There's No Good Women In Pattaya Thailand

[@TB-xx4gc]

Very well said and accurate. I'm surprised more vloggers don't make this point more often.

[@alexbambam1]

@@TB-xx4gc because negativity sells, and that's why those Vloggers say what they say, they know there's plenty of happy couples in Pattaya living their best life, but they choose to ignore that.

[@billweis7638]

I have been married for 9 years. Took her to the US and we could not be happier.

[@alexbambam1]

@@billweis7638 congrats

[@cometolite]

No disrespect to anyone, not hear to debate anyone. I reside in Pattaya. After speaking with bar girls, freelancers, some massage shops employees. They have the same story, they don’t have a good education, cannot get a job in their Province and obtain a job in the pay for play industry. They send the monies back to the Province for their families, they actually have a separate life in the province when they return.. Most of them I speak with are actually cool warm ladies who are essentially paying the bills Trust me they would prefer to have a good paying job than to cater to old ass expats, some of them don’t show respect.. Additionally Thailand has no safety net including social security or any type of assistance , if you don’t work you will starve. Peace and love

[@alexbambam1]

@@cometolite correct, those industries are not rough.

[@djcraighampson]

Fascinating mate, and nice to hear your back story 👍

[@alexbambam1]

@@djcraighampson thank you 🙏

[@djcraighampson]

Here in central Europe after the fall of communism (early 1990s) western men were in great demand, fast forward to 2025, the local guys have got money and have learned to wash (haha), so things have changed.

[@TerryTucker-l7j]

The long game lasts as long as your money lasts.

[@alexbambam1]

@@TerryTucker-l7j so until I'm 97? Wow, so bad for me.

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

I sure hope alex lives to 97 in good health. Meily don’t want Alex to die early because you need to wait for her so you go together. Meily gets lonely without Alex. I remember she said that in one of your videos.

[@AZdreaminn]

@@alexbambam1😂

[@icekangz817]

Met a guy from Guam when I was in boot camp, kool stand-up guy. But you're right people looking in the wrong places ain't going to find the one to take home to momma no matter what part of the world you're in. keep living the life, it ends when it ends.

[@MotivationalMovements]

Sir the Asian people by near by countries and in Thailand say stay away from Patttaya. The Sanctuary of Truth literally spells it out that one should stay away from places of debauchery for spiritual enlightenment….

[@alexbambam1]

@@MotivationalMovements so you think the almost 120,000 people who live in Pattaya Thailand are bad people. This is exactly the ignorance I was talking about.

[@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366]

Alex I'm afraid you're are 100% correct brother, those guys like travel time with Paul always say that Thai girls are not good women to date or marry because of his experience in one place in Pattaya and I feel like what travel time with Paul said was really wrong. As a person that wants to move to Southeast Asia I know south east Asian women are wifey material, I don't care what any bastardize clown says otherwise, what makes it worse is that these guys that only been to these clubs in Thailand they always like to paint the stereotypes of Thai women, it's kinda of USA and UK where people love painting stereotypes about Latinos & blacks. It's so annoying to me by some of these guys that love saying this type of stuff, and so I'm so happy you're educating people about this topic. But everything you said bro I agree 💯 Great content brother.

[@samuelmiller3500]

Paul got his heart broken by a Thai girl and ever since then he's been spitting false information about the women. I seen his first video when he was with her, he took it down. Paul is a clown.

[@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366]

​@@samuelmiller3500 exactly! I really thought he was a cool guy but as soon as he started making those videos about talking trash about women in Thailand, I started to unsubscribe the dude, I already know he was a joke ever since and he's a f*tty that needs to be at the gym working out😂

[@alexbambam1]

@@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366 thank you 🙏

[@O-Friendly]

Yea, I had to stop watching that guy. That ignorant stereotype mentality put me off with him

[@ShredzZ_SteamDeck_Gameplays]

Its same as you go to Philippines and stay and Angeles City, most of girls there are just girls from the street. But still you can find good women there, it's just about her personality not about city. I living in the Philippines now but im thinking about going to Thailand soon, and have to say most of guys in the Phills get married with escorts and I dont have to tell you how it ends most of the time 🤣

[@CheckYourPremises]

Have you ever been diagnosed with schizophrenias? You cannot even maintain a train of thought...

[@alexbambam1]

@@CheckYourPremises another wanna be doctor hating online, welcome to the club, keep watching 🤣👋

[@anonymousmc7727]

It runs in his family 😂

[@johndey6922]

Don't pretend to be a simp even a simp knows what the long game is

[@alexbambam1]

@@johndey6922 hello again ma'am. Go ahead tell us, we the simps wanna know. Thank you

[@Kronk24]

Breaking News!! 7:41. Farang with Thai woman and their mixed daughter walk past Bro 😎 lolllssss 😂

[@alexbambam1]

@@Kronk24 yes, they exist 😂

[@MarkSmith.]

