Sneaky Ways Narcissists Infiltrate Your Life

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The Enlightened Target

Күн бұрын

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@FrikkinVampireSociety Ай бұрын

Devious creatures. Possessed by something unnatural

@dclarke1896 14 күн бұрын

It’s still hard for me to believe that this was done to me. Somehow I’m still standing. Thank you for educating survivors like myself so that we can protect ourselves.

@IzabelaWaniek-i1x Ай бұрын

I had almost everyone in my social and professional circles infiltrated by the narcissist. And I have lost all those relationships within a couple of years. It’s absolutely overwhelming and the grief I have felt is heartbreaking. It’s indescribable.

@truthiseverything9511 Ай бұрын

SAME

@christinetaylor8975 Ай бұрын

I was the target at my workplace in a State agency in Alabama, and experienced most of these evils. The Narcissist used her Allies gained at my expense to climb up the ladder of professional success.

@meabeck 25 күн бұрын

It is. You are not alone.

@jocelineblerot7887 Ай бұрын

Stay as far away from them as is humanly possible. Toxicity has no place in a human being's life, EVER. Get educated, be watchful, know what signs to look out for.

@yly5991 Ай бұрын

My covert malignant narc parent has done all of these things in my other parent's life and my life. Even though the narc is no longer in our lives, they have severely isolated us from people. My narc parent is still able to manipulate our social circles perceptions of us because they are considered so 'trustworthy and dependable' to our circles. It is shocking how calculated they are under the guise of kindness and helpfulness! And it is so difficult to get your life back after they've infiltrated and broken you down!

@LR-yu3mx 3 күн бұрын

Same with me. My dad and I were her targets

@meabeck 25 күн бұрын

Thank you so much, Jill Wise.

@gregoryritchie7852 Ай бұрын

Thank you for providing the DETAILED "why's" and "how's" of the narcissist's impact and aftermath of devestation.

@MbraceTheRandom Ай бұрын

I just went down this list and checked off nearly every single one of these as how she acted. I was only with her for half of last year before I walked away. She was in the process of trying to isolate me from friends and family when I did finally see her for who she really was and get out of that relationship. It was really hard to do that, and on top of it, I had to see her every day at work (she was a coworker), which allowed her to try and manipulate me back into a relationship.. I'm still healing.

@Schmoityface 26 күн бұрын

Well done!

@inaina4535 Ай бұрын

Oh my, do I recognise all this shit too well. I think this was one of the best videos you've ever made. Thank you so much!💖 You are gold!💛

@theenlightenedtarget Ай бұрын

Thank you! 🙏

@fireupyourheartfortruth Ай бұрын

Thank you Jill and everyone here❤

@fifinafan6354 Ай бұрын

These are all where the toxicity of a narcissistic relationship stems from. Thank you for helping us recognize theses patterns.

@jasonjones4492 Ай бұрын

They are very sneaky manuplitave little creatures thats for sure. Great video Jill thank you so much for sharing😋🎯💞

@robeastwood2093 Ай бұрын

Thanks again. Clear teaching for us all. You're a life changer. Yes the over the top sudden gifts/presents out of nowhere?? Usually means something else. When I was told I seemed ungrateful. I replied 'that's not sorry!' Or you taking responsibility or changing anything.

@zandatee Ай бұрын

min 15:43 Infiltrating social circles - mother perfectly used this against my father. Primary with fathers RELATIVES - sisters and wide range of relatives. Dont let them do it - dominate relations with your people. Your spouse has their own relatives and friends - no need to sneak in and dominate contacts with all your friends and relatives. If it is not possible - get rid of such a dominating partner. I witnessed it and there is something repelling and abnormal in such behavior.

@sharonyoung4386 Ай бұрын

Spot on accuracy here. Great explanation all around.

@dontbelongherefromanother Ай бұрын

My narc neighbor manufactured a crisis (break-in) in my apartment by a homeless guy, after I cut off contact with him, stopped speaking and interacting with him due to his vicious and abhorrent behavior. His goal was that I reached out to him for help when the homeless guy was banging on my door trying to break-in my apartment. I didn't and handled it on my own. I threatened the homeless guy that I was going to call the police and called 911, and he left. My narc neighbor was witnessing this incident the entire time and lives less than 10 ft from me. However, I have no proof that my narc neighbor manufactured this incident, my gut instinct believes he did. It was like a scene out of the Twilight Zone. You can't make this up. Great Video!

