Should Men Tell Women Their Problems & Look To Them for Answers? (Show 12 | Season 2)

On this episode of TheFallenState: Rolondo Talbott, a husband, father, and creator of the blog "Redefining Dad" discuses the role of men and women in a marriage, embracing "non-traditional roles," leaning on the wife in moments of weakness, decision making, old school values vs. modern values, and more! Be sure to watch the trailer for NEXT week's episode featured at the end of this show.
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[@scalethemachine]

You can tell from his indirect manners that his goal is to avoid conflicting with his wife at all times.

[@janiecekeys4765]

scalethemachine trained whipped and metrosexual

[@JE-lv1bl]

Also from his high pitched voice. His wife beats him down mentally so bad, he's writting a blog. Amazing

[@Chitin5]

scalethemachine BETA It’s so obvious

[@motox1035]

When him and his wife disagree, he immediately looks at himself to see where he falls short. He def does not lead his wife.

[@wearewarriorseaglesjaguars6342]

He’s “mommas baby”.. not daddy’s lol. Good dude tho.. he’s just a little lost in mommas ways lol

[@fredjones6800]

The guest always starts out strong till Jesse holds up the mirror. They always get this look like a deer in headlights. The more they try to justify, the faster they go down in flames. This should be a lesson for the rest of us. Jesse is so good at this game.

[@phyzlatte]

He says he’s the spiritual head of his wife then proceeds to say she’s closer to God than he is. Then how could YOU be HER spiritual head? 🤔

[@bmlove81]

God is to be the spiritual head of both man and woman.

[@malikholcomb8433]

@@bmlove81 God over man. Man over woman. Woman over child.

[@jaxjr121]

Good point....

[@rwc6372]

If men listened to women it would be a scarier world than it already is

[@nathaniel972ful]

He said everything about the relationship when he said he have to come prepared with arguments when confronting his wife. No man should be okay with that. He's below her at any time.

[@pretty-micky3737]

So his wife is an attorney and he's an online blogger? She's definitely getting outside pipe.

[@HustlasFigureItOut]

Tons!

[@MegaYoungday]

For sure

[@elizabethd.838]

And he’s a Bayyyyyytah!

[@Aye_Yo_E]

18:23 made me choke a Pringle...My God

[@MegaYoungday]

This is an example of a man who just goes along with society for self-gratification, but call himself a "Christian." The "Christan" way is to not go along with society, and speak the truth in the face of retribution.

[@joannfreedman1625]

To a lost and dying world Jesse makes no sense but to those who Hid is saving he speaks truth and life. Love you Jesse!

[@JE-lv1bl]

God bless you Joann. Remember only liars get offended.

[@ceh4702]

I married an Asian Woman (Korean). She passed away last year. We had a marriage that was good overall, but I had problems with credit cards. However, after learning to face facts and have real communication with my wife and family we learned to work together to solve our problems. We also learned to live for our children. Marriage works best when you learn to sacrifice and work together.

[@flavorsweet8931]

great show Jesse. I agree with you about what a man is. teach these guys how to be men.

[@drewknowswhatsright]

Good job JESSE. Men need to understand this! We need more people like Jesse so that people can understand what things should be like at home cause that’s where the problems start. But see nobody wants to open their eyes. Thanks Jesse God bless you 🙏🏼

[@JoseAguilar-dl1om]

Every time Jesse quotes the bible, these fake christians always say, "and I understand your opinion and respect it....". Like, dude, those aren't his words and opinions, he's quoting the Bible, God's Word. But since they reject Gods Word for themselves they don't see or hear that.

[@Torakan1]

Ironically Jesse often does the same thing. It’s an interesting show but Jesse is not a Christian. Check out his interview with ray comfort... brutal

[@JustinDAMusic]

I like Jesse's channel and his interview style but when it comes to the Bible he is definitely not on point. Jesse actually often misquotes the Bible and many of his beliefs are contrary to the Bible. So no one is rejecting God's word. You obviously know very little about the Bible and that is why you fall for it.

[@Supermoneygang12]

@@JustinDAMusiclmao grandstanding about how knowledgeable you are of the Bible while putting someone down is pretty ironic

[@flipphone582]

When a man cannot say he is the head of his wife he is really saying she rules him.

