Therapist & husband react to TikTok relationship advice

[@AnaPsychology]

The Connection Course: psychologywithdrana.learnworlds.com/course/the-connection-course

[@Emogothgirl87]

I'm not sure if I'm late to the party. But I would like to congratulate you on becoming a doctor

[@AnaPsychology]

Haha thank you! It's been since August 🥳

[@johnbishop9621]

​@@AnaPsychologyoh damn! I'm a new subscriber since December. Congrats!

[@meagles1333]

You and your husband have the most lovely energy! Beautiful connection

[@AnaPsychology]

Thank you!! :)

[@ground.jordan]

your husband is v calm and charming, your dynamic is great. i feel like y'all are both fluent in sarcasm lool

[@Therealkingk909]

I’d love to see more videos with you and your husband it was really refreshing to see your relationship dynamic and he seems like a homie 🙌🏾

[@Fondofmelobster]

He’s the homie fr

[@wakeup2realityostriches]

Go Nicki!

[@kendallcooper1075]

it’s so cute seeing how proud and supportive your husband is of your work 🥰 great video!

[@lillianmauldin]

You two are so precious and just glow when you look at each other! Thanks for the wholesome and informative content :)

[@dameneko]

The thumbnail contained a cat, which increased my interest in watching this video by at least 200%. You and your husband have such chill energy together! Also, your cats are adorable!

[@n_lrg9448]

I love your regular content but these videos of you both are super funny & cute, the way you interact with each other is adorable & the deadpan humor is definitely my cup of tea lol🫶🏻 HNY Ana🥂🎉

[@StainlessHelena]

You two are so cute together❤ The best way to ensure that no partner in the relationship is above the other is to have a cat to whom both partners are subservient to.

[@babys8640]

this was very interesting bc of the topic and he seems smart and respectful and tbh it’s also interesting for me to see a healthy relationship dynamic relatively unfiltered because i kept thinking „i would’ve never been able to do this with my ex (whom i still miss even though he treated me badly) because one of us would’ve been getting upset and constantly misunderstanding each other“ :( but yeah it’s refreshing and kinda giving me hope to see a couple being able to do this as „partners“ 🤗 ps the crying girl threw me off a bit 😅 wouldn’t have posted that online or at least not while having a breakdown

[@SaileMOB]

Holy crap listening to the blonde woman felt like a fever dream

[@mehere1482]

I love your videos & I also love the videos with your husband… Considering that I view you as a very healthy and informed person, I assume that your partner would be the same so I love hearing his perspective as well.

[@toskasnail]

Can you make a video on what you said about some problems cannot be solved? It makes a lot of sense that some couples will keep fighting about the same thing and it really doesn’t have a solution. Moving on from that issue sometimes really seems like all you can do sometimes.

[@AnaPsychology]

I actually do have a video on this! kzbin.info/www/bejne/aqfKYaJ8Yp6pm7s

[@Tommy-bx8hu]

The way you both look at each other is so adorable

[@victoriakasimova4676]

He is so proud🥰

[@ClearlyNeo]

More husband and wife videos!

[@MegJuniper]

Y’all are glowing and so beautiful

[@zs9710]

Omg the way Ana’s husband looks at her 😍😍 so sweet ❤

[@xagatal]

OMG! what a CUTE MEOW-MEOW!! 😻🐈 A good way to CAT-ch up. Wonderful video, the meow-meow's are a nice touch.

[@Owaowah]

Happy New Year everyone! 🎉 Thanks for a fun video Ana

[@Calbizzle]

This video was very entertaining. I definitely won't be taking the advice of these tiktokers anytime soon. But it was something to giggle at. 😂. Bless them & the people who take their advice. I hope they are happy.

[@leovolont]

CONSENT among married couples -- acknowledging the other when they say "You still awake?"

[@20timesshoota27]

As a man I always love when my boy gets on the vid 💯💯💯💯 !!! God bless your 2024

[@cucumber-9]

Being alive is so tiring…

[@sinajafarzadeh9577]

Could you make a video on the topic of porn consumption when single and also when in a relationship? Its impact on the individual, the partner, and the longevity and health of the relationship

[@ya.h631]

I know this isn’t relevant to the video, but I just want to say you are so incredibly beautiful

[@zs9710]

Hey Ana, could you do a video on coping with feeling left out or excluded and how to cope?

