I Spent 12 Years In Jail For A Murder I Did Not Commit! Raphael Rowe

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

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[@TwistedIllusionUK]

Okay fine. I’ll click a button. You ask so much of me.

[@richardwilliams7218]

Absolutely brilliant my family and I couldn’t stop watching thank you so much guys

[@blackrose8643]

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[@journeyofcompassion9001]

I was so happy when I saw that you have Raphael on the Podcast as I watched the the series on Netflix last year.

[@thewalrus1968]

dont get it... you witness violence and experience it as a child.. then use it as an excuse to be an abuser... sad and weak imho

[@realtalkwithross]

Reach out to your son. He was 12, probably angry and probably spent the last 12 years being told you're a bad person. My dad never reached out and I was 11 when he walked out on me. From my perspective I always thought it was him that needed to fight for my acceptance and attention, forgiveness and by the time I became an adult I felt I never needed him in the first place. However, if he called and apologised to me and was genuinely sincere about it, I would have probably met him, sadly that's never happened. You'll regret it if you never try...

[@frederickhenley8897]

@@slattisreal you are so right. My dad passed away 2 months ago while he was trying to have a relationship with me I denied it. I believe the lies my mom told me over my dad's truth finding out months later too late. A lot of times us as children we will convict our fathers without hearing the whole truth. I hope and pray Ross take your advice .

[@yasminharris243]

100% reach out and don’t give up as it took me 27 years to be able sit down with dad to realise what he went through to understand not to hate and it mad about his actions and to accept the repercussions of his life to who he became. It takes an adult to understand life and put our self in other persons shoes. Not that, that’s an excuse but we can understand more as adults to make our own decisions and assumptions. As as a child we take on what our loved ones think around us may it be wrong or right

[@timffoster6301]

My dad was very present in my life. He was my hero. I understand that some are not as fortunate as me. This young man doesn’t know what he’s missing out on. Your dad is capable of being a hero. What a guy!

[@bernicewalsh3432]

Perhaps his son would be better without him if he'd be too bossy. You know.

[@cindy652]

@@frederickhenley8897 I believe that children learn from their parents. So if a parent demonstrates to the child that he/she is not worth putting aside their fears to try to develop a relationship with that child, the child will definitely internalize that and would not know how to start the relationship with the parent. I believe the onus is on the person who has the most power in that relationship, i.e., the parent. My sister's daughter was prevented from spending time with my sister. My niece were told a lot of lies by her father. He tried everything within his power to keep my niece from my sister. My sister had to go to court so that she could be with her child. Anyone who has had to depend on the courts to decide who their child should live with knows it is a nightmare. Family members encouraged my sister to not bother with fighting in court, and to wait until her daughter was grown up to try to connect with her. My sister wanted my niece to know that she would do anything to have her in her life, however, my niece still rejected her. My sister's efforts paid off eventually, though, because my niece is 28 years now and she and my sister are very close. She's old enough now to say that she wanted to be with her mom (my sister), but was too scared to ask because she felt like it would have made her dad angry.

[@naiyalexic]

This channel needs at least a billion subscribers. Every episode is absolute gold.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Government is NEVER your friend

[@SirHefty]

Raphael Rowe is one of the best stories I've ever heard, such a strong minded guy - props to him for the best show on Netflix too

[@MrNiceHk]

Interviewer is an absolute natural and shows wisdom and poise well beyond his tender years, kudos. I adore Raphael, such character and thoughtfulness. I binged watched his entire series, such and authentic person and tough as nails which usually comes in a quite package

[@juliechurley2716]

Same. He has real charisma. Loved his prison series- very enlightening

[@paulomoteso]

Wow!! 2 hours flew by!! Didn't want it to end. Raphael's story should be a movie. Captivating from start to finish. Thank you Steven. This podcast is changing lives.

[@blackrose8643]

I was just thinking that I'd love to watch a movie based on his story.

[@sherilicious6446]

OMG yes. This needs to be a film!

[@QWSAZXCDEC]

I agree. Why haven't they done a movie on this guys life. This story is incredible, and I'd love to know more on how he stayed so strong every day and night fighting in that prison for his freedom.

