818]

You bring peace and healing to my life. For as long as your channel remains, I will consider myself blessed.

[@carolinehovannesjan7992]

Dear Paola, I wish you and your family a very cosy and beautiful time and a peaceful start of 2023. Lots of love!

[@joannewolfe5688]

I'm enjoying reading your book, which I gave myself for Christmas! It's lovely -- please be proud of creating it! Thank you for adding joy and sweetness to the world.

[@andreaoloughlin3278]

I am still waiting for mine. Hasn't arrived here in Australia. Hope it comes soon. Xx

[@themistermax]

I gave my daughter a copy, she was so excited, even though she really didn't know Paola's channel. Working on that!

[@KLynn998]

As a fellow Sagittarius, I just adore your humble and very wise spirit❤

[@melissar6365]

Thank you for commenting that if you don’t read often, you haven’t failed. As a single woman who works full time with an hour plus commute each way, manages a home and has aging parents that I see several times a week, I find it very hard to sit down and take time to read. If I do, I often fall asleep. I could listen to audio books, but I like the feel of holding a book and turning the pages. I buy books and have a draw full by my bed. I have the desire and it is a goal, but I get so irked at friends who say have you read this? What, you didn’t read that? Most of them don’t work, have been in books clubs, they have housekeepers, their children are grown etc… I have none of that (except I don’t have children). Our lifestyles are different, not better or worse, but different. I prefer music to unwind, or being artistic in some form. The way they made me feel for not reading the most hyped, trendy book was terrible and made me feel “less”. Mind you, I was an English major. I’m sure none of them read Shakespeare, Joyce or Chaucer. And, I’m pretty sure I could write a short story just as well as they can comprise a financial spreadsheet or prepare a 6 course meal. So, for all the “wish we could non-readers”, I thank you for the validation!

[@katashley1031]

I need that reminder because I'm a reader and writer but my husband is a photographer and almost entirely visual. I know sometimes I tease him about not reading and I need to stop that. His way of experiencing the world and expressing himself or relaxing is every bit as wonderful and valid, and so is yours. :)

[@chey.ennemueller]

Oh my gosh, I needed this too. And we share a similar experience! Also an English major lol best wishes! Hope you find the time!

[@AdaraBalabusta]

Hi, Melissa. Another English major here. I resisted buying an e-reader for years until one of my children gave me a Kindle. Now, I read more than ever because I keep Kindilyn (her name) in my purse and read at odd moments during the day. HTH. ❤️

[@Iksvomid]

I read this and it is as beautiful as any book I've ever read. Sometimes it isn't the book on the outside that counts but the book on the inside.

[@luluandmeow]

You might want to reconsider spending time with people who make you feel less (they're just advertising they're no happy with their lives). Don't be afraid to let them go if you feel unhappy after seeing them. It'll be a weight off your shoulders. Your life is valuable and good, you sound like a really lovely person that I would want to be friends with. Your "friends" lack kindness, you are open-hearted, artistic and supportive, please be nice to yourself too by distancing yourself from toxic people, even if that means having a smaller social circle. In my experience unkind people do not change and it's not worth having a frank conversation with them. I don't have a large social circle (by choice) but I am friendly with people when I'm out and about and these short conversations can also be fulfilling until you find new friends naturally or through a meet-up website or similar, if that is want you want. I hope you have a happy and healthy new year.

[@christinamoss8508]

Thank you for this tea party format. Your videos bring me peace and contentment whether you are on a nature walk, cooking, or chatting with your fairy friends. Happy New Year, Paola and Luke🎉

[@saltlife9495]

I have trouble falling asleep. But when I lay and watch your videos, it calms me enough so I am able to sleep like a baby. Thank you for being such a wonderful person in so many people's lives.

[@michele8083]

Same with me !

[@chloelanematentji3816]

Me too 😂😂😂😂I just fall asleep so easily just by listening to her voice ❤❤❤❤

[@mscatnipper2359]

Paola, I loved every minute of this winter time chat. The more I learn about you, the more I resonate with you. As an elderly woman who has gained wisdom through many difficult experiences and emotional/psychological/physical challenges, I feel confident in recognizing you as an old soul in a radiantly beautiful body. I look forward to being blessed by your continuing creativity in its many forms, and I am so thankful I found your channel.

