Abraham Hicks: When He Doesn't Care as Much as You Do.

[@TheLoveSanctuary]

If you're relationship is causing you to feel super emotional and unsettled, if you're thinking about him all the time.. You may have 'anxious attachment'. To find out more and how you can better manage this, take the quiz -> petaapril.com/lovebondingquiz

[@farzanehtaghipour2527]

Hey, I'm here to say huge huge thank you for sharing all these videos to us. you're doing an amazing job. Thank you so much, it's a lot. love.

[@ASMRLynise]

This test was great and WOW!! spot on. Thanks for sharing

[@Bbyxbliss]

Thank you for spreading attachment awareness! Learning about the styles changed my life !

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

So wat if anyone is anxious attachment?? How does that help?? How can one become securely attached is wat should be told🤷‍♀️

[@Delphius-]

How often attachment is mistaken for love! Even when the relationship is a good one, love is spoiled by attachment, with its insecurity, possessiveness, and pride; and then when love is gone, all you have left to show for it are the “souvenirs” of love, the scars of attachment.

[@tameraspeaks]

“ i appreciate so much how your behavior lets me understand what im outputting.” “Every individual has the capacity to give out what your inner being is actually asking for”

[@patriciagallace5065]

It completely sucks when you love someone and your partner doesn’t have the same investment and feelings. It really hurts.

[@SalLeeParadise]

It all sounds great but if a man doesn’t commit to you and you want a commitment, just LEAVE! Stop convincing yourself that you are too needy, making it seems like desiring a security in your relationships is a bad thing! It’s not! Just be clear on what you want with your higher self and the Universe / God will give you exactly that! Stop confusing yourself! Been there done that, wasted a lot of time! You know what you want! Go for it!

[@yvaz3373]

SalLee Paradise yes, I see what you mean. Be clear about what you want and stop finding reasons to set for less...go what you really want, with this person or someone else. I don’t agree with the “just leave” though...because as Abraham has said many times, “you take yourself with you”. Walking away is not always the answer, sometimes is, I am not denying that, but before you go find alignment with yourself and see if anything changes. If it doesn’t then you are free to go and probably you will want to go. Sometimes you need the contrast to find out what you really want...and why you are not getting it.

[@karenbates8776]

@@yvaz3373 Yes, I agree with your objection of "just leave." I'd rather stick to my expectations and see if he'll change by ignoring him for awhile. If he returns AND has changed because he missed me then he is the one. But you have to have strength and intuition to know when to let him back in. It may take a month or 2 before he starts missing you. Also, take your time to observe if the changes will be truly permanent. Love takes time and is not for the faint of heart. But you have to have standards and stick to them.

[@Intuitive_scopio]

Thank you so very much for that, extremely grateful!

[@alaa88888]

It's BECAUAE u've been there & done that, that you have reached such a clear place about this specific area of relationships, what abraham says about life ecperiencea (contrast specifically) being the greatest teacher/sifter is really soooo truw, people need their contrasting experiences to reach this level of clear deisre/decision about what they want.. the person asking in this video is not there yet.. u may not be any more, that's why she's asking

[@crys313]

Yes, but often the situation is a little more complicated with the partner (male/female) giving you mixed signals. Also, you can be in a situation where someone does want you, but they're not a good fit. Sometimes it's clear cut, sometimes it's not.

[@MANIFESTFASTWITHJASMINE]

YOU CAN BE AND DO AND HAVE ANYTHING!!

[@MandyJRoss]

You don't attract what you want, you attract who you are.💫 You are an infinite creator and master of your divine destiny.✨

[@Jazzybot]

No you can attract all types of crap thats not you unfortunately

[@yvaz3373]

Relationship are mirrors...what the other person is mirroring in you that you need to change? he doesn’t want to commit is because he doesn’t want to or because you don’t believe he can? Or because you are needy, because you need him to give you what you cannot give yourself? Self love, self appreciation, harmony...security. Whatever it is, what is happening gin that relationship is jus a reflection of what is happening within yourself. Sort that out and the rest will follow...

