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@user-xp2bo5tm2h12 күн бұрын
Yes Thank You So Much ❤
@user-xp2bo5tm2h10 күн бұрын
THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤
@bfso963 жыл бұрын
I used to feel uncomfortable when men would look at me at the gym or walking on the st, but now I’m not afraid to stare back. It’s how you take your power back.
@opuimor3 жыл бұрын
But sometimes when you stare back they can get the wrong idea
@weedalicious3 жыл бұрын
@@opuimor ong 😭
@arohachanuwu95043 жыл бұрын
@@opuimor yeah 😭😭😭💀💀
@theamvgirlx3 жыл бұрын
YESSSS.
@bfso963 жыл бұрын
@@opuimor Its the type of look you know. If they still don't get it flip em off haha
@Yolanda_M3 жыл бұрын
This whole video is teaching me how to flirt
@dulcemeeeee Жыл бұрын
😂
@yousufanwer99 Жыл бұрын
😂
@ashwinthapa1 Жыл бұрын
😂
@horustrismegistus101711 ай бұрын
What a staggering attention to detail.
@SharvaniSparkles9 ай бұрын
😂
@HG-qo9cx3 жыл бұрын
What I have learned in life is that seduction/manipulation (Hypnosis) is a great form of self-defense. I have gotten out of some awkward and even dangerous situations with this tool and I will never apologize for being manipulative.
@premiummusic432hz73 жыл бұрын
Well aslong as ur not causing any harm tk others
@KBarraza3 жыл бұрын
Teach us your ways plzzz
@abcdefghijk89253 жыл бұрын
Please elaborate.
@earthintelligent79333 жыл бұрын
I’d rather die than stop being a manipulator
@simplymarilyn52952 жыл бұрын
It's magical!
@frankie94573 жыл бұрын
*realizing my whole life has been a series of people hypnotizing me* 🤔😳
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Well, now you can hypnotize them right back!
@polka.y3 жыл бұрын
Why I never make eye contact! 😂
@backoff91643 жыл бұрын
@@polka.y me also don't make eye contact 😂😂
@mekaylaarchives3 жыл бұрын
random but i love your hair
@yaarandhawa3 жыл бұрын
@@mekaylaarchives one more seducer
@Isabel_Montss2 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna become a confident version of me. Tired of being so passive and awkward around people. I'm evolving tho. And I think eye contact is something so magnificent. I love watching how famous during interviews make eye contact and talk so casually. Plus, your channel is such treasure I found today, thanks a lot ! Edit 2 monts later: I had no idea so many people would reasonate to this feeling... thank you. Also didn't have a clue till now about this likes, but I would like to thank all who did it , because whenever it poped on my Phone somebody liked it I remembered of this comment and this self motivation I still lack somedays s2 ups and downs and that's fine :) Plus I asked out the guy i liked a long time ago but never said a thing, we even had two dates! (Turns out he's even shier) it was a huge step to me because well I am very shy and even being 20 I've never been in a relationship or had anything similar at all after a single first kiss... haha + I am improving at college interaction, making more colleagues yet without changing who I am, I like to be alone at home, take my time too and being a little introverted, recharge, but now if I want to go and say hi to someone, I know that I can do this (and I do this) I feel I wouldn't be thinking a billion times like before :) Thanks for all the messages s2 thanks for the motivation, we can gradually improve our confidence!
@goodmorning23862 жыл бұрын
This is my goal too!! Good luck
@enrybarros742 жыл бұрын
This is awesome, just keep trying, day by day, until you get over it
@yuck66522 жыл бұрын
i'm aiming to be more confident too! We can do this.
@kindacrazyAna142 жыл бұрын
Girlllllll! Lemme tell you I used to have an issue with eye contact but as I grew in my profession (PT) I started learning to make more eye contact with patients. It helps to reassure them and let them know I am talking facts. Now it is my default to look people straight in the eye.
@laeeqabux2 жыл бұрын
Hows it going for you?
@manxis.58843 жыл бұрын
This gon make me a femme fatale now lmao
@Cree_Gist3 жыл бұрын
YES
@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau3 жыл бұрын
@@Cree_Gist For sure. I'm glad I can count on you to try this out. :)
@manxis.58843 жыл бұрын
@@theminizaurus9 lmfao i-🤣
@dbcooper57433 жыл бұрын
Femme fatale me
@endgamez76213 жыл бұрын
lmao saw this in english kinda concerned
@cleok18683 жыл бұрын
Ah, so aesthetically pleasing. This is art. This is informative. This is enchanting, to say the least!
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful comment! Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment here. I really appreciate the show of support. You’re very kind. Take care!
@bangtanwasseo59483 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@dt-lg2oc2 жыл бұрын
@KZbin Guy Well there is a lot more you missed
@jasonuttii75752 жыл бұрын
@KZbin Guy momma called that "minding yer manners"
@lettucepieceof60432 жыл бұрын
I like your name ! Is it Cleopatra or just Cleo ?
@dawnemile74993 жыл бұрын
If you really like someone intense eye contact is natural.
@gison84053 жыл бұрын
I could use a lesson, mommy 👋🏼🤓
@alwaysrighton3 жыл бұрын
If you really like someone, eye contact may feel imposible.
