How Filipinos Really See Foreigners - The Naked Truth

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The Filipina Pea

The Filipina Pea

Күн бұрын

#philippines #filipino #foreigner
Wanna know how Filipinos really see foreigners? Do we accept them into our society, or will we always see them as 'the others'? Get ready for the naked truth, through the eyes of a local who's willing to spill the beans about how foreigners are really seen by Filipinos.
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@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
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@irvine112
@irvine112 29 күн бұрын
i always wonder to myself, if philippins girls are scared, of guys who are build extra long below 🤔💭💬
@FlipandTheBlueMule
@FlipandTheBlueMule 29 күн бұрын
👋👋❤️🌹🌹❤️
@jron20r51
@jron20r51 29 күн бұрын
I just watched the foreigner video, where did you learn english so well. Also I love when you dump on western woman about passport boys
@Dark-Glaive
@Dark-Glaive 29 күн бұрын
"How do you do my fellow Asian?"
@topjames-b8e
@topjames-b8e 29 күн бұрын
Pea you nailed it , iv'e been in the Philippines 10 years and all this still happens to me all the time ,I am 6 foot tall and a white American with blue eyes and i get called an americono all the time by strangers .
@mowgli2071
@mowgli2071 29 күн бұрын
The 'cano tax. Oh, and btw, if you didn't fit in back home, not fitting in in the Philippines won't be a big deal. That's the nice thing about not fitting in. You can do it absolutely anywhere, which means you can do it everywhere.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
@Trahloc
@Trahloc 29 күн бұрын
Hah yeah, being an outcast in the states is a lot harder than being an outcast here. Filipino cuiture is MUCH more polite.
@MultiArchangel
@MultiArchangel 29 күн бұрын
My point exactly.
@carltondaye8231
@carltondaye8231 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea That is a pretty good mindset Not fitting in can be done everywhere although in a Christian Country that speaks and writes in English with Ms Pea as your guide I suspect one could fit in pretty well Hope life goes well for you this week Ms Pea.......
@belle6071
@belle6071 29 күн бұрын
😂😂😂🤣🤣
@Papamorely
@Papamorely 28 күн бұрын
I’m a white American in a city of 1.1 million Malaysians. All of this is true and has been experienced. It’s an honor to be a foreigner. They want to touch you , take pictures with you , attempt English with you and almost always be friendly with you. My job is to assimilate into my family and respect all within their country. Learning Chinese and Malay has helped as they all respect that
@kevingonzalez3673
@kevingonzalez3673 28 күн бұрын
Bro, you should just enjoy your celebrity status. Don't fit in.
@Ghosted760
@Ghosted760 27 күн бұрын
Do you mind mentioning which city you're in..? Also, did you take Chinese classes to learn the language?
@Rdkng07
@Rdkng07 23 күн бұрын
Time to stop bringing skin color into the conversation. Just saying you're american is enough in this context yes?
@Dream-Academy
@Dream-Academy 21 күн бұрын
I know there are many businesses run by Chinese Malaysians rather than Malay but why learn Mandarin. It is much more used that it was? The Chinese invasion is much bigger in Malaysia than it was say 20 years ago?
@johndurrett3573
@johndurrett3573 20 күн бұрын
@@Rdkng07 Not really. I've seen plenty of channels of Black Americans traveling in different countries and they are not welcomed very much. There are many places, including Philippines where the desired skin color is a lighter, whiter pigmentation. It may not be everyone's experience and some places may be more open then others but no matter where you go its a good idea to go fully aware of all situations you may need to prepare for.
@jessegitchell8114
@jessegitchell8114 26 күн бұрын
The honesty is refreshing. These less than flattering videos are a big part of why I keep coming back to this channel.
@heyyoubuddy6749
@heyyoubuddy6749 29 күн бұрын
I enjoy being in the Philippines. People are nice and polite, I try to always be kind and respectful. My wife says when I walk around the subdivision she says it’s like I’m running to be the mayor. I talk to everyone who wants to talk. Life is good in the province.
@darrellturner560
@darrellturner560 28 күн бұрын
My wife says the same thing. 😁
@ronmerkus5941
@ronmerkus5941 28 күн бұрын
So you both are running for the mayor position 😂😂😂😂😂
@lovinglife1962
@lovinglife1962 28 күн бұрын
Lolol Mine tells me why am I letting another Filipina be nice to me and why am I shaking hands and saying hello to some LOL LOL then she says quit being an F boy. I just say I'm being nice that's all and polite
@darrellturner560
@darrellturner560 27 күн бұрын
@@ronmerkus5941 😄😄😄 just being myself.
@robertedwards3633
@robertedwards3633 26 күн бұрын
How do you deal with people you stop and talk to always asking for money?
@CerebralPrimate
@CerebralPrimate 29 күн бұрын
When I lived in Italy, I was known as "The American" in our little town. When I visit Latin America, I'm a Gringo. In Thailand we're farangs. I have zero problems being called foreigner in The P.I. because it's true- I am not from there, I am foreign. If people get upset about those kinds of things, I'd guess they haven't faced much hardship in their lives, because there's so many worse things that can happen to you than someone pointing out that you're different in some way. At 6'2 and 260lbs (120 kg), I have zero chance of "blending in" wherever I travel in Asia, so why try to pretend? Describe me how ya want... it doesn't change the reality of who I am.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Good attitude, CP 👍👍😊
@canardeur8390
@canardeur8390 28 күн бұрын
You were called "The American" in Italy, probably due to the movie of the same name.
@fuud4thot-r2r
@fuud4thot-r2r 10 күн бұрын
@CerebralPrimate niiiice .... love the true blue humble confidence 💙 👌....way to represent
@ianworley8169
@ianworley8169 4 күн бұрын
​@@canardeur8390Presumably, he was called 'the American' simply because that's what he is. Here in Portugal, I've always been referred to as, 'the English'. Been here over 20 years. All my friends and neighbours are Portuguese. They all know my name and use it in conversation with me, but refer to me as the English when referring to me. No problem. I am and always will be English.
@cult_of_odin
@cult_of_odin 3 күн бұрын
As long as I'm not called late for dinner I don't care.
@ssakprhow
@ssakprhow 26 күн бұрын
I speak Tagalog pretty much fluently but there is no way my accent will ever disappear. I felt like I belonged when we lived in Philippines. I love it and miss it. I used to do everything with my brother in law’s and everyone in the family except a select few treated me like I was part of the family. The community treated me like I was part of them. It’s because I did everything they did. If they were going fishing I was right beside them. I would go to the forest and get food when we needed with my brother in laws. The only ones that would make fun of the way I spoke were people who didn’t know me. Just like Filipinos have an accent in English, I will always have a Kano accent when I speak Tagalog. So will Filipinos except you for who you are? yes! I felt so much part of the community and they treated me so that I didn’t look at them as Filipino but as brothers and sisters. I learned to be part of the community. That’s what Americans lack here in the United States is learning how to live as one. My brothers were over there and never received the same treatment I got because they couldn’t learn to become part of the community.
@oilairnalo
@oilairnalo Күн бұрын
You experienced the effects of "Coca-colonization", in a country that was a $20M- paid-for spoil of war then brutally conquered, yet later embraced the conqueror's supposedly benevolence. This country's history has been unique -- three imperialistic conquerors and a present third-world republic. Of the three conquerors, one still smells good, and natives long - by hook or crook - to live in that conqueror's homeland. The republic sucks.
@mlibby52
@mlibby52 29 күн бұрын
I’ve always enjoyed being the minority when traveling. I’ve not meant a warmer, kinder ethnic group than Filipino’s. Embrace the difference! Elegant today Pea!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
👍👍👍👍❤️
@golfrick007
@golfrick007 29 күн бұрын
Even when they have little food they will still make sure you have something to eat.💓
@bodyloverz30
@bodyloverz30 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea How well liked are Filipinos in other islands? I heard they fight each other and it is dangerous to them to ravel to rival islands, is this true?
@vidong1704
@vidong1704 29 күн бұрын
Being an outsider in many countries means you will have 1. no friends 2. no GF. Being an outsider in the PH means 1. many new friends 2. a nice GF.