[@melthomas6519]

Flip Phone exactly

[@erenyeager41]

You're very sad as a human

[@flipphone582]

@@erenyeager41 lol

[@biggatap]

he a BETA male

[@erenyeager41]

@@biggatap you got that right about the old geezer

[@gov3rnor17]

“ _I noticed that a lot of men tell their wives their problems, and that is new to me_ “ 🤣🤣🤣

[@brendanmichel5215]

I spent 8 formative years in a serious relationship. DONT TELL THEM YOUR PROBLEMS!!!!!!

[@williejonessr3882]

💯😂

[@PatrickHowerton]

Made this mistake.

[@baileybroussard5302]

a wife knows her husband's weaknesses even if he never talks about it. We aren't blind.

[@bowlingbbabe]

Bailey Broussard according to jesse, we are. Hang on until inget the smelling salts, since we are so weak minded

[@Sam-dd7tn]

Bailey Broussard Amen!

[@tinolands3959]

i learned from past experiences..that the woman knows the man better than he knows himself.. its just most of us are too ignorant to realize it.

[@Archonus]

You're all involved with weak men and are probably cheating on him or dumped him already.

[@CemSk1]

HA!

[@mary6aros]

WHY is it so hard for these people to say the man is the head of the woman, and she is his help meet for him?

[@melthomas6519]

Mary Smith Ephesians 5:23 King James Version (KJV) 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Cause they can’t handle this

[@saterialharris7921]

Don't ever tell a woman your problems and never cry because of a woman or let her see you cry.

[@MrThomasmorse]

I am understanding Jesse more and more. That's amazing! I certainly can see where I messed up.

[@damienhale021]

This a perfect example, how man allows the woman to be the head.. its going against what God wants smh...

[@TheFallenStateTV]

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[@duals-growthofculture2085]

BS! It says for the man to be head of the household and before that is says for husbands to submit to their wives and vice versa. Exactly how this man was. His heart is true

[@bmlove81]

God is suppose to be the head of both man and woman, it's called salvation.

[@malikholcomb8433]

@@duals-growthofculture2085 so sad how you can sit here and lie about what it says

[@malikholcomb8433]

@@SirMasterDim put them down how by telling truth

[@raveallnightlong]

I really see where you come from Jesse, but I strongly disagree that we had it 100% right 2000 years ago. It takes strength to admit you are wrong or to listen and try to learn from someone else - regardless of their gender. If my wife is a lawyer and I am a dentist, why should I not take legal advice from my wife. Things have changed. Women are educated now. This changes the dynamic and we need to socially change too. Unless you want to take women out of school.... Jesse?

[@DustinSrLenzo]

Dude can talk very well. Has a lot of great points. Good for him. He seems happy and thank you for your service to our Country. Good interview

[@JudgeJudah]

He talk like a cave dweller

[@duals-growthofculture2085]

It takes great strength to be honest about your weakness. And being a union you are going to realize your spouse's strengths and weaknesses

[@bmlove81]

Salvation is greater than marriage. You can get married until the cows come home, but if your not born again it means nothing. Evil people with evil intentions get married.

[@astronautantonio8340]

Jesse, you have brought so much light to thousands of people on what it is to be a man and I appreciate your work. So many men twist the bible to there liking and that is why there is a fallen state. If you're not a TRUE follower of Jesus and God's word then Jesse Lee Peterson won't make sense to you because this man knows what he's talking about. Society changes as it must because the book of revelations will be fulfilled. But God's Word will never change and His ways will always be the same. I encourage everyone who reads this to repent and follow Jesus if you aren't already before it's too late. God loves you! And Jesse, God bless you! Your wisdom is helping me realize things in my life and I know I didn't come across your channels coincidently. You're awesome! And funny too lol

[@yeel6182]

Agree.

[@harrisonhightower8255]

Jesse: "Are you a man?" Guest: "I believe so." Jesse's thoughts: "So no."

[@markimbelmes3007]

From the beginning of the interview, I am almost certain that this ronaldo guy is a weak man, by the tone and intensity of his voice. The way he sits - crossing his legs- and his body mechanics gave it all.

