Why Women aren't Attracted to "Nice Guys”… | Oestrogen Expert Dr Sarah Hill

[@SummerJ200]

If women truly desire toxic men, those women themselves are toxic. An emotionally healthy person doesn’t desire darkness ,dysfunction, violence or destruction in any form. Good guys do not finish last, they’re being protected.

[@jamenne]

Very well said. I agree.

[@we5xz-gt1]

💯

[@ihussain1011]

Yes sir!

[@cosbro5389]

When the good guy holds true ,he ends up in control of his well being...toxic people are sick and in later life those sickness scars do not disappear and everything they have come into contact with is damaged

[@SummerJ200]

@@ihussain1011 Ma’am .. I’m a woman x

[@DavidYoung81]

Double standards, she tells her son to go the gym to make himself more attractive but can't bring herself (dodges) the question when it comes to telling her daughter to be more beautiful and attractive.

[@jamenne]

Hogwash! I am very attracted to nice guys. I despise "bad boys" and jerks. I may be in the minority, but I love being treated good and respected. My father was a jerk and I steered very clear away from men that acted like him.

[@adamm3368]

Sure, it helps to have physical attractiveness but when you're older and more mature as a guy it's important to find the right person who matches your personality and you have natural chemistry with. You can't force or fake chemistry. And that's much more important than looks. Because looks can fade but whats more important is who she is beneath the exterior. Does she have a good heart, is she kind, has a sense of humor, matches your energy and wit. That's what I look for and desire in a partner. Someone for the long term and not short term benefits like looks.

[@Leon-rh1pk]

In the first minute she struggled explaining why good guys are also attractive.

[@ro0k971]

She's biased. She sees the flaws of the men who struggle to find partners but not the flaws of the women.

[@JocobsComments]

Agree. Women like her are honestly annoying. One sided.

[@slyBR1]

It’s fine lads .. leave them too it.. let em get treated like shit off the bad boys. keep your heads down and move forward in life with things you enjoy and want to achieve. Don’t ever give them a chance when they are all worn out damaged and used. 😎

[@slyBR1]

The healthiest and happiest relationships I see around me are nice men with caring woman.. How it should be. Walk on by boys

[@isharsingh8048]

Very disappointing.

[@jamenne]

I agree.

[@SGV_777]

Why?

[@adnaanraza558]

She’s being real…can’t fault that

[@fiftiesandfabulous]

She’s talking a load of tripe

[@TheDan2000]

Some people are paid to talk shit

[@seanjosephhayes]

And then they get with guys who don’t get what they want at all. The nice ones do. But they’re not exciting or dangerous enough for them. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@vinskeeter]

They WANT to be able to complain about how narcissistic he is, a year later. Why? Because they can't tell the difference between that confidence they love and arrogance.

[@DSDJ1986]

I have been saying for somewhere around a decade now when the topic of conversation moves to relationships that women, not all but for most part & to such a degree that it may as well be all of them, are fundamentally incapable of discerning between arrogance & confidence. From my observations, both turn them on, but for whatever reason arrogance is the more potent of the two.

[@australiangirl850]

Well these Questions were very specific 😬 And what's with that tone of voice after you asked if Women choose partners similar to their fathers? That "Do they?" Sounded serious... 👀

[@pw3591]

Never recommend Botox, or any other cosmetic surgery for that matter. It usually looks horrible, and desperate. Katie Price is everybody's warning against going down that road.

[@dkinney1000]

Useless. There’s so much more to learn by reading about sexual selection through the lens of evolutionary psychology.

[@9879SigmundS]

No one saw Kamala as powerful. Just the opposite.

[@suzettefialho666]

Sad 😢

[@npdvvecchi7181]

I don’t understand this woman?

[@cosbro5389]

She is trying to make money form controversy as do most of the media

[@AndredeWit-cu8nb]

She is crazy

[@JarrodWrightNZ]

"the mating market" 🤮

[@sfl6307]

Women like nice men, today you will see the ladies with nice guys, they are tired of the guy who thinks being a man is being at the gym and pumping muscles makes them a man when what makes a man is someone who doesn’t feel they need to compete with the ladies and can just be a good person. That’s old school thinking women like bad boys, so not true as I have tons of female friends who are tired of the Trump type dude.

[@ALTheFreeMan]

They may be tired of the bad boys, but they now have trauma and possibly kids from the bad boys.

[@doctorripply]

Agree

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

Why do you equate muscles with bad boys? A man who works out has a healthy hobby...vs a guy who drinks too mich and ends up fat and squishy

[@SGV_777]

False

[@SGV_777]

This is true if you're talking about 40 yrs old women, younger women almost always look for bad boy traits

[@Creatrix.WiseWoman_Appalachia]

Here’s a long comment to read while this is playing in the background. Because this expert doesn’t say anything that isn’t common knowledge. And her perspective is narrow & slanted with her own bias. Throw in some scientific facts you could read anywhere. Then I can book a spot on this channel as an “expert “ 🙄 The psychological component of my formerly being drawn to bad boys all revolves around my socialization as a child. As a scapegoat loner I felt drawn to those on the fringes- not unlike me. Plus I have a repulsion to people who are cookie cutter politically correct. I have a slight bias that they’d be less capable of independent thought. I don’t want a partner who is a blind follower of social norms that the society has grown out of even. I don’t want some ⚙️ cog in the wheel of the machine to work a traditional job all of his life, pay taxes, and say “Don’t buck the system. You have to follow the rules. One day you’ll realize that you’re just like everyone else, Lisa.” You guessed it, I already have someone in my life like that. Dear old Dad. So if anyone is going to go into unsolicited advice on my Daddy issues I request Carl Jung school. Because Freud doesn’t resonate one bit. But please, just don’t!

