I Have A $27,000 Credit Card Debt Mess!

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@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
My hi water mark for credit cards was $27,000. It took me years to pay off. It was a war. Now it’s zero and cut up. Now I have $40k in savings and zero debt and my house paid off. Dave has helped me sooo much.
@eligreg99
@eligreg99 10 ай бұрын
You motivate me. I have 25k in student loans, 1,600 of credit card debt (still in the intro period 0% APR), and owe about 3,800 on my car still which I would’ve paid off 2 months ago if I didn’t have a car accident that cost me 2,000 out of nowhere
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 10 ай бұрын
@@eligreg99 it was hard. But it was worth it. Now my life is exact opposite of worry. My daughter called me recently and asked “Can I borrow $3000.?” I said no u can have it. She was so happy. LoL
@collinandry1188
@collinandry1188 10 ай бұрын
How did you do it ?? @pink77W1
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 10 ай бұрын
@@collinandry1188 said no to myself a lot. Ate at home. I went from $27k down to $16k So happy. Then my dad died and left me $21k. So I paid it off. Then I ran it back up to $11k. Then I said no more and got it back to zero and cut it up. Now I just use cash and savings.
@miamiflorida6965
@miamiflorida6965 7 ай бұрын
Awesome! ❤
@SRTBOAT
@SRTBOAT 2 жыл бұрын
I'm watching Dave on repeat after making some really stupid financial decisions.
@2legit2Kwit
@2legit2Kwit Жыл бұрын
I binge watch him when I need motivation
@paulc3749
@paulc3749 Жыл бұрын
Me too🙂
@Dogbehu
@Dogbehu Жыл бұрын
I did the same thing! I watched the videos over and over, I changed my way of thinking about money and cleared out the debt in 18months!
@nikkif9873
@nikkif9873 Жыл бұрын
@@Dogbehu 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@joshuab1707
@joshuab1707 Жыл бұрын
Been there sir. 3.5 years ago I leased a car and found Dave shortly after cuz I felt awful about the financial decision. I was close to making another bad decision and here I am reminding myself not to get into another mess.
@Ka_Gg
@Ka_Gg 2 жыл бұрын
Dave needs another saying "Delete the Amazon account"
@marywebb9127
@marywebb9127 2 жыл бұрын
Lots of people are addicted to buying that stuff.
@FortuneSeek3rz
@FortuneSeek3rz 2 жыл бұрын
Click click buy
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
At least disconnect all cards from the Amazon account.
@actual_doge3221
@actual_doge3221 Жыл бұрын
@Jessica Smith Yea, the free shipping makes you wanna buy more than you really need
@deb9806
@deb9806 Жыл бұрын
He doesn't hate buying, he buys tons, his wife loves expensive over 500 dollar purses, he just wants you to afford it.
@KB-sg7tv
@KB-sg7tv 2 жыл бұрын
$800 a month for rent is EXTREMELY CHEAP. Especially to live in a nice place like Dallas. She makes plenty of money. Kid doesn't need to go to private school and she's probably spending on other stuff that's also unnecessary.
@tracym8952
@tracym8952 2 жыл бұрын
Rent is EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE no matter how much it is. Buy a house
@redfox_84
@redfox_84 2 жыл бұрын
@@tracym8952 buying a house isn't cheap either, but renting sucks. Not to mention maintenance.
@alrbredwall
@alrbredwall 2 жыл бұрын
@@tracym8952 beside the point and irrelevant. This caller would die if they tried to maintain a house if they can't survive a 800 dollar rent payment. The moment this chick's roof on a house went out she would be done.
@BabyGators
@BabyGators 2 жыл бұрын
Agree, but I’m surprised both rent/utilities and private school are only 800 + 400 and 500 respectively. She should have WAY more left over. She has more than 3k left over post tax after you deduct those.
@alrbredwall
@alrbredwall 2 жыл бұрын
@@BabyGators it's bad money management. This chick doesn't even know where the money is going
@countessstevens63
@countessstevens63 Жыл бұрын
After she said she only has $10 left in her paycheck, I felt the air leave the room.
@srs9973
@srs9973 Ай бұрын
83000 to just 10... Scary as shit
@nicksparta9580
@nicksparta9580 19 күн бұрын
She probably meant 10 left after a weekly paycheque@@srs9973
@OneLove7491
@OneLove7491 Жыл бұрын
83k with $800 a month on rent, even if she pays $500 a month on private school she is budgeting extremely poorly
@kikyamart8749
@kikyamart8749 3 ай бұрын
Interest rates are killer... Your be surprised how the money just slips away when you're credit cards are maxed out.
@victorkreitner754
@victorkreitner754 Ай бұрын
Time to take the kid out of that private school. That alone is 6K a year that could pay her debt. Suck it up in the public system...lol
@Ryan125y
@Ryan125y Ай бұрын
​@@victorkreitner754It would but the local public schools are likely garbage if her rent is $800 a month. Move back in with Grandma and Grandpa. Put that 800 a month towards the CC. Dept free in 4 years.
@heartSLB
@heartSLB 2 жыл бұрын
With a 83k/year salary I’m glad she has the means to get out of this debt quickly and organize her financial life so she and her kid are stable!
@cashoutkevin
@cashoutkevin Жыл бұрын
i make around 70k a year and live rent free with my parents no kids im paying off this 5k credit card debt in like 5 weeks but i still feel broke and this is how much my dad made when he had me... scary
@Dawid-se4lc
@Dawid-se4lc 9 ай бұрын
Yeah, advice number 1 don’t buy food I guess
@mikestephens5346
@mikestephens5346 8 ай бұрын
@@cashoutkevin LGB!