@hafsasalman51253 жыл бұрын
@@willywonka00 lol
@user-s3ts8my2x2 жыл бұрын
@@alwaysrighton fr oml😭
@MehsanJimi2 жыл бұрын
for shy people, its the opposite
@slimemonster37973 жыл бұрын
I am very competitve. If i catch someone looking at me i will look at them until i see their future through their eyes and burn it 😂
@EmyN3 жыл бұрын
LOL 😂
@tenae1233 жыл бұрын
😭 yo
@calianne11603 жыл бұрын
Same
@joudsiline99653 жыл бұрын
Me too 😂😂
@gecet.18283 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@yourroyalhighness62972 жыл бұрын
Step 1: Have confidence Step 2: Practice eye contact Step 3: Practice giving sincere compliments Step 4: Study your own body language and habits. Step 5: Practice subtlety Step 6: Have a long list of topics in your mind for conversations. Step 7: Execute the hypnosis technique. :>
@wayarise2 жыл бұрын
Your comment isn’t vague at all thanks for summarizing this video in 120 words
@KingofScrapMetal2 жыл бұрын
@@wayarise it's not even 50 words
@hans80872 жыл бұрын
Step 6 is gonna be tough for me, does anyone have an advice for me there? The other steps I can fix no problem but step 6 is gonna be impossible for me, and I need help there
@user-xf7mu7ub9d2 жыл бұрын
@@hans8087 in my opinion the best way to do the step 6 is to be a good listener. And when I say "a good listener" I mean that you're going to carefully listen to everything the other person is saying: why are they choosing these words instead of those ones? what are their hobbies and passions? what do they like? This is going to give you a huge advantage because by doing this you're going to know how that person is feeling, what kind of person they are and what kind of conversation topics you could talk about with them without potentially making it boring. This is just my opinion, I don't know if it's going to help you.
@hans80872 жыл бұрын
@@user-xf7mu7ub9d Thank you! And don't worry about it, with this advice you helped me understand how to socialize more than my pervious two therapists combined lol. So thanks a lot for that as well
@1990MCV-t1h3 жыл бұрын
Seduction, manipulation. Either way. If it gets me what I want and Doesnt hurt anyone I’m rolling with it.
@streetkombat60883 жыл бұрын
I enjoying the doing the same as well beautiful.
@MAN90272 жыл бұрын
unless it's used on you hypocrite
@1990MCV-t1h2 жыл бұрын
@@MAN9027 id see it for what it is. Ain’t you got some hinges to lube?
@amarson23222 жыл бұрын
lmao ok vanesa
@user024063 жыл бұрын
my next crush needs to watch out 👀
@Bella-lk5lg3 жыл бұрын
Haha
@noraeld50203 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm ready for this shit.
@ghyslainestleonce17433 жыл бұрын
I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@elleakenya3 жыл бұрын
😂 😂 😂 😂
@goldensilence58413 жыл бұрын
333
@simplymarilyn52953 жыл бұрын
I'm a little shy so if I notice an attractive guy looking at me, I immediately look away! It's going to take me coming out of my comfort zone.....But there's one way and that's to jump in w both feet!! Like they say..."practice makes perfect." Thank-you so much for this video♡
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! No harm in practicing something new; you might even like it! Best of luck to you. Take care!
@deathdoesntcareifyourcloth73242 жыл бұрын
It always seduces me and my partner when we just stare deeply into eachother eyes it's so intense and have such a deep connection. It really is extremely powerful 😊
@telleroflies43732 жыл бұрын
666
@Xin4t0r2 жыл бұрын
@@telleroflies4373 why did u wrote that number? xD
@ka71262 жыл бұрын
@@Xin4t0r Her username?
@rdoodoo2021 Жыл бұрын
I'm so jealous. I can't have a partner. I could never look in somebody's eyes. It's terrifying and I avoid it. My parents neglected me and I don't trust people. I'm 56 and can't connect to people. I'm so glad you're happy and I wish you the best. ✌️🕊️
@rdoodoo2021 Жыл бұрын
@@Xin4t0r Just another troll looking for attention. Old as time.
@thatgirlmaria55573 жыл бұрын
Crush: talking about something Me: staring at their eyes Crush:…what are you doing Me: shhhh I’m trying to hypnotize you
@earthintelligent79333 жыл бұрын
It’s the, “what are you doing” for me😂😂😂😂😂 Like girl I learned that from KZbin😭😭😭
@retikybloomberg20292 жыл бұрын
Creppy
@sagthenaturalsiren59972 жыл бұрын
@@retikybloomberg2029 *Creepy
@abigaillll._2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
@sandyavalos33052 жыл бұрын
@@retikybloomberg2029 😂
@blood0fthelamb3 жыл бұрын
nah cause ur just teaching me how to become a better manipulator😭😭
@Amanda-CNH3 жыл бұрын
😂☠💯
@Jaunty_jules7 ай бұрын
That's the point doorknob
@wheathusk24993 жыл бұрын
Wow I just realised I have been doing this for last 10 years. I have always had a power over people. They tell me I'm charismatic and my eyes are really nice. I think its possible that I have been doing this whole of my life without realising. I used to look average but had a lot of suitors with time I turned attractive as I groomed myself better and felt confident and with time I got a lot of attention and had an almost 95% rate or more of getting attention from people I personally liked. Now off late I have gained a lot of weight and feel shit but I do have great people skills.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Hello! Thank you for watching and commenting. It definitely sounds like you’ve used these techniques, almost unknowingly, many times. I’m glad to hear it was usually very successful for you! I’m sorry, however, to hear that you’re not feeling particularly well as of late, and that perhaps your confidence and body-image have taken a hit. I understand weight gain feels heavy in more ways than one. Try hard to remember the power and ability you have, and the wonderful things you’ve accomplished and will accomplish. Incoming cliché alert: You’re more than a body. You still have those great social skills! Take care of yourself. I wish you well.
