Use this ONE QUESTION to declutter your entire house!

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The Minimal Mom

The Minimal Mom

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@courtneyannephd2618
@courtneyannephd2618 2 жыл бұрын
My farther in law worked for Toyota and my husband explained that they use “5 whys” to problem solve- so if there’s an issue, they ask “why did this happen?” 5 times to get to the root of the issue. I’ve applied this to my house and it usually comes down to having too much stuff. For example: why are my mornings so chaotic? Because breakfast and lunch take forever to make. Why? Because I can’t find the utensils or ingredients. Why? Because they are in a stuffed drawer or a too-full fridge? Why? Because we have too much stuff in them? Why? Because I thought I needed these things and I don’t! It has been so insightful to see how having too much can be the root cause of soooo many problems!
@alicecarroll2007
@alicecarroll2007 2 жыл бұрын
Very insightful-thanks for sharing!
@keerthi9907
@keerthi9907 2 жыл бұрын
True.. thanks for taking time and texting in detail…❣️
@sk8oasis788
@sk8oasis788 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@breannaneville4332
@breannaneville4332 Жыл бұрын
I love this!
@AcreWood-ns5gt
@AcreWood-ns5gt Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is a great concept!
@aprilyeno1919
@aprilyeno1919 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t step down from that soapbox!!! That is your tool and your passion. Thank you, Dawn, you challenge me to go further and be better every day. Energy, resources, stamina, are all finite. You call us to treasure and protect them for what is truly important and possible. ❤God bless! ❤️🙏🏻
@franmcdonald4702
@franmcdonald4702 2 жыл бұрын
I, for one, need to hear this more than once. it is encouraging and takes me to deeper levels each time I listen.
@juliatepe5760
@juliatepe5760 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! I'm happy with the progress that I've made, still working on it a little at a time. Thank you so much for the encouragement Dawn!
@graceherrmann4784
@graceherrmann4784 2 жыл бұрын
I need this❤
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you April! This means more than you know 🥰
@beckyt7057
@beckyt7057 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t tell you how much you inspire me! I am getting a very small 640 sf house, so I am in the process of paring down everything in my current 2,000 sf house. WHAT A JOB!!!! Thanks to you and the wealth of knowledge you share with us my job is easier. I ask myself the questions and make a very quick decision about items all the time now. I love your videos, and your family is just precious!
@brendagomez5726
@brendagomez5726 2 жыл бұрын
My question is 'If I moved (to a different house), would I take it with me? Yes- Keep it No- Say good bye to it☺️
@ameliat8981
@ameliat8981 2 жыл бұрын
I recently got my husband on board with this argument. Pretend we have to move in a couple of weeks, what would you really keep?
@sheilakeeler2178
@sheilakeeler2178 2 жыл бұрын
I think what items would I keep if we had to move to a two bedroom apartment! Or “if you could only keep one banker box of stuff from each room, what would be in it?
@susieadams1553
@susieadams1553 2 жыл бұрын
That's genius Brenda 😀 . Going to adopt this 😘
@millerville2000
@millerville2000 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! I think "Do I want to pack this?"
@mmm_smores7655
@mmm_smores7655 2 жыл бұрын
Would I run in a burning house to save this item? If not-it gets donated!
@DawnH123
@DawnH123 2 жыл бұрын
Your sweater with that sofa could not could more perfect together.
@korab.23
@korab.23 2 жыл бұрын
here's what helps me with "someday" stuff... it gets ruined in the meantime. I really struggled letting go of baby things from my oldest BUT the things that were stored got water damaged, the things in the closet were ruined by mice. the things I let go of got used by someone who needed them. 💛
@Jessymack
@Jessymack Жыл бұрын
Ohhh yes! I love this so much!!!
@karinlovesjedward
@karinlovesjedward Жыл бұрын
Something similar happened to my boyfriend, he wanted to keep a pair of shoes he never used, and then seconds after he said that he found out that the soul was damaged because it hadn't been worn for such a long time. That really opened his eyes, because he said these were good shoes that could have been used by someone else the whole time. He now understands what the reasons are why I have been decluttering every day now. I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel :D
@ShortyCatRamblings
@ShortyCatRamblings Жыл бұрын
I was thinking about this while watching this video. I've been decluttering and finding pieces that I've saved and never used that are now trash because plastic gets brittle, elastic degrades, styles change, etc. etc. and it's sad to know that I've wasted things that could have been used by someone else and they've just taken up space in my home.
@dstafford9868
@dstafford9868 9 ай бұрын
WOW! I'd never thought about the fact that if I let go of something, I was admitting I was "wrong" in assuming it would add value to my life. Just admitting it would mean I had a real reason to let it go. But I hate being wrong. I hate being told what to do. I hate wasting money. But you're helping me to realize this is where my mindset is getting in my own way! Thank you!!
@ArrowHillCottage
@ArrowHillCottage 2 жыл бұрын
You always have a way of breaking down the complexities of minimalism in such a simple way. Just ONE question!
@stephsnow2643
@stephsnow2643 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree! I'm trying to live minimally in all aspects of our life, Dawn do you have any advice on tackling social events that don't add value to our lives in the way we would like? For example Stag Dos, Hen Dos, colleagues weddings, not only do they take our time away from family but also mean we must reallocate funds from family time too.