@davidh8081
@davidh8081 6 ай бұрын
I make over $90k gross. After insurance, landlord, groceries and government takes their share, there is not much left. 😢
@mikebarker6979
@mikebarker6979 3 ай бұрын
83k after tax and with the cost of living these days is fa
@hollyb6885
@hollyb6885 11 ай бұрын
I’m sooooo glad they asked her what she spent the credit card money on. I HATE it when callers just give their debts as “credit cards” and no one questions it further. Credit card debt for medical bills vs credit card debt for vacations is something Dave needs to know to help callers.
@FortuneSeek3rz
@FortuneSeek3rz 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly the debt trap became real when we enabled people to 1-click buy things using their phone anywhere in the world. It's far too easy to get into debt and far too hard to get out.
@paulc3749
@paulc3749 Жыл бұрын
💯👍
@millertoyal
@millertoyal Жыл бұрын
It's called " being responsible." Perhaps you're not familiar. Just because you CAN do something, doesn't mean you SHOULD!
@FortuneSeek3rz
@FortuneSeek3rz Жыл бұрын
@@millertoyal That's the point. It gives people a convenient portal to do something they shouldn't do.
@hikerhobby1204
@hikerhobby1204 Жыл бұрын
It’s called “Don’t push the button.”
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 Жыл бұрын
For sure For sure 😊
@cuccia22-70
@cuccia22-70 2 жыл бұрын
Once she said kid and single mom. His voice and tone changes. God bless you for paying for that class for her.
@Ryan_DeWitt
@Ryan_DeWitt 2 жыл бұрын
So, what you are saying is because she is a "single mom" that by default automatically puts her in a special class worthy of more sympathy and bad behavior acceptance?
@Ka_Gg
@Ka_Gg 2 жыл бұрын
She has plenty of money. There are many times where people have a far worse situation and he doesn't take care of their financial peace University cost. He just went into simp mode like usual
@cuccia22-70
@cuccia22-70 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ka_Gg I have seen him do this randomly with a lot of people. Given free books out free clas out. He can’t pay for everyone. How he picks is on Dave. I feel it’s random. Young lady reaching out for help. Weather she has the money or not that’s not the problem. She called cause she know she has a bad relationship with her momey was simply reaching out for guildness. She didn’t ask for it for free. She was reaching to help her understand money relationship and have a better grab on her money. Not all people are good with money. You guys can take this how you want. Not everyone can get it free and randomly picking people here and there is awsome of Dave. God bless him for helping. ( anyone)
@Ka_Gg
@Ka_Gg 2 жыл бұрын
@@cuccia22-70 He gave it to her because he was simping for her. They do that alot on this show. If this was a guy with the same situation calling in, they'd tell him to work more hours and pay it off.
@DisabilityExams
@DisabilityExams 2 жыл бұрын
Dave is the patron saint of women with poor impulse control. She cannot afford private school.
@jamesharrison1178
@jamesharrison1178 Жыл бұрын
I like how blunt this guy is. He ain’t afraid to hurt some feelings. Clear and to the point instructions.
@kimmpilditch7225
@kimmpilditch7225 Жыл бұрын
I think he is really rude in his delivery. Give the woman some grace. We have all spent money we don't have. She needs guidance and support to help her make better decisions, not judgement and harsh, abrasive responses.
@dcsmooth
@dcsmooth Жыл бұрын
@@kimmpilditch7225I agree. Ramsey needs to get off his high horse. Not all debt is due to financial irresponsibility. Most people are just victims of situations they had no control over and had nowhere else to turn to put food on the table. It’s not all black and white like Ramsey wants his listeners to believe. And no, you don’t have to give up going out to eat…..just learn what resteraunts you can afford. Ruth Chris steak on a Burger King budget is not going to work. But denying yourself everything because you think getting out of credit card debt is going to make you happy is a joke. It’s not the credit card debt that’s the problem, it’s deeper.
@bennyjoey8444
@bennyjoey8444 10 ай бұрын
I don’t like how Mr Ramsey calls people names like stupid, parasite etc. How does that help? Feel sometimes his answers are rude. Can get the same information across without being so nasty.
@jeffreylong1478
@jeffreylong1478 9 ай бұрын
He didn’t insult her, he called her out but he did it in a loving way. Sometimes people need hard truths to snap them out of the funk their in.
@ramsaybolton7464
@ramsaybolton7464 4 ай бұрын
He has an 800 million dollar enterprise he created. He’s not afraid to step on toes.
@Ryan_DeWitt
@Ryan_DeWitt 2 жыл бұрын
People like this is why Dave is against CC's in all cases despite there being responsible people. People like this who spend beyond their means like the bill will never come ruin it.
@morrismonet3554
@morrismonet3554 2 жыл бұрын
This is where he's wrong. CC are fine for people who pay the balance each month and earn rewards. This woman is a spendaholic and will find some other way to get into debt.
@jwlsngold5026
@jwlsngold5026 2 жыл бұрын
@@morrismonet3554 Wrong...the "Rewards" are what is causing people to spend far beyond their means. You can't think oh when the bill comes I'm paying it off...what happens if you have a major issue needing immediate "fixing" on day 30...there goes the CC payment and guess what, you start racking up interest. And most of the time like thus woman there's more than one CC, and the cycle continues.
