Orgasm Queen: Do This For 20 Minutes Before Having Sex & Your Sex Will Feel Brand New!

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

I’ve got a favour to ask! If you enjoy this conversation, please double check that you’ve liked the video and subscribed to the channel! That's a small way you can help us carry on doing this, really appreciate you! ❤🙏🏾

[@colourful64able]

I have a favor to ask.. can you make these videos in a shorter version.. many of us are not prepared to commit to a full hour..

[@colettebrennan1840]

@@TheDiaryOfACEO I'm honestly telling you That is The most Pricless Video Podcast lv ever watched . How You did not Roll around The Floor laughing is Pricless. Your an absolute Gent. But The Eyes of Shock don't lie . Pricless. Your The God of Broadcasting .. Untouchable..

[@colettebrennan1840]

@@colourful64able Bet you will subscribe to the Channel

[@colettebrennan1840]

If Steven Subscripes to that Channel He will become a Billionares Billionares.. And He would still Be a Gentleman

[@Kevin.from.Cali.]

​@@colettebrennan1840 Priceless?

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

Sorry to everyone that clicked this video with loudspeaker on while in a public place 😂😂😂

[@ofentsehendrick4356]

Right, i had to lower my volume very fast 😅

[@leanbean6545]

No you’re not, Steven! 😂😂

[@ce1581]

Loved the embarrassed look on your face. 😂

[@sunshinedoesit8272]

😂😂

[@kaykpegasus]

😂

[@matimbatimmiyambu6334]

This has to be the craziest intro you've done Steven 😂😂😂

[@ceekay5262]

Had family walk in on the intro. Lol

[@jedwardoo]

That intro was EPIC!

[@CarolynnScoffield]

@@ceekay5262‼️😂😅😮😊‼️

[@CarolynnScoffield]

@@jedwardoo THAT’S WHAT I SAID‼️

[@phatle1828]

agree

[@jbcreat1ve]

The way she made direct eye contact with him through that entire demonstration and he had enough self control to not burst into laughter is astonishingly professional. I wouldnt have been able to keep my feelings of anxiety, awkwardness and discomfort with that kind of intensity in someone else in check in that moment. Bravo! 👏👏

[@margaretcampbell2681]

@@jbcreat1ve same here

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

😂😂😂

[@jackiezambeone]

😂

[@sharonsuite4022]

😅🤣

[@DakotaDS]

They share a common stance on passion. :) Interpret that as you would like, :D Business is business and information is information and her information NEEDs to be out in the open and uncensored. Perfect opportunity for both parties to capitalize on it and I love it. This is needed in this day and age. Oh so damn needed; it brings up back to emotion and mortality and a good essence of life.

[@aimeechas]

I, at 54, am a completely different sexual being than I was in my 20s. At this age you don't care what others think so the shame or embarrassment around the sexual feelings I had are gone and it has freed me to the most unbelievable heights of pleasure. Still discovering it too - I love that you did an episode like this Steven!!!

[@ZevUhuru]

Bro, you're the most versatile communicator on KZbin. You're literally the male Oprah in terms of your ability to interview such a wide range of personalities and professionals. Respect!

[@nirradical]

Except Steven wasn't going to Diddy parties...

[@colettebrennan1840]

Intro priceless

[@bujeah14l85]

I call him the British Joe Rogan 😂

[@colettebrennan1840]

@bujeah14l85 He's The 007 of Broadcasters

[@holsen8269]

Being called the male Oprah is not a great compliment.

[@Victoriaakunyili]

The headline, the banner, the. Trailer 😂😂😂 I only came here to say the copywriter, video editor and the whole team deserve a bonus this month.

[@katybampton]

Yess!! I thought the same

[@fike.keenan]

😂😂😂😂 agree

[@kenziemac29]

Wtf was that first 20 seconds Thanks for the 5k likes guys

[@zuziwemasimula]

Lmao 😂😂😂

[@keshvikhandelwal1131]

😂

[@uranianka]

So, you never made any woman orgasm, if you are unfamiliar with the sounds 😂😂😂

[@daisybilha47]

😂😂😂

[@BrightestStar-z1k]

It's called what you're suppose to be giving women in bed. All that p0rn and you haven't bothered to learn how a REAL Orgasm sounds. Don't let us all know you're already on the path of disappointing women lol

[@smartnfunny61]

Our society needs more honest discussion regarding sex and intimacy. Thank you for this. I knew Susan in HS and seeing how she's evolved from a bright and opinionated girl to a strong and outspoken advocate for improved/ enhanced sexuality makes me happy for her and all she's able to help.

[@Laura-g1c1l]

Sorry, but an "open marriage", is no marriage in my opinion.

[@LiveMercifully]

I agree. She may be an expert on sex, but I think she has a lot to learn when it comes to true wisdom, in general.

[@deedee2043]

I agree, just an avoidance tactic to the marriage being over or having to work on it. Lame and lazy.

[@Bunny11344]

I think anyone can become a segg expert or at least know what works for them and enjoy it safely. Ya she’s nutty .. open relationships

[@alexvazquez6127]

Right! WTH is this lady talking about ? lol

[@michellea9857]

Absolutely, it is the epitome of stupid and defeats the whole purpose of marriage.

[@cctreadway8962]

The way Steven said, "For people who can't see, can you describe it." That was the sweetest and most thoughtful.

[@tsk3573]

😅 it’s most likely for people who listen to the podcasts rather than those who are blind, butttt I might be wrong

[@Jane-bq3qv]

@@tsk3573I second this- he often says that it’s for the listeners of the podcast

[@makelifemedicine]

It's definitely for people listening to podcast. He says this often 😉

[@OrinKay]

I'm sad to say steven once mentioned he might losing his eyesight during the coming years. This is due to some health issue.

[@NaiaLeigh]

I know Susan and Tim personally, they are dear friends of mine, we spend holidays together. This woman is the most REAL and direct person I know. She's a legend and a continual inspiration. People can judge and say whatever they want, but the woman is 62, has mind blowng sex, has a 30 year marriage and completely follows her desires as a woman. Not to mention is a massive success doing something she loves. This is revolutionary in our world, and sadly that will be judged and projected upon because our society is sexually repressed and steeped in shame. She's helped thousands if not millions of people gain deeper intimacy in their relationships, deeper self understanding, and more confidence in life as a result. I encourage anyone that wants to judge her to look in the mirror and see what they are actually afraid of ; The people that want to judge you and tear you down are never the ones that are doing more than you ;)

[@ArcaneEiro]

Thanka for your input! This is what this stale comment section needs to hear

[@pinakkoladaa]

Helped thousands to make them start attending sex parties and let OFFICIALLY cheat on each other 😂😂 sorry but people who against all this doesnt mean they are sexually repressed, its all about different VALUES and different understanding of self respect

[@franciscomelgoza2799]

Last time I came across a woman online who was said to have all of these qualities, she was massively popular with a course and platform on Mindvalley. She taught that sex could heal and enlighten, but she ended up committing suicide.

[@Mexicobeanpole]

The last line you wrote is the absolute truth.

[@whatintheworld7129]

Exactly!!! ❤

[@Suzette-gb7uj]

Thank you, Susan for saying that you believe pornography is detrimental to real sex. Thank you!