@djsixottawa
@djsixottawa 29 күн бұрын
Philippines rock! :) ❤
@matthewmankin7393
@matthewmankin7393 28 күн бұрын
As someone who has been overseas in Southwest Asia as a Naval Veteran during "the no-fly zone," this video really hits home. When I taught English in Korea, I was "looked out" for because I had American English to teach their kids, and it was a very profitable business during the early 2000's. Once one of the local blue-collar workers saw how well I was treated, my eyes got opened pretty quickly to the "underpinnings" of my worth. Now, after many years of not travelling, I am heading to meet my Filipina GF. I know already what to expect when I get there from the many previous years of "cultural adaptations," so I know I just need to be true to myself and enjoy the attention I receive. Great job again Pea as always!
@craigsphilippines466
@craigsphilippines466 20 күн бұрын
I hope you remember me, miss Pea, I am an Aussie, I was chatting with you, way back when you first had this channel, you are very informative, I am blown away how much you know about us and our interaction with your people . Now that I have lived full time in the Philippines for 12 years, I find myself knowing most of what you say, after dating so many Filipina here. No matter how we are looked at, or what the culture differences are, all that matters to me is how I am treated and everyone is so nice, it’s not a honeymoon period, even after 12 years I am still treated exactly the same. The people here are so welcoming to us foreigners. I am always accepted in anyone’s home as if we have known each other for years. No need to worry that we will never be accepted as a local, because we are treated so well anyway.
@CG87343
@CG87343 29 күн бұрын
I don’t understand why the term “foreigner” would be offensive? That’s basic logic. I visit the Philippines, I’m the foreigner. I guess the truth is offensive?! Odd. Call me American, foreigner, interloper, I’m easy either way 😅.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Exactly! For some reason, some people really don’t like it 😳👍
@IARRCSim
@IARRCSim 29 күн бұрын
From a culture of political correctness, every word becomes offensive. Filipinos also describe people by race, sexual orientation(ie. gay, lesbian, tomboy), fat, old... which would seem offensive to some very westernized people too. It feels funny to be next to a filipino who freely says stuff that could get me scolded or fired for saying the same.
@butthatsnottrue.
@butthatsnottrue. 29 күн бұрын
​@@TheFilipinaPeathey want to take over the white people's land. So they are trying to destroy the idea of foreigners and native people.
@robhernandez6105
@robhernandez6105 29 күн бұрын
If that fragile, they should stay at home.
@merpius
@merpius 29 күн бұрын
Using explicit, factual adjectives to describe someone is so much better than when a Filipino tries to use pronouns. With that the 4 or 5 people in the story all shift back and forth from being male and female, and after initial introduction to the story, their names are never used again to distinguish them.
@SitBackandWatch.Official
@SitBackandWatch.Official 29 күн бұрын
Very fortunate to be a Filipino American. I can play both cards culturally, I don’t attract attention, I can blend in any environment and I can own land and a business without marrying a Filipina.
@eazye088
@eazye088 29 күн бұрын
As a Filam myself I also blend in until I open my mouth.
@SitBackandWatch.Official
@SitBackandWatch.Official 29 күн бұрын
That’s exactly what I went through when I took my undergrad in Manila years ago.
@Airraidcd
@Airraidcd 29 күн бұрын
Same I move to the US at age 8 . I still understand Tagalog and Bicol when I go home my relatives from the province and in Manila treat me as a family member not as a foreigner and if I want too I can also buy land plus my parents still have land in the province and Will transfer to me being the eldest and I will sell it once they pass away. Extra income that I’ll put in the Philippine bank once I retire in Makati in a few years. I blend until I open my mouth need to practice d and practice my Tagalog and Bicol so I can totally blend in completely.
@vidong1704
@vidong1704 29 күн бұрын
Yes, very lucky because both countries allow dual citizenship.
@shawntusa
@shawntusa 28 күн бұрын
​@@vidong1704Even for Americans?
@n5017858
@n5017858 26 күн бұрын
A friend was working in Korea and bought a shirt that said “Just because I’m white, doesn’t mean I’m American” It had the English at the bottom
@rockarolla9054
@rockarolla9054 29 күн бұрын
I love being a foreigner there. Everyone is friendly and warm. Be respectful and nice and the Filipinos will be the same.
@josiah5776
@josiah5776 29 күн бұрын
Same for me.
@samual3006
@samual3006 29 күн бұрын
​@@josiah5776Only because they want your money 💰. Won't you foreigners ever learn 😮
@UNKNOWN-un6nz
@UNKNOWN-un6nz 29 күн бұрын
Knot all times atall
@samual3006
@samual3006 29 күн бұрын
@@UNKNOWN-un6nz Love the spelling 🤣
@bronkonovak6555
@bronkonovak6555 29 күн бұрын
​@@samual3006took the words right out of my mouth. 😂
@billclarke3754
@billclarke3754 29 күн бұрын
I've lived in The Philippines and Thailand; The Thais call us "farang:. As a Westerner in Asia, I feel I'm tolerated more than accepted. A Filipino can become a USA citizen and accepted as an "American"; however, most Americans will never be a citizen of the Philippines or truly accepted as a Filipino.
@jamesloerzel4377
@jamesloerzel4377 29 күн бұрын
Just don't do the mistake I made, and bring your Filipina wife to America... You will slowly watch her become Western...
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Sad but true 👍
@marknasia5293
@marknasia5293 29 күн бұрын
@@QuentinStygerbut is is multi genetic as Filipino is not a race only a nationality, it isn’t a homogeneous society as Japan, S. N. Korea etc
@se_amable001
@se_amable001 29 күн бұрын
as a filipino, i can confirm
@ivanskirchak4935
@ivanskirchak4935 29 күн бұрын
Because you’re not Filipino. Farang or Laowai, Gaijin are offensive to me. Rather a friendly hey Joe over those aforementioned names. Filipino far more outgoing and friendly.
@ProgrammedForDamage
@ProgrammedForDamage 8 күн бұрын
I've been to a few Southeast Asian countries on business and everything you said was spot on. Being a 6'3, 105kg white Aussie I tend to stand out; stooping under things and bumping into stuff. It's the few times I've ever discovered a world not built for me. People take photos and stop to look at me. They laugh a little when I try and order food by mangling their language. It's never been a negative experience. In fact it's kind of an honour. And you hit the nail on the head. On first meeting I get mistaken for American.
@user2381
@user2381 29 күн бұрын
I'm an American of Mexican descent that has lived over two years with my Filipina wife in the Philippines. I work full-time at a Filipino company in a good position. My wife's family lives in the province and I lived there with her the first year after moving here. What i saw in the province was wow this foreigner is pogi, but after awhile they were just happy to jam with me, my wife, and her family. In Manila I was treated just as another with limited Tagalog. But my co-workers and wife's family see me as their own. I think you have to carry yourself to embrace Filipino culture and try to integrate. After all you are here so respect society here.
@homersapien3552
@homersapien3552 27 күн бұрын
Good advice for people migrating to any country including the US
@JosephMarquez-pj9dp
@JosephMarquez-pj9dp 27 күн бұрын
@@homersapien3552 Mexicans and Flipinos are lo mismo their cultures and history are very similar. So the reception is very warm like mi casa tu casa.
@1Surt
@1Surt 26 күн бұрын
You are Hispanic, Americans are of European descent.
@user-go2st5fi9w
@user-go2st5fi9w 26 күн бұрын
@@JosephMarquez-pj9dp Sorry, I know many Mexicans from Mexico. They are not similar. Last time I checked, most Mexican men who come to the USA work for a living and support their families. The oldest daughters are not required to bring in the cash and support the rest of her parents family. Never seen a Mexican begging everywhere I went in the USA. Calling me, "Joe" is mocking us White Americans in the Philippines. Even the Fillipino men are beggars and will bother you for cash or to buy them something. The Mexicans of Asia is nonsense. Try eating a Taco and it is crap.
@MrKim-kv2vv
@MrKim-kv2vv 25 күн бұрын
Intergrading in another countries society should be expected, assimilating is part of United Stated immigration law.