[@fifilamoore1718]

I agree it would be a very powerful life changing experience,I then would like to see a film to expose all those involvement in having a hand or even a finger in knowing to their core that he was framed and used as a scapegoat due to the colour of his skin and upbringing as an excuse to pin it on him. As you’ve not going to find a white educated person who where brought up in a upper class manner . I honestly don’t know how these people sleep at night to be honest, the guilt would eat me alive how ever I don’t lie either.🫶🏻fifi

[@basharstats4482]

u surely can watch wall paint dry for 12 hours and enjoy it. so boring 😩

[@Alan78941]

This has to be everyone’s worse nightmare, being falsely accused of the most unforgivable crime and everyone you cared about not believing you. I remember I once read a news article online years ago about how a man survived a death row sentence after he was falsely accused of assaulting woman and then brutally murdering her and nearly every single evidence pointed at him and despite taking a polygraph test to prove his innocence, he was still convicted. Apparently the crime happened around a time when there wasn’t that much forensic science and he also had a history of untreated cardiac problems so he looked guilty as sin at the time and the poor man did not get released from prison until he was old and frail. Thankfully somebody heard his pleas and decided to get the case reopened with modern forensic work and he requested another test which actually showed he was innocent but the poor guy will never ever get the 70 years of his life back, it’s truly heartbreaking 😢💔

[@mkatekochabalala5759]

Sounds like Ron Williamson. The account of his wrongful arrest and imprisonment is well captured by John Grisham's the Innocent Man. A very captivating book that has helped me make a firm decision about the reintroduction of the death sentence.

[@kellyrichardson9562]

Wow... the diversity of this content just gets better and better. These are the types of stories we need to hear and I'm glad this is over 2 hours. Thanks guys. I'll be commenting again when I'm done.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thank you! Let me know what you think 🙏🏽

[@talentsherpa]

He’s describing a world that runs parallel to the rest of the world. I was sent to jail because somebody lied and the police believed her story without even investigating because, just like Raphael’s case, if they had done their job of investigating, the truth was right under their noses. I had to rebuild my life, and rebuild my business after paying thousands to the lawyers. Now, I’m launching a tech company and will take that same technology to benefit those of us who have found ourselves without a home. Thank you to both of you

[@TT.3123]

I’m sorry that there were years of your life that got taken from you 😢 but what a powerful ending to your story that you took back what was robbed from you and did something good with it for society. Very moving!

[@SamboDestroyer]

Same thing happened to me!

[@lipocordy1245]

You raped some one wrongen

[@Mossyz.]

This is why you should never talk to the police....They DO destroy lives !!

[@angelicamichelle1646]

Wow can you share ? Im terrified of becomeing homeless. Ive thought i donr the right things ffollowed 5he rules now im in a legal battel that could leave me homeless

[@lee-annedaly8681]

Excellent podcast. Reminds me of the miscarriages of justice witnessed by many Irish men and women over the years of the troubles. Dehumanised every step of the way. Glad that these conversations are able to take place. Gang life, racism, terrorism an reasons why. Great work Steve and all the team. Amazing! Thank you.

[@suzanneaylieff-phillips2822]

I grew up with notes on doors saying no blacks no Irish no dogs so I now have a tee shirt saying more blacks more Irish more dogs

[@alexandrasotiriou3069]

@@suzanneaylieff-phillips2822iiuoiiui I’m😅ivvvvvvvvvvvvvuii hiv

[@almmason7]

​@@suzanneaylieff-phillips2822OH wow😢

[@paulawilkinson6341]

omg it’s just sickening to the stomach how humans can treat other humans this way . My dad was a racist he was a taxi driver an I grew up listening to him saying he would not pick a black person up in his cab . As I grew up I only realised how disgusting this is to treat another human like this just because the colour of there skin .

[@ameliel8792]

Awesome guy! I'd say he's very emotionally intelligent so I'm surprised he is worried about reaching out to his son. Anyone would be lucky to have a dad like this I'm sure.

[@theGall]

he is emotionally intelligent and that is why he is worried. he should be worried.

[@sponish0]

He was absent at the start of his life

[@sarahbritain5248]

A fear of being rejected is probably there. Poor man

[@bianchaesson1441]

Wow!!! What a beautiful statement!! You're SO right!❤❤

[@bianchaesson1441]

​@@sarahbritain5248YES!!

[@jeremyleathwood-hill6413]

I’ve seen loads of podcasts with Raphael and this is by far the best one.

[@syritasdoneitgoodytwoshoes2471]

ive not seen a bad one tbh!

[@rosequartz7841]

Love this man's raw honesty and ownership but also his humbleness . ❤

[@bianchaesson1441]

YES!!! Absolutely!

[@mane360tv6]

❤

[@Pennyburn1688]

I've had enough at 15mins.....this guy is far from humble.... He has blamed all his problems on somebody else apart from himself. He has never recognised that HIS actions have consequences.... Good and bad.... He has got to be own them! I pray NO YOUNG PERSON listens to this foolish idea of life!

