WHAT FILIPINAS SAY VS. WHAT THEY MEAN / Cracking The Filipina Code

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The Filipina Pea

The Filipina Pea

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@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
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@woodspirit98
@woodspirit98 3 жыл бұрын
While I'm watching this I just got a text telling me to not forget the ten bottles of water. I send her a list of things she needs to buy when she goes to the city so she won't forget. Lol. She always asks if I took my medicine everyday. And what did I bring for lunch and what will I make for dinner. Did I put the chickens away? If I ask her how her day was I always get the same response. Just ok.
@sdavis-59
@sdavis-59 3 жыл бұрын
5k views in 3 hrs! Good for you Pea!
@vernwilson956
@vernwilson956 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I sincerely enjoy watching all of your videos. You are very informative and humorous in the way you present all of your information
@xgymratx
@xgymratx 3 жыл бұрын
Hi pea....check your email
@stevef5812
@stevef5812 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Pea, I’m really going to need you to send me that code book.
@gary4451
@gary4451 3 жыл бұрын
Most Filipina behaviors are great. But some behaviors are not. Calling a bad behavior, like deceit or tampo, "culture" should not be a free pass. A couple should be clear up front what behaviors are or are not okay. Great video!
@JGTaylor62
@JGTaylor62 3 ай бұрын
If the Filipina says "42", you know she's read Douglas Adams and is a keeper. 😍
@rhonda-my_honda_cb500x3
@rhonda-my_honda_cb500x3 17 күн бұрын
The wonderful mega-keeper Pea took it to the next level yet again at 09:22. "My Droogs" ... is a reference from the 1972 film "A Clockwork Orange". The lingo used in that film was a made-up form of 'pig-Russian' -- that is to say, 'mangled' Russian. However 'Droog' is a direct unaltered lift from Russian and it means 'friend' (sorry, I'm Kiwi and don't have a cyrillic keyboard set up, so can't easily type the word in the proper cyrillic alphabet) .
@johnmurray202
@johnmurray202 3 жыл бұрын
As I often say to her " It's like we're from two different countries!" Thanks Pea
@roberttrout3588
@roberttrout3588 3 жыл бұрын
Lol that’s 😆 funny, I know what you mean
@louiscolman8124
@louiscolman8124 3 жыл бұрын
Nice introduction to the codebook but why do i have the idea there's a lot more in the book. So a simple question, where to get the complete codebook ? Great videa Pea, the jokes at the end are fantastic.👍😊
@nahteo
@nahteo 2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@guyandre4946
@guyandre4946 3 жыл бұрын
Wise men speak when they have something to say, fools because they have to say something, Filipina because they love you 😍
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
Awwww, how sweet! And often true 😂
@SoloPilot6
@SoloPilot6 3 жыл бұрын
Except that she doesn't talk during tampo, but THAT means she loves you, too.
@aicy5020
@aicy5020 3 жыл бұрын
what a beautiful story and a load of bollocks
@guyandre4946
@guyandre4946 3 жыл бұрын
@@SoloPilot6 yes indeed 👍
@altoclef6688
@altoclef6688 3 жыл бұрын
Or when there is something she wants/needs (which you will find out much later).
@daryltaylor8977
@daryltaylor8977 3 жыл бұрын
I've already had that talk with my Filipina ldr about tampo. I told her the second time that it was a game that I wasn't going to play! If she has a problem she better state it so we can resolve it. After her trying to ignore me after I repeatedly called her, I calmly told her that there would be no relationship if she kept doing it. After 2 days of no calls she was calling and begging for me to forgive her.
@hansreynders6853
@hansreynders6853 3 жыл бұрын
In short, you don't accept who she is. Seems to me a flawed basis to build your relationship. "Accept me who I am" has a broad meaning for a Filipino and means also that she doesn't like you to "change" her.
@larryashworth9003
@larryashworth9003 3 жыл бұрын
to me tampo is childish thing to do..
@gary4451
@gary4451 3 жыл бұрын
Playing along with temper tantrums or putting up with deceit is not a good way to build a relationship. A lot of bad behaviors are being excused as "Filipino culture." I am sure that a Filipina would not want us behaving the way that they sometimes do and call it "American culture."