@AzerPaul
@AzerPaul 29 күн бұрын
I’m an American who has lived and worked and wandered overseas for 24 of my adult years. Almost everywhere I go I am immediately treated as a celebrity and honored guest BECAUSE I am an American/Foreigner. People want to know where I’m from, they invite me into their homes, feed me, introduce me to the available women they know (😁), and fight over who will carry my suitcase to the bus stop when I leave. Back in the States no one pays attention to me. I want to yell, “Hey, everybody, I’m here! Why aren’t you all over me caressing me physically and emotionally?” In other words, I am the last person who will ever take offense at being treated differently. Long live my “foreigner” status! 😄
@bronkonovak6555
@bronkonovak6555 29 күн бұрын
They treat you like a celebrity because they know what you have in your pockets and they want a some of it. 😂
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 29 күн бұрын
No way that caring happens in most of Europe. I lived there 7 yrs.
@ianjustin4389
@ianjustin4389 29 күн бұрын
Dude trust me. In their mind a white American = $$$$. Try saying "No" a few times, then see how friendly they REALLY are!
@DustinKillyact
@DustinKillyact 29 күн бұрын
You beat me to it my man I love all the attention I love to ham it up sometimes being taller and more muscular build show them I can out drink them get loud pick out the big guy and scare him to kick his ass then tip everyone more money than they make in a week they love the crap out of me and it's not really a lot of money 😂😂😂
@drainbamaged
@drainbamaged 29 күн бұрын
​@DustinKillyact you sound like a prick mate
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 26 күн бұрын
I’m an American. One day I was traveling with my Filipina girlfriend in the Philippines when we ran into another American who according to my wife spoke perfect Tagalog. As soon as were alone she commented to me, “As soon as I saw how well he spoke Tagalog, I lost all respect for him,”. Digest this for a moment. It is another example of the colonial mentality so prevalent in the Philippines.
@samuelschick8813
@samuelschick8813 24 күн бұрын
It shows a saying I heard once regarding Filipinos. That being " No matter what you do, you will never be fully accepted nor be fully accepted as part of the family by Filipinos."
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara 24 күн бұрын
@@samuelschick8813 Well of course not! This is human nature. Not even just humans but most other living beings. Would we expect a group of cats to accept a bunny rabbit as part of their cat family?
@samuelschick8813
@samuelschick8813 23 күн бұрын
@ChineduOpara , Lot of mental gymnastics in your comment. Reason being there are several cases that debunk your animal claim. But just as well not to get close to or make friends with Filipinos, the most dishonest, immoral, undisciplined and corrupt people I have ever ran into.
@dennisgordon7767
@dennisgordon7767 22 күн бұрын
wild
@sasa4029
@sasa4029 22 күн бұрын
Soooo, that day you traveled with your gf … and your wife? Kitchen sink…
@antoniohardaway6913
@antoniohardaway6913 29 күн бұрын
I am black from America. I am mostly called a black American since I have been in the Philippines. I see no harm.
@dollarjilt1
@dollarjilt1 28 күн бұрын
I would prefer to be called a black or white American etc than "foreigner" all the time... sounds better.
@antoniohardaway6913
@antoniohardaway6913 28 күн бұрын
@@dollarjilt1 , exactly. It showed respect for me. In return I showed respect for them. It’s been all good. Just have wisdom with everything you do.
@JohnGrigg-gz9gm
@JohnGrigg-gz9gm 24 күн бұрын
@@dollarjilt1 "Hey, Joe!" "Hello, Joe!" All the time... Lol
@derekmoyer263
@derekmoyer263 24 күн бұрын
When I visited Thailand many, many years ago with a friend of mine, the girls would call out to him, "Hey Chocolate Man!!"
@ChineduOpara
@ChineduOpara 24 күн бұрын
I am thinking about going to the PHs for 3 months. Please tell me about the racism, I would appreciate it. Especially in the area of dining out and also dating.
@johnlobley
@johnlobley 29 күн бұрын
Great to see you again ...and always let the ads play
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
John! Glad you’re here - I was almost worried 🤣👍
@gone.golfing
@gone.golfing 19 күн бұрын
“Oh he’s a rich businessman and married a Pinay!” “I wonder what he’s doing here?” “He’s definitely here looking for a wife!” I’m Filipino American and when I go to the Philippines, even I look at white Americans and think these things. It’s judgmental, yes but in most cases, it’s true.
@yagi3925
@yagi3925 27 күн бұрын
No romance or family connection with the Philippines. Just a modest anecdote: I’m a non-Anglosaxon European and happened some day to be in a Luzon village pretty far from Manila with some Filipino friends from Quezon City. As we walked down a street, a little boy from the local community started waving at us and, when he spotted me, he started shouting « American, American! ». It was the first time he ever saw a White in flesh and blood and he was obviously convinced that all Whites were Americans. It hardly came as a surprise to me but my Filipino friends and I were amused and we had an improvised football (soccer) match with the little boy. It made my day and I’m sure it also made his.
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 24 күн бұрын
@@yagi3925: Yes! I’m an American. During the years I lived in the Philippines, I was asked numerous times what part of America Australia, Germany and other countries were located. One thing I learned over there was never to mention that my ancestors came from Ireland, or any other country because they would then lose respect for you, spread rumors that you were not a “real” American, and that you were a liar. Another thing to never ever mention is that you are divorced. You may be asked this question every single day by the same people for years, always swearing that you can trust them to keep it a strict secret, but if you tell them (any secret), they will immediately tell everyone they know. If you ask them why they ratted on you, they will ask you what made you think that they would not tell. When you reply that the reason was that they had swore to you dozens of times that they would never tell, they will ask you again, what made you think that they would not tell. When you tell them the reason again, they will ask you again what made you think that they would not rat on you. . . This can go on all day. If you live there long enough you will learn that in the Filipino culture there is no requirement to tell the truth, and it is not expected. Pure and simple. You will also learn many other things about the culture. Because of their culture, they do not think anything like us. For instance, there is no tomorrow for them, or a yesterday - just today. Therefore they do not plan ahead, nor do they save, or safe guard important documents. . . You will learn that right and wrong are subjective, not objective as in the West. You will learn that there is no obligation to repay loans in the Philippines, and that it is shameful to ask for repayment of a loan. You will learn that there is no obligation in the culture to tell the truth - none whatsoever. You will learn that this is only the barest tip of the iceberg, and if you learn the culture well enough you will learn that their culture is so far apart from ours that it is almost impossible to find anything that you agree on if married. You will learn that you can ever change or teach a Filipina. They know what they know, and that’s it. For instance, they will never learn to save money, no matter if you explain the value of doing for the next 30 years, and show they examples. I know all of this, I tied for over 30 years, as have those few of my American friends who remained married long enough to their Filipina wives. Remember, Filipinos do not have to keep any promise. There is no obligation. There is no shame in it. They are entirely pragmatic. Regardless of what they say, or promise, they will always do what is best for themselves at the moment, most especially leaving you in a heart beat for someone younger, more handsome, with s’more prestigious or higher paying job. . .
@skariarecords
@skariarecords 23 күн бұрын
@@majorronaldmandell7835 somebody got really hurt by a Filipina
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 22 күн бұрын
@@skariarecords: Hundreds of thousands of guys have been hurt by Filipinas. Which guy are you referring to?
@neildillon837
@neildillon837 28 күн бұрын
Also be aware that when a Filipino asks you if they can "borrow" something they don't return it unless you hound them constantly that you want it back....and if its money they have "borrowed" you can certainly kiss that good bye. I've learned the hard way....
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 22 күн бұрын
@@neildillon837: You are 100% correct! I lived in the Philippines for six years, and experienced this over and over and over, and never seemed to learn for the first two years I was there. Filipinos would promise that they were going to repay me, beg until they were blue in the face, cry, and tell that they were not like other Filipinos, but never repay. It’s a cultural thing. There is simply no obligation to repay a loan in the Philippines, and to ask for repayment is considered to be shameful, so no Filipino does so. It’s all tied up with the shame associated with being cheap. To be called cheap is a huge insult in the Philippines, and what better proof of being cheap than to ask for the return of a loan or to save money? So, you may wonder why Filipinos lend money since they know that it will never be repaid? It’s for the tremendous prestige and one-up-man’s-ship gained by it! In Filipino eyes, if I lend you money, this not only proves that I actually have money, but makes me better than up, and of a higher social class than you. Filipinos are extremely vain, and love nothing better than to brag.
