THE PROS AND CONS OF DATING A FILIPINA

#theprosandconsofdatingafilipina #datingfilipina #marryingafilipina #lifeinthephilippines #philippines ‪@TheFilipinaPea‬
The pros and cons of dating a Filipina is a complicated topic, but let's dive right in! The pros mad surprise you, the cons may distress you, but it's all 100% truth. Dating a Filipina can be a wonderful visit to heaven, or a one-way trip to hell, but if you know what to expect, you'll have a much better ride!
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[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@tman5634]

I think I'll be more suited to an older, more mature Filipina, who's hopefully got past much of these crazy behaviours. My idea of retirement, is an easier, stress free time.

[@behindthen0thing525]

Gracias

[@normanspanish6228]

Please Pea..... Never Ever! Cut your Hair, unless you would want to see a few million men crying like little boys Thanks pea.👸👌

[@globalismoblackman]

#TheFilipinaPea ❤️ Thank you my favourite vlogger In The Philippines. Should have had this vlog in 2013 it's would have saved me a lot of pain. Lol 🤣🤣😆 but you was a teen in 2013 I suppose 😋. Now I am just in love with The Philippines not a Filipina in a nice way 😅👍😎. A makuliit gringo and a makuliit filipina makes a perfect storm in a teacup.😁

[@ChristianClark]

It always .....only depends on the couple.

[@edlearned460]

Dealing with the family? Ignoring face saving lies? Accepting childish behavior? Maybe so. But being punished for watching Filipina PEA videos is where I draw the line!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha EXCELLENT place to stand your ground 👍 (and if that fails, there’s always the bathroom) 😂

[@thebigmann81]

@@TheFilipinaPea unless she follows you in the bathroom. 😁😁

[@farmerfox99]

Oh I can get in big trouble watching you

[@hr37ic]

@@thebigmann81 hahaha oh wait. That’s not a thing is it??? 😧

[@RagnaroK81X]

I finally met my Filipina in person after 2 years.OMG.You are right bout ewerything but she analyzed me i opened for her in the beginning of the online relationship and now this is the game of cat and mouse and im most of the time the money giving mouse.Coz i fall in love on her and shes know that and playing by shes rules.You are right.Whatewer i will deal with her coz im getting tired to involve in annother relationship search....She will be ok not more than that.I should not search for Filipina but what happened happened.

[@TinaAndDeanPhLife]

29 years old, Filipina is 25 years old. Met my Filipina a few weeks ago after being long distance since 2019. Absolutely love her and she has made me feel right at home in this beautiful country. She is Godly, beautiful, affectionate, feminine, traditional and everything a man could want in a woman. I've extended my stay until at least November. You only live once right?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Unless you’re Hindu 😂

[@lightsdarkness7714]

are you planning on getting a k1 visa?

[@aidanamerican3685]

@@TheFilipinaPea Or Catholic. I hope I get better life after 😂

[@EPHZAM]

I also got a nice girlfriend I hope to propose her in some time.

[@Richard-jq6mq]

Hello FP, If the majority of Filipinas' were like you, Airlines would have to add to their fleet to accommodate the hoards of men leaving for your shores. Your, 'sex appeal', humor, intelligence, understanding of men, business savvy and people skills are exemplary. Also, congratulations on building a home for your family. You are truly an amazing woman who apparently can accomplish anything. You set the 'bar' very high. I am a huge fan and I learn much from your videos. There may very well be a Philippines trip in my future.....

[@davidshafer1872]

OMG! When we were first married I couldn't even go to a female checker at grocery store without her getting so jealous and mad it was scary. Things have gotten markedly better in the 19 years since.

[@JLALALALA]

That’s funny on so many levels. Because it typically takes so long to checkout too. 😇

[@legbreaker2762]

Six months ago you were allowed to go within 6 feet of another woman without the jealousy? :P

[@danielhackney7806]

@David Shafer, unfortunately I don't have 19 years of life to wait for jealousy to subside. I'm already an old geezer! LOL

[@gregorybrown6739]

I dealt with that at the beginning. I told her that jealousy demonstrates a lack of trust and I won't stick around in a relationship without trust. Been there, done that.

[@johnl9977]

That's the opposite of my wife, she is not into the affectionate, and not into the jealous either. I'm more of a useful idiot at her service most of the time. I don't mind to much though, she's a pretty little gal half my age and she gave me two beautiful daughters to be very proud of and keep me occupied.

[@kevinbarry71]

Here's a rule that applies for anybody looking for a woman in a serious relationship; doesn't matter what culture she comes from. Find out what her attitude toward her father is. If the father was a good example of how a man should be; and she has a good relationship you are likely going to do well. If her father was a disaster, or left the family when she was young, and she doesn't like him; find another woman. It's not her fault but those issues will be transferred to you

[@mixmatch608]

Thanks for the advice. This is a valid and good point. Her perception of her father usually carries over to the expectation she has in her future spouse.

[@Jan-mu6vs]

Sounds harsh but this rule can save your car from being keyed

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Great point, Kevin 👍👍👍

[@kevinbarry71]

@@Jan-mu6vs at least

[@brandonvirgin8561]

Definitely good advice.

[@ExtremeRecluse]

My parents have both passed away. My mother in law is the sweetest lady in the world. Of course we support her financially. She is my mother. It is my duty as a son. I first started communicating with my wife In August 2010. in October, I traveled to the Philippines to meet her and her three kids I stayed for four weeks. That was the best time of my life. I went back home and started the 90 day visa process. She and the kids arrived August 2011. We have been married since then. She works at the same place I do. The oldest daughter joined the Navy in October 2012. She was recently accepted to dental school. Our son is in IT. My youngest daughter is a nurse. I will retire in five years. We will rotate between the states and the Philippines. Is it worth traveling half way around the world to meet your soulmate. YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Mabuhay

[@journeytrials]

Amen brother! Wow! Yeah I’ll be going in August to meet my future wife. Not easy but worth it!

[@leonbanks4862]

I met my fiance six years ago before Covid. I just left there two weeks ago. going back in July. We love eachother and are going to marry. I'm excited about out relationship. The kids love me and I love them.

