Early signs of Autism we MISSED when Mikko was a baby (with footage)

[@squidhands6941]

I didn't speak at all until I was almost 4 and now I am one of those people that strangers say "well you don't LOOK autistic!" I have to explain I will never be able to live alone, and there are a lot of things I struggle with. BUT I am able to live with just my partner and thrive as he is wonderful and understanding. I went to college, got a degree (although it took me 6 years instead of 4), have a normal office job, etc. People on the internet don't understand autism! You helping to educate people is so so helpful and it warms my heart to see. I wouldn't remove my autism if given the chance. It's my whole brain! I get to look at the world in a completely different way, even if I have unique struggles others don't understand. Thank you for not thinking there is anything wrong with Mikko. Accommodation from my parents is what helped me get so far in life. I don't know what would have happened if they hadn't treated me with the kindness they did.

[@nyahdejai8770]

I suspect my toddler might Have autism, I’m curious as to why you say you wouldn’t be able to live alone?

[@eudialilly4954]

Can it be cured if noticed early

[@photonegitivekitty]

@@eudialilly4954 no, but there is medication for it

[@Hohum1945]

@@eudialilly4954 No there is no way to prevent or “cure” autism.

[@Hohum1945]

@@nyahdejai8770 Autism is a spectrum, it can be from mild to severe - Asperger’s is autism. I can’t answer for this person as to why they can’t live alone but a lot of people with autism can’t live alone and will need life time support.

[@melissamayer9422]

Your story reminds me so much of my own and when my son was nonverbal! At around 18 months or so one of my older kids teachers asked me if I ever was told that my youngest possibly could have autism . I started looking into having him tested . The day that he spoke a full sentence unprompted I was in tears of joy! He is now 18 and unless you know the signs to look for most people would never know he is high functioning autistic nor where he / we started from! Keep up the great work with your daughter you are doing an amazing job and you both are worth it! As I stated with the example of my son , the hard work does pay off ! Keep being the superstar you are being ! 💫

[@sunshinerobinson1123]

My son was tested in Pre-K. He has Autism Spectrum. I went through a lot 😢😢😢 now he's graduating from H.S in May this year. Some teachers Do Not know how to handle Special Needs. I'm n public school n Georgia. I have friends who helped me with my son. My husband help too 😊 Patience is the Key🙏🏾I'm praying for u sis🙏🏾

[@Mariescott3380]

@@sunshinerobinson1123👏🏾🎉🎉 congrats to your son.❤

[@sunshinerobinson1123]

@@Mariescott3380 Thank You sis😍

[@Mariescott3380]

@sunshinerobinson1123 You’re welcome.

[@Mizzdior84]

I don't care what nobody say or how anyone feels your channel helps me a lot with my autistic child things that Miko does my son does also.. so thank you for being a educator to people like me

[@nickyjones2709]

My little grandson is 5 years old, just 5. He is or was non verbal but he has started saying a few words now. My daughter has to say the word, say for instance ' bye bye ' and then she says to him "Carter say" and "Carter do" and he repeats "bye bye" . His little voice is so beautiful as we had finally thought he would never speak. He did call out for "Help' when he was at school in the classroom while they had to tidy up and put things away. His teacher told my daughter that she could hear a little voice saying"Help ".

[@claudialara8592]

Hi, my son did not speak till 4 years. He is now 11 and not only did he start speaking he was translating Spanish word to English. At age 5 he was talking and talking and talking. My son is a social butterfly. ❤❤❤❤

[@jacklinetemba7228]

Wow

[@clairemichel6323]

God is good

[@babeena9120]

Congratulations Please did you do any therapy?

[@CourtneyThompson-o5y]

My son is 3 and still doesn’t talk I hope he does soon 🥺

[@shabokhan23]

That’s really good. My daughter is 4 nearly five and she cant speak, i am so worried 😢

[@Justme-qn3ps]

It’s definitely hard to know that early but if you observe and pay attention as they grow, parents usually know before the diagnosis. Love this! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@userhfsejhf]

Precious, my name is kim...I was a severe sped teacher...all my students had autism. .then came the physical challenges...point only is...I was trained for years diagnostically. .taught for years and tears...only to learn years later I was level 1 autistic as is my oldest....I tell you this as I never want you or her dad to think could should a etc. You both are stupendous...wish everyone had parents like you...please do not change...ever❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@NaudiaWhite-r8w]

My son Chance is autistic. I didn't realize the signs either.. He was diagnosed at the age of 5. He's now 7 and thankfully the elementary school in my neighborhood has a classroom for autistic children. He's doing better and better everyday. Hang in there. They are a blessing and have the most beautiful spirits.

[@gabrielgirlz2848]

Thank you for discussing the "masking" and "mimicking" behavior. I would explain frequently the behavior I felt was odd, but when in the presence of others my child would clam-up, and folks would comment on how "very shy" she was all the time. It was very frustrating until I was able to capture it on video and share it with my pediatrician.

[@Opium_Smoke]

Thank you for listening to the people who were commenting on your videos about signs they were seeing... Thank you so much for not going into denial & not closing your eyes & ears to the truth & actually listening & educating yourself... You are doing everything right in getting her the early diagnosis & treatment... You two are ABSOLUTELY AWESOME PARENTS ❤❤❤ GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY ✝️🙏🏻✝️🙏🏻✝️

[@EagerPug-sh8gx]

What treatment she doesn’t get treatment.

[@sweetkandy8012]

You are the First American where i dont need translate Button 😮. You speak so clearly and calming

[@KiyaSweetie]

I relate to this 100% I did feel like something was different. Everyone kept telling me I was wrong. My daughter was diagnosed this year at 2. I'm so glad I found you and your family. Thank you for sharing. Your are a strong amazing woman and mom. ❤

[@ShevsHer]

As a mother of a son with autism I understand I feel you. Being a nurse only gave me a small advantage as I could talk to my Physician friends. I also had Hyper Emesis and a child with small voice. He started with an occupational therapist and speech therapist at 2, his growth in these areas helped exponentially. His speech was significantly impaired until 4 (he never stops talking now.) I love him he so unique and he is ours. I see your care and love for your daughter.