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 15 күн бұрын
@@joelbattiston1139 : No offense, but if you knew the Philippine culture you would not be sending your girlfriend money, and you definitely would not be thinking of marrying her, because nothing is as it seems in the Philippines - nothing, not the girl, not the people, nothing that you see, observe, or hear. I know that it is impossible for you to believe this, but I would beg you to do some investigation among Aussie guys who have married Filipinas. Your time would repay you a thousand times over.
@pauls4742
@pauls4742 9 күн бұрын
@@majorronaldmandell7835 - the Philippines has a poverty mindset and until you spend a lot of time there you won't understand it. Clearly you do and your advice is spot on. As you said, nothing is as it seems and until you've spent time there, you don't realize that.
@davidcann5045
@davidcann5045 8 күн бұрын
yap very true , they view you as an atm nothing more ......
@Redditor6079
@Redditor6079 6 күн бұрын
​@@davidcann5045 what's wrong with that?
@keithgardner4505
@keithgardner4505 3 күн бұрын
How refreshing to hear someone speak the truth while still being polite. Me and my wife would really like to visit your country one day. Greetings from Texas, USA.
@remaguire
@remaguire 29 күн бұрын
A guy I was in the Navy with mariied a Filipina. After he retired they decided to move to the PI. That didn't last long. My bud and his wife both decided it wasn't worth being the family ATM. They moved back to the USA and are happier for it. Pretty sure they also distanced themselves from the PI family or they would have been in the poorhouse. And it's not just in the PI. I remember seeing a documentary about a woman who was the child of a Vietnamese woman and a US soldier. She grew up in the US and when in her twenties, she finally tracked down her Vietnamese family. She had a wonderful reunion with her mother and her half brothers. Wonderful until the mother asked her when she was going to start sending her money and how much it should be. The film makers captured that exact moment and the look on the daughter's face immediately showed how crushed she was. The mother just couldn't understand why she felt that way. Just remember that when you marry into an Asian family, a lot of times you are marrying the entire family.
@JesseOsby
@JesseOsby 29 күн бұрын
There doesn't even have to be a foreigner involved. My friend's mom came to the U.S. from Cambodia in the 80's. She met and married a fellow Cambodian immigrant. Recently she sent $10k she'd saved up to her family back in Cambodia to build a house for her to retire to there. Later she discovered her family had partied it up with the money and now it's all gone with no new house in sight
@thehebrewyisraeliteinstitu1868
@thehebrewyisraeliteinstitu1868 29 күн бұрын
@@JesseOsby- she was stupid
@mikemecklenborg5412
@mikemecklenborg5412 29 күн бұрын
Agree 100 percent and it took me almost marrying one to find that out. I was also in the Navy and you are warned about this before you ever go there. I was stationed in Guam and we visited P.I. every weekend. Lots of guys fell in love and some married and had great wives and others not so much. I never married one but there were times when I wish I had but not anymore. I got lucky and found a great woman stateside.
@bayoumanbryan
@bayoumanbryan 29 күн бұрын
right and no matter what you station in life, if you are a American you will always be rich. because if youre not worried about what or if you will eat today you are rich and always will be to them
@Who_Cares300
@Who_Cares300 29 күн бұрын
I cut off contract with a woman who was trying to get money from me, when she realized I was gonna replace her she took my boundaries serious. You don’t have to marry the whole family. You’re still a big catch, that’s what most don’t understand.
@deepskywishingwell2602
@deepskywishingwell2602 29 күн бұрын
I was treated very well by the Philippine people in Cebu . I was there a month, and was treated very well , and respected by everyone. I loved my time there. I cannot wait to see more of the Philippines and the less populated areas
@alfonsocantu9992
@alfonsocantu9992 8 сағат бұрын
This Chicano has very much Love for the wonderful and peaceful people of the Philippines...yours very truly Alfonso Cantu USMC
@gaufrid1956
@gaufrid1956 29 күн бұрын
I remember that the guards on the subdivision where I live in Mindanao thought I was an American ex-serviceman. I'm Aussie, but it didn't bother me. Pretty soon I got used to being called "sir", which rarely ever happens in Australia. Since I'm married to a Filipina grandmother who is a Higaonon baylan, I have learned to accept and follow her culture. I can think and speak in Bisaya (and sing in Bisaya and Tagalog as well as a few other Filipino languages such as Kapampangan, Ilokano, Hiligaynon, Tausug and Sama Bajao). My wife has taught me some of her tribal language, Higaonon Binukid. I speak in Bisaya and Higaonon Binukid at our local tindahan, because the mother of the family there is Higaonon, and the family there is related to my wife's late father's family. I don't feel like an outsider here, and I even had a case back in the pandemic when a health worker giving me a booster vaccination asked where I came from. I told her I'm Australian. She said "Oh, I don't hear that accent". That said, I have had a few people look at me in a way that didn't exactly make me feel like they appreciated my presence. Of course, that's understandable. It can happen anywhere. Thanks again for an entertaining video, Miss Pea.
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 29 күн бұрын
My wifes European. She can't pick out various English language accents either. It's normal.
@Steven-rp7li
@Steven-rp7li 28 күн бұрын
I am an American Indian. While in the Marines at subic bay I was able to blend into crowd. I met some truly great people and was treated as an honored guest. I am the third generation of my family to serve in the military and to go to the Philippines. Me, my uncle and grandpa all have had the same experience of meeting and getting to know philippine people.
@1Surt
@1Surt 26 күн бұрын
You are Indian, Americans are of European descent, not Asian.
@Steven-rp7li
@Steven-rp7li 26 күн бұрын
@@1Surt lol. My people have been here at least 15,000 years. Our creation stories state we have been here since the Great Basin was a large lake.
@1Surt
@1Surt 26 күн бұрын
@@Steven-rp7li Again, Americans are of European descent, not Asian.
@1Surt
@1Surt 26 күн бұрын
@@Kenobi-vu9mb 'Native American' is a misnomer as there was no America prior to Europeans creating it. Europeans are the Native Americans, not you.
@poncoolride
@poncoolride 26 күн бұрын
​@@1Surt you really need to understand what he is saying.
@Later2u
@Later2u 10 күн бұрын
My Filipina wife of 40 years was born and raise in the province, Luzon. Bare foot, no electricity. Her family was hard working and held education in high regard. She went to Manila for school and after that was able to come here through her uncle who was in the U.S. Navy. To this day, we have not been to the Philippines. She has become an American and has no desire to go back to the P.I. She has her head on straight and can save money like no other, while not being overbearing with what I like to do. She can also keep house like no other. What she doesn't like about the Philippines is that there is class warfare in that if you don't come from a certain place, have a different dialect, or you just have a darker skin tone you are a second class citizen or you don't have enough Spaniard facial features. The heat and humidity is another thing she doesn't like, but most there don't know having never been anywhere else.
@TheSmoothGrind
@TheSmoothGrind 29 күн бұрын
I enjoy your perspective and humor. My significant other is Filipina, but was adopted and has lived in the USA since a young child, but a lot of this still rings true.
@YoLoBong-xs3to
@YoLoBong-xs3to 29 күн бұрын
You are correct, it is kind of a compliment. Not an insult. Last week at a food park. The family mentioned they had never been out to eat before. They are coming back tomorrow for his wife's Birthday. It is a great pleasure to treat them like family. Because they make me feel like family.
@joshlemons3662
@joshlemons3662 6 күн бұрын
My wife is Filipino, she was raised in the US and culturally she’s American. We visited her family in Ilocos Norte, honestly being a white guy there I felt like a celebrity, it was great! Most of the people thought I was a Mormon because those were the only white guys they’re familiar with. They’d call me “Mr. White” “Americano” “Mr.Puraw” I wasn’t offended by any of it, and I don’t think anyone intended to offend, just different cultures.