Another truth bomb from Alex bam bam well said and I believe 100% accurate

[@alexbambam1]

Thank you :)

[@AGiPublishing]

Long game means you're being used and milked for your money and energy and time.

[@alexbambam1]

@@AGiPublishing so we been together for 3 years, my money has remained the same, and I spend the same as before I met her. Time? obviously everyone loses it, as far as energy, I'm getting older so energy is obviously gonna go down. When does the money milking part of the long game start? After 4 years? 10 years? Thank you in advance 😉👋

[@AZ-zr5oo]

Saying there are "NO" good women there is ignorant. Saying you have a decent chance of finding one there is even more ignorant. Generally speaking, irrespective of which city you're in, the more traditional ones are far more reluctant to become involved with foreigners. And the ones who do are "usually" the ones that have been with scores of foreigners before and are "usually" after your money. If the shopping sprees, nice restaurants and entertainment stop, so will the motivation for being with the foreign boyfriend. At the same time, if you look at their relationships with previous "Thai" boyfriends, the romance is far less costly, but more genuine.

[@PLATINUMSWORDS]

You nailed it 💯

[@Brian_Homer]

Right on Alex! 100% on point!!!!

[@JayDKBGames]

I saw a guys video saying that there are no good women in Pattaya. Its really the dumbest comment and logic ever. You can find good and bad women in EVERY country. Its those low vibration guys that would find the same bad woman no matter what country they went to. They fail to see the ONE common denominator in the women they meet, which is THEMSELVES. The reality is "YOU are were YOU are because of who YOU are" they should just do better.

[@MikeLowery-transcendent]

It’s not just men that have that opinion, women, probably even more. And you’re right, it’s absolute ignorance. Great post, brother.✊🏽

[@alexbambam1]

@@MikeLowery-transcendent facts

[@patrickcarton8117]

Hi Alex I also hate that reference my gf is Thai from Bangkok and she works hard cooks amazing and kind Ignorant men who stereotype Thai women are insecure about themselves My gf also says she wants the Long game which is stability and a faithful partner And that is what meily means and she has that with you bro Take it easy and stay humble always

[@Phearcat]

Greater Pattaya has over 300k residents, there are loads of availble women living there that are in employeed in businesses that have nothing to do witht sex trade. If your looking on Soi 6 or Walking Street for your next wife, your probably looking in the wrong place. My Thai wife from Pattaya worked in a loan office.

[@alexbambam1]

@@Phearcatexactly

[@paulmusso19]

32 years and took everything!!!! The long game…

[@alexbambam1]

@@paulmusso19 you probably ignore the comment, but can you tell us how a woman play the long game and took everything? Or do you mean divorce?

[@paulmusso19]

Oh yeah the big D

[@vegas_vince1238]

@alexbambam1 The long Game: she's gonna be a totally awesome girlfriend so you are then comfortable enough to marry her. Then she will get pregnant, and help you raise your children (okay, let's be honest, she will probably do most of that). Then you are gonna get a house and one day be a grandpa. Then you die. She's totally playing the long game! haha

[@alexbambam1]

OMG! That sounds horrible, but we only need one kid and don't forget the dogs lol

[@MyNewYouTubeAccount]

You’re spot on! Just saw a video today that made this ridiculous claim about the Thai ladies.

[@alexbambam1]

@@MyNewKZbinAccount it's insane how closed minded some people are

[@RKHenrix]

To deny that things have changed fpr the worse, is living in denial, or igonorance. Im here right now, and this will for sure be my last time coming here. The good old days are gone.

[@alexbambam1]

@@RKHenrix that's a broad statement, tell us how things have changed for the worse for YOU.

[@RKHenrix]

@@alexbambam1 Broad statement? Who made you the arbitrator of whats what? Ive been coming to Thailand for a long time. I dont need you to tell me what i see with my own eyes. Dont be pathethic.

[@alexbambam1]

@@RKHenrixyou avoided my question. Tell you what I will stop being pathetic, and you can do the same by answering the question you ignored. How did Thailand changed for the worse for you? What was so much better back then, that is so bad now?

[@loudmacleodsadventure3782]

Certainly aint the best place in thailand to find a genuine angel 🤣555

[@brucedavis7758]

I was in the Army; honestly, what do you expect to find in the red-light district? Not saying that can't happen, but if I'm hunting grizzlies, I have to go where they are.