@davmil2002
@davmil2002 3 жыл бұрын
What I find so endearing is the "bahala ka na (it's up to you) ". This is one of the biggest misque(s) in cross cultural. (Perhaps all cross gender). Trust me, it ain't up to you - just try what you think without putting what she wants first and find out.
@MrBilldo426
@MrBilldo426 3 жыл бұрын
As an American guy married to a Filipina for 13 years I can say I’ve learned a lot. And as I’ve been with her for so long we have both adapted and accept each other for who we are. It’s just hard in the beginning until you begin to relax and be confident in your relationship. Great info as always pea 👍
@jerrylansbury9558
@jerrylansbury9558 3 жыл бұрын
So......neither one of yous speak the same language ? No communications ? Hrrrrrrrrr I guess that would be big problem !
@prepperjonpnw6482
@prepperjonpnw6482 2 жыл бұрын
Do you live in the Philippines or the west?
@stevemoreton2751
@stevemoreton2751 3 жыл бұрын
Once again, you are so "on target" Pea! This video should be required viewing by all foreigners. I have experienced every scenario you discussed here, and it was a steep and costly, confusing and sometimes painful learning curve! But once you crack the code, you can apply it in every relationship you encounter here..personal, social,even business dealings. And again your presentation is so professional and entertaining!!
@jonathanport7427
@jonathanport7427 3 жыл бұрын
First time I arrived in Philippines in the 1970s I understood everything. Not so sure 🤣 now
@keinlieb3818
@keinlieb3818 3 жыл бұрын
Foreigners will try hard to adapt to Filipino culture. But, at the same time, it's also the Filipina's responsibility to also adapt to your foreigner's culture as well. This is not a one way street and the "tampo" treatment, if it goes on for too long, will only end in travesty for the relationship.
@moovitalong
@moovitalong 3 жыл бұрын
Well constructed and, as usual, very well executed. 100,000 is just around the corner. 🤞👍
@williamr.dicioccio471
@williamr.dicioccio471 3 жыл бұрын
Great.smart.accurate. I am verry old and you have put into words many things that I have been thinking.IF I ever meet you I want to give you a big hugg. You have brought to ligt so many things. Cant get enoughf. Outstanding
@robkal56
@robkal56 3 жыл бұрын
Your first two, "I'm just a simpler person" and "Accept me for who I am" always puzzled me. Thanks Pea!
@Steel_Monkee
@Steel_Monkee 3 жыл бұрын
Just last night, after 15 years of marriage, I pointed out to my wife I never know if I'm getting the real reason or what I call the good enough reason. She answered "it's complicated ". There is an exception though, but only if it involves my family or friends, many of whom she doesn't like. To be fair, she's generally right.
@patlilburn5251
@patlilburn5251 3 жыл бұрын
“My droogs” - !! Thank you, this coming shortly after the tongue joke just made my day. I don’t even know why, but using that expression in the middle of everything else? Chef’s kiss, you are in your own league.
@geneodom672
@geneodom672 2 жыл бұрын
Pea, just found this site and its helped me. My net girl for over 2 yrs. Thinking a true philapina woman is what I'm looking for. A real woman is all I want. My time is running out. I'm 55
@ausforaus7617
@ausforaus7617 3 жыл бұрын
The same rules apply, in general, to Chinese and I suspect to all SE Asian cultures. My ex-wife is Chinese and I was often amused when she, her son, or her friends said "yes" to an Australian who assumed it meant, "yes". I learned that all it means is "Yes, I heard you make a sound, and I have learned that if I say 'yes', you will stop talking eventually, and I can get on with my life."
@prepperjonpnw6482
@prepperjonpnw6482 2 жыл бұрын
Ex-wife? Would you say bringing her to Australia (the west) contributed to your marriage ending? I’m asking because I’ve been hearing that if you marry a Filipina don’t bring her home to the west. Instead you should stay in the Philippines.
@wormer66
@wormer66 5 ай бұрын
@@prepperjonpnw6482 ive heard that too... several places and it makes sense tbh....why settle for one good man when you can have as many as you want...