[@prevailstrokesmusic]

FR❤❤❤

[@CarolynCressette]

it's horrible and should be banned. otherwise prostitution should be legal. It's gross. I am scarred from some of the shit I have seen men and women do. what women will allow to be done to themselves.

[@angelapursley2811]

Although I don't agree with her stance on open relationships; she has some really good information. I enjoyed this conversation. Take what you want from it and forget the things you dislike.

[@jen_green]

It’s so refreshing to see your comment 😊🤍 I don’t understand why people seem to forget this is an option

[@ernestb7055]

I took something even from Biden. We agree on one thing, we like icecreams.

[@L.Hodson]

I don’t believe in open relationships ! I won’t go in these groups that she mencioned …

[@theRealComMy]

Gotta sprinkle in that Caucasian razzle dazzle “good cheating”

[@anahi.1i]

Might as well be single if they can't handle committed relationships

[@aminawarrick5718]

I think a lot of men would be surprised by how many women are NOT enjoying sex. There are many women enduring sex but not enjoying it. I think anytime someone can offer some points to widen perspective, it's vital, for both sexes. Good sex is a wonderful gift that too many people in marriage are missing.

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Yes men don’t know how to make sex really pleasurable for women unfortunately.. This is a very good and necessary interview Steven thank you

[@legowifey4773]

real men dont care if you enjoy it

[@stilianifakidaraki3724]

They know! They hm just don’t care.

[@gillbenjamin47]

​@stilianifakidaraki3724 Partly.. Imo they just don't have the skill sets and endurance.

[@lalibellahorne]

@@stilianifakidaraki3724 yep, they rather invest their skills on mistresses.

[@SierraSullivan-d6k]

What an honest, straight talking interview on so many taboos of sex and relationship. This was amazing to watch. Love Susan Bratton and how direct, clear, honest and straightforward she is.

[@D-A-N-]

It’s useless to society. Just find a way to make you partner satisfied in bed.

[@laurenslifestyle813]

I showed this to my husband tonight, after watching it first myself and it made us feel so much more connected and truly helped me share my perspective and what I truly need out of intimacy, I cannot thank you enough. We have been on the brink of divorce right before a big military/family move because of secrete pornography addiction and we have never been able to see eye to eye on this topic and now that the truth has come out, I think he might actually realize the wrong of his ways and this podcast was monumental in that realization, thank you

[@Sex.Prayers]

This is amazing! Celebrating you both on your willingness to be open to finding what you truly need out of your intimacy together 🙂

[@allegorx58]

Your framing might suggest you need to listen again. Just sayin.

[@ethanmurray7828]

@@allegorx58i agree, it’s not “the wrong of his ways” it’s a two way street lauren. i suggest you re-evaluate

[@AaAa-v1c2x]

Babes as painful as it is you cNt control him. Just let him be. And respect him he will honor and respect you if you hijor and tespectnhimn

[@AaAa-v1c2x]

_if_ he was you _you_ can decide to stop an addiction. But this is _his_ life and _he_ decides. All you can do is support him in his journey of life or make it clear how much it hurts you. But ultimately it's his decision

[@soara4634]

Steven, it took a while but you’ve proven you can interview anyone, about anything, without hi-jacking the conversation like some other podcasters. I’ve known this for a while but if there was any shred of doubt it has just been vaporized. This was masterful.

[@sophine7189]

Yes! You took the words right out of my uterus! This was a much needed discussion and he nailed it for both sexes! Of all ages!!!

[@markanderson9929]

@soara, now needs to become more 'switchy' lol

[@austinjrb]

DUDE you touched on exactly why he's my favorite podcaster. He embodies a truth that I suspected but had confirmed through him: The vast majority of us suck at listening. And sometimes the best way to be admirable and charismatic is to just allow others to be heard. It's simple, takes a quiet effort (it's not flamboyant or over the top), but is so rare that we assume it's hard.. which is debatable. But man when you see it? It's so beautiful. So valuable. Steven is the man because he's arguably the best listener in the podcasting space. He has nothing to prove. His episodes are clearly all about his guests and his listeners. It almost makes me emotional how selfless and egoless his approach to this has been over the years tbh. Anyway, that's pretty much why DCEO quickly became my favorite podcast.

[@emilymaryclaire1]

The amount of charisma this beautiful woman emanates is CRAZY. Her presence is intense, her expertise well rounded and she's just ALIVE. Bravo! Thank you both, time flew quickly as I listened.

[@MammaTaft]

I see it too!! I loved this conversation so much.

[@blondewoman1]

does anybody believe anything of what this old woman has to say ? I want a MAN to talk about these thing. The fish can't explain the art of catching fish, only the fisherman.

[@emilymaryclaire1]

@@blondewoman1 sober up, honey. Seems like you got lost in alternative universe 🤣

[@blondewoman1]

@@emilymaryclaire1 indeed. It is called _Reality_ Yours is called _Fantasy_

[@fredelin2580]

She is so eloquent on the subject. And convincing because she is knowledgeable, experienced, sincere, and respectful.

[@kayCrick]

I dont love the justifying of the cheating. We dont cheat out of love for our partners. But i do love her enthusiasm and ability to forgive.

[@AnnaLam-y8w]

Came here to say the same thing. The fact is, he LIED to her for a long time. Where was the trust in that marriage? A stand-up guy would have asked to go to therapy BEFORE the cheating, not after his wife took responsibility for what HE did.

[@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom]

Yeah, cheating is a betrayal and no one betrays you because they love you, they betray you because they love themself more than they love you. I’m not trying to judge either of them, I just think that’s not a good message to put out there, that people cheat because they love you 🙄 🤔.

[@williamkreth]

That part really irritated me. She already wasn't clicking with me. But when she said she doesn't like the term cheating and justifying her husband cheating I stopped listening

[@UnimportantAcc]

​@@williamkrethjust keep in mind she's a 'sexpert' not a relationship expert! I still think there's useful things to gleam from this podcast, regardless of how I feel about her "open marriage"

[@andreagascoigne6735]

​@@UnimportantAcc **glean**

[@kiddcosmos]

She is so kind to help us, with a difficult situation. Guys, Listen.

[@coreencasey5109]

Ive been married for 50 years. Lots of ups and downs, marriage is much more then just good sex. Communication, friendship, sharing, compromise, etc etc.

[@helenlawson3203]

But everything else suffers without great sex, it ends up no sex, so many men are denied sex by wives who can't experience orgasm

[@KellyMcfadden-dz7kf]

Yes it’s all that too! But she’s talking about the topic of sex.

[@spareaccount-i2n]

@@KellyMcfadden-dz7kf but why is she being pushed towards the general audience, with her throwing bits about relationships, we need to kill off such nonsense from media just like Woke culture it's nothing but poison to us. Failed relationship, open relationship, onlyfans and somehow they think we need to sit down and listen to her lustful pursuit of sex? help me understand, sounds a blend of bullshit concoction trying to make sense out of nonsense. There are far much better examples of people out here worth our time listening to.

[@amya9597]

@coreencasey5109 Totally agree with your statement. Some women like myself are interested and want those other needs that you listed besides just good sex. My husband thinks sex makes a good marriage. He’s a good man, but his priorities are about himself.

[@marccas10]

Yes agreed. But without sex, you can end up as almost brother and sister. Some of what this lady is saying is probably overkill, but without sex it is basically a dead relationship that has moved on to purely a companion. I think that this probably suits the female sensibility more than the male.

