How To Deal With A Messy Family Situation

[@priscillalongworth1720]

Jade's style is stunning. I love it!!

[@Finger_Blast]

Jade is beyond stunning! In so many ways. My goodness.

[@KingOt-ob9bx]

Hit 200k today. I'm really grateful for all the knowledge and nuggets you had thrown my way over the last months. Started with 14k in June 2024

[@AlishaHamaduru]

Congratulations on hitting the 200k milestone! That's an incredible growth from 14k in just a few months - what strategies or investments did you implement to achieve this remarkable success?

[@GregGJames-x9p]

I'm beyond thrilled to see your progress! From 14k to 200k in such a short time is amazing. Would love to hear about your journey and the key decisions that led to this success.

[@MichaelOwen-d7k]

Motivated by others' investment successes, I'm seeking ways to boost my income and independence from government support. What investment options or side hustles would you recommend?

[@GwendolynVinson]

I'm desperate to turn my finances around. I've been working three jobs just to pay off debt. Can someone please share contact or information? I need her help.

[@KingOt-ob9bx]

I'm forever grateful to Elizabeth Marie Hawley, whose expertise and mentorship transformed my financial life. Her selfless support helped me reach my goals and secure a brighter future.

[@deeanderson4686]

Who is paying taxes and insurance?

[@majorlagg9321]

I know who isn't...

[@willelliott5052]

Your brother has zero character, and is abusing you and your siblings. He traded your relationship for free rent. You all need to legally force the sale and be rid of this mess.

[@dnorris4733]

My Grandparents deeded the family cabin to their 3 sons. SAME scenario! One brother got out quickly. One brother decided to live there, and my Dad and his brother ended up going to court. It was not a happy ending. I hope they have a happier ending. Moral of that story - never deed property to all of your children.

[@YanilleCastillo-sf4vb]

Moral of story is to leave a will well prepared don’t let it be a curse but a blessing

[@thegenxgamerr]

The sooner you can get out of this the better. I had a 3rd of an interest in a property with my siblings and as soon as the option became available to me I sold my 1/3 stake. Now I had no emotional attachment to this property (it was an uncles house), so I offered my siblings the opportunity to buy me out at market value and they took it. They still jointly own the property and rent it and split the income, and cost. I don't resent them, they don't resent me (from what I can tell). I took my proceeds and invested it and I am still making a good return. Get out of this ASAP, this has family mess written all over it just like my situation did. Good luck.

[@JasonBarlow-o9i]

get out while the getting is good! well done sir

[@BrianaBudgets]

Leaving one house to multiple people is stupid. Either pick one person or sell the house and divide the profit evenly.

[@silentnot4812]

He is probably trying to get the others to just give up their portion. What a mess over a $200k house.

[@Ryan_DeWitt]

If she goes the legal route, then a judge will likely just force the sale of the house.

[@rachelfrank8647]

If any concessions or repairs are made for a sale to occur, that should come out of the past due "rent" owed by the one sibling up to the amount he owes.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

Or he buy's them out.

[@ja1980lady]

Not a bad option. Otherwise he will keep this going forever

[@timmilowic871]

@ryan_DeWitt random, but your back is nuts

[@patriciaikeda2608]

Before my father in law passed he told the 5 kids that he wanted them to sale the property or buy each other out if one wanted the house

[@taurusthebull76]

Leaving behind a home to multiple off springs just sounds messy.

[@willelliott5052]

My wife is one of five siblings, and it appears that they will jointly inherit their surviving mother's house in Hawaii. I absolutely dread it. I think that it is rarely a good idea.

[@cliffmorgan31]

A bully is about the nicest thing you could say about him!!

[@kslucki]

I was lucky in that way. Years ago I pleaded with my parents to be specific in their will. Not to leave a problem in my lap, to have to go through court system and deal with my sibling, as we are like oil and water. They were kind enough to listen and divided their assets equally between the two of us and no drama. Praise the Lord.

[@CecileEdwards]

No praise you’re common sense for looking to divert a possible problem!

[@cj90014]

It called a partition. File it with the Court, and it will order the property sold. It is simple.

[@baysideharpy8350]

Leaving a house/property to joint beneficiaries is a Bad Idea. Leave clear instructions in your Will to sell the house and split the proceeds.