@mypov4343
@mypov4343 29 күн бұрын
The naked truth...foreigners are viewed as a source of money and expected to pay.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
That too! 🤣
@mypov4343
@mypov4343 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea BTW, I think of you as one smart/motivated person making a difference in peoples' lives...regardless of your race, sex, age, etc...another naked truth dear INFJ
@JesseOsby
@JesseOsby 29 күн бұрын
Considering the way they view their own children as a source of money, you could look at that as being treated as part of the family :D
@nk863
@nk863 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Foreigner is a great rock group.
@livinb450
@livinb450 29 күн бұрын
@@nk863we are just “dirty white boys”, who don’t play “head games”. The Filipinas can be “cold as ice” (tampo), give us a “blue morning blue day” but they are “hot blooded”. And, face it, we are here,,, “waiting for a girl like you” (them), even tho we are a “long long way from home”. A good Filipina will have you thinking, “it feels like first time”, they are “urgent”, a real “head knocker”. If you can say, “I want to know what love is”, find a good Filipina, she’ll give you “double vision”. Don’t cheat on her, “juke box hero”. Or, “the damage is done”.
@michaelmallal9101
@michaelmallal9101 29 күн бұрын
Filipinos are the 4th largest immigration group to Australia. It is illegal to discriminate against people on the grounds of race or nationality. Philippines have laws against immigrants, this makes them a provincial society inter alia.
@laggordo
@laggordo 29 күн бұрын
Aussies are pretty good at accepting others, we are a successful multicultural society.
@regnorse
@regnorse 28 күн бұрын
lol a little knowledge is dangerous
@terrygriffin5201
@terrygriffin5201 28 күн бұрын
@@laggordo BS, Aussie's discriminate against the Aboriginal people and immigration all the time. .
@CIAG4PNP
@CIAG4PNP 24 күн бұрын
As a Marine who was stationed in Marine Barracks duty back in the 80s, you will quickly learn your just a walking dollar bill, a bank account, and a golden ticket to the USA! Taglog is really easy to learn! 😂 I learned to speak Taglog and Visaya while stationed there. But then again, I already spoke 3 languages before I graduated high school because my mom is Yugoslavian.
@redpillsatori3020
@redpillsatori3020 29 күн бұрын
I just want reciprocity and fairness. If Kano cannot own land in the PI, then OFWs in the USA shouldn't either. If Kano cannot talk trash about Filipinos, or the Filipino gov, without risking getting deported--then the same should go for OFWs in the USA.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Sounds fine to me - I’ve been hoping for years that we’d allow foreign ownership of land, as well as foreign investment 👍
@JamesHickman-g5c
@JamesHickman-g5c 29 күн бұрын
Huge difference between living here and just visiting. True, at best, we are just 'second-hand' residents (or paying guests with less privileges, if you like). Also, make sure you NEVER run out of money, nor get get cut off from accessing it.
@tomr9661
@tomr9661 23 күн бұрын
Hers is a BS response. The land ownership laws are indeed racist. She just won't come out and say it. Discrimination is never acceptable, - anywhere.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 23 күн бұрын
@@tomr9661 The land ownership laws are ‘racist’? And just what ‘race’ are they against, since they mostly affect the Chinese. Maybe you think it’s an ‘anti-Asian’ law? 😆 I think you need to look up the definition of the word racist 🤣🤣
@tomr9661
@tomr9661 23 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea I think YOU really need to study the laws of your own country, don't act ignorant. if you do not have Filipino blood, you cannot own land, period, it's called racism everywhere else but not in PH. Discrimination against land ownership or anything else base on race is called racism. YOU look it up.
@ericburd
@ericburd 29 күн бұрын
At 6' 205 lbs, I'm taller and heavier than 99 percent of the Filipinos/Filipinas. And I have been to the Philippines twice and you are right. I had filipinas and kids always wanting to take pics with me. Also EVERYONE was very warm and accepting.
@JohnGrigg-gz9gm
@JohnGrigg-gz9gm 29 күн бұрын
In a hardware store in the Philippines I met a gentleman who was 6'9 and well over 300 pounds! Lol The man was the Filipino Shrek! Lol
@TeamFactor62
@TeamFactor62 23 күн бұрын
G. I. Joe😊 I'm a foreigner in the UK and the Philippines. Don't make any difference at all. It is what it is. As long as my filipina loves me and I love her it definitely don't matter if I'm a foreigner or not❤️
@brianscovern68
@brianscovern68 29 күн бұрын
Hi Pea! I really like how I'm treated when in the Philippines. I even got used to catching people staring at me because I understand I'm a foreigner. It's always a polite curiosity. Great video once again. 🎉
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
‘A polite curiosity’ - I like that 👍😊
@Hairyskinback
@Hairyskinback 29 күн бұрын
I am a Brit and often get asked if I am Australian or American, I come back with a smile and ask the asker if they are Chinese which always gets a giggle.
@mrconfusion87
@mrconfusion87 29 күн бұрын
The Filipino public's awareness of "white people" having different nationalities besides just American is starting to catch up now with reality! Interestingly, most "Western" faces I see nowadays in real life tend to be Europeans now instead of Americans; and most US citizens I personally come across here these days tend to be Fil-Ams (whether by naturalization or because of their parentage)! 🤣🤣🤣
@nondompom
@nondompom 27 күн бұрын
The preconceptions of some ignorant Brits of Filipinos are quite rude. Seen as 3rd world or passively poor. Those who travel or have a broader outlook see Filipinos as proud, loving, friendly, strong, and hard working. It's why we love you guys. Don't ever change to fit in. Let the rest of the world catch up to you.
@Hairyskinback
@Hairyskinback 27 күн бұрын
@@nondompom Well having made my home here for 11 years and knowing I will never return to the UK I guess my outlook is broad enough. I feel a freedom here that in the West seems to be dying and the willingness to laugh and have fun is infectious. Moving to the Philippines was the smartest choice I have ever made.
@bobrolls3800
@bobrolls3800 4 күн бұрын
Pea, I am continually amazed at how fluent you are with American idioms and concepts, even referring to the Borg collective from our science fiction show Star Trek, and our melting pot culture, and so very many more things. I appreciate your intelligence and easy way of communicating. Thank you for the many KZbin videos you make for us.
@tonyharnett3169
@tonyharnett3169 29 күн бұрын
Love It 😂 Canadian here Pea and I've experienced at least 90% of what you discussed but have never once been offended. My future sister-in-law once referred to me as Americano and I corrected her saying ‘I’m not American, I’m Canadian’ She asked ‘What’s the difference’ then I asked ‘What’s the difference between Filipinos and Japanese?’ she got it! In the neighbourhood I’m referred to as my Filipina’s ‘Asawa Kano’ … I’m OK with this. Great Video, thanks for sharing!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 You made a Filipino understand? Amazing! 👍👍👍😁
@frozenpann
@frozenpann 28 күн бұрын
​@TheFilipinaPea as a Canadian, it's kinda offencive to be called American. We love and respect our US neighbors but Canadians are usually nicer people. Better educated, too, per capita. Lol... I know somebody is going to have a problem with my statements. Bring on the debate!
@bayareatanders
@bayareatanders 27 күн бұрын
Canadian and American are almost the same since they all live in North America and speak English unless if you live in those French Canadian areas.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 24 күн бұрын
@@frozenpann I as an American married a Canadian, and this is such delusional BS! Every Canada Day you guys spend asking yourselves 'What does it mean to be Canadian?' The ONLY answer you all agree on is: You arent American! LMAO You guys are the little kid brother that no one takes seriously! I love ya Canada, had some great times, met some great people, would pick up a rifle and surely defend you, but y'all think a bit too highly of yourselves! ha ha ha (BTW, i can trace my ancestors back to Canada, before they left for a BETTER life in the States. I have a natural affinity for Canada because of this also!)