[@TheNegative1]

so uhmm, it kinda reads like your wife was a single mom of three when you met. That doesn't sound very traditional to me but I'm glad it all worked out for you guys still

[@redsquarejay]

I've started a long-distance relationship with a Flipina girl. I love her. She's everything I want. The cons don't scare me. I want to be with her, and she wants to be with me. She is so kind and supportive it sometimes makes me cry

[@dietlindvonhohenwald448]

3 kids before marriage sounds like a red flag. Who are their fathers? Did you research that? That does not sound very traditional.

[@robjulian2955]

The day I met my Filipina, she asked If I would like to go to her province and meet her parents, I agreed, and I met her Mom, Dad, 3 brothers, her sister, and her 2 1/2 year old baby. They invited me into their house and started feeding me, lol. Her whole family, including all of her relatives and neighbors all approved of me, and loved me. I then travelled there 8 times in 2019 alone. And before you start... They never asked me for anything at all. This relationship lasted for 2 1/2 years, and it was wonderful. I am moving to the Philippines this summer to retire. I love the people, food, and the culture.

[@jeffreyd508]

THE FOOD???? omg. Where do u come from that u think its good? I've traveled to 94 countries and PI food is second worst after Myanmar

[@TheNegative1]

It's nice they were all friendly but yea she was a single mom. Also interesting that your relation lasted as long as her baby's age at the time of meeting.

[@Leo-pg6lt]

@@jeffreyd508 my ex Filipino gf use to cook me up some bomb food. Nice flex tho. "I've been to 94 countries" bet you say that alot

[@MGJpredador]

@@jeffreyd508 Everything with love is better. ;D

[@steveperyer4850]

I like this video Pea, except I am in a little different situation I am 67 and my Filipina is 59. We have talked about many things, and she is a widow of a part time foreigner husband, She does not have any children, and she doesn’t want any. I am happy with our LDR, and planning to move to Guihulngan in the spring of 2023 to get our relationship going in the right direction. I felt that there are many beautiful women in the Philippines, and even the older ladies are beautiful, and what I felt from here very beginning more in touch with each other better. Thank you Miss Pea for the gift of helping us understand the ways of the Filipina. The subject you have never investigated is the one I am having a relationship with an older Filipina. Not all of us are talking to just the younger ladies

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yours is a very different situation, yes 👍❤️

[@saburabdul-salaam2418]

Pea you convinced me, the pros definitely out the cons if you choose the right Filipina.

[@robertnorkus5582]

Again another honest video presented by you. After dealing with Filipinos while I was there visiting the Philippines, I find what you say to be true. Thanks for being honest in your videos and not just presenting false information for viewers. My hat's off to you

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Robert! If I don’t paint an accurate picture, my reputation will suffer 👍😊

[@johnmagill7714]

@@TheFilipinaPea For a lot of people a good reputation is all we have. It's the hardest thing to get, and the easiest thing to lose. So you really have to make sure you keep it once you have it.

[@spincube5734]

I've said it before but I have to say it again: Always thoughtful/useful info and always entertaining.You had me LOL at the Gilligan's Island reference. Thanx Pea !!

[@momentswithmitch5053]

Thanks for another great video! I look forward to Tuesdays and Fridays. 😁

[@Masonsky123]

Love how you put your vids together. High quality and direct. Love your content. ❤

[@paultownsend4158]

Absolutely on point Pea...The pros of living with a Filipina far outweigh the cons. At the end of the day we all just want to feel loved and valued. Love in the Philippines is definitely the perfect place to find that. Great video my friend ❤️

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

The last item, looking past appearance, is the key. Makes it worth getting past PH issues.

[@koufax174]

Very thorough and I appreciate your efforts

[@kranzonguam]

👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 Well done, Pea! Your advice applies to more than just the Philippines. Having a clear idea of a person's good and bad points, and using the proper head to make relationship decisions can make one's whole life so much better! Take good care!😊

[@joec68500]

Thank you for sharing an in depth perspective of the Philippine culture. Keep up the great work! I am weighing the pros and cons.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Joe! Looks like I’ll have to do the part 2 👍😊

[@lexxussmooth]

You absolutely speak with such an attitude of success, it is easy to stay tuned in. Thank you so much for your candor and your consideration of the overall picture of what you present.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks Lexxus! You might be amazed to know that I’m actually quite camera-shy, and a nervous wreck when I’m on camera 😂❤️

[@lexxussmooth]

@@TheFilipinaPea You certainly do not show it. You go, girl.

[@humilulo]

your content is so rich in context and information! the quality is amazing! great videos!

[@seandunn1128]

Once again a cogent articulate and ever refined message offered in good will. Anyone out there who thinks they are marrying a woman and not their family regardless of the culture, is seriously and sadly mistaken. Family! Always needs to rule! Not in detail but in value and respect. Can't embrace it? Move on for everyone's wellbeing. Thank you Pea. Salamat.

[@prescottosegie]

Thank you for sharing this info pea I appreciate this info very much it was informative 😎 thank you for everything you do I’m learning more about the Philippines and Filipina 🇵🇭 everyday when I watch your channel

[@Crazykid949]

PEA: As always you've given the uncomfortable truth (with the cons), along with the comforting truth (the pros) all wrapped up with your brand of humor. Well done. Women around where I live in Canada, are extremely superficial. they want the pretty-boy, and he'd better be rich as well. Yet when you ask them what kind of guy they are looking for, they all say the same thing, "I want someone that is fun to be around! Someone who can make me laugh! someone who will treat me as an equal." Yet in reality, when guy goes up to them and makes them laugh through casual conversation, if he isn't the best looking guy in the establishment, and doesn't have the thickest wallet, she brushes him off like he is the identical twin to the Hunchback of Notre Dame. The biggest problem about the Pretty-boys, and the rich boys these women go after is, they are the ones that have more of a chance to run around with any woman they want because of their looks or financial portfolio. However the below average and average looking guys are usually happy they have someone and are most likely to stick around a woman that treats him properly. Same goes with the wealthy guys, they run around on their girlfriends more often than the guys who don't have that much in the bank. they can't afford to go "docking their boat in other harbors" Even though any person can be unfaithful to their significant others, the more options the person has laid out at their feet, the higher chance they are going to pursue other ventures. It's just the law of averages that works this one out. the only variable is the actual person's personality, bank of morals, and personal value structure that makes the difference. Dealing with negatives to have some positives in relationships is just the norm, in my opinion. It's the YING AND YANG of relationships. It can't always be good, and it can't always be bad, there's a balance if you really look at it long enough, and it's something we as people just have to accept if we want ot have the company of another person for a lengthy period of time.

