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[@RyanABC123]

Anyone else notice the ex husband and the lawyer the problem. She takes no responsibility for anything. I bet there’s a lot more to the story.

[@David-wo9un]

Not surprisingly, Dave says nothing to hold her accountable for anything; hate the double standards he has for men/women. He would never advise bankruptcy to a man, probably tell him to get a fourth job.

[@bryankovar2930]

That's because Dave can be trash sometimes.

[@RyanABC123]

@@bryankovar2930 this comment no makey senses.

[@susiex6669]

​@@David-wo9unYou have Dave Ramsay confused with Gerry Springer.

[@The_Food_Police]

What world be the point of verbally flogging her for things she can't go back in time and charge?

[@Jamaal225]

Imagine had this been a man calling in. Dave would have ripped him a new one! Told him to man up & support his kids. Smh

[@josephhuman7390]

Exactly he would have!!

[@Xander71267]

are your feelings hurt?

[@Jamaal225]

@@Xander71267 not in the slightest but clearly yours are to be commenting 2 years later💀💀😭😭😭

[@James_Hough]

Practicing law for almost 25 years. Something here doesn't make sense.

[@joslinnick]

She's obviously leaving certain things out. Maybe the attorney told her that she would have to pay the child support, but she still tried to fight it?

[@dcamnc1]

Yeah I agree. She's not being honest about something.

[@lot2196]

She was messing around? Maybe.

[@rchi3906]

Yep, straight psycho

[@ohmylanta9973]

she's gambling her paychecks to try to get rid of child suport

[@HoneyDooDoo]

Used to be men in this position. How the tides have turned.

[@susiex6669]

They have 50/50 custody. Why is she paying him? That makes no sense.

[@semicron5159]

@@susiex6669 she makes more money than him. 50/50 does not guarantee no child support

[@xsgtxbigboy1655]

@@susiex6669guys pay child support on 50/50 every day your just saying this cause it’s a girl now lolll she deserves it

[@catherinewilke5583]

@@susiex6669the higher wage earner gets stuck with CS and sometimes alimony. It’s horrible.

[@djpuplex]

Child support sorry lady happens to men allll the time. Allll the time. Equality 🤗

[@CaBdosdos]

Don't be so petty, it's about the cost associated. Men are more deadbeats than women. Just look at yourself, no position to raise a boy into a man when you're so childish.

[@djpuplex]

@@CaBdosdos Equality. I hope to see more of this in the future. Hits a little close to home huh.

[@rachelcarper9297]

Child support should only be paid when a parent is actually providing most of the support. Why is a parent paying child support when he/she has the kid 50% of the time.

[@djpuplex]

@@rachelcarper9297 Happens all the time to men. Equality. Sucks don't it.

[@pep590]

Not the child support issue at all. It's the continuous taking the non-custodial parent back to court to keep try to raise the support. Two totally different issues.

[@fhuber7507]

Divorce really is $50 grand... And this time it's the woman paying. Reverse the genders and Dave would be applauding the woman for getting all she can.

[@simplybeef8232]

Yup

[@rockintherae]

Incel

[@rockintherae]

Incel

[@apophispnw5717]

“Sell your car, beans and rice rice and beans, and get a 4th job delivering pizzas, boom done better than you deserve.”

[@simplybeef8232]

That's the approach Dave wouldn't taken if it was a male calling

[@jeromehenry4484]

Her first mistake was taking on 2nd & 3rd jobs, that's when the courts up your Child Support payments. I commend her for trying to pay-off debts, but her case is proof sometimes it is more beneficial to declare Bankruptcy over taking on additional jobs to pay down debts.

[@terryboydii5713]

lol 😂😂😂

[@black4vcobra]

The breakup of family structure is bad enough but the courts just make it impossible for people to proceed. I had a coworker who had to pay child support to his ex who had primary custody. He had to pay 25% of his gross salary to them and then all payroll deductions and taxes were taken form his 75%. How is that fair at all?

