‪@TheEllises‬

[@lindseyj2884]

I love how Devale talks about black love being a threat and how black love is revolutionary

[@indiasavage7]

Same

[@BakerneshaTV]

Same!

[@nicolejames3054]

He stood his ground on it too💪 it is a threat! Unity amongst us is a threat.

[@kj7682]

Because IT IS!

[@TheLilly]

And then Cam got the nerve to push back smh

[@reallife0728]

AS BLACK PEOPLE WE DESPERATELY NEED TO SEE & HEAR HAPPILY MARRIED MATURE COUPLES SPEAK ON LOVE & MARRIAGE!!!!!

[@brittanywestmoreland6539]

I thank God my parents have been a great example. They have been married for 42 years. Marriage is beautiful and being born in wedlock is as well.

[@ruckes13]

I agree 👍

[@gg784]

Dead ass!

[@omifunkemccloud3362]

@@brittanywestmoreland6539 wow Brittany, that's amazing. Can you share how your parents influence you today? 🙏🏿

[@epiphanyloa]

I'm so glad Devale got his break in acting. Even though they don't like to be deemed as couple goals but from the outside looking in, I have much respect for this couple - ups and downs included.

[@deykno87]

Stop it

[@williame.7982]

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a healthy respect for a couple or individuals, but I do think it's a little weird when people start to put others as "couple goals" or just "goals" in general... you only know what they allow you to see, and when you try living vicariously through someone else, you can miss certain opportunities in your own life...imo 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@ericajordan9612]

When Khadeen said about Devale thinking about her day being better, I had to check myself in my marriage.

[@gg784]

True

[@shawnaj12]

Big facts

[@courtneejackson8530]

Same!! I’m just now watching and thinking about what I can do today for my husband to make his day better!! Great advice!!

[@lovejones1897]

@@courtneejackson8530 right me too I’m thinking the same thing. Maybe some candles and just sit and talk with him after dinner.

[@karenthomas6553]

Omg I could not agree more. Talk about a reality check for your marriage

[@itsroween]

Khadeen spoke facts. She can be submissive to her husband because he has SHOWN her he is the man with the plan. Amen to that.

[@s2ncurai]

That is true! I cannot follow u if send me & our family over a cliff!

[@MichaelSmith-fs4ns]

Also she vetted him as well cause that’s what both sides don’t do

[@lawandabritt3303]

Select the right one with the proper intention and lufe will be incredible

[@lenacoledennis4963]

King and Queen thangs xoxo

[@qhen9322]

Devale, Devale, Devale! brotha! You speaking on black people and black love the way you did made me want to support you and your wife on every platform! Very impressive my brother! You stood solid and confident in what you said and what you said was all truth! Thank you! #blackloveisimportant

[@higherresolve]

Please have Devale and Khadeen back. This was a great interview. We need more. Can't wait for their book!

[@beautifulba_kmay5369]

I’m excited to watch this! Devale is about to school Cam on a good relationship, and how to be a good man to his wife❤️🤎

[@ORACOLOGNE]

Its not a competition

[@Mupeta.]

When they spoke about how there's aspects of their parents' marriages that they did not want to inherit, I felt that.

[@sonyag.coaching]

I love the growth in Devale. This is what true leadership, love, respect, and healthy relationships looks like.

[@nepps6766]

Devale Ellis ladies and gentlemen!!👏🏽 I love how he handled the “non negotiable” conversation!

[@AbiYah333]

Been loving #TheEllises since before the fame. They are still one of my faves! So happy to see them still winning! Wishing them and their babies all the best!!! #BlackLoveIsBlackPower

[@jagirl281]

Since back in Brooklyn day 1 with the two boys

[@AbiYah333]

@@jagirl281 Yep! 💪🏾

[@iyamom4]

I love when Khadeen drops it for Devale. They keep it spicy. I love the boys. This IS my favorite family. I am so happy for the Ellis Family ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@star4110]

Khadeen and Devale r such a great couple. I’ve been watching them ever since Devale said he was gonna change his life w his iPhone and 60 seconds. And to c how far they’ve come since then is unbelievable. They deserve all of this and so much more.

[@cynthiarange5513]

I absolutely love Devale & Khadeen ❤. They are not afraid to show the true reality of marriage. What they are doing is a game changer‼️

[@jasoneley7913]

Imagine living in a world where seeing a fully functional marriage w/ kids is so foreign that its entertaining to watch.