@maxodixson3544
@maxodixson3544 3 жыл бұрын
“All fair in love and war” wow you know more about us than most of us in our own country. Damn you’re good.
@JoseNDoria
@JoseNDoria 3 жыл бұрын
After a couple of years of dating online in the Philippines. I learned that everyone has their own warning signs. I definitely recommend learning your partner before making an advancement. Great video as always.
@boracay12
@boracay12 3 жыл бұрын
" Dating " involves meeting a person and spending time together
@thomashauguel6811
@thomashauguel6811 Жыл бұрын
Definitely like the "simple" label. I'm extremely low maintenance, and prefer the person I am with to be as well. Being fancy and dressed up on occasion is fun, but day to day I prefer to be just me. I was fortunate that my former girlfriend was very upfront with me about what she liked and did not like. I think that is why we got along so well: Similar tastes. That thoughtfulness or attention to another female is going to be a real sticking spot for me. I was raised to be chivalrous toward women...any woman. I think communication up front is going to have to be key in defusing that issue (I hope). "But is she cute?" Too funny! You are a treasure, Miss Pea! Thank you for doing this video!
@mahad813
@mahad813 3 жыл бұрын
There's my favourite youtuber in the Philippines. Ms Pea in da house🔥🔥🔥
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks Mahad! That’s so nice of you 👍😊
@arnoldseay9118
@arnoldseay9118 3 жыл бұрын
Great video miss Pea. After all these years I’m still dealing with the code book. Problem is when I think I have it figured out it changes. The one thing that never changes is never look at another woman or let another woman flirt with you. I guarantee you even if she is not around that other woman will tell on you. But filipinas are not the only ones with a code book. Maybe it’s a woman thing.
@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114
@grandpapeteswordsofwisdom7114 3 жыл бұрын
I find after you explain things 3 times they get it. My second wife was from Argentina and she believed in saying yes to everything. She told me it was easy to say no later but harder to retract an initial no.
@im_a_ukie8951
@im_a_ukie8951 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to send this to the Filipina I just met..I’m sure she will love this 😎😎😎
@im_a_ukie8951
@im_a_ukie8951 3 жыл бұрын
Well…that didn’t last long 😔 almost got taken by a scammer.. back to the drawing board.
@dragonrln
@dragonrln 3 жыл бұрын
Useful information and counterintuitive to what we'd expect from many Western women. Thank you. I've encountered the jealous Filipina and the tampo. Neither are to be underestimated.
@twoweeledsoto6072
@twoweeledsoto6072 5 ай бұрын
I've already experienced a lot of this and I haven't even arrived yet! Amazing. No reservations about machine gun questions.
@jackiepoole5422
@jackiepoole5422 3 жыл бұрын
I wish you had told me all this years ago, but thanks for finally clearing this up. Now I know. Thanks for all your hard work. These are very professionally created and executed. Great job!!!! I can hardly wait for my next lesson 😌
@stan1027
@stan1027 Жыл бұрын
Whoa!! Thank you so much for talking about this. I was not aware of the things you mentioned. One thing I cannot and will not tolerate is a woman who says one thing and means something else.
@able34bravo37
@able34bravo37 2 жыл бұрын
I've been distance dating a Filipina for a year and a half, and I've noticed a number of these behaviors in her. I'm happy to say I correctly guessed the subtext in most of the situations, but I'm grateful for learning things like what "fancy" means to people there, because I never would have known otherwise. Edit: Also, you look good in that police outfit 🙂 Not as good as my Filipina would, though. Her hair is longer, and she's taller than you are, and she has a straighter nose. (Does that pass the test?)
@thomasedison2007
@thomasedison2007 3 жыл бұрын
tv station should be pick up. excellent journalism.. natural talent
@scottcondor3365
@scottcondor3365 3 жыл бұрын
Pea, where the hell were you when I met my Filipina ten years ago, or even 8 years ago when we got married? Most of these situations and codes have happened and I had to learn the hard way. Hardest for me to learn, and still an occasional problem, is the "last question is all she saw"... and worse, I'll go to the trouble of sending multiple messages of things I'm working on and asking questions, but all are ignored except the last one. I still screw that one up all the time, but at least when she doesn't see them I have an understanding of the reason, even though it doesn't make sense. Keep teaching Pea, I'm all ears.