[@JudgeJudah]

Facts

[@Pookie_Poo843]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TheLazyGeneTV]

Black Americans seem to be much more concerned about mixed race relationships than most people

[@rickrouse7865]

I agree with most of what Jesse has to say. The man is the king and his kingdom is his family and home and the man gets his strength and authority from God. What I disagree with is how the woman needs the man as a go between with her and God. The man is God's surrogate but men are not perfect a man can't give a woman all she needs because the man doesn't have all she needs only God does. The woman needs a direct relationship with God not through anyone else.

[@TheFallenStateTV]

Rick, the order is God in Christ, Christ in man, man over woman, and woman over children. The order is in the Bible and it's clear.

[@bmlove81]

Perfect!! A woman should be just as close to God as man!! It's almost like Jesse is saying that a man is suppose to be her god, it doesn't work that way.

[@bmlove81]

@@TheFallenStateTV Christ is over man woman and children.

[@MegaYoungday]

Without man, there is no woman because God made woman from man. So how can a man not have all she needs if she can’t hold more than him? The lie of the devil is that man don’t have all she needs, that’s why so many women cheat and divorce at 80% of the time.

[@MegaYoungday]

Bennie Mangle Jr. are you capable of being a godly man or is that too much for you? If being godly is too much then I see why you have a hard time accepting the role of being the “head.” You gotta understand what God made you to be... it takes a lot of study and seeking brother. Today you will be shamed for simply taking charge of your own life as a man, and that makes us weak. Stop listening to woman on how to be a man.

[@JacksTestimony]

Thank you Jesse for giving me the right words to say to people who think like women in their arguments. I have had to give in to these women men because I haven’t been shown how to respond, but God shows me through this Godly man.

[@ws674]

you can hear the weakness in the tone of this guest's voice

[@jasonwings2967]

ws674 exactly

[@girumzemichael704]

ws674 Strong is loud and rude?! Get a life.. look for better role models than this sad Jesse.

[@melthomas6519]

ws674 ikr. I am single but I’ll stay that way before I would get with a man with less base in his voice than I have

[@jaco1sha]

He sounds scare of women and in particular his wife!

[@fatcraze216]

Its all about "BALANCE" Jessie, this man has found his balance and your not going to knock him over!!

[@biggatap]

@@JE-lv1bl so fucking true he sounds like a BETA male

[@theymockedjesusalso]

Can't be knocked down if you've already fallen.

[@christiegriffith4048]

@@theymockedjesusalso💯💯💯💯

[@mythologicalmyth]

No such thing as an equal partnership in marriage; just as there are never successful organizations with two CEO’s.

[@ws674]

profound analogy, i like it!

[@janiecekeys4765]

Very attractive statement wowerz #notinterested #truther

[@tinytelephones]

Jesse's roles for men and women in marriage are so rigid to the point where both parties would be unequal and unhappy in my opinion.

[@jlptalk]

Lol

[@warmccl]

now that's the truth.

[@yeel6182]

Jesse's view on marriage is biblical. Men and women are not equal and will never be equal. It is wise to take heed on the Lord's teachings.

[@warmccl]

Jesse doesn't use scriptures and bases his belief off of his own understanding, which the bible says not to do. He even demonizes women in his conversations, something else the bible says not to do. I bet he reads the king James version, a bible with a dead language instead of reading the new world translation. He twists the bibles meaning like a pagan.

[@MyEscapeLV]

"Men and women are not equal and will never be equal."If you mean to say that each men and women are superior to each other in various ways, then yes that is a true statement. But if you're implying that men are superior to women, and always will be...you're an idiot.

[@McCannon21]

"A true man should fill her woman up with semen, not with worries and troubles" - Old saying.

[@ndaneh7]

Jesse Peterson, I understand your point on overreacting, but as for getting angry the scripture does not agree with you. Getting angry is okay, but sinning in your anger is the problem.

[@Mr4shoyaright]

BINGO

[@toddosterhout9866]

et. g wrong the Bible says “Be angry and sin not”. Read the Bible for yourself and stop believing everything JLP says. You think Jesus was angry when the idolators were in the temple selling things. Do you think he was mad at Sodom and Gomorrah? Do you think he flooded the world out of angry because of what the world hat turned in to?

[@d.sweatt360]

@@toddosterhout9866 facts, preach pastor

[@JE-lv1bl]

Anger separates you from God, so anger is ok if you like being separated from God.