@stephsnow2643
@stephsnow2643 2 жыл бұрын
Oops sorry bachelorette parties* 😉
@reneeroberts3319
@reneeroberts3319 2 жыл бұрын
I love your soapbox! Thank you for your thoughts & passion!
@hangingfromtrees
@hangingfromtrees 2 жыл бұрын
@@stephsnow2643 ppp
@kidandcollie4916
@kidandcollie4916 2 жыл бұрын
I'm working on a whole house declutter to prepare for the holidays. I got rid of 34 things from my bathroom yesterday and was so proud of myself. I watched this video for a second time today and got rid of three more things. Thank you for all your help!
@tanguerafeliz5096
@tanguerafeliz5096 2 жыл бұрын
I love this question of value. I wish more people emphasized that. My multi surface cleaner does not bring me joy or beauty in its cheap plastic spray bottle that I've reused so many times but boy oh boy is it valuable! Wasn't it you that also shared in an earlier video about the messages our items tell us? Because of that video, I finally donated my brand new only ridden once bicycle to underserved kids over the pandemic. I didn't enjoy feeling like a lazy bad person for not riding it every time I saw it. So I changed it's purpose and message. I accepted I'm not a bicycle person and gave it off to have a life with someone who is and maybe can't afford one. No regrets.
@Rosie_C
@Rosie_C 2 жыл бұрын
I can relate - I hate to part with clothing I purchased that at one time I really liked but I never wore it much. A recent habit I’ve started is to take clothes that are in good shape that I don’t wear anymore to church, and let the girls my size look through it and see if anything will be useful to them.
@lindaanderson3973
@lindaanderson3973 2 жыл бұрын
I think this is your best video to date. I am struggling with becoming more of a minimalist and this helps a lot. I cringed when U said, “I feel like I failed when the product didn’t meet my needs” as this is something I never realized (or admitted). Thank you!!!
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Linda, I really appreciate this, and I’m excited for you, it gets easier and easier and better and better! ❤️
@TheJorgSacul
@TheJorgSacul 2 жыл бұрын
Stack up another soap box on the one you're using, and shout it to the rafters-- your message is SO needed and VALUABLE. I watch your videos over my lunch hour at work sometimes, and the other day you motivated me to clear and organize my office/work area... to the point where one of my coworkers thought I was leaving 😄😄😄😄
@aliciamarin5226
@aliciamarin5226 2 жыл бұрын
I did that too! Haha! Of course, I do want to leave... 🫣
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
Lol, love this!! Thank you!!! ❤️
@altheamcnabb2829
@altheamcnabb2829 2 жыл бұрын
LOL.
@mmut8602
@mmut8602 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@pamp212
@pamp212 2 жыл бұрын
I imagine myself passing something I don’t use along to somebody who might find it at Goodwill for very inexpensive that wanted to try it but couldn’t afford it at the full price. Things are meant to be used! That is a perfect statement. If you bought it to try it but are not using it, move it along to someone who it may bless their lives! ❤
@JG-mc9hl
@JG-mc9hl 2 жыл бұрын
I do this all the time too! And Giodwill need money to operate!
@marilynndesilva7620
@marilynndesilva7620 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! That is what makes it so easy to donate an expensive or unused item. I like to think that someone in financial straits will be pleased to find something they could not otherwise afford.
@margscheffee9084
@margscheffee9084 2 жыл бұрын
I give my stuff to the Salvation Army thrift store. Goodwill has a ceo that makes millions in wages whereas SA uses the money for doing good.
@breannaneville4332
@breannaneville4332 Жыл бұрын
I definitely relied on thrift shopping for many years and I always found things I needed that would have cost me so much money brand new!
@Rosie1987.
@Rosie1987. Жыл бұрын
@@margscheffee9084 same reason I no longer donate items to Goodwill. I give to Salvation Army or a thrift store that uses its money from selling donated items to help women currently in or about to leave domestic abuse shelters.
@simmiedavissimmiesings8185
@simmiedavissimmiesings8185 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn, at least once a week, I am quoting your thoughts about " you can't wear All the shoes, all the clothes..you can't have all the identities we once planned out. So helpful! Keeps me in decluttering mode and not just trying to stash every single thing I was ever attracted to. Keep saying these things in different ways. You are helping me so much!
@rosywilson3076
@rosywilson3076 2 жыл бұрын
Oh that hit home - “trying to stash every single thing I was ever attracted to” Thankyou!
@bonesareheavy
@bonesareheavy 2 жыл бұрын
@@rosywilson3076 Yes! I have been working very hard on my stashing problem. Great line to remember.
@cin4195
@cin4195 2 жыл бұрын
Yes and 'too much inventory to manage'. Dawn is amazing and an inspiration for sure. God Bless
@kmars3239
@kmars3239 2 жыл бұрын
Oh this has helped me too, I have to ask myself will I wear this or was this purchased for my fantasy self? 😩
@michsmo2883
@michsmo2883 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@OtherDianne
@OtherDianne 2 жыл бұрын
I love how you brought in the marketing side of this and the stories we tell ourselves. That's so helpful!
@Minimadaa
@Minimadaa 2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 27 year old mom of soon to be two kids, and although I have been a “minimalist” my whole adult life and don’t need guidance like others might, I love watching your videos to continuously remind me to keep going! I am so grateful to have learned these lessons while I’m still young, but maintaining truly never stops. I recently put the “time will tell” strategy into place which has helped immensely with that last annoying bit of clutter that I struggle to deal with even as someone who aggressively declutters.