@bufo58583 жыл бұрын
This is me. I am you
@ashutoshacharya5439 Жыл бұрын
I too have a friend crazily charming and charismatic as f**k When I ask him ho do you do that He always reply with something that doesn't make really sense to me But once he told me that if he locks eye on someone he thinks is important and intersting to him, he have the ability to talk to them without talking and even with 10mt distance If he wants to send a sexual signal to someone he saw for the first time he makes sure it's 100% sexual If he wants to send a respectful signal he makes sure it's 100% respectful nothing else And at the same time he make sure that he is the Lion in the crowd who is humble as well I wish I had that power but I don't regret cuz I also have some powers If it's respect to someone he
@wheathusk2499 Жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction Wonderful words! Thank you for your message it really resonated with me. We are indeed timeless beings inside a meat suit floating through the universe 🥰
@totoitutucoco Жыл бұрын
@@ashutoshacharya5439 your friend already sounds so attractive ❤️ 🔥
@sidrakamal35952 жыл бұрын
Takeaway: maintain eye contact, shift eye contact to something you want, compliment, say how much you have enjoyed with them and want to stay; praise the aspect that you have to gain
@mehakverma70432 жыл бұрын
I work at walmart as a teenager. I used to be a pretty shy person and wouldn't be able to even look at someone's face (especially during quarantine). But ever since working in retail, I have found it so easy to look everyone straight to their eyes and proudly help them.
@marialareinabirtas2514 Жыл бұрын
kind
@zzzzz26213 жыл бұрын
I just know the person who made this video is a PRO at seducing people😭😭
@alexandriageiler6873 жыл бұрын
I always get told my eyes are my best feature, so I’m about to use this advice and become unstoppable 😂😂
@nalaa96183 жыл бұрын
This is just teaching us how to be a Scorpio
@BeckyMJ963 жыл бұрын
As a Scorpio i'm honored 😂
@miagolez70593 жыл бұрын
Hhahaha as a scorpio this is so true a lot of people comment about my eyes so much 😂
@reinazreik31373 жыл бұрын
Same here 😂
@heidijay59023 жыл бұрын
I am a Scorpio (not that I care for astrology), I guess what you’re saying is I didn’t really need to watch this video.😂😂😂
@gugu5323 жыл бұрын
Lol...m not scorpio but i have mu saturn, uranus and neptune in scorpio...but i have been more of a scorpio all my life...even wen it is not my primary sign
@Bob-cq1vv3 жыл бұрын
This is very common for dancers working in stripclubs. I also observed this behaviour from managers in restaurants while talking to customers :)
@returnoftheromans67262 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that the person to maintain and follow through with eye contact till the other looks away is usually established as the dominant, alpha, or boss of the situation. More confident people are also able to maintain eye contact for longer periods of time, while others will immediately look way, because the "alpha" will perhaps read their true thoughts and feel exposed. I have been on both sides of the coin. And I usually tend to maintain eye contact with people who I want to impress, or who I like.
@swavnasahoo7113 жыл бұрын
I wont look into the eyes of people who are deceitful, trained that eye contact is a "power move". Eye contact with an uplifting presence tends to completely shift and elevate ur own current state. So I would say, dont fake it. It's a message to urself and giving the gaze only to the people or person u are genuinely into. It's ok to awkward.
@didijy80073 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@mohammedyafih96563 жыл бұрын
Really?come on man, Grow up ,be better
@adityarodrigues22663 жыл бұрын
@@ronaknanda6175 dude what gave you the great idea that this was an intellectual comment to make.
@katcvm3 жыл бұрын
Eye contact is so beautiful, from absolutely anyone, not just s/o way.
@GMS9193 жыл бұрын
This video is tremendous. It's not cringe like most things on KZbin about this topic, it is not reductive in that it restricts it to romantic advancements, and it's very well explained. It doesn't go to the typical common places, or opinions about the topic. It's original!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
@GMS9193 жыл бұрын
Where can I pay for more? 😅 No really keep going and open a patreon
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Such a wonderful compliment to send my way. I’m truly flattered. Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you taking the time to comment your support and share your opinions. I am very new to KZbin and making videos, so this was really encouraging to read. Your comment brightened my day. Take care!