[@tamaragonzalez1991]

A freakin pandora box with you. Never know what kind of interview you are going to do informative, warm, vulnerable, solemn, or flush inducing. Keep it going

[@Pruane35Forever]

this guy came outta nowhere to me in the past year and is just the best interviewer/podcast going hands down. the range and sincerity and the informativeness are so cleanly delivered i feel lilke im in a think tank.

[@Godisgreat-7777]

I once read an article called, “sexually transmitted demons”. It’s real because it happened to me. Sex is extremely sacred. It’s also a spiritual act. We literally give and take parts of our soul to our sexual partners. We can also create evil spiritual things called, soul ties and strongholds with others, through sex. Clearly, she has no clue to the fire she’s playing with. Of course, it’s her life, to do as she wishes but she lost my interest the minute she said she has an open marriage. It bought me sense of dirtiness and being unsafe. Because of my past and my past experiences, I believe monogamy is vital to human existence.

[@kevinodonnell3216]

This women gives off a terrible vibe.

[@sev7634]

Insightful! I agree with you.

[@sundaymorning603]

Well basically now she's enjoying it because she has an open marriage.... thanks for this comment I feel the same gave me the ick

[@Storebrand_]

Felt the same listening to this at work. I understand sex is an important part of marriage, but her endorsement of being a slut really can be done without. I don't say that to be demeaning but I don't want to sugar coat it. She can help people be better at sex to strengthen the bond between partners without advocating for behavior that degenerates society... Or maybe she can't because she has demons 😅. I'm a Christian and I don't say it ironically.

[@djodha22]

I both agree and disagree with your point. Yes, sex can be a beautifully sacred and spiritual act. Yes, we absolutely share our spirit and energy/essence with our sexual partners. And yes, discernment and care are important in wisely choosing who we will share such intimate parts of ourselves with. But I think she knows exactly what she's doing, the fire she is playing with, the energy she is raising. The sexual arts and sex magic are powerful, indeed! But she clearly knows how to harness that energy and use it for good. Monogamy only exists as a generalized societal expectation because of the church, capitalism, and the patriarchy. I think she is intentionally using sex magic to burn the patriarchy to the ground... and that can ONLY be a very good thing! Keep creating more love, more connection, more care for other's well-being in the world, however it best suits you to do so.

[@beverleypeacock]

Love this conversation..My Fella of 5 months and I are playing, talking, experimenting and it is definitely the way to go.. we are in our 70's and I SOOO hope the younger ones get this..This is how we make a better world for every one.

[@mochalattemiss]

This is the best response in the bunch! Wonderful!

[@jacquijansenjoubert7082]

Wow wow wow. Thanks for this one Steven. I've been married for 18 years and am recently widowed. My hubby and I were the only couple we knew who were more in love, more sexy and sexual with each passing year of our relationship. He was dreadfully ill during the last 6 months of his life, but our sex life and desire for each other was off the charts until 3 days before his passing. It's so awesome to hear that this is possible for everybody out there who cares to learn. We did not have lessons, nor classes, or anything but with time, patience, interest and lots of loving interaction we managed to find this path. This interview gives me confidence to move forward again and be excited to enter the next phase of my life and connect with a new lover in due time....I was frankly terrified that I would never again experience the deep emotional cosmic level of intimacy and pleasure that we'd evolved over our 18 years together. Thank you so much, it was most liberating🙏🏽❤️

[@Maliilse75]

Would you give some advice to nourish that connection? I've always fallen out of desire after two years, mainly because I wouldn't feel safe.

[@thedhammawarrior]

God bless you ❤

[@brendagreen6648]

Maybe you guys did too much why he passed way😅😅

[@willowbrown8290]

I imagine with your long history of good loving you will be experiencing things beyond your wildest imagination, especially if you read Susan’s books… and listen to her on other podcasts. We hosted her on the Sex Reimagined podcast and she was brilliant as always!

[@rohanasmith106]

@@brendagreen6648 Quite a disrespectful and uncalled for comment, don't you think so?

[@janet1792]

I didn't realize how my upbringing still caused some unconscious sexual repression. I thought I was much better. However, this conversation made me uncomfortable, but Steven, your openness and vulnerability helped me cultivate that with myself. This was an eye and heart opening conversation because I had to confront my own prudishness when I thought I wasn't. I learned so much about my yoni that I didn't know. Thank you for this guest and topic.

[@Siran4228]

This woman is amazing. So professional yet playful and easy to talk to. She’s so dope. And I love how the host is being mature as he should and engaging. Great fun playful and enlightening show! BRAVO!!!

[@JOjoZ00o]

Very American style of communication on this topic - sorry to all my mates in the US - but I am sure you get what I am trying to express from a warm observation

[@4787fhjjk]

I am dying watching the trailer and it’s even on silent. The looks on Steven’s face. He is hilarious and adorable. This man has over time really won me over. Always look forward to his episodes!

[@The1morningstar]

Same watching on silent but smiling from ear to ear watching Steven’s face. 😅😅

[@heykike]

his face went from "ok, this is awkward", to "oh, oh"... to "damn, Imma bust a nut tonite"

[@NanetteWhite]

@@The1morningstarwho else stared watching on silent cos someone else was in the room?!? 😂😂😂

[@The1morningstar]

@@NanetteWhite my nine year old! lol 🤣

[@TaraJones137]

😂😂😂😂

[@omoleyeesan-ojuri8807]

How she maintained eye contact and had a serious composure in those conversations is magical to me!

[@angelafaith5605]

Confidence doesn't look back 🔥🔥

[@marials9245]

I mean, the way she describe her husband cheating on her is that she was the one to blame because she was not pleasuring him the way he wanted, and that he was amazing because he was just trying to stay married to her because he loved her so very much. I get it is her way of seeing things and it worked for her, but I would never put the blame on the woman in a situation like that. If he loved her so very much I would have expected him to talk to her, explain what he was feeling, and asking her to work together in the solution, instead of going behind her back to look for sex with another woman….

[@Ancor3]

Devil's advocate here: who says that her husband didn't try to talk to her about their sex life before cheating? What should be have done if they had a conversation and she just pretended nothing happened?

[@ArcaneEiro]

Marriage is made for men. If it was cheating wouldn't even be a dealbreaker. Your perspective is shallow and very perfunctory. You need to grow up

[@YunelKuroya]

@@Ancor3 Couples Therapy or just a breakup. Jesus being a mature honorable adult isn't THAT hard, c'mon.

[@marials9245]

@@Ancor3well she didn’t mention that there was a conversation before cheating, but even if there was one and she dismissed it, I still wouldn’t put the blame on her for him cheating. Just separate and be honest in advance, then go and have sex with whoever you want, but come clean first. Just my opinion though

[@julesmbc]

​@Ancor3 Cheating implies that he did it without her knowledge. Conversations about their sex life, or not - it's betrayal. Not sure rebuilding trust would be possible, but seems she's offering a solution for some people who really don't want to divorce...

[@ChefLionessVibes]

This was so good. Thank you Steven. This conversation is extremely necessary. I look forward to the person I get to explore all this new knowledge with.

[@bennybiscuit6193]

I’m really glad that we are discussing about it in a safe non judgemental way.

[@AndyLux123]

Haha, but the majority of comments are judging her instead of listening to the great info she provides.