[@somehacker9031]

I want to emphasize the guys "stick around a woman that treats him properly". The Filipina Pea might not know this coming from a female perspective, but as a guy I can say the way a man is treated is a HUGE deal. Yes, one of the biggest things men want has to do with looks, but men who want to settle down consider how they're treated VERY high and are not likely to get rid of a partner getting that right. They man might cheat or be imperfect in the relationship, but they'll keep the woman. It's the same reason they say a dog is a man's best friend. Guys usually value and reward loyalty!

[@billtay1963]

@@somehacker9031 Something to point out as well is that men are attracted to many different types of women and are not near as picky as a woman is. Looks are important in the fact that there must be an attraction (physical) first. That being said if you ask a guy if a girl is attractive odds are that she will be attractive to a majority of guys.

[@davidburt6659]

@@billtay1963 w

[@sdavis-59]

Truth bombs away! As always Sweet Pea you nail it down very professionally. Keep up the good work. It is such pleasure to listen to your honesty!

[@homebasebelgium359]

Pea, you've outperformed yourself! This is absolutely your best video ever (and I've seen them all)! Everything is so much to the point! Only, I think it applies mostly to foreigners living in the Philippines with their Filipina. It's a whole different ball game when they bring their Pinay to the west! Been there, done that!

[@winpowell1024]

I repeat myself, Sweet Pea; I don't know how you can produce and present two videos each week with such pertinent, well-researched, thorough, and entertaining subjects. It makes me tired just thinking about such a workload. You are the best.

[@markthompson4055]

Ever since I have met my Filipina I have been in heaven. I only wish I would have found out when I was younger what great partners they are .

[@BryanChandler1905]

I have a couple of questions. First, do Filipinas make good wives? Second, do Filipinas like conservative, old school, Christian white guys? Third, what are some good sites to meet them on. I’m 18, but I would love to marry a Filipina. I do not want to marry a western woman.

[@davidmatthews7288]

You have some of the best content in KZbin, keep it up!!

[@johannvandermerwe4826]

Brilliant, honest, well researched and filled with practical wisdom, as always. Thank you Pea... 👏🤗

[@roguetiger3163]

With all the info you have taught over the years about the Philippines I feel I have earned my Masters Degree....l feel ready to pursue a new life and happiness there ....great video!!....love how you take that dress to a new level.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You’re my star pupil, Rogue! Your diploma is in the mail (along with that check for the money I owe you) 😂

[@globalismoblackman]

@@TheFilipinaPea Lol 😂🤣😂. Love you kita kaibigan you decode why a lot of relationship failed 😁. Your school should have started in 2013 I would have graduated with MSc😁😂🤣. Congratulations on your new house by the way 🏘️. #Maligaya😎

[@nukerazorr8743]

This was such a good video , my number one con was the family at first but now it’s my number one blessing . My Filipina was widowed and has four children and a mother and I’ve been interviewed by them all . My girlfriend is also an OFW and I’ve traveled to Singapore twice to be with her and of course all of her friends interview me and I’m sure they have inspected me closely for her . In my case the pros definitely outweigh the cons .

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I’m SO glad you were a good match with her family, Nuke 👍😊

[@DocJaeBass]

By choosing a widow, you've found the one solid way to dating a single mother that has the real possibility of success. I wish you the very best.

[@michaelcassidy1864]

Your comments are always well reasoned, articulate, and fair to both sides. You are an important addition to assist foreigners in objectively clarifying the value and danger of Pinay/Foreigner relationships. thank you also for your unquestioned integrity.

[@Alan-pv2bi]

Great information! " Telling it like it is"

[@charlesandanaylnw4892]

Always correct and on target Pea - Thanks for sharing your knowledge 👍👍👍

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That you so much for tuning in, Charles 👍😊

[@MrWaterbugdesign]

IMO this video is referring more to Filipinas in the south (Visayas, Mindanao). Many things are much different in Luzon. Also I think Pes is talking more about very young Filipinas. When I chat with Filipinas in the 35-50 year old range for example I notice families have much less influence. And in the north I run into professional Filipinas who own property and are making a good living. They ones I chatted with had all broken with their families because over time some family members had screwed them over on property transactions. IMO most of these issues can be avoided with a little rational thought when picking a Filipina. By far the biggest con is COMMUNICATION. She may speak very good English but there can still be huge misunderstandings because words can mean different things. Communication with a Western woman isn't good either. Add a different culture and non-native English an throw in tampo and face savings and it can be a trainwreck.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Family members WILL screw each other over, on that we agree 👍

[@nahteo]

@@TheFilipinaPea that's sh$&y and sad

[@nomennescio7457]

I agree, older Luzon girls must be different. Many things described I don't see in my gf.

[@lhizms7697]

Yeah.. in my place Luzon we have difference culture and point of views.. were more independent in living..

[@donarmstrong2182]

🙄

[@Masonsky123]

Great vid again. Enjoyed this one a lot.

[@Mannin_Watch_Time]

Pea, your scripts are so well written and articulated it stagger’s me… Bravo 🙌

[@nigelincebu5733]

Pea really hit the nail on the head with your investigations

[@TheFilipinaPea]

That’s exactly what I try to do 👍❤️

[@Michael-gg5sq]

Hello Pea, first thank you for all your videos. I started dating a married/separated Filipina online a bit more than a year ago, she is honest and never tried to hide that she was married and having 2 kids, we chatted online during 9 months and then i flew to her to meet her and her family, i was a bit scared because of all your videos, but she is really loving and caring and they made me feel home, we've been careful not showing us too much in public and really enjoyed meeting and discovering filipina coutume ect, it was during the elections. now i'm back in switzerland and we're trying to get her a visa to visit me here. I really found a pearl, and i was happy to say to myself: "no, she isnt like this" when i was watching your videos about being careful with this or this. we're gonna work on the annulment for her marriage, i really hope we can get this sorted out, i know it won't be easy, but we're ready to fight for it. Thanks again for all your videos, you're good help and good advice, i'll prolly post another wall once we will be married me and her.