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

damn....good stuff

[@carmenalopes4140]

Yes ok give yourself sex every day good luck !!It all sounds great but there are needs that can be met only by another human ,a comanion and we all crave that companionship and if somebody says they dont they lying to themselves.

[@adamjoyner1004]

Hello, I've NO idea what anyone means by "commit"... if TWO ppl want to spend time together, they will!!!!!!! .....so what's the "commit" thing about??????

[@carmenalopes4140]

Ive been in that space she talks about then I met someone and totally lost my balance in all those aspects..its like univerce send that person to trigger me and show me that im not as healed as i thought i was and now im totally out of alignment and source.

[@joannefleming403]

Wow this is me. I will focus on a condition. Wether it is good or bad. When it’s good it’s great when it’s bad I wobble so much. This has helped me so much realise I am relating on outside relationships/people to make me happy. Instead of the inside relationship in my vortex with me 😍 thank you thank you thank you ✨

[@PureWater-w7c]

I'm completely at peace with myself.

[@vanessasweeney9218]

Omg I absolutely love you Abraham! I needed to learn this and all you say because I was scared I couldn't ever find the right guy because I was always so needy...and to think the full source of all I need is right here inside of me...always...never will betray me..never will leave me.. Love pure love inside of ME. ❤

[@riacaldwell1681]

That was just the clarity I needed. I so appreciate it when that happens. Thank you

[@lisaa_7046]

'Maybe you don't want as much of a domesticated relationship as you think you do.'' Maybe, well, surely, you are the one who has fear of commitment or something like that inside of you. - as within, so without.

[@MegaLadylove2012]

You’re right

[@beverlykamrowski5667]

I'm just done I will Finnish my journey by myself don't need anymore distractions I'm destined to be alone I should've known that by now

[@rick.8589]

I know this might seem selfish but sometimes I want to attract a needy partner😂😂😂 because when they're being too needy I tend to get tired of them at that release my resistance of 'Does he love me, does he need me' But when you're with too independent person, you seem to think, Am I even important to them

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

I find a lil needyness and clingyness in my man Sexy! Wats wrong in being a lil needy❤🥰it's cute

[@kaylawoodie9676]

Damn. This came at the perfect moment

[@banks8046]

Hey I just wanted to say you’re beautiful sis! ☺️

[@pirapira4666]

Sometimes you think you want it or it should happen but you really don't want it subconsciously no matter what reasons are behind. He may not be the right person or you don't wanna be attached just being free. When the contradiction occurs like this, you won't get what you want because it's not what you want. So sort that out first before blaming the partner.

[@bellakim9404]

'Now is so Delicious. That's where all your power Is.' Walk the Moments of Today. Appreciate the aspects that you connect with and throw out what doesn't resonate.. that wasn't meant for you. Yesterday hasn't happened yet. It's this second that makes the difference. Align with it 💞

[@stephanieflanagsn7948]

Excellent post! Thanks for sharing !

[@angalmeida29]

Oh my godddd this was sooo good ! Abraham’s words are gold ! Hope Every human being hears this ;))) Muahhh

[@caroleArise-and-Shine]

This has so been my experience in relationships. Finally I get it. An aha moment

[@tracyadams1317]

Listening to this on repeat!!

[@pure-pisces9980]

Me too!!

[@dutcheslove975]

Thanx for pointing out what I have going on in my attraction?!!!

[@MyPeople_MyTribe]

It's happening

[@maerose11]

Just found this channel..and i feel so amused and entertained ;)

[@WhoiwunaB]

Welcome to a new life😘

[@rubyanaya126]

Thank you

[@onenessornoneness9692]

i love you

[@shantilove3768]

Such a great talk.

[@buzzinh2401]

This is so true and helpful. Thank you!!!