[@vernonharley]

You should’ve used a question mark in your title

[@alexbambam1]

@@vernonharley is that what you do with your channel?

[@vernonharley]

@@alexbambam1 😂😂😂😂😂 why so defensive. I’m just pointing out that the title is a statement that doesn’t accurately tell your stance but you do you boss man. Don’t get upset when someone is merely giving a tip smooth brain

[@alexbambam1]

@@vernonharley I'm defensive? but you wrote all that? And with the name calling 😂. And that's exactly my point, it is my channel champ, and I'll run it how I see it fit, glad we're on the same page, have a great day 👋

[@vernonharley]

@ good day smooth brain…….

[@alexbambam1]

@@vernonharley it is gonna be okay ma'am, breath and go out for walk.

[@NEILBAGELSTEIN123]

Not only men stereotype Thai people outside of Pattaya also think that way believe it or not !!!!!

[@alexbambam1]

@@NEILBAGELSTEIN123 I believe it, ignorance can happen anywhere 😉

[@dariuswilliams9623]

thankz good talk. true pattaya is my sekund home. love from denmark-

[@kelvinator3037]

No good girls in thai none in the home country none in this worldl go to fukin mars and give it ago. 🤣 Your spot on Alex 👍

[@carltonedwards8775]

Some of these expats and foreigners who come to Pattaya looking for love are not even a good catch, and they really need to work on improving themselves. There are expats and foreigners looking for the love of their lives in bars, massage parlors, gent's clubs and night clubs and a few may find true love in those places. There are good women even in Pattaya, but women who are heavily involve in the Red Light district probably should be avoided.

[@alexbambam1]

@@carltonedwards8775 I agree 💪

[@mspanebianco1]

Most Thai women are wonderful people. Yes true there are the red light areas, these girls are there for money, specifically money for their families in the provinces. The unfortunate thing is that some get addicted to the amount of money they make and the party lifestyle.

[@alexbambam1]

@@mspanebianco1 yup it is easy to get lost in that world

[@RetiredDuke]

Ok Alex I love your channel but someone has to play devils advocate. You made the statement that Thai women don't want foreigners. When did you become Thai? You said yourself that you were born in New York USA. Did you take a test so you're not a foreigner anymore??😁😁😁 Just jerkin your chain brother, Ok all BS Aside. I love your channel and I love that you found happiness with Meily. As for this long game crap I don't see Meily ever letting go of you and it has ZERO to do with money. Good luck and much happiness to you both in the future. I see nothing but the best for you both.

[@grayone321]

My experience having travelled to a good few countries around the world for work and leisure is to not focus on the ex pat communities (often bar focussed) and make sure you try to mix with people who are local. When I've done that I always had a more interesting time.

[@billric1945]

14.5 thousand viewers after all these years ??

[@alexbambam1]

@@billric1945 are you okay ma'am?

[@runehegland6696]

Thank you for clearing this out! To think all women in Pattaya are bad. Thats ignorant.

[@wadenobisemartuccianimatio8366]

That's guys like travel time with Paul keep saying that, and it's very annoying to me.

[@johnerdelyi4208]

The dating scene anywhere is complicated + the culture clash can be difficult divorced 2filipinas im older im happy 😊 to be single and find out who i am regain my identity joined muay thai classes going to pattaya for muay thai training no time for a relationship i have to focus on myself 2025 is a power year for me 😊

[@alexbambam1]

@@johnerdelyi4208 always do what makes you truly happy

[@rafaelcastillo2636]

Sawadee Kra! Eres buena onda Carnal. My best wishes on your endeavor. Maraming Salamat for sharing. Mahal ko pilipinas. Kha Phun Ka. Saludos

[@wewhagg]

Thanks for making this video. 80% of the guys that come here do what you said. They go to those places looking for that one. They won't tell you that, but they are. From what I've seen, the majority of the men would be simps and pookies aka the bad boys the ones that get girls pregnant and leave. Its sad because most of them have a camera in their hands. My you and your lady have a bless day and a bless life. I will be retiring there so you will see me. I will be there in October of this year. By the grace of God, He healed my back so no surgery for the pinched nerve, but I have to have Bariatric surgery to get the weight of because my muscles in my back and legs can't handle it for me to workout. I do some, and I have lost 10lbs but my movement is still hindered. So see you soon👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

[@alexbambam1]

@@wewhagg thank you 🙏

[@stevotropics]

I agree. I think there are 250k population there. Maybe 1% of those women might work in the bar industry, but the rest support all the other industries.