@doyathink49
@doyathink49 2 жыл бұрын
where was she ten years ago? mmmm... middle school, I'd guess.
@user-qk7up8hp2t
@user-qk7up8hp2t 3 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to Part 2 (and 3 and 4 and 5 and...) 😄
@franklyntrades9
@franklyntrades9 3 жыл бұрын
Just brilliant, I get some of it. Wa helpful.
@michaelwilliams741
@michaelwilliams741 3 жыл бұрын
I have seen so many profiles that say " accept me for who i am " now i know what it means .
@scottallen8114
@scottallen8114 3 жыл бұрын
I've learned so much from you to better my relationship with my Filipina. Thank you!
@bigstick346
@bigstick346 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha TRUE!! Good video I've been to the Philippines 9xs, for a total of about 16-17 months. I go for my work. MY experience besides for MOST of what u said I noticed Filipinos give u information without actually giving u Information!!! Hahaha Makes me scratch my head!!! Also, they're the only ones who answer a question with another question!! Hahaha 1st time there and going thru this is an experience u need to see Hahaha Have fun all!!!
@1.5Deg_Is_NonNegotiable
@1.5Deg_Is_NonNegotiable 3 жыл бұрын
This is a great video on Philippine dating, very informative but I suspect there is much more that lies beneath the surface to this iceberg and I hope you will do a few more video's on this subject.
@MrJonnielights
@MrJonnielights 3 жыл бұрын
Advanced user here, 5 years married.... we even still love each other; that said your helpful to understand the fundamentals and the Whyyyy.... Good on you.
@pigeonsontraining
@pigeonsontraining 3 жыл бұрын
Things that I love about you: Smart,very intelligent Beautiful sexy body Lovely long hair Exotic skin color (true pinay beauty)... What I don't like about you?? I rather keep it to myself but keep it up,great job lady
@kenmichielsen1642
@kenmichielsen1642 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great episode Pea! It does clarify some things I've run into during our time together. She hates it when I ask who she's chatting with or so. "Are you checking on me?" But when I get a message from some random person she'll ask "who's that?" It's so funny because she says she not the jealous type... 🤣🤣 One thing I am grateful for is that she learned how to say no in the 24 years she's lived here in the Netherlands. She practices it on me daily! 😂🤣
@richtensail
@richtensail 2 жыл бұрын
no no no yep shes becoming a western woman haha
@CliffordHillman-u5b
@CliffordHillman-u5b 5 ай бұрын
So many times you have opened my eyes to the wonderful Philippine culture , I wished I knew these things 5 years ago , still learning 🙏
@CliffordHillman-u5b
@CliffordHillman-u5b 5 ай бұрын
And one more thing , a Filipina I’ve met here in America seems more than friendly , using a side hug but her hand brushes across my butt . Flirt or friendly ? My problem & hers is she’s married !
@jeffreysmith9267
@jeffreysmith9267 3 жыл бұрын
One of my favourite videos you’ve done. I like the strategy of going to have drinks with my friends.
@georgel74
@georgel74 3 жыл бұрын
You're right.. I took her everywhere, she always found her way back..
@ralphmossor3160
@ralphmossor3160 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I found your site Pea. You are so smart and informative and helpful. Great job as usual. Love ya
@larryconway4862
@larryconway4862 2 жыл бұрын
Pea , you’ve hit the nail on the head you seem to know why a lot of men will or will not a person of color I treat people the way they treat me. I also know it’s the way people of color treat others and for the same reasons I’ve told you many times about things you always answer back with a smile I would never have thought you were a province girl. But like so many there they refuse to intigrate into society you’ve learned this to better your channel. Allow me to explain. Your sisters need to slow their roll if they want to experience the west. The filapina/ o people are some of the brightest and best but your cities are molded after ours. You continue to mold your people and I’ll do the same. I know about TAMPO AND WHY. I dropped out of school to help my parents. I use to be more tolerant of people that I’m like a willow so I appreciate people like yourself so I learn your culture. I’d love to marry a filapina since ww2 you’ve been mistreated. We get that. Here , if someone poached a persons spouse you get dumped. I recently found out my land is worth 20 times what I paid for it. Just under $1,000,000. For that kind of money I’ll buy my filapina a nice home in the west. I will also teach her our ways and protect her.