@AV-iw3xc
@AV-iw3xc 2 жыл бұрын
@@morrismonet3554 80% of people carry a balance, why would he make a system for the 20%?
@SPY_0-DTE
@SPY_0-DTE 2 жыл бұрын
@@jwlsngold5026 wrong.... I use my card on things I would have to pay for anyway. Then when I walk in my door from grocery shopping or filling up gas or whatever I might have used my CC on I make a payment to the company. I don't wait for a bill to come in the mail with a huge balance. There are responsible people out there with a card and then there's people like the lady on the phone
@AV-iw3xc
@AV-iw3xc 2 жыл бұрын
@UC0d7aaBD-N3Xj0H2QEFtTYw Dave is for those 80% with the occasional 20% mixed in. That’s always been his target audience. Its your normal every day Joe. If you want to be a beast go follow money guy or something like that which is specially tuned for the financially disciplined and professionally driven. I watch both but your backwards on Dave’s MO
@mrs.shanieekennedy2728
@mrs.shanieekennedy2728 Жыл бұрын
Sold my car and paid off the remaining debt yesterday.🎉
@Pinpon-ni8vc
@Pinpon-ni8vc 23 күн бұрын
Congratulations 🎉
@redfox_84
@redfox_84 2 жыл бұрын
$450 a month on utilities is awfully high for renting
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 2 жыл бұрын
I own a house in NJ. And my utilities don't even cost half of that.
@paulchakola7372
@paulchakola7372 2 жыл бұрын
It's hot in TX, AC bill is going to be high
@hopefletcher7420
@hopefletcher7420 2 жыл бұрын
She said "and stuff" so maybe that included phone, internet.
@redfox_84
@redfox_84 2 жыл бұрын
@@paulchakola7372 yea but whatever space she's renting for 800 a month probably doesn't take that much AC. I'm not far from Dallas and my house electric bill is around 100 running AC all the time.
@paulchakola7372
@paulchakola7372 2 жыл бұрын
@@redfox_84 I understand but 450 isn't unheard of when you combine AC, Internet/Cable Phone etc
@carterwagner3628
@carterwagner3628 2 жыл бұрын
Dave: "Hi Katy" Katy: "Hi Katy"
@linuxsurfer2002
@linuxsurfer2002 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that was weird for sure
@Ethiodawg
@Ethiodawg Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@AshknFX
@AshknFX Жыл бұрын
@@linuxsurfer2002 the guy who never been nervous in his life
@ajuister
@ajuister 4 ай бұрын
I ran to the comments to find anyone else who noticed that
@deb9806
@deb9806 Жыл бұрын
I once put my 4000 cc bill on a zero interest for year Disney card. It worked for me. I never used that card again and they finally canceled it. The 18% was killing me and the car repairs and other things were taking too long to pay off. Discipline is needed for anything, weight loss, finance etc
@PInk77W1
@PInk77W1 Жыл бұрын
I did the same thing. It helps a lot when you’re poor and maxed out.
@rh8152
@rh8152 5 ай бұрын
This worked for me too. Got the new CC with 0% interest for 21 mths. 3:29 put all my other CC dept on it, and figured out how much money in each month I had to pay in order for the dept to be paid off in that 21 mth time frame. Working like a charm for me.
@deb9806
@deb9806 5 ай бұрын
@@rh8152 It works for a lot of people. Ramsey can’t talk about it because his brand is so entrenched in debuting cards and a lot of the people who listen don’t have the discipline, but I really do think it’s more selling his franchise and making it different than someone who is more “Dave light.”
@thelimey351
@thelimey351 2 жыл бұрын
This is why Dave Ramsey has a "one size fits all" system - his system will work for the weakest *AND* the most disciplined, it's not as efficient as it could be for the most disciplined but if he gives different advice based on ability it dilutes the overall message for those who need it the most.
@donaldcornwell1151
@donaldcornwell1151 Жыл бұрын
you are exactly correct
@laz7354
@laz7354 Жыл бұрын
It isn't "the most efficient" but it isn't about math. Debt isn't a math problem, it is a consequence of overspending, which is a behavior / addiction.
@thelimey351
@thelimey351 Жыл бұрын
​@@laz7354 Sometimes debt *_IS_* a math problem, but in most cases that Dave Ramsey deals with it is a behavioral problem. Like I said, the least disciplined need encouragement & Dave Ramsey's method prioritizes that over efficiency - with good reason, paying off debt inefficiently is better than not paying it off at all ! Edit: The only problem I really have with his system is *he promotes the idea that religious broke people should Tithe - that is ridiculously bad advice* ...
@vibesaddickentertainment9777
@vibesaddickentertainment9777 6 ай бұрын
Bingo
@WeBeatMedicare6969
@WeBeatMedicare6969 Жыл бұрын
Caller: I’m 27K in CC debt and I make 83K/year Dave: This is awesome!
@renecuevas4128
@renecuevas4128 Жыл бұрын
No reason to be in Debt
@joimumu
@joimumu 6 ай бұрын
⁠@@renecuevas4128agree she should be able to pay it within 18 months so odds are she is hiding something
@jomontanee
@jomontanee 2 жыл бұрын
I love that Dave sits and take notes from the speakers he invites to speak for his seminars!! It shows that HE CARES TO LEARN!
@Lon1001
@Lon1001 2 жыл бұрын
She doesn't even have an income problem. They were excited to help her because she is the perfect candidate for a snowball, but they were shocked she couldn't find more than $10 to start throwing at it. Definitely has a budgeting problem, money is going out that she is forgetting to count.