@GMS9193 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction I'm so glad it did!! The video is really good. It brings something new to the table, much needed in the seduction realm. We all had our fair share (or unfair lol) of pickup artists 🤮 I like it because first of all is something subtle and a lot of people aren't aware of the gaze - the eyes. And second of all because you manage to put an invisible "vague" thing into words and most people disregarded it from the start, because of its "vagueness" and "not measurable". And another amazing thing you didn't do (aha) is bringing up scientific bullshit of studies, and so on, to this. You brought experience, your opinions, and observations. Very Well Done. Thank you so muchhhhh 🤗❤️
@abrahamcastillo22993 жыл бұрын
It’s such a shame this channel doesn’t post at all or frequently.. this channel shares a ton of incredibly helpful information and that was just by one video alone. I put this into practice (looking people in the eyes) and I was treated with more respect and I definitely got good ladies reactions 😬
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad you’ve been able to put these techniques into practice, and moreover that you’ve actually found some success! It’s a fun process, especially comparing how you’re treated when you neglect eye contact versus when you actively use it. I appreciate your comment and interest in the state of this channel. I will be making more videos and uploading more over time. I have many ideas, and have put pen to paper countless times, but I’m still by no means a “KZbinr” and certainly not able to make this a full-time gig. This terrain is still quite new to me, and I made my first video last year all in good fun. I never imagined people would actually find it or be interested enough to stick around for more! I was just testing the waters. Recently, I’ve been receiving a lot more comments and seen my viewership steadily increase in ways I never anticipated (but sometimes daydreamed about). It’s exciting, and I’m eager to share more of my passion project with a community warm and welcoming enough to watch it, but it will take time on my end. Thank you for watching the few videos I do (presently) have and for commenting here! I appreciate the support. Take care.
@abrahamcastillo22993 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction I’m telling you this right now; KZbin is the sort of thing that whatever amount of effort you put out is what you’ll get back. I highly suggest you take this into consideration. The value that this channel holds is the type of stuff people want to subscribe to. I can certainly see this channel getting big of you just put in more effort I promise you that.
@abrahamcastillo22993 жыл бұрын
You have a promising opportunity; you just need to grab it.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
@@abrahamcastillo2299 I appreciate your advice. It is obviously coming from a supportive and compassionate place. Unfortunately, I don’t think many people are graced with this type of advice when they most need it, so thank you. You have me feeling greatly inspired to create more, and I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to write all that you have here! Your words are more than a compliment, they’re the gentle nudge of encouragement only someone who really cares and believes in someone else would give; I appreciate that deeply. You, and the people like you that I’ve had the pleasure of speaking with in the comments so far, are finding me at what I’m sure is the most vital stage in my journey. I’m grateful to everyone who has recently viewed and commented, because those e-mail notifications suddenly reminded me of that “KZbin thing” I’d almost let slip away. I hope your life’s grandest goals and passions are met with the same kindness, support, and honest advice you’ve passed along to me. We need more people like you.
@ms.chauhan14353 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction dear you are so polite and humble Love you dear ❤️🙏
@dogguyful3 жыл бұрын
The narrator in this video has such a beautiful and hypnotic voice.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@rasheemthebestfirstone32743 жыл бұрын
Definitely uses what they’re teaching
@sathidevi66573 жыл бұрын
So interesting.I am very fond of gazing at eyes,intense as well as very cold eyes.I visit prisons.I gaze at eyes.The reaction is a flood of tears.Your description is another level.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you found it interesting. Thanks for watching!
@charmingyoutuber24083 жыл бұрын
Probably from fear.
@beac82386 ай бұрын
@@charmingyoutuber2408from feeling seen. eye contact is connection. and many people experience fear at such, feeling worthless of it.
@Mariadgv3 жыл бұрын
The beat in the back sounds like national anthem by Lana del Rey
@lucy__v3 жыл бұрын
lol no it doesn’t have u actually heard national anthem? i would say it sounds much more like wicked games by the weeknd
@jillianbernas51273 жыл бұрын
Of course you’re watching this video
@erinr20263 жыл бұрын
emaline they prob meant the demo that’s popular on tiktok
@stargirl84443 жыл бұрын
Red white blue
@maurasilva99243 жыл бұрын
@@jillianbernas5127 ahahahhaah this makes so much sense!
@zenabahmed42213 жыл бұрын
I love this video ! I’m so glad I stumbled upon it. One thing I do struggle with is maintaining eye contact with someone I find attractive because of the intimidation but now I am going to use it for my advantage
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you found the video useful! I’m excited to hear that you’re feeling empowered to make eye contact and use it to your advantage now. It will take time and practice to integrate this into your interactions, but you’ll gain so much from extending yourself out of your comfort zone. Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!
@Lord_Winston Жыл бұрын
If you're looking all the people in their eyes will take you down mentally nowadays are many negative people
@soviaah Жыл бұрын
The narrator, the visuals, the pace, the choice of music everything about this video is calming for some reason
@misac45063 жыл бұрын
Not saying this in a braggy way but i have pretty doll eyes, and people often tell me how to use them, then this video came up on my seuggestions, and then i found out what they meant.
@kyipasbeautyminati41723 жыл бұрын
Mine too... Everybody says i have big beautiful eyes.. My husband loves my eyes
@TaeKat3 жыл бұрын
Same! Well, my eyes are small and almond shaped but everyone compliments them so now I’ll actually utilize them for the better 🥲
@sevithasheasam5173 жыл бұрын
I am always complimented on my eyes....and I just realized I seem to use these seduction techniques without even knowing. Eye contact is somethin I know when and how to use powerfully...and now I realise it might be one of the reasons I intimidate some people...damn. It felt great to learn bout this though. Thanks a lot♡
@mistresskate9799 Жыл бұрын
Yes, yes, yes! Most communication is non-verbal body language and much can be said with the eyes! Loved this! 💋
@tistadasgupta52653 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing, I'm so grateful to youtube algorithm that I stumbled upon this greatness. I want more of such videos. Please make more and post it.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. As a new creator here, I really appreciate your comment of encouragement and support. These types of comments are always very motivating. Thank you!