[@josepha9313]

Sounds a similar situation to mine, except I've not traveled there yet. She has a 2-yr old by a guy who was married with 2 kids of his own (and fathered a 3rd with his wife while this girl was preg). Not sure he is 100% out of her life yet, which troubles me a little. How was it, meeting her family for the 1st time? Good luck to you anyway.

[@romie6466]

I love your channel and you are excellent at it!

[@lightfighter685]

Thank you so much Pea. We’re all very grateful for the knowledge you’re delivering. ❤❤❤

[@ColdHumor]

I recently got engaged to a filipina and we're working on a k1 visa. Your videos helped a ton these past several months. Also her family was very kind and welcoming, but man did they try to dig up my past like you said. Mind you I'm 30 and she's 28, so I'm probably a lot younger than most white men they see. So I don't have any divorces or criminal records behind me. Also the tampo is real! We both laugh about it since I know what to do from your videos. Thanks Pea!

[@BryanChandler1905]

I have a couple of questions. First, do Filipinas make good wives? Second, do they like conservative, old school, Christian white guys? Third, what are some good sites to meet them on? I’m 18, but I would love to marry a Filipina. I don’t want to marry a western woman.

[@mixmatch608]

Summary (For easier reading): Cons: 1. The pressure given by Filipina family --> Which could severely damage your relationship 2. False signs of attraction --> Any words/expressions made prior to stable relationship physically are untrue. It is normal for her to have multiple partners till she found the one. 3. Lies to many issues --> Could be minor or major events that could affect you psychologically or financially. 4. Immature and childish way of acting & thinking --> E.g. Tampo 5. Manipulative characteristic --> Easily jealous and can access your personal belongings, including messing up your social relationship with friends or female colleagues. 6. Insistent attitude towards having kids without considering the perspective from her spouse. 7. No accountability on issues --> Blaming everything on other people for their own mistakes/shortcomings. Pros: 1. Clingy 2. Higher tendency to dress more formally than foreign women. 3. Interested in short term enjoyment --> Not interested in long term plans 4. Interested in doing domestic roles (Can save cost for hiring a cleaner? Can save time and effort of not required to clean and cook after a long day at work?) 5. Desperate in wanting kids ---> Not questioning you about the costs and sacrifices expected unlike foreign women who loves future planning. 6. Lower cost of dating compared to foreign women 7. Lower risk compared to foreign women because prenup is harder to overturn compared to foreign countries. (I would say depends on situations. Best to clarify this with your lawyer friend as I believe that any cause of infidelity or involvement of kids may still have a chance of overturning the prenup agreement.) --> In addition, some marriages in PH are automatically registered in other countries who hold diplomatic ties as they have foreign embassies. While this may be true in PH, foreign legislations could still hold the foreigner accountable. In this context, the foreign jurisdiction directly binds and controls the assets and capital of the foreign guy, do you still believe he can simply escape? 8. Indecisive on breakfast, lunch and dinner plans. 9. Silently grudging with things that you did around the house without direct confrontation like other foreign women. 10. Lower expectation of their spouse unlike foreign women.

[@WhereNerdyisCool]

Thanks for this...this video is a remix of her previous videos, which are all good. For me, the immaturity and tantrums/tampo are the worst. Of course not all are like this, but the two I have met in real life, wow, so much drama.

[@woodpeckery]

Easier reading??! Easier than reading what, and while saying nothing more than drivel?

[@blocboi-o5439]

I agree 1000% I've experienced this with my Filipina and I'm distancing myself

[@jonrend]

@@WhereNerdyisCool Filipinos in general are dramatic although shy to begin with.

[@allenschneider4006]

I have or rather married for 52 years and my best friend has never opened up on they way she thinks about herself or her friends about men. smiled all the way through your vid. It feels good to see someone shine a little light on the fairer sex. Made my day.

[@dangalvin3922]

Hi, my uncle is in a relationship with a Filipino lady. Your posts are helping me understand some of the interesting twists in their behaviour. Also it is very enjoyable to learn about other cultures.

[@bjrockhound9241]

Great video once again, Pea! But only one thing I may disagree with. When a Filipina looking for a foreigner, so many do are wanting to be jetting around the world. I have been on filipino dating sites and soooooo many profiles of filipina say "I want to travel" or "I love traveling" when they probably have barely been out of their own province or "I want someone to travel the world with". I have actually passed up on contacting those Filipina. Im an average guy with an average income. Im not rich and jumping on a plane to go somewhere exciting every couple of months. I also think many of these Filipinas do not understand how hard westerners work for their money. If you are a business owner, it's difficult to leave the business. If you work for a company, you get anywhere from 2-4 weeks off a year only. I think many of the Filipinas who still live in Philippines are misinformed that all westerners are rich. They hear stories of someone who met a rich foreigner and traveling, boating, beaches, nice restaurants, expensive clothes, bags, jewelries, and perfumes. Just like what I see on 90 day fiance, many foreign women come here and do not understand these things and get angry because they do not get them. Then, the marriage is over before it began. But this is my experience. I hope one day I get the one how you explained...a nice calm and relaxing life! lol Thank you again for your awesome videos!

[@LoveBeyondTheSea]

Good thoughts. I had a similar thought about liking to travel when they havne't seen much of the Philippines yet. Maybe they mean want to travel instead. My wife likes to travel and now I do too. Filipinos do believe that there are no money worries in this country. It grows on trees. It is maybe impossible to change that thought for them.