@sage_forensics_2261 29 күн бұрын

I believe you. I've dealt with a narc neighbor in addition to the ones in my family/divorce. Neighbors aren't discussed as often, but WOW! They can really cause chaos in your life! Each narc will create their own personal brand of it, so I haven't had this exact experience, of course. I simply wanted to support you. It's SO unnerving knowing someone wishes you ill and lives so close. 🙏💜

@dontbelongherefromanother 29 күн бұрын

@@sage_forensics_2261 thanks, appreciate the suppprt

@dontbelongherefromanother 29 күн бұрын

@@sage_forensics_2261 thanks

@bonnieinthespirit6373 Ай бұрын

Got me on all points !🎉 what real. Trusting person I am….. 🎉🎉wake up.. time to come back to living “LIFE” 🎉🎉. You are worthy!! 🎉🎉 1 peter2:8-9-10🎉🎉

@rascallyrabbit Ай бұрын

yes, we are genuinely good, and it takes so much to see them as the evil they are.

@michaelgarrow3239 Ай бұрын

What can you do when the damage is done? When your mind is damaged and you can’t think anymore. I don’t want to live anymore. In the end they think your ignorance is your fault. They are doing you a favor- teaching you a lesson. FTW

@spaceskipster4412 Ай бұрын

Don't give up on yourself...👌🏼 There is a new life ahead of you.

@MsRapture10 Ай бұрын

You pray for strength! I have been through these peeks and valleys myself. I’ve been stuck for over a year and can’t get out financially. The tactics I’ve had to withstand from him are horrible but I keep praying for strength and have educated myself into a powerful mindset. Knowing how pathetic he is and has to work to try to keep me in line makes me smile because I know my escape is coming one day I’ll be mentally free of him

@rascallyrabbit Ай бұрын

fear not. you can overcome this. look up and study neuro plasticity. you can rewrite your programming. all those suicidal thoughts are not yours. They were forced on you and into your mind. fight back. do not let evil win. probably, your parents and others hated you and wanted you dead. don't' agree with them.

@michaelgarrow3239 Ай бұрын

@@rascallyrabbit - Hello. The world is full of evil. This is all really hard. And didn’t need to happen.

@FarranLee 11 күн бұрын

So incredibly accurate. I often find myself questioning if my judgement has been correct or fair. But then I re-watch some videos and realse that yes, I am right, he is dangerous, he has been doing all these things to me since the very get-go. Thanks for putting these videos out, you are really doing a service to the world 🙏🙏🙏

@LeannePetrie-wf6lg Ай бұрын

Gosh, I should write a book

@arianasha Ай бұрын

EXACTLY 100% !!!!

@jeannejubie1166 Ай бұрын

This accurately describes how one of my siblings infiltrated my life, beginning with manufacturing a crisis in which she could appear to be the savior.

@LR-yu3mx 3 күн бұрын

60 years of my life, the narc mother influenced my existence. So glad she is no more.

@m.f.richardson1602 Ай бұрын

Thank you, Jill❤

@georyin872 Ай бұрын

my wife does it all

@hurricaneaquatics Ай бұрын

Yes, I've lost many, very high level, high paying, jobs because of my spouse demanding I do something for her that interferes with my work. It's so covert that you don't see it because you don't know you're married to a demon.

@3mindgame Ай бұрын

This video is Great Jill !! Thankyou!! Much needed!

@happygritsnorris9156 5 күн бұрын

I never wanted to be a "Narc Survivor" . Yet here i am. 💔

@TracyNewton-q3b Ай бұрын

Yeah the new acquaintance who likes their own voice ,trys to invite you to stuff,trys to give you stuff,and not even asking you,boringly obvious when you know 👍 thanks though,one of your best .

@437Colie Ай бұрын

All of it 💯% he did ALL of this & more. He's also a cop so he's great at this manipulation

@theenlightenedtarget Ай бұрын

So many of these people go into law enforcement. It’s scary.

@437Colie Ай бұрын

@theenlightenedtarget thank you for the comment. This is how he meet unassuming people when on duty..its how we met & my guard was down. The discard was one of the most terrifying times I've ever experienced. He drives around looking for girls while on duty that are vulnerable to infiltrate.