[@ziwagooden9217]

She really is a real life angel. I think the term 'autism' gets downplayed and labeled as some kind of ailment..in actual fact she doesn't need to fit in and is just fine as she is..clearly intelligent. angelic and a gift to us all. Watchin your Chanel always brings me joy. Her spirit is verbal strong and able.

[@cherrycordiaI]

It's a difference, not a curse :)

[@godisgreat4096]

Agreed 😊

[@rebeccazeman9309]

Agreed. My husband's dad is on the spectrum and he is by far the smartest person I have ever met. He's a doctor, can read a book by glancing at the page, taught himself 4 or 5 languages, and retains basically everything he reads. It's wild to me. Social things are more difficult for him but they're the same for me. Lol! I'm awkward too. Autism is just a difference. That's all.

[@keys6]

​@@rebeccazeman9309similar experience in my family... ❤

[@VW777]

There are different levels of autism, many are high functioning and do very well in life. There are sadly some that as young adults are still in nappies and can't lead a normal life, it puts a big strain on the parents. They want answers and I understand.

[@SilentThundersnow]

My son was diagnosed at 18. Only looking back do i see the signs. I think as a mom, was don't see negatives sometimes. He was so sweet, but i remember calling the nurse when he was 7 and telling her he couldn't sleep. i would wake up in the night and he'd be lying in bed wide awake. He just couldn't sleep. She laughed and said just make him go to bed at the same time every night. Lol. My son never had a friend, but i think having a big brother made that ok to me. There were so many things, looking back, that make it obvious now. His has worsened over time. He's on disability now. That took 3 years to get. My daughter was diagnosed with fibromyalgia at 15, but she's convinced it's autism too. My son is more severe. I complain that we only see examples of autism in the media of super gifted, successful autistic kids and adults that seem to have overcome everything! Not everyone has that experience, i guess people want a happy ending. But it's just hard sometimes. I will be my son's caregiver for life. Accepting that things are different than i expected is important. What's weird is other people can't stop asking why i don't send him somewhere that he can learn to work and be independent. His doctor told me he will never be independent and he'll never work. It's just acceptance. But they won't accept it. I hate explaining over and over to people that not everyone with autism is Steve Jobs. It's good to see another parent doing their best, and that's good enough. I think the media has made it seem like autism has a magic cure, and it just doesn't. It can be disabling. Thank you for your videos.

[@valerie270]

Thank you for sharing. And don't beat yourself up. Love your Son. God gives those Angels to those who can handle it. May you be blessed on your journey. BTW my granddaughter is Autistic, so all you are helpful. I am a teacher. So I have been around it for twenty two some odd years. My daughter will my oldest daughter works with severe and moderate children. I believe God prepared us. I love my little angel.

[@TomikaKelly]

Children usually outlive their parents, so what happens to your son after you pass? How do you manage working and being your child's lifelong caregiver?

[@mellie18020]

I am surprised that you didn't know your son was autistic until 18 and yet you have been told that he will never work or live independently? I am just surprised that someone who is so severely affected by autism went undiagnosed for so long....also there are county and state adult education programs where they take disabled people for the day, usually at least a few days a week, by bus or van and they get exposed to basic life skills, as in learning to use the microwave, cross the street alone, go to a local store and learn how to interact with a cashier and get change from buying something small, etc. If there is anything like this in your area, you SHOULD GET YOUR SON INTO THE PROGRAM BECAUSE IT IS ABOUT HIM, NOT YOU.

[@pbam5500]

May God continue to bless you and your son and family. Stay strong and prayerful you are amazing and you've got this! 💕

[@Krmcgchy]

​@@mellie18020 This! Over compensation will stunt their ability to do things that they can actually do. They need to learn these things and become as independent as possible. Parents won't likely be around forever and they need to develop the skills.

[@michelezapple]

Thank you for addressing the vaccine/food connection..........while most children are vaccinated, there are a lot of children who are not vaccinated, and it's important to know there are some children with autism who have not been vaccinated. It's anecdotal, but it is a part of the data, and I appreciate how open and un-defensive about your child, and about your willingness to look honestly about your child's development.

[@sisterwoman9274]

It’s a blessing to follow and watch Mikko’s progress with autism. I’m praying for you & Mikko as you both continue to share and educate others who are experiencing autism. I know God is able to lead and guide you as you are helping others who are faced with this same situation. 🙏🏾

[@pattioshea2816]

It so nice to hear you say " something different ' Iv heard parents say " something was wrong ". She's perfect. And she has the best two people possible for the job of raising her. ❤❤

[@glennfields8121]

I enjoy hearing about and seeing Mikko and learning about her progress. You have a dear family and you are in my prayers.

[@tracymayer-hv6rb]

I have two boys with nonverbal autism and a daughter that is high functioning. In retrospect, there were things that my boys were not doing that was typical before age 1. A big one was not turning to their name consistently. Neither of them clapped their hands, waved bye or shook their head yes or no. These are very subtle and as a young mom, I had no idea. Mikko is a beautiful little girl and I really enjoy watching her and your family. You are doing a great job.

[@KatieRingley]

I’m so sorry that you’ve had all three children with a diagnosis. Have they said what possibly caused this?

[@kimberleeturner8475]

My granddaughter is 23 months. She has never responded to her name or any noise to get her to stop doing what she is doing to look. She's non verbal and communicates with her hands. If I tell her to go get something like a diaper or a ball etc.. she acts like she doesn't hear you or understand at all. Her parents are in denial that there is anything wrong and it's not talked about. I have constantly watched her for a few hours a day since she was born. Started watching Mikko and saw the similarities but she hardly ever cries. When she does it's not for long. Maybe 10 breakdown fits over not getting to do what she wanted. She loves her room and whenever she comes down for a long period of time , she grabs her blanket and binkys and whines to go upstairs to her room. She will not won't to come out for hours sometimes. She likes it when we hang out with her in her room. I mentioned to her mom, my daughter n law she may be autistic and she got offended. I'm scared to say it to my son. She walks on tip toes, non verbal, repeats things over and over, loves wheels and turning them, obsessed with letters, when she is being lovable and wants you to do something she will look into your eyes and hold your face to get you to look back. Even turn your head if you look away. Actually I did that to imitate her because when she is eating or doing her thing she will ignore you . Not look at you at all e even if she hadnt seen me all day. But when she does look directly at you she looks at my lips move pronouncing words and letters with amazement. Always smiling. She loves to smile at face to face contact. Loves Daddys flips and moms hugs. Tolerates her older sister and if her sister does something she don't like she will pull her hair but her sister put her hair in a location allowing her to pull it. She goes to cabinet for food pouches and if thirsty finds her cup. I guess I'm telling you all this in hopes maybe you could give me some feed back since you are a parent of autistic children. I'm pretty sure mom's well check at doctor concerned mom about her not speaking and that's all she said doctor said. She will be 2 in January and I'm sure next visit she will get input from doctor if mom will be honest with doctor about signs. Mom says she is just taking her own time and growing at her own speed. That's how she describes it. What do you think about some of the behaviors I mentioned. I've been around 9 different babies. Mine and my grandchildren so I definitely believe she is different. Communication being the most noticeable.