[@caitlinmclaughlin2797]

Sooooooo happy you had Raphael on! I’m 1 hour and 38 minutes in and I don’t want the conversation to end. Such a powerful conversation 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Thanks Steven

[@aureareis1232]

Wow, his story should be a movie. Loved every minute of this interview. His love story with his wife made me tear up. So much food for thoughts here 👏🏼👏🏼

[@SillyDummyBunny]

I've been watching Inside The World's Toughest Prisons and I was so moved and happy that someone is raising awareness. I love Raphael and he is such an inspiration. When I saw today that you posted this I got so excited almost jumped of my chair. Thank you!

[@chrisquinn3377]

He really does his best to humanize and make you feel sympathy for some of the worst people and its given me a different perspective on prison and sentences etc...

[@KittyRoyalty777]

My dads in prison. I used to visit him a lot years ago but its become too hard for me lately, ive even become afraid to answer his calls . Hearing Raphael's story has struck a cord with me and allowed me to come to a few realisations i was too afraid to allow myself to realise.

[@el4gmail]

That is wonderful to read🤗 Something so good will come from that...

[@jameskelly9243]

Realize what?

[@yettytube]

I feel so sorry for him...just go see him ...

[@kooskoos8181]

Good to hear. But what did u realize??? That u need to visit him more or talk to him more, or some inner personal stuff???? Hope all is well for u n ur family in 2024.

[@bianchaesson1441]

​@graeme4896Absolutely correct!! We all have the potential for good or bad anyway!

[@WoundstoScars]

The psychological impact of being imprisoned for a crime he didn't commit must be astounding. Great interview Steve.

[@raia9]

Yes - look at Nelson Mandela, 25 years for being a black man

[@jacksprat429]

@@raia9I think people need to be educated about Mr. Nelson Mandela. He was not imprisoned for being a black man. He was imprisoned for being a terrorist. He made bombs and bombed innocent civilians in a church. Yes, he was justifiably angry, because of the apartheid system, but he was a violent young man. He was incredibly intelligent, and became a lawyer during his confinement. He spent some years in a cell, but for the majority of his imprisonment, he was moved into a three bedroom house, in a different location, where, yes, he was confined, but had all the facilities and amenities, of a normal household, and being looked after by two prison wardens, who prepared his meals, and ensured that his laundry was done, and he made friends with his wardens, and was not mistreated by them, and had all his needs attended to, during those years. However, for 27 years of his life, he was unable to be free. When he was released, he eventually became president of South Africa, and he was, by his own admission, a calmer and more forgiving man, in his later years. When I was sixteen, he lived in the street where I lived, and there he and a friend stayed, and manufactured bombs, to be used in terrorist activities. This was approximately 70 years ago, and he was living in an area, during the apartheid era, in an upmarket area. Please make sure your facts are correct, and people are not misinformed.

[@markozivkovic7409]

It can happen to anyone.When a prison cell becomes available ,the police get to work .

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Government is NEVER your friendp

[@stephaniebarker9244]

OMG unbelievable they charged board out of his compensation. Fantastic interview and such a lovely man. I am so glad you had an epiphany and changed your life for the better and I hope your son listens to this podcast.

[@bianchaesson1441]

Yes, yes, yes!!!

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Government is NEVER your friend

[@michaelburnett7809]

What a story, I did a long term sentence, I was guilty of it, I couldn’t begin to think how I would cope with it knowing that I was an innocent man, well done on coming out the other side, as you know some don’t make it. 🙏

[@meretsteiner3124]

😚

[@bezuayehzoe]

The way he talks about hope is just extraordinary. Thank you for sharing.

[@BritzieR74]

Love the series 'Worlds toughest prisons' and love that Raphael is SO open and knows himself so well. Great interview

[@snoozygirl468]

What I’ve heard today in this man’s story will stay with me forever.

[@HumbleWordsmith]

Raphael is legitimately one of the warmest guys on the telly, real genuine sympathetic fellow who has so much kindness in his eyes.

[@joannemarichalar1952]

Humble Wordsmith! Love it. Love your comment.. stay cool😎

[@Shootingstarz22]

such humility

[@natashaelliott2493]

He needs to reach out to his son. He is the parent, it is his responsibility. He says he feels it is up to his son to reach out, but as he mentioned that is due to fear. That is a chance he has to take. His son is probably thinking if he really cared about me, he would fight for me. It’s sad. We can never really imagine what he went through being wrongly accused.

[@bladerubber]

Exactly right ✅

[@karinagrullon6640]

Absolutely true because Although my father wasn’t wrongly convicted he does have my number and I’m pretty sure feels that I should reach out and I refuse because as you said he is the father. His responsibility. His mistake to correct IF he wants right? 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@hallieshouse13]

@@karinagrullon6640 I’m in the same position. My natural father is a complete moron. You’d have to be to think like this!

[@heatherann4390]

Unless you yourself are an alienated parent then you have no right or experience to give any sort of opinion on what this man should or shouldn't do.

