Can Separation From Your Spouse Help Save Your Marriage? | Paul Friedman

[@jaraf107]

My wife of 8 years has shared that she doesn’t love me and wants me to move out to see if she can work in herself. I e agreed to do this but only when we complete the process legally. She does not want a divorce. She would like to see if the separation can help her enough to want to work on our relationship. I’m losing hope. I want to stay married. I love her and our children. I am afraid that Lea Unc would drive a bigger wedge. I didn’t evaluate what was happening a few years ago. I’m at a loss.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

In the video I am pretty sure I suggested the courses, for men and/or women if your marriage is so far gone... themarriagefoundation.org/ you may want to explore it.

[@austinoldham-lr8ot]

Can you do a video on how to become a perfect husband and father

[@jmk2530]

Hi Paul, I’m tired. I’ve been a good wife for about 17 years. I’m an almost 51 yo woman with 2 children under 10. I’m an older mom living afraid everyday because of my age and having small children. My husband is a few years younger than me and now looking back he’s never watched his health- he’s overweight, has high BP, was once hospitalized for it years ago; doesn’t go to the dr or dentist. His horrible oral hygiene has had me stay away from him. Sad part is that I am a healthcare provider and he doesn’t listen to me as a provider or a wife. He has been dismissive of me for 17 years. It just happened again just now. He’s eating all the Christmas cookies I made for the children- I never bake except for the kids for special occasions. I’m afraid he’ll drop dead from a stroke or heart attack and I’ve told him my fear and he says he doesn’t drink or smoke- and ppl will die when they die; even if he changed his diet it won’t add to his life expectancy-- just bs which ends up with me yelling, or ignoring him, etc…. I feel nauseous that I have an uncaring husband like this. I don’t want to leave; I cannot leave either because of finances mainly. What do you suggest?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Without going into my reasons I would suggest the course for women. There is no doubt in my mind that the outer conditions will change when your inner changes are moving forward themarriagefoundation.org/