@MyMaxKitty
@MyMaxKitty 2 жыл бұрын
I just threw away a metal water bottle that I spend money on .... because I haven't used it in over a year AND it was just sitting there screaming "wash me!" ... when I have a gazillion other things I need to do in a day, I just decided to let it go. It's so freeing when the mental bandwidth clears!
@daniellevilloria227
@daniellevilloria227 2 жыл бұрын
I started a new habit of decluttering 5 items every time I watch one of your videos. Keeps me moving forward in the journey. Also, I rarely stop at 5 once I get going, but on busy days it’s still progress. Keep the motivation coming please! ❤
@jennybird2770
@jennybird2770 2 жыл бұрын
So many lightbulbs went off in my head during this video. Thank you Dawn. Another thought I had was: You know the saying that "people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime" ? So can stuff. And like Marie Kondo said something to the effect of when you let something go and feel guilt because you didn't use it and spent money- that item taught you that it wasn't for you. Thank you Dawn for your videos! Very inspiring stuff :)
@tracey1782
@tracey1782 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks again for the very helpful video! I keep playing your videos in front of my husband who has a huge stash of “stuff” both inside the house and in the garage. I think it is finally starting to hit him that it is pointless to keep it. We’re both in our early 60’s! I consider you a life saver!!! You’re awesome! 😊
@ritadyer3770
@ritadyer3770 2 жыл бұрын
I had to buy an extra chest of drawers because my husband keeps so much junk inside he had no room for clothes! He thinks he has to have 40 pair of underwear and as many socks. I don’t get it. Honestly, I counted his briefs one day and I think there was over 50! I can’t get him to see he needs less!
@accidrainn
@accidrainn 2 жыл бұрын
I keep doing the same with my partner...You should show them the videos of: "Do it on a Dimes" (or "But, first coffee" )"I tried Swedish death cleaning" It's not as bad as it sounds .. But, it made me think about my things a lot more differently.. I'm glad you're taking steps to help your family.. My father passed away & we were tasked with moving (all his "stuff")out of my now just my mothers home .. Do we sell, donate or trash? I don't think she understands what all her stuff will do to me when she's gone(she has way, too much for a single human), nor do I think she cares 😭 P. S. She made a video on it too lol !
@libbykat3958
@libbykat3958 2 жыл бұрын
Ahaha I too just "happen" to play Dawn's videos within earshot of my husband, hoping the indirectness will avoid a defensive reaction.
@hildab555
@hildab555 2 жыл бұрын
@@libbykat3958 Same!!
@andie3131
@andie3131 Жыл бұрын
@@libbykat3958same!
@ashleythompson7456
@ashleythompson7456 2 жыл бұрын
100%. I just decluttered and donated an expensive juicer that was only used a few times. I hated looking at it because it made me feel like a failure for buying and not using! I realize now that someone else can use it where I wasn’t!
@kimgordon3695
@kimgordon3695 Жыл бұрын
If it makes you feel any better humans aren't created to drink juices. & If it's not free of pesticides it is toxic anyway. Eat organically. xo
@pbear7814
@pbear7814 Жыл бұрын
And I bet you don’t even miss it!
@bcvahsfam
@bcvahsfam 2 жыл бұрын
A thought I had while watching this is... The house I grew up in was basically a minimalist type home. We had small closets and not much stuff. I didn't have a lot of toys as a kid. It wasn't as easy to buy things as it is now. I do think it was better then. As kids we played outside more and used our imaginations. Life was just simpler.
@crterwil
@crterwil 2 жыл бұрын
Yes yes a thousand times yes!! At 58 I embracing this more and more. The older we get the more conscious we are of our precious gift of time. God bless you! Keep preaching! I still need the motivation!!
@madelinemaize1426
@madelinemaize1426 2 жыл бұрын
My grandmother was wise. She told me " If you own too much stuff, your stuff will own you."
@trishweber9695
@trishweber9695 2 жыл бұрын
It is absolutely mind blowing how keeping extra things in your life eats away at you subconsciously. The guilt for not using them the hopes and dreams that have died and you are reminded of every time you see them. The anxiety it creates feeling like you should be making more time for those things. You are right on in saying that it is sooo freeing to accept the seasons of life as they come and to have a much better focus by saying good-bye to those things that just don't work right now. That has become my new saying is "buy things that work" because cheaper is not always cheaper in the long run or useful. Thanks for your videos they are soo soothing and simplistic as they should be for those of us trying to live a simplistic life-style.
@christinedisneyqueen5746
@christinedisneyqueen5746 2 жыл бұрын
So true about sentimental stuff…it can get to be a burden. 😢
@connieoermann3592
@connieoermann3592 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn, you deserve your 600K subscribers. You honestly care about helping others..and you have. May God bless you and yours and continue to bless your message💛
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Connie, that means more than you know!!! 🥰❤️
@TRUTHisTRUTH70
@TRUTHisTRUTH70 2 жыл бұрын
"value in this season of life" = the golden solution to decluttering!
@Nina.177
@Nina.177 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 599k subscribers, Dawn! You still feel like a hidden gem on KZbin.