[@mbank3832]

This is why you sign prenups. If she refuses, red flag

[@asafry2873]

I think state law regarding child custody has precedence over prenups

[@rockintherae]

He should have married better

[@TimeisUp22]

Its not a one size fits all. Is the ex working? Did you have a good lawyer? Was the judge having a bad day? Did his income increase over the years? Does he receive quarterly raises, side income? How many kids? So many factors. Justice is never “fair”

[@jeromehenry4484]

You didn't say how much your co-worker made. Most states have a minimum that must be paid on the 1st child, then a smaller amount for each additional child. For example: if he made $1K/month and the state's minimum for 1st child is $250/month, then that would work out to 25% of his gross monthly income.

[@Tcb245]

We need an update on how this turned out for her.

[@tracygaluszynski1868]

It's only been six months.

[@alrbredwall]

This is usually how it is working for the fathers. It's interesting seeing the genders reversed. Usually when a father who owes child support to a mother who does not work and keeps taking him to court files for bankruptcy, the world calls him a dead beat dad.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Indeed it is interesting. Don't know why Dave seem so shocked about her paying child support and owing $25k. That's common with the guys I know and more than $25k. The guy seem to be using the same weaponized child support tactic women have been using against men since the 90s.

[@noregertsyamsayin8011]

@@blackworldtraveler3711 but but but women shouldn't have to do that it's unfair bahaha

[@KennTollens]

Good point. If it was a guy calling, then Dave would probably tell him to call the Waambulance.

[@clwest3538]

@@blackworldtraveler3711 You did hear in the vid that the 25k was owed to the attny - not child support, right?

[@shachede6828]

It is 2022!

[@kayn2756]

Why was she fighting the child support using an attorney? The extra money for the attorney could have covered month's if not years worth of child support. Amazing

[@Freedomchild85]

Pride. She let pride dig her into a bigger hole 🕳

[@terryboydii5713]

People always get lawyers in situations like this because they know have done wrong by not paying the child support that they were ordered to pay they do stupid things like go spend thousands on a lawyer to fight child support that they’re still going to owe on top of paying for a lawyer.

[@thesmartbudgetchannel2940]

I don't feel sorry for her women been screwing men over in the child support department for a long time.

[@jimmymcgill6778]

If this was a man that called. Dave would say to just pay the bill.

[@DBS472]

After spending 20 mins saying what a piece of trash you are and saying you should goto jail

[@nicholeknight1893]

That's dumb, she should have paid the child support. She was better off paying the child support and instead of trying to fight it. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@grantguy8933]

The lawyers are the problem.

[@jwlsngold5026]

You weren't listening. Her Ex is a scumbag and being a full-time student and making $10.50/hr means that she is funding his lifestyle. I wish we knew how old she and her daughter were, and why she's paying child support on a 50/50 patenting plan, doesn't seem right.

[@trent797]

Mistakes were made.

[@pep590]

She said that she didn't pay her child support? All I heard was she didn't pay the lawyer that was representing her in the fight to keep the support from being raised up. Maybe I missed something.

[@DisabilityExams]

Doesn't pay her child support, doesn't want to pay her attorney's fees - this woman is 100% irresponsible and Dave is simping for her.

[@simplybeef8232]

I find that Dave sympathizes with women more than men in general

[@HealthCoachHayley]

She pays her child support, she owes an attorney 25k largely due to the pandemic delays. Listen

[@tylerhandsome7344]

@@simplybeef8232 it’s almost as if men and women are different psychologically, physical etc who knew??

[@simplybeef8232]

@@tylerhandsome7344 okay you go ahead and let women walk all over you, just cause they cry and want their way

[@ana10g]

💯

[@TeeJay_757]

Another victim of "wamanism" only this time it's friendly fire. Welcome to the club sis

[@HOLDXSTEEL]

Lady needs to pay her child support. Attorney fees are on her

[@pep590]

Sounds like she is trying to keep it from be raised and raised. I know how that was.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

@@pep590 Yup, she was fighting it thinking she would win!