[@Otaku_Nerds]

This video randomly showed up in my feed today. I have been stressed this week. I have to say, this made my day so much better! 💖💖💖 Hope you have a lovely day! ☺️

[@jennifernash9117]

Definitely go back and watch the other videos on this ladies channel (if you can). I found it randomly over two years ago and have followed ever since. Really good at helping restore peacefulness to my life. I see her weekly videos as a treat and a time to stop the stresses of my life and just be at peace. Hope you find peace too! ❤

[@juliaperry5244]

Hugs to you

[@pamwilliams6630]

I think her videos are so special b/c she only does once a week and not daily!!

[@mariahalphen5520]

Welcome to the club. I love Paola's videos...she is such a wonderful soul. Definitely recommend you watch her previous videos....

[@luluandmeow]

Sometimes a random video can really change your life, for example I became plant-based after a vegan video popped onto my screen and it has led to amazing health (and weight loss), I actually bless the algorythm!

[@cindy7702]

Just received your book.. I love it.. You are so very talented.. I love your simplicity of life in seeing beauty and kindness all around you. Thank you for showing us..

[@katharenchamberlain5721]

You’re a therapist and life coach to many; a soft place to land for legions of others.

[@happyvaper5748]

I happened upon your uploads a little while ago now Ma'am, and the more i followed your streams' the more they simply enveloped me in captivity in an awe inspiring way. Thank you so greatly for being the individual you are and sharing these moments with us all, as i believe they shower us with a jolt of delightful calmness which assists in grounding us. A sincere and very prosperous 2023 to both yourself and your husband Ma'am, and may your dreams and wishes for a better and kinder world all come to fruition. Peace and Love Ma'am.

[@ed8329]

Paola, thank you for speaking about how it's ok to feel hurt when people are unkind. I can be hard on myself for not being more tough. But it really hurts my feelings when people are mean!

[@janmoore6340]

Paola I want to applaud your bravery. In my youth, I too hesitated voicing my thoughts and views. Life has hardened me to where I hesitate no longer. The Holy Spirit is restoring my sweetness once again. I pray for your continued strength in going out of your comfort zone. I appreciate your creative efforts. Love from Texas❤

[@cheri7384]

Oops...forgot something! Thank you for what you said about teachers. I taught for 40 1/2 years:)

[@GabrielTucker721]

The Christmas decorations are beautiful. I’m looking forward to 2023 Cottage Fairy videos that mean a lot to you.

[@debika1]

Paola, The book: The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse By Charlie Mackesy is now made into a short 30min animated movie. It’s so super cute.🥰

[@maybee...]

I love that phrase "hurt people hurt people" and it really does say more about the person than it says about you. Someone once said to me "you have to choose your battles", I choose to let things go, others will remember them more than they will remember you.

[@Susan-om1en]

I enjoy taking time to watch and listen to you. I love your beautiful artwork. Very wise approach on people who judge and bully. Thank you for sharing.

[@hhl2296]

I agree! The part on bullying was so helpful! Thank you so much for being such an inspiration.

[@jewelcopeland3374]

I love , and hope l will remember the saying : hurt people , hurt people . So true , that's why the bible tells us to love our enemies . The could actually become a friend some day , then you can understand they're pain and therefore , they're negativity .

[@ildiko1vt]

you are one of the most authentic young women out there speaking your truth so sensitively and beautifully! Your words and gentleness are much needed in our world! ♥

[@valdkynd]

Love your honesty, integrity, kindness and loving presence, thank you so much for sharing beauty, truth and the magic of a simple everyday life with us. So much love from the UK xx

[@hannahbrackett4067]

Your videos are my favorite to watch to relax, you have such a wonderful demeanor and your content is so inspiring!

[@Mandysfarm]

Thank you for this. Especially your take on cyber bullies. I have had a lot on my channel over the last year and struggling with mental health makes it much harder to ignore them at times. But now I just ignore and delete the comment and try to let it go and not take it to heart as you say hurt people hurt others.

[@paulaadams1765]

Paola, I bought your book at my local independent bookstore in Southern California. I enjoy your words of wisdom and uplifting spirit of making nature a part of who you are. Kindness, tolerance and respect for one another never gets old. I also love seeing your pets in your videos - they no doubt give you much joy and comfort as pets always do. Many blessings in 2023 to you, Luke and your families, and always.

[@Sage555n]

Paola, here's a prophetic message. You WILL have a new bunny! Hopefully, this year...Keep looking. You WILL find her soon. She's destined to be in your life and her name WILL be as unique as Mr. Darcy's name was...