[@globalismoblackman]

A lot of Filipinas or Filipinos live in theirs natural bubble paradise Islands 🌴🏖️🌄🏖️ and have zero Idea of the grinding work life in the.west to earn $¥€£ money. If you are the travel wanderlust type and end up showing up in The Philippines or. Asia in general their immediate warped assumption is that you are a "Rich Gringo" but in a strange way you are "vacation millionaire" lol when you consider your spending power to the average earnings of a #workingclass pinoy or pinay. However make no mistake there are lots of wealthy Filipino and Filipinas that will intimidate any foreigners I call these classes of Pinoys the 10 percenters that are movers and shakers of the Philippines. A lot the working class Pinoys or Pinays want a better life and their is nothing wrong in that it's just that some of them use deception to climb out of poverty and trample on people basically abusing your trust and kindness.

[@kevinburke9255]

Yep...plenty of Pro's & Con's right here, Great Content once again Pea. After my very long online relationship Pea over 5 yrs. 🙄 I'm finally boots on ground in July 16th. I take on board all you have discussed as always...as I said to Nerlyn, the world will not stop turning if we don't Click... I am Just hoping we do 🤔 ...cheers Pea

[@TheFilipinaPea]

July 16th? SO close!! Best of luck, my friend ❤️👍

[@OleCrankyGamer]

Stock up on sunscreen for that trip!

[@melfordsolomon8244]

This was a great video straight talk and all the facts was right on. As usual you delivers with style great job 👏

[@lowtech67]

Very good video Pea. No matter the subject your videos are always excellent quality. They look good, sound good and leave your audience smiling. I'm looking forward to retiring there one day and your honest perspective on real life in the Philippines is refreshing and eye opening. From what to expect in your love life to the perils of driving. :) Thank you for all your hard work, it really shows.

[@guyandre4946]

Good evening Pea! Thank you for yet another splendid analysis, as per usual, and a very deep investigation in the Filipinas’ ways of life. More, I am sure that you just made a lot of “foreigners” very happy tonight Pea! So much precision and so many useful and eloquent informations! We can’t go wrong now! You are a valuable asset to your beautiful country 🇵🇭! After this video every available westerner knows the pros and cons but … the pros are so many that they would be mad not to chose a Filipina! Which was the idea at the first place anyway! 😂 By the way, I have just checked, and Mary-Ann shirt was less revealing than yours! Be careful, Gilligan could easily have a heart stroke … I nearly did! 😊😘

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Oh no! I tried to sew a shirt just like hers (maybe I ran low on material) 😂

[@guyandre4946]

@@TheFilipinaPea that is the best excuse I have heard in ages! 5/5 for Pea ! 😂 😇

[@nahteo]

@@TheFilipinaPea soooo...you're just accidentally the sexiest woman on KZbin 😏

[@Bill-xv9mz]

I LOVE your videos lol. And yes, they're very educational. Thank you so much for these.

[@joekanka2894]

Pea an excellent video I watched from the beginning to end. very well balanced and realistic items. Thank you.

[@jerryabbas4800]

Thank you Filipina Pea Another great video telling the truth leaving the pipe bombs There is a huge difference between Western women American women And Filipina Women And you told it like it is And I'm grateful for that Information is the key what are you looking for A great woman In your life So you can have a great relationship long term forever

[@GTRNights]

The concept of "don't ask a fish how to catch a fish" mostly applies to the average western female. A woman such as yourself who understands RP makes a lot of difference. We trust your opinion because you understand our point of view.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

THANKS, and yes I understand your point of view (I think) 👍❤️

[@johnwalsh518]

@@TheFilipinaPea Believe me you do far better than any west

[@adventures223]

Great FP thanks for sharing this that is one beautiful beach 🌴 behind you love your hair its so long dont see that to often here in the states theres always pro and cons with anything in life

[@j.christian3751]

OMG, you nailed it, again !! My Filipina gets horribly jealous if she knows I watch your video's !! I told her not to worry, and your video's actually inspired me to look towards the Philippines and Filipinas. Most of the things we have discussed early on, marriage (nope), kids (nope from both of us) and so forth. Looking forward to getting there in 2022, hopefully Taiwan will ease their Quarantine for returning workers. Great video.

[@BryanChandler1905]

I have a couple of questions. First, do Filipinas make good wives? Second, do they like conservative, old school, Christian white guys? Third, what are some good sites to meet them on? I’m 18, but I would like to marry a Filipina. I do not want to marry a western woman.

[@donwilliams6712]

My Filipina wife has half the characteristics you describe for taking the blame. She will almost always force me to make the decision so she never takes the blame, but when she actually is to blame she owns up to it.

[@TheNegative1]

sounds better to me than the woman always deciding but never owning up to a mistake (cough west cough)...

[@matteoc7084]

How is she in bed?

[@2joesorvillo]

I have be watching you and others I the Philippines. You make want to pack up and go live there. I don’t think I could take the heat but the thought of a wife and life you talk about would make it all worth it.

[@kendonius4928]

Pea or subscribers Is there any locations that are cooler in Philipines than Dumaguete/Cebu area?

[@andrewc2670]

@@kendonius4928 Hi Ken I believe from vlogs I've seen that Valencia is quite a bit cooler as it's higher up. I also believe that up in the north of the country in the mountains you will also find cooler areas. I think a great idea when you go there is to travel around a few different places before you choose one to settle in.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

There are ways to beat the heat 👍😊

[@davidc5553]

@@kendonius4928 Baguio is at a higher altitude also.

[@nomennescio7457]

The higher the cooler. Stayed at a rice farmers' house in Nueva Ecija. It was pretty cold in the morning, especially for the Filipinos from Bulacan and Metro Manila, they didn't sleep well😁. So much nicer than those awful ac's.

[@bernarda658]

You just brighten up my lousy day with that skit. Been down and now I've been brought back to life.

[@carlrichmond1773]

Great video Pea your advice is always the best!!

[@mikemarriedtoafilipina1385]

Pros and cons being with a Filipina just make it Life. like going to the Philippines there is many beautiful places but there are sad and scary places too. it's part of the package. if you want to date a Filipina remember to do one question at a time. wait until she answered your question. Filipinos will take the easy question. last whatever you think you know about a Filipina or the Philippines just let it go you are on a rollercoaster of life. only rule love her completely. sit back seatbelt on and enjoy your new life. thanks again Pea

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Yup, only one question - over and over if necessary - until it’s answered 😂

[@mowtivatedmechanic1172]

Do they avoid hard questions? If so why do they do that? Is it a language barrier issue or are they just thinking?