@jomontanee
@jomontanee 2 жыл бұрын
She spends so much to comfort herself.
@wenchyfoodwench4098
@wenchyfoodwench4098 Жыл бұрын
She’s lying
@joimumu
@joimumu 6 ай бұрын
@@wenchyfoodwench4098Agree she should be able to pay it off within 18 months while living on easy mode so she is definitely hiding around 30k of spending
@tytynavarro1881
@tytynavarro1881 Жыл бұрын
Using fear as a driving agent gave me chills.. This was such a powerful statement.
@danielfeemster7835
@danielfeemster7835 2 жыл бұрын
Dave’s got a soft spot for single moms
@ecouhig
@ecouhig Жыл бұрын
I think it’s because he’s seen some of them really kill it on a single income
@dianawilliams8801
@dianawilliams8801 Жыл бұрын
and he knows that often the Dads aren't helping
@la9863
@la9863 Жыл бұрын
He definitely does. ❤️
@scootsmcdoots80
@scootsmcdoots80 Жыл бұрын
They give great sloppy that’s why
@ogbose49
@ogbose49 Жыл бұрын
That's over $5,500 cake home a month. She's not being honest. Car payment must be outrageous. 800 rent, 500 school, utilities 300, phone 100, 400 car, 400 insurance, 600 food at home, 400 gas. 3,500 total right there. Still roughly 2k left. Get rid of cable an streaming serviced, stop the hidden shopping addiction, and Pau the dang cards off. Common sense to look at a mistake an then change the behavior.
@ClearThirty
@ClearThirty 7 ай бұрын
Y’all forgot to mention the minimum payments on 6 credit cards totaling 27k. That’s probably about 1200 right there.
@blairkinsman3477
@blairkinsman3477 Жыл бұрын
GO KATY .. what ur going to learn at FPU and the conference and by binge watching this channel on KZbin for a weekend.. all of it .. works .. 10 years ago I was (still am) a single income family about where u are and we punched out 57 grand in cc debt, along with car loans, payday loans, and personal loans (it was 107 total) .. we haven’t gone back .. ngl it’s a tough road .. worth EVERY effort .. yes 💯 u want this u got this !!
@NICKI814
@NICKI814 Жыл бұрын
It's amazing that Dave was giving her such a hard time pretty much saying in a nice way she was irresponsible financially until he found out she has a son and then all the sudden he's sweet and everything to her
@abbyoneill4473
@abbyoneill4473 Жыл бұрын
Not just that she has a kid but that she’s a single mom
@robertbell525
@robertbell525 Жыл бұрын
Dave the giga Simp
@turtleanton6539
@turtleanton6539 Жыл бұрын
​@@abbyoneill4473ouch !
@eileeneclark9011
@eileeneclark9011 10 ай бұрын
9/22/23....STUPID SINGLE MOM SYNDROME WHERE SHE CAN SNIFFLE + GET ATTENTION BUT NOT CAPABLE ENOUGH ORSMART ENOUGH TO GET DNA DAD TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT! I FEEL NO SYMPATHY! BET SHE MAKES SON "HATE" HIS DNA DAD! JUST SAYIN'....
@MylesOShaughnessy
@MylesOShaughnessy Жыл бұрын
Good info, good show, good pep talk and I enjoyed the back and forth between George and Dave.
@nancybashista1390
@nancybashista1390 2 жыл бұрын
Respect your honesty, Dave. Keep winning 🙏
@MikeWalksWithJesus
@MikeWalksWithJesus Жыл бұрын
Just cut up my cards and im ready to crush this 20k debt with my 80k income! Thanks dave
@smokeyone
@smokeyone Жыл бұрын
Hopefully its going good for you
@Austinman49
@Austinman49 2 жыл бұрын
Her rent is $800 a month and she lives in Dallas,TX I call BS, I’m born and raised in TX and I was paying $800/a month back in 2011 lol
@deepthinking8633
@deepthinking8633 2 жыл бұрын
Most likely roommates
@LaTasha2224
@LaTasha2224 Жыл бұрын
Lol! Right!
@SugarGotAlongway2catchme
@SugarGotAlongway2catchme 11 ай бұрын
@@jmoney4271what’s the apartment? Lol
@jimroscovius
@jimroscovius 2 жыл бұрын
Forget the private school. You can't afford it.
@yarrdayarrdayarrda
@yarrdayarrdayarrda 2 жыл бұрын
I see where she can save $550 a month right away....
@TeodorSpiridon
@TeodorSpiridon 2 жыл бұрын
Yup, she does not make enough for the kid to go to private school. I bet there are other expenses that go along with that too. Sports are good for kids, but they are so expensive that they might not be viable for her son with her current financial situation.
@atown27
@atown27 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@AnovaLisaDragonfly
@AnovaLisaDragonfly Жыл бұрын
My income is less than hers and I have my son in a private elementary school. For me, that’s a non-negotiable expense for a few reasons. None of them are to keep up with the Joneses. Public schools in cities nowadays aren’t what they used to be. I think the caller has a spending problem, purchasing consumables instead of paying bills, and then not knowing what happened to all her money by the end of the pay period.