[@toddosterhout9866]

J E Wrong. What do you think the Bible means by “Be angry and sin not”?

[@richardcastor9210]

Strong women doesn't mean weak men. Help meat in the bible (referring to women) means "intellectual observer." Women are (in part) meant to observe the good or bad actions of men, and to report them to God. God is not a respecter of persons. Regardless of gender, age, race, etc. God does not love one person above another. The Bible is pretty clear on this stuff. Men are strong is some things, and weak in others. Women are strong in somethings, and weak in others. That's why men and women go together, to help balance one another.

[@rodneycollins8601]

So god needs women to report the actions of men to him? It is said that god knows everything past, present, and future, so how is it that he needs reports now.

[@arkansastrey9694]

A wise woman is one who chooses a wise man to lead her -Roy Masters

[@jason4522]

What a surprise and a treat!!! I didn't get the notification on this one but that's why I keep checking your channel. Another awesome episode of truth VS ignorance.

[@willsr.9154]

This dude here has mangina written all over his face......I would never marry a female attorney....

[@JE-lv1bl]

He's broken.

[@DiddyKatt]

Female Doctors to

[@tinytelephones]

Women aren't strong enough to hear issues from their men? Nah

[@incorrect5083]

Women aren't strong enough to hear that their hair isn't looking good.

[@ExploringHabit]

+In Correct lol

[@GeorgiosD90]

This lovely cat gave by far the best answer to this question. Amen!

[@seanbirch]

Yes, because every woman is the same. All of them. Generalising is in no way wrong.

[@AvidiaNirvana]

Everyone from every group is exactly the same as the small percentage of said group that is seen is the worse light. Haven't you noticed this? Be it women, men, white people, black people, cops, Muslims, Christians, college students, etc, etc.... It's not correct, but that's how people think.

[@jediswordmaster123]

This host doesn't understand that expressing emotion doesn't equal weakness.

[@littlemoto1]

JeffFlann emotional equal be women like u

[@pretty-micky3737]

Being emotional is a female trait.

[@ceh4702]

In the Bible Eve was described as an Help Mate. In a marriage you have to be separate but equal. More marriages have been ruined by lack of communication and the inability to face reality. Women know more and are stronger than you think.

[@PrymeMick]

His wife is the boss of him. Great interview Mr. Jessie.

[@robk2c958]

People need to really understand that "Hispanic" is not a race.

[@repenttoday1940]

I don't understand y people always said that

[@sonar245]

wow! what a joke. weakness is to be afraid to look to your wife. pride is a sin and your Jesse's stance on this is unbelievably prideful.

[@malikholcomb8433]

Not prideful. The way of God

[@malikholcomb8433]

Dnt be a Godless heathen your whole life

[@adielwilson8749]

Yeah I agree with Jesse Lee Peterson I only share problems I've overcome for the benefit of others. I feel men are supposed to search for the answers themselves.

[@scorpi972]

Jesse I see why you don't have a woman

[@ebt1117]

why don't you have a man?

[@ThaRedPitbull]

LMAO

[@marlonspencer5159]

Lol, especially a black sister, hahaha

[@theresmoretomethanthat5929]

Come on JESSSSEEE! Tell the truth! People may not like this brotha! But he tells the raw, unpopular truth!

[@worshippers3590]

19:30 Did I hear right? You need to pray before having sex out of marriage??? WHAT?

[@jason4522]

Also let me add that you can always tell that the truth is becoming uncomfortable when they start to stutter and say "let me explain". One of the biggest problems now is that satan (the father of lies) has twisted people's minds and hearts to accept half truths to distort Gods word and their souls will be dammed. Actually pretty sad :(

[@MegaYoungday]

that's deep

[@MyEscapeLV]

I lost a lot of respect for Jesse in this video. His ideology on the dynamic between a man and a woman are so outdated and primitive. I wonder how many wives Jesse has gone through, with an ideology like that. The answers that Jesse wants are almost too absolute. There are simply some answers that cannot be answered with a yes or no. However, this guest was one of the most intelligent people that he has had on the show and I thoroughly enjoyed his thoughts.

[@actownsend7288]

I believe if you can’t talk about your wife about why you’re sad or angry.. you can’t talk to her about anything important.