[@bellkatz9068]

In his will, my husband's father gave his lake property to his four children. What a mess! Each was supposed to put some of the money they received from his IRAs into a fund to pay taxes & maintenance. One had to have his/her arm twisted to do this. One never contributed. One had their house repossessed, then moved into the lake house after the other 3 specifically told them not to. Eventually, the three had to threaten to sell the lake house to get the squatter sibling to move out. My husband and I bought out the other three, who all got a nice chunk of money. There were hard feelings for a time, but eventually love for family mended hearts.

[@itchyisvegeta]

If a judge force sales a house in a scenario like this, can one of the siblings simply buy the house during that force sale? Does that happen?

[@AuroraCardi-in9zt]

Sell the house and deduct what he owes from his portion of the sale. If his portion is zero, it is he fault!

[@jimmymcgill6778]

You cannot sell it without his permission too.

[@hiteshadhikari]

Legal route, judge forces sale most likely ​@@jimmymcgill6778

[@aao449]

⁠A judge forcing a sale won’t need his permission.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

@@aao449 ANd the sellers cannot just decide to sell them on their own.

[@upforanadventure3039]

Have the brother pay the property tax/repairs and nothing else. Any of the siblings are allowed to live there. The parents did this so none of the children would ever be homeless.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

He most likely is.

[@wookieewantacookie]

Yep and this is a one sided story and she paused before she answered made him say it again . She’s not saying everything imo

[@coderider3022]

Court… force sale. Sad so many of these situations where 1 selfish person screws over other siblings and enabled by some parent etc

[@PungeonMon]

Always at least 1 a**hole that destroys the family to freeload 1 people please terrified to say anything against him The same thing happens to my mother right now. He lives for 15 years and no rent for the other 3 siblings. Disgusting

[@joanclement6671]

Take him to court & the judge will force a sale.

[@NomadicLifer]

My mom is 11 of 12. My grandma plans to leave the house to all the kids. I think it's a HORRIBLE idea. Leave specific instructions or sell it and divide it all. It's too much of a headache.

[@carlosmiro4932]

How is this an asset if nobody is paying rent and there is no revenue?

[@greggpurviance7252]

It still has value. 200,000 estimated so an asset. If you own property you live in it is an asset even though you may or may not see gain on it, just not an income producing asset

[@carlosmiro4932]

@ But only one brother, who doesn’t pay a dime, lives in that house. How is it an asset to the other three?

[@kathleenherron594]

If they like coowning a house, they could force the house sale and choose to buy a house with the 3 siblings only. I’d say sell and just go on vacations together.

[@wenchyfoodwench4098]

Sue to force the sale. It’s time

[@jeannehenslick9465]

Parents were cowards.

[@fire12731]

The rent is $250/ month?

[@PungeonMon]

Not even rent. It's maintenance money for potential repairs. And he doesn't even pay that..

[@johnbriggs1038]

He wouldn't be invited to Thanksgiving or Christmas if he was part of my family. You don't get to take a good thing the parents did for their kids and turn it into a bad thing without consequences. The fact that he is actively ducking communication proves he knows what he is doing.

[@Happypeacelovee]

I think it's important to mention that the relationship is already strained he's completely ignoring them already so I'm sure he doesn't care if he's invited to Thanksgiving or Christmas

[@jaiazandapher]

Or you all buy him out, and if he wants to stay, he'll pay $1000 a month for maintenance and profit amongst the NOW 3 OWNERS. If he's not cool with it, he needs to be out 30 days after the buyout.

[@listerinr]

The up speak with this one is strong ugh

[@luisgiba]

KZbin experience sucks. Not only I have to bear the ads ad beginning that are terrible. But the whole video was dark for some weird reason.

[@shanep2760]

Force the sale, simple as that

[@YanilleCastillo-sf4vb]

Olive garden even lol

[@RichardLeo-mf3zb]

And when you sell the house, his share is 50K less the rent.

[@TheEGA4421]

Jade 🤭. I would have said "⭐bucks".

[@9liveslisa]

I personally would find a way to get my name off the deed and I would walk away.

[@itchyisvegeta]

I would totally take an Applebees gift card.

[@rmr24]

I believe it’s very difficult to evict someone in Texas, especially if their name is on the deed and there is no written agreement amongst the owners. Good luck.