@GaryFowlerPiano
@GaryFowlerPiano Жыл бұрын
Definitely, until she gets the mess cleaned up, she needs to pull little Jonny out of private school. He’ll survive
@TATNThisAintThatNetwork
@TATNThisAintThatNetwork 2 жыл бұрын
She is bringing home at least $5000 monthly. Her bills $1800 including private school. Add $1000 for food. She has 2k monthly leftover. Add a side hustle and she can put $2500 monthly towards CC debt
@Wajz3
@Wajz3 2 жыл бұрын
Nah, she’s blowing that leftover money on something else and we don’t have the full story. She must have a really expensive guilty pleasure or addiction. Designer purses? Gambling? It’s something….
@littlesongbird1
@littlesongbird1 Жыл бұрын
@@Wajz3 Boyfriend?
@katemiller7874
@katemiller7874 Жыл бұрын
Kids are expensive dummies
@la9863
@la9863 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think she’s bringing home $5K a month. Are you taking taxes/medical/SS into account?
@beardedelephant3023
@beardedelephant3023 4 ай бұрын
Jeesh. I’m so sick of credit cards. Fell into the trap myself. I need this gone!!!
@srs9973
@srs9973 Ай бұрын
Mee too and I have made a plan to clear them one by one. Have 4 of them and will get rid of all of them in 2 years. Hope no shit happens.
@srs9973
@srs9973 Ай бұрын
And yeah good luck with yours. 😊
@beardedelephant3023
@beardedelephant3023 Ай бұрын
@@srs9973 same
@golden-bear
@golden-bear 2 жыл бұрын
dave & george are always a great dynamic
@stewart2898
@stewart2898 2 жыл бұрын
Dave’s like let me make sure you know your an idiot, okay great 👍
@jamesbyerly766
@jamesbyerly766 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha I thought the same thing!!
@dheins57
@dheins57 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@evelinemorales22
@evelinemorales22 Жыл бұрын
Misspelling “you’re” is also idiot
@gladisgamez9386
@gladisgamez9386 2 жыл бұрын
Dave You have changed my life and the way I look at debt and money !!!!!!! Praise the LORD !!!!
@angelachanelhuang1651
@angelachanelhuang1651 2 жыл бұрын
find a job
@gladisgamez9386
@gladisgamez9386 Жыл бұрын
@@angelachanelhuang1651 lol 😂 thanks.
@mauraronda1265
@mauraronda1265 Жыл бұрын
This made me cry. I feel Dave’s words. So hard!!!!! Thank you for helping her. So many single moms like her. I get it. It’s so very hard!
@vevasika
@vevasika 7 ай бұрын
I’m a single mom and It’s very hard not to spend I feel like I bleed money. I had my daughter when I was 20 and in college so I racked up a good amount of cc debt in school cuz I couldn’t work with my daughter and then came out with 40k in student loans. I’ve had a job for 5 years now and my income has steadily risen but where I live rent is ridiculous, gas is insane, I didn’t have a down payment for a car but I needed it to work so I leased which is expensive. I don’t buy make up or jewelry rarely get my nails and hair done or anything like that but it seems like every month there’s some bill to be paid or something that needs to be bought. My parents had to move across the country for work so there’s less help from them and they’re in their 60s and unable to retire. The cycle of poverty is real and very hard to get out of it. Doesn’t help the more you make the more the government just takes from you smh. I’m hoping to try and save more these next couple years luckily don’t have much cc debt but gotta get the student loans and the car paid off
@karenwalters1211
@karenwalters1211 6 ай бұрын
I was a single mom so I can relate to her and it’s hard to manage money as a single parent when money is so tight. Grossing $83k is not enough to support 2 people. That means she may be bringing home $30-40k after health insurance, life insurance, 401k, HSA or FSA contributions etc.
@campbellhouse6569
@campbellhouse6569 8 ай бұрын
Cancel gym membership, Netflix, etc. It's amazing how much extras add up. Pack your own lunch. There are so many ways to save if you know where your money is going
@carlaritchie331
@carlaritchie331 Жыл бұрын
I love when they give FPU to help people after the call to ensure they have the support to walk through the journey. It can be life changing in a situation like this!
@sebastiaanvandoorn3223
@sebastiaanvandoorn3223 Жыл бұрын
FPU should be taught in primary school and in secondary school again, prepare winners not losers.
@darlenepaul2934
@darlenepaul2934 2 жыл бұрын
Great Call! Dave is the GOAT!!!!!!
@katiepenner5379
@katiepenner5379 11 ай бұрын
You got this Katie! Thank you Ramsay family for your dedication to teach people financial deliverance and freedom! My life is a testimony that your methods work! I'm 30 years old, my boyfriend and I are both completely debt free, got our 6 month emergency funds in place. We are both working 2 jobs so we can build our wealth, get married and buy a house CASH! We are investing aggressively to build our retirement fund. It's been an incredible journey and I'm so excited for our future. I'm never going back to the debt trap again.
@darionmonson
@darionmonson Жыл бұрын
Ive been looking for a situation like this! So glad I found it! Most situations Ive heard is “more debt then income”. I too make more than what im in debt for
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 2 жыл бұрын
Her expenses that she mentioned, does not add up to all of her pay.
@striker1553
@striker1553 2 жыл бұрын
Not at all. I pay out way more than that a monrh and still have some money leftover, oh and i make less than her. so....
@TATNThisAintThatNetwork
@TATNThisAintThatNetwork 2 жыл бұрын
She possibly is receiving child support payments unaccounted for as well
@Sexy40baby1
@Sexy40baby1 2 жыл бұрын
Well he didn't allow her to tell all her bills and cost. Insurance? Food ? Internet?Subscriptions? Clothing? Cellphone? Household supplies? Grooming?
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sexy40baby1 Still shouldn't add up to her whole income.