[@Cookieboy70]

Instead of paying what is legally obligated to support her kids, she gave it to an attorney. What was she thinking?

[@CaBdosdos]

Probably why she doesn't have custody lol.

[@italoddd]

Kelvin Samuel always said, "woman need to be "RIGHT" every time"

[@ChampippleD]

She didnt give it to her attorney, she used his services, didn’t pay the bill and that’s why she is being sued.

[@Cookieboy70]

@@ChampippleD I meant that was her intention. To eliminate the child support, by paying an attorney to get that done.

[@Rahbinah]

@@italoddd Isn't that the old dead guy that was found in his apartment after spending the night with the heavyset woman? I think his name was Kevin, not Kelvin.

[@fantasiab.7917]

She pays child support and has 50/50 custody. Her debt is for the attorney probably because her ex keeps asking for more money and putting in more motions not because she’s not paying child support

[@KCoopp9]

Yep!

[@RichTalk_nikRich]

Yes

[@roolyfe]

Get more money 💰! Equal 🟰 rights

[@xenn4985]

Yaaassss king. Get that bag.

[@simplybeef8232]

So....women have been doing that to men since the 70S....

[@vincenthernandez8]

She’s not telling the whole story must have had dirt on her being a bad mother 75% of the time the mom gets the kids. You can make payments to a lawyer. She must have fell behind.

[@89sightt]

In Florida it's easy to get 50 / 50 custody for men.

[@sanj6576]

That's not how it works. With 50/50, child support is usually computed on contributions by both parents. Each parent is assigned a percentage. It appears the mom has more to pay because she is a higher earner. It has nothing to do with her being a bad mother.

[@sharonhalk8679]

The attorney should know that there’s a limit to how much of her paycheck can be garnished and if child support is already being garnished, what more does he think he’s gonna get? Doesn’t sound like he’s a very good attorney or very bright! I once had an attorney bill me for more hours in one day than most people are awake and he told me he woke up in the middle of the night thinking about my case. I’m not paying for your insomnia!

[@macpduff2119]

This demonstrates what divorced men have been dealing with for decades. The courts grind up divorced parents

[@brianlaya6895]

This lady sounds like her own worst enemy

[@gtathletics912]

In a couple of weeks ima start trying to call in and describe the exact situation from a guys prospective and see if he acts totally different

[@David-wo9un]

Pull up past videos and you will have your answer. The woman is always the victim and the man is never working hard enough.

[@DBS472]

Will call the cops himself to get you tossed in jail

[@aint2proud2meg]

Well yeah but they don’t usually have 50/50 custody either. And then dad gets to have his adult college venture subsidized by her? That’s wrong no matter what genders are on which side.

[@simplybeef8232]

@@aint2proud2meg yes women get 50/50 custody and child support all the time...quit turning a blind eye and just do 10 minutes of research

[@rachelcarper9297]

@@simplybeef8232 doesn't make it right

[@joycewright5386]

I have no sympathy for anyone that doesn’t pay child support. I grew up in a single parent household with no child support.

[@pep590]

She said that she didn't pay her child support? All I heard was she didn't play the lawyer that was re[resenting her in the fight to keep the support from being raised up. Maybe I missed something.

[@ana10g]

💯

[@gmarie3053]

No child support should be paid in 50/50 custody. You both pay for your kids during your half, makes sense to me

[@clwest3538]

@@gmarie3053 That would be logical and fair ... not something family courts are know for ...

[@roolyfe]

Family court is a business! It’s all about the money not best for the kids

[@d_all_in]

Dave's simping again

[@boxelder9147]

Big time

[@FrankS111]

This is true equality. Enjoy

[@Astro95Media]

Bingo. My ex-wife pays me child support through 2032. And it was a female judge who handed down that decision. Amazing.

