#TheLoveHour

[@ccronk04]

Accountability feels like an attack when your not ready to take responsibility

[@sensiblemindset423]

Absolutely. It’s that immaturity at hand .

[@lemlavarin]

Y’all are literally bringing value back to the institution of marriage to a generation that was losing it. Ready to get married now 😭

[@kimwright6377]

Vikki DC Also many of this generation are afraid of showing love and genuine caring.And it’s a game of how much do you have and can you afford me.ijs

[@Cecesingsonpitch]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@toomuchinformation]

@Vikki DC True dat.

[@lifewithnatu]

👏

[@kortenisamoses7313]

Our generation aint about taking crap so we up and run fast🎆

[@tujuanawyatt3755]

I think Kevin and Devale should do a 4 week segment "For Men Only"

[@christinajackson9940]

Oooooo that's a good one Ms

[@christinajackson9940]

LMBO. .they would talk about how far they can p what it's like in the barber shops in L.A. lol

[@kourtney8850]

I LOVE that idea!

[@HelloMsSongbird]

Tujuana Wyatt YEEEESSSSSS!!!

[@papi77on]

yes, yes, and yes

[@ugommaokorie1660]

MAAAAAAAAAAN this was one of the richest episodes! I feel so empowered to go ahead and get married and say "Husband, I have been learning all of the things!" Lol! Thanks so much! ❤

[@derrickmason7457]

Ezi Ugo Jen 💯

[@FromEricaWithLove]

Ezi Ugo Jen yessss, ALL of the things

[@mskesha4735]

Yes, all of the things🤣🤣🤣

[@taliapeters-john6375]

lol

[@everythingalyb]

Clearly, the consensus is yall should go on tour together! Can this be a thing?!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@ChelsaSMoore]

YES!!!! The chemistry was perfect!

[@dee_scussions]

Facts

[@nicholasjohn3215]

"We Y'all, Y'all Us"

[@shenisewilliams6703]

I’m late to the party but yeeeesssssss!

[@ItsErikaNaturally]

@@nicholasjohn3215 That's the name of the tour. It has been properly motioned and seconded.

[@MS_A_Renee]

This episode was everything! As a single woman I truly enjoy real and authentic black married couples. ♥️

[@glois80]

I agree 💯 I learn so much from watching both couples that help me in my single/dating life

[@MotiA.]

Melissa did such an awesome job of letting the guests just talk freely!!

[@ericabelcher8760]

Yes I was thinking the same thing too!

[@susancupid9122]

So rich conversation, this relationship.

[@TheresaAdele]

Melissa you have been killing it this year.. The evolution is amazing.. Another great episode!

[@chidinmaume326]

Theresa Adele 🗣facts . Melissa girllll, you know how to curate a conversation!

[@fatimadildy5997]

This is my first time really watching her and I love her. The way she speaks and all

[@AC-hp2es]

For the issue/question discussed at 35:00, I think the reason criticism from our partner feels like an attack and/or earth shattering is because, as a society, we (women) are unconsciously programmed with the idea that we should be perfect. From childhood (at least in the black community) the expectation is that girls will do well in school and boys will cut up. When girl misbehave the conversation is of shock, but when boys misbehave, the messaging is ‘boys will be boys’. Then fast forward into adulthood, the message when it comes to relationships is, “What you won’t do, another will”, the existence of side chicks, strip clubs, etc.) All unconsciously creating the mindset that we must be “perfect” and we don’t measure up, there is another waiting in the wing to replace us. So, on a deeper level and even unbeknownst to us, we see criticism as not us not meeting the standard that has been placed on us all our lives, but also a possible pathway to infidelity.

[@lifeofneu1438]

You ain lie! I know I'm not perfect but when I called out, it feels so crushing because there's so much placed on us women from childhood. No one ever says "girls will be girls". Proverbs 31, every church mother and their advice to the women. There's a meme about women not being able to admit when we're wrong, but lowkey, a part of that is because of societal conditioning that men will make their mistakes, but we don't have that same window of grace as women.