[@heatherann4390]

​​​​​@@karinagrullon6640relationships work both ways. You're obviously very entitled. Your his daughter. Do you know how to use a phone?

[@glenwheeler1058]

Have watched Raphael's Netflix documentaries a tonne and was very pleased to see you sitting down with him, Steven. I never knew 80% about his life and this was such a great insight. I could have very much gone down the same route, I was involved with a group when I was younger that was just not me and I luckily got out just after my time at college. The tipping point to go down a certain path is always right there and it's very difficult in modern-day society with the pressure that young people have to live through to actually go down the right path, it's a struggle and I think a lot of people should see this discussion, it will help people a lot. Thank You.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thanks for watching Glen, and thanks for being one of our top members mate. Glad you went down a better route! - Steven

[@lizih2765]

this was my favourite episode and i have watched alot of them! what a genuine, brave, humble, relatable and empathetic man. i really needed to hear this today after going through a rough time and feeling misunderstood and unheard. really inspirational. thankyou for the motivation and thankyou for using your struggle to help others. it means so much.

[@KnowingSelfKnowingOthers]

Absolutely glued to this interview. Absolutely incredible story and Raphael is a captivating storyteller. So glad he pursued his innocence and is here to share his story. Wow.....

[@bobjary9382]

Raphael tells his story with such love for everyone in it and love and acceptance for the young man he was. Its obviously taken him a long time and a lot of introspection to get where he is , but what an unbelievably sound person he has become.

[@jadwigamarshall5658]

I have listed to a lot of your podcasts.I find this one the most moving and inspirational.Raphael comes over very kind emotional man. I am so glad he has found Love He deserves it. I love listening to your podcasts you find such interesting people to talk to . What a gift.

[@SimonaCiuverca]

I got chills as soon as the introduction was running! how a person can build so much resilience to fight is unbelievable. Well done for showing another face of injustice in UK and the power of fighting.

[@faithsrealtalk2292]

Kudos to Steven Bartlett for being such a non judgemental person. You really honoured and respected this man in a dignified way. Beautiful interviewing skills too.

[@connormckenzie9596]

Raphael is one of my favorite presenters. His story is so raw and this captures everything so we'll. Smashing work

[@riverdeep399]

Hi, what shows does he present? I havent seen him before.

[@syritasdoneitgoodytwoshoes2471]

same

[@alexwiseman9078]

Seeing this interview, I was brought to tears, not just by the tragedy of his wrongful imprisonment, but that my own story was able to relate to that feeling of unfairness, shouting into the wind and where nobody listened. Mine was the medical institutions, not the legal one. But his 10 years equalled to my 10......but I was able to open my doors, was familiar with technology etc. My heart goes out to this man and my admiration follows in how he has used his own experience to free others in the restrictions they might face.

[@SusanBryantInsomniacBookworm]

The empathy and vulnerability demonstrated throughout this podcast - but particularly when talking about Raphael's son - was truly incredible to see. Such an insightful, and deeply moving, podcast. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@Ally-StaffyLover]

What a fantastic interview 👏 I have watched this man over the years never knowing his past. I'm glad he got his wrongfull convection overturned. He certainly went onto bigger & better things in life & helping others. What a articulate, intelligent humble man he turned out to be. Glad he is happy & has gone on to have a family of his own. I hope one day he finally gets to meet his son. ❤

[@sharonraymond787]

Yes an interview well done 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽...

[@theresonlyonequeenbee]

I accidently stumbled onto this. KZbin autoplay. This interview was brilliantly done and put together. What an interesting guy. But also the conversation back and fourth, just brilliant.

[@marylynn374]

I appreciate this man's struggles. Especially how kind he is when describing his father, especially, when his father was so cruel. That is a man with a "Good soul". I wish nothing but the best for this man.

[@billgowing7744]

Taking bed and board charges from the compensation on a wrongful conviction is absolutely mind blowing.

[@nicolamatthews2993]

I agree, hard to understand I get that they were there & given that, but when in those situations those costs should be waivered surely, 2 wrongs do not make a right !!

[@jwsuicides8095]

I know. That's something that drives me beyond angry.

[@christinewatters2879]

It’s absolutely outrageous.

[@jasminejones9937]

It's despicable !! (and petty as hell)

[@jq4444]

I would sue the holy bejeezus out of them. It’s inhumane and makes no sense at all

[@dz0681]

Absolutely love this episode!! Probably one of the best episodes so far, although ‘The Diary of a CEO’ never fails to amaze me, so looking forward to hearing more stories like Raphael’s.

