If You Cheated, Should You Tell?

If you were unfaithful in your relationship, should you tell your partner? “The Real” ladies debate the pros and cons, in this Girl Chat.

[@nfvy8111]

If you cheated on me you better tell me, because I deserve to know that I need to break up with you.

[@debiedebsielein3264]

😂😂😂

[@elinamokae-yeboah3929]

VII 😂😂

[@victoriaosei6688]

😂😂😂😂

[@Sid-rp5yi]

Exactly

[@mariamchale8866]

When men cheat they will always try to cover it up and deny deny deny

[@user-lf4kx3vr8x]

If you're bold enough to cheat, you better be bold enough to tell.

[@shivairas6717]

W ikr

[@yolandan8915]

True dat

[@raecaston3206]

W 🅿️🅿️🅿️👏🏽👏🏽

[@daniboots1]

PREACH,

[@mi4str712]

Faaaacts

[@Holabella]

No relationship is ever the same after cheatig

[@JH-og4it]

BitterSwt02 once cheating always cheating

[@chloecusimano3710]

Brianna Tyler your wife so you were in a lesbian relationship

[@realskeezy3601]

Paul George Do you believe that because it rhymes? lol did you ever hear of people changing it's a real thing lol once a cheater always a cheater is bullshit it's so annoying when people say it because it doesn't even make any sense it only rhymes people can change lol

[@norrisjackson6061]

@@realskeezy3601 hunny there's a reason why that saying is a thing 🤣 because even if the have "changed" if they did it once they are gonna do it again

[@realskeezy3601]

Norris Jackson If they did it once your SURE they will do it again? lmaoo i highly disagree. thats not 100% at allll. like i said it just rhymes some people learn from mistakes. "they will do it again" lol clearly someone did you wrong so that's your own personal opinion. not everyone is the same lol

[@minisanz1397]

If u cheat on me, u cheated yourself from having a loyal lifelong partner. And that my friend is hard to come by now n days.

[@jaym8808]

100%. Idk what's wrong with people. Their loss not mine. Thanks for letting me know you weren't the one I guess 😂

[@JAZZSTARish]

You forget it is not just physically.

[@farahnursingserious585]

Ik its so hard to grasp cheating when you actually strive to be loyal. I know not everyone is monogamous but if you know your not (and your gonna try using that as an excuse) at least get into a relationship where thats cool with your partner (Polygamous relationships exist lol). Also, alot of people get off on the games, deciet, and get a high off of all the lying so cheaters are just not the best people smh.

[@ricardomoseley]

Hello.

[@ricardomoseley]

That hit so different.

[@ashleyb4945]

You cheating and not telling your partner out of fear of losing them is selfish and disrespectful.

[@foreverlibra93]

I think cheating , is selfish and disrespectful . I agree with Tamar , If it ain't working then leave .

[@KM7661]

Word on Point

[@patchcipriano8148]

Yas! If you didn't want to lose them you shouldn't have cheated in the first place.

[@satukamara5968]

Patch Cipriano

[@bealangelsolutions4676]

Ashley B PREACH MA SISTER AMEN!!!!!!!! (I FEEL LIKE I'm IN CHURCH AGAIN)

[@TheJanetjacksonlover]

I agree with Jeannie 100% because the minute you feel like you can even SEE yourself cheating or being with someone else you need to go talk to your spouse/partner right away so it doesn't even get to that point.

[@helenatube]

+Melissa Evans Yup communication is the key 🔑, people. Gotta do it.

[@Laila-fq7hk]

yep!!!

[@AkiffHssn]

5.43 jeannie's still processing all of that but that face wow don't mess with jeannie mai hahahaha

[@emeraldbeauty01]

Yes so true! If one partner is getting a urge to go out and cheat, it's a sign something is wrong in the relationship or within themselves. If the other partner knows, then maybe they can try to figure out what the core of the problem is and overcome it together.

[@Eskojpuasok]

It's easier said than done

[@EfiaBAE_]

When Tamera said "I don't want to hear it from somewhere else" I felt it deep in my soul.

[@kharih6929]

"Don't let nobody else tell me what you should have already told me".