[@lightscameratamara]

Danggg this is a core hitter.

[@iamnicholasstanley]

Facts

[@highpriestess2229]

Thank you! Again.. I love you so much.

[@cynt4234]

Peta, Thank you for your postings they have offered me great insight and provided an incredible out of relief and shifting. With deep gratitude🙏🙏

[@cayenneangel]

Wow this hit home! I love it!!!

[@viktorijad3863]

Can someone explain this? I am listening this for a years, with different relationships with different ppl. I know it is me that is attracting them and l know that l need to change. Namaste 🙏🏻

[@samanthasalazar8685]

What I learned is no one makes you happy you have to fix the inside . You need to rewrite the mind and just love the person for the good . The more you notice the faults more will fallow . Love yourself and write what you want and don’t want and only focus on that and not the past experiences. Good luck 🍀💕

[@Love_Joy_Harmony]

Thank you! ❤❤❤

[@elenajunco9456]

How do we elevate keep elevating to our higher self?

[@stephmiller6354]

Needed to hear this today:)

[@deeb8632]

Can she tell me whether I should just give up on my relationship or not...cuz I just don't know anymore?

[@crystalhr89]

Dee B the fact that your uncertain and question is your answer

[@Alyssa18633]

Dee B sis the fact that you are asking this question already proves that he/she is not the one for u

[@happyhappyjoyjoy1860]

Yes!Focus on yourself.When you learn to truly love yourself then you will find true love.Dont judge him..He gave u a lesson, appreciatte yourself.Every time partner push us out thats sign that we need to be close with ourselves!

[@rachellel.3680]

You are amazing.

[@kelleyfawn8304]

I LOVINGLY LET GO OF A MARRIED MAN THAT I HAVE NOT SEEN OR TALKED TO IN ALMOST A YEAR !!!!

[@yvaz3373]

Wow..the things we get attached to

[@eunice6694]

Confused

[@beverlykamrowski5667]

Seems to happen to me alot and I'm not giving anyone

[@samanthafreesi471]

This is true, but to a certain extent. What if you're dealing with a mentally unstable person?

[@annreiter284]

Which one?

[@amandak2763]

why would you deal with a mentally unstable person?

[@samanthafreesi471]

@@amandak2763 sometimes you don't know because a narcissist will hide it until they have you where they want you.

[@yvaz3373]

Why are choosing to attract a mentally unstable person to your life? And don’t say “it is just happened” because we know by now nothing just happened unless we allowed it.

[@highpriestess2229]

Thank you so much!!! 😁😘❤🐒

[@cprotagonist8375]

I met my twinflame and I loved him but ended it bc he crossed my boundries by yelling at me and not listening or even letting me talk. I thought I did the right thing by me by standing for my self-worth and not excepting that in my life, but maybe I should have just let that go and not ended it and just let that behavior of his happen without putting my happiness on him not doing it? So I should have just left it?

[@MellowMish]

No. You’re always responsible for maintaining your peace. And sometimes that requires walking away from people that don’t have our best interest at heart. Don’t let this video mislead you to think you are required to tolerate verbal abuse.

[@cherylledbetter5909]

Yup!

[@Strwby04girl]

Ahhhhmazing!

[@Carol-sx6rg]

Welll its hard when your 25 years together with young kids and your husband only wants to watch tv. And you have no clue how to come true without trowing a tantrum...😵‍💫 Im just not a person that can ignore people when they don't co operate. He does ignore me 😢 it makes me unhappy because we miss out on so much fun. And i do have my own hobby and interests. But it would be nice to share that with him. But he is hardly interested anymore. I try to ignore my negative thoughts about him. There are good things about him to. But the things i dislike about him seem to over rule. And it drives me nuts. 😢

[@streetglamtv5937]

This one was SO good! ❤️

[@RK-vt6sp]

It Rohit to a friend, or if you have any

[@adamjoyner1004]

👍⭐️👍⭐️like but just feel like saying, the titles of these pieces hit me as just non-subjects...like I'd just say, don't talk that over, just GO FEEL GOOD

[@chilloften]

Keep spidy senses on though.