[@BryJovi17]

So I'm a successful guy in my career but still ZERO success with women. Make it make sense 🤷🏼‍♂️ UK and earning roughly £60k, putting me in top 10% of all earners. London salaries skew the 'average' so please don't use London's extortionate salaries to be representative of the UK as a whole. The median salary as a result is therefore much lower than the average salary, just as is the same with house prices for the same reason. If I'm making more than 90% of all other guys, why am I not getting better success with women than 90% of other men...? 🤔

[@SGV_777]

Money isn't everything Physical attractiveness Posture Tone of voice Character Social Status/relationships Personal Style Hobbies All these matter more than all the money you could have, self development is everything. That still doesn't mean every girl will want you but it does majorly increase your chances of getting at least a few

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

Because women dont care about money as much as men think they do. And because you just said your income but nothing else about yourself how you look, how you dress, your interests, if you smoke, drink too much, if you keep yourself clean and smelling good so we wouldnt be able to tell you why you arent having much luck. I will say that if you were in the US your UK accent alone would raise you up 2 points in attractiveness.

[@crazygreenlady7907]

A man's money can buy women, but his personality will attract women. Men who talk about how much money they earn are a bit of a turn off tbh.

[@zerosumequation]

Nobody cares what Dr Sarah Hill thinks . . 😂

[@Creatrix.WiseWoman_Appalachia]

He came up with better questions than she could answer. She hasn’t seen much evidence on on how a woman’s father plays in regarding her choice in a partner? WHAT STUDY HAS SHE LOOKED AT? That’s logically the most well known amongst laypeople area of concern! My mind is blown by the sheer ignorance in the sense of being uninformed about that. 🤯. (Amongst those who profess to be an expert)

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

​@@Creatrix.WiseWoman_Appalachia Im an older millenial (age 38) almost no woman my age that I know be it people I went to school with or coworkers even had a dad around that they even knew so how can those women pick men like their dads when they dont even knpw their dads? All I knew myself was "dont pick a guy that drinks" because I didnt grow up with my dad around but the one thing I did know was he was an alcoholic so I picked a man that didnt drink a drop. Turned out drinking isnt the only think that can go wrong with a man.

[@jennywilliams4550]

Worst interview I have seen on yr podcast. This was just wrong. Very disappointing!

[@hedwignl8118]

Is this woman considered an expert?! 🧐

[@hotkeyafl]

Why Men aren't Attracted to "Oestrogen Experts"...

[@studiomirabelle914]

For non nativ speaker hard to understand her ! And ig makes no sens.. 😢

[@دلال14]

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[@maxdoubled4800]

She knows she's a 3.5 at best right?

[@م4ب]

My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called and talked and tried hard, but no one responded. Oh man, we are with you. My mother ordered us food from the restaurant. More and today. My mother left. Crying. She said, Why are you crying, my mother? She said, My daughter, I ask. God, that I may be honored by death. She said, Why, my mother. She cursed us. She said, "My daughter, today the restaurant owner insulted me. I said, 'Why?' I said, 'How can I be better than people?' I ask God, my daughter. May God gather me. With death alone, a gathering that is better than this humiliation and this humiliation. It is true. I am saying this. It diminishes my value and respect. But, man. I swear to God that I did not say this. I kiss your boots. I am so hungry that my conscience no longer allows me to let you go and ask us for food. I kiss your boots, man, and I ask you by God Almighty and in the Book of God, man, I kiss your boots, man. He has caused us harm, my brother, so that we can buy a kilo of flour and pay the rent. My brother, have mercy on us. He who is in the show will have mercy on you, He who is in the sky. My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: *00967779509554*. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full name. He will transfer us as much as he can. May Allah reward you. Allah knows that my family and I, our house rent is 15 thousand Yemeni riyals per month, and now we owe 45 thousand for 3 months. The owner of the house is one of those people who do not have mercy. By Allah, my brother, he comes every day and humiliates us and talks about us and wants to throw us out of the house and into the street because we were unable to pay him the rent. We will have until the end of the week, and if we pay him, he will swear by Allah that he will throw us out into the street without mercy. See my situation for yourselves. I ask you by Allah, the Living, the Eternal, to help me. By Allah, the Almighty, even at night we cannot sleep from fear. We do not have mattresses or blankets to warm ourselves from the cold. Everything is flooded from the rain, and we have no one but Allah and then you. My brothers, I kiss your boots, don’t turn me away empty-handed. Help us with whatever you can. Is it acceptable to you that we live in this place? We are girls and we have no one. Our father died in a caraccident. Consider us your daughters and your honor, and help me with whatever you can. May God reward you with good =>[[}>] ^][;&&&//&..,~~~♡♡~~~♡~~♡~•~•••••~•(･|.}]◤)~♡~♡~;l.i.i.i¡¡.i.i.l.|-.»◇◇..........*