[@Mecctacular]

Say that again! 👏🏾

[@aura5944]

That’s really what it is 😯

[@butterflyygyrlsworld5106]

THAT PART

[@brooklynforever1990]

Sad isn’t it

[@lovejones1897]

This world would be a better place

[@bettaaskboutmik3861]

I love them... the way Devale speaks about black love and how he loves his BLACK wife is amazing

[@callhernetta9708]

This was a great interview. I love seeing happy, healthy relationship’s that can be honest and transparent!!!!

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

They went Thru the storm cheated on each other the whole 9 before they got to this place ‼️

[@jenniferibe8]

@@itsHappening-ry2ef who told you that? 🤨

[@melaniemartin4203]

Right where did that come from they never said they cheated at all what's wrong with folks

[@pierrechapman]

Amen

[@Wanderluster888]

@@jenniferibe8 it’s very true. After they had Jackson. Listen their podcasts and they have a book coming out

[@TyroneWilliams-z3c]

I truly appreciate his wife- being beautiful and supportive to not only elevate herself, children and hubby....

[@tanseybeasley4220]

Understand, Devale is a grown Black man and he will not be shook about his view on the importance of black love!!! Get into it!!

[@lachelle81]

Man…he didn’t change his stance one iota. Love it

[@Lovingme.8012_]

Love him!!! Cam is young and foolish. I live how Devale never wavers on his views

[@melissabrown2192]

This couple is annointed. Speaking truth in a world of darkness requires a higher calling than anyone can comprehend. Keep speaking life, light and love. 🙏🏾🙌🏽❤✊🏾

[@melman4591]

This is so good to see. Love on both sides without being materially motivated. Just genuine love for each other. Just having someone to do better be better. I pray I find this one day. Salute to Cam for showcasing this and to the Ellises for showing us that it does exist. God bless all of you going forward in life

[@tuniciathompson794]

I really enjoyed this! My husband also wakes daily with prayer and asks God for direction on how to make the day better for me!❤🙏🏼

[@michellem.7097]

#keeper

[@momofhope4235]

Black love IS criminalized!!!! Thank you for telling the TRUTH!!!! Keep celebrating BLACK LOVE, ups and downs!!!!

[@becauseweare1]

I'm so impressed with Devale educating with clear and historically accurate political economic facts. Cultural hype does not translate to political economic power and spiritual wholeness. We can have money and still be murdered. Cultural influence has not and does not translate to less mass incarceration, financial net worth, healthcare, and being brutalized unto death outside AND within our "communities".

[@cb4664]

Lessons from this podcast: embrace change; you never know how God is going to use you, it’s His plan, not yours. Learn to pivot, if a door closes ITS FOR A REASON. Respect your partner’s vision even if it seems like it’s not ideal for you, and find a way to make it align with yours. Don’t put other couples on a pedestal, every couple has and will have their own struggles. Also submission is simply trusting someone to lead, and that trust is earned.

[@shannah2609]

Loveeeee this couple! The accountability, transparency, vulnerability. They’re doing what works for them. ❤❤❤❤. Great job Cam!

[@brandonlow1694]

I absolutely love listening to Deval! Yes, he’s a comedian, but even more so, he’s full of a wealth of knowledge and truth, and he boldly speaks THE truth in any room, regardless of trends and popular emotionally charged arguments. He elevates the intellect in discussions. I love how he distinctively challenged Cam’s comment about “all love…regardless the color.” … I love and agree with Devals clarification… Black love is distinctively different, powerful, and revolutionary due to the history of oppression in our Nation. I could go on for days! Great points made by Deval!

[@ronniepilgrim3449]

I love them! I have been watching their blogs since RoRo was a baby and now he is six years old. The family is amazing and talented. So proud of both Devale and Khadeen. I love that we got to see the grind and now we get to see the reward. So happy for their book and the show Zatima. Black excellence. So dope!

[@luvlyelle]

This interview showed me that there are couples out there that has relationship mindset like me. I appreciate this interview to show me there is hope for what I want and what I like in a partner, friend, husband (if it gets to that point). I don’t have to be “married” but the relationship is so genuine, loving and natural that it feels like we’re married and the world thinks we’re married. Like the airport scene lol Peace&blessings to the Ellises♥️

[@SoBeSuchin]

I feel like K and Devale are my family. Love how they love each other. They are truly friends and their respect for one another is impeccable. And they're very realistic! I just really admire them.