[@Galahad54]

@@mowtivatedmechanic1172 It's more they avoid embarrassing questions, ones where either you or she will lose face. Example: who is that young man who isn't your brother or cousin, and doesn't appear to have a wife/gf? Or (if she hasn't already mentioned her child) How many kids do you want to have? Other than that, I've never had a problem figuring out a Pinay, unless I lie to myself - that happens, too.

[@red_dulge]

The "Out of Sight, Out of Mind" part is very true, it just wouldn't be guaranteed to be a committed and serious relationship if you aren't physically together. Words and experience from an online-dating Filipino, though you can always still try to stay as long as you can in the virtual relationship if you truly believe it will last, like my current relationship haha! Great content as always! ✨

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Ahhhh, you’ve done the online thing! How’s it going? 😊

[@thebigmann81]

We are human beings we get lonely. We can wait awhile like a year but if it is going past 2 years without seeing each other in person one or both may end up talk to another or maybe more than talking. It doesn't make them a bad person just human with needs.

[@red_dulge]

@@TheFilipinaPea It's going amazing so far!! We're close to our second month and hopefully our love stands strong! My previous online relationships could never match up to how it is right now, haha!

[@red_dulge]

@@thebigmann81 Indeed, it truly is hard to keep the faith strong if it doesn't make you happy.

[@thebigmann81]

@@red_dulge I don't know your situation but if you are doing ldr thing word of advice keep it under 1 year then find away to move to her or her to move with you. If planning to marry get a vistor tourists b2 visa and then when you marry get a spousal visa. While waiting for spousal visa she still has the vistor visa to come to your country if you plan on staying in your country. Visitor visa she can stay for 6 months but she can use multiple times. Marriage visa can take a year give or take.

[@dustbusterz]

So Glad I Found Your Videos. They Cover such a wide range of Topics, and Your Ability to See it from so many Angles is refreshing. You Certainly Understand your Own Culture but more than that, you've got a Pretty Indepth Insight into Western Culture as well.

[@JoeinAlaska]

I understand the culture of taking care of your parents. As a divorced man, it's a deal breaker. As always, thank you for the great information, and take care. Joe.

[@daviddarden1915]

Queen Filipina Pea: The desires and wonders of Filipina have always been a blessing for me since I was station there in the Philippines in 1991 at Clark Air Base, Philippines. Having been blessed to see Filipina around the world says something. Other Asian females like Japanese and Korean have not captivated me like Filipina. Of course being a American, the American females are going to be a part of your life but, once again. The thrill is not there with them. They are the most materialistic as well as most other western women. The Korean and Japanese can be too. Filipina are happy to be just with you period. Obviously, the drawback may be their family because, that is who and what they trusted in their life so much. So the American man and other foreigners have to earn their stripes with Filipina mothers and fathers in particular. I believe by communication and trying to be part of the coop family can help so much. Even though I married a Marshall Islands female who had Filipina ancestry, I did and know how family can be with you even if they are not with you in those Island days. Many Filipina are gracious with accepting many men if they are not attractive. Even though I think Filipina sometimes do not know how lovely, attractive they are to western men. They are top at that field in my opinion. When I arrived in the Philippines and saw so much physical beauty, I thought I went to heaven already. Plus, their English and intelligent is so great too. Just like you Filipina Pea, Intelligent, beautiful and lovely. I always love the looks of Maryanne but, you can give her a run that would put her in second place. I love this video of information. Thank you so much.

[@paulstan9828]

Sometimes you just have to accept the good with the bad. 😁👍

[@TonyKeepingItClean]

Great video and in my opinion, very accurate. I’ve been busy and haven’t seen a Pea video for about a month, which means yay, I have 8 Pea videos to catch up on. Thanks for posting.

[@whatevertheworldholds]

Another great video full of truth bombs thank you Pea God Bless and take care of yourself ❤️❤️

[@Mr-Clark]

Priorities to a Filipina: 1. Her parents 2. Her siblings 3. Her religion 3,425. Her husband

[@javieritomac]

I have to say pea i am truly lucky to have a filipina and bless to have find her ,,, is a blessing to get adopted by her clan ( family) 😆 what can i i say i guess im a lucky guy. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

You sure do sound lucky 👍❤️

[@javieritomac]

@@TheFilipinaPea totally lucky😂

[@globalismoblackman]

@@javieritomac I hope you are "lucky" lol 😂😂🤣

[@Kevins-Philippine-Retirement]

Bang on Pea! Everything you say I have either witnessed or experienced myself over the last 3 years.

[@karlpierce3035]

I hate it when I don't get your notifications. Your videos are very important to me.

[@bdogjr7779]

Awesome P🌷《☆》Brilliant Shelf Life comment dear👍✔❤There's a cute Filipina working at my favorite Grocery store. Her accent is very thick like she just flew in from the Philippines & She calls me Sir😁I hope the Sir thing doesn't disqualify me as a potential Love interest🖖🤓🏈

[@globalismoblackman]

They call everyone "sir" 😉. It's Filipino custom and tradition.

[@rhobertz]

Having been stationed at Clark AB in the late 70's, (I was only 21), I appreciate the accuracy in your videos! The 15 months I spent there was amazing. I learned so much about the culture. It helped me deal with my own American culture in ways too numerous to list. Stats then were that almost 70% of single airmen, enlisted, and officers had paperwork in to marry a local national within the first 9 months of their tour. I came close, but returned home remaining single. Too funny that you now have the Junior Marcos as President, and I had the senior Marcos as President only under martial law back then. Everybody off the streets at midnight, or face arrest. We all felt like Cinderella turning into a pumpkin if we didn't' find the main gate or a structure of some sort to escape the night. Good times!

[@MestreDentistaGUC]

I love these honest videos. Also, your server of humor is fantastic! 🤣😂

[@_mytopfive]

I love your channel, been subscribed for awhile. So much good info, and it's making me more optimistic about the future. Your end of video clips are so funny lol.