@delindacurtis6344
@delindacurtis6344 2 жыл бұрын
Finding your short videos on decluttering and the head trips we take having these ‘things’ consuming our energy has been a huge motivator for me! As a 64 year old, I’m freeing myself from a great deal of self criticism. The boxes of pictures I didn’t craft in a fancy album, the many notebooks of random thoughts I thought would be a book, the shelves of self-help books that I just knew I would reread for that final, better result, the left over curriculum ideas from 40 years of teaching middle school English. It’s a ‘progress in work’ and you have been unknowingly mentoring me! Thank you!
@Carolmaizy
@Carolmaizy 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn, you always make so much sense. My home is not very cluttered anymore, but I still listen to your videos. You motivate me to keep up with accumulating less, and your videos are always calming.
@muchadoaboutkovu
@muchadoaboutkovu 2 жыл бұрын
This is a small thing, but I had a garlic press and I hated cleaning it. It was convenient but it caused stress to clean. Got rid of it then looked up ways to mince garlic without one. I can use my mortar and pestle or a cheese grater and those things I use way more and for multiple things! And easier to clean. My goal is find effective ways of making cleaning and such easy. It is so wonderful to breathe. My husband recently said “I know I can be a pack rat, but I really like not having a lot of stuff and have the breathing room.” It was his way of appreciating what I’ve done to make cleaning up easier and not our main focus of our weekends.
@mianeculcea6789
@mianeculcea6789 2 жыл бұрын
I gradually got rid of almost all of my kitchen stuff. I only prepare simple and healthy meals and I do not need anything more than the very basic things (I do not have a cheese grater, I buy it already grated, I do not use garlic at all because of the smell (sometimes I use the garlic powder) . I feel soo good and my kitchen looks wonderful. I do not cook sweets because they are not healthy so in the rare ocasions ( christmas) I buy something and that's all. It's true I don't have a passion for cooking, but I really enjoy cooking some simple meals and I do cook our dinner almost every day.
@dlarsen325
@dlarsen325 2 жыл бұрын
Minimalism and your videos have really allowed me to stop looking at the past, but instead live in the moment I'm in with hopefulness for the future. ❤️
@AnnaBee5171
@AnnaBee5171 2 жыл бұрын
I love this question! Your videos always add value to my life 😊 I recently decluttered my kids wardrobe. I donated it to foster kids. Knowing that it was going to someone who really needs it along with Knowing it is less inventory, less washing, less folding, etc, made it easier to let go.
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome! Way to go!!!!
@chicane7752
@chicane7752 2 жыл бұрын
As a family with medically complex children, there has never been a time where a routine or schedule wasn’t upended at a moments notice. This translates into the inability and lack of time to go through things- and a very cluttered and overwhelming house. Most slogans and “motivational” videos assume it’s a lack of motivation or a personal obstacle- not life and just trying to keep our heads above water. The marketing just makes things worse because “fast” and “easy” was what we needed. I almost passed over this video but this is the first one that MAKES SENSE - with one question that really adds value to our life. Thank you❤ For the first time, I have hope that our lot in life is NOT to just survive, and maybe our home can be more than a crash pad; maybe between surgeries, recoveries, and out of town appointments it can be peaceful and beautiful like I used to dream about. Maybe my dream isn’t dead…. 🥹 Please don’t get off your soap box. It’s the only way we can hear your voice above the crowd.
@leighs3439
@leighs3439 2 жыл бұрын
I just want you to know I feel this in my soul. We don’t have medically complex kids- but my dream of a peaceful home isn’t true right now either!
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane 2 жыл бұрын
I feel for you and thought of my grandma as I read your comment. Three of her 4 children had a rare disease, required a lot of care, and died way before their time. I cannot even imagine the stress and grief she experienced in her life, all while continuing to be the sweetest person. I just wanted you to know you're in my thoughts and prayers today. I hope your children get better every day and that the peaceful home you dream of becomes reality very soon!
@marytstockdale4713
@marytstockdale4713 2 жыл бұрын
I just told the cashier at my gas station about you and memory boxes. She has 4 kids. She's so excited to look up your channel tonight.
@deborahs2593
@deborahs2593 2 жыл бұрын
I like this question so much. It helps me a lot more than "does it spark joy"? To me- joy is a rare but celebrated feeling and doesn't apply much to stuff . Thanks for this, Dawn.
@bonniejeanschmidt4255
@bonniejeanschmidt4255 2 жыл бұрын
I agree! If it isn’t adding value, it’s detracting from our quality of life. Life is too short to manage stuff that we don’t need. 🥰
@eliztaichamarrero5792
@eliztaichamarrero5792 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me let go of my instant pot (2 years ago. ) I have never regretted that decision.
@rochellevidal
@rochellevidal Жыл бұрын
Everytime I watch your videos, I'm itching to go and declutter! So inspiring and I thank you :D Now I know where to go when I need a little kick to go and remove those pieces that no longer bring value to my home
@mianeculcea6789
@mianeculcea6789 2 жыл бұрын
I got rid two years ago of all my "kitchen stuff". I remained with the only very basic things like two simple pans and two knifes (but I really use just one of them 😁). I do cook almost every dinner at home. But I found out how to cook only simple and healthy meals, so I really don't need a lot of stuff. I didn't like to cook years ago, but because I made it so simple, I started to like it. I don't cook sweets, because they are not healthy, too much mess in the kitchen so in the rare ocasions we want something sweet (like weekend or christmas) I buy something from the supermarket and it saves me a lot of time, so I enjoy my holidays as I love them (in a peaceful clean home, with the music on) or go at a restaurant if we feel like it. I made my life easier and I love it.