[@vicm.7576]

A C you hit the nail on the head with this

[@cristaltorres.]

so perfectly said!

[@gloglocreations]

Well put

[@ericabelcher8760]

Omg! You said nothing but the TRUTH! Smh

[@thesyspace]

The "High Five" moments tho 😂❤

[@lakeishar23]

🤣🤣🤣That took me out. I rewind it like 5x

[@kortenisamoses7313]

Lol

[@AdaDa_10]

🤣🤣😂😭😭 Kev had me crying

[@tracyb246]

I just saw it as I was reading this comment 😂😂😂

[@niknikky]

@59:23 - Two things - 1) Yes, society did not treat Black men kindly in those days. But Black women dealt with racism as well. 2) The whole Suzie Homemaker thing was not a reality for most Black women in the 50s. A lot of them worked outside the home, too.

[@nca4794]

That's true, but it doesn't mean the principles and expectations to "make a home" were different just because you worked. Employed outside or working for the family inside, there was still the idea that being a good woman meant catering to the needs of the family, especially their men, first. That's why so many women in the next generation started to reject marriage and motherhood in the 60s. Plus, there's a cultural element with her family also. I grew up in a West Indian family, and making a plate is seen as showing reverence to the husband as the head of the household. I know men who expect their plate before the children have eaten. I wasn't raised in a household like that, but it's no less real than taking your shoes off at the door.

[@boomboom6577]

Facts. In fact, the majority of black women worked outside of the household after the great migration north. And the myth of the mother homemaker was facilitated by black women domestic workers who cared for the house holds of white women. And yes, to the commenter who pointed out that black women were still expected to maintain a home for their children and husband. And when people assessed the state of black America, they blamed black women for working and displacing men from the workforce AND the household. The Moynihan Report is the most glaring and influential example that.

[@fromama2011]

Absolute facts.

[@ericabelcher8760]

THIS RIGHT HERE! ☝️☝️

[@CorettaJG]

Truth

[@caliliving9127]

Kev making fun of Melissa for the high five made the moment soo much funnier!

[@ladytinag4276]

Yes Khadeen!!!! I absolutely believe in the concept of men's jobs. I DO NOT take out the trash, shovel snow (unless ABSOLUTELY necessary), cut grass....etc. My husband & I have a very clear understanding of this. However, he doesn't cook, wash dishes, do laundry or clean the house (unless absolutely necessary) and I'm totally fine with that. Not only do I cook daily, I make his plate for him. Not because he demands it but because I choose to. He works full time AND is a full time Pastor and he takes very good care of me financially, emotionally and spiritually. This has worked for us for 30 years. To each their own!

[@tylerfranklin967]

As a single person who desires to be married this was soooooo insightful and powerful. It motivated me to keep working on myself. Not just for the sake of marriage but because theres just always gonna be something to work on. Love it!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@derrickmason7457]

Tyler Franklin from a married person this is legit advice

[@jasmines2250]

I was thinking the same 💜

[@mrmushin1]

If you are as fine as your pic I will marry ya🤣🤣

[@tracyreadytv]

@@mrmushin1 did you say that in the voice of that old lady on the train on Coming to America? 😂😂😂 "If you're really a prince, I'll marry you." Lol

[@juombe]

@@mrmushin1 Simp!

[@Mzviola29]

Kev and Liss..... y’all mesh so well with the Ellis’s and the conversation was flowing and POPPIN and hella funny!!! I love the content and the honesty and I’m not even married but so much knowledge was dropped! Yassss!!!! Hands down my two favorite couples on the Internet.

[@glamazini]

I need more of this. All 4 of y'all hashing out topics. Kev and Devale only. Khadeen and Lis only. I don't care. I need more. Thank you.

[@vivianyoung9390]

I so agree!!!!

[@kymberlywallace8650]

I follow you as well!!! I love Black folks!