[@Dana-ie2bh]

The problems with relationships involving westerners and easterners and age gaps can be pretty daunting. A major problem is the attitude of humor. An older western guy is most likely going to have a sense of humor that a younger Filipina is not going to understand and visa versa. As pretty and friendly and religiously pious a young province girl might be, chances are her relatively simple life and lack of worldly experiences will mean that how she processes information, and foreign or western ideas are going to be unimaginable to an older western man, especially with previous relationship mental baggage. Younger Filipina women are going to struggle to adapt, but will to a large degree for financial security. It's older western men who will struggle the hardest to adapt, even if they are adept at it. The trend towards online dating seems to me that many western men are desperate to feel validated as men by women. I feel sorry for them, and would advise them to look inward to address what appears to be a sense of low self esteem before they go galloping half way around the world to enter a relationship that many are not really prepared for. I'm not saying they shouldn't do it, I'm saying they should think long and hard about it, especially if they are of retirement age. Your 360 degree views will hopefully help foreign men to do some self introspection before they take the plunge Pea. For many it can become a case of jumping out of the frying pan into the fire. Sometimes the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, sometimes it's not.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

And sometimes it’s just …. brown and dry, yup 😂

[@jimgilbert9984]

And the grass is greener over the septic tank.

[@ericbown1551]

A very bitter and acerbic post, presumptive, rude especially about the Filipina. Lol your talking especially about the likes of the Pea herself. Very disrespectful.

[@DrDlane]

Any grass is greener than the typical American female.

[@guyandre4946]

You are angels 😇 Don’t be modest! 😘

[@guyandre4946]

🥰😘

[@andylondon9635]

Thank you Sweet Pea for another great video x

[@ivoted7199]

Excellent advice as usual Pea. 👍🤠👊

[@andrewc2670]

It's always good to be able to identify pros and cons and I'm sure this list will come in handy for a lot of people. It's important to draw up a similar list regarding life in the Philippines in general before choosing to relocate there. I rather suspect it is probably a good idea to not start a serious relationship until you've been there for some time so that you can get acclimatised and are able to spot some of the pros and cons mentioned in this video. It's especially important I think for both partners to be completely honest regarding their attitude to having children as this is going to cause friction down the line if they have different opinions on it - definitely not something for a Filipina to lie about

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It definitely IS better to wait till you’re here - just learn about the culture and the women first, and you’ll have a huge advantage 👍😊

[@lachlanbird9688]

@@TheFilipinaPea Your much more knowledgeable about our cultural nuances than anyone I have ever heard ! You disclose the heart and soul of our deepest desires, thank you .

[@richardrose2736]

Hi Pea, I live here in America, and I just want you to know and everybody else that's a Filipino as once maybe it was the promised land in America it sure isn't now, we definitely have more crime than you could ever think about in the Philippines inflation is disastrous and horrible here, there is nothing good here whatsoever, now maybe someday that might change but for the next 3 years it's not looking good, 😂😂😂, I'm just trying to keep you and everybody else real about America, I know things here that would shock you now, but believe it or not it is not the promised Land hahaha, just wanted to let you know cuz I heard you say that 😂😂♥️

[@gumdeo]

The USA peaked in 1973 and is on the way out now.

[@puppyupper4565]

You don't know much about economics. It you think inflation and high fuel prices are disastrous in America, it will be doubly so in the Philippines. Biden's puppeteers are intentionally destroying America. But in the process, they are hurting the poor of the world first. Oil is an international commodity. The prices is the same all over the world except for additional taxes. For the average American, fuel expenses are a small part of the budget. Yes, when that doubles its hard. but the average Filipino does not have the budget when fuel doubles. This is going to hurt the Philippines much worse than the USA. Inflation in the US also hits those nations with strong ties to the dollar such as the Philippines. Sadly, much of the Philippines is going to be utterly devastated by the Lefts war on America. Unfortunately the Phil gov is leftist too. Super bad times are coming to the Phil. I am moving there to make a difference. But it will just be a drop in the bucket. If you live in the city, it would be good if you can move out. If you are planning to move to the Phil, stay out of the cities and find a good lawyer that can lock you into your own farmland. then learn all you can how to grow sustainably. Coconut trees are not sustainable for food, only for selling but that is going to dry up. My current place is very nice and safe in the USA. I live in a small town on acreage. I could live here with no worries till my death but I see the devastation coming to the Philippines and I want to go make a difference in as many lives as I can.

[@eagle97007]

Stay out of the big city's. My little town is wonderful still. Sorry for your bad experience

[@jaydee470]

What are you doing to help fix things, what other country are you going to as a foreigner and how soon are you leaving?🤔

[@boracay12]

Thank a liberal/democrat for the mess . The antichrist anti american child grooming evil sick "*_#&# . Seeing what democrats are doing in USA reminds me of Sodom and Gomorrah. ....and that lot was removed so it could be destroyed .... The rapture/tribulation . But then it's still pretty normal in the Philippines compared to usa . But then thier is the "world economic forum" so , the pushing of the new world order and the vaxx ID etc etc .

[@iopperman]

Nice video always helpful🙌

[@SAM-gy7ep]

Thank You For Sharing and and being so Open and Honest. 😁

[@someguy861]

In my country I've often heard sayings like "Women aren't meant to be understood, just loved" and "Happy wife, happy life". Judging from your videos, it looks like the Philippines take these sayings to a whole new level!

[@thebigmann81]

You must be from the USA? I'm very familiar with that phrase. Born and raised SF bay area

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Only we reverse it - if you’re happy, then we’re happy. Happy husband, happy house 👍😊

[@dustyinc.8]

Please pay A visit to the Philippines 🇵🇭 it will change your mindset about women period. I use to frequent South America 👎🏽 Colombia/ DR/Panama. These females are so westernized it’s not even funny. I switched to the Philippines it was A culture shock and there is something for everybody whatever your preference. Pea told the absolute truth these women are taught at A very young age their roles as traditional women with MORALS. Take the trip,but be careful and try to stay away from the young women they’re the worst.

[@kasperkjrsgaard1447]

“Happy wife - Happy life” is used in Denmark too - and we don’t even has english as our national language.