@juliegrossman3733
@juliegrossman3733 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn, this is another great chat. I was especially touched by the segment on sentimental items. I am 58 years old, had a great childhood, lots of super memories of just everyday life with my 6 brothers and sisters and family. One of those memories involves regular (I remember it as every Sunday afternoon, but maybe off on that) picnics at a nearby state park. It was a relaxing afternoon, with playing in the stream, walking, swimming in the summer, my dad reading the paper or listening to a baseball game on a transistor radio. Even picnicking in the winter, with cocoa, apples...All of this to say, I have the picnic basket we used. It's missing a handle, is a little worn. I've seen others in pristine condition, but I don't want those--they aren't ours. And our family uses a cooler when we picnic. I have a few photos taken on these everyday picnics, and they mean so much to me. I think I can let the basket go now, and let the photos be the memory-prompter...this came to me during the video. Or use the basket to store picnicware and table cloths.
@AmythefirstA
@AmythefirstA 2 жыл бұрын
If I were you, I would use it as decorative storage, lovingly put on display (if you have the space). :)
@cchaffincc
@cchaffincc 2 жыл бұрын
Keep it!
@ShelleybutyoucancallmeShell
@ShelleybutyoucancallmeShell 2 жыл бұрын
You should give yourself permission to keep a few things that hold special memories for you. Just try to find a new use for it!
@juliegrossman3733
@juliegrossman3733 2 жыл бұрын
@@ShelleybutyoucancallmeShell thank you. Right now I am thinking of possibilities for this basket...
@juliegrossman3733
@juliegrossman3733 2 жыл бұрын
@@cchaffincc Thank you!
@garlicgalore
@garlicgalore 2 жыл бұрын
I remember once telling my 8 year old daughter about marketing, and I didn't even know that's what I was doing. It was just a thought that occurred to me while we were seeing an advertisement for some cool toy -and I said, "you know, the people who are trying to get you to spend money on that don't care if you have enough money for food." My daughter was shocked. I think it was her first time understanding that not all information comes from a loving source that cares about how we are doing. Thank you for putting out such a positive vibe and solid ideas about getting our inventory to a supportive and useful level. I watch you over and over and always seek out a video to watch when it's minimizing time!!
@aliciamarin5226
@aliciamarin5226 2 жыл бұрын
Whoa, I need to borrow those words for my own kids. Great thoughts!
@coribeining4082
@coribeining4082 2 жыл бұрын
I have enjoyed a lot of different creators since we started thinking differently about the things we keep in our home a few years ago. A lot of them I will still watch a video now and then, but I find myself here every Tuesday and Friday waiting for a new video. I really appreciate that your content seems to grow with the season of life you're in, but is still relevant to someone who may just be beginning their simplifying process. Thanks for creating such great, relatable content!!
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Cori, this really means allot! ❤
@PatriciaJoshua-h8s
@PatriciaJoshua-h8s 2 ай бұрын
Marketing is real, the way they have music playing to create a mood. Next thing you know you are happily buying things. You are so right when you say you just stay out of stores unless you really need something. I was in Hobby Lobby today thinking of all the autumn decorating I could do. Then I began imagining all of it gathering dust in the garage, and then getting thrown out, and I was over the moment. Thank goodness.
@teresastorms3774
@teresastorms3774 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am so overwhelmed with my mess that I just sit here. I'm so grateful for your channel and your positivity! Love you all as if you were my own family!
@nowweknow7062
@nowweknow7062 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn and everyone else that has this same problem at 2:12 of this video, I have a tip. The cutting board slipping and sliding will stabilize and be safer by laying a damp kitchen towel (or a silpat) on the countertop and then place the cutting board on the towel. That cutting board is a "TOOL" that is not doing the job you fully intended it to do. 😉 Give it some help staying in place when you and the family use it.
@cherylmayers5394
@cherylmayers5394 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy I didn't fall into the "I have to have an Instant Pot" because I knew it wouldn't work for me! If I have to read and learn how to use a kitchen appliance I don't want it.
@33snowgal
@33snowgal 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@monetmd8024
@monetmd8024 2 жыл бұрын
I got one as a gift, and it really didn't speed up dinner at all. Now, meat does turn out great using it, and there are things I still haven't tried cooking in it.
@janispope4295
@janispope4295 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that about an air fryer but with the cost of electricity in the uk (our place completely electric) I got a second hand one to try and I love it
@TR-id5pd
@TR-id5pd 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn, you are my hero. I have learned so much from you and you share in such a down to earth manner that there is no judgement - just a desire to share what you know with others. Please come to my home in TN. I so need guidance and support to get my house decluttered and organized. I’m not on Facebook so that’s not an option but I’m at a point where I no longer want to or can manage my ‘stuff’. Both my parents were hoarders in different ways. One kept everything and the other couldn’t make decisions or stick to a project. They are gone now but I think my worst fear that I would become like them has come true. I tried hiring an organizer but she just helped me move things around and now it’s worse than before. If you can’t come, can you put me in touch with someone in the Nashville area? Please keep doing these videos, your passion and caring is inspirational. ❤
@lurlenejones456
@lurlenejones456 Жыл бұрын
"It's here to be used for a purpose, and then it's left behind." That statement really helps put "stuff" in perspective!