@nemanjanikolic6363 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction can you make more videos about manipulation with eyes pleeasee,or maybe with voive,whichever you choose it would be good.Thanks in advance.
@13Maria.Cortez13 Жыл бұрын
Seduce with your heart, mind, body, soul, spirit, aura, light beam, vibe, energy, frequency, vibration, power, beauty, wisdom, knowledge, authenticity, rawness, realness, rareness, etc. Not just with your beautiful, gorgeous, hypnotized, mesmerized irresistible temptation seduction eyes. 👀👁 no evil eye 🧿
@christinedozier2154 Жыл бұрын
Loooooove this
@supersucks Жыл бұрын
Needless to say, I used to do this to my friends and professors. I would hold eye contact when they’re doing lectures and squint my eyes whenever they’re saying something that I don’t like. I was able to get a higher grade and would come off as charismatic.
@extea5416 Жыл бұрын
Doesn't squinting eyes signal disproval?
@supersucks10 ай бұрын
@@extea5416Yes it means disapproval. It would intimidate them or make them question their stance or what they’re doing, making them question themselves. With that, my expressions would linger in their minds making them think about me more-and them wanting for my approval subconsciously
@clea2943 жыл бұрын
That timid pleasure you get when you stumble upon a treasure of a channel. Fabulous work !
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Hello, Cléa! Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your comment. Take care!
@dusk59563 жыл бұрын
I feel like people fall infatuated with me too quickly😂 but I do think I have good social skills and others just don’t feel confident with eye contact, and so I just thought that made me stand out.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. If you’re confident enough to make eye contact with anyone, especially amongst people who usually don’t initiate it themselves, you’ll surely stand out. Keep at it! Thanks for commenting. Take care!
@riksinha53 жыл бұрын
Exactly, I never understood why people shy away with eye contact. So, I have to initiate with me. Plus point, my fierce hazel eyes with sharp dark eyebrows really hypnotise the people I am talking to. 😂😂😂😂
@dusk59563 жыл бұрын
Rik Sinha oh you’re so dreamy😅
@AnnaNersesyanlight3 жыл бұрын
So this is what true diplomats and politicians do!!!!
@Poodle_Gun Жыл бұрын
I'm going to break this down as I see it. 1. Initiate and hold eye contact 2. Break from eye contact to play with your hair or something on your person 3. Talk from your own perspective "I". Remember that your observations are only from your perspective, not his or anyone else's. 4. Cultivate an heir of *gratitude* and goodwill 5. Be vulnerable I might have missed one! 😅
@Poodle_Gun Жыл бұрын
The one I missed: reward with compliments
@Poodle_Gun Жыл бұрын
Second one: get him alone.
@steviexo7238 Жыл бұрын
Every man I’ve ever done this to is on a whim and it always progresses the relationship. Now this guy stops at my desk twice a day. I tried to back off w my gaze but I did it again and it started all over. The power is extremely addictive
@RainesWilliams3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed watching this video and realized I seduce on the daily. I get that I’m a flirt from my friends often but I never understood what that meant exactly (and so I’d deflect saying “I’m a Libra” 🤷🏾♀️ )until now. I make eye contact whenever I have a conversation with someone and also have. I take pride in this characteristic, it’s me!
@Penelope4163 жыл бұрын
I remember watching the Turner Classic Movie channel when I was a kid and I remember seeing how large Bette Davis eyes were. I remember seeing her in a movie for the first time and thought how big and expressive her eyes were and I remember how beautiful and charismatic she was. I had been in love with classic/black and white films every since then!
@thatguydownthestreet80363 жыл бұрын
The way you describe it seducing sounds alot like manipulation, and I thought it was alot more related to flirting.
@kireidoll3 жыл бұрын
It is manipulation. But manipulation is not only used for bad, it's something everyone does at one point or another.
@ayadarling_3 жыл бұрын
Well, it can be considered as manipulation. After all, seducing someone is manipulating them into liking you.
@agathachris97223 жыл бұрын
Manipulation can be good or bad
@user-qb4on2qm7z3 жыл бұрын
You can choose to be manipulated or to manipulate. Its unavoidable.
@earthintelligent79332 жыл бұрын
@@user-qb4on2qm7z fact. And I choose to be manipulator and seductive
@davistrent16253 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making these. I was seduced by a con artist, not ever understanding the things she was doing to me until it was too late. She psychologically tortured me with drugs and stole all of my information. It's something I would not wish on my worst enemy. Bringing these techniques to light is incredibly important. And you use excellent conciseness in your videos. 🙏
@mentalcat95293 жыл бұрын
also using we instead of I is even more powerful...we have fun together, we... makes the other feel part of something
@c.g.443 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing. I have NEVER ever ever (!!!) watched the same video 5 times in a row. This cobcept is amazing: the music, black and white old movies, concise & short teachings, your voice over. You have a extremely refreshing glance on the topic, that is nowhere to be seen on youtube. Stick to this concept, I truly believe that you will form a great community in no time. About the topic of the video, I have been practicing the 'intense eye contact' this past year and it was extremely effective (sometimes even a bit too much because men interpret it as a sign of interest when it is not (how to deal with that but still gaining connections/favors?)). But I didn't know that it related to hypnotism, that I have been practicing on myself. I love to see these two subjects merge. I will totally implement the suggestive phrases, starting tomorrow. Thank you for doing such an amazing video!