@davidlinehat4657
@davidlinehat4657 23 күн бұрын
@@frozenpann So, the only difference you can state is a national stereotype? Canada is culturally American and tightly knit into the American sphere of influence. You might use km, over-regulate private industry, and have a parliamentary style government, but you are still culturally American.
@paulstan9828
@paulstan9828 29 күн бұрын
Hi Pea! Always nice to see you. Like a member of our family! 👋😁❤
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
You’re certainly a member of mine ❤️😊👋
@pyromidas
@pyromidas 14 күн бұрын
It's roughly what I would expect. Personally, I appreciate the honesty. All I would ask is that if i'm friendly to them, they'll be friendly to me. This attitude doesn't even always work out in the western world either though. To me, it's all about intent, if "foreigner" isn't said with disdain, I don't care in the slightest, because as you say, it's really just descriptive and accurate. As long as they don't mind if I respond by saying they're the ones with the accent :P and once i get to know everyone, what does it matter to me if they use "foreigner" to describe me to their other friends when I become relevant, so long as they aren't saying nasty things?
@tig3rjax494
@tig3rjax494 29 күн бұрын
If someone gets offended by this, they should not go there to visit. Being called a foreigner is not offensive it's a fact. People are too sensitive nowadays.
@dubinatub1
@dubinatub1 29 күн бұрын
Just don't call me a Americano ...I'm Irish der
@dubinatub1
@dubinatub1 17 күн бұрын
@Davesaid9253 nothing wrong with that
@dubinatub1
@dubinatub1 17 күн бұрын
@Davesaid9253 oh the ones I met in mars did.i take it your from a far away planet.
@terrylorrah6725
@terrylorrah6725 29 күн бұрын
Help, Pea! I think I married Imelda. My wife wants many bags and shoes!
@lude4u2nv
@lude4u2nv 29 күн бұрын
hi traveling terry
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Terry grabs the silver medal! Maybe it was Imelda’s? 😳🥈👍
@terrylorrah6725
@terrylorrah6725 29 күн бұрын
​@@lude4u2nv HI shout out Anthony
@Paulo-ov4yo
@Paulo-ov4yo 29 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@iarmandob
@iarmandob 29 күн бұрын
She is a king-maker. You could be the next President of the Philippines!
@seanjones1821
@seanjones1821 22 күн бұрын
Filipino see foreigner as bank accounts and ATM machines
@PhilippinesWalkingTour
@PhilippinesWalkingTour 29 күн бұрын
Great video content, as per usual ! 🤩
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Thanks, PWT! 😊❤️👍
@jandricaine
@jandricaine 29 күн бұрын
If you are not from the country, we are foreigners. Foreigners seem to be welcomed in the Philippines. I look forward to my visit soon and explore where I wish to retire to.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 23 күн бұрын
Did you listen to the video? it sounds like our $$$ are welcomed, but OUR presence is tolerated! ha ha ha
@stopusinaar
@stopusinaar 26 күн бұрын
This is the most accuracy description of how foreigners are perceived in the Philippines. Being a foreigner who has visited the Philippines 3 times, this all happened to me
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 26 күн бұрын
Thanks, Stop 👍👍❤️
@ianrichardson3228
@ianrichardson3228 29 күн бұрын
Leaving my country of birth at 4yo, I’ve always been a foreigner, but being accused of coming from the U/S, which accounts for only 4% of the global population, is hard to accept. 😵‍💫
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@shaunwood2365
@shaunwood2365 29 күн бұрын
Get over it. Our culture is global! 😂
@ijatpingrhyb
@ijatpingrhyb 29 күн бұрын
Don't like be called Joe. Just call me kiwi
@user-pb2ce4tk1-izzy
@user-pb2ce4tk1-izzy 29 күн бұрын
You might not be a US citizen but your sister Josey might be.lol
@ianrichardson3228
@ianrichardson3228 29 күн бұрын
@@user-pb2ce4tk1-izzy No, They're Canadian, definitely don't like being called "American"! Same for all my other rellies worldwide 😂
@Expandacraftboats
@Expandacraftboats 29 күн бұрын
Hi Pea, another fine video. I can't wait to get to Dumaguete this November and find out for myself how I will be received. I'm not too worried, your videos in the past have shed a lot of light on the subject, and I'm ready to explore. See you soon.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
You’ll be well prepared, ECB 👍😊❤️
@bayoumanbryan
@bayoumanbryan 29 күн бұрын
i think that in Duma theyve seen so many Americans that you may not get attention but in other places you will for sure. when i went to meet my now wife i was sir Bryan when i got there, it made me happy. when i left the USA i was nothing but a broken down old man but when i got there i was treated so good. it made it hard to leave the Philippines for sure.
@HarryHound
@HarryHound 18 күн бұрын
ThanQ for the truthful insight
@carlschleicher5516
@carlschleicher5516 29 күн бұрын
Here I'm always called Sir, they hardly look in my bag almost like I'm beyond anything petty, and I never worry when eating out as to who handles my food. I like that.
@nordicwerewolf9769
@nordicwerewolf9769 29 күн бұрын
Fun fact pea, I live in Appalachia, and I've watched several of your videos up to this point. And I've noticed a lot of the ways that y'all was raised, is very similar to how we were raised, considering this is one of the poorest parts of the country.
@inconnu4961
@inconnu4961 23 күн бұрын
Fun fact: Appalachia is FILLED with WHYTE people, not people of color! And they are STILL poor! Many people of color like to pretend that only they can be poor because whyte people conspire to keep them that way. NOPE, rich elites conspire to keep ALL of us that way, regardless of skin tone. Surprise, surprise, surprise!
@RespectMyAuthoritaah
@RespectMyAuthoritaah 24 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this. It is pretty much as I expected and refreshing to hear someone tell it like it is. Thanks again.
@peterdavidsadd1034
@peterdavidsadd1034 29 күн бұрын
I've been there many times wonderfull country warm and helpfull people ...I met a beautiful lady got married.she came to live with me in UK and that was 23years ago..next year we will move out there to live ...
@scottmadoff7444
@scottmadoff7444 29 күн бұрын
when i went to china 20 years ago, as i was walking around i saw a local staring at me as he was walking & then he walked right into a pole I'm sure it happens all the time when people see a girl a pretty as pea.
@ianrichardson3228
@ianrichardson3228 29 күн бұрын
On my first trip an elderly gentleman on a bicycle swivelled his head to stare at me as he rode past through the roadworks, I expected something similar 😮
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Serves him right 🤣🤣
@spincube5734
@spincube5734 29 күн бұрын
That happens in Poland all the time & nobody ever gets hurt.
@Soundhypno
@Soundhypno 29 күн бұрын
@@spincube5734 🤣😂😅😁😅😆
@MrJoe1199
@MrJoe1199 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea or left :)
@deslm
@deslm 26 күн бұрын
My wife is Japanese and almost everything you said applies to my situation; I accepted it a long time ago. I do speak Japanese and lived there for an extended period of time, but it doesn’t matter. That mindset seems to be par for the course in most Asian countries.
@scottbutler2761
@scottbutler2761 29 күн бұрын
Love your info videos Pea
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Thanks Scott! ❤️👍
@Warf_459
@Warf_459 29 күн бұрын
Good Evening Pea. I can hardly wait to hear this
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Well hello, Warf! ❤️👋😊
@unsettledonpurpose
@unsettledonpurpose 5 күн бұрын
11:33 You hit the nail on the head, here. I'm having trouble relating to my Filipino friends' lack of concern. It is as if they do not care about getting ahead, or even thinking about, much less saving for retirement at all. I have seen no working class people attempting to either produce extra or spend less.