[@ArcaneEiro]

We (Intelligent, introspective, thoughtful, accepting, human) people are not judging. They, (Braindead, immature, weak , meek commenters) absolutely are judging for their own sanctimonious, righteous, shallow, fear-based blinders.

[@nepeta_cataria_007]

@@ArcaneEiro > calls themselves intelligent, thoughtful, accepting and not judging > proceeds to call those who don't agree with them braindead, immature, righteous, and shallow 👀

[@divya-u9i]

This is great once you find a partner with whom you feel a true connection and feel emotionally safe. This is the harder part.

[@AAPAI_24]

if you feel a 'true connection and emotionally safe', why on earth would you need to go looking for strays?

[@jenifernadeau]

If we think we are missing something and we are searching for it, we are chasing and anything you chase will run. We are energetic beings first and foremost, therefore we attract. We emit a frequency and we can only attract like frequencies❤ but doing the inner child healing work clears out old belief systems fears judgments self-loathing etc, and invites in acceptance and unconditional self-love etc, which raises your frequency. When you're at a place of complete self-acceptance and love and inner balance and harmony, amazing things flow in.

[@AaAa-v1c2x]

Sometimes peoplenlook outside their relationship for emotional safety reasons but we need to differentiate from friendship and sex. Its ok to want but it's ok not to have also. Staying with someone and not cheating is actually better for your sex life

[@cityseabird]

The feeling that I get from this woman is that she is turned inside-out, that she is so naturally self aware and has explored herself so utterly that nothing in her is hidden, and it is very charismatic, authentic and a genuine help and pleasure to hear her. I am a 47 y/o woman in a sexless marriage and it brings me joy to hear that we’re not broken, that sex is not always the in-out-put-the-kettle-on or even the foreplay-sex routine. Truly enlightening.

[@BetterLover]

Thank you for seeing me, Sea Bird. I learned that if I am just myself, those who love who I truly am is a love I can trust. I don't expect to be palatable to everyone. How could a strong woman in the sexuality space? You see the beating I am taking in these comments. So your post is very cathartic for me. At 47 you are still YOUNG! I didn't even have my first orgasm from intercourse until I was 42. At 63 I'm having the best sex of my life and I am very, very well loved. (P.S. Sir Tim took a beating in these comments too. It isn't just me.)

[@flaviovms]

Did you come up with a gameplan now?

[@KingBillionz]

@@cityseabird 😂

[@kimmm68904]

⁠@@KingBillionz Curious as to why you find this comment so funny? This woman is leaving heartfelt very personal feedback and you are using the laughter emoji?? My question is…what the hell is wrong with you?

[@gypsylizardqueen8572]

@@BetterLover❤

[@FRANKSCARINGELLO]

Susan's comment "your sexuality is your job" (removing the victim mentality) is powerful as is her story. Asking Steven a question at the end was powerful. For Steven: keep up the great work, I especially enjoyed your interview with Scott Galloway

[@charity7773]

I really wish the world did not revolve around sex and money. I have heard gay women say they only had sex because they wanted the friendship. Sex is a great component but friendship is so much more. Most women really just want a man who loves them and is a friend. God be with us.

[@LisaHollis-s9u]

​@@charity7773 so true

[@LaBridge7]

“When you really start to get good about love and offering up love and noticing what you love about someone, you’re in love more instead of in judgement.” That judgement part is a relationship killer. Love how she expressed the importance of expressing love consistently instead of dwelling on what your partner is doing incorrectly…in your eyes. We are all trying at these things called love and life. I’m learning to be gentle with myself and my partner.

[@kerkireos]

Best intro in KZbin history Edit: i got a notification while in toilet that someone replied, checked the video, unfortunately not muted ans wife not happy

[@rahmhann]

my roommates are accusing me of watching porn this early morning😭🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@colettebrennan1840]

Pricless Intro

[@colettebrennan1840]

​@@rahmhannlol

[@JaffaryMhina]

No surprise 😅

[@WayOfTheZombie]

cum on... that can't be the most climactic intro inside KZbin

[@POLINASHEVCHENKO]

A+ to Steven for keeping his composure the whole episode. I feel like I would be blushing and giggling just from her noises and extreme enthusiasm. 😅

[@lalibellahorne]

Your name is so Ukrainian ❤.

[@maryguenther7574]

Agreed

[@MarenWilliams-oc8hh]

I was so waiting for him to laugh!

[@Feel_theagi]

1:12:57 look at his posture after she says this 😅

[@simonmo5700]

Susan is truly one of the most remarkable people I've ever had the privilege of knowing-a mentor, friend, and a rare gem in every sense.

[@ericberman]

I have followed Susan for many years and she is the real deal and an amazing human. She has no fear in saying the many things that people are thinking/wondering but don't know how to bring it up. Plus she continues to enlighten and raise awareness of a very important topic for all of us. Thank you for this interview and exposing more of Susan to the world!

[@deronthomas7904]

I'm not sharing my wife with anyone. My wife isn't going to share me with another person. It's just gross. The rest of the information is good to know.

[@calmness956]

So true she opened her mouth tells a lot about her own character.

[@Marie-qb1jh]

Not sharing either! HIV is still out there.

[@labrigful]

100%

[@calideeq12379]

God bless your marriage

[@ArcaneEiro]

Lmfao sounds like you have alot of healing you are scared of doing. Good luck to both of you in that shell

[@thepsychologympodcast]

This woman is incredible! It takes a lot of confidence, clarity, and compassion to talk openly about sex in a critical world. We would love to have you on the show! We need more conversations like this! Thanks for being you Susan!

[@sunnybadgr5073]

Why no recent episodes?

[@p5eudo883]

At times I think she's sharing wisdom. At times I find her a bit annoying. She strikes me as another "guru" out to convince people to make her rich.

[@rightchoicemusic1959]

@@p5eudo883agree. This is not intelligent rational. I was really in agreement about sex vs love but she just went off deep end when bringing in other partners. I stopped listening because that goes back to sex. It takes a lot of love, courage, intelligence & intimacy to be with one person and pour that love to each other only. Multiple partners is an addiction! Another mask covering something that needs to be healed.😂😂😂😂

[@_-KK-_]

She is a nut case 😂

[@jenmsdc3244]

Oh my goodness, this was such an amazing podcast! It was uncomfortable at times, but I pushed through and I’m so happy I did! I’ve been married for 25 years and as you can imagine we’ve gotten into a routine. Both of us want to change that but we just didn’t know where to begin. THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

[@DottieStanley]

Fantastic information! Even for a 68 year old woman. I wish I had known all of this when I was younger. This needs to be taught to both men and women at a very early age. Everyone over 18 needs to take this class. I agree with her that too many men watch porn and then think that all women want that kind of sex. Being in a relationship can be difficult. Communication is the key. Great interview!

[@lindenross9665]

Att your age I began a relationship with a woman and have now had years of Queen orgasms. Previously had 28 years of heterosexual sex never had an orgasm. Don’t put yourself on the shelf!

[@nikifaceyoga]

This interview was great 🎉it actually left me with excitement and hope for my own sexual and sensual journey. Hearing an experienced woman explain so many things I didn’t know was very valuable. Thank you 🙏

[@haryel5058]

Me too ! I’m so excited 😍🥰

[@JLu20]

She is doing a great work... Talking truth and honesty ...preserving one's relationship is a great choice, but having actual tools to regain physical/emotional happiness is the Gift offered here. 🙏🏻

[@TimBratton]

That's fantastic!