[@HannahMairi]

Not to take away from this video request but add in the meantime, the 'We Can Do Hard things' podcast focused on being/feeling left out in episode 241 if that is another media form you like. I found it helpful to listen to.

[@BWS952]

The cat comedy was a nice touch. I hope you start more vids with something light

[@treelicker]

On the note of sex, there can also be physical reasons a couple abstains. I've not wanted to be touched since I gave birth six months ago. I'm breastfeeding, which reduces your estrogen and makes arousal super difficult, and I had some pretty bad tearing during birth as well. Thank God I have an understanding husband who cares more about me and my wellbeing than getting his rocks off.

[@m2pozad]

The Italian Job's advice works great for much of the world, where traditional gender roles are valued. The general concept of 'letting boys be boys' has it's balance in 'letting girls be girls. The game was fun when played as mixed doubles rather than as unisex competition.

[@NikolettaMuhari]

OMG, your kitty is so cute, she looks exactly like my Kage, but she is a little bit younger.

[@zs9710]

OMG ANA IS TEAM DAMON??? 🤯 please unpack!!

[@ameliaetienne8521]

You never miss! And it seems like your husband doesn’t as well. Good for you

[@sociallyinept1323]

*I think you should definitely write a book for like teenagers , especially here in ASIA we have issue of coping with growth and fixed mindset , in my opinion , a book written in simple subcontinent English will be a blast for teenagers, they'll benefit a lot, since teenagers my age are now giving competitive exams and they're really frustrated , i also wish to write an essay in my college blog from one of your videos , "This mindset sets you up for success" , From where i thought --- ok a book about Mindset will be pretty cool*

[@oanavonu-boriceanu5046]

I didn’t know you were Romanian 🧚🏻‍♀️ fellow Romanian living in North America therapist here 🤓

[@leovolont]

Yeah, this was like Bogart and Bacal, what great Couple Banter. More Nicholy, he's our Guy... the lucky Guy.

[@nietzschesmuse]

Beautiful fun n loving couple!

[@murmur313]

Hi Ana! Unrelated, but i would love to hear what you'd have to say about the death drive and repetition compulsion! I think it would be very insightful for many of your viewers!😊

[@miss2slick]

OMG I can't unhear Jessie Pinkman

[@archiemarqx]

16:59 she really is B.S (bullshit) in Psychology, I never heard so much bullshit per second before 🤣🤣🤣

[@detaaditya6237]

Bullshit per seconds lmao that's a good unit of measurement right there

[@emmamlis927]

Loving the thumbnails recently!

[@spiderscurry5614]

thank u dr. anna huhu 🥹🥹🥹

[@Ericsportstechpro]

I really like these kinds of videos!

[@Socsob]

yall better listen to the relationship advice if you want that good of chemistry wow

[@fancyclownn]

You need to do more of these 😂

[@julietmitchell4183]

'I really enjoyed this video with both of you and would like to see more of these kinds of videos

[@cowoverthemoo]

Lovely looking couple. I would love to have a relationship, what you have.. I'm struggling with my mental health.. trying to get into therapy is difficult, I've been prescribed medication and haven't had any proper therapy. Your videos helped. I started to have a good relationship with myself. watching your videos helped. Thank you for the free videos.

[@blakebrunson7278]

Y’all are cute together lol

[@daaara]

I am not ready for the new intro slide

[@pallavidawson7933]

Loved your video, I’ve mentioned it in my post on substack.

[@juanrojas6502]

Could you suggest resources to help me understand emotions more deeply? Coming from a background where emotions weren't openly discussed, especially as a male, I find it challenging to identify both my own feelings and those of others. Or if a video is in order?

[@durandus676]

14:50 perfect

[@t-shades7148]

5:54 Not a live Zoom recording! Music to my ears!

[@its_groot5719]

First and foremost, I do believe that you need to treat your partner with love and respect. Secondly, if the relationship is egalitarian, I wouldn't see the relationship as an issue if both love and respect one another.

[@ViktorDi]

11:00 ok, why making me cry now :(

[@micgalovic]

14:20 Bob the Builder is my favourite ❤ 😂

[@schmumlauf]

I loved this one, y'all are adorable. + Thanks for skipping matt walsh

[@davidjones9706]

5:58 shots fired

[@MathusalaTree]

Love you guys

[@andreeablaj3414]

Did I get it right? Are you from Romania? La mulți ani! Minunat canal! ❤❤

[@haleytruslow7200]

Congratulations on becoming a doctor!!!