[@greggpurviance7252]

Not an eviction (not that hard in TX) a dissolution of a partnership

[@vjs4539]

It's a liability for the other 3 siblings that don't live there

[@Cucumberflavoredmustard]

He's not paying or giving you the silent treatment just like ANY other deadbeat renter. They all have one thing in common: they are doing this because they already know they will be kicked out. They are just trying to extend the time. An eviction or forced sale will not be a surprise to them whatsoever, even though they will claim otherwise.

[@Happypeacelovee]

The relationship is over either way.

[@diceportz7107]

My Mom but the family home in a trust to be divided among 8 kids. Biggest nightmare. Do Not Ever do this to your kids. And can you imagine if one of us dies before the house is sold? Giving a clear title is a is tough under these circumstances.

[@jasonrodgers9063]

If they can force a sale, they NEED to deduct the deadbeat bother's 6 years of rent from his share!

[@NickAndTech]

Unless there was a written agreement about rent they can't deduct anything.

[@jasonrodgers9063]

@@NickAndTech Sometimes verbal agreements can be enforced in court (absent ANY written agreements) but it's not easy!

[@rustyburns1182]

Fake AI reviews

[@majorlagg9321]

She needs a Canadian attorney.

[@Sandy-of6gq]

Omg I am in the same situation...

[@cyoohoos]

As someone who wrote software for gift cards. It is a not the best use of your money. You’d be surprised how many people never use them, companies setup “expiration policies” to claim that money back and it is reported on the books as deferred revenue. You just donated your HARD EARNED $$$ to a major corporation. Give CASH. Don’t believe me… ask yourself …why is EVERY COMPANY now offering a gift card? When you see a display? It’s an interest free loan and most they never have to pay back.

[@IeldudeI]

I like Applebees. I dont want to go to Applebees by myself.

[@strangeroamer3219]

I'll go with you.

[@lyncurry2498]

Beyonce approves Red Lobster.

[@queen.kristal8395]

Sell the house and split the money .hes not going to pay anything since it was inherit to him

[@godsdozer]

fighting over 50K lol . Walk away and enjoy your life.

[@jaunt3603]

For some that is a lot of money. Imagine having a 50k medical debt to pay off or a student loan.

[@adamsartjourney]

That amount of money could set a lot of families up for success. I would put it in a college fund for my kids.

[@strangeroamer3219]

If you don't think that's a lot then give me $1,000. That should be like.pocketchange to you.and you.wont.miss it.

[@BradKandyCroftFamily]

All it takes is one selfish jerk to mess up a good thing.

[@AllinClay]

Dude, I withdrew 3k USD from my Elizzarda account yesterday. You should tell your subscribers about it so they can earn too

[@cyoohoos]

I want to:thank my therapist who helped me navigate a similar situation. All siblings were left the family home. I set up a 30, 90, 6 mo and one year plan. All were adults with independent lives and agreed to it. Within one year we sold the house and split the proceeds. Were there tense times, yes. Did we hurt feelings, yes. But to this day we are a family. And closer knit as a result

[@derrekm1317]

*$65k biweekly changed my mindset and behavior, my goals, my family and I've to say this video has inspired me a lot!!!!* ❤️

[@Sheilamakers]

I'm feeling really motivated. Could you share some details about the bi-weekly topic you brought up?

[@CammyKessler-m3c]

Yeah that’s possible, with Maria Frances Hanlon , I've come to the conclusion that financially anything is possible. I got my self my dream car 🚗 just last weekend and a whooping $320k biweekly profits

[@MiracleDaniels-j4j]

Wow 😱I know her too! Mrs Maria Frances Hanlon is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.

[@LouisAntony-lx9lq]

After I raised up to 825k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for loans we got from the mortgage company . Glory to God.shalom.

[@SelenaRodar-g1c]

I got started with a miserly $2000. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!!

[@imveryhungry112]

Why don't you just sell it?And then each of you get $50000.I'm sure the dude would move out of there for fifty thousand in cash.

[@pamelavesey6381]

Who is paying the taxes? Whoever pays the taxes, does the upkeep and inhabits the property for 10 years wins the deed.

[@iii9266]

I'd wager, with him being military and not living on base, he's drawing BEQ allowance and is pocketing the money...

[@alanlippincott2802]

Fax. He's collecting a fat entitlement on taxpayers dimes.

[@ja1980lady]

Sell it, split the proceeds except keep what he owes and split amongst the remaining siblings. Done.