@jefferywise1906
@jefferywise1906 3 жыл бұрын
As for myself and most other men I know reading isn’t high on our priority list especially when it involves reading between lines. Relationship either find a balance between both parties involved or get over inflated by issues and burst. Both people must work together to communicate and find understanding. So Filipina’s can’t put people from outside their culture into their “it’s always worked before” and that’s how it will be just as a foreigner can’t expect someone from another culture to understand them implicitly because that’s how it is back home. We can have miss communication with people we have known for years so expectations of completely understanding and or reading someone from another world, without a bit of work, is expecting a lot.
@frankshoemaker8886
@frankshoemaker8886 2 жыл бұрын
I finally met a Filipina here in Georgia. She is a single mom. She is amazing and we soon will travel to the Philippines together with her son. I have never been as happy. Keep up the great work Pea! We even watch your channel together.
@chuckhodges9227
@chuckhodges9227 3 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful woman! Intelligent and beautiful!
@pigeonsontraining
@pigeonsontraining 3 жыл бұрын
Intelligent yes 100 % I don't know what you mean by beautiful
@Broadie25
@Broadie25 2 жыл бұрын
Omg you are a genius!! My Filipina always says don’t forget to take your lunch to me and I’m like huh?? Thank you for the knowledge!!
@fingermagic
@fingermagic 3 жыл бұрын
I really like your 'pun humor' I find it apPEAsing! 🤣🤣🤣
@JohnS-zq8ks
@JohnS-zq8ks 2 ай бұрын
"apPEAsing" it's PeaFect 🤣
@RespectMyAuthoritaah
@RespectMyAuthoritaah 3 жыл бұрын
You are adorable. I have to admit I love your voice. I could listen to you for hours. I enjoy your intelligent upbeat approach to complicated issues. I wish you and your family all the best.
@robertshaw2602
@robertshaw2602 3 жыл бұрын
Plenty of great tips today Pea and really had to reach for my heart pills seeing your police uniform in the conclusion OMG.. lol. Love your work and hope all is well. Best wishes from cold Melbourne this morning
@thomaswiegand9658
@thomaswiegand9658 9 ай бұрын
Thanks! I truly appreciate all of your advice. ❤
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 9 ай бұрын
And thank you so very much for the tip ❤️❤️❤️
@garthrondeau8198
@garthrondeau8198 3 жыл бұрын
Your making great content. Keep up the great work.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much, Garth 👍😊
@scottp3287
@scottp3287 3 жыл бұрын
All right. I was speeding again 🤣. Great job Pea helping out the guyz who haven't experienced the P.I. yet.
@josesanjurjo4100
@josesanjurjo4100 3 жыл бұрын
It can't get better than this . Who know a Philipina better than a Philipina ? A lesson for all expats University Level.
@royfleury9860
@royfleury9860 3 жыл бұрын
Very sorry for the late comment on this video. I have been busy finishing my book. SO what you are saying is that when you say you don't love me!!! You actually love me LOL. You are by far the best vlogger i have watched over the last 4 years regarding the Philippines. You certainly outdistance your counterparts. Keep up the great work and I really love your game show
@davidplatter7671
@davidplatter7671 3 жыл бұрын
You forgot one of the most dangerous codes. When your Filipina replies to your question with "...up to you" 🤣
@jerrylansbury9558
@jerrylansbury9558 3 жыл бұрын
English.........up to you....means just that.....accept it ! And move on !
@daviedood2503
@daviedood2503 3 жыл бұрын
@@jerrylansbury9558 chill Jerry. It's not that deep. Stop telling people to "move on". But then again "it's up to you". 😂
@scottsimpkins2200
@scottsimpkins2200 2 жыл бұрын
Or in Filipino …Bahalaka
@daveeyes
@daveeyes 2 жыл бұрын
That's all women...
@2000ViperGTSsubscribe
@2000ViperGTSsubscribe 2 жыл бұрын
That is VERY much a Thai expression.