[@Fonnix-]

You guys are very cute together. Great video

[@BenVaBo]

Yes, more bf videos! He's amazing.

[@sammyrose6585]

Haircare routine ???

[@hannahviolet927]

He looks like jacksfilms change my mind

[@Ms1Deviouskiller]

This was incredibly funny!

[@Kasperthedancer]

13:30 Actually, it is a self-pretend. That kind could be bipolar in honest cry and self-defensive “oh I so do not care, you cannot believe”

[@flower.child47]

Ah Doctor!!!!

[@Mercy1-]

15:40 she can't do math 😂😂

[@opocoyo]

Arranged marriages aren’t the same as forced marriages. It’s just a situation where family members or friends introduce people to each other and they get married if they’d like to. Arranged marriages can end like other marriages.

[@dum9696]

Ești româncă ❤❤ te pup ❤

[@nnadaquehacerle]

damn he does sounds like jesse pinkman

[@malemaline]

I watch a lot of your videos, but I do think some pauses would help. You tend to go on and on without pause. This isn't intended to be rude but just something that could help the viewer ingest the info. a bit like in this video. Really enjoyed the watch.

[@mattmurray9041]

I actually do think this girl is in the back of an Uber.

[@davidjones9706]

Fun video

[@NonAnonD]

Are you both therapists?

[@AnaPsychology]

He is not

[@dibsdibs3495]

@@AnaPsychologycool what does he do if you don’t mind my asking

[@Olisaeh]

15:14 who does that? My ex😂

[@pushon10]

Aw man, she has a husband! I am so jealous of him!

[@CalMcCann-il6cb]

to be fair everyone has a spectrum of "personality disorder" im not a fan of categorization if you're not hurting anyone then you're disorder isn't really disorder.. it's just a failure of fitting in a box.

[@RabiaSammy]

what is nikolai, is he ukranian?

[@Scruffed]

Sadly the last woman's advice is all too common and practically treated as "received wisdom" for many if not most women in my country (Bolivia). I find it very difficult to stay attracted to them when I notice that pattern of behavior. I can only manage to play the part of "pursuer" up to a point, usually up to the first date, and sometimes not even that. After that, I lose interest quickly if I find myself being the only one with initiative for joint activities, even more so if my proposed activities (and alternatives) are rejected and she doesn't follow the rejection with her own proposals. If I sense something's wrong I will ask about it, but if she always says everything's fine and doesn't voice her concerns, I won't address them, I'd rather let the relationship wither away than enter that dynamic. That said, I'm sure there are men with more patience than me that will put up with that and worse and still be happy with their relationship, but I don't think I could ever be happy with a woman like that. Also, as someone who has a very comfortable life money-wise, a fixation with my money situation is a surefire way to make me distrust a person.

[@Star-dj1kw]

✅ fun video

[@SoVidushi]

🧿

[@rakeshs-w4z]

well there goes my hopes of marrying you :(

[@PrashantMaurice]

First

[@abbasballout4441]

Is your husband single?

[@Star-dj1kw]

Rude

[@suga3774]

He is happily married as you can see

[@sofp]

I like this channel but the tone of this video is so condescending

[@sned_music]

I feel like you missed or obtusely dismissed so many of the points in the videos. And I think it was because you were in front of your husband.

[@Efesus67]

As a therapist, are you not so worried about the divorce statistics?

[@AnaPsychology]

I'm not sure I understand the question. Can you please clarify what specifically would worry me about it?

[@lucasessman1910]

@@AnaPsychologythey’re just being cynical lol. Y’all dont have anything to worry about I’m sure

[@AnaPsychology]

​@@lucasessman1910 If the original commenter was asking about my own personal life, the answer is no. But even if I did have something to worry about, I don't see divorce as a moral failing. A relationship isn't a sunk cost just because it doesn't last forever.

[@lucasessman1910]

@@AnaPsychology beautifully said

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

I might need some therapy after seeing that cat lick the other one's 🟤 😬 😂 Also, thank you for addressing the onslaught of TikTok advice

[@AnaPsychology]

This comment brightened my day 😂