@jimmymcgill6778
@jimmymcgill6778 2 жыл бұрын
@@Sexy40baby1 Yeah, he loves to cut people off.
@tonypittsburgh9
@tonypittsburgh9 Жыл бұрын
I like when he said don't do math. Start paying more on them. The worst advice is seeing people get consolidation loans, because that just opens them up.
@robloxvids2233
@robloxvids2233 Жыл бұрын
I like how he said that then said pay them off smallest to largest, which requires math.
@d5078
@d5078 6 ай бұрын
What do you mean it opens them up..to what? If they don't earn enough and they need to consider settling. What's the problem with that? I am just looking for guidance myself. Thanks!
@ck3703
@ck3703 9 ай бұрын
Love to hear the faith component on this episode ❤️🙏🏻 what a blessing you are to SO MANY. ❤
@redfox_84
@redfox_84 2 жыл бұрын
private school 🤣
@MR3DDev
@MR3DDev 2 жыл бұрын
Apparently Dave is now called Katie.
@darlenepaul2934
@darlenepaul2934 2 жыл бұрын
Lol...
@aubreytraverse.
@aubreytraverse. 2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@l-train7876
@l-train7876 2 жыл бұрын
George was trying to keep a straight face lol
@thejakelegion
@thejakelegion 2 жыл бұрын
Katy talking to Katy! 😂
@sorrygtfo
@sorrygtfo 2 жыл бұрын
"Hi Katy yes I'm good how are you?" What?
@thejakelegion
@thejakelegion 2 жыл бұрын
@@sorrygtfo I've heard it before. People get so focused on when they get added to the call that when Dave calls out their name, they respond with their own name. Kinda goofy but it does happen with these shows.
@libertyvegan6686
@libertyvegan6686 Жыл бұрын
$83k is nothing with a kid. Easy to get in this woman's situation. Life is insanely expensive these days.
@gregorypaine513
@gregorypaine513 3 ай бұрын
BIDEN!
@martinezbiz
@martinezbiz 19 күн бұрын
she needs to write down how much money she makes after tax every month. write down all essential bills. see if you have money left over. she is definitely buying things she don't need
@libertyvegan6686
@libertyvegan6686 19 күн бұрын
@@martinezbiz You are too confident in your positions and your statements are based upon mountains of assumptions. The cost of living varies wildly across the country. It is entirely possible she is living below the poverty line on $83k gross depending on where she lives in the country. And that is without considering her unique circumstances which could very well be complex and nuanced. It is ok to be more humble and reserve judgement. We do not always need to be on the attack when it comes to others. We should be worried about our own lives and refrain from passing judgment on others. It is not our place or concern.
@martinezbiz
@martinezbiz 19 күн бұрын
@@libertyvegan6686 80 thousand dollars is not poverty. Dave agrees with my opinion. She couldn't even tell him her bills total every month and her net income. I've seen tons of people buying thousand dollar phones that have no savings
@desertguy1362
@desertguy1362 2 жыл бұрын
83k gross income and bills not including debt is like 2k a month what she spending her money on?
@iKumala
@iKumala 2 жыл бұрын
That's actually gross income of 6900+ a month.
@TheOne-vf2yw
@TheOne-vf2yw 2 жыл бұрын
69k minus 24k is 45k….. she has plenty of room to pay it off. Unless there is reckless spending
@dummgelauft
@dummgelauft 6 ай бұрын
Shoes and latté
@skittles8567
@skittles8567 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Uncle Dave and George for the encouraging words. I'm ready to be weird!!!
@aquamedic8857
@aquamedic8857 8 ай бұрын
I kind of like his attitude. It gives people an eye opener without sugar coating things.
@gardenofe12
@gardenofe12 2 жыл бұрын
She’s not telling the whole story. She makes $80k a year and lives pay to pay check??!! She’s been living the high life and now paying for it.
@littleripper312
@littleripper312 2 жыл бұрын
Yea living beyond her salary for sure.
@ironmantis25
@ironmantis25 Жыл бұрын
The Gov takes at least 20k of that, so she has 60k in take home salary. You minus living expenses, food and transportation and it's not a lot.
@kbthegoat824
@kbthegoat824 Жыл бұрын
@@ironmantis25 lets assume 20k was taken off, she spends 14,400 a year on rent and utilities....if she was to spend 1000 a month on food, that would be 12000 a year....6000 a year for her kid private school. She has more than 2000 a month even after all those expenses. Let's not mention the tax refund she's getting back as well. Sounds like you like to make excuses.
@sanju-fv5yc
@sanju-fv5yc Жыл бұрын
Sth fishy here....
@IBEtripz
@IBEtripz Жыл бұрын
Yea cuz i make the same and im fine with plenty extra money
@FischerFan
@FischerFan 6 ай бұрын
This is where I was at the end of 2020. It is now January 2024 and it's now down to $6,300! It all started with preparing a spreadsheet, and then looking for ways to tighten it. I created a budget to pay a round figure each month, plus any interest accrued on the balance of the previous month, as well as purchases made during it. The key was staying the course. As long as I continue to stay the course, my magic number of monthly payments to being credit card debt free is down to a maximum of 9!
@loisrodenromans1097
@loisrodenromans1097 Жыл бұрын
Love Dave Ramsey ❤️
@chrismorales1581
@chrismorales1581 Жыл бұрын
Love the passion!!!