[@michaelmishaw]

Man, I love this. The two best couples on the internet. I agree that Kevin and Devale should do more segments together.

[@shawntaharris9075]

Single but lovvvvvvved this episode. I can see myself because of this conversation, not just in romantic relationships but family connections.

[@latashawalker5964]

After this podcast, I believe more singles need to listen to married couples. This really motivates me to continue to focus on myself as a person and a potential wife. I realized there is no distinct definition of being a good wife, but be yourself allow yourself grace.

[@missbeemarie1607]

“U not always gon be on point” facts 👏🏾 Do ur best to find a balance but sometimes we come up short and its ok, as long as u realize it and keep trying.

[@mbubb4626]

This was a great episode. My family is from the Caribbean, they get on me if I don't have my husband's meals ready. And it has to be a full meal. I always tell them that he can cook also. It is important to find balance. But he loves my cooking and praises me and my meals. That makes me feel appreciated.

[@QueenRiveRose22]

That was my sticking point......why can't Devale make his own dinner? Is he grown?

[@ericabelcher8760]

M Bubb.. oh trust me, my family is Caribbean too & I definitely understand EXACTLY what you're talking about!!! Smh

[@arianacollymore7091]

Not in my Caribbean household! If you can eat, you can cook😂😂😂

[@alanaterrel9914]

@@QueenRiveRose22 yes but didnt yu hear the part where Kay wont open her own door if devale is there because it's a 'mans job' its the same thig she grown she can open her own door

[@ivoryc7143]

@@alanaterrel9914 i guess that's true. ...it seems they have their balance that works for them.... i guess it's a matter of determining your agreements/expectations and finding a partner that's OK with that. that having his plate ready business is not my ministry :o) but I honor my partner's needs / preferences in other ways that matter to him and vice versa.

[@jwilliams1870]

Im so freakin excited....I've been waiting for this episide!!! My 2 FAVORITE COUPLES❤❤❤❤❤

[@km7890km]

Same here❤️❤️❤️❤️👑👑👑👑

[@FromEricaWithLove]

Y’alls energy is amazing, so refreshing and light 🏆👏🏽 Melissa, girl you are growing and it’s SHOWING. Your listening skills have been improving so much! I did miss your input in this conversation, but also hearing the guests speak and allowing for a full conversation was awesome with everyone having an equal share. So good guys! ❤️🤗

[@akorn4668]

28 mins in and I have tears in my eyes from laughing so hard. Y'all are hilarious and great together. This conversation is great

[@TwiinStar1224]

My two favorite couples. Would love to see a Kev and Devale Real Husbands podcast DEAD ASS! Loved yall on their podcast too.

[@wahaywgr]

I watch these marriage discussions all the time…getting myself prepared for when my boo comes along. Lol!

[@ms215rep]

🗣THIS WAS THE BEST EPISODE THUS FAR! (If I could make the word THE bigger I would) It’s so enlightening to hear other couples go thru similar situations. I learned so much in 1.5 hrs that I’m watching it again to instill parts of it. I felt Khadeen when she said “Damn we had this discussion b4 & I didn’t fix it yet.” That’s exactly how I felt recently. I was like ok I gotta do better. When u want to make a relationship work you put in the work ya self! Love this episode!!! ♥️ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 ♥️

[@kevinkkirimii]

That high 5 is unforgettable.

[@sincerelyajg5067]

This is such an honest conversation! My husband just wants me to express my concerns where I am prone to hold it in & be mad! I’m always thinking ahead & my husband always says “it will get done, relax”! He says “if you don’t tell me, I don’t know”. I see Kev, Melissa, Devale, & Khadeen... I watch!

[@jccanteen]

I see ppl on this vid and others commenting on the hosts’ level of participation in the discussion and I don’t get it. I personally prefer to hear a conversation rather than an interview. I love you guy’s style... it’s engaging and feels organic. And Melissa if you’re not a therapist, you definitely should be one!!!