[@taaaylllorrr]

What a great reminder of why I watch podcasts 90% of the time. Tragic, beautiful, insightful, inspiring… little capsule of humanity wrapped up. Well done, and thank you. 🙏🏼

[@shivanisarahfox5499]

Awesome episode. Have heard Raphael's story before but never in so much detail. Thanks for creating the space for this honest and open sharing. Thanks to Raphael for his courage and ongoing work, and respect to you Steve for making your guests feel secure enough to be so vulnerable. An impressive skill for an interviewer. Keep 'em coming!

[@blackrose8643]

This channel always amazes me. The people I see on here and the stuff I hear from them is phenomenally life changing. Raphael is so real,I hope his son reaches out to him. Just brilliant!

[@BybreenSamuels]

This was a powerfully, immersive conversation. Thank you Raphael for sharing what happened to you. And how you pieced your life back together. I love your warror spirit. I remember this case as it was the same time of studying my law degree. We were all troubled by this. Continued blessings for your life.

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Government is NEVER your friend

[@juliechaumet]

I just finished toughest prisons on netflix a few days ago and right after I thought to myself I wish Steven would bring him on as a guest and who would’ve guessed a few days later I see this episode posted! It’s as if you can read our mind… Such an incredible episode👏🏽

[@staceystrukel1917]

Putting people and animals in cages doesn’t work. Mental health in prisons needs to change. The goal is to get them back into society and be productive and not hurt others. The prisoners who can’t be changed don’t need to be treated with abuse either. They are there to keep society safe and their punishment is their loss of freedom. It’s not society’s job to seek revenge on people. We can do better.

[@kateg6029]

As a nurse I can relate with this man very much. I have nurses many people who were handcuffed to their bed and guards in the room. Your right about treating people as humans, and to spend time reinventing themselves. If you can’t be a role model then create yourself to be one.

[@kieranickringill2701]

I love this podcast, It just shows how far you can come in life regardless of your struggles. 2 hours absolutely flew by such a interesting story

[@naomihill6521]

Love Raf . Love hearing his story . His voice is so soothing , he could do a meditation vid to help people relax. Thanks for the interveiw it's amazing. New to your channel after seeing small clues on fb . New sub . Keep up the interveiw Steve. Your brilliant.

[@Jen-on4qy]

I am from SE London and understand completely the upbringing, you have to get out to grow into a balanced person especially when you have been subject to Child abuse. Just want to hug Raphael, what an amazing man. I do hope he gets to meet his boy.

[@ElizabethWarrenYeahYeah]

Going back 35 years my nephews were invited to a summer celebration in the prison at the end of the road. The prisoners put on a short play followed by a BBQ. The children were treated inordinately well and came home with bags of sweets and treats that the inmates had saved their money for, worked hard for and gladly gifted to all the children who attended the event. The prison is now closed but while it was open and accepting prisoners, it was a large part of the community. Celebrities used to pop up and play an impromptu concert, the children would go along on Halloween and the inmates would gather in the hall while the children did their "guizing" in their Halloween costumes and the inmates gave a huge round of applause and treats when they finished. It's a shame that prisons can't be like this anymore. Health and safety would prevent any event. But back in those days it was a valuable part of the local community, the staff lived nearby and the prison encouraged interaction with the community. One instance I remember after a bad storm, the inmates along with the army from the other end of town, teamed up and did some repairs to buildings to make them safe for use. They cleared the streets of debris and downed trees etc. This was all done the morning after the storm hit at night. Changed days

[@MaySmithereen]

Pretty disheartening, seeing the way prisons are often run, and the stigma that goes with being an ex convict. Warms my heart that those prisoners, all those years back, at least weren’t shunned and were given opportunities to still be a part of the community, despite their ongoing time. I hope they were all able to reintegrate into society without any major issues ❤

[@TessC31]

Gxu

[@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji]

Yes and integrating into the community in terms rehabilitation works! Have worked in Aboriginal & Criminal Justice system for over 40+ years and lowering recidivism in terms of community assimilation is precisely what we should be doing now! 🍃🦅🍃👵🏽☝🏾🇺🇸🙏🏽🇺🇸

[@andreedwards9893]

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[@flecabela]

Didnt mean to watch the whole things at all but once i started I couldn’t help but be captivated and inspired with the conversation and the individual stories Raphael had to share. This podcast continues to bring me in as an audience to topics that are new, interesting and building. thank you Steve for creating this space for different topics to be had. Life truly happens at so many different levels for us people which is amazing. Great stuff !!!!!!!

[@XOX74]

Wrongfully convicted, imprisoned, freed, then having to pay for his keep is utterly disgusting! The odasity is astounding! The justice system is a fkg joke! What a wonderful, warm human. I'm so happy you won. Hats off to you sir!

[@jasminejones9937]

Very well said 👍

[@sonjalivingston8241]

That sounds like something that would happen in America!