[@c.anthonyjohnson259]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 bro just go to the hub

[@MultiMelcat]

I’m sorry, but I had to recover and heal after my husband had an affair the year I turned 40 and it was absolutely brutal. I did stay, and we do have a better marriage now, but it is nothing I would ever describe like that. I understand sometimes things get to that point, people are living real and stressful lives. But the recovery for the wounded spouse whether they choose to stay or leave is nothing to take lightly. I was a shell of myself for two years, and didn’t know how I would survive. I’m not sure this woman ever loved this man to began with because when you really do and did, and your whole world comes crashing down, it is unimaginable soul crushing pain. If anyone else is going through this now, just know you are not alone. And if it is any consolation, I grew so much as a person that I wouldn’t even change it now. I needed to have my world broken apart to deal with my own trauma. I just wish it didn’t take what it did. But you can only move forward right? Whether together or alone.

[@stinkiaapje]

I think it is horrible to question someone elses love because they don't react the same way as you do.

[@lolab2763]

Everyone’s healing journeys will be different, so I also would never question her love for her partner. I will, however, say that she may have experienced more anguish about it than she chose to discuss in the interview. It’s just a guess, but regardless, she doesn’t have to share every detail if she doesn’t want to. I did feel that she was withholding with certain topics until pressed on them, including the cheating. Seemed like she wasn’t actually going to mention it at all, so maybe there was more to that than she chose to share.

[@GK-ho9kv]

@@stinkiaapje totally

[@MultiMelcat]

@@stinkiaapje Fair enough.

[@MultiMelcat]

@ probably should have worded it differently

[@danielletourneau7943]

I really enjoyed this interview. It was my first exposure to Susan’s incredible work, but I am now a follower. I appreciated her honesty and courage.

[@suli.94]

By far one of the most difficult interviews yet Steven was so professional so calm and controlled the convo for the audience favor. Wow! really strong episode

[@ReviewBoard-uy5nv]

She has great ideas about sex, but sex isn’t marriage. It’s a big part, but not everything. There’s a lot of compensating energy here for the fact she knows her husband thinks she is not enough. I have had friends with open marriages for 30 years. They all share the need to feel the other person has their back completely. When times are tough, a lot of nice words are said, but it’s everyone for themselves and they know that. They feel empty, then go to the other one. It’s a never ending cycle.

[@esztieli]

This is probably the most accurate description of the open marriages these days. It’s balancing between being shitscared of being alone/starting over and their ego’s whispering “ I also can get whatever I want, not only you”… and 99% of the time it starts with one person cheating on the other but deciding to lie for long for comfort…there’s something fishy around this woman…

[@Bunny11344]

No thanks to open marriage or relationships. One special person is enough

[@grammaurai6843]

Her words say "I've healed from my childhood trauma" but her behavior says "I am desperately scared and lonely and intimidated by boundaries and rules"

[@michellea9857]

The sexual revolution has been an abject failure and yet people still believe these stupid quack ideas, seriously keep it simple. Be emotionally healthy and everything else fits into place, pun intended.

[@wadoneniwho1880]

You call people in your life with open marriages, friends? Yikes.. if I was you they would never be on my radar the last 30 years. People like that, are the reason kids are so messed up. They are mote focused on pleasuring themselves in the here and now than providing an actual mother and father to their children. If your friends have no kids then why are they in an open relationship? For financial reasons amiright? Sad pathetic people.

[@redbennyweb]

This wonderful woman is what so many married couples need right now, there's so much disconnect between, so many peeps at work, friends, etc complain about the distance between their partners and they r scared to bring it up because it's become taboo between them.

[@ChelleMEis]

😂😂😂 Best lovers are the ones who LISTEN and give. Honest communication and intimacy.

[@entropicmomathome]

Absolutely!! I was a virgin when I got married and I felt shy in many ways. But I have an amazing husband who asks, listens and does everything to please me ❤❤❤❤ intimacy is amazing after 15 years of marriage still is!

[@margaretcampbell2681]

Yes

[@unitedbrit244]

@entropicmomathome As a man I can assure you that no man likes ploughing the same old furrow for 15 years. He’s possibly got a booty call or a mistress tucked away and this is what is saving your marriage . I can only give you the opinion from a man’s perspective. I’m sure you’re a lovely woman and no doubt have many good qualities that your husband doesn’t want to give up and that’s the nature of a man to want an easy home life but trust me, if all your marriage is based on is him simping to your every need in the bedroom then there’s more than a possibility he’s hammering the life out of another woman who doesn’t care about him listening, asking and certainly doesn’t expect him to do everything to please her, she just wants pumped and he would be in his element and peak sexual performance would be with her as he’s under no pressure obligation to her and it’s all about his gratification and enjoyment. Hopefully this gives you an insight into the real psyche of a man.

[@truthfuturist]

Women love O's indeed

[@SimpleSmartScience]

Susan is bringing a subject that is so taboo to the masses and I love her for it. People don't understand how important sex is to not only your happiness but actually your mental health and PHYSICAL brain health. We shush it away as a society and that only creates more mental health issues. It's time to start the conversation, whether you agree with her way or not. She is doing something most people don't have the courage to do... talk about sex openly. GO GET EM!

[@lilikoimahalo]

I really don’t get why sex is so taboo in the US and other countries… are we not humans?

[@awetmana]

Openly discussing about sex is important for every body and It is healty. She is a legend.

[@blamethebillionaires]

Cheating isnt healthy tho🤣

[@dawns.6022]

What makes her a legend?! Having sex with others while being married? She has information, that doesn't make you a legend

[@randomvlogsandthings]

Wow. I really like watching Steven's response to her. He stayed calm cool and collected the whole time but remained engaged. Such a great interview

[@Star_Light_4]

Everybody, pretend she never spoke about her own personal sex life and just consider all the other info. I bet you would think she was super helpful and her personality is what makes her deliver this in a way that makes it fun, and we learn. She is an excellent communicator and teacher.

[@lorainisrael]

I have thought about it, but unfortunately, there is not much left when we remove her own experience, her advice and most answers were generalisations of her own experience. For instance, your wife says it's stupid to use toys? Then keep insisting on at least trying. Or Don't worry about running out of ideas, me and my husband always invent something new. Her approach is not scientific, she is rather a great saleswoman. The essence of her advice can be summarised in a few sentences: slow down, build trusting intimate relationships, see sex being much more than intercourses and don't obsess with the latter.

[@BenMcghie]

@@lorainisrael Such a brutal summary at the end there! But... I don't think I can disagree. She's found a brand, and she can sell books by stating things like "there's 20 different orgasms". I was curious if she had anything new to say, but its the same old schtick. Which isn't terrible - people need to keep hearing this stuff, but man... talk about overselling it.

[@maryguenther7574]

I agree, she is an excellent communicator!

[@JLu20]

💯

[@juliettedonohue7069]

@@lorainisrael she is obviously a great businesswoman. but she does stand for a strong message which gives hope to many.

[@Kabapadigital]

Some people in the comments are fixating on a single aspect of her personal life-something entirely her choice-when she isn’t even asking others to follow her example. Instead, the focus should be on the public service she’s providing to countless women and couples silently struggling. And this isn’t about strangers; it’s about your sisters, mothers, friends, and co-workers. You'd be surprised how many people are struggling with their sex lives.