[@Giggles138]

This was such a raw but in-depth interview/ conversation that touched so many surfaces that’s usually overlook. Love it

[@kashiko321]

Maaan, cam u spitting 💎 " love is NOT bondage, controlling, shackles. It's freedom!! One that will stick with me is "older days couples would find a reason to stay" our generation finds reasons to leave.. Keep interviewing great like minded people ‼️

[@juatinatemple1903]

My ex husband said he felt like I was trying to get rid of him when I told him to join a bowling league or hang with his cousins.

[@belindalindsey7056]

That was so true and it was from his mother.

[@QweenKay2U]

This was an EXCELLENT interview. So relatable and touched on so many points. I come from a Caribbean household just like Khadeen so I so relate to how she spoke about the dynamics of her parents marriage and how they communicated and it affected being a struggle at times with her being able to effectively communicate with Devale. I know they don’t like couple goals and honestly I don’t like saying it but Devale & Khadeen are being great great examples of what healthy black love looks like. I’m older than them yet I get a lot of gems from how they are and how they move. Can’t wait to get the book!

[@SherG2774]

This is one of the greatest interviews on the channel 🎉 Let’s have Khadeen and Devale - part 2 please!!!

[@RoseSimeus]

We love The Ellises ❤!! Everything said was on point. They have provided so much wisdom throughout the years and via their podcast!

[@MsLockhart18]

This was a dope conversation. As a married woman wanting to be different from what I've seen and continue to witness of marriage and relationships that I know would not serve me, it's so insightful of all the greatness and growth that I've been following since the beginning of their journey. Thanks Cam for this much needed link for this type of conversation our community need to be opened to. ❤

[@tonataylor176]

Let Em Know Devale 🥰 #theellises4life Hey Kay Kay Also 🙏🏽 Thank you for explaining that respecting each other is not considered being submissive. A lot of men out here don’t have leadership skills in any way but expect someone to follow and submit to them. Like Khadeen stated, when he showed me he can lead….. Best statement ever…. You have to be able to LEAD if you expect someone to follow you.

[@applesaucetoaboss800]

Cam and Devale two different type of men. And that was highlighted when he spoke about having empathy for commenters on social media

[@meek2312]

Big facts!!

[@jlijahsteel09]

FACTS!!

[@vanessabennett382]

I'm gaining a new respect for Cam and his intellect and realness. I'm a Kay and Devale fan clubbers. Love their Black love!

[@DesiLu4Life]

I love how Devale is talking. Makes sense!! Good interview!! ❤️

[@TheParenting411]

This conversation was REAL, necessary, and thought-provoking. I found it so relatable and I’ve been married 30 years. There’s always more to learn about relating and loving well.

[@dawnthompson7743]

Kay Kay really picked a good one. I've never seen a more dedication black family man who really loves and cherishes his wife! #blacklove

[@sashevolves1632]

I love me some Khadeen and Devale because they always keep it a buck! We expect that from Cam always so all 3 combined was amazing!!!!

[@gbender8859]

Very good interview. Devale is an old soul and they are a great couple. Very open and honest. Part 2 please.

[@centariogrier3255]

I've watched both parties operate in their platforms. This is by far the best interview I've seen for each party. Cam was very intentional with his questions and Devale/Kadene dropped some monster gems. Vale...much respect to you bro. People don't understand how heavy the crown is that we wear as black men, but it seems like your emotional intelligence (and spirituality) has been your saving grace. Nothing but love bro. Y'all be blessed

[@brooklynsms.erikakane]

I love this couple they have a beautiful marriage and family .👑🗽

[@GishelleWatson]

That was a GREAT INTERVIEW Cam🙌🏽 Your Growth and Transparency is GREAT🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@hopeselesho4479]

I love this interview especially as a young and very single young lady still just because it really promotes knowing thyself and standing firm in that. Your life is yours and you CHOOSE what that looks like and people are allowed to accept or reject that and usually it has nothing to do with you. Loved this. Bookmarking it ❤

[@brooklynforever1990]

I’ve always admired their transparency.

[@alisonassanah-carroll1957]

This was an awesome interview. Khadeen and Devale are each very intelligent in their own right, but they complement one another so well in tbeir walk of marriage. Cam is very transparent! Would love to meet him in person and just have an intellectual conversation. I thoroughly enjoyed this interview! ❤️

[@KjNooNoo]

My favorite couple, been following them for such a long time and to see them grow and become successful from the dreams they had a long time ago is so inspiring…they always have each other’s back and their love is so deep…I absolutely love to see it and it needs to be seen 🖤

[@changeyourcleats5037]

Another banger. The guests have a dope vibe with dope content and a dope story. Cam continues to grow in this space and this is a great example of his growth.