[@Teamkrod]

I hope that when I’m ready I’ll find one. Need to focus on myself for once in my life.

[@domingoferrari5889]

Long Game goes until about a year after you marry her. Then you find out who she really is and if u got a good one or not. My plan would be to find college girls and hang out near the university

[@alexbambam1]

@@domingoferrari5889 is that your opinion or a fact? Because that's not what a few other have said in the comments. Nobody seems to agree what this long game seems to be. That's a good luck, go get it 💪

[@gildavojta7943]

Thank you Alex for telling us about Thailand Ladies . And also your self .That you are in the Navy too. My husband he was in the Navy too. And he married to a Filipina .Like me Im from the Philippines . So anyway thank you so much as always your video .

[@alexbambam1]

@@gildavojta7943 salamat po 🙏

[@gildavojta7943]

Wow Im impress ! Are you half asian ? and half ? And Im happy for you that you know how to speak Tagalog . Next time I will comment in Tagalog Language .To make easy for me . And thank you so much for your service .And for your video !

[@alexbambam1]

@gildavojta7943 I don't speak tagalog, Mexican Ako, pero I know a few phrases because I live in the philippines for six years 😊

[@gildavojta7943]

@@alexbambam1 Wow ! Last year before I retired .Most of my coworkers are from Mexico, some of there Language are same of mine spanish . So anyway thanks again as always .So see you on your next video ! Take care !

[@FOCUSonASIA13]

Pattaya is not for me/us but dudes commenting about the women are either the ones that just go there to party or have been scammed because they were gullible and now are butt-hurt from that incident. The long game is until you die LOL

[@alexbambam1]

@@FOCUSonASIA13 that sounds like a good deal, why are these haters crying about the long game then? 🤣

[@4KChillVibes.]

there are plenty of great women in thailand, the only thing i would add is dont go looking for a women you ntend to spend a big part of your life with in a bar, meeting girls anywhere outside of that environment ups the chance of meeting a nice local girl.

[@ellisbradley3141]

Hey, Alex well said women in Thailand are not a monolith they are individuals! By the way brother I booked my ticket to Thailand my first stop is Bangkok and my second stop is Pattaya to see which one I want to retire to. I will be in Pattaya on April the 16th after Songkran.

[@alexbambam1]

@@ellisbradley3141 nice congrats 💪

[@AJdOWnSOUTH]

Red light district is for drinking, fun and sex... NOT FALLING IN LOVE!! You find a good one there good luck. You wanna normal girl, go to the normal places to find them... Not the sex bars. And it's true, many people at the end of the day want to be with someone of their culture it's life.

[@rambis841]

In my opinion just because a woman works in a bar or goes with customers don't mean they are not good people. Maybe they wouldn't be a good girlfriend while working in those places but that don't make them a bad person.

[@Johnnyoz75]

Agreed. I just made a similar comment.

[@petersimmons3346]

Yes agree ..sure there are some you need to avoid ..but some nice ones not in the bar scene

[@samuelmiller3500]

I have one, she has my name tattooed on her in 2 different places. When they love you, they love you with all their heart.

[@alexbambam1]

@@samuelmiller3500 I gotten a few women say they wanted to tattoo my name on their bodies I always say no.

[@nyciron]

My cousin was stationed in Guam late 80s , where in NY were you born?

[@alexbambam1]

@@nyciron monticello new york

[@Brute4321]

Glad he made this video

[@alexbambam1]

@@Brute4321 thank you 🙏

[@PACIFICBboy]

Is there a decent jiujitsu gym in pattaya?

[@alexbambam1]

@@PACIFICBboy yes, fairtex training center and rage fight academy

[@PACIFICBboy]

@ I’ll check it out next time I’m in Pattaya. I do get bored during the daylight hours sometimes lol

[@alexbambam1]

@PACIFICBboy there's plenty to do here during the day 😂. But yeah, can't go wrong with both places

[@PACIFICBboy]

@@alexbambam1 bored was probably the wrong word but I want to be more active when I’m there to counteract the partying lol. That way I don’t feel so out of shape when I go back to training after a couple weeks in Thailand. Plus I do want to try some Muay Thai, I train bjj, but I’ve never seriously trained any boxing

[@GoneAdrift]

🙏🏻

[@TheMikeyStory]

There is good women in Pattaya as long as you know how to vet for good women , then you will see there is more than you thought in Pattaya cuz , pattaya is a huge area and soi6, walking street and soi buchkao is small in comparison to the rest of the area.