[@jdw39503]

Best conversation ever. I wish my husband listened in on this because they touched on majority of all our issues. I see now things that I need to change immediately that he has been asking for months and years. You all truly opened my eyes and mind on this marriage thing for sure. Thank you.

[@justrishema1271]

The chemistry in this room is so good 😫😫

[@tamarajohashen1813]

Heading out to my job interview feeling nervous. Then I saw the upload all smiles 😊

[@bigerthanmyself421]

Girl you got this,

[@linalouwillis]

Great luck to you

[@brangeeellis3083]

We need an update on how the interview went (yes, I am all up in yo biznrss) 😉

[@tamarajohashen1813]

(Update) I got the job offer this morning. 🙏🏽🙌🏾 thanks for the motivational comments.

[@alexandralee794]

Tamara Latty congrats!! 🙌🏾❤️

[@MotiA.]

Loved this podcast, but I'd like to see Devale and Khadeen answer the questions in full. I know it's difficult being that you guys have so much in common, but a lot of the questions thrown at Devale weren't answered in full cuz Kev had a similar personal story to tell

[@jasminedark8255]

Shout out to Melissa!!! Truly my spirit animal when the awkward high five happened. You and Kev are helping the next generation of married Christians! Also speaking on your wonders and thoughts concerning your sexuality as a young lady has helped me feel differently and opened my mind to my own situations. I thank you and I’m sure my husband is grateful.

[@akalaspeaks]

Ultimately, the defensive response when you hear what's wrong is connected to the shame cycle. We already beat ourselves up and when it comes from our partner, it amplifies our flaws.

[@sidersproductions941]

The failed high five and fist bump though.😂😂😂

[@Songtresskelli3287]

Ugh this was such an awesoooooommmeeee episode.. Both of my favorite couple's together.. And everything they talked about has made me look at my marriage and see where I can work on me and us as a whole!!! Thank you soooo much!!!

[@cherishdeb]

Yoooooo this is the realest conversation on marriage, and i have been reading books and watching videos on mariage for years. The talk about keeping the mad front on, pettiness, not wanting to start being happy bc your partner says so....this is sooo real, so good. Ya'll getting me ready.

[@aya9af]

I'm a single older woman and I always enjoy you guys' conversations. This one is especially good! I find all kinds of relationship dynamics fascinating. And communicating, especially understanding how to effectively, is key in all of them. Thank you for so honestly sharing. Blessings to each of you 🙏🏽.

[@tj103libra3]

Y’all have no idea on how this discussion just added clarity to my marriage. We will continue the work, but to know we are not in weird space that is unfamiliar to marriages is comforting and helps with healing. Thank you!

[@lindy-annkeil6640]

Devale and Khadeen man! You guys are lengendary.🙌💯👌 Loving the hosts, Kevin and Melissa great people. Top level 💯👍🙌

[@karentjackson86]

Listening to this again. I'm older than you guys and have been married a little longer but I'm learning so much from you. Thank you all for being so open and sharing so much publicly. I'm gonna recommend my husband listens to this......wish me luck!

[@lachellegaines670]

This was AWESOME! Loved the context and the reality. Must share. Thanks for being so transparent.

[@TomorrowMims]

This was everything I hoped for and more! It was like a continuation of Devale and Kay's Podcast. Loved every minute. They should come back quarterly.

[@EdenAdele]

Just when I think I've seen my favorite episode, y'all do something like this! #HighFiveMelissa 🤣🙏🏾

[@Angela-cd9bj]

“Reciprocation” - it’s great concept - Devale wants to figure out how can he make his wife better? That’s sweet.

[@tdroney1]

THISSSSSSSSS!! My goodness, this is the absolute best video I've EVER and I mean EVER watched on KZbin. This video was on time. This video is real. This video is enlightening and such an amazing conversation. Thank you all for your transparency.