[@soulthompson6698]

I love the part, "What do you mean personal!" What is wrong is wrong

[@Mr4shoyaright]

First off, the bible is not against anger. Secondly, anger and love can exist in the same space. Ask me to prove it!!!!!

[@kelvinmpatterson]

So are u standing up for anger🤣 it's cool I Kno angry people don't think clearly

[@xrespeckx7129]

Prove it?!!!

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

Someone whose always angry cannot love. Anger in itself is not bad. Be angry but sin not. Get over anger by forgiving quickly.

[@bmlove81]

God hates sin, sin angers God. I'm thankful that God is merciful.

[@bmlove81]

@@kelvinmpatterson if God doesn't get angry then why did He create Hell? Have you ever hear of the Wraith of God?🤔

[@dconstruct9013]

simply put his wife runs him

[@parnelharris4346]

D CONSTRUCT too true

[@youngcypherbillions2336]

D CONSTRUCT how

[@daakrolb]

Yo SO accurate. He is clearly TERRIFIED of her. She must be a royal bitch. -Ahem- I mean "empowered woman."

[@jdspunkd]

Haha! Word!

[@kseke25]

D CONSTRUCT Simply put, he respects her as a fellow human being with a brain, mind, and life of her own.

[@spartacusantipas4580]

That person in the chair, (not a man) is a modern day punk.

[@N00019]

And you're a fucking moron.

[@raparttv1]

now days me personally I believe that a man should have as many women as he desires and we owe nothing to women or another man in this life, it's a doggie dog world... every man for himself

[@gov3rnor17]

RAP ART TV Dog eat dog but facts!

[@asiadrumm]

I learned a lot from this episode. This man should not confide in his wife because she is not emotionally strong enough to handle his problems (the woman is an attorney). And this man who understands that he has strengths and weaknesses and leans on his wife for her strengths is a WEAK man and father because he does not solely depend on God. Fascinating.

[@gybx4094]

If you tell a woman about your personal problems, the next day the entire city will know about it.

[@vildeve818]

Never heard so many stupid questions asked in one single intrview before..

[@malikholcomb8433]

What was stupid about the questions

[@BigDog446]

Is this guy married. I wanna interview his wife if he has one.

[@NQuiz52]

WHY would he or How could he be married when women are corrupted from the natural order be feminism.

[@bamabear1459]

You are a very wise man and being a young man who is a husband who is also white, I enjoy your videos. It's refreshing to feel no bias, and just hear truth. There is so much division these days, but I truly believe you have a way of bringing people together in who you are. Keep speaking the truth sir ! Keep making the videos.

[@Mark-fr5of]

are you blind?

[@alexritola2750]

Jesse, you can redeem the word "partner".just because people have socially constructed that term to twist it to their own unbiblical theology doesn't mean he can't rightfully use that term !!!! You need to judge his heart and is heart is in the right place

[@bruins6699]

The road to hell is paved with good intentions.

[@bmlove81]

Amen!!

[@elizabethd.838]

Can we begin with the word “gay?” 👍🏼

[@tyroneprice6642]

Mr. Rolonda Talbott good interview. Pastor Peterson very inform question asking your guest.

[@d.sweatt360]

In the Bible Pre-The Fall, Man and woman was bone of my bone flesh of my flesh, Genesis 2:23, Man leave your father and mother and cleave to your wife, as to be 1 flesh Genesis 2:24...However Post-The Fall, Since Eve ate of the fruit, Her punishment was: Genesis 3:16 And thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee, Proverbs 31:3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings..Read your bible people, Study to show thyself approve unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth 2 Timothy 2:15 (Some folks out here need to study). Drops Mic.....

[@TheMastaBanana]

We *should* be angry about sin, just as Jesus and Paul were.

[@TruthSeeker19908]

If you find the right woman you can operate like this guest.. but keep in mind the right women are less than 20%. You’re better off understanding Jesse’s point of view which will work for the remaining 80%. Congrats to the guest on 18 yrs of marriage.

[@rosegirl9874]

Jesse again, you need to open your bible Ephesians 5:21 " submit yourselves one to another..." before scripture tells women to submit to their husbands (not every man) it tells husbands to submit to wives and visa versa. Seriously your ignorance is out of control. You need to study the word of God on a few things before doing anymore of these interviews (sin, anger, women in the bible etc.)