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Hello, Céline! Thank you so much for watching and leaving me this sweet comment! I really appreciate your feedback. I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and that you’ve found success using similar practices over the course of your life. It’s amazing what simple eye contact, gestures, and body language can do, isn’t it? It sounds like you’ve put this to good use! As for men assuming you have romantic interest in them, I’d say there’s probably very little you can do to control their reactions in that way. Sometimes, the assumed interest can get you more of what you want (if you play along for awhile), but this can be dangerous, so I hardly recommend feeding into the wrong ideas, especially if you’re aware it’s already been misinterpreted. Acting aloof to someone’s obvious romantic interest in you only works until they make formal advances, then you can’t ignore it anymore and it’s probably better if you don’t. It can make everything so much more uncomfortable in the long-run. I just establish my boundaries early and stick to them unwaveringly, and I always tell other women to do the same. Stay safe out there! Thanks again for watching and commenting. I am so grateful for your support on my little channel. Take care!
@c.g.443 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction Boundaries, got it. It comes so easy to me with people who are my age. But anytime I have to deal with older people, I feel like a child again... I just have to remember that I am a 20 years-old adult now and that it is okay to say no. Thank you for taking the time to reply. Inputs from experienced people are always valuable. Big hugs from France !
@onelittledropintheocean2 жыл бұрын
Use this skill wisely because you are playing with innocent people's feelings ... Even if you don't care about that and only care about yourself, what goes around comes around ✨👀✨
@visible56322 жыл бұрын
One little drop in ocean -- meaning for you this sentence?
@onelittledropintheocean2 жыл бұрын
@@visible5632 It is a metaphor to describe KZbin as an ocean and we are the drops of water that make up that ocean ... Every little drop equally matters for without them, there would be no ocean.
@benzosiara2 жыл бұрын
i used to do that a lot with my teachers. when i wanted a higher grade for the semester, id go and act nice and say things like "i really care about this subject, since its one of my favourites. id really like to get the chance to get a higher grade, i could do an extra project or retake the last test, if that could help". this way, the teacher wluld give me an extra assignment he didnt even plan to have anyone do. saying i love his lessons or the subject was also flattering for him. another tip is to lower your head and look up at that person, it makes them feel like theyre in power and, ironically, they might listen to your suggestions and use them as their own ideas, as if theyre telling you what to do and not doing what YOU want them to do.
@weirdo46532 жыл бұрын
I practice this a lot in the mirror, but at the time to use it I always fail and look like a maniac
@harmoniousandtranquilhannah3 жыл бұрын
wow! this is so powerful! thank you for the tips! i’m practicing looking into the eyes of my childhood teddy bear and myself in the mirror.
@madeline15942 жыл бұрын
NOTES: Keep FOCUS on you and your eyes occasionally shift focus on something other than your eyes (still you) to avoid FATIGUE. point out something the person is doing or is making you feel (preferably in the form of a compliment) to make them feel comfortable this is how you will LEAD. EMBED COMMANDS in. the form of i statements. plant (multiple) ideas like seeds, compliment an action to reinforce said action.
@Nanitamochi2 жыл бұрын
Everytime I see the guy I’m dating do something nice or clever I say “that was so smart of you, you’re very good at this” hence him buying tickets for a movie for us online, he smiles very happy about the little simple things and does it again of course
@amyj.49922 жыл бұрын
This is exactly how I get my jobs, and land my interviews with professional etiquette and charm. Subtly, is everything
@vague91943 жыл бұрын
So excited to see future uploads from this channel. These videos are absolute gold! informative, well-researched and educational, plus the example phrases and scenes really help
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you liked the video and found some of my examples helpful! Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!
@tsundoku973 жыл бұрын
Subscribed immediately! It was about time the ladies started talking about this ....love the vibe too!
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for subscribing! I’m glad you enjoyed the video, too. Take care!
@Justcallmepey3 жыл бұрын
I am OBSESSED with this channel 😩
@sujatak93423 жыл бұрын
Can't wait to learn what your channel holds. I'm excited .
@eeaotly3 жыл бұрын
Subscribed. This channel looks like a retro version for "Charisma on Command" channel. Nice to see so different approaches on quite similar subjects.
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Hello, Cristiana! Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and especially for subscribing! I’ll be sure to check out more of the “Charisma on Command” channel, as I’d never heard of it before. At a glance, it already looks like a very fun educational channel I might enjoy. There’s so many channels on here, I’m always pleasantly surprised to find one that’s new to me. Thanks for introducing me to this one! Take care, and thanks again for subscribing!
@itscris013 жыл бұрын
Omg another Cristiana
@MoonLightOnWater13 жыл бұрын
Humbly, I have had this ability for years....but I choose to use this “power” only for good😜.
@dollyingaround3 жыл бұрын
I did this a lot with this guy I used to like. in the hallways every time it felt like everything was in slow motion & we were the only ones there.