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Every nation . Government is NEVER your friend

[@KaileyB616]

*audacity

[@Guido.Fawkes.1]

This is an amazing interview. I am a huge fan of his Netflix series and always wanted to know more about him. Thank you Steve & team! Cheers from the US!

[@madloveonline8676]

I really enjoyed this interview, so much that I sat in silence afterwards. After the silence, I went to the Second Chance Podcast. These interviews by Steven are worth more than gold. I like meeting these new people!

[@TheOne-lo4lz]

This podcast has literally saved my life. It’ll be the reason why I become successful despite having a rough start in life. I owe you my life

[@GeorgieSeegar]

Watching this as a criminloogy student, i have always been interested in the experances that Raphael has been through having watched his netflix documentary and read up on his case and wrongful convictions. This podcast has really enlightend me to the real aspects of the criminal justice systems and how the public views convicted criminals wrongful or not. It has made me consider writing about this as a dissertation, possibly how the media and police officers can hider investigations into cases both accurate convicions and wrongful ones. This story needs to be shared for people to understand that you understand the individual before making judgments whatever the circumstances!!

[@juliechurley2716]

Absolutely! Well put

[@sherryjohnson36]

Wow, He went through so much and has overcome so much. I feel his soul's journey was to endure those many hardships. I feel his soul accepted this life mission, pre-birth. The injustice inflicted on him has placed him on an important reformation path. Praying for his continued growth, happiness, and peace. 🙏

[@mathewp4777]

Not been this unexpectedly excited about a guest before, going to really enjoy this one. Cracking work SB & the team.

[@charlotte583]

Ahhhh ha ha… I always wondered who was on the other side of the bridge Steven 😂😂😂😂 I was in the Saltash side ha ha. Please, please reach out to your son, only you can do that, you deciding that your son not reaching out to you is because he doesn’t want to know is a bit of a cop out…. The role of a father is to lead the way, teach love and grow… please don’t underestimate your sons potential, we can only meet another as deeply as they have met themselves, he may surprise you, however, you need to surprise yourself first and take those diaries out of your box and allow him the opportunity to get to know you, give him time and knowledge…. You are an Incredible man, loved listening and learning from you, thank you again for a fabulous episode, incredible stuff xx

[@TheRawdigha]

I'm a bit late to the party, but I've just recently found your channel, so I'm playing catch up! I first saw Raphael on Netflix, and I enjoyed his presentation of the prison documentary. Hearing more of his personal side goes to show what a truly great guy this man is. It's easy for me to say, but if his son hasn't reached out yet, nows the time ❤

[@breannascott6709]

I cannot fathom the psychological impacts on Raphael… and to re-live them over and over again makes him one hell of a humanitarian! Plus, he is ohhhh so handsome.

[@Mohammad73942]

So excited for this one! Hope everyone has a blessed day & remembers how much life it’s self is the greatest of blessing ❤

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Let me know what you think! Have a great day 🤍

[@Miss-Placed.1]

What a life story and what an amazing human. What he said about forgiveness is so true, we don't have to forgive people in order to move on and recover, it's not necessary. I have personal experience and can speak with some conviction on this. Well done Raphael, for all you have achieved and for the work you do now. This is by far your best interview Steven, utterly compelling. Thanks!

[@tinas2857]

Also, forgiveness isn’t for them, it’s for you. It means you won’t allow what happened, stop you from moving forward and living.

[@Miss-Placed.1]

@@tinas2857 yes I agree and I've forgiven many people, many of them don't know and some are deceased. I should have worded it a bit better by explaining that when forgiving is not right for me at the time, I choose the option of letting go instead. You can call it the next best thing. It aids the healing process for me and I acknowledge that while there's no doubt trauma has affected me, it doesn't have to dictate how I live the rest of my life :)

[@danyeandanya]

Appreciate this content greatly! I love that its not all about celebrities- so much more substance and depth with this one❤

[@amylatitiabrierly]

I have been hoping to see Raphael on this podcast for a while. Whirlwind of emotions listening to this. Loved it ❤

[@elainebines6803]

I like the way you didn't interrupt. You listened and asked relevant questions at the appropriate time

[@memoe6172]

I’ve watched every single episode of the worlds toughest prisons, Raphael has been in some sticky situations when Inside them and I love watching his exploits ❤ the guy deserves every bit of fortune that comes his way

[@missblackman88]

Honesty the best guest and the most naturally flow full conversations! Please get some everyday people on here also . We all have a story to tell

[@kimberleysmith1539]

It is refreshing and very touching to see and listen to such a thoughtful and truthful man. Thank you for having this conversation.