[@pep590]

@@Astro95Media Me too, but this is the continuous taking the non-custodial parent back to court to keep try to raise the support. Two totally different issues.

[@simplybeef8232]

@@pep590 well she needs to support him...she makes more...HE deserves half of her stuff...INCLUDING 401k

[@craigadams3639]

Caller: Omg I can’t do this anymore I just want to give up I’m paying too much . I just want to cry. Men: first time huh

[@mjj8560]

​@craigadams3639 lol I love it 😂😂😂

[@roolyfe]

She is 💯 honest! Men usually never 👎 get child support and alimony! Equal rights!

[@TheAgentmigs]

Dudes livin good.

[@MrTmenzo]

Get your money kings!

[@Hi-qt2nj]

WE ARE KINGS. Stay on our bag men.

[@tkleo2006]

80% of the time courts side with a women or wife and she knows she will likely get away with initiating a divorce for no good reason. If this guy cheated or was beating her I would feel for her.

[@mbank3832]

I know.hate it when ho*s bring out gender equality when it suits them but then turn around and say men should be responsible for this and that when they are feeling entitled

[@andreaj8319]

Ken was a little unrealistic at the end and even Dave couldn’t look like he agreed lol.

[@Jenlovescoasters]

Reason number 2000 to not have kids or get married.

[@ruboo8053]

The father has probably got primary custody and she gets weekends and holidays ... sadly I don’t believe her

[@memphmane86]

Paying child support had my pockets on life support 🤣

[@evelyndaisy9722]

You mEan taking care of your kids

[@zaad5273]

8:22 Ken should've just kept quiet the entire episode! 😭😭😭 Horrendous advice dude! yeah just find a second higher paying job, why didn't this lady just think of that already?? 🤪

[@drewdelaney4166]

Absurd advice. Easier said then done. Oo ya I want to be a nuclear engineer and make bank why didn’t I think of doing that

[@anthonykence9954]

People and their messes and their bad marriages

[@JazChapmanTV]

Stop fighting the child support & pay it. It's costing you too much money

[@JaneDough23]

She owes this to the lawyer....not child support

[@JazChapmanTV]

@@JaneDough23every time she fights it, the lawyer gets paid

[@EricAndradeMusic]

This is literally how every man ends up after a divorce. Zero sympathy. Suck it up like almost every man has to.

[@archangel5991]

This call is a clear example of Ramsay Network hosts never being willing to criticize women. Not hating, still love everything they do just saying, if this was a man calling Dave would tell him to pull himself up by the bootstraps.

[@kentondragon9263]

In the end the house always wins, lawyers and courts as well, try and avoid these sharks/systems 🥺🙏 edit: I forgot banks🙄

[@FrankS111]

Happens to thousands of men everyday. Welcome to equality.

[@lcm4951]

Ken gets very little speaking time when he teams up with Dave. Sometimes it's hard to watch Dave talk over him and cut him off. 😕

[@cutehumor]

It's called Ramsey solutions not Coleman solutions

[@lcm4951]

@@cutehumor cool 👍

[@dkaik]

Anything to get Ken less time to talk, the better honestly

[@MissHunterELA]

@@cutehumor 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭this comment got me

[@princekiki33]

EQUALITY!!!! no excuses in life

[@klein2252]

I’m just going to say it, Dave is probably team Amber Heard 😂😂😂

[@xiomaragomez6649]

I can't 😆😆😆

[@oldfordman68]

I know this video has probably posted after the fact but I would suggest that you file the bankruptcy before you go to court tomorrow, because I guarantee he already has the paperwork drawn up to act on it and he will serve you notice that same day and possibly take anything you have in the bank.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

Probably cannot bankrupt on child support, men have tried, Judges are wise to that

[@pahanin2480]

Considering the courts are biased in favor of woman in custody cases, the father must be quite an amazing parent to win custody

[@xiomaragomez6649]

She said custody was 50/50 🤔

[@simplybeef8232]

Dave you are giving her a "aww pooor baby" approach...she deserves the same as all the other men..if you don't pay you go to jail...doesn't matter if you physically don't make enough...she deserves jail

[@DBS472]

Dave would’ve called the cops himself if it was a man

[@choicemeatrandy6572]

Men are different than women dude.