[@taylahs.3808]

Devalue and Kay are a wonderful example of true black love. Cam was lost in translation. Jumping from One thing to the next. So glad Devale was able to bring it back. Cam is really trying to sound so profound, but is so lost.

[@brandyeldridge3332]

I thought I was the only person who picked up on this. Everything you said is so true. Not to say Cam is not legit in his outlook and input. He is just all over the place. If he could just stay on one topic, complete that and move on to the next and so on and so forth. Then maybe he could he can relate and be more relatable.

[@kitaboo2245]

@@brandyeldridge3332he doesn’t believe in black love

[@brandyeldridge3332]

@@kitaboo2245 oh, okay. Well that makes a lot of sense. Thats why he couldn't relate or stay on subject. No belief.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Agreed. The immaturity in him strong.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Agreed. The immaturity in him strong.

[@valeriebillings7248]

Love them! So down to earth, humble, transparent. He’s doing an amazing job on Sistah’s and Zatima. Great interview! Bravo! They dropped powerful gems! 💜🙏🏽

[@carlcasey8766]

Love the convo, Cam and the Ellises r doing they thang💯

[@patriceiverson218]

Cam the man!! Thank you for this episode. You chose two great authentic people to share love, honest, support and friendship about their life and marriage. That's keeping it Funky and I loved every minute of it!!!

[@jameswilliams3t]

Hello 🤗

[@suewalker8356]

I just luv the way you luv and make people think this could be them. I thank God for allowing me to witness what a family should be like.❤❤

[@healthystart890]

One of the best most authentic and truthful interviews about love, marriage and relationships…it is evident that you all are elevated to higher frequency…this was a gift to the world 🙏🌎🌅💫

[@CheveltaTimmons-e7q]

They forgot to mention themselves! They are the couple of the culture!!! The real like you said!!! Thank you for being your authentic selves and having the courage to expose it to the world!

[@tinahoward5563]

As a older married woman I'm glad to see young 💘 understanding the meaning of real love and the sacrifice for a lasting relationship.

[@meekyw.4010]

32:18 - 32:22 So glad Devale educated Cam! It's always funny how Cam seems to forget that he's NOT married! Devale was right as a man you have to have discernment about ppl single or married! 33:27👏🏽

[@Lovingme.8012_]

Exactly! He has so much growing to do. He can’t even form a complete intelligent sentence. Devale and Khadeen are so articulate and just honest. Cam needed this interview.

[@courtneymarie444]

I had no idea Cam was so funny 😂. This was a great conversation

[@Ayesha_Michelle]

Being friends first is truly such a beautiful way to maintain a relationship ❤you can tell they’re friends ❤

[@vannesegreen8934]

Love this conversation! The Ellises are one of my favorite couples I follow… I love how they break down their relationship and how genuine it is! Awesome !!!❤❤❤❤❤

[@niqbrown1774]

Dope conversation! I truly appreciate this interview, Cam. I’ve been watching the Elises and listening to their podcast for a while now.. beautiful family.

[@tamekawarren4198]

Cam please don't let your ability to not give a flip, disconnect you from your soul. That will create narcissistic tendencies and disconnect you from the true and living God. I see you son and I'm praying for you. Please don't let this world do this to you. God has a plan for you on another level. You have the ability to speak to the masses for the kingdom♥️🙏🏽

[@TRay_Unveiled]

I just love #theEllises! I love the way that Cam is using his platform!!!! #loveCamNewton!!

[@shasdahaywood8785]

I love that this union set the blueprint for love in marriage and they love doing it, an being friends an the communication, an the relationship with there sons. Favorite Couple

[@TheLovely990]

I watch him, his children, and wife. Love it!❤️❤️💐💐

[@CharlotteGipson]

Khadeen makeup is fire!! She looks amazing! Happy wife Happy life!!!! Love it! I can feel the love!!!!