[@dawns.6022]

She chose to share her life and people chose to fixate on it and feel sick about it. What's the problem?

[@monikab3413]

So true, people are just judgemental and hypocrite I would dare to say. It is a personal choice and an act of bravery to be open about sharing something so personal. What is even normal, the socially accepted behavior by the mass? 80% of early human societies were polygamous. It is a personal choice. The key would be to learn from her the information she shares and widen our perspective on sexuality.

[@dawns.6022]

@monikab3413 First of all, 80 percent of early societies were no polygamous and even if they were, so what! 100 percent of them didn't have cars, should we stop using cars? So if they didn't have morals, let's not have them either?! There are all kinds of studies proving how unhealthy being polygamous is. Are we just going to ignore facts now?

[@dariacorreia987]

Yes, so true

[@dawns.6022]

@@monikab3413 Since you're taking your lessons from early societies, 100 percent of them didn't spread lies online about others being polygamous just to prove their point 😂

[@HeatherMaderArt]

Thank goodness....someone who actually acknowledges all the different types of orgasms! Not just the different types of "build-ups" etc...but also, different points in the body that are highlighted during each type. I thought I was crazy when I started to explain my own experiences to my friends. I think this is part of your own discovery process...learning your body and how to achieve these various levels. :) Thank you for this conversation.

[@mariaselivanova5626]

She's so charming and open and artistic. Loved the way they both led the conversation without a hint of awkwardness, bravo

[@jamesrice4839]

You don’t have to be in an open relationship or care for her charisma but she’s telling some serious truth and if you’re mature enough you’ll listen.

[@vvolfflovv]

If you are afraid to communicate with your partner for being judged, you may want to rethink your relationship.

[@CraiiZeD]

@@vvolfflovv yknow im not scared of being judged im just straight up nervous to even suggest anything at all 😂

[@DixonDixon65]

Real talk​@@CraiiZeD

[@vvolfflovv]

@@CraiiZeD Not to sound like a therapist but why do you feel that way? Don't you think your partner would want to know if there's a problem in order to fix it?

[@ArcaneEiro]

Good advice

[@themerchcellar8953]

I see a lot of comments judging this woman for her open-marriage choices. I think you're missing the point. This episode has me in tears because I get it. As a woman in her 40's and married to a partner of 17 years I am the struggling woman she's talking about. No, we're not stepping out on our marriage, but this topic hits hard. Thank you for having this conversation, Steven.

[@insparationcayman]

A lot couples are struggling in silence, this topic is taboo for some people. There is a place for helping people improve intimacy and sexual bonding, to help carry on their relationship instead of cheating and hurting each other.

[@Flowerpot24]

Been married for 42 years, for half of those years my husband has cheated on me. Our life to outsiders is great, we do so much together. But inside I'm dea d. He says he loves me but his idea of love and what marriage means is polar opposite to what I think they both mean 😢

[@Mary-f1k8t]

I would suggest a spiritual counselor. God's design for marriage is the best, most enjoyable and rewarding way.

[@WhiskerWander3r]

I’m not judging her but open marriages only work in the short term. Every time you have sec with someone, there is a spiritual connection that is form and you can’t just shake it away when you go back to your spouse.

[@pltsgt80]

Find a professional

[@gmccarthyworld]

He’s so young and he handled her mature honesty and intensity so well. I just hope it didn’t traumatize him 🤣

[@munty5487]

those intros are getting better and better, im glad I had headphones on when listening to this intro in the train 😅

[@colettebrennan1840]

Lol

[@colettebrennan1840]

On the floor laughing

[@nicolaablett7790]

Too funny

[@user-pt1ow8hx5l]

,.... Quite 'operatic', yes!

[@rebeccabroughton3444]

😂😂😂

[@lijovakar]

The intro caught my attention, but the more I watched the conversation, the more I saw the unhealed and masked past and current trauma. Husband's cheating, him staying in marriage, but wishing to have relationship with other women, that alone is a massive blow and humiliation to any woman. The relationship expert to me is someone who teaches how to have great sex and keep intimate between two people, while the keeping up with kids, job etc. Having relationship with other people while in the marriage, doesn't sound neither healthy relationship, nor intimate at all.

[@corrinastone4683]

She said she doesn't expect everyone to adopt her lifestyle, that is just what works for her and her husband. You do what is best for you and your partner. But you never know until you ask in a non- judgemental way what your partner really wants.

[@diana.diamond]

i agree 100%. I had a 'gut feeling' that was confirmed later on as i kept listening

[@tiah1927]

She never said she was a relationship expert. She’s a sex expert.

[@fefemarks315]

Same thoughts. Even her admission of being able to ride discomfort and change. I don't believe for one second polyamory was her idea. Her husband has got to be the gaslighting King.

[@meditatonmicrodose]

Agree 💯. I am a psychotherapist and first thing I saw was exactly that. Even the way she talks about it, she tries to cover hurt and disappointment with humour. I literally have nothing against this lifestyle but she wasn’t being honest here

[@BlueSoulEarth]

People have a hard time hearing things that are uncomfortable or out of their comfort zone. Susan has never been afraid to speak her truth, nor should any of you listening and watching. But women who speak out, especially about sex, often get negative feedback or told "how to be" and what they should have said. She's speaking the truth about her intimate experiences, which is incredibly vulnerable. How many people are bold enough to do that? In a patriarchal society, we've been conditioned that sex is shameful, and so we've repressed what is "real" for us. Don't fear or judge. Listen with an open heart and you may just find that your world is about to shift in a powerful way.

[@BasedGymChad]

I'm so glad my wife and I can have amazing intimacy without bringing other people into the relationship. I don’t think we can look at each other the same afterward.

[@desperationno5]

…You can’t be successful in a partnership unless you’re all in …I’ve never seen a successful polyamorous relationship… 🤷‍♂️

[@BasedGymChad]

​@@desperationno5I also don't agree with encouraging women to seek out sexual partners without a monogamous commitment. Too many aging single women with mental health issues these days who spent their youth being promiscuous.

[@msv9637]

When you have relations with someone energetic pieces of yourselves attach to your energy field. When you make it a special bond with one person for the rest if your life you create a force field on unmatched loving energy. This woman wishes she could have the marriages we have. She’s selling herself short and cheap. Betrayal trauma is no joke. Look what it made her brainwash herself to become.

[@roselivaditis3546]

Guys she’s not telling you to go out and have an open marriage, she is talking about her own personal experience. This is her truth and although it might not be for you, it worked for her relations. The point of the video is to figure out what works for you and the marriage you’re in.

[@trish5111]

Exactly ! So many black and white judgements are happening, it seems to me.

[@Zenfilter74]

@@roselivaditis3546 But hearing something so gross is hard to get past. She defended cheating on a whole. Not just open marriage. And went on to discribe sextual encounters with her husband and other men. Eww ... that's a lot to get past. And definately not something most of us obviously feel wrong enough to call out.

[@allanhutton1123]

Listen love my truth is your statement is completely stupid and you don't know how illogical your statement is. And My truth surpasses all truths.

[@AmeliaBindas]

I think she does a lousy job of being professional about a serious topic

[@JakeStewart1343]

@rose, has an open marriage worked for you?