@MimiTheHamster3 жыл бұрын
I’m a Scorpio rising darling, my eyes are already piercing and hypnotic.
@gison84053 жыл бұрын
If you say so
@strikerron22522 жыл бұрын
Calm down... You are embarrassing your self
@thisnigerianlovesdrinkingg4522 Жыл бұрын
Then why are you here?
@hg55073 жыл бұрын
Ive read up on seduction, it really is a craft.. This is the cherry on top. Thank you :)
@lifewithlay11523 жыл бұрын
I love how I knew this w/out watching this video. I knew there was a name for it. Literally the other day I got frustrated cuss long story short I rubbed my eyes while I had my contacts in & it made lines in my eyes so now I’m upset cuss my eyes aren’t pearly clear white 😭🌚🌚🌚
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Oh, no! I’m so sorry this happened and that your eyes were scratched by your contacts! That sounds so painful. I hope everything heals quickly and looks more normal soon. Take care of yourself! Best wishes.
@oliviasnow96623 жыл бұрын
Law of attraction
@101Linkisawesome Жыл бұрын
The information here is better than some $500 pick-up-artist's courses or social dynamics books. And very practical to boot. Will we ever see more of these? Do we even need more? I don't know. The brevity and how information packed these vids are really amazes me. Even down to the structure and pacing of the videos also demonstrating some of what they're teaching, it's all so well done. I'd fully understand and respect if they think what they uploaded is all that needs to be said on The Means of Seduction. I want to know more about the people behind the channel though, even if they don't make more content on this subject.
@kinseydesignsbrands3 жыл бұрын
Love this breakdown! Your voice is gorgeous. Subscribed! ❤️
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely compliment. Thank you! Thank you for watching, commenting, AND subscribing as well. Take care!
@kinseydesignsbrands3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction You're very welcome! You take care! Looking forward to hearing more from you!
@MicheleKaiser-io2dx9 ай бұрын
Very good advice and comments. Had to learn this fast when I became a bartender when going to school and really needed to make good money. This ability served me very well in the following 50 yrs.
@leviAckerman09103 жыл бұрын
The first 10 minutes video that hypnotized me in believing that it ended up in less than 5 minutes.
@152studio2 жыл бұрын
Loving the content, man. Don't stop doing what you're doing. I would like to talk to you about translate your videos to PT-BR. I'm sure a lot of people here will love your content. 🇧🇷
@itsmanzano2 жыл бұрын
Se tu conseguir vai ser irado
@sunseraph19193 жыл бұрын
In the time of Corona, when all I have is my eyes, this is actually perfect. 👌🏼
@NoName-zb1gm Жыл бұрын
If you can stir up someone's emotions with eye contact that's a good start to a relationship because eye contact is the purest way to get and feel attraction for another person.
@ballsacky101 Жыл бұрын
I used this on somebody and they passed out; my rizz is despicable
@Goo_Gle.4 ай бұрын
Same same. I look right in their eyes n they just passed out. My arms around their neck was a really nice touch. Don't know why they were screaming they couldn't breathe tho.
@user-asfh2ubiv5dh2 жыл бұрын
The aim of Seduction 2:50 Focus 3:25 Fatigue 3:55
@Shellfrfr Жыл бұрын
I tried this on my manager she smiled and gave me more hours😂
@angelledelacruz19913 жыл бұрын
I do this unintentionally i guess. They say i have nice eyes, a girl actually told me i give eye contact when talking and she said she likes it. I always became friends with people, but it's not because i hypnotized them because people still like me on chat or social media. It's just a bonus. I always get boys and men to profess their feelings at some point. I had this classmate who i play Mobile games with and we're close and fun so we play a staring game and he ended up falling in love with me. I actually like him, but i was in a relationship at the time. I think i can use this video in work interviews, reporting and business. Oh, yes, i think i used this unintentionally at a delegation in my school as a president, we won best company 😂
@mizdani3 жыл бұрын
You should also make podcasts with this kind of content! So good
@joeceleron50223 жыл бұрын
Stuff like this actually make me freeze in real life with math algorithms floating around my head
@Self-taughtJay Жыл бұрын
Saying "I need a raise or you should love me" sounds aggressive. Nobody wants to face a tiger. Every feared leader ended up dead. Subbed cuz I love deep thinking.
@marmar13363 жыл бұрын
Oh, so that's what is called. I've been hypnotizing people my whole life 😅
@gugu5323 жыл бұрын
Same...i am so comfortable looking into ppls eyes while talking whereas they start feeling uncomfortable
@lenn35543 жыл бұрын
As a Scorpio rising this is something I can do naturally 😩
@sarahcam10853 жыл бұрын
i’m a scorpio rising and a leo sun !
@JessiTheBestiGaming3 жыл бұрын
Scorpio Pluto in the first house. I always get compliments on my eyes 😈😈😈
@stephstephanie3033 жыл бұрын
Same! 😂😆☺️
@wahibdrief82943 жыл бұрын
we scorpios are natural born seducers
@SonyaKhanOfficial3 жыл бұрын
Lilith in Scorpio here🥴
@ThriftThreadThrive3 жыл бұрын
It would be nice to see one on physical touch
@rasheemthebestfirstone32743 жыл бұрын
Yup
@maricarurmeneta621610 ай бұрын
There are studies that too much eye contact can make you appear weird or rude. There are people who don't like prolong eye contact because that feels uncomfortable. You can have eye contact but don't over do it, make sure it's still natural and genuine, because they will uncomfortable or they will think you're a psychopath.