@nightreader1264
@nightreader1264 Жыл бұрын
I retired and qualified for my pension. I went back and substituted full time to pay off my CC’s, build up my savings, and to purchase big items. I am not touching my TSA until I am 70. Pay off all of your debits, house, cars, and have money in the bank for property tax for at least 10 years before retiring. Working after retirement is for fun money and upgrades.
@xxdfoster
@xxdfoster Жыл бұрын
Dave you the man
@CrossoutTube
@CrossoutTube Жыл бұрын
So right behavior is at the essence of it. I am 27 and15k in cc debt and never do i wanna be in this situation again. Not just behavior though circumstances and income.
@Future13ILLIONAIRE
@Future13ILLIONAIRE Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Dave a real one
@jonsmith9728
@jonsmith9728 2 жыл бұрын
Gotta love dave callin ppl on their BS
@switchbladeromance1466
@switchbladeromance1466 2 жыл бұрын
She spent $27k on left handed puppetry accessories 🤣🇬🇧😚...or she has a shoe sniffing addiction 🤭
@csmedia1235
@csmedia1235 Жыл бұрын
Before you make a big financial decision, think, "What would Dave Do?" lol
@marissathomas9327
@marissathomas9327 Жыл бұрын
I got one little collections and here I am obsessed with Ramsey lol
@yarrdayarrdayarrda
@yarrdayarrdayarrda 2 жыл бұрын
She's living on uber eats a half dozen times a week guaranteed!!!
@taylorsmith9629
@taylorsmith9629 2 жыл бұрын
How do you know?
@Wajz3
@Wajz3 2 жыл бұрын
@@taylorsmith9629 Where else does a leftover 2k a month go? It’s got to be going towards something stupid.
@TAnimations
@TAnimations Жыл бұрын
@@taylorsmith9629 There's absolutely no way with her solid income and low monthly expenses that she somehow gained enormous debt and is obviously spending even more than she makes. Americans love spending money on things absolutely unnecessary because we live in an extremely privileged society where the average adult has lots of spending money on their hands, even if it's borrowing money.
@tricktaylor1983
@tricktaylor1983 Жыл бұрын
So I'm $200k 😂 law school debt and im not a lawyer... 27k hahaha
@bsandoval19
@bsandoval19 Жыл бұрын
Damn man thats tough
@lis9290
@lis9290 10 ай бұрын
Yikes and I’m sweating buckets over here with 60k nvm lol
@martinezbiz
@martinezbiz 19 күн бұрын
thats your own fault. why would you pay that much for school. that would have been a big house a couple years ago
@PinkInTheDiamonds
@PinkInTheDiamonds 2 жыл бұрын
She said she makes 83 GROSS not net. I wonder how much she makes net? And $800 for rent? Extremely cheap!
@ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas
@ErisstheGoddessofmanhwas Жыл бұрын
It's sad that someone else must tell you those words so you can understand that you are in a bad financial situation and you must put yourself in a strict decision not to spend and save money .This is what WE OURSELVES MUST THINK not beg someone else help us .
@choosetoshine2610
@choosetoshine2610 Жыл бұрын
You got this! Follow Dave's concept! Just do it. ❤❤❤
@michellearndt3631
@michellearndt3631 10 ай бұрын
Me too! Need Uncle Dave to set me straight! 😂
@keerthiragh
@keerthiragh Жыл бұрын
I hope she’s doing great!!!
@carrie7641
@carrie7641 Жыл бұрын
I need to be patient and trust the process..i decided enough....i have to get over the fact its not going to happen right away...to not give up
@aguyandhiscomputer
@aguyandhiscomputer 2 жыл бұрын
Weird segment. Dave is all excited and fired up and the caller sounds half asleep.
@markrevis2667
@markrevis2667 2 жыл бұрын
I love Dave
@sassasins031
@sassasins031 2 жыл бұрын
I am shocked! Shocked! Well, not that shocked.
@zxcvbnmmasdfghjkl
@zxcvbnmmasdfghjkl 10 ай бұрын
I have about the same, funded our wedding however all the cards are on 0% interest for 18months and I have over 100k in total line available, so still under 30% utilization.
4 ай бұрын
Good pep talk! 👊🏻
@DebtFreeDad
@DebtFreeDad 2 жыл бұрын
💀💀☠️$10 dollars left she has no budget
@mattm597
@mattm597 11 ай бұрын
In a lot of these calls, I get the feeling we're hearing about HALF the story.
@terrenced.1586
@terrenced.1586 10 ай бұрын
🎶”Cause I have thirty thousand dollars in credit card debt. When they call, I tell them I can’t pay it back yet. Tomorrow I may buy a dining room set. Or this Boba Fett…”🎶
@andrea6053
@andrea6053 10 ай бұрын
Dave really didn’t want to anger many of his listeners and tell this mom if you’re swimming in debt you can’t afford private school for your kids. Public school for a couple of years until you get out of debt then private if you can afford it.
@esterdrass4964
@esterdrass4964 9 ай бұрын
It's a whole mental thing, to pay off debt. To not use cc's unless its dire. Something is on sale and too good to be true purchase and you buy it, thinking how much you have saved. BUT training the mind to think that that purchase is just going to put you that much more into debt. To imagine the numbers in your bank account going up and the numbers of your cc balances going down...every single time you want to buy something. Its really nice when you change like that, when you look at things as a financial burden rather than a must have.
@AZnanTrucking
@AZnanTrucking 2 жыл бұрын
I’m in the EXACT same situation.
@morrismonet3554
@morrismonet3554 2 жыл бұрын
Shopping therapy, obviously. No help for her.