[@tracymayer-hv6rb]

@@kimberleeturner8475 The behavior does sound concerning. People can struggle to accept a diagnosis for something like autism. Technically, the little girl is entitled to services from birth to 3 because she is showing delays. Perhaps you can recommend to your son that she be evaluated without mentioning autism. This way, if there is a delay, she will get services and if everything is normal, you will feel much better. The local public school usually has a birth to 3 evaluator as well as some private programs. It is all free.

[@tracymayer-hv6rb]

@@KatieRingley We have never been able to get a diagnosis of anything other than autism. No genetic conditions that I know about. We actually donated blood to be studied by NIH and they were unable to find any abnormalities. I have to say, my youngest son was not vaccinated until he was diagnosed so in my families case, it is not the vaccinations.

[@KatieRingley]

@@tracymayer-hv6rb that’s super helpful. thank you so much for sharing. i know vaccines are definitely something that most are concerned about right off the bat so that distinction is good to know!

[@QrownedQuein]

You guys popped up iny feed fir the 1 st time this week and it made ne cry. Mikko is adorable. I can see that you pay close attention to her and thats what she need. The fact that you are making others aware of signs of autism is so needed. Keep up the good work.

[@kateg6029]

I’m really liking your video’s, they are so educational and informative. Mikko is a beautiful little girl, and I appreciate you sharing her with us. It seems to me that she has difficulty processing the information she is receiving and she gets stuck when she is trying to understand how to respond. You can see that Mikko is a bright, intelligent toddler, and how you and your hubby react to her is so beautiful to watch. Watching from Australia 🇦🇺

[@lonesomebeetroot3376]

I thought my daughter had autism, having grown up with a younger brother with autism. Her doctor was concerned about her speech when she was younger. She didn’t make eye contact or giggle much and she did a lot of hand flapping and other behaviors that could be seen as stimming. She is now 3 and in every aspect is neurotypical. She is advanced in her speech for her age is learning to understand basic math concepts and is very engaged and doesn’t do these behaviors she did when she was younger. I had a feeling and I was wrong. Every child is different, neurotypical or otherwise, so it’s kind of impossible to know for sure when they’re so very young.

[@Denisha01]

I love you're videos

[@pabitrarai-ti6hg]

❤❤Love ❤❤

[@Kim-ok5tn]

I don't like eye contact and I didn't laugh as a child among many things. I wonder if I have autism or its the result of trauma. I'm a lot like my brother with autism but I feel there are different reasons for it

[@violetkitt2371]

I was like that. Autism shows differently in females than it does males (not all the time, but often). My initial milestones were delayed. At 3 I was relatively 'normal'. When it came to school, I was the well behaved, quiet, listen to instructions, dont cause trouble type. However, when I finally got home, I'd have meltdowns and struggle with sensory overwhelm. I did not feel comfortable expressing infront of strangers that the environment in school was giving me headaches and stomach aches. At home they described me as over sensative, and I cried, a lot. I eventually got diagnosed with AdHd in my early 20s and Austim at 30. High masking is something to consider. Females are more likely to mimic what others 'want' them to be and be diagnosed with anxiety/depression or other mood disorders due to experiencing a melt down or autistic burn out response. Anxiety, depression and frequent meltdowns are symptoms of high masking autism. In conjection, autism and adhd mask each other's symtoms. My AdHd was diagnosed via a standard sleep study to identify why I could not stay awake in class (specifically 3rd period, after lunch break). Turned out my brain was coming down from being overstimulated and entering a reboot state. Autism was diagnosed when a specialist realized I have a large collection of stuffies, I can only sleep if I am between two soft blankets, never went to parties, did not have a close friend (ever), and that my parasympathetic nervours system is over and under reactive depending on the situation. All in all Autistic, AdHd, nonverbal processing disorder (body language confuses me), and hyper-neurosensitity (especially with certain sounds, I will flinch and cover my ears, often)

[@violetkitt2371]

Mmm I should clarify Although life has been very difficult. I have managed a full time position as a team lead and do live on my own. I call the crisis line once every 6 (on avergae) months to help navigate a meltdown I haven't been able to reset on my own. I have coping mechanisms in place: - cuddle my giant stuffed monkey - two cats trained to recognize I am unwell (masking not only hides us from others, it can hide us from ourselves and stop us from meeting our needs - blocks recognizing pain and sickness) - showers with the tub plug in to mimic the sound of waterfall - puzzle based video games with soothing music - tree hugging

[@SaraLeeSparkles]

You are so eloquent and thoughtful with your words. I appreciate your content and sharing your life experiences. You're such awesome parents. Beautiful family.

[@heatherweck3135]

I am an extended family member of a beautiful child that may be on the spectrum. Thank you and your FAMILY for helping me out of anxiety and into UNDERSTANDING...I worked in Hospice, and the Slowing down, & observing mode, Querying mode etc...are Healing techniques that are used even now with down syndrome....that is why thee is such an eloquent TEACHER...I am mesmerized how thy Spirit moves...