[@1timothydillon]

Jade's not from there, she just works there. Tennessee will always be a place full of "you people".

[@amireallythatgrumpy6508]

America is a place full of "you people".

[@lindawilson4625]

Great advice. Sell! Geez...there's one in every family :-(

[@lms2379]

Starting to wonder if dying broke is actually the better blessing for your children....

[@YanilleCastillo-sf4vb]

He needs realize u guys won’t tolerate his spirit of entitlement. My first step is to gather with siblings on your side and hire a lawyer . Better call Saul just kidding but advice serious 💯

[@juelz713]

Thanksgiving in Canada is different from the US

[@paulhathaway5907]

Get an attorney and force the sale. In an effort to save the relationship offer him first right to purchase

[@lauraellsworth1813]

Haha Applebees...... I'm with Jade😂

[@IraDuncan]

J Alexanders is a good place.

[@DFullerLisa]

Something tells me he's the kid that the parents always bailed out and made excuses for.

[@JustinCase780]

Need to hear his side of the story. 😅

[@strangeroamer3219]

There's no time to hear his side. Ken was already heading to Applebee's for lunch.

[@MichaelThomasas-i9f]

Your videos are a source of inspiration and wisdom. Please continue to share your knowledge and experience with us!🕊🏄‍🛞

[@BREEZYM6015]

Hi

[@TrazimDollare1982]

Ken went to Red Lobster for Lunch

[@Yomine123]

She can get her own gift card she's an adult. NO GIFT CArD FOR YOU!!!!!!!😮

[@juliesayerworship]

Me either, Jade!

[@GG-zn5hx]

10 mins wasted.

[@KimberlyKing-l3e]

Your videos are an example of how to make content. Quality filming, competent editing and useful information. Thank you!🐣🎱📸

[@BREEZYM6015]

Hi

[@jimmymcgill6778]

So he have lived there for 6 years. They don't talk to each other. How does she know that he did not do any repairs. He's paying the utilities, insurance and taxes. He own 25% of it. Why should he pay any rent? Ken thinks 50k is nothing?

[@omnipi]

You are assuming he's paying all those ongoing costs. She says he did not make repairs. If what you're saying were true - which goes against the story as given - then ya, he's skipped paying into an account and is instead paying directly much more than $250 (six years a house will need more than $18k in utilities tax and repairs)

[@missnycforever7532]

rent is for repairs. If he'd had to rent elsewhere it would be significantly cheaper. They would be better served renting it on the open market and splitting the proceeds after upkeep cost. Now he is out here spending thousands of dollars in rental cost when he had almost free housing.

[@KS-cl8br]

you lack integrity... he doesn't own 75% of it so yeah he needs to pay 75% of market rent to his 3 siblings

[@KS-cl8br]

also him paying utilities doesn't count since he is living there, do you pay utilities or do you mouch off of others

[@jimmymcgill6778]

@@missnycforever7532 He owns 25% of the house. He lived there. So he was most likely dong repairs.

[@mezzem3909]

====== talk amount how some degrees are useless and incurring schoolbdebt is bad... I.e. get a degree that will bring you more than minium wage on a 200k$ student loan

[@greggpurviance7252]

Hard to "bless each one etc." when property is involved. It still has to be sold & distributed. Or the property is divided equally.

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Dave is a bully to those who don’t make money …

[@florencekimondo]

He's not he's just telling the truth

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

@ aka being a bully

[@amireallythatgrumpy6508]

@@HOLDXSTEEL To those who need to be bullied.

[@marklance033]

She haa to go 😮

[@jimroscovius]

I need to start this call over, and take a drink energy fine she says "like". I'll be drunk by the end.

[@gdolly166]

Agree w Jade. Applebee's is not good and they take forever to bring your food . Was like almost 2 hrs

[@ojg386]

Relationship more important than money.

[@jumanji5239]

That is no longer a relationship!

[@omnipi]

All the more reason to resolve the situation

[@Emjay_blackdogranch]

If my sibling is willing to scam me, or take advantage, I don’t want a relationship with them. I say this as someone who has gone no contact with a sister that took advantage of me financially

[@KateHall-p6s]

Your channel is a real source of inspiration and enjoyment. Thank you for your creativity and dedication!🌭👢😃

[@BREEZYM6015]

Hi

[@YaoAnne-j7g]

!I am at the beginning of my "investment journey", planning to put 385K into dividend stocks so that I will be making up to 30% annually in dividend returns. any good recommendation on great performing stocks or Crypto will be appreciated.