[@AnnaLam-y8w]

'We've been in an open relationship longer than we've been closed'. He certainly has.

[@ArcaneEiro]

Good man.

[@louisebenefield4105]

This was the best talk that you have had. So many great ideas were discussed. A great understanding for those who have experienced all of the ideas here, within their own breakdown of a relationship with someone, especially with children, childhood trauma, beliefs about what is appropriate, or acceptable behaviour etc. So many of the reasons that initiate people to look for needs elsewhere. Thank you for having these needed discussions.

[@lizart2726]

Peeps her relationship with her husband is not the base of this conversation, like you do you. She’s actually giving very useful advice on how to truly make your sex life and your relationships better. This is like free therapy on a very tabooed matter. If the men and women that listen to this actually do the work, I’m 100 percent sure our sex life is going to go up a notch.

[@yehunlavolontededieu322]

if her sex life is better why go to another man? 😂 vice versa her husband

[@TheWefikus]

People will find the smallest thing to nitpick on because it’s easier than facing the reality that she most likely literally called out most of the problems they’re having. And they’re too chicken shit to face it.

[@msv9637]

@@lizart2726 the work people need to be doing is healing childhood trauma. Breaking your energetic field into pieces isn’t going to make your energetic body whole. It’s lowering your standards & self esteem. It’s the exact opposite way towards achieving pure sexual energetic maturity.

[@lolamar6064]

She reminds me of Samantha Jones from Sex in the City

[@AnnaLam-y8w]

Yes! Theatrical - I couldn't put my finger on who she reminded me of.

[@sofiadionisio7587]

I THOUGHT EXACTLY ABOUT THAT hahaha. Even the voice!!!

[@amanda_ani]

💯

[@tslilbearshoppe9870]

not a compliment lol

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

​@@tslilbearshoppe9870It wouldn't have been a compliment if she's Carrie. Carrie has no life. Samantha on the other hand does.

[@KennethZikalala]

In that 20 seconds i realised that women are best actors in the world 😊

[@wendyg8536]

I always wondered what a fake orgasm sounded like

[@inesnathaliengoua]

because mostly live in a patriarcle society where we are raised to act and/take advantage of the fact we are more built for nurturing to put men's pleasure and well being first. the amount of men that will never or bearly go down on a woman or take a few minutes to warm her up but will steer her and expect her to go down on him and/or go at his pace is crazy. we are also shamed for liking sex too much or being too sexual when we are just existing. We have to be the ones to cover up in fear of the male gaze cause they cant control themselves. it is trully hard for us to feel safe around men cause so many can hurt or make advances or comments in all types of situation where they have no place of being. So to protect ourselves and go through life we are forced to act even more. when i say acting its a lot more in the sexual and people pleasing side.

[@SWOTHDRA]

​@@inesnathaliengouawe do the most work during sex, its only right that we get the most pleasure out of it. What you put in is what you get out of it.

[@CaroLMilo-yz7fk]

acting, she does 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@ladybug3380]

We have to be to protect the male ego.

[@rocksberg1]

Omg you have to finish and do another follow up podcast with this Amazing Woman ! on topics not finished. Please !!!! This was amazing I’m 57 I don’t want to miss a thing !

[@_MauDStaR_]

"I was trying to have sex with my wife... like she was a dude" funniest Bar!!!!🤣🤣🤣

[@faithmwikali4987]

🤣🤣😂😂the intro could have easily costed me my job.Great conversation😊

[@Annie-R]

Mwikali! .. asiisi 🤣🤣

[@NewEsther-d2l]

asii mwikali😂

[@amarachiogbonnaya9917]

😂😂😂😂

[@averaguilar]

Protect this lady at all costs!, just plain straight golden truths and to the point with no sugarcoating, and no "scientific" like garbage jargon. Impressive.

[@Fran-d2p]

1:05:41 1:05:43

[@SilverSwallow1130]

1:40:38 There is a group of people that are demisexual and I am one of them...I really think that "get a lover" advice is not appropriate for all... It's really not hard to get the lover, but that's just not the point...I know I would harm and traumatize myself and would not have satisfaction in intimacy if I would agree to be in sexual relationship with men who would like to go that path with me, if I don't feel deep connection. Earning trust , feeling love and building a deep connection is a PROCESS and in that process demisexual folks start to feel sexual attraction to someone...We realy need to start honoring connection, sensitivity, love, emotionality, deepness, transcendency, intimacy and closeness instead of selling sex and wrapping it up as experience that would take us to God...

[@BetterLover]

You can fall in love with and have all those feelings with a lover and not have to build a life together. I’m just saying it’s an OPTION for some. ❤❤❤

[@SilverSwallow1130]

Yes, it can be, I am not absolutely denying that. I also do have a lot of friends which are functioning completely different than I do. Some of them are into swinging, some of them are polyamorous, some have open relationships and that's fine. It's also ok to be in love and not living together..Just speaking from my own perspective as a demisexual and very subtile woman, which actually does have a lot of options, but it's just not easy for me to form a deep connection with a lot of people. Without deep connection I can't be attracted to someone sexualy. 😉 But when I do feel it, it sparkles everything up- creativity, transcedence, imagination, exploration, deep and full satisfaction, just as described in the podcast 😊 That is why I think it's more important to talk about deep connection, than about sex itself...

[@thefreeradicalart7273]

Sexuality is a diverse realm. This woman has many very positive and helpful things to share. I feel it's important to keep the context of the interview in mind. This is about sex. Now I could listen to her as a friend telling me what works for her and as a friend give her some feedback. Honestly it seems as though she is still wounded but I am not a therapist...I don't think she is either, or a psychologist, or a counselor, or a psychiatrist. Again, she is sharing what works for her SEXUALLY! I am listening with that perspective.

[@ArcaneEiro]

It's insane how some people will only defer to alleged "Experts" and "Psychologists" to heal themselves when there are solutions right in front of them. It's pretty shallow honestly. Life was a thing before analyzers came around and started making a career out of it.

[@nickyseize7097]

She is 100% gaslighting herself about her husband cheating on her. Blaming yourself as a woman for a man cheating is wild.

[@CaroLMilo-yz7fk]

wild or... false 😏 remember, she s a brand

[@nickyseize7097]

@@CaroLMilo-yz7fk even worse, as a brand you want to give a good image and empower the people (in this case women) that follow you… this isn’t it.

[@stinkiaapje]

Wild? You know sex is the single thing humans live for right? Ofcourse he was wrong, and I am sure they discussed this at length in their therapy at the time. They nearly divorced remember? But you cannot expect someone to just not have sex anymore. It is what humans live for. Yes he should not have cheated but if you don't have sex with your partner, it is a part of why it happened. Everyone should take accountability for their part when something bad happens in a relationship.

[@nickyseize7097]

@ that’s not an excuse to cheat. You can go to therapy, you can talk to your partner about it, you can leave the relationship. But cheating and saying it was because of your partner is such a petty and immature thing to do.

[@Ghostchild4]

​​@@stinkiaapjeHate to break it to you, but sex isn't what humans live for. The ones that do live for it are called sexaholics.

[@CraiiZeD]

Nah cheating is bad, he could have risked giving the woman he 'loves' sti's, hiv, etc. That is total denial from her.

[@유웃-h6e]

I agree she is in total denial ... he could ve talked to her and make things better before going to another person .. i hate when people justify or tolerate cheating and call it other names ...