[@miramal1827]

OMG the guest's last question, so on spot, and Raphael's answer...hope things start tot move in the right direction for him and his first son :)

[@hwhy7753]

This is a fundementally refined man. His bleak childhood, his morbid adolescence, and his wrongful incarcination r a sequence of everlasting wounds. Yet he perserved his sanity, his soul, his empathy and his trust in who and what may come. He is the refined outcome of harsh life experiences. I bow to u, Sir.

[@beckytownsley3035]

This was extremely captivating to watch. I dont listen to podcasts really, but i watch a lot of yours here. Brilliant.

[@rebeccahands9895]

I hope your boy gets in touch with you. you seem like such a changed man now and so straight forward and so understanding of how people might perceive you. I hope that he gives you a chance

[@richardpetts5149]

Thank you Steven, another incredible guest and very interesting conversation with Raphael, I’ll look forward to watching his series on Netflix. Quite incredible what he went through during those years in prison. Good to hear he has a lovely wife and kids in his life now.

[@olamao786]

Wao !!!! This recall moved me in some ways. I never grew up in a council estate but I’ve worked in some of the environments and never did I imagined things like this could happened. Regarding his son. I sincerely hope he will pick up his courage and reach out to him. I’m sure he’s waiting for that as a man he is going to become. God bless you and tale your pains away

[@alexader1975]

Steven, your content amazes me and inspires me every time, you - your team & your guests are literally astonishing ... bloody amazing mate .. thank you so much, Alec

[@blueskye3031]

This was a very good talk inspired by this guy who has overcome the trauma of others in a position to be believable over himself yet he held on to hope that his truth would be heard. Blessings to him & his family.

[@andreawilson5420]

my dad murdered my mother when i was 5 i’m now 47 and yes it has effected me only lately. life goes on and everyone suffers in some way . as an adult you know right from wrong . i was never shown affection , i’m a loving person and have a heart of gold

[@number5joyeria187]

One of the best, most inspiring podcasts that I've had the privilege to listen to. To be the subject of injustice is one of the hardest things to come to terms with.

[@alisonr8771]

I look forward to these podcasts and have suggested to friends and family to watch them. There is always a thread woven in between them all - hope, positivity, resilience. So good. Thank you for putting it together. Very grateful.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Thanks for watching

[@rayribeiro6741]

Ok yes I agree. This is the best podcast on the planet. Real people telling their real relatable stories. Brilliant. And thank you.

[@sambo9796]

I loved listening and watching , best chat I have seen in a long time. Raphael is a beautiful man and I pray he gets to meet his son and great healing takes place. Great show ❤❤

[@fifilamoore1718]

Raphael I’ve always loved watching him & have thought how fearless he is when entering “Worlds worst Prison “ Thanks Raphael to share your life story with showing your integrity & being vulnerable. Learning how you got your face knifed opened by helping a woman, Just shows how totally humbling of a Man U are. There is NO doubt this interview will help others. I hope your Son realises how much he’s missing out on you.And it’s simply cruel of a Mum to cloud their children as she’s infact robbed him of so much & lie 4 money to deny u of knowing ur dad.If he ever reads this comment, drop ur Ego & I would put money on it , it’s a decision u won’t regret.Bottom line we are Humans trying to do our best but when we know better we do better. 5 star ⭐️ Guest. Thank you great interview 🫶🏻🥰fifi

[@bajansoldier5958]

Thank you Raphael for a frank and honest podcast.. What Met police and the judicial system done to you and the two other males is racial based, damaging and traumatic. I love your stance on forgiveness and you are absolutely right, they don't deserve your forgiveness and they should be coming to you to apologise, from the investigating officers, prosecutors, judge and those with too much power to damage other people in their hands. Thank you Raphael and wish you well on your healing journey 🙏🏿

[@gladiammgtow4092]

Government is NEVER your friend

[@jennyelly315]

Only just watched this, and twice. Awesome, engaging and insightful interview. Thanks for sharing your experience and also props for your persistence in pursuance to win your freedom..

[@lemonlocks3309]

Loved this episode! One of my favourites of yours so far, so fascinating and opened my perspective

[@hilarycoombes9994]

I got an enormous amount from this extremely emotive and inspiring conversation - Raphael's deep understanding of his experience, the deep intelligence, the authenticity of this whole interview was/is just an amazing listen. Amazing. I relate to it and identify with him, not because of being imprisoned, but through receiving a life-changing diagnosis (ADHD) late in life (58). Due to incorrect diagnosis and lack of correct treatment, years of my adult life were damaged by self-medication; emotional dysregulation; fear; subsequent suffering to my children. All compounded by the damage of being brought up by a highly narcissistic father who was frustrated by me. I was academically gifted but failing in adulthood due to this lack of diagnosis and treatment and paid such a heavy price, both myself and my children. So - I understand the grief of losing the best years of my life, and not knowing what I could have been, and that some things (people lying about you and scapegoating you because you are blamed for what you could not control) are things you come to terms with, but cannot forgive. Thank you for this incredible podcast and I will follow up both podcast and Raphael's series.