[@QGODDESS1]

This is what Young Black Couples NEED... Other Strong Black Couples as Great Positive Examples. THANKSSSSSSSS

[@kp7223]

I love that, "I want to make life easy for you"

[@keepingitrealwiththebrowns]

Accountability feels like an attack when you’re not ready to change your behavior to improve your relationship or marriage. This was a great interview. Me and my wife pulled gems 💎 from this convo. Respect ✊🏽

[@blkfiit]

What I LOVVVVVE about these two couples is their ability to keep it ALL THE WAY REAL, and to be able to reflect and laugh at their flaws and each other without getting upset. That seems to be essential for a healthy relationship. Laughter and love is Everything.

[@everythingalyb]

17:29 "I'm sorry to cut you off, but I'm gonna continue..." 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bebetucker1]

Im here 8months later and this is Great!! This conversation is great and so similiar to what all couples are going through.

[@nancydessources1240]

This was good. I grew up watching my mom and other Caribbean women prepare their husbands plates.. when I was younger I use to be so aggravated with it but as I get older I'm starting to understand the importance of remaining committed to serving, loving and understanding one another.

[@TheHeartsandcake90]

This was awesome. Y’all have a natural chemistry

[@dawnj6618]

@@conversationwithu7301 the whole picture and the fam of it to be done

[@dawnj6618]

@@conversationwithu7301 they were able too late I already paid the car to get

[@dawnj6618]

@@conversationwithu7301 the whole picture away for the day before the wedding was like Really the

[@dawnj6618]

@@conversationwithu7301 the whole time to

[@dawnj6618]

@@conversationwithu7301 they were supposed like a picture from a friend and she was very nice of the kids in my room lol 😜😜😜

[@flowerylures]

I am always excited about any conversation had by these couples. Their authenticity and honesty is so comforting. As a single female working on herself to be a part of a lifelong partnership, I appreciate the truths they share that are applicable even in my ‘singlehood’. At 28 I wish these conversations were regular parts of my upbringing but I am elated that they are now being had and so frequently. These conversations really allow us to acknowledge the fact that there isn’t an ideal marriage; there’s just the one that works for you and your partner along with the work you both commit to putting in to make it work. Thank you guys so so much. You all just spoke to my heart, embraced my soul and sparked new paths in my mind.

[@Reeses710]

Lol, this episode is hilarious (and I'm only 13 mins in), Devale's face when he said they moved MiMi to Cali, lol!! I absolutely love & respect the open honesty between all of you, communication is definitely important--brutal honesty!!! Kev: "turn around & huggggg me, don't dap me up" hahaha, I completely understand that! Omg, I'm in tears laughing at Melissa & Kay's missed high-five moment....

[@prudencek7087]

What Devale said at 38:45... BARS indeed! Sir you said a WHOLE LOT right there. "The moment is perfect for the you because I've suppressed how I'm feeling, but it's not perfect for me" woooow Chile. When Melissa said "grace is needed" that spoke to me, cause we often forget to give each other grace in marital situations. We feel like our spouses should know what we need and fulfill it pronto. Kevs story about his bro. at 50:00 mins in, again I'm wowed. Just touching and beautiful. I've been married over 18 years and this segment really touched me, I got some sweet laughs and I even got teared up. Best and realest convo about married life ever.

[@sharonn.5527]

Thank you so much for this, I’ve been with my husband for 18 yrs together but we’ve been married 13 years. I can relate to the topics y’all spoke on. May God continue to bless your union. You all are such a blessing to married couples.

[@Ohitishim]

May 27, 2021 Watching for the 1st time, and I must say that your assessment (grace and recalibration) is so necessary. Thank you for the wisdom, and for the love. Continued success in all that you set your hands to accomplish in the near future.