[@denize7139]

I am currently finding out that my 37 year old child is autistic, level 1. It shattered me that I failed her in this way. But as we learn more, we are finding our way. I am trying to be a better mother by supporting her as much as I can today. Thank you for your videos. They are helping me better appreciate and love my autistic grandson. ❤

[@kavitadeva]

Precious,THANK YOU for your willingness to be TRANSPARENT regarding what Mikko goes through, and what you go through. I watch other channels that have an Autistic child. They say they have a channel to bring awareness and acceptance. HOWEVER, they refuse to show their child in only a good light. I emailed him and asked, how can we learn anything really if you refuse to show the èntire picture? He responded by saying, would you want to be seen at a difficult time? ANYWAY, both said the same thing. Precious, keep educating us by keeping it REAL. From your channel, I get so much from you choosing to show all of Mikkos' journey. You are giving a true gif

[@katb.6132]

Thank you for sharing her with us. She is such a beautiful and kind child. I kno her little outbursts are just how it will be with her hair. Blessing and love to the entire family Precious. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Applecider-Poetry]

like the connent below, adults with very slight autism generally would not be seen as any different than anyone else. Mikko being able to read is a real game changer. readers can always teach themselves.

[@storiking650]

Precious, we truly thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us. You guys are a true BREATH OF FRESH AIR, a beautiful, wholesome, loving, supportive, intelligent Black family & it's families like yours that DESERVE to get the huge following, the elevation to well known influencers & the big paydays vs. all these messy, arguing, fighting, cursing, low vibrational rejects that seem to hog the limelight for the last decade. We love your family & we adore our beautiful, intelligent, hardworking Angel girl Mikko, she's a true gift from God🙏🏾!!!

[@lynnbonseigneur1366]

Precious thanks so much for openness. I think you will and are helping many parents. Mikko, is my angel and I keep up with her progress, praying for her greatness that is coming. Many blessings to your entire family🙏🏼

[@witnessofchrist2524]

You're doing a wonderful job taking care of Mikko and explaining the process along the way. You're going to help many parents. 😇🙏🏾

[@EagerPug-sh8gx]

Didn’t know about autism but says when she was a kid she had autism

[@EagerPug-sh8gx]

My nephew didn’t speak until 5 now he’s a genius and speaks always.

[@TAYYMAR4J.]

@@EagerPug-sh8gxshe just recently found out that she also had autism

[@EagerPug-sh8gx]

@@TAYYMAR4J. yea right .I say she is full of it.

[@TAYYMAR4J.]

@@EagerPug-sh8gx I say ur a clown & need a psych evaluation

[@dbw825]

My son went to public school autistic program. It is free, but you have to have the doctor's diagnosis and get her in by 3 yrs old. The bus came to the house to pick him up and bring him home. He weighed 1 lb 5 oz when he was born, and is legally blind as well. He got contact lenses when he was 1. He had necrotizing enterocolitis as well. I did not bring him home until he was 6 months old. As a result, a lot of his signs of autism were missed because we thought he was just premature and legally blind. Hopefully your school system has a program for autistic kids. They help with socialization. If you wait too long you could be out of luck. My son is 38 now and I am 73. On top of my son's problems, now I am extra worried about his future when I am no longer here.😢. My husband passed away a couple years ago so I am by myself. Good luck with your daughter. She will hopefully grow out of her toddler tantrums as she gets older, as my son did. Also, I want to wish your family a Merry Christmas 🎄

[@ybur6760]

I’m so proud of you. You are a wonderful woman and mother. I have a son and he is a bit different, but no diagnosis, but born weak. I guess I will find out later if there is something wrong. I will pray to God for you to live a very long life and that your son will be taken care of. I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas. Please take care of yourself. ❤

[@yalemfikergirma9170]

Good job mama, your son will be fine, dont worry much

[@shehlaazim5859]

God is always there

[@ppiper6807]

Mother’s intuition for sure! ❤

[@jessicapadron7886]

I know this is not your point, but comments like this can make others who did not have any sort of intuition, feel bad. I had no clue my son was autistic didn't cross my mind until others brought it up to me. I think the assumption that to be a good mother you need to have this mother knows best, mother intuition is just not true. I believe that many don't always know and we do the best with the information that we have at the time. Now that we know he is autistic the signs were much more obvious. Long rant over.

[@RingoNoodle]

exactly. you really cant tell if youre child is going through ANYTHING when theyre newborn because theyre still developing, and in the perception of mothers, it seems that maybe their child is just developing slower than others or they may be taking their time. you really never know.

[@thegentlelife]

Yes!!! Absolutely 😊💛

[@Steph_Said]

I'm so impressed at how you & your husband are verbally and visually sharing how you process your journey of parenting. These videos are going to help young parents and even grandparents who find that there is something different about their precious baby. Thank you.💛

[@KMill-xb3uc]

Autism disorder is a spectrum and new studies are showing it's mainly genetic. Because it's not based one single dominant gene from carrier. The environment is changing our genes over the generations. Miko has a beautiful personality and mom did a great job training her and developing her strengths. 🙏🏽💖

[@nickyranking398]

You are so patient. Thank you for simplifying your journey. It makes it so interesting and any lay person can understand. God continue to bless you all.

[@vernasinclair2318]

Your Channel popped up in my feed this morning, and Oh, what a blessing!🙏 I've been learning a lot from you and your precious daughter. Thank you ever so much for sharing!😍💞🎀

[@elisablatt840]

Every family’s experience with autism is different. When it is realized is often at different times. This is not like cancer. For example, with breast cancer there is a treatment plan depending on the stage. If you know a person with autism you don’t know autism. You just know one person with autism because it plays out in a variety of ways. The one commonality is speech delay but even then some children speak quickly and still have autism. My son cried constantly. I spent my first Mother’s Day with a crying baby for 7 hours straight. He had words and lost them at 10 months. He walked late and did not speak until he was 4 years old. Doctors now are required to check for autism as early as possible. If a doctor will not or tells you to wait until they are 3, ask for your records and go to someone else. A doctor like that will slow your child’s potential down. I had to go to 7 doctors before anyone would listen to me. My son began to speak when I bumped up his speech to 8 times a week and learned how to do what the SLP was doing. We worked on it at home as well. He is now 21 and it breaks my heart to hear that a doctor won’t automatically check for ASD as they are now required to do.