@nuvoclassic
@nuvoclassic 2 жыл бұрын
'That 1 ? 'is it adding value?' is spot on - tfs!
@victoriaelisapeta
@victoriaelisapeta 2 жыл бұрын
I get so excited every time I get that notification!!! Thank you for all you do 🤍😇
@Pudelmum
@Pudelmum 2 жыл бұрын
Me, too!!!
@victoriaelisapeta
@victoriaelisapeta 2 жыл бұрын
@@Pudelmum yassss
@libbygerald3169
@libbygerald3169 2 жыл бұрын
Sameee
@sara_xoxooo3548
@sara_xoxooo3548 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@jessicacislo5847
@jessicacislo5847 2 жыл бұрын
Very time
@carrottop5783
@carrottop5783 2 жыл бұрын
Your point about marketing is so true. SO many things I've purchased due to social media - it is sad. Clothes, makeup, handbags, shoes, KITCHEN appliances. When I think back to print media advertising, it was a problem, but nothing like today. Funny how my Grandmother was a wonderful cook with a few pots and pans, and how she was loved and admired with home sewn dresses and only a few pair of shoes, all lasting years. Meanwhile, my latest appliance is a Ninja Foodi - I rue the day I made that purchase because I've not found it an improvement to cooking, yet it is still in holding because of the cost...
@lyndabrooks2064
@lyndabrooks2064 2 жыл бұрын
I'm retired. I practiced “a place for everything and everything in its place. I feel happy with my ‘things’ all surrounding me. So homey. ❤
@JaneH3675
@JaneH3675 Жыл бұрын
All my junk has a place too. But it's just clutter. So I'm downsizing.
@lindamcdermott9980
@lindamcdermott9980 2 жыл бұрын
You have given me permission to let go of two things that served me in a different season of life, but I have not used in the last 6 - 7 years: stand mixer and food processor. I loved them, wanted them, paid money for them, but don’t use them… it’s a big duh! I can also add the air fryer and the chair massager, which does not fit my chair and is more of a nuisance than anything . They all take up real estate in my tiny apartment. I have struggled with letting them go, (maybe I’ll bake a cake, etc, which I will not do, I’m 75, live alone and have to watch my carbs.). Yes, you have given me permission, that marketing explanation did it for me! My degree was home economics, in a different season of life these things might have made sense, but now they don’t. ❤
@hanado1335
@hanado1335 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely hitting home on this one! Need to reprogram my thinking and re-assess the true value of everything in my house and life. Now if only you could help declutter my mind😁
@terriblue9792
@terriblue9792 Жыл бұрын
I’m on the other side🎉 SO much freedom in lots of areas! Not just in the home🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽🥰🕊️✌🏽☮️
@susanshea4679
@susanshea4679 2 жыл бұрын
Just awesome, dawn! Dawn, the wise philosopher! really, u think deeper than most which is so refreshing. i thank u!
@bicho.cosmico
@bicho.cosmico Жыл бұрын
You will be surprised how much your content relates to valuable and healthy relationships. We tend to keep trying to make things work when we could just realize that sometimes it's not a match. This apply to friends, people we know in the workspace, church or school, family and so on. Sometimes we spend soooo many time with people we don't really like this much and we have no time to people that really matter.
@kathysheeran6589
@kathysheeran6589 2 жыл бұрын
Your gift is the way you explain methods to us. And no shaming. Continued blessings to you Dawn. I really enjoy your message. I’m a work in progress but got you with me. ❤🎃
@LB-vl3qn
@LB-vl3qn 2 жыл бұрын
Asking "does this add value" rather than "does this spark joy" makes it easier to view items in their proper light. A hammer may not spark joy but it definitely adds value to one's life. It's a more realistic question that takes more of the emotion out of decluttering. Your sweater complements your coloring very well. You look great. ~ Lisa
@Nina.177
@Nina.177 2 жыл бұрын
I love the way you help us see the freedom we can gain by letting go of all the what-if stuff in our lives.
@charlafraley8340
@charlafraley8340 2 жыл бұрын
Some other basic items to cook in the instant pot is rice, mashed potatoes, potato salad, chicken breasts to shred, dump cakes, pasta. I follow Six Sisters on You Tube, very basic and family friendly recipes and tips. I love your and Tom’s channels and adventures.
@Lcshell
@Lcshell 2 жыл бұрын
I love your sweater! Also, I never get tired of the decluttering methods that you share with us. The more I hear it the more stuff I decide to get rid of. I’ve still got a ways to go but I’m getting there! Thank you so much for continuing to share with us!
@skyedaisy4007
@skyedaisy4007 2 жыл бұрын
This! Yes, such freedom. If you want to fly you have to let go of everything that weighs you down.
@marybethentenmann9730
@marybethentenmann9730 2 жыл бұрын
This is the first time I have enjoyed a vlog on minimalism.