@nate61
@nate61 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for teaching me properly how to understand my future filpina pea as my asawa so I will not offend her and make sure she's is very happy and loved. Great Video ❤
@leea8451
@leea8451 3 жыл бұрын
I've been talking to my Filipina for 11 months now and I'm still trying to figure out the code. I need a printed copy.
@Michaelw777.52
@Michaelw777.52 3 жыл бұрын
You'll want the revised and updated 500 page version, lol.
@justinacurtis5689
@justinacurtis5689 3 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 3 жыл бұрын
"I love you" means "I'm tenderizing your wallet".
@stephenjones1850
@stephenjones1850 3 жыл бұрын
Be very careful what you say! It can flip on you in a heartbeat and you'll be fighting to save the relationship! Happened to me a couple times. Some words between the two countries have completely different meanings!
@MykSr
@MykSr 3 жыл бұрын
😂 LoL … never published, rewatch 👍
@geneodom672
@geneodom672 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for opening my eyes. I don't throw things in a woman face but some have done it to me. Thanks for the advice pea
@ManOfAdventure2011
@ManOfAdventure2011 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, please, more of this kind of detail on the thought process of a Filipina. More videos, even have another Filipina to corroborate. If I took the rule book and used it the same way myself when dealing with my Filipina, how do you think she would respond?
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 3 жыл бұрын
Rule 1: don't tolerate lying.
@DougKnowles-js3cv
@DougKnowles-js3cv Жыл бұрын
Hey Pea, another great video, very useful knowing the "code", I now understand my Filipina a little better thanks to your explanations. Your delivery is skilful and polished yet down to earth, and very witty. Humor and the subtleties of language between cultures are hard , sometimes almost impossible to translate, but you do an extremely impressive job at it!
@gregrodrigues5453
@gregrodrigues5453 3 жыл бұрын
Good evening Pea. As always looking gorgeous. Beautiful dress looks great on you and gorgeous hair. Very interesting video. Hope you have a great weekend 🌹 😍 😍 ❤️ ❤️ 😘😘💋💋
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
I sure would love to have a great weekend - thanks 👍
@gregrodrigues5453
@gregrodrigues5453 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Pea you truly have many beautiful outfits
@charlescox2840
@charlescox2840 3 жыл бұрын
@@gregrodrigues5453 Dollar store the whole outfit was less than a $1. Pea is cheap gives away all her money!
@ronnalscammahorn8002
@ronnalscammahorn8002 2 жыл бұрын
Salamat Pea , the torch 🔦 you Carry lighting the way is appreciated so much .. pagpalain ka mahal na ginang .
@johnwells3573
@johnwells3573 3 жыл бұрын
Pea, I laughed when you said, “I hope you enjoyed our session today” because you sounded like a therapist. But then, you are in some ways as you guide us in the right direction!
@billflixtone6684
@billflixtone6684 3 жыл бұрын
I am married to a Vietnamese lady and she works according to the same rule book. Great video thanks 😊
@micronotsoft6891
@micronotsoft6891 3 жыл бұрын
well .. they are Asian 😁
@asjka67
@asjka67 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Pea, great video. Excellent video. The story with the dog made me burst out laughing. I listened carefully, at the end I wondered: Isn't it a bit too complicated to have a Filipinas girlfriend? Maybe you should make a video about the positives point of a Filipinas girlfriend. Because after watching your video I think it makes sense to stay single. Your video provides a better understanding of why Filipino men are who they are. Very good video thanks a lot :)
@edwardmiller3968
@edwardmiller3968 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE the ending. Was VERY funny. And can use those cuffs
@gainzcoach1019
@gainzcoach1019 3 жыл бұрын
It took me so long to learn how to understand my Filipino girl, omg it was so frustrating 🤣
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha It can be a real adventure, yup 👍😂
@_Common_Logic_
@_Common_Logic_ 3 жыл бұрын
It's crazy at times, but if you think about it, it's a great way of "courting"... Making it through the "She's a perfect angel" stage that all stupid creatures (men) go through is the first step... But, if you can suffer through the ensuing work, frustration, acceptance, and the learning process of cohabitating with her while she's dealt with the same confusion brought on by our western traits without wanting to jump in front of a Jeepney, and you STILL love the hell out of her after all of that... There's a pretty good chance that you've found the one. 😉
@DallasCarr-1
@DallasCarr-1 3 жыл бұрын
What?! You mean you figured her out already? I've been married to my Filipina for 10 years and I still haven't figured out what she means when she says "What". I keep repeating myself and keep getting the same answer....