[@유웃-h6e]

@@CraiiZeD also she talks about being with other partners which i respect but find it weird and i guess that she and her husband are having bigger problems then what they think they have, they are in an open relationship going here and there to other people then saying that they really love each other for me that is weird .

[@nonickname6228]

@@유웃-h6e Everyone reacts differently, everyone behaves differently. What is denial to you, is total acceptance to someone else. Acceptance leads to forgiveness.

[@saskiakarels4184]

Not 1 second I could stand this show 😂 made it even 'till 1:40 minutes, then found refuge in some comments... byebye, trauma release is more my ❤ thing... I am on a totall other page 😂

[@The.Hawaiian.Kingdom]

@@nonickname6228 Accepting and forgiving his infidelity is one thing, her justifying his cheating as “he only did it because he loves me” is insane. No one cheats because they love their partner, they communicate their feelings, wants and needs because they love their partner & if they can’t work it out, they leave. Also, what a bad message to teach people… cheaters cheat because they love you?! No! Absolutely not!!

[@helenmcgreary4128]

Susan Bratton has helped me so much. I love her courage, self-expressiveness, confidence and kindness

[@joevonmorgan9944]

Im saddened at the amount of comments that suggest that watching/ listening to a conversation means you must agree with the speakers perspective or ideas😢. This confuses me like what is the purpose to watching a podcast…to some it’s chance to experience another POV and ideas . Seems like others take it as a chance to get their egos stroked

[@Kazara-z7d]

So true.

[@mark-147]

But why be saddened by other comments? Surely just accept them as other opinions and remain happy instead?

[@augustassimonis8345]

Thats what comments section is for

[@joevonmorgan9944]

@ cause I’m human and can’t control my emotions??? But what I can do is control what I do with my emotions which was express them in the comment section… and idk I’d say I’m pretty happy I could do that …I’m concerned why you think accepting comments as opinions means one must be “happy” afterwords….it seems strange to me to dictate how others should feel. Also how does me experiencing momentary sadness mean I’m not accepting comments as opinions ?

[@ivanhoe6145]

Is there a Nobel Prize for Sex Studies or Sex Literature? This lady deserves one for sure. She is a goddess.

[@hanna.hrabarska]

this is the first time in my entire life when I'm watching a podcast without speeding up the video. I just want this woman to talk forever!

[@BetterLover]

I probably could. 😂 there’s so much to say about sex!

[@LizzyLou956]

I cannot say it often enough or loud enough how much I absolutely appreciate this episode. I feel seen and heard and loved. I’m not crazy I wasn’t broken. This confirmed so much and I would have NEVER thought to look it up. Love the diversity in your content. This gonna heal so many people 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@HighIntegritySkills]

Met Susan and her husband in a mastermind in southern California many years ago. She was always very generous with her advice and time and always positive.

[@crssanchez]

Man: I got this! Woman: Graceful guidance 😅 the best thing about this was watching him and reflecting on his necessity to take charge. The energy and honesty is the most beautiful thing about this interview👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@midnightwatchman1]

Once your partner said they want to have an open relationship red flag run for the hills

[@omnipotentwiz5101]

Good. Free them to enjoy their sex life. Find your type. I have always wanted an open relationship. Monogamy is nonsense.

[@tk1576]

true lol open relationship is an excuse for not being able to commit, but who the fuck wants to commit anymore in 2024...

[@katecaballero9660]

@@omnipotentwiz5101 id imagine there would be cases of jealousy with an open relationship pros and cons in monogamy and open relationship there's also the potential to catch feelings which would complicate things

[@pronoun_]

@@omnipotentwiz5101 disgusting tbh..

[@omnipotentwiz5101]

@ You do you. Opinions are like ‘a’ holes my dear. Everyone has got one. Just find your type and knock yourselves out. Beautiful enough, my type abound. We are sexually free and would never be caged nor trapped to only one private part for the rest of our beautiful existence why should we?. It’s hell. My love life and sex life are two very lives. Again, you do you.

[@mybeautifullifeclub]

I most certainly enjoyed this conversation and have shared it with a number of people that are special in my life. thank you!

[@DrBrianKeating]

It’s highly appropriate that this episode came out right after my episode about the Big Bang!

[@LilyGazou]

😂

[@iyke4566]

haha, good segue

[@holdupwaitaminute.]

I had to LOWER MY VOLUME significantly for the intro 😂😂😂 Edit: STOP REPLYING TO THIS!!!

[@Ray-lo5zb]

😂

[@BallstotheWalnuts]

Lols

[@aperturedriven88]

😂😬

[@MrWyborowo]

Me too it suprised me i hugged my phone like a baby 😂

[@goddamnbusiness7733]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Annalette8]

Someone call my mom to come pick me up. I’m lost.

[@Anunnakiii]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sabinekoch3448]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@CF.]

❤😂

[@Sharon-Slater1991]

My bum hurts 😂

[@meganbrown6337]

😂😂😂😂

[@darrenstoddart8673]

I realized that we have such deep control over the functions of our bodies. Emotions like shame can be used to block or turn off pleasure. Just like we can turn on/off certain genes we can also turn off pleasure/ sensation. I'm trying to reconnect to that, this episode has given me some great tips.

[@larahamilton2273]

A man needs to take the stress off of their partner, just hold them with no expectation…amazing advice!!!

[@dennisoo587]

When can we meet up 😅

[@XDWX]

It's always "the man needs to do xyz" for things to fix the woman. Why can't she see look forward to s3x as the actual thing that takes the stress off?

[@mariangelapitti2536]

Loving Susan’s energy and her realness. It’s such a pleasure to listen to someone who comes to the table being so raw. ✨ Great podcast episode Steven.. ✨

[@dapynkharmujai]

Oh man, I opened this episode today and had to pause it immediately! 😂 I need my trusty earbuds or headphones to truly immerse myself in this audio adventure. 🎧

[@nikkireigns]

Same, I’ll be back later haha 😂

[@nikkireigns]

Same, I’ll be back later haha 😂

[@wandala15]

😂 yes !

[@tippieyanez8289]

This is amazing! Thank you to both of you and your team. STEVEN. you keep getting better while still staying so relatable. And Susan Bratton. Thank you for your service to humanity.❤

[@jonw.3886]

I haven't watched the entire interview but from reading some of the comments, what seems to strike a chord is open relationships. If you're married you are committing yourself to that person and your marriage. There should be no one else but the two of you. If you want to have other people in your life, then that's not a marriage. Just because you both signed a document that says you're married, it doesn't say the name of any other person so the only marriage is between the two of you. If you choose to bring others into your lives, then you're operating outside of your marriage. But the marriage is being violated and you're breaking that agreement. Go and fool around with whoever you want before you get married. But once you sign that document, it means the marriage is only between the two of you. An open marriage isn't a marriage at all. It's an excuse to receive marriage privileges and benefits while living outside of the commitment of a marriage.

[@hayley179g]

Wow, they were naughty. They violated the marriage contract, they shouldn't receive tax benefits, huh?

[@ORA87]

It definitely has struck a chord, but all these people casting judgement on how two adults choose to live their lives is the problem. Just because you have a definition of marriage (which you’ve explained above) doesn’t mean everyone has to share that. Get over yourself and your judgements and let people live their lives how they want - it has no impact on yours.