@arlet1013 жыл бұрын
I am so happy I found this channel ! Can't wait to see more from you ❤️
@hercrownalignedllc75302 жыл бұрын
God knew I would be too powerful if I had this skill naturally, so He led me to this video.
@kaitlyngerrie2389 Жыл бұрын
order of execution: •engage in conversation with the intent of attaining someone or something. •use the principle of hypnosis -focus, fatigue, pacing and leading- to attain said objective. •use eye contact, confident and unwavering, to bring and hold the focus on you. •use action, touch, or materials to shift the focus from your eyes specifically to something else about or on you. •make an observation to bring attention to something they’re doing well, or something you’re looking to attain (subtlety) in the form of a compliment to plant ideas about willingly giving you what you want. •frame your words around your intentions and what you enjoy about their current actions (listening, reliability, good work environment, possibility of company growth, ect.) as positive reinforcement, and encouragement of new ways to get that approval from you -by giving you what you want-
@BaebiDoll2 жыл бұрын
"the seed of need" i like that ♡
@kurosawagin2 жыл бұрын
This video brings sexiness a whole new level ✨
@deloto80042 жыл бұрын
Interesting. I think that I may be naturally seductive. I don't believe in trying to "make" people do what I want them to do. I encourage good behaviors with praise while having strong boundaries and directly communicate if they have done something that is unacceptable to me. It is their choice how they want to behave, but if they want to have a close and/or good relationship with me then they know that they have to choose to treat me well. I never thought of this as being related to seduction. I will be mindful of this in the future.
@srijitasaha143 жыл бұрын
I just realised that I have been doing this all along. Now I wonder, if what I have is really for me or is it just the result of seductive manipulation?
@kinseydesignsbrands3 жыл бұрын
Haha same! And I’ve been studying communication, magick and influence for years, and realize it’s all connected. I’ve noticed that there’s such a negative charge with the word manipulation, but as a result of my studies, I now believe it’s a neutral term, only positive or negative by the intent of the “manipulator.” It literally just means to shape and mold, and that can be a good, fun thing, but it’s often more deceptive because the intent is unclear or hidden from the one being manipulated.
@armandovidal4462 жыл бұрын
I statements and bringing it back You with a small slick smile at every pause and piercing eyes would have them twirling at your every word.
@yqrose3 жыл бұрын
I been doing this since a kid LOL works every time though😉
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Excellent! You know your power. That’s a real blessing. Take care!
@yqrose3 жыл бұрын
@@TheMeansofSeduction of course it’s probably the most important power to acknowledge and perfect.🤍you as well!
@vijikumar20883 жыл бұрын
Thank you it’s very informative truly mentioned that eyes are the gateway to the soul . Agree with u
@Princessmimiii3 жыл бұрын
my problem is i only do this when im flirting or attracted to someone .when i talk to strangers im not interested in i cant keep eye contact but when im flirting im so good at being a flirt
@rimshajehangir33953 жыл бұрын
Your voice comforted me in ways I can't explain
@Hijadelviento93 жыл бұрын
My Venus in Scorpio loves this lol eye contact is definitely a love language for me 🤷🏾♀️❤️😂
@francosanson9623 Жыл бұрын
I watched this video a couple years ago. Didn't even remember it existed until it just popped again in my recommended videos. I had a deep realization: all the techniques I use (or have been using for the last years) on the matter, were subconsciously planted in my head by this video years ago. I became good in this and always knew what to do in seduction, but never knew how I knew it. This video is the key to that explanation. I hope you realize how powerful this video is, given my experience. Absolute quality content here.
@blisswkc33443 жыл бұрын
Thank y'all so much dearest 🌹 Y'all such an inspiration 🥰 Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖 Be Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈
@TheMeansofSeduction3 жыл бұрын
Much love and many good wishes to you.
@finnkuudere35162 жыл бұрын
I hope someone will reply with their thoughts about my comment. First thank you @The Means of Seduction I stumbled on your video and it was enlightening. Now my IRL scenario that occurred to me. It was between my future wife and I and I didn't realize what was happening. I will try and be brief. We had just met and were at a dance. She was very assertive (Confident) which led me to taking a break from her outside the venue, I was star gazing and gathering my thoughts. She "found" and followed me and we talked mainly about the music and the stars but she kept seeking my eyes. (Focus?) I showed her a star and she claimed she couldn't see it unless she looked down my arm (Fatigue? or Pacing and Leading?) while I pointed which we did and she immediately turned around and regained eye contact (Focus?) and talked a little more about how we should go inside and dance more (Fatigue? Pacing and Leading?). She continued to look into my eyes (Focus?)and she used an "I" statement, (Embedding Commands) "I will follow you where ever you go so let's go inside." Before the stargazing I was jittery after the star gazing I was relaxed thinking, "WTH let's go with this." I don't really believe in Hollywood mad scientist hypnotism but I do believe in suggestion. What's interesting is her saying, "I will follow you..." gave no alarm bells in me but I've retold the story and others respond with, "red flag!"