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

Everything is relative depends on perspective. American Marriage Rates and Birthrates are dropping quickly. In Thailand there is no daddy government to help people out from stupid choices they make. The Thai government not getting involved holds people accountable for their bad behavior. In General people in Thailand are much better quality and better behaved people due to consequences of bad behavior. In thailand women date with a purpose not just to goof around most women want a real relationship and marriage. Yes there are bad apples in every country. From my experience women in thailand that come from wealthier families don't want associate with foreigners. The girls that are more open to getting involved with foreigners are the girls with lower incomes. The girls are not stupid when they pick a foreigner they often make sure the man is a quality guy that is decent looking and a good provider. All women are hypergamous does not matter where in the world they are from. I personally don't blame them just need to understand them it is a survival mechanism. NO woman who is smart wants to get involved with a broke man just to struggle. The problem with lots these guys that complain are dumb spending too much time in the bars and walking street selecting women on looks over moral character. Meily is sweet hard working woman. Alex is lucky to find Meily. Meily is lucky to find Alex. Preach it Alex.

[@DavidChristenson-l6l]

great video. it's what you want.

[@WellRoundedMBS]

lmao Alex you are so right

[@qwantstotravel]

I been in Thailand for 2 years now. I have a beautiful Thai girlfriend who works in Thai Government. She is a very good and amazing woman. Don’t silence to bad people. 99% of the women in Thailand is good.

[@CandlestickTV]

😂

[@itsOliB]

Facts 💯

[@Gurumregg]

Tnx for yet a good video Alex, yes it's a very good and important topic and I don't like those men saying that about Thailand and pattaya, it's really stupid. We'll for me and my wife "the long game" have to be 19 years of love and 2 kids and we probably going to stay all of our life's, what we get out of it is a lifetime of love and joy, and we meet in pattaya. So there is plenty of good women in pattaya and Thailand ❤

[@alexbambam1]

@@Gurumregg ❤️

[@Gurumregg]

@alexbambam1 ❤️❤️

[@yssss-q9i]

It's not the hole city It's 99.999 %

[@alexbambam1]

@@yssss-q9i tell us more non sense

[@yssss-q9i]

@alexbambam1 I love thai women But vast majority of them are not marriage material. In Pattaya is more like 99.999%

[@alexbambam1]

@@yssss-q9i the ignorance is mind blowing. Tell us more ignorant facts please

[@yssss-q9i]

@@alexbambam1 You still young and stupid You would grow up and see

[@southpaw1755]

The question asked most to me by my wife's Thai lady friends is why do foreigners only date young Thai women? Is that a stereotype too? Thanks for your video.

[@alexbambam1]

@@southpaw1755 it is and it isn't, most men prefer women younger than them. But I do know foreigners who are married to women their age.

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

It’s common sense women don’t want to associate with broke men. Women prefer men with resources not necessarily rich. Men prefer women that have youth and fertility. I didnt make the rules that is the law of nature. Smart women find good men at a young age. The older girls that are still single is because they probably made too many stupid choices. For guys it’s is not as easy women pick men on what we can provide and do for them. Those are the rules of nature. If alex was completely broke and didn’t offer meily a comfy , peaceful life, with a little excitement meily would not have picked Alex. Older women need stop hating , they were the young girls at one point .

[@eio1971]

Salute!

[@jamesvengren5316]

Hey bam just ignore the stupid comments enjoy your life with Miley like I know you will and have a great day

[@yusefashanti3177]

Good job

[@ประยูรสมสนิท-ฃ5ฅ]

How American woman different from Thailand girls .. I hope this is next content subject from you .. Alex bam bam .. ❤️

[@alexbambam1]

@@ประยูรสมสนิท-ฃ5ฅthat's a good subject. Thank you, but I don't know, I have not live in America for over 20 years, so it would be hard for me to speak on that subject

[@DownunderKev]

Great thoughts about the stereotypical beliefs. Common sense isn’t that common anymore.

[@joelkeka1272]

Great info. If you take race out and look at people as human beings is the 1st step, looking at people as race, color, nationality is what cause racism. Women all over look at men on how men hold them self. Being nice respectful and not a trouble maker, but a protector. But how you hold yourself Bam is awesome, and that’s what women look at. Awesome info. Look and observe women as women do, don’t jus jump in. Take your time and enjoy life. Great vid🤙🏽🤙🏽🤙🏽

[@alexbambam1]

@@joelkeka1272 racism is a learned behaviour. Looking at people ONLY as race, colour, or Nationality is not a good thing.

[@bobwelo]

[@clappi59]

blah blah.

[@alexbambam1]

@@clappi59 are you still here? I know you can't help it 😂👋