[@MsProsperity0803]

I am a single woman & I have learned a lifetime of information from this podcast!!! I am a supporter of both couples & love them so much!!!! Thank you guys for being so transparent & REAL!!!!! ♥️♥️♥️

[@tamijoalvarado357]

I didn't get to listen all the way to the end but I really enjoyed the conversation and how real you all kept it. I was amazed at the level of devotion and desire of all four of you to work on your relationships . And your willingness to be so transparent with your audience. You kept it real, owned up to your struggles and didn't let any false pride keep you from your desire to minister to other couples. I really enjoyed you. You struck a cord in my heart, I feel blessed that I stumbled onto your time there tonight.

[@Miss-Ann-Thrope]

I have watched this episode three times. I love the way everyone interacts and the honesty about their relationships. So many gems are dropped throughout the interview.

[@haroldbrown5149]

This is like therapy for me. I appreciate what you guys are doing. It really helps. I shed some tears about the comment that black men only feel like kings at home and it hit me because I have had to express that in a past relationship. Excellent content.

[@RondaWilson100]

I'm so glad I watched this. It is helping me to stay in my marriage! Thank you, God bless you all!

[@llaing30]

One thing I know about marriage is that we need to work for each other most people think marriage what they can get out of it. Marriage which is wrong marriage is a constant work on self and each other.

[@johnrucker4696]

Freaking love this SHIT!!! They need to become frequent guests on you all podcast!!!!!

[@malikkhharris8128]

Great discussion. I'm currently single but I appreciate the transparency in this podcast. Thank you all for sharing.

[@adsmith122]

This is a really good gem. I'm 53mins in and the convo about wanting vs needing help needs its own video. I often say understanding you can "be" independent is much different than trying to be "alone" and not know it. Relationships must have a give and take to make each person feel as if they contribute and not a burden, when you mentality is I can do all this by myself, you're trying to prove something to "you" and not necessarily the partner but at what cost

[@sharnetteraye-brown9523]

The four of you mesh so well together. Another great episode.

[@Cstar7]

This episode is full of gold. Great job and thank you all for your transparency. It's helping me with my own self awareness and development as well as evolving my perspective of marriage in a healthy way. Thank you!

[@Reeses710]

Yesss, Melissa....you hit the nail on the head for me & definitely shined a light on a lot of things.... "I lovvvvve understanding & hearing dynamics of different relationships.....we're all normal & going through the same things, just different in some ways....at the end of the day, we all have the same core values--to feel valued, to feel loved, to feel connected" yessss....absolutely loved this episode!!

[@esperanzagene310]

Re: Devale's question @ 35:00 - In my experience it's been the opposite. I'm able to process issues & concerns expressed by my partner, but then when I share an issue they (majority of men I've dated) react defensively. So I would say it's an individual case by case thing, not gender. Although a woman, I resonate the most with Devale. I wonder how many men resonate more with Khadeen & Melissa, etc. I think the combination of our personalities, trauma, coping mechanisms and attachment styles have a lot to do with it. The openness of this conversation is really beautiful. This is real life. Everyone on the planet has issues and your vulnerability in sharing where you're at in navigating & working through yours is a gift for those of us on the same journey. Thank you all. #BlackLove #youlovetoseeit

[@msfiesty88]

My two favorite families are in the same room together 😍😍

[@Wahn23]

Is it weird I'm really young and like watching these podcasts whether #K&D or #ONSTAGE. Im nineteen im a male, but yeah im fascinated with my culture and its people 👊🏾✌🏾

[@keishapuryear8180]

I love the honesty!! I feel like people assume because there are spats the marriage isn't happy. I certainly struggle with that. Especially if one person holds grudges and never just leaves past arguments in the past.

[@m.l.2483]

All I know is...Devale and Khadeen better be at the conference and I'm not even going 😂

[@UniquelyMeAlmaLee]

Well I am and I hope they come through

[@Mrs.CDavis]

Bring this show back 😩

[@Nettieboo1014]

At the 29 minute mark I literally burst out crying. This podcast is truly everything and y'all stay speaking directly to me and my life! I needed this 25 years ago but I'm glad that you guys are here now. Thank you ALL!!!