[@someguy861]

I'm Canadian. Cheers neighbour :D

[@projekteva]

First trip to Philippines: "So nice you are helping me with chores." Second trip to Philippines: "Stop helping me with laundry the neighbors are gossiping I'm lazy"

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Hahahahaha Yup, that sounds pretty accurate 😂😂😂

[@johnb9704]

You are the BEST... lol. I respect your blunt honesty. I'm married to a Latina(off the boat), but I LOVE watching your videos for how you present the information!

[@raymondjackson70]

Again… Great job Pea!! Very insightful! 😊

[@jlbalzer60]

I've started dating a Filipina here in California, some thoughts. Beware if you get on their bad side! They can hold quite a grudge against you and spread bad news about you like wildfire throughout their social network of friends. Also, I sometimes like deep, philosophical conversations about life. The person I'm dating seem to have a more shallow, almost childish way of thinking, doesn't get what I'm saying or understand my sense of humor. She is a very strong Catholic, important for her to attend mass every Sunday. On the other hand, she loves to sing which I am very attracted to, dresses feminine, loves affection, and has fun parties with friends with food, singing, and dancing. Both good and bad things, not sure where this is all headed for me.

[@MGJpredador]

Dude, you have the most important parts. Don't overthink.

[@relaxingandsoothing7353]

​@@MGJpredadorexactly, it mustn't be perfect

[@jojowhite9296]

I had two friends in the military who married young Filipina girls and when they reached the states, they both left their husbands and children. Now, I could understand leaving a poor marriage but not the kids.

[@JoeSmith-ez3zg]

When in the military and being overseas you always need to be very careful as a lot of women will just try to get with you so they can get the the land of the big px. This is more so in the countries with a low cost of living.

[@jeangonzales9617]

That's the reason why i really want to follow your channel because you can watch and learn everything like ideas and English accent very fluent and i really want to learn on it very much....🙏🙏🙏

[@kevinenger8623]

One of your best and most honest vlogs, Pea!

[@slainteron4027]

Pro: you have a dedicated partner for life, you have someone that will take care of you and the house and the family, you have someone that will try to better you Con: watch your sarcasm, don't eye wander too much or you will have to sleep with one eye open, if you go somewhere ask if she wants to come along don't just say I am going out be back soon, yes and the family, which her and I worked out prior. There are more but I will be here all night lol

[@TheFilipinaPea]

List away - I’m doing a part 2 😂👍

[@mowtivatedmechanic1172]

Ey brother. How do pilots fair over there? It’s literally the job to be on the road. We should probably just stay away I guess.

[@garfield2742]

They cant take sarcasm well?

[@virgilsquires2024]

Yes that is so true spent 4 years trying to get there and when I told her I refuse to get vaccinated she changed overnight

[@TheFilipinaPea]

It’s more than the weather that changes suddenly in the Philippines 😂

[@roadwarrior528]

Good job! Stick to your beliefs, and don't let some looney liberal shame you into becoming another sheep like the rest of them.

[@hamiljohn]

Maybe you shouldn't be a dumbass and just get vaccinated.

[@redpillsatori3020]

My experience here in the Phil is that most people don't freak out about your vaccination status like Americans do, however you will need to get vaccinated if you ever want to visit.

[@dragongrazer7620]

That might be because it made you seen like you cared so little for her, that you would not take a vaccination so you could go and see her in a safe manner.

[@johnlacey3857]

Another home run Pea... you really understand the mindset and culture of western guys... thanks so much for translating and relating these concepts to us in such a meaningful way. LLAP 🖖

[@blissfulmale]

Nice work, as always, Pea.

[@chosen_one1602]

Communication is the biggest problem for me. Filipinos naturally hate confrontation. They rather it build up and come after you with machete. I use to tell my girl all the time, just talk to me I understand. But she always refused. Saving face is an understatement for Filipinos. You can catch your filipina in bed with another man, and she will blame you for coming home to early from work.

[@somehacker9031]

"You can catch your filipina in bed with another man, and she will blame you for coming home to early from work." LOL! Wow.

[@gary4451]

"You can catch your filipina in bed with another man, and she will blame you for coming home to early from work." Being with a woman who's mind works like this would drive me insane.

[@boracay12]

Haha to the last part . 🤣

[@DIGGERfromAR]

Same with most wahmyn. They do not want to be held responsible for their decisions and actions. They want the authority of men, the privilege of women, and the responsibility of children.

[@themountainwanderer]

Sounds like a nightmare. I hate confrontation and drama, too, which is exactly why communication is very important to avoid small issues turning into big ones.

[@gregrichardson8118]

Hello Pea, I have watched a lot of your videos recently and at first I heartened by the words that you offered. Then I watched a video of you saying that there were certain things about our appearance that are big turn offs (overweight, bald spots, facial hair, etc.) and I lost all the hope that you had build up. Now in this video you are saying that those things don't matter as much. I feel whipsawed by perception that you are giving about physical looks. It is raising and dashing my hopes in turn and is confusing. Can you please clarify the stance from Filipinas on how physical looks ultimately matter to them? Is it really based on the physical looks or is it based on the matter of money? It's pretty much a truism the money can make any man look better to a woman but, I only make a moderate amount of money (slightly above average for my area) and am not horribly scarred or anything but, as an older man have the very things you said in a previous video were not attractive to Filipinas; well trimmed and kept facial hair, somewhat balding, and am not grossly overweight but, I'm not a trim and slim youngster. Can you help me see what a Filipina is looking for?

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Sure! Fridays video will be exactly what you asked for 👍👍👍

[@machinized]

Bro, if you are old you should focus on your children instead of young and slick girls. If you missed that part - you missed the train. Search for happiness in high mountains and meditation. Even anyway, the goal of relationship is to reproduce. In your current state - what contribution to genetic pool you will make? Considering changing environmental earth conditions - nature seeks for superior individuals to survive coming challenges. Care about our species in general, not just yourself. You have to connect with your inner beast, reject the weakness. Forget love and comfort, feel eternal flames of war.

[@paulcarlisle7892]

Beautiful outfit. Thanks for sharing.

[@broGabiza]

👏👏❤ great episode Pea. I love your shows. I love the point of Pinays overlooking superficial flaws to find the men behind the flaws is super 👍