[@JoJo_GSD]

Thank you so much Mr Bartlett and your team. Thank you Mr Rowe for sharing your life journey. You are a remarkable person. 🌟

[@lcjennah1]

Thanks. This was such an excellent interview. Your guest filled many of the voids in my mind. Whilst some people say racism doesn’t exist, then how come so many innocent black and brown men easily slip through the cracks. Although I knew it was not much different than the American judicial system, many English expats begged to differ.I wish both of you the very best in your future endeavors and not enough words to appreciate the work both of you have done thus far. It’s a new revolution.

[@tomsaunders2609]

I have got to say that is one of the most though provoking podcasts personally I have watched of the Diary of a CEO. I’ve been hooked on this one and truly enjoyed it

[@netsurfer007]

What a brilliant episode. Very sincere and touching. I really like this brother (Raphael). I wouldn't have chosen to watch this but it rolled into it after the Gym Shark one, and I'm glad I watched it. Keep up the great work Steve

[@seamus9750]

I sincerely hope Raphael's lad reaches out to him...can't imagine a more positive influence that can only add value. Some mothers are just pure evil to deny access to a father.

[@joel4285]

Maybe he can reach out to his son. I know his fearful of rejection but he will regret it when his older. What if his son is fearful of reaching out to his successful celebrity Dad who his never met?

[@stevebelemu9703]

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[@calikeisha365]

It’s up to the PARENT to build a bridge with the child they left willingly or unwillingly. I mean he could arrange a meeting without custody or at the very least have a letter delivered to him.

[@seamus9750]

@@calikeisha365 I'm personally going through a bitter court case in which parental alienation is rife...I'm basically mourning the loss of my child who is helpless because the system supports the offending parent.

[@mariabain8717]

What an Amazing person Raphael is …………..no words!!

[@christinewatters2879]

Humbled, encouraged and reassured. As far as I am concerned a person may be judged on what they do to rectify their mistakes. You interviewee today has compassion, honesty and integrity. Why did you help Steven? Because he needed you to. I spent 40 years teaching lots of struggling teenagers. Glad you feel respect for those who do it but know this, I got much more from those teenagers than I could ever have given to them. It reassures me to hear this story. Thank you. It also taught me a lot. I am so glad I clicked play.

[@christinewatters2879]

Of course, wrongful conviction wasn’t a mistake on his part. So here we have someone who like many more of us, was born and grew up in a deprived area with certain family dysfunctionalities and who runs with a number of people who do not bring out his best. It’s the mistakes at this point that he shows great character for rectifying. He’s even more amazing though, because he recovers from the blow of his wrongful conviction and yet doesn’t appear to be bitter. No he’s channelled his anger into helping and giving a voice to others. That’s why this story is humbling.

[@margopaton3240]

Fascinating guy and life story. What a horrific experience to happen to someone. I truly admire Steven too. I’ve been glued to this interview. I have watched Raphael’s programmes. Steven is a gifted interviewer and businessman.

[@JayJay-tb2rc]

one of the best interveiwers in the game. i love the fact that he does great research on his guests and asks pefect questions while allowing his guest to answer. great guys

[@charlesduggan7600]

This man has so much gumption, people haven't got that quality anymore. Full respect to a fellow south London man, I'm glad you're helping other as a result of the shit you went through. God bless you sunshine. You should have exposed the bent old bill though, IMHO. Have a good life geezer :)

[@swampophelia2098]

I love the way Steven frames his questions

[@LindaPow]

Podcast entrenapeurs are the best form of therapy for mental health .. whaty a great chat

[@cynthiaarons9373]

This man is much more a humanitarian than the Sussexes. A very well spoken, intelligent and resilient man, who narrated his experience in a very detailed and clear manner. I hope his journey just keeps going up. I see he wears a wedding ring - many blessings to him and his wife! Best interview I have listened to.

[@sandraforeman3070]

What does this have to do with the sussexes, get alife you

[@yvette4933]

More humanitarian than grifters William and kkkate

[@GB-rt]

Sussexes are living rent free in ur head my dear..how does this even relate to them?? Obsessed much?

[@mariethadupreez]

You are such a great host. The way you listen and hear with empathy without interrupting ever.

[@deborahbergman3566]

His inner "alpha" kept him alive, safe, and prosperous. He's just another testimony of the human experience overcoming adversity in the some of the most horrible circumstances. Mr. Raphael Rowe is one in a billion.