[@LnzLnz81]

My kids are Autistic. I found out it runs in my husband's family! Since they were diagnosed I've learned so much from the community. Biggest thing is that Autism is mostly a childhood hurdle. Once we find out and get our kids into the interventions from a young age, they will be basically normal by adulthood. 🙏 They'll be for the most part undetectable as adults and they'll go on to lead normal lives, thrive in great careers, have fulfilling marriages, and raise and provide for their families. This made the biggest difference for me once I understood that!!

[@amarizboldwarrior]

Your mother ly love and patience will pay off .. your daughter loves you I can see it. With God all things are possible she is healed in Jesus name ❤

[@jillcarter5221]

Thank you for sharing your story and trying to educate people about autism. It is so prevalent now days it's hard to believe there are still people out there that has no idea what autism is. Like you most of us only knew the word/diagnosis but nothing about what that looked like.

[@foxlola1]

This is super informative. I am a physician, a pediatrician as well. It has been proven through adequate research that VACCINATION is NOT the cause of autism. it is important for all to know that Autism is spectrum. It is a range of developmental abnormalities and what that means is it varies from person to person. In the field of developmental pediatrics, it is being discovered how some early childhood signs may occur. things such as excess crying, difficulty soothing, difficulty sleeping, Colic. Bear in mind that the field is relatively newer than say cardiology. Also as to the search of cause, looking at maternal health is important. UNTIL 2016, the NIH rarely gave funding for women only research. Hopefully this would open our eyes further into causation. your videos helped me convince a family member of her daughter's diagnosis and i thank you for putting a human, BLACK face to it.

[@smowka]

Thank you so much for addressing that there is no scientific evidence showing vaccination as a cause!! I would encourage anyone who still doesn’t accept this to read the research that first sparked this conspiracy, because the scientists stated in the paper that no correlation was found! Unfortunately, the vaccine and allergy induced autism dialogue has gotten completely out of hand..

[@betsybabf748]

Great points. Unfortunately the lower the education level a person has, the more likely they don't comprehend the science and create their own made up, or internet found, narratives and theories.

[@kellyholland8136]

​@kennah3140yeah these doctors are so full of craps.

[@tulip811]

It could be celebral allergies tho

[@betsybabf748]

@@kellyholland8136 When you write like that, you don't present yourself as being an educated person. Most adults learn and become proficient in basic composition prior to medical school, or any other advanced degree. 🤣🤣

[@jessicapadron7886]

My son is 6 nonverbal autustic. He was diagnosed when was 2. It wasn't even us his parents that noticed. His grandpa noticed something and told us and his pediatrician brought up autism. He wasn't talking, but thought he was just a little delayed. As a baby it never even crossed my mind, and I didn't even really know what autism was. He had a lot of the signs as your daughter, but somethings he was fine. He physical milestones generally were pretty maybe slightly delayed, but not enough. As he gets older I wonder if he will talk. The older he gets and doesn't talk the more I think he won't. The one thing CJ had is he never regressed, he just never had any of those things. He didn't talk and then lose words. He is almost 6 and a half on rare occasions his dad and his teachers heard him say something, but then he doesn't again. One example is he hugged his teacher and they heard him say I love you. That was months ago nothing like it since. It is a good sign that your daughter is mimicing. I guess only time will tell if our kids will remain non-verbal or not. Thank you for telling your story.

[@laurynmyers5915]

Have you ever had him tested for MTHFR gene mutation? A lot of people don't know about this. But it is where people / kids cannot methylate vitamins property into the proper form for absorption which young kids need for neurological development. Now that I have my son on methylated vitamins he is able to naturally detox his body (as they can't like a normal person, heavy metals which can cause severe delays) but my son is now talking here and there and I've seen great progress. Not a cure all heart but we've only been doing it for months, so I can't wait to see what continues to happen. Just a thought to look into and get him tested. Doctors don't mention it for whatever reason but it's very common especially in autistic people and children. Please research. Much love

[@evathiongo2317]

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[@c.jernberg3197]

Don’t blame yourself for “not seeing” Mama. I have a 5 year old who was diagnosed at 4. She was in a study from the time she was 3 months old. Diagnosing ASD is not an easy task and many studies are being done to help diagnose it at much earlier ages.

[@Idaknough]

You are an amazingly intelligent, well spoken, self aware, genuine, and beautiful soul!!! Thank God this community (world for that matter) has a brave, caring being like you!!!❤❤❤

[@h0naiiii]

I had every vaccination when I was pregnant with my daughter and she also has nonverbal autism. Like some of the previous comments stated people need to stop trying to find something to blame for why things happen all the time. Some times they just happen.

[@ChiiNw]

I pray for Healing for your daughter. Pray and never give up. She will be fine. ❤

[@kaylamitchell1724]

She IS fine and there is no “healing” to be done. She IS autistic. Theres nothing wrong with that and there’s nothing to change about it.

[@christinabyers3615]

Thank you for sharing! I have a daughter (18) who was diagnosed with delayed speech (age 2 1/2) Developmental Coordination Disorder (age 12), ADHD (age 5), and Sensory Processing (age 5) It was very hard because doctor's were not as informed as they are now about autism in females. Because she did well in school they dismissed my concerns. We finally got her an IEP in 8th grade and her step-sister who is the same age came to live with us full time in 7th grade. I strongly believe that those two components helped my daughter with social difficulties, COVID quarantine, and high school. Thank you again for sharing, you are helping so many people!!

[@lucidfangirl1030]

Hey, its ok. Some people dont get diagnosed until even later. Shes still young enough that finding out now will greatly help in her navigating the world and taking care of herself when she’s older.

[@monica12386]

I absolutely love and appreciate you sharing your experiences. My 10yo son has autism and I have 2 younger girls (covid babies lol) i had "all day sickness" with my son til almost the day I had him but the girls I had basically none. I have been paying close attention to the littles but haven't noticed anything that stands out. I made all of their baby food at home and as far as vaccines I got flu shots with my daughters but not with my son, so I absolutely agree with the vaccine part! I noticed my son's delays around 2-2.5. And I didn't know anything about autism at all! I took him for an evaluation and the doctors absolutely terrified us saying we'll have to take care of him for the rest of his life (he was saying about 10 words at that age) and that he would be essentially nonverbal. But he absolutely talks, a lot lol and also does a lot on his own. It has taken work but so unbelievably well worth it and rewarding to see how happy and excited he is when he can do things on his own. Mikko is such a sweet blessing and she has such amazing parents, it really is beautiful to see how gentle and patient you are with her!! Thank you so much!!! ❤

[@jessicapadron7886]

May I ask at what age did your son begin to talk?