[@eesh.so.goated]

Devale and Khadeen are so amazing I love hearing them motivate and empower each other I hope one day me & my girlfriend/ wife will have that type of relationship…💯💪🏽

[@SheniceSays214]

1. Barack & Michelle 2. Denzel & Pauletta 3. Russell & Ciara 4. Devale & Khadeen 5. Kevin & Melissa 6. Sean & Beyoncé 7. Sam & Latanya

[@reflectioneternally]

8. Courtney B. Vance & Angela Bassett

[@kenshirotanjiro6479]

Simp and ciara

[@reallove5116]

Tabitha & Chance!!

[@SheniceSays214]

@@kenshirotanjiro6479 Russell is a lot of things but a simp is not one. He’s a good man. He’s one of the few good guys we have left and that’s why he he’s getting under future skin and apparently yours as well.

[@carmelamarie07]

My brother and sister from other misters! I love the two of them and to see them from day one to now, it's a blessing!

[@ChelleyChelle7382]

Yassss! This interview was on point. I just love them. Please bring them back!

[@laniececarty6972]

Boy I love these two! So authentic ❤️

[@ku1854]

I love this, this is couple=family I swear this is what black excellence looks like ya'll. I support anything that they are doing or trying to do they are the ideal black family-couple they are couple goals without trying to be couple goals they want the world to see what black healthy love looks like. Hey shout to Cam for this he is right it was needed. Give Cam his flowers for unapologetically always being him and doin stuff out the box on purpose! I was born that way and gone stay way salute!

[@nicoleamarie7261]

Such a great interview I love this couple! I didn’t want the interview to end

[@xoxoaliciac]

I throughly enjoyed this conversation as a newlywed. ❤ They talking big facts! Premarital counseling helped my fiancé and I have this similar conversation. This was GOODT.

[@kimberlygarrett5643]

I love black love. I know couples have their ups and downs but this is something to look forward to.

[@jameswilliams3t]

Hello 🤗

[@i_amcici7168]

We need a part 2, this was a good conversation. Next talk about the one and raising kids

[@timsmith1033]

Real talk Cam, u might be a better interviewer/media guy than QB which is COLD AF much success to u Cam. Devale killing it, bro is a superstar n the making, as a married man love y’all relationship and convo

[@qowabhoo]

They are so intelligent and insightful. I can not wait for their book!

[@christinebryant8354]

I enjoyed the interview love You guys! Cam you are so right when you said people try & make you feel bad about not being married. My Mom & sister had & got it bad. Every time we new someone that passed away especially a woman the first thing they would say is & she never married. Some people are so programmed to believe everything that society say is right or wrong.

[@anitrarobinson2348]

Cam, you never disappoint with the interviews! This is one for the books. Loved the conversation and the energy you bring. Peace and blessings.

[@quanzawilliams4696]

I love the real authenticity of the conversation. Letting your truth be told. Never know how and what this can do to change someone's life. #LOVETHIS

[@tamaragray3129]

Enjoyed this interviewed. BLACK LOVE IS REAL, ALIVE, & POWERFUL🙌🏽

[@yungbeautyy7130]

Great interview! I love Devale & Khadeen. I love what they represent for young black married couples.

[@marilyndear1248]

I really enjoyed this..All intellectual and knowledgeable..I just love Devale's mindset when it comes to certain topics...Keep up the great work guys..God Bless!

[@misstafbrown]

The Ellises are my favorite! They are on my bucket list to meet. Cam, this lane is for you. Please have an open forum soon. I’d love to be in the audience as you commentate.

[@DesiLu4Life]

I agree: we set the standard. Black love is definitely revolutionary 💞💪🏾

[@shenetresmiles]

Cam, I’m glad that I am able to see a different light/side of you! It’s great! 😊 I’m proud of you man! 🙏🏾

[@betty8959]

What a beautiful life they must live. I loved this meeting of the minds. Great interview!!! God bless you all.

[@elektrastone7327]

Devale and Khadeen thank you for speaking truth and for being understanding and looking at life from a realistic standpoint. I really enjoyed this interview.

[@marji10]

I love these two. I’ve been watching them since Brooklyn. I love them!

[@LadySunflower1224]

They now have 4 beautiful son's love them💕💕💕💕

[@ryansstorytelling6700]

When Cam said that he's easily attached but easily detached, I felt that. My phrase is that I love hard, but I'm hard to love.

[@Pancake_Bootayyyy]

Such an amazing interview. I love them so much together & individually as people. ❤️🫶🏽

[@miniae48]

Great episode, a part 2 is NEEDED!!

[@anitramonique5694]

My absolute favorite couple! Been watching them grow since their early days on YT! They are beautiful and so is their family!🥰🥰