@anniefenter8697
@anniefenter8697 2 жыл бұрын
Almost 600K Subscribers!!! Congratulations and keep it coming to motivate us with your Kindness and Gentle Pushes to a more organized and contented life!! 😍
@TheMinimalMom
@TheMinimalMom 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Annie! I really appreciate this! 🥰❤️
@rebekahphillips2334
@rebekahphillips2334 2 жыл бұрын
To tell the truth, I had never thought about how marketing impacted my buying choices before watching your videos. It it SO HELPFUL! No joke. Having just that knowledge has helped me. I'm so thankful for you and your family. It's amazing how many people you are reaching! Keep it up girly!! ❤️
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane
@SweetStuffOnMonarchLane 2 жыл бұрын
It's truly disgusting how much marketing we are bombarded with from the time we are born until the day we die, isn't it? Such a massive effort that companies put into getting our money. Too many people get caught up in it, not even realizing what is happening, because they suck us in from the time we are little children, often because our parents let it happen or just don't teach us about it. I hope more people will come to this realization and teach their children to be wise to these marketing tactics, as Dawn and Tom have with their children. I think our mental health and society in general would be so much better off, and resources put to much better use. I always think of the Kardashian empire and all the wealth they've acquired as an example. Why are they doing so well? It's all marketing and image-making of course. Meanwhile, they negatively affect girl's and young women's self esteem as they feel pressured to buy their products, trying to live up to their ridiculously fake images. All of this is just SO supremely wasteful and horrible for our environment too... as our landfills grow with more and more useless junk and low quality, fast-fashion clothes made of plastic (polyester). Corporations rake in billions of dollars and use that money we've given them to lobby our lawmakers... you know, that are supposed to be working for us... to make laws and give tax breaks in their favor instead of ours. It's insidious.
@WoodlandDance
@WoodlandDance Жыл бұрын
Sometimes an object in my kitchen is not so much a tool, but a reminder and connection to my great-gram, grandmother, and/or aunts. Something they used to prepare meals, especially during holidays. So although an item might not be used much it adds value. Not so much as a utility, but by having it in my kitchen it helps keep them close, reminds me of stories about them, happy times, and my connection to the chain of ancestors.
@nujamnella5967
@nujamnella5967 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn, this is an “aha” moment. I love that you call “stuff” tools. If the tool doesn’t work for you, give it up because it is not a tool anymore, it’s a junk.
@toomanymarys7355
@toomanymarys7355 Жыл бұрын
That's a good question. "Would I buy this again?" is the dumbest of questions, and minimalists often tell people to ask it. Sometimes, there are things that we decide we overspent on, but we still regularly use it and get benefit from it! Or it's something we used to use a ton, justifying the price then, and only use it occasionally now but still would really miss it. I have snow boots with felt liners I have from a deep winter camping trip. I now only use it once in a while. I'd never buy them for how I use them now, but I really appreciate them!
@miryamyataco1
@miryamyataco1 2 жыл бұрын
you are so right, I had to sell the family home and got rid of so many things, you are so right.
@clusmanfamily1155
@clusmanfamily1155 2 жыл бұрын
I think of things all the time that I got rid of but could use now (years later). Couldn’t care less! Totally worth the daily peace of mind and the clarity a simplified home brings to EVERY AREA OF MY LIFE.
@angelweengz
@angelweengz 2 жыл бұрын
You have so much wisdom and you are helping so many people!! Don’t ever get down from your soapbox. God has given you a passion for helping people and excelling in helping people in this arena in particular. You are a HUGE BLESSING to everyone that comes across your channel!!!
@amywilloughby8019
@amywilloughby8019 2 жыл бұрын
You nailed it Dawn, NAILED IT!!
@marisacooper5364
@marisacooper5364 2 жыл бұрын
I want to hug you! I value your logical breakdown, and your advocacy for time, positive emotional health, relaxing home, and connected family life. 💕
@flynn1a
@flynn1a 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your passion regularly. As much as I am already sold on minimalism, I still benefit motivationally from your periodic pep talks and insights.
@karenhoward8542
@karenhoward8542 2 жыл бұрын
Great to see the doors out of the dining room--smile
@victoriacrozier8134
@victoriacrozier8134 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!!! My life is changed for eternity’s sake 🤗 Praise the Lord! I’ve had the best day being released by the “things, encumbrances “ that were weighing me down and the sun is shining ☀️🌻💝😄 Thank you so much for sharing your passion and gifts 🎁
@sarahaas3182
@sarahaas3182 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like you're saving my life and I'm just a week in. Thank you for the way you word things that actually makes sense to me... nothing has ever resonated with me before. And I've been looking for help for years. Great work 💕😊
@TastingParty
@TastingParty 2 жыл бұрын
The question I ask is “Will I miss it if it’s gone?” If “No” it goes!
@leslieviner
@leslieviner Жыл бұрын
Thanks for articulating this principle of “letting go because something no longer serves me” in this season of life. Liberating!
@kirstenjohnson1952
@kirstenjohnson1952 2 жыл бұрын
Best video EVER! This is exactly what I've been trying to tell my people! Keep these videos coming, they are great reminders of why I'm doing this.
@triciakaplan5201
@triciakaplan5201 2 жыл бұрын
My burden is the boxes of pictures that I have been meaning to turn into online photo books but am so busy and it’s such an overwhelming project that I never start. I want to put all of the pictures in chronological order, and none of it is organized.😩. The boxes are all over my office and stacked at the bottom of my basement stairs.