[@ShadajahPowell]

Yesssss I am evolving and changing that was soooo good . My husband and I watch a episode every week and we talk and share together . I can’t wait for us to dive into this episode together .

[@brangeeellis3083]

How did u get your husband to listen/watch? I'm asking for a friend (and that friend is ME) 😉

[@ShadajahPowell]

Brangee Ellis We had a conversation and got honest and real about where we are in our marriage and we determined it was not so good . So we created a list of things we do together whether it be prayer time together , deep intimate conversation , a good friend recommended listening to this podcast and we listen together each week and share together our takeaways. It’s been amazing and has brought us closer together and more open and vulnerable .

[@LimaB30]

So many Important lessons ❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕 thank you all for being open

[@LivingOnTheContrary]

This was so beautiful! Thank you for sharing your lives with us! All couples should watch this! Especially if they’re married, engaged or live together! Even single people because it will give you an idea of the courtesy you need for a long and happy union 💜

[@kp7223]

Kay, Devale, Kevin and Melissa I love what you said: self happiness, grace, space, room and support for change and allowing each other to be self and not assuming there is one way or definition to be a husband or wife. Truth was spoken, thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@whoknew5940]

Thank you for the transparency. It's good for people to see a REAL and HEALTHY relationship. Much love and continue success to you all.

[@MrEnigmaMOE]

I love this episode. It was what I needed to hear today.

[@jayheart83]

BTW, I lost the love of my life years ago deservedly...but watching this...i will be ready if she or someone like her comes along...Thank you, Great show.

[@abgirl2729]

Wow. The fact that you said deservedly so. Praise God for your journey. I'm excited for you and your readiness. I bet it's gonna be UH MAY ZIING!

[@arianneamaniotshudi7720]

thank for doing this, I which I herd this months or years before my marriage crushed. I have learned so much, especially about myself I love you all. thank you for sharing your experiences with us all

[@BonaFideLN]

Sheesh! This was SO good!!! So many valuable nuggets here!!! I feel like I need to relisten & write them down to revist when needed. This was SO good.

[@ladysmile2001]

I'm not married but this was really interesting to hear the struggles of married ppl and to know that no one is perfect. Everyone was so transparent and real. I definitely respect 💯🖤💯

[@JustArianni]

I love coming back to rewatch KevOnStage Studios Content.

[@TallAsh]

Listen, I’m not even married and enjoyed this conversation. Love love loved the honesty, knowledge and transparency.

[@meshalovely100]

This is so insightful! Thank you all for your transparency!

[@kp7223]

Yes, "allow me the space and grace to grow. But I need you to support me because I'm evolving"

[@blerdinthecity]

This was great! I definitely walked away with some great tips to apply to my own marriage. It's great to see black couples be so honest and transparent about their relationship. Also it's great to see the positivity. 🖤 In my own life I've only see broken marriages or messy relationships so to see that there's couples like this it's inspiring and makes me hope we meet couples like this in the future. New subscriber, can't wait to watch more of these. 🖤💐

[@beelieve14]

Wow!! This was raw! I appreciate it. Thanks for sharing with the world.

[@naturalfitgirl80]

Yall did this!! I loved it! I recently got married and i can say I married someone who give me all those things! Space, Grace and Support! I do my best to do the same!:) This was on point!

[@katrinahicks7432]

Thank you ellise’s for your transparency!

[@supercalidee]

MELISSA.....when you used the cookie cutter analogy at the end, I was on the BRINK OF TEARS (I cried enough in church yesterday - I didn’t want to cry no more lol). You literally encompassed how I’ve been feeling for the past 8 years in my marriage. All I can say is I’m reclaiming my arm, leg, back, and booty and I’m gonna keep on keeping on!!! Thanks for this HEALTHY content. I love you guys!!

[@najahadams1420]

This was one of the BEST sessions that I’ve ever seen! 2 of my favorite couples EVA!