@olskool7777
@olskool7777 29 күн бұрын
I prefer being an outsider, and I have come to terms with the fact that I will always be one, and I am content with that. I appreciate the way I am treated as a foreigner in the Philippines, but this is merely my personal perspective ✌🏿
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Then it’s a perfect fit 🤣👍
@guyandre4946
@guyandre4946 29 күн бұрын
Very smart new logo, very professional! Being a “foreigner” is a full-time job then? 😅 I was a farang in Thailand and locals asked me to pose for pictures with them in Bangladesh, when children were touching my arm to see if I was real and alive. Nothing new under the Sun Pea! What I mean is that I don’t see why people could object or dislike being called “a foreigner” ! This is exactly what we are! 😂Always a pleasure anyway dear Pea 🥰😘❤️
@petertherock7340
@petertherock7340 15 күн бұрын
My Filipina wife and I have been married for 6 years. I love going to the Philippines 🇵🇭 to visit. Eventually, I will retire there. OF COURSE I AM A FOREIGNER. There is no way to hide this, nor would I want to. So what if you are treated differently as a foreigner? You always will be as long as you live there. But I will always be part of my wife’s family even though I am American 🇺🇸. One way to overcome this preoccupation mentally is to marry your Filipina bride in the Philippines, buy a house, and live together as husband and wife. That is as close as you will ever get to being like a “local.” But you will still be a foreigner! 😊😊😊
@TheNakedDalek
@TheNakedDalek 29 күн бұрын
Understand the American thing...married to a Filipino, every time we visit the Islands....I'm American, even though I'm British, and this is from relatives! From strangers in the market..."hello Joe", left right and centre. Tiny Vehicles, yup me climbing in, is like a clown into one of those clown cars...prices..oh yes. As for fitting in, yes, I am the "family foreigner". Damn Pea, right on the head
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Thanks, Dalek - I’m glad I got it right! The Doctor would be proud of me 😢🤣🤣
@GUITARTIME2024
@GUITARTIME2024 29 күн бұрын
Kano just means foreigner, and they don't care you're not actually an American.
@rfisher7199
@rfisher7199 29 күн бұрын
Hi Pea, I had some of these same questions. I noticed that the Chinese tourists are looked up to by the Filipinos, and it appeared that the Chinese considered themselves to be the elite of the Asian race. Or at least, that’s the way it appeared to me. I asked my Filipina spouse if my perception was accurate. She confirmed that my observation was correct. I asked why the Filipinos cater to their aloof attitudes. She said that the Chinese own a large portion of the hotels and restaurants. It was my understanding that “Foreigners” couldn’t work or own businesses in the Philippines. Or at least, not on a Tourist Visa. I’m learning that the Chinese have intermarried with the Philippine citizens and have established themselves as the dominate citizens in the Philippines. I’m not sure about this but, there is also some status associated with have a two letter last name? It just really ticks me off to see the Chinese Coast Guard intimidating the Philippine Coast Guard, and encroaching upon the Philippine sovereignty in the South China Sea, yet they are welcomed here in Cebu with open arms :(
@MichaelNeeves-wf8ls
@MichaelNeeves-wf8ls 29 күн бұрын
Upto 40% of Fiilipinos have some Chinese ancestry Chinese traders were their before the Spanish arrived 500 years ago so its part of them not just a current thing
@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni
@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni 29 күн бұрын
Difference local Chinese blended into d Filipino local cultures,norms ,habits etc over a long period could b decades but Mainland Chinese who came to d Philippines include those economic opportunists,money launders/gamblers,and those criminals wanted in their own country @fugitives and those crooks who sneaked into Philippines,took advantage of d "lighter law"(as compared to China)to engage in drugs snuggling and manufacturing knowing d laxity of local long wide coastline and can easily bribe those in authority (in Philippines)
@LordLucan-7
@LordLucan-7 29 күн бұрын
@@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni I'd love to learn more about these Chinese "Drug Snugglers". It sounds so cosy.😂
@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni
@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni 28 күн бұрын
@@LordLucan-7 rampant even used ambulance in connivance with d local Mayor at Quezon years back. Busted
@Duke_Savant
@Duke_Savant Күн бұрын
They are called Chinese-Filipino, locally called Chinoy. Their ancestors came here to trade and eventually integrated to the local population. You can see strong Chinese influence in the overall Filipino Culture. Technically, your wife was referring to legit Filipino with mixed Chinese descent (majority) and / or those who applied for Naturalization to become citizens (actually very rare). Chinoys are usually into business but not every Chinoy are of status.
@Dream-Academy
@Dream-Academy 21 күн бұрын
I gotta admit you are fairly entertaining with good communication and expression Miss Pea. Comprehension is arguable the most important thing in communication.
@charlesyoung9980
@charlesyoung9980 29 күн бұрын
Filipinos see all foreigner men as "Joe"
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@JoeinAlaska
@JoeinAlaska 29 күн бұрын
How convenient
@afather.
@afather. 29 күн бұрын
It is funny being an American veteran. The kids say Joe to me I salute them
@CG87343
@CG87343 29 күн бұрын
I was In China for five months as a college student, in the interior of the country. As a 6’4 white guy, literally everyone was staring at me. I got it. Never bothered me.
@ianrichardson3228
@ianrichardson3228 29 күн бұрын
I was the first foreigner in many Chinese towns I visited, the whole street stopped to stare, then someone would address me in English! 😅 Except when I lived in Sanya, where shop assistants always spoke in Russian..
@CG87343
@CG87343 29 күн бұрын
@@ianrichardson3228: That happened to me as well. Usually it was very broken English but I always appreciated the effort and went out of my way to talk to them and to talk slowly.
@GorillaCrewWarGaming
@GorillaCrewWarGaming 5 күн бұрын
THIS is why I love Filipinos.
@CustomMuscleCarAccessories
@CustomMuscleCarAccessories 27 күн бұрын
I'm half White/Filipino. Almost everything she says here I've experience it when i was there in philly. They never suspect im also a filipino because most of my white features are shown but overall they were friendly and welcoming, especially my filipino relatives.
@majorronaldmandell7835
@majorronaldmandell7835 22 күн бұрын
@@CustomMuscleCarAccessories : Yeah! I had a friend in high school who was half white American, and half Filipino. None of us ever suspected that he was half Filipino. Thirty years after graduation from high school I went to visit this guy, and brought my Filipina girlfriend with me. She immediately recognized him as being half Filipino! Wow!
@amossnowdaharleyman9179
@amossnowdaharleyman9179 29 күн бұрын
The blue in the dress looks good on you.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Thanks, Famous Amos! ❤️😊
@marcmac8944
@marcmac8944 2 күн бұрын
I appreciate your transparency of truth and the many facts and reminders. The tribe piece is very profound and many may not be able to understand this. Thank you again and I wish joy peace and blessings to you your family and what you continue to do! Grateful,
@simbiotik8480
@simbiotik8480 29 күн бұрын
"Some of you Brits, Canadians, Aussies!" There! Imagine you are none of those and look like none of those and you still get called American.
@Dilley_G45
@Dilley_G45 29 күн бұрын
I find it insulting. It implies Americans are either the worst or the best of westerners (neither) and I look like one. If anything then americans look like me a native northern european
@closeredge5198
@closeredge5198 29 күн бұрын
Accept the fact that the world looks at America as the symbol of the west , and get out of your feelings
@Leo-yd6ig
@Leo-yd6ig 29 күн бұрын
I would feel insulted. 😅 While visiting Kyiv many years ago, the 1st thing I would say to a Ukrainian I was chatting up was "I'm Canadian, not American". To avoid getting stuck with the negative stereotypes. And I actually crossed paths with a few American tourists while I was there. Yikes! They were awful! 😬
@jameswelch1054
@jameswelch1054 29 күн бұрын
What an ignorant comment. This guy must of failed his geography class, lol. I am Canadian, which makes me American. The Americas are continents, anyone living in North, or South America, is an American.
@gergelycsuros2051
@gergelycsuros2051 29 күн бұрын
I was called American several times there, I didnt mind. It was funny. I am an Eastern-European. It was even funnier, when they said, it is easy to me to have a convo in english, or learn it, because I am white. As a Hungarian, my native language is probably closer to tagalog than to engilsh. 😂
@abiodunikupitioluwafemi1325
@abiodunikupitioluwafemi1325 29 күн бұрын
Pea you are looking so gorgeous on your outfit..Much love from a fan from Nigeria
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Hello to Nigeria! 🇳🇬
@abiodunikupitioluwafemi1325
@abiodunikupitioluwafemi1325 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea Thanks for your reply and flying our flag..I hope to visit the Philippines soon
@ezekielalimpia3048
@ezekielalimpia3048 29 күн бұрын
Pea have a wonderful day! Your voice is good as a host.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Maybe I should try for tv 😊
@ezekielalimpia3048
@ezekielalimpia3048 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea I really think you should some day, you are doing delightful here in KZbin.