[@FederickLeo]

As a newbie investor, it’s essential for you to have a mentor to keep you accountable. Ruth Ann Tsakonas is my trade analyst, she has guided me to identify key market trends, pinpointed strategic entry points, and provided risk assessments, ensuring my trades decisions align with market dynamics for optimal returns.

[@DivaHarrison]

I managed to grow a nest egg of around 120k to over a Million. I'm especially grateful to Adviser Ruth Ann Tsakonas, for her expertise and exposure to different areas of the market.

[@FederickLeo]

I don't really blame people who panic. Lack of information can be a big hurdle. I've been making more than $200k passively by just investing through an advisor, and I don't have to do much work.. Inflation or no inflation, my finances remain secure. So I really don't blame people who panic.

[@DivaHarrison]

Without a doubt! Ruth Ann Tsakonas is a trader who goes above and beyond. she has an exceptional skill for analysing market movements and spotting profitable opportunities. Her strategies are meticulously crafted on thorough research and years of practical experience..

[@YaoAnne-j7g]

how would you recommend i enter the crypto market? I am also looking at studying some traders and copying their strategy rather than investing myself and losing money emotionally. What's your take on this approach? and How can i reach her, if you don't mind me asking?

[@AliceHill-t6k]

Keep surprising us with your ideas. Your videos are a real source of inspiration.💞🐆💫

[@BREEZYM6015]

Hi

[@اميره-ع3ل2ب]

My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called are God, man, I kiss your boots, My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 𝟬𝟬𝟵𝟲𝟳𝟳𝟭𝟮𝟱𝟮𝟮𝟮𝟬𝟮. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full /*&•̥·-`.`.`.`.`.•.,¸-•.,¸°꒰·̮ •̥·°`.`.`… nn…...............l ...... ……… .j… ,,,……… ..i. .......l,.. ,,,,,,, ,, ...,., , ..,. , , . .. . .. .. . .. .. .. . .. . ..... .. .. ... .. ... ... .. ... .. .. ... .. .. .... .. .. .. . .. ..,.,.,. , , .,.,.. .........

[@BREEZYM6015]

Are there any local organizations that can help you?

[@ruthirwin8222]

I have left my home to my 3 daughters to sell and split or if one of them needs it then that can be worked out between them, they all love and respect each other so i dont forsee a problem

[@arthrodea]

Hahaha. I bet that’s what the parents of these 4 thought would happen too. Don’t set your kids up for a mess like this.

[@LindaLopez-u4p]

Your channel is like a ray of light in the KZbin world. Keep inspiring us with your videos!🤹‍🔵🐩

[@lindacondilli6494]

Who is paying taxes and insurance?

[@YanilleCastillo-sf4vb]

He needs realize u guys won’t tolerate his spirit of entitlement. My first step is to gather with siblings on your side and hire a lawyer . Better call Saul just kidding but advice serious 💯

[@اميره-ع3ل2ب]

My appeal to every Muslim, my brother or sister, the owner of the channel, I know that it is not my right to comment on your channel, but God is my witness that our circumstances are harsh and forced me to do this. Please forgive me. My brother, there is still a brotherhood of faith. I asked you for a bag of flour. My brother, we women cannot go out among men. There is still a woman with you. My brother, God has honored you. You are men. We are women. We cannot go out or work like you. My brother, where is the brotherhood of faith in your hearts? We are women. There is no brotherhood, no mercy, no compassion, no humanity. And give good tidings to the patient. It is the greatest hope while waiting for what we want. '''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' How many times I called are God, man, I kiss your boots, My brother, this is my WhatsApp number: 𝟬𝟬𝟵𝟲𝟳𝟳𝟭𝟮𝟱𝟮𝟮𝟮𝟬𝟮. Whoever can help us, message me on WhatsApp. We will send him the full /*&•̥·-`.`.`.`.`.•.,¸-•.,¸°꒰·̮ •̥·°`.`.`… nn…...............l ...... ……… .j… ,,,……… ..i. .......l,.. ,,,,,,, ,, ...,., , ..,. , , . .. . .. .. . .. .. .. . .. . ..... .. .. ... .. ... ... .. ... .. .. ... .. .. .... .. .. .. . .. ..,.,.,. , , .,.,.. .........