[@headypie]

Did Dave just say he would borrow it?

[@lkj0822g]

One lawyer in town can make a good living. Two lawyers, and dang if they both don't get rich. I believe it was Mark Twain that said that. In my twisted mind: Lawyer A calls up Lawyer B and tells him "Hey man, let's keep this going. I think we can still get some more fees out of them."

[@DBS472]

Welcome to being a man in America

[@xiomaragomez6649]

Poor you, imagine being a woman in America 😐

[@rachelcarper9297]

These type of child support cases are so sad to me. If the custody is split 50/50 then no one should be paying child support. Why should she pay child support for a child she is already supporting 50% of the time. Why should he not have to support his own child? He only has her 50% of the time and then he's getting money for that time. It's such a messed up system.

[@bryankovar2930]

Welcome to being a man. We typically take it up the poop chute 99% of the time. She needs to step up and stop being a dead beat dad.

[@xsgtxbigboy1655]

😂😂😂 million of men are doing the same but you care ab the one women doing it sad sad

[@rwebster1234]

Just so I understand, you think if a man was making $100,000 before the divorce and the wife was not working and then they get divorced that the wife should not receive any money from my husband because they have 50/50 custody? Another words regardless of who makes more, each parent just pays for the care while they have that child? Because this is not how it happens in court.

[@michaelbutler1458]

"bankruptcy is a horrible process to go through" I love you Dave, but when I was facing over 80k in medical bills and consumer debt, the stress of all these debts, garnishments and law suits was far worse to bare than the bankruptcy process. I literally met with an attorney to review my case, paid the $1200 fee to file, Had my court date, and was clear of everything within 3 months. Best thing I ever did. 3 Years later my credit is already back to a 718. I bought a house 6 months ago, $0 debt other than the mortgage, 12k in an emergency fun, fully investing in my retirement. I've never felt so free. I cant image going back 3 years ago and still having the stress and anxiety of trying to work through the debts and law suits. Best thing I ever did and Ive never looked back or have any regrets.

[@wellnesscanceradvocate8564]

Thanks for sharing. I'm filing right now over an 08 debt that turned into a wage garnishment. They added on 26,000 in interest. That will take me years to pay off. My debt was only 10,000. I can't wait till its filed.

[@iblizzard7573]

Hope you thanked the tax payers for paying your debt

[@wellnesscanceradvocate8564]

@@michaelbutler1458 . I totally agree. I didn’t eat for 3 days before I filed due to stress. I paid way more than you did. 2,700 with Geraci law 🥲.How did you get your credit back up? What are best ways to do it and which cards are best ? Mine should be dismissed 60-90 days they said.

[@wellnesscanceradvocate8564]

@@iblizzard7573 Did you tell Dave that ? He filed himself.

[@bettysmith4527]

Another video that teaches us to stay single and never get married, it's just not worth it...

[@jeepinass]

A-fricken-men!

[@edb484]

FACTS 💯

[@craigcarter400]

Having a girlfriend maybe but I don’t think I’ll marry again.

[@casualleviathan5926]

Good job on the attorney. Keep going man. Should have paid the bills lady.

[@ana10g]

💯

[@nicholeknight1893]

That part. That man represented her for two years.

[@Allergic2broke]

Lol this is what millions of men have to deal with every day. Sucks doesn’t it?

[@PasturePig]

Has to be more to this story!

[@ChinaConsultingTravelBlog]

Agree. I get the feeling she did something

[@DMS1010]

Nobody will loan her 5 k unfortunately

[@jimmymcgill6778]

He's OK stiffing the lawyer by filing bankruptcy? She know how much the lawyer was charging. Why should the lawyer be out what he is legally owed? Why should the lawyer work for free? Dave want's to give the lawyer only 5k?