[@duals-growthofculture2085]

Amen

[@moretwocome21]

Jesse does not know Gods word!

[@pianotationsystem]

I think you're the one in need of god, you are taking that out context, what god means is that we should submit to each other in thr order that god intended, that is slaves to master, children to parents and wife to husbands. I recommend Voddie baucham's videos on the subject.

[@melthomas6519]

Rose Girl you need to open yours. Sit down-Ephesians 5:23 King James Version (KJV) 23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

[@ivonnatheartist]

He is clearly weak. It makes me cringe to hear a man saying he's ok with leaning on his wife/women/or girl friend.

[@wowboi69]

Great vid Jesse

[@johnnieboy66]

Absolutely not. Women will use your dark secrets and pains against you eventually.

[@owensbama1923]

This whole partner in marriage and putting the wife on the same level as the husband is so weak and destructive.

[@joshuasussman4020]

One has to be able to tell which wisdom he can absorb from another person and which wisdom he can’t. JLP is great to learn how to simply answer a question; how to take personal responsibility and not blame others for one’s issues. What NOT to learn from Jesse: anything about marriage. He’s never been married, let alone maintained a marriage. Something to remember throughout life: Never take marriage advice from an unmarried man.

[@andrewchayles]

Jesse is so right. He breaks down all that craziness. Follow God 100 percent. Sex will never break your marriage apart when you are lead by the spirit. That means the flesh is not in charge. You make decision out of the spirit and not the flesh. This is why this man is not the leader of his family.

[@djpodesta]

Jesse... as much as I respect you and your general views... I think that this guy, by the way he speaks, is one of the most balanced men that I have come across. Maybe his wife is closer to God because she ‘may’ pray more.... But I do agree with you about the sex before marriage.... that is where I messed up.

[@HappyPawsUK]

You a BetAA

[@josephcaldwell6400]

Jesse why shouldnt men get angry about evil? People who enjoy preying on and sexually, mentally, emotionally or psychologically abusing innocent children is not something God or any decent human being should "love".

[@amanda021174]

It is men like Jesse who give both Christianity and men in general a bad name. I agree with the guest. Marriage is a partnership, NOT a dictatorship.

[@Archonus]

Mandi0211 it is not a dictatorship but a leadership. Women want to be led by the hand. There is nothing wrong with this and it does not make them weak. It is their nature and is part of what makes them beautiful and worth protecting and sacrificing for.

[@alexanderblake3569]

I agree. Both husband and wife are human first. That means they will both add value to help relationship. A man IS the head but we need the woman too. It's biological and there is NOTHING wrong with looking to your wife for help or advice. Men have died of pride and I refuse to be with a woman who isn't smart enough to help out when needed

[@JE-lv1bl]

Jesse is right. Men...go to God with your problems, even if your wife is a lawyer.

[@JE-lv1bl]

Your cat is your partner. A man is your leader

[@joshipp761]

I like the guest views on hos marriage. Feels safe, to share problems with wife.

[@TazHall]

I disagree with Jesse in that I would want my husband to be able tell me *some* of his problems so I can pray for him. Not because I'm his Messiah but because we are one and have a physical, spiritual and emotional bond. If he doesn't talk to me at all I'd feel like a stranger to him. However, there are only so many problems I can bear as I'm not God. God can handle everything. If needed, yes he should go to His father or pastor for certain things. As would I. Use discernment, stay in the Word. The guest was very wrong for being so permissive towards fornication. I agree with Jesse on that point. You open your relationship to darkness when you sin sexually. He needs to repent for that sin instead of defending it.

[@kelvinmpatterson]

It's not ur job to pray for him. It's his own job and ur getting in the way of his leader ship. Women 🤦✌🏾

[@paulbrown5082]

Men are physically and mentally stronger than women. Women are emotionally stronger, and also more stronger in the early years of nurturing.

[@ahrayahbenjamintribe5544]

This man on the right is on point with 90% of what he’s talking about, but he’s going off when he starts to talk about marriage. No Christian truly knows what marriage is about. marriage is sex, It’s in the bible.

[@DH-hl5tc]

This guy is literally petrified of his wife.