[@mylolita]

Paola, you make us all aspire to be closer to our authentic self. I often close my eyes on a night, and to soothe myself, a vision of a cottage covered in snow in the woods always comes to mind. I know me, my husband and our three small children would potentially thrive somewhere like that. You inspire me! We live in a small town by the coast, in a beautiful house, so I can’t complain… but at 33, I feel like I need to stop compromising and trying to impress people who mean nothing too me and don’t mind me much back! Please keep on - you are so beautiful, and your life is fresh and gentle, just like you! Your baby is in for the best Mum and Dad and lifestyle EVER! X

[@gwynn2528]

One of my favorite words of advice is: “If you’re walking and see elephant tracks, you can keep going, if you’re walking and find lion tracks, you can keep going, if you are walking and find human tracks, turn back as quite as possible and leave the way you came.”

[@seedy6538]

I enjoy listening to audio books. I work in a creative job, and listen throughout the day. I grew up without TV and now enjoy spoken stories. 😁

[@bookscorpion]

I'm so sorry for your loss of sweet, gentle Mr. Darcy 💙 He was such a wonderful friend & will be missed!

[@marypeach8]

You are such a delight…your loving kindness & creativity have meant so much to your viewers❣️Abundant blessings 🌺💜🌺

[@patriciabryce6196]

So much wisdom from one so young! I've been watching your channel from the beginning and I love the way you are living into not just your artistry but your humanity. You challenge me to expand my own human reach. Thank you❣️

[@kimmberlie573]

You capture the most stunning video. Your life looks so ascetically beautiful. Your voice is so soothing and warm. Your heart so kind and caring. Thanks so much for sharing what you do.

[@lindaconnelly7836]

You're very wise for someone so young.

[@jenniferkessener1111]

This felt like a lovely visit with you! Very cozy, and a pretty corner of your home. I enjoy everything you share, and look forward to what you have ahead.

[@gardnep]

So much sense and sensitivity in someone so young. Thanks for your journey. I have lost my wonderful kind and gentle fairy who guided and saved me through life. I am lost without her. Keep safe.

[@francescawollaston2227]

Dearest Paola, I must congratulate you on your latest book. It is absolutely wonderful. I took it on my honeymoon and in those quiet moments, I read it cover to cover and savoured every, single, wise and beautiful word. You have a knack of making me so calm, more mindful and more aware of my surroundings, than anyone else I know. I see you more as a beautiful sister than a blogger and am eternally grateful to have gotten to know you more, through your book and KZbin videos. If only the world was full of Paola’s - what a truly magical world it would be. Thank you for you ❤️💐🌻🌺🎄

[@sarahjmorelli]

I love the simple rustic beauty and wisdom of your channel.

[@jenniferlundquist1712]

I love the part about your husband it makes me feel very happy that someone can experience such a wonderful thing

[@Grace_oGD]

It's so beautiful that you got to have a 60 something year old friend at a young age. I relish in the wisdom of older people. I love and appreciate them so much. I wish I was surrounded by many. This life needs the wisdom of those who walked it before our time. ❤🕯🙏🏿

[@lynnieley]

Thank you for your kind words about childcare providers. I have run a home daycare for 43 years! It’s been a lot of fun and a lot of work. ❤

[@illyanclement_]

your videos are so serene, I always look forward to seeing a notification from your channel

[@lindaayala6541]

Like Otaku nerd you showed up for the 1st time today in my KZbin feed. It is uncanny how many things you addressed that are pertinent not only to me but my daughter who I think is close to you in age. Everything from bullying to book writing and everything in between! I subscribed and am sending my daughter the link. My son and I had a misunderstanding yesterday and he said things with a hurtful tone so your advice concerning that was particularly helpful for me. Thank you you for putting your uplifting positivity out into the world. It is just what I needed to hear. ❤️🙏🏼❤️

[@EnfinLibreNM]

"Hurt people hurt people". There's someone I know who constantly says mean and rude things to everyone. I was talking with her mother yesterday and that's something that I told her. But hurt people also need to just let go of their pain and their hurt or they'll just continue to live in their own pain. Thank you so much for this video. I've really enjoyed learning more about you and your life. I hope you have a wonderful New Year.

[@elizabethwidlund3859]

My husband got me your book for Christmas, and I can't wait to start reading it!

[@Vanessa-fr1ho]

Dear Paola, I was so happy to see Mr. Darcy again. I really miss him so much. Maybe there will be a summary of some nice moments of him. Take care!