[@hiteshadhikari]

I hope he sabotages her case for worse

[@wrongwayeric]

If only all Attorney's only got 5k per case. Think what a Wonderfull world it would be.

[@dasheffield5596]

I’m glad a woman is experiencing what us men go through all the time at Family Court.

[@MarcyJ2F]

It should be “I’m sorry ANYONE is going through this” SMH. Why is it always a gender issue?

[@alinatamashevich3354]

@@MarcyJ2F Ever see a man leave divorce court with a duffel bag full of cash? me either. Bout time....equal rights!

[@MarcyJ2F]

@@alinatamashevich3354 you must be the side chick/2nd or 3rd wife. Bad experience?

[@alinatamashevich3354]

@@MarcyJ2F Nope, I am not as dumb as you are. I can spot a player/Chad from a mile away.

[@Jamaal225]

Well well well ain’t no fun when the rabbit got the gun. This is what us men have been dealing with for years! I feel bad for her but it’s good to see that the system can go both ways.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

BINGO, perfect comment

[@02DodgeViper]

I think there’s more to this story. We (and Dave) are getting a 5 minute story on years issues.

[@alinatamashevich3354]

She thinks she is going to win, cause the courts are stacked against men.

[@FortuneSeek3rz]

You know it.

[@tracymcgraw]

Feel bad for this woman. There are exceptions but women always want equal rights and responsibilities until it comes to child support and custody. I have joint custody with both my sons and i still have to pay child support. Mother works some dead end job and gets gov assistance. Fully capable of working but chooses not to because why would she when everything gets handed to her. The system is completely broken.

[@Iburn247]

I hope the husband gets everything he can out of her.

[@jayafow84]

Yea work three jobs easy for u to say! File bankruptcy not the end of the world.

[@Jp-mn1rq]

She has a judgement for a reason that involves personal accountability issues.

[@freedomworks3976]

Never get married Ya I know the Christians love it but more fortunes have ben destroyed due to this then anything else.

[@FortuneSeek3rz]

What's stopping men from marrying for money like women do?

[@SeanBaker]

The lawyer is gonna act on it as soon as he wins. Come on, Dave.

[@donaldlyons17]

It was better to be honest from the beginning!!!! She should have told the lawyer from the start my situation is X. People I lived with were not able to pay for s**t and they were going to try to get access but refused to leave when they did not have to money. Imagine if the law had to pay every time everyone ran up bills they could not pay knowing they did not have it to begin with.

[@noregertsyamsayin8011]

I'm going to get my popcorn ready for this comment section all day!

[@everydaydadfixinit4803]

If this was a father.....she would scream that he is a dead beat loser

[@JasonGroom]

I notice everything is hey ex husbands and the attorneys fault, and as usual, Dave didn't hold her accountable for her bad decisions. If this call was reversed, he would be yelling at the husband that he screwed up, he made a mess, and he needs to pay for his dag gum kids

[@edb484]

Calls like this makes glad I don’t have kids. Drama free over here

[@knicholas8768]

Calls like this make me glad I had kids with someone I’m enjoying raising them alongside. Drama free over here as well.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Yeah I prefer renting my nieces and nephews.

[@ginoturano6821]

Dave should help her and give her 25000

[@miketheyunggod2534]

That's pocket change for him.

[@ChampippleD]

Why? She fought her child support in court to the point of stupid, then stiffed her lawyer on his services. If this was a man calling in, Dave would have ripped him a new one that he needs to support his children and pay his lawyer.

[@larryhawes8295]

I filed bankruptcy and it wasn't horrible at all, it was simply a necessary financial decision.

[@cazpk6840]

In some countries it means never getting a job again cos u have to declare it on every form.

[@MartianAmbassador69]

So early she's definitely not calling me back...