[@monica12386]

@@jessicapadron7886 he was saying simple words like mama and dada, yes and no I'd say about 12-18 months or so but by about 2-2.5 his vocabulary had only increased to about 10 words and it was difficult for other people to (other than his father and I) understand him very well. Going to speech in school has helped tremendously!

[@Applecider-Poetry]

at three everyone is slow, that is true. i know Einstien didn't talk until he was six. THAT is late. three is not that late. i can see you are tense about this but I do NOT see many signs of autism in Mikko. she does not rock or use repeatative motions; she does not play with her fingers, or need to hold an irrellevant object or show lack of eye contect, etc. so what if she is late developing? as an early childcare worker i am familiar with many types of developmental delays ---- a lot of them don't mean anything much. i also see you tapping your fingers at her. you realize that impatience can cause developmental delays, right? Mikko is very aware of what an achievement is, so making the task too steep by holding your breath in anticipation of the answers could be felt as too pushy by your daughter and slow her down or make her not want to take the time to get the answers right. i think you should relax and just teach her as much as you can, respond to her. that is the real teacher --- response, quality of response. less worry and quicker responses, don't make her wait, and be flexible when she is wrong, put a smile in your voice. all points i have seen help with children.

[@catedid]

Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful daughter. I am inspired by your story but more importantly I am certain new moms of autistic children are benefiting exponentially from your shares. God bless you and your beautiful family. She's progressing so much in your loving care.

[@J2U85]

Videos like yours help others get to a place of acknowledgement some parents be in denial they don’t want to see a difference in their child because our kids are perfect to us. I just want to say thank you for sharing. I don’t have any autistic children but I love learning especially about children. There is not a child that I walk by and don’t engage with them even if it’s just a smile, so it’s important for me to learn how to communicate with an autistic child I pray your beautiful daughter makes great progress. God bless you all❤

[@mcondry8036]

1 thing I know, y’all make some beautiful kiddos. Mikko has come such a long way. Her journey has been amazing.

[@tonifisher7013]

I want to thank u for your post my son is 30 months old an is autistic an non-verbal your video help me understand or gives me different ideas on how to help my son . Thank you so much

[@rubygold2007f]

Compared to my 14 nieces/nephews and being there from birth to now I knew around 6 months that my son was wired differently! My mom kept saying get him checked somethings off! I waited till after his 1st birthday to finally get him checked out which was a process! He didn’t get diagnosed till exactly 1yr 1/ 2. I was blessed to have been able to catch it so early on! He was non verbal and around that time just learned how to walk! Currently at 5yrs old he’s verbal and highly intelligent my struggles like other parents with autistic kids is his behavior, sensory issues! I’m not sure but I don’t hear a lot of autistic parents who share whether or not they deal with their child “with holding” and night terrors/sleep walking which I deal with both! ❤

[@andreajackson6057]

My grandson is 3 years and 7 months. He writes his ABC from A to Z and also backwards from Z to A. He is now counting from 1 to 200 but he does not talk and still not fully potty trained. He tip toe, bounces in the chair and seems to be laughing and having a conversation with himself. If i say its raining, he will put his hand outside to check, he can put in his shoe and knows what to do when getting dressed.

[@ihaveadreamformykids4400]

He’s a genius

[@carolbamforth7475]

I always say, you don’t know what you don’t know. Your terrific parents on a new journey

[@AngelChristinaaa]

My 10 month old grandson isn’t responding to his name.He shakes his head no and occasionally rocks..My daughter thinks he’s autistic. She says if he’s more than a level 1 she won’t be able to cope and will put him in a home. I’m so heartbroken and I plan on petitioning the court to get custody of him. He is everything to me and I just want him to be loved.

[@astridnunez9710]

I understand you and I wish I would've done the same with my daughter. She's 4 years old and has severe autism and it's very hard for her and for us. She can't be around people she'll start screaming crying and hiding her eyes. She's non-verbal she doesn't eat so it's very hard for us. It breaks my heart seeing her that way and seeing what Mikko is going thru broke my heart too. I applaud you. You're a great mother and God will help all of us especially our children🙏

[@dbw825]

My son would not eat anything but Honey Graham Chex Cereal (Now Honey Nut Chex and mostly during Price is Right) and baby food. He would not sit in a high chair. Today, as an adult, he will eat anything. However, he will not chew his food unless it is put into his mouth without a utensil. If you use a fork or spoon, he swallows it whole.

[@aquiakeewinston9082]

You being able to share Your Family journey with a child with autism is So Wonderful and Brave I Thank You and Your Family For Allowing Us To Learn this really helps people to understand how to make and move forward with their own children grandchildren nephews nieces siblings etc…Ones We ❤ May GOD Continue To Bless 🙏🏽🙏🙏🏻

[@susanc8226]

❤ I used to worry all the time. It gets easier. My son doesn't speak in conversations but he can sing full songs❤. He loves music. Just let them be them and try your best to guide them. That's all we can do. Love, understanding, and patience is key! She loves you mom. I see that. Also autism has co occurring conditions. It's so much bigger than I ever imagined. She sounds like my son. She is precious!!!! The achievements are so amazing!!! You are awesome!!

[@FaithJohnson-e7m]

I enjoy hearing about and seeing Mikko and learning about her progress you have a family and you are in my prayers

[@thetestament15]

Thank you. 💕 My grandson is now 9 years old. I discovered his autism at age two, but I wasn’t sure until he was three. My daughter is amazing with him; he and I are still learning.

[@jsblackdiva]

When you took her to the doctor, did they ever discuss any milestone issues? Shame on them if they didn't give you any information? Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful daughter's journey! Sending love and positive vibes! ❤❤❤

[@nisinisi4627]

Not everyone catch on, when they finally they do accordingly and take it from there and move on! Mikko is smart!!