[@zuzanapcolova2347]

Dear Paola, we watch the weather in your place and think about you, how difficult it is for you, on the other hand, in Slovakia, instead of winter, we have spring and unusually warm, I believe that you are fine, we like you all, happy year 2023, lots of health, joy and sunshine in the soul

[@manoukvanhal]

I had to pause the video to visit your etsy shop and immediately purchased something! Your art is amazing :)

[@hilltopvt]

I live in the country, next to the largest section of forest in my small town. We feel excited and lucky when we see a fox, cougar, deer, coyote, racoon etc - they are frightened of US, and avoid us as much as possible! A cozy little tea party with kind gentle wisdom - I feel so peaceful and happy after any of your videos 💝

[@justinewhite-hadley3138]

Being surrounded by trees feels like a big hug-THAT is the most perfect explanation of trees I've Ever heard! I couldn't agree more!! I grew up in a tree filled town, Grass Valley Ca then spent 7 yrs in Southern California. I got depressed. Literally. No season changes, perpetually sunny and warm, no snow barley any rain. I know live in the hills of the Napa Valley. It's just like my childhood town but smaller. I'm so glad you're surrounded by tree friends too! 💗

[@bettybryson9637]

I love that your best friend was an older person! As an older person myself, I’m super blessed to have the gift a young lady as a friend who loves me and who I can love back!

[@kathykeough6598]

I loved, loved, loved this quiet lovely talk with you. Just listening to you is encouraging and hopeful. Thank you for sharing this intimate time with us....1.2 million of us...not to overwhelm!!

[@marciabyram6003]

Aww, I can't imagine anyone bulling you or your work. I'm sorry. I wish they would try to bully me instead! Ha, ha! Bring it on. 🤠👾 Like the clothes advice. It was so true. I love comfort and warmth and wear boots everyday because I own large livestock; mules. Happy New Year and here is to warmer weather! ☀🎉🥳🍷

[@Sthemingway]

Some hurt people hurt people (on purpose or unconsciously). Some other hurt people just want to be left alone. Some happy people don't understand how anyone could get so down or stay down for a prolonged period of time. Some other happy people, as you mentioned, have no compulsion to behave unkindly to strangers. Everyone else? Just wants to bide their time doing what gives them a modicum of relief or fulfillment.

[@katrina4013]

My husband is from Afghanistan and he showed me how to open a pomegranite a long time ago. You cut of the top score it with a cross and then pry it open. All the seeds remain whole that way.

[@desertrose128]

A friend gave me a book for Christmas that reminded me of you- " Garden Spells" can't wait to start it. All the best for the coming year, may all our dreams come true!

[@jannimarys465]

This was a fun little Q & A. Your weekly videos are always a highlight of my week. Wishing you and Luke a wonderful 2023.

[@janetclaireSays]

Your home looks so cozy and this video was a very pleasant break in the day!

[@livingitup9647]

Ahhhh… that was lovely! And I especially appreciated all you said about hate and bullying and how to rebalance oneself. It’s always helpful to listen to heart-centered people as they share their own wisdom. Your wisdom - particularly acquired at such a young age - is a wonderful gift to share, and helps to weave the fabric of the human collective… which we need now, perhaps more than ever❣️🙏🏻🌟💞

[@SakshiSingh-oi8tg]

This indeed felt like a warm tea party ☕️ . This community is so calming. It's more like a little ritual of mine to see your videos and, at the end, go through these comments, all posted by such kind people. You are winning in life. You are such a lovely person. I wish you the beautiful closure to this year and a wonderful start for the next ✨️

[@Sage555n]

Wow, Paola graced us with a 24 minute video! I can't remember a time she has done that since I found her channel. I wish Paola could do that more often for us.

[@laceymcgraw6571]

Thank you so much for saying that about childcare workers! At minute 8:45 I paused the video to have a good cry.. I had no idea how much I needed to hear that!! Fuel to relight my fire for 2023

[@KATIEKATEish]

For 2023 my intentions are creation, connection, alignment and health. Happiness to you and all viewers in 2023…

[@deidrespencer5467]

Thank you for this delightful chat, Paola. It is just as enjoyable as your other videos. Stay warm & safe. Love from Australia 🙏 💞

[@lynnesnyder674]

I don't know how I missed the passing of your dear, sweet bunny. I am so sorry for your loss. They just don't live as long as us. It sucks. It makes me cry- especially for you. I personally think you will be able to be with your fur babies again. Cherish the memories. You help others to have the courage to be themselves in theseconfusing time s. Thank you for being you.

[@shelbyshawn4944]

In order to avoid ‘distraction of technology’, we have been turning off our router each weekend these past few months - much more easy to focus on reading books and connecting with each other. It also makes the weekends seem longer. I highly recommend it!