[@alenagoddess2400]

If you factor in that the majority of people either come from dysfunctional families or it is a learned behavior like narcissism etc. and that in order to get respect from others you have to love and respect yourself. It sounds to me like she's telling women to go out and sleep with anyone and everything will be great!

[@lisaa_7046]

Gold. 💜

[@nonhlanhlangcukwani4845]

Mmmmm I love this

[@sdm4783]

That circle is annoying! Why? Oh why?

[@elizabethgulick9851]

What is the point of even being in a relationship if we are supposed to just be 100% content and happy by ourselves with some invisible source connection that doesn't interact in the physical world verbally or physically. I wish I didn't feel like I need people at all.

[@loryjones7220]

What if you're in harmony but attract the wrong person?

[@demmella]

You cannot be in alignment, in the vortex and attract the wrong person! You attract that which you are a vibrational match to

[@loryjones7220]

@@demmella What if you're in alignment (i.e. peace with self) and not attracting anybody?

[@Puuws]

it might show all kind of things. Like when you are in the flow and you see someone 'ideal', you again lose the focus on that inner connection bc you value connection with another more

[@lynmarrero4302]

Hmmmm well 🙃😶😢🤣 never chase nor beg a man to love u😁🤠 now get on that new horse and ride him until u forget the donkey who just left u 🧐🤓🤪🤪 Yeeeeerrhaahhhhhhaaaahhhhh🥴🐭 trust your subconscious it will replace him😲😗🥰

[@pomwanwu-2925]

Thank you for making me laugh 😆😂

[@Kiran-wx4qj]

😂😂 I needed that

[@jamieburton-oare3537]

💕💕💕💕

[@barrygold9784]

I've caught up a bit, the only thing I can surmise is, adriane is running the show, if this is about ade, she probably has an entourage of 10 men cycling in and out, she was with Brandon but he couldn't keep up, it's either Brandon mentally collapsed under the weight of lies, or brandon is manifesting this whole other world, I was with her before Brandon, and my energy, my read on what was going on didn't match the words she was speaking. She is very damaged and finds solace in being the victim, promoting her business through that victim platform, I don't think she's a victim, she's very deep, very complex, have not been following them at all but Brandon has definitely collapsed, and their world is extremely complex, false and deceiving, she's a very hard worker, very talented, holding an impossible business together, but business and personal has collided, she has recast Brandon's role

[@bobbyshallot6219]

Well, when it's all pretty much His "bright" idea..... it's the Confusion inherent in him deeming his own ideas "wrong" and acting like that was Your "crazy" thinking after you tried to get hin tp think about a while more First. Well, he was right about being wrong anyway. 😁

[@msofficialxo7953]

🙏🌟

[@wmrwmr8970]

I have decided to walk away from my ex wife. She blames me and i blame her but deep down she knows why i have given up. I am not putting up with her bullshit anymore.. I belive she is fucking spneone at the gym. Thats okay i am also talking to other women online. I

[@Puuws]

yeah if you do that, either of you instead of communicating you have already given up on real intimacy and honesty. In the end it will damage the trust you have in your own strength/integrety and you will have to live with you forever. So its important to come clean, at least to yourself and decide if sincerity is important to you or you chalk it off as reactionairy and remain aimless in who you are

[@johntsavaris8804]

🌪📈💕💃🌬⚡️🤑🧞‍♂️🎯🎁🧲♻️💯💰😅

[@wmrwmr8970]

I have decided to walk away from my ex wife. She blames me and i blame her but deep down she knows why i have given up. I am not putting up with her bullshit anymore.. I belive she is fucking spneone at the gym. Thats okay i am also talking to other women online. I

[@jeffreyjewell75]

If you even have to wonder than 100% it’s happening. Move on…