[@carolbj1]

You and your family are so sweet and kind. It's so beautiful to observe your relationship with Mikko! ❤❤❤

[@julia-zf8sj]

Oh my goodness!! Listening to you was like listening to me telling the story of my daughter’s autism journey😢 she’s 4.5 and is also non verbal. Our girls are the sweetest and most precious darlings🥰 I wouldn’t change a thing about my baby girl!! She is also not vaccinated. I did have the flu and the whooping cough jabs while pregnant and she stopped developing while pregnant. She had to come out at 37+2. I was B strep positive and had antibiotics while in labour… do not have a clue what caused my daughters autism 😔 thank you 🥰

[@CherylGilmore-ti1lw]

My son was diagnosed right after his 4th bday. It’s been a struggle. Especially with me. You look so calm and patient. I’m the opposite. Why didn’t you discuss potty training.

[@NikkiMason1906]

We love you, Precious and Mikko. We love the whole family. I pray continued peace and blessings over y'all. Stay strong, Precious. You've actually helped me, and I found out in my 40s.

[@moneishalewis2297]

The most high is the one made her in his image because I have a daughter who's artistic and I am not going too let the world put their opinion over my little ones she's healthy and loved you do a good job with her

[@yahbina331]

Sista, you and your honey bunny are excellent example of great parenting. Thank you for sharing your lives.

[@kkay0008]

Thank you for this video. My daughter has just been diagnosed with level 2 autism. I had a healthy pregnancy as well. I did get the covid vaccine while pregnant but I had to due to my job, I work in healthcare. Like you I did start noticing some signs and her teachers in daycare started to notice as well. We got her in speech therapy and occupational therapy and soon she will be starting ABA therapy as well. I've joined a support group on Facebook and my sister has been a big help as well her twins are autistic. I appreciate this video. I'm so worried her father and I will work together.

[@sorayawilcox6899]

I have a 6 year old daughter who has moderate autism. There was a delay, but I figured it was because she was still a small toddler, and I thought it was normal. Her dad kept telling me that I needed to get her tested, but I was in deep denial that there was anything wrong. She's my baby, and how could there be anything wrong with my baby. It wasn't until she started getting up at 3 in the morning, and we couldn't get her to go back to sleep. That's when I knew something was wrong. I was in so much denial that I canceled appointments with Childrens Mercy..... fast track to pre-school, she started banging her head on walls when upset and threw major tantrums. My father told me to go ahead and have her tested. Teachers and the pediatricians recommended it as well. I finally had her tested at 4 years old. I felt like a bad mother for waiting to get her tested and had no idea what being on the spectrum meant. I'm still learning how to communicate, how to handle certain situations, how to help her stim, and self sooth herself when she gets upset. I regret not getting her tested sooner. We could have started intervention a lot sooner. But I'm also glad that I got to spend time with her, got to know Kira for who she is and not just her developmental delays. What I've learned from this is that children on the spectrum are different and unique. Thank you for discussing and for sharing your experience with us!

[@eugenemcleod525]

Thank you lady. You are an inspiration to all mothers believe me. I am showing yr ch to my gran daughter. She can learn just by watching you explain. God bless you. Sending prayers of good will to you and family ❤❤❤

[@TeeNT80]

Your videos are so educational and humbling. It's another lady that has a daughter named Nugget and she gets offended by people's concerns and records and laughs at her 😢

[@barbarahylton1869]

Precious and Mikkoa and husband Thank you for sharing your family and the journey you are pursuing You love patience and consistency for your baby girl is amazing. You are strong and you will see Mikko through as her days get easier.

[@alicebaldwin9676]

Thank you this was very informative! GOD bless you on this journey of life, thank GOD there are programs and services available to assist parents of autistic children. U have enlightened me and many others who are family members of autistic children 🙏🏽💕

[@Brit943]

My son is a few months younger than Mikko and I first saw you guys shortly after I first suspected my son could be on the spectrum. He is. For those with ears to hear this message: do not underestimate the power of (gut) health. Our children’s bodies are suffering inside. We have to heal their gut. Whether you have come to terms with your child’s diagnosis or not, they can always get better!

[@Bubblegum-it4ow]

What do you recommend sis

[@Brit943]

@@Bubblegum-it4owhey sis, if nothing else get some garden of life probiotics .. the children’s ones.. 5 billion cfu and let your kids eat them like candy.. currently going through one bottle every 2 days… My son has made so much progress doing that alone. I’ve done so much more but this along w his aba school has brought us the most results!! I used to cry all the time y’all and now I cry tears of joy.. and we’re not even there yet but the difference in his mood alone makes me realize how miserable he must have been before 😢.. I’m praying for all of our children 🙏 get them on those probiotics like yesterday! You won’t regret it, I saw a difference in my son in less than a week

[@Bubblegum-it4ow]

@@Brit943 cool! I will do but my LO is 11 months! Anything else you can suggest for her?

[@legendarymayormarylikestur8874]

Speech and language specialist will tease out specifics of the child's language disorder. If they repeat, it's echolalia. It is very helpful when kids repeat.

[@Pulapaws]

Yes repeating at a young age help them pronounce words better and begin their talking development. When I pint at a book and say book. He says boook. Later learns book and says it. I like when you learning a new language as a adult don’t you repeat the words the person trying to teach you? You don’t get sit there taking notes. No you repeat too if you truly trying to learn that language and pronounce it where people can at least understand you.

[@denisestephenson2947]

Thank God you you got it early. My son when he started Head the teacher asked me does he talk. My kindergarten he was in speech class. He was diagnosed with autism at about 15 years old.

[@freeborn3680]

New member here. I'm so thankful for your channel!!! ❤❤❤❤❤ You are helping sooo many families.

[@Kat.Beanie]

The Vaccination argument stems from a paper by Andrew Wakefield who was a doctor but was struck of for his unethical and faulty research. A lot of people contribute Autism to vaccines because typically at the developmental age they realise there are delays is roughly 12 months and that is in line with the one year paediatric vaccinations. Autism is a neurological condition which is gotten through genetics, it just depends on whether it triggers or not and we don't know enough to find out how or why it's triggered. My kids are 12, 9 and 2 and they are all Autistic. I have a child development background and would recommend anyone that has concerns regarding any aspect of development for their child, to please get it checked out and not be fobbed off by "they all learn at different rates", any developmental concerns should be investigated whether there ends up being a concern or not. Your doing great Mama.