@bettydeil9032 Ай бұрын

Very accurate Thank you ❤

@JKDVIPER 22 күн бұрын

4:03 That made me think about this differently. You know those circumstances where the obvious just gets missed? You know when, you see one character going all out for everybody, being the solid advisor for people, lending money, giving help, time, almost bending over backwards to help them. But when a problem pops up in the family/marriage/union, we sometimes see the very cheap gas light narrative come into play. So now, a situation where family/friends are supposed to be supportive in every sense of the word, but instead all you get is doubt, stress, confusion, and panic. All because nobody noticed all the good qualities of the victim. So as the abuser attempts to make the victim look insane, nobody fixes it or supports the person, because they only noticed your flaws n fears. They know what gets to you. 🤢🧠💯so I see that as being positively disturbing.” 😬🙏💯”of course on the bright side bad feelings aren’t a state of being, but they do stink. I really relate to that kind of story. Meaning, the instant real time cues from the abuser hurt, but the bad attitude from people you thought you could trust is worse in a way.” 😌

@Nick-cs5yc Ай бұрын

One could teach for weeks, months, yrs on end everything to know about the narc creature, but what is needed, is knowledge of how to deal with these monsters, effective countermeasures!!!

@bradleylaford1526 Ай бұрын

Depends upon whom the "Targets" are & whether they've not a history of Courtesies? Strangers whom are concerned about this are merely against the subjects communicating. Success Saboteurs are arguing that the victims are ambitious; this argument is no longer valid once the victims become content...

@ScottPfeister-r1o Ай бұрын

Pure hell my ex-wife a covert narcissist found out my phone number after I had changed she's text message me header children leave voicemails I'm changing my number again hopefully this will do it I know what they're a covert narcissist don't ever try to expose them

@TheDevineFempress Ай бұрын

He told horror stories that when I spoke to the people who did these things they said it was a lie ….

@zandatee Ай бұрын

Min.9 chaos. - Could it also be demand to sell co-owned properties? Several at the same time. Mother has no need for money she is soon 80. But as a co-owner she feels troubled that I use f.ex. families summerhouse. So I literarly have to sell the existing and buy another nearby instead so I hope to win peace. But there are other properties where she tries to cultivate the same feeling. She is 80 but she still tries to play the captain of a ship, where she is a guest same as me. Dad earned them. I have a feeling that it is a never ending principal - just not to let live in peace. So I hope such acts of separation - sell and buy a new one - will help.

@Nick-cs5yc Ай бұрын

My narc parent constantly complains to me how they are embarrassed by me!! They cycle through their long list of predictable personal attacks, anything from hair to clothes, etc….

@Sublette217 Ай бұрын

My ex-fiancée was constantly creating manufactured crises, which I realized fairly straight away. It sucked up time and resources that needed to be applied elsewhere. When I cut ties with her the artificial drama ceased.

@raidenewalden4354 5 күн бұрын

He did that to me .

@kat-75 27 күн бұрын

They never made me feel appreciated or valued, so I do get a bit lost as to some of the way you explain things.

@Brenda-t5r Күн бұрын

One thing they do is to move in next door to you at your apartment complex. Sigh! 🤦🏼‍♀️

@TheDevineFempress Ай бұрын

Their eyes turn black - the evil comes out….

@NarcissistFreealmost Ай бұрын

💯👍

@dazpearce2096 Ай бұрын

nice one Jill - you'll make a bad video one day but it's a while off...😃 I had to laugh earlier this year when I found that thousands of e-mails had been trawled through by a resident narcopath in my life - the aim was actually to manufacture a 'trouble situation' they could then 'rescue' me from. Unfortunately for him they found nothing incriminating - and then the guy he got to do the trawl coughed when we ran into each other in a bar (guilty conscience I suspect). These ghouls will literally engineer a crisis they can then 'help you out of' to induce gratitude. Sinister is not the word...

@BillN-lp9xq Ай бұрын

Fear of sabotage is real and brutal

@nurseannesinspirationalwellnes Ай бұрын

❤

@TheDevineFempress Ай бұрын

I did that for three years till I realized that was a game …. That phucker wasted my time. … and then tried to get me not to return to Los Angeles where my life was… the day he found out I was trying to leave he nearly beat me to death strangled me and smothered me with a pillow…coverts are very very very dangerous… I was “his”

@EnergyWork Ай бұрын

I’d love to work something out to where we can do a podcast talk.

@AlexWilliams-c9l 5 күн бұрын

Do you think they would go as far as to set you up to get hurt like for insurance money or something like that some weird stuff been happening situations but I've been blowing it off