@paulereeves
@paulereeves 3 жыл бұрын
I love a "simple" woman they are the best
@jerrypauling7809
@jerrypauling7809 3 жыл бұрын
Pea will have over 100K subscribers before years end I'd bet money on it!
@SS-tr1th
@SS-tr1th 2 ай бұрын
She does. You win
@Michaelw777.52
@Michaelw777.52 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent as always. One phrase my new Filipina wife would say (more than 20 years in the rear view mirror now!) whenever I asked her opinion was "I don't know to you." Drove me nuts. I already knew what I thought, I wanted to know what she thought. It is still difficult after all these years of her living in the U.S. to pin her down on anything. I think part of this has to do with her being devout in her faith and not putting her own views out there, but it's also clearly part of her culture and makeup.
@Collusion10
@Collusion10 3 жыл бұрын
Show attention to any of her friends, and that friend becomes a "snake" in her mind.
@kdolo100
@kdolo100 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO!
@jaymortensen642
@jaymortensen642 3 жыл бұрын
I think the key to the meanings are in the eyes and body movements they reveal a lot of the implied message of what they are saying.
@carusmike
@carusmike 3 жыл бұрын
Never ask a filipino more than one question. Also applies to emails to banks and organisations.
@alfgooding1162
@alfgooding1162 2 жыл бұрын
Your code book gives non-Filipinas a great insight into how your people speak. I wish I had known all the things you mentioned before I got married to ONE and regretted it a few years later. What I would say to non-Filipinos is just leave those strange people alone and find someone in your own category and understanding as they turn the English language upside down. I warn you.
@Ed19601
@Ed19601 3 жыл бұрын
Isnt that true for all women? (Not saying what they mean). Anyway, great explanation. All recognizable. Not just in dating but in regular contact
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
All women use ‘code’, but a Filipinas is culturally different in some ways 👍
@Ed19601
@Ed19601 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea oh yes.. and it's a very thick book
@daledemary7654
@daledemary7654 3 жыл бұрын
You're amazing... Dating a fillipina that I have not yet met. You nailed it on the bulls eye!
@lajuanbest7990
@lajuanbest7990 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Pea, I did finally figure out the one question at at time thing😂
@carvercapitalequitypartner122
@carvercapitalequitypartner122 3 жыл бұрын
Me too. Sometimes even that one question gets ignored, or is it "overlooked".
@gregoryharstone4768
@gregoryharstone4768 3 жыл бұрын
Humm " want to take a shower with me?"my favourite Phil question first asked 10 years ago in antipolo and she still brings it up today :remember I asked u???cant remember what I said then?now just"oh thanks for asking"she is so proud of herself........love the sweet dimension of Phil.thinking!.....so sad I can't leave Thailand to take that shower now!
@BATMAN777888
@BATMAN777888 3 жыл бұрын
😂 Hello Pea. OMG 😂. You are so right with everything you say here 😂 I’ve experienced it ALL 😂 Funny video and I wish I’d found you last year. I love you so much sister. Keep up with these outstanding amazing videos. Really hope you get to 100k bananas soon. You are the BEST 😊👍
@louismacareo371
@louismacareo371 3 жыл бұрын
Every point, completely spot on . . . . especially your initial afterward phone call. Perfect!
@themikesullivan1
@themikesullivan1 3 жыл бұрын
"Even with the code book, sometimes you just have to read between the lines." That especially applies when your significant other is flashing you her extended index finger, middle finger, and ring finger - with her thumb and her pinky finger curled up...
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
@daryltaylor8977
@daryltaylor8977 3 жыл бұрын
The Pinay flip off?
@woodpeckery
@woodpeckery 3 жыл бұрын
Two of those fingers are decoys!
@auxmike718
@auxmike718 3 жыл бұрын
That’s the salute we used in Boy Scouts!