[@aslansgirl9014]

Do you know that the vaccine courts have paid out over 4 billion dollars to vaccine injured children?

[@MangoJuliana]

It actually stems from the lack of scientific evidence that the cdc has presented as “proof.” They reference a few studies but they either fraudulent or don’t even compare vaccinated children against unvaccinated children (they refuse to do this one study). Parent’s notice their children’s regression immediately after receiving vaccines. There are many environmental factors that can contribute to autism, but saying they do not cause autism is scientifically unfounded.

[@LilLemonSensory]

You are an amazing Mom. Thank you for all your time, effort and information you put into your videos and more importantly the care , love and understanding you have for your family.❤ God Bless you all. 🙏

[@susiewong5859]

Thank you for sharing. Stay healthy and strong and I wish you and your family the best!

[@Briezyvalenciga]

When my second son was born I knew things were a tad off compared to my oldest who is 5 years apart so I felt like a new mom too. But some red flags for me were. He didn’t really sleep, always chocking, didn’t interact with nobody else, the raspy quiet cry but I never expected autism until his speech was delayed and then he was still on baby foods a lil after one due to swallowing difficulty. Fast forward to age 5 it was obvious got the diagnosis and ended up testing myself and found out I’m autistic as well.

[@jessicapadron7886]

My son is 6 nonverbal autistic. That is one issue my son never had, he transitioned from baby food to table food with no problem, his only issue being feeding himself with a fork or spoon. He had no problem feeding himself. At 6 he still will not eat with a spoon or fork. He refuses. He would rather not eat than use a spoon or fork, so he does feed himself by hand. I didn't know feeding issues were a sign of autism. This just reminds me of the saying if you met one child with autism you met one child with autism.

[@Briezyvalenciga]

From what my son’s dietitian told me it’s sensory as well. Me personally can only use plastic or kid forks or spoons. I refuse to eat wit a big spoon even at my big age I will spill food easier with bigger utensils so you can imagine cooking is very messy for me with stirring due to my coordination is off a lil.

[@vicieboyd9015]

You are doing a great job and KNOW this, the more help she gets from you, and agencies she will grow up to be a healthy functioning adult. However regimented, she will be great! Be encouraged and I am praying for her and you. Our GOD is able!

[@nicholemack6328]

I have a son who has Autism and a son who is 4 year old son and is nonverbal. You have a beautiful family. ❤

[@melaniem5971]

Do not judge yourself! You’re a fine mother. Forget (try to) all the armchair doctors out there- unless they have 14yrs of continued education(beyond high school) & professional training - they have no right to judge…

[@bushveldkid7640]

I just read a great book called turtles all the way down. I learned so much I wish I knew about when my babies were little. You are a good mama, thank you for sharing.

[@victoriasmith718]

All of your testimonies have blessed me so much❤ this helps me gain hope, faith and consistency. You all are doing amazing things for your children God bless y’all

[@Steviie11]

I thought my daughter was autistic she was counting by 1 but then the was a sudden regression and she barely talked by 3 only 2 or 3 word sentences. She turned out to be considered advanced and gifted in math and memory (photographic memory ) but she still has speech issues. Her brain is faster than her speech and she talks really fast it's like she's speaking another language sometimes 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Pulapaws]

Everyone that average brain thinks faster than they talk. It is like reading. We read way faster than we read out loud which causes us to skip words specially small words as we read out loud. Now talking fast is another thing if that what you saying. Just google what I just said about talking and thinking, reading and reading out loud. The brain is a mysterious, complex and beautiful.

[@karenjamerson5973]

Please know that you are very much appreciated 🙏🏽. ✌🏽& blessings always. ❄️🎄🫶🏾

[@Jesusoursavior1]

Thank you for sharing. This has opened my eyes with my grandson. Keep doing what you’re doing. God bless!

[@afeminame]

Great job, mom. You can't identify what you're unaware of, so don't fault yourself.

[@JustFluffyQuiltingYarnCrafts]

Thanks for sharing. ❤Sharing this information with the actual footage is very helpful. 👍👍

[@lt9074]

I noticed straightaway when my son was born that he never cried, just a really quiet whimper when he was hungry for milk. I remember thinking what a good baby he was. Then at about 3/4 months old I had a strange feeling looking at him as if something was wrong. For no reason just my gut told me and I questioned to myself if he had some disorder but I never spoken to dr about it as I remember thinking it's just me being paranoid. I had a very difficult pregnancy I suffered depression throughout it. I had no nausea or vomiting in pregnancy. I also had placenta previa grade 4 so he was born 3 weeks early as I hemorraged and was given an emergency C section. My son is also healthy, he is 5 now, he is non verbal but does say a 3/4 words now clearly to communicate (mum, up, yum, car) and tries to say other words but very unclear (like his numbers, alphabets, other random words). He still doesn't know how to point but does hand lead. He has never babbled, just vocally stims alot and makes other sounds. He is a happy bouncy boy but does have many sensitivities and highly relys on me to help him through his meltdowns and to prevent meltdowns too. He was diagnosed at age 2 years and 11 months old. It was at age 2 years and 3 months when I took him for visit to my drs as I wondered why for several months he had not said any words that the dr told me he sees possible autism signs. Even though I have an older autistic child I still didnt see the signs. Mind you my older brother and mother is also autistic so I find it hard to difrinciate between autism and neurotypical traits. Also there is nobody else non verbal in my family, all verbal. It is exhausting esp as I am a lone parent with no help from father and also I have a older teenage child who is autistic with similar needs although he is verbal, he also has high needs is diagnosed with ARFID and dyspraxia. As long as I can give them both a happy life then I am content 😊 Just to add both my boys are unavaccinated too.

[@commentwhatmychannelshould5101]

My autistic child responded very well to compression therapy like weighted blankets and 20 minute sessions sitting in a "bathtub" of pinto beans. Now she does amazing crosstitch 15 years later.