[@whiteranger79]

If guys who date non blk women only say in private that they had trouble with them or they didn’t want them

[@livingthehartslife6538]

I’m surprise woman support This channel 😮Amazing

[@ministryofthewayofYehoshua]

It’s funny how this man Jesse never took care of his kid and his family but he has all the answers lmao

[@j.samuel9646]

I guess he learned from the past

[@jaywill19842011]

Jesse is angry... amazing...

[@helloworld-hr7te]

a major problem I have with Jesse's view, aside from the fact that its kind of sexist, is that he thinks that a man should never share his feelings and troubles with his wife. In my mind, if you don't share those things with each other it can breed distrust and distance. You probably won't feel that you know them as well if you don't know their feelings and some of their weaknesses.

[@JuNoSoLo]

...this guy is a blue piller lol

[@jacydyer5489]

Husband and wife are made up words just like “partner.” What’s your point Jesse! God didn’t make up words, we did!

[@creativevisiongaming]

I'm always confused with the christian explanation of waiting till marriage to have sex, since in the bible marriage was not what it is now. Not getting to much into detail, there's no mention of Adam and Eve having an official marriage ceremony, marriage license or any legal documents. Basically according the it's definition of man and wife with Adam and Eve is basically that they we're made to have sex with each other. So basically according to the bible when you have sex with someone you are married.

[@KBFilmRoom]

creativevision in the bible marriage is NOT sex look up the tokens of virginity if u had sex & were not married & given off by the father u were made an example (u were to be stoned) u had to have a sign (token) to show u did it the right way otherwise u were to be put to death

[@creativevisiongaming]

+Lawrence Stubblefield I'm talking about in the beginning of the bibile Genesis 2:22 And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man. 23 Then the man said, ‘This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; this one shall be called Woman,* for out of Man* this one was taken.’ 24 Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh. 25 And the man and his wife were both naked, and were not ashamed. Basically at that part of the story Eve was just created and Adam and Eve join together to make one flesh (sex) and there is no mention of a marriage ceremony. Just that they were mates because man and woman together make one flesh and become man and wife.

[@duals-growthofculture2085]

Yeah exactly. Jesse is wrong on this point. When you have sex you are married

[@krackmusik97224]

I partly agree with you, but I think it's a heart thing. Meaning that if you have sex and both of you are committed to one another in the heart and minds then you are married. On the other side, you could have sex with a female and not have a commitment in the heart or the mind, but only on the flesh part. And that is fornication

[@duals-growthofculture2085]

@A Kevin Yeah I see what you mean. I feel similar on that too

[@19stacymoore]

If you can’t say sex before marriage is WRONG, you can’t tell someone being gay or transgender, or drugs or selling your body is WRONG. If one thing is wrong it’s all wrong. If one thing is right “to you” then all is right. This is a BETA male defined. And he is not an anomaly. If God brought you this woman He did not bring her to you to do as you will. He brought her to you to do His will. Wait till his daughter grows up, he ain’t gonna want her to see this!!!

[@mythologicalmyth]

“I take it a step further....” He refuses to allow for a hypothetical situation.

[@turboslayerX]

"What is a man? A miserable little pile of secrets!"

[@CHELOF9]

He never answered what a man is.

[@turboslayerX]

Just joking. It`s a pretty famous line from a game "Castlevania" when Dracula speaks with the main protagonist before the battle ;)

[@heathkitchen4315]

We don’t divide by eye color, hair color, etc. so why do some people divide by skin color? It’s ignorant.

[@sirwhodison]

For someone that cant keep a woman happy or even keep around Jesse sure claims to know what a relationship requires

[@CHELOF9]

Why is it so weird when he tried to explain even how great his father is. It should flow easily why your father is considered so great.

[@olympusastrology9965]

inspirational

[@aviyahchaverim9388]

Race is not a biblical concept, it's manmade and therefore subjective to whomever decides to incorporate the idea. It's not solid truth but given to the reasoning of the social construct.

[@rolandbedeau3117]

No man should ever discuss his marital affairs with anyone no matter what. Why Jesse Lee always want to talk to other people about their marriage life when he himself don't have a wife. He had problems with black women listening to all his interviews.

[@typior77]

I have good question for Jesse. If Alabama at the time jesse lived there under Jim crow laws was so good for black folks because blk folks did all these good things, why did you leave Alabama to LA???? Your show should be in Alabama right??? Or everyone show go to Alabama