@treasuresofthepast3208
@treasuresofthepast3208 29 күн бұрын
Hi pea! ❤ Have a wonderful day !
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
TotP! You’re fourth tonight 😳👍❤️
@treasuresofthepast3208
@treasuresofthepast3208 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea hahaha getting closer !
@condor5150
@condor5150 4 күн бұрын
After my experience while living in Puerto Galera. I felt like a human cash register or Spanish colorist. However I still received a lot of kindness and hospitality too! By the way Pea. I heard heard Pinos call Koreans "Koreanos" Lol.
@TropicalOceanCleanup
@TropicalOceanCleanup 26 күн бұрын
You forgot the babies. Some just stare, look shocked. Some look afraid and a few will even start crying. That's when you are reminded you're an outsider
@pepersalt7777
@pepersalt7777 29 күн бұрын
They see us like a walking talking ATM.😂
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Many times, yes 😳😊
@pepersalt7777
@pepersalt7777 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea i was married for 13 years to a pinaylady but now happy divorced i never felt accepted only if they needed money they come to me. Im so done.
@garyh8512
@garyh8512 29 күн бұрын
It's very very common to be treated this way. As a walking ATM. The family will drain you and not think twice about it. Keep in mind that they will do this to their own as well. If your an OFW, the family will still suck you dry and your expected to give and not complain.
@Leemajors380
@Leemajors380 29 күн бұрын
​@pepersalt7777 thanks for the information.
@catfoodmillionaire7838
@catfoodmillionaire7838 29 күн бұрын
Doesn't sound that different from a normal relationship!
@chadfrazer4110
@chadfrazer4110 7 күн бұрын
This is a VERY VERY well put together and spoken video, nice job!
@zeus014
@zeus014 29 күн бұрын
I'm Canadian, and I would not be at all offended being called a foreigner in a land in which I was not born and raised. Nor would I ever be offended if mistaken for an American. This is because I've never in my life drank the Canadian education system/media/government/pop-culture Kool Aid that's been poured down on us for going on sixty years. You see, in the absence of a we-the-people style constitution, Canada's oligarchic er, "Liberal" government has gone to great lengths to preach the narrative to Canadians that we somehow are more free than Americans and have a better standard of living than our friends to the south do. Both are blatantly false. But I guess that, as our government slowly usurped our freedom and basic human rights in a death-of-a-thousand-cuts agenda, they figured that they could slowly brainwash Canadians into hating the US. Such a psy-op would be deemed necessary lest Canadians, upon seeing their own liberty being stolen, look toward those greener and freer pastures on the other side of the 49th parallel and then want to (gasp!) LEAVE. The horror! So yeah, mistake me for an American. I'd consider it a badge of honour.
@roygolden2628
@roygolden2628 26 күн бұрын
@@zeus014 don’t like it in Canada, don’t let the door hit you in the ass on the way out.
@zeus014
@zeus014 26 күн бұрын
@@roygolden2628 you spelled Iran wrong.
@jeffsmith9203
@jeffsmith9203 29 күн бұрын
My Filipina wife’s mother has always accepted me even when we first met in 1991! She would even refuse to cook for her daughter unless I was invited to eat!! When my wife passed away last year her family still excepts me as part of the family!! I will be going back to visit sometime soon! Your videos give me more insight on my in-laws what they might be thinking!I really love the ending of your video today! Pea you continue to get more and more beautiful with every episode!! Thank you for what you do!! Take care!!!
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
You hit the jackpot, Jeff ❤️👍
@bruceprobert1579
@bruceprobert1579 9 күн бұрын
Hello Filipina Pea. Your recent shows are much more polished. Looking good. Thanks for your honesty. A foreigner, is true if one is not native to the country they are in. Truth is refreshing!
@TheStygianKing
@TheStygianKing 29 күн бұрын
As always Great video Pea
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
I see the seeing eye, see? 😊
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
I see the seeing eye, see? 😊
@TheStygianKing
@TheStygianKing 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea I know that you know that I know What a one-eyed man sees
@user-td9pg2vg8p
@user-td9pg2vg8p 28 күн бұрын
@@TheStygianKing I'm in the dark concerning the navigation over the Styx. Will one of you tell me, so that I too can tell you, so that we both shall know? The Norse one-eyed ruler was "Odin" y-clept. His other "one-eyed-one was not a monk! Wink and it will seem to be obscure. Wink, wank, wonk. LOL.
@TheStygianKing
@TheStygianKing 27 күн бұрын
@@user-td9pg2vg8p In shadows deep where secrets lie, The Stygian truths whisper to the sky. Not just Odin with his sight so keen, Across the myths, the all-seeing are seen. From the Greek shores where Styx flows, To Odin's watch, where the ravens crows, The eyes that see, the hearts that feel, Uncover the layers for the world to reveal.
@tarwingrill4531
@tarwingrill4531 29 күн бұрын
And the Pea is looking better and better.
@Cowboy-pb3mt
@Cowboy-pb3mt Күн бұрын
I'm Jamaican and a lot of what you say is true even in my country.
@ronjarman4256
@ronjarman4256 29 күн бұрын
I have only been to the Philippines once long ago and was at Olongapo. I thought everyone was amazing and I never heard the term foreigner but rather heard “blonde hair makes beautiful babies” and that was not my goal at the time 😅
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
Ohhhh I bet you disappointed many Filipinas then 🤣🤣👍
@Santa-ny1yp
@Santa-ny1yp 29 күн бұрын
You had me at naked. Being offended at words people use is being overly sensitive. That's a person that lives a life of drama and you shouldn't waste your time on them.
@sayajinmamuang
@sayajinmamuang 29 күн бұрын
Not true at all. Words carry meaning and vibration and wether we like it or not they can be painful and hurt someone or can words of uplifting nature.
@goldyg6511
@goldyg6511 4 күн бұрын
Hey Pea, every time you sound like you say the Filipina " bee " here, I luv Ur channel! As I've mentioned many times to you, like your style and you always impress me as you appear exceptionally wise beyond your years ....... your message here is not much different many other cultures, its same with my culture American Indian .......... all the best Pea !
@daqt6079
@daqt6079 18 күн бұрын
1:23 in. If only White people could be as honest as she is.
@hobens1
@hobens1 10 күн бұрын
@daqt6079 most of us are buddy
@ezekielalimpia3048
@ezekielalimpia3048 29 күн бұрын
Goodevening Filipina Pea, I immediately clicked on your latest video ❤❤❤. Gonna love watching this ❤❤.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 29 күн бұрын
I sure do appreciate that, Ezekiel 👍👍❤️
@ezekielalimpia3048
@ezekielalimpia3048 29 күн бұрын
@@TheFilipinaPea I'll always be supporting this channel 😊😍.
@andyknolls8735
@andyknolls8735 18 күн бұрын
And if you have children with a filipina, the children will be considered foreigner children. Thats the way it goes, you will always be on the outside.
@Pete_Rocc
@Pete_Rocc 5 күн бұрын
While I'm not living in the Philippines, as a foreigner in Asia this video is definitely relatable. Your wit is awesome. That 'poke my hontas' bit made me literally LOL. hahahahaaa
@arditifin3187
@arditifin3187 6 күн бұрын
Thank you for being so honest. Please never give in to those with soft skins and tender feelings. The Truth is the truth. Not what you want to make of it. Lol.
@kentpelletier3962
@kentpelletier3962 18 күн бұрын
Thanks! A longtime admirer that did not know I could get like this. May God bless you and those you love.
@TheFilipinaPea
@TheFilipinaPea 16 күн бұрын
Oh my, Ken! Thanks so much, and I’ll put it towards the project we talked about ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@Irishokey
@Irishokey 19 күн бұрын
Good Show!! You are very informative!!!
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