@debbiekelly-snow3868
@debbiekelly-snow3868 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for getting on your soap box! We need to be reminded!
@lizziemcdougall2767
@lizziemcdougall2767 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate how you turn to values to explain the purpose and outcome of minimalism and decluttering. These videos are a big help. Thank you!
@angieineverettcust2934
@angieineverettcust2934 2 жыл бұрын
If I don’t know if I want to declutter it, I set out and usually after looking at it for several days I end up saying “I don’t really need this thing” and it goes into the donation box 😅🎉
@robinbaker7735
@robinbaker7735 2 жыл бұрын
You share so much wisdom, it is liberating because the mind is the battlefield. If we can change our thinking, we change our lives! Thanks Dawn! You have helped me so much♥️
@sandradowd6732
@sandradowd6732 2 жыл бұрын
Dawn I went through my craft supplies and am donating about 300 craft items to a teacher's aid, It was hard after I boxed it up thinking all the money I spent, But remember your videos and it has changed the way I declutter, I get so much inspiration from your channel. Just found out my neice watches your channel too.
@janethunt4037
@janethunt4037 2 жыл бұрын
You nailed it, Dawn, with this question!!!! I'm going to ask this as I continue decluttering. I would love to know more about your memory boxes. What size are they? Where did you get them?
@ramonalofgren5552
@ramonalofgren5552 2 жыл бұрын
Have photos ( heaven help me) and one part of my basement to go. Dawn you are a true friend to share your wisdom, nudge us to keep going and tell us gently what we need to hear! Bless you!
@samiam511
@samiam511 2 жыл бұрын
My kids get an allowance and every time they want to buy something or keep some trinket I say "is that really something you want to manage? Where are you going to put it?" I've not fully emptied my house like I want BUT I have been more mindful of the things we buy and put into it. Now that I've had my dose of encouragement, I'm off to fill a box to get rid of. Thanks Dawn!
@agb6330
@agb6330 2 жыл бұрын
So timely! A reset for me as I am currently cleaning out my mother’s 1900 sq foot house 😱🤪😳. I am oh so grateful and thankful she was able to move into a beautiful senior living place giving me peace of mind but……. Thank you Lord for FB marketplace curb alerts!
@AbidethForever
@AbidethForever 2 жыл бұрын
This channel just showed up on my feed. Wow! So incredible, helpful, and timeless. Minimal living, for me, has been so enjoyable in the past year. Too much stuff shackles and makes prisoners of us all. There is true freedom in letting go. "We entered the world with nothing, and we'll leave the world with nothing."
@katiescarlet7991
@katiescarlet7991 2 жыл бұрын
Your house is a piece of heaven Dawn. Because of you my mind has cleared. I'm still working on it, it is hard, I'm over a year now in decluttering. I'm so in peace. Love you all the way from Greece 🇬🇷❤️
@lindabourcet1349
@lindabourcet1349 2 жыл бұрын
You have helped me SO much with decluttering my home. It has been a few years now and like you promised my home is calm and peaceful, filled with everything we love and use and nothing more. You have helped me re-evaluate my choices and critically look at what I allow into my life. Just because something is new or someone else loves it, doesn’t mean I need it. I have enough and am enough! You have armored me against marketing. Keep preaching as we all need the message - it’s just stuff and if it doesn’t serve you right now, let it go.
@jessicadroppers9721
@jessicadroppers9721 2 жыл бұрын
Just decluttered 8 bed pillows! Not even throw pillows.... just bed pillows. Thank you for the motivation!
@connieburns4495
@connieburns4495 2 жыл бұрын
I never get tired of your message! You inspire me!
@lisamacit4545
@lisamacit4545 2 жыл бұрын
Preach!🙌 I passed my instant pot on a few years ago and I have had to talk myself out of rebuying it! You make things so common sense clear, don't ever get off that soapbox! Thank you Dawn!
@jaidiyajeyakar3217
@jaidiyajeyakar3217 2 жыл бұрын
I sometimes wonder why I watch your videos since I am not in a season in my life where I can declutter right now (though I'm most certainly a minimalist at heart) - what is the value your videos are adding to my life? I'm just building my way of thinking (and virtual decluttering muscles) to when I can actually end up decluttering! Thanks Dawn!
@ImLunaShesZeta
@ImLunaShesZeta 2 жыл бұрын
Just out of curiosity how are you not able to declutter now?
@Love_Anne
@Love_Anne 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! Same! I'm just retaining her information and methods for when I can. I'm a mom of 5 with a newborn and can't physically tackle the decluttering in a way that I'd like to in this season but at least I'm armed and ready when the time comes!
@jessicaderstine4061
@jessicaderstine4061 2 жыл бұрын
Don't forget that decluttering can be a simple single item. It doesn't have to be a big kabang like Marie Kondo's tv show. What is the value of watching Dawn when you can't declutter the way you hope to? The information goes deeper in your brain. You remember her wisdom and logic when you actually do get to the motion of decluttering
@tesshiva
@tesshiva 2 жыл бұрын
I believe this is one of your very best videos. Your message is simple, compelling and actionable by anyone, wherever they are on their journey. Embracing the concept of possessions serving you and letting go of those things that don’t, is to acknowledge what is truly important in your life. You learn a lot and you surprise yourself! Congratulations on passing the Subscriber milestone!
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