@edwardmarshall5295
@edwardmarshall5295 3 жыл бұрын
This was a great video, again. LOL. And so true. And at breakup time, well, that "turn on your head" thing must be universal. My ex gf keeps saying to me "That's not what I said". hahaha. Carly Simon has a great song: "It happens every time" that captures that. But when a Filipina says it, she is just 10X more beautiful!
@gregd.88
@gregd.88 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, what she says and what she means can be two completely diffrent things. I think she spoke ailen sometimes!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry we’re so confusing! I’ve learned to be more precise when speaking to a westerner 👍
@clydekimsey7503
@clydekimsey7503 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea well, im sure a Filipina like you--a unicorn of sorts--is very precise 😊
@dougwright111
@dougwright111 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you should publish the Filipina Code Book! 😎
@Collusion10
@Collusion10 3 жыл бұрын
1) Don't forget your lunch. 2) I just want you to be smile 3) It's fine 4) Please never left me 5) I am here always
@johnv5156
@johnv5156 3 жыл бұрын
Very accurate.
@Galahad54
@Galahad54 3 жыл бұрын
On 3) It's fine. My rule is always to believe her when she says that, and never ask any followup questions. This often leads to sweet, blissful tampo that may last days.
@leonwangls
@leonwangls 3 жыл бұрын
Congratulation for Philippines first GOLD at the OLYMIPIC.
@bojannisic2906
@bojannisic2906 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I can relate to that part of Filipinos not being capable of admitting they don't know how to point you in direction you are asking about. I almost miss my plane from Manila to Cebu because of that 😂😂😂
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh noooo! 😂
@bojannisic2906
@bojannisic2906 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea thanks to cab driver recognizing moment of urgency, it all ended well 😁
@dariusslade4953
@dariusslade4953 3 жыл бұрын
Prof. Pea, your hard work is always appreciated. "Keep on keeping on!"
@jayo7596
@jayo7596 3 жыл бұрын
We need more advanced techniques, please, and all information is appreciated. Lol
@geoff8751
@geoff8751 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant video, just what I needed for the moments of confusion with my gorgeous Filipina, and yep it’s my fault for not knowing this prior.
@lunchbox6576
@lunchbox6576 3 жыл бұрын
Filipina only saying yes explains why there are so many teenage mom's.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
@lesliesearcy
@lesliesearcy Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the information. I owe someone a big apology because I have been ignorant to certain moves. I appreciate your advice
@larsalvermo8532
@larsalvermo8532 3 жыл бұрын
My friend love TAMPO,.. he’s married to Philippine girl and the only time he can relax, no nagging and get good sleep is when she’s in TAMPO 🤣🤣🤣
@sacj80
@sacj80 3 жыл бұрын
Wow... An instruction manual??? Look I have been watching you last year and your are an amazing lady. I love the content!
@Cacerezimelda
@Cacerezimelda 3 жыл бұрын
Well Pea as i was watching this video i can't stop laughing coz i really am like that specially when im mad or jealous i would divert what i meant to say instead of stopping him from talking with friends while im hanging on i would say go on and keep on talking to your friends i'll be fine but after that he would not hear a word from me😂🤪🤪
@legganty
@legganty 3 жыл бұрын
Once again, I have another smile on my face Pea. Your cross-cultural knowledge is in depth and spot on. Your humorous delivery is unique.
@robertihde7806
@robertihde7806 3 жыл бұрын
Those three yes questions after telling us filipinas just answer..."yes." Now I wonder if it's really a "no." 😆
@ronniesouthern7829
@ronniesouthern7829 3 жыл бұрын
Another great video Officer Pea. Definitely information that will be useful. On to your other videos before I get read my rights for not doing so 👮
@Stormblessed72
@Stormblessed72 3 жыл бұрын
suppose it doesn't really matter when it'll be another 2 years before the Philippines opens up to foreigners 😞
@acunanan9712
@acunanan9712 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Pea. I'm a recent retiree to the Philippines after many years of stay in California. I am currently in Dumaguete and will be honored to meet with you. I am thoroughly impressed by your level of intelligence, knowledge and communication skills. I'd love to buy you and your partner lunch or dinner sometime soon.
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