@leedchristensen
@leedchristensen Жыл бұрын
450 for utilities??? Wow
@phillips9945
@phillips9945 Жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing. That’s way too high or she’s exaggerating. What’s she doing, leaving the water, lights, and stove on all day?
@jamesstanton3280
@jamesstanton3280 Жыл бұрын
TX air conditioner lol
@jmartine
@jmartine Жыл бұрын
Odd that he didn't say "Yea" or "Nay" on the private school. That's a big expense, and he neither told her to take her son out of private school or leave him in. I really wanted to hear his opinion on that one.
@GaryFowlerPiano
@GaryFowlerPiano Жыл бұрын
Same here. “Pull the kid put of private school” should have been one of the first pieces of advice to come out of Dave Ramsey’s mouth.
@ryandwyer4940
@ryandwyer4940 Жыл бұрын
Depends where she lives in Dallas. A lot of unsafe public schools in the area
@gamingphone7201
@gamingphone7201 9 ай бұрын
Depends on if you value some of the most important developmental years of your child over some credit card debt that barely matters in her situation. Public schools can be horrible places to send you kids depending on the school
@misshavisham1287
@misshavisham1287 4 ай бұрын
Poor lady. Hope she gets out of it . I’m kind of in the same mess but no kid . Been in cc debt since I was 18 and I’m 46 with nothing saved . I pay all my bills but the interest just eats me alive
@countdown2xstacy
@countdown2xstacy 2 жыл бұрын
“Katy Lies You could see it in her eyes But imagine my surprise when I saw you “
@cicada3312
@cicada3312 Жыл бұрын
After watching Dave, had about 6k in cc debt paid it all off. I have 7k left in personal loan, I need that gone, stopped everything and I am going to kick that pl to 0, I have paid 1k in interest so far.
@chandlerhamlyn5221
@chandlerhamlyn5221 Жыл бұрын
Her math isn’t mathing lol
@Winston0Boogie
@Winston0Boogie Жыл бұрын
I wonder if there is a way to revisit these people and see how many followed through the baby steps.
@SilverFan21k
@SilverFan21k 2 жыл бұрын
Got to respect her for being honest.
@JAMCLO
@JAMCLO Ай бұрын
I’m a single mom with a $75k income and what I’ve realized with my spending is that a lot of it is spending because of guilt of his dad not being there. Because I have a void I need to fill for Both of us, especially him and that’s what I see here with her sending her son to private school. It’s a need to give him those opportunities and know that she can provide just as well for him as her and the father could together. I bet she’s working a stressful job with long hours and still getting dinner on the table every night and getting her son to practice in the evenings. I understand you love and you’re not alone. 💙
@martinezbiz
@martinezbiz 19 күн бұрын
material things for your kids doesn't make you a good parent. spending time with them, teaching them, and loving the crap out of them does
@VintageStereoCollector
@VintageStereoCollector 9 ай бұрын
I ❤ Dave No Matter What it Takes
@billb945
@billb945 2 жыл бұрын
Probably living like one of my nieces. Buys supper on the way home already cooked ready to go and a bunch of junk food on the second stop. Spending hundreds on food a week instead of 50 or 60 bucks. What's weird is she knows why she's broke at the end of the month but thinks this is acceptable because her mom lived the exact same way.
@tristan2332
@tristan2332 2 жыл бұрын
It's really crazy how people can't cook and really have to depend on grubhub and such to survive.
@reese85
@reese85 2 жыл бұрын
What are you buying from the grocery store, that only cost you 50-60 bucks a week? I’ll go thru that in 2-3 days tops
@Ka_Gg
@Ka_Gg 2 жыл бұрын
"It's a..family tradition "
@MarksTournaments
@MarksTournaments Жыл бұрын
@@reese85 that’s too much bro. All I eat is beef and rice and occasionally fast food
@90kevin20
@90kevin20 Жыл бұрын
@@reese85 meh you could easily do 60 a week. Just can't be eating steak.
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 2 жыл бұрын
Lady has $27k of debt and George says "We're going to send you every dollar"🤣🤣🤣
@BrittanieRaynor
@BrittanieRaynor Жыл бұрын
Isn't that the budgeting app?
@clarifyingquestions
@clarifyingquestions 2 жыл бұрын
DR - This is my half time speech and you are behind:).
@gottesma
@gottesma 2 жыл бұрын
$83k/yr is a great income, but I'm not really convinced it's "private school" income. Caller, really you can't send your kid to public school? That'd make it soooo much easier on your finances.
@boneyn3661
@boneyn3661 2 жыл бұрын
public school in Dallas??!! bahahaha
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 2 жыл бұрын
With $83K income she can make space for $550/month private school. The problem is with frivolous expenses elsewhere.
@gottesma
@gottesma 2 жыл бұрын
@@megalodon1726 What private school costs $550/mo? Around me, decent private schools cost more like $25k/yr or more.
@megalodon1726
@megalodon1726 2 жыл бұрын
@@gottesma Private schools under $7000/yr do exist, particularly at the elementary school level. They tend to be religious schools that get some or most of their funding from a church.
@melgonz.6962
@melgonz.6962 2 жыл бұрын
@@gottesma she might be splitting that cost with the child's father for the private school.
@gnawty4662
@gnawty4662 2 жыл бұрын
What a cake walk of a “problem” 🙄
@BhaktiSangeetSagar1
@BhaktiSangeetSagar1 Жыл бұрын
That’s wonderful! 😂
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