[@sandraammons6672]

You can’t file bankruptcy on any kind of child support.

[@Michael-jo9jb]

There's a whole lot more to this story than she's saying.

[@ziggy44132]

You owe him money. Pay him.

[@alfonsojimenez2389]

Men deal with this situation all the time. Oh well

[@georgesoledad2871]

Just start going to school too. Lol

[@evanscott9473]

I have zero empathy for this caller.

[@COINsimp2024]

If she from California? Sounds like all the attorneys out here, lol. Between filing for bankruptcy (10k) and paying this attorney (25k), child support would have been way less.

[@jimmydean4494]

This is why men don't want to marry anymore

[@cmnhl1329]

Maybe she cheated? Idk

[@BrianErwin]

just because you file bankruptcy, doesn't mean you can't still pay your debts. and a lot of banks you bankrupt will still send you another credit card. also, take a page from your ex husband's playbook and go find a guy to take care of you while you become a full time student. her husband sounds pretty pathetic.

[@adamseidel9780]

She’s been doing this for four years and he’s still a full time student? Will at some point he not be a full time student? Costs should go down then.

[@fhuber7507]

It's a game women usually play... full time student as a career choice. Always stay registered for enough classes and get a check. They don't have to pass the classes... they don't have to ever get a degree. Claim emotional damage as the reason they never graduate.

[@hiteshadhikari]

The man is beating her in womens own game

[@xsgtxbigboy1655]

Love the “you may child support????” Yes Dave women should pay to you never care about the men and say “you need time be on child support “ now you care cause it’s a girl

[@tracygaluszynski1868]

Every divorced father: "Cry me a river".

[@rhh6470]

Can she get legal aide help? No more attorney fees

[@big123lak]

"yes I could do that but theres 100% always going to be a reason I cant do anything!, pls help what do I do?" LMAO people like this just want to complain and have people agree with their complaining like its helping ive met way to many people in issues to know theres ALWAYS a way and its always YOUR FAULT, the only thing I can ever say, is if there is nothing you can do, theres nothing you can do ! deal with it then !

[@jesssc402]

I just woke up from a nightmare that my wonderful husband and i separated and i’m with this new person, and he took out all of our retirement savings, sought a Dave Ramsey individual stock pick decided by the alignment of the moon and the sun 😭😭😭 woke up hugging my husband tightly and went back to this channel

[@grod805]

men go through this all the time.

[@blackworldtraveler3711]

Welcome to the club lady.

[@hollyb6885]

With 50/50 custody she shouldn’t have to Pay any child support. Her ex is a full time student and works part time?? Too bad. He should be made to get a full time job and be a part time student.

[@moneypro85]

She's not going to qualify for a chapter 7 making 65k owing $25k. She will fail the means test and end up on a payment plan. He knows she doesn't qualify for a chapter 7. That's why he's suing her.

[@jez5855]

Look at all the miserable men paying child supports in the comments... Meanwhile, sitting here being a child of separated parents, all I can do is feel very sad for this mother. If you truly want the best for your child, give them a stable home. So make sure you work on your marriage before even thinking about having kids.

[@thedestinationstation]

Why do I feel like this isn’t all the details involving the attorney

[@barbararepko4824]

Of course Dave sided with the woman and was easy on her as always.

[@johndavidson940]

How is the ex able to afford an attorney to file motions to get more child support on 10:50 an hour?

[@terrid1030]

Free legal aide

[@ChristoherWGray]

If i was broke and facing bankruptcy i would call the Time Share Exit team like the Boomer used to advise.

[@rcvg69420]

This is wild, two adults so spiteful they'd rather pay a lawyer all their income than get along and do what's best for their child.

[@nathan1118]

Most likely cheated and that’s what ended the marriage, now ex husband wants to make sure she feels pain too. Our actions have consequences.

[@jeep19]

Yeah, some people married for the wrong reason, wrong person, and had kids to make a bigger mess.