[@terryfeally6633]

I am a firm believer in early education,childcare...But I worry that those who are at the end of life get neglected. They gave and did their time,but sadly get tossed aside once they cannot contribute like they previously could. If not for them we would not be here and be in the position to do all of our soul searching and exploring.

[@lindawilson8434]

Yes elders seem to be abandoned

[@jengonzalez8651]

Absolutely LOVE the sit down Q&A formats!!! Have a wonderfully blessed rest of the week! ❄️

[@HL-xz8zf]

I love that your bunny was called Mr Darcy. My bunny was named Bingley and was a little black bunny. Sorry to hear that your bunny passed away. They are such sweet little creatures. ❤️⚘️

[@lunalucid]

Awww, I was just thinking of Mr Darcy last week and hoping you were doing well on your first Christmas with him watching from the other side of the rainbow bridge. He sure had the most beautiful life with you! ❤️ It's been many years since my bunnies passed on and I still miss them and think of them around Christmas time (just like I think of other family members who have passed on).

[@notdone1975]

I've had a rough childhood and found comfort in the forest,my closest friends was an old large coyote.I fed him hotdogs whenever I could.We walked many miles together with my arm around his neck.I still love sitting in the deepest part of the forest and feed many types of birds by hand .Today I'm 69 yrs young.

[@HooliganMomma]

"Hurt people hurt people!" TRUE!! Thank you for this Q&A...I love it...love your channel...love you and all you share!! Happy New Year to you and your Husband!!! xo

[@sweetstufff]

I love your advice about bullying. Very wise words! Thank you! Have a happy New Year!

[@heatherh.197]

I'm waiting in the lobby of a diagnostic center. Trying to find out what is going on with my health. I'm a women of faith but I'm tuning into the Cottage fairy to get more calm. God bless you

[@katelynmcdonald5342]

you became my favorite person when you said sushi was your're favorite food. Warms my heart.

[@pearle3777]

Loved this video. Particularly, the last portion about bully’s and people who hurt you. Yes indeed, “ hurt people, hurt people “. I hope you continue to make videos! They are fun, and I feel like I catch up with an old friend every week. Happy New Year Paola!

[@dandushlopez8606]

I'm following your videos for a while now and I just want to pop here to say thank you very much, for you - being who you are. You inspire me in so many ways and for that, I want to say once again - big big thank you... you are incredible... keep being you...

[@caliiesgirl]

It breaks my heart to hear that you've had to deal with online bullying. You are hands down one of the sweetest, most down to earth content creators I've come across. I've been going through a really hard time, and your videos have been an absolute inspiration to me. I really appreciate your thoughts and experiences as I really relate to a lot of them. Watching you gives me hope that so long as I continue to work hard on myself, I can become the gentle, kindred spirit I have always hoped to be. Thank you so much for being you, I wish you all the love and kindness you've given to us viewers in return. ❤

[@kristinataddei8138]

Here I was thinking Paola lived in Montana, Wyoming, or Colorado.....she is the poster child for being able to eat sugar and have a healthy, happy glow(so proud of her for admitting she has a sweet tooth out loud).....I love how diverse she(Paola) is and her channel, as well.....thank you for sharing your life and talents....I too love the out doors and feel my best self when in it....

[@linda4th]

Wishing you, Luke and the furbabies a Peaceful and Happy New Year xx.

[@torilshusoghage7017]

Your videos are so relaxing and beautiful. So glad I found this channel. Wishing you and Luke all the best for the new year. Greetings from Norway.

[@atolikinimi3153]

During these fast changing times, your videos have calming effects and they are all so unreal and picturesque, like straight out out of books and photo romance magazine s.

[@Leeny01]

Paola. I love your videos, your art, and your spirit. Thanks for making this video. I think people deserve to be compensated for the work that they do. If you want to make sponsored videos, please don’t let anyone give you a hard time. We know you have integrity, and would only sponsor products you believe in. You deserve to make a living wage for all you do. Lots of love.

[@andeechristian9436]

Coming out of a cold spell in SE Wisconsin, stuck indoors, look forward to hearing from you. I pick up your book next week! Also, I work with people with disabilities who have difficulties reading physical books for whatever reason, and I try to encourage audiobooks. Looking out a window, or painting, or crafting, or meditation while listening to an audiobook can be just as enlightening as holding a book and reading.

[@susanclark8654]

I for one am very happy you make these videos. They are beautiful and encouraging and just put a smile on my face, especially when I'm having a bad day. I appreciate you. Many best wishes to you and Luke for the coming year!! P.S. I hope you get to keep your bookshop job, sounds a dream. I would spend my entire check on books to bring home!! :)