[@milirodriguez8493]

I was dating this guy for few months and he actually came clean and told me he did. He didn't go into full details but he did tell me and we both decided to call off our relationship. Now, I absolutely don't support that he did that at all, but it truly meant to me to know that he let me know and not continued while we were still together.

[@yucol5661]

Yes. These was very responsible. Not cheating is ideal but after you cheated them you definitely should come clean. Acting like it’s worse than it is just makes people get more hurt than cheating in it’s own

[@jameshoughton7509]

That is extremely mature. Well done the both of you l!

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

Cheating is also spiritual, you don't want somebody to bring spiritual diseases to you because such things will block you.

[@Richard-lh3te]

It’s good you didn’t have to catch him

[@matinaki1644]

Makes you respect him a bit. That's what I believe. At least he had the guts and the little respect for me to tell me.

[@ATrueLoveOfficial]

Cheating is a choice that ruins a relationship. If you're not happy with your relationship, then just leave. Don't cheat.

[@somamukherjee6266]

A True Love Official yup true

[@deventhomas21]

A True Love Official 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@wonderful543]

A True Love Official it's not always that easy to leave specially if there is kids and finances.

[@ashleythenelle1191]

A True Love Official thank u sis what's so hard

[@donellhowell6954]

Preach !!!!

[@bye230]

I want him to tell me so I can leave his ass IMMEDIATELY

[@clarke4400]

Agreed

[@Laila-fq7hk]

👏👏👏👏

[@tonyacolbert6898]

+Ari Ed Best Answer! Best Advice! Best Comment!

[@tutulakish6506]

+Ari Ed Agreed, and to go get tested too!!

[@reverieo9307]

+Ari Ed gurlll u spoke my word...tell em boy bye!!!

[@jrbionic404]

I love how Loni always stays on reminding what the actual question is. Keeps them on track and from being able to avoid answering it directly.

[@tiamarie6997]

Always ‼️

[@gregorycarlson6632]

I’m a professional who has dealt with situations like this for many years. Tell your partner. He/she deserves to know and they can make a decision about staying in the relationship. Another reason to tell your partner is that they will find out anyway. As a Christian, I believe that God sees to it that cheaters get caught. It may not come to light for years, but it will be found out!

[@matinaki1644]

❤️❤️

[@nerdyykeyla]

I think you should definitely tell your partner you've cheated, I mean you didn't give them LOYALTY at least give them some RESPECT and let them know.

[@JayneAngelinaSkye]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Laila-fq7hk]

yes!!!

[@cameronlo5914]

Preach 🙌🏽

[@Hannahgraceher]

Put some respect on it!!

[@nerdyykeyla]

+Obia RESPECK LOL

[@santriciajones2579]

Definitely tell your partner... so he/she can break up with your cheating ass!

[@Laila-fq7hk]

lol yup

[@naomievenus6333]

lmao

[@steveladore]

+Santricia Jones lol savage i can't with you

[@santriciajones2579]

lonely me Lol :)

[@Eskojpuasok]

Sounds like something Loni would say lol

[@captainsugar8041]

I have a "friend" who has been on and off with this girl for about 10 years. The last 4 years he has been married to her. He has cheated on her with different girls and said... and I quote "What she doesn't know won't hurt her." You could say I am no longer talking to this person. lol

[@sagittariusque8932]

Karma will catch up to him eventually

[@BL-N3xus]

@@sagittariusque8932 yep!

[@md13h]

Did you tell the girl?

[@chopperdown9114]

YOUR A DOG FOR NOT TELLING U SHOULD BE BASHED

[@7rings940]

I would snitch on his ass you know why because first off I’m not just gonna let my friend off the hook when I see them disrespecting someone secondly every girl should help another girl out no one should be having to deal with this at all not only is it disgusting but it’s clowning the other person for being with someone who has been playing them without them knowing and it’s worse when you know and they find out you knew before them and didn’t even bother telling them-

[@Indiasplace]

Tamar brought so much energy and fun! She was real and Spoke what we as women think.

[@christshandmaiden]

I agree!

[@EvolvingMama_]

Miss her and Tamara now 😭

[@Indiasplace]

@@EvolvingMama_ yes! Ugggh I ain’t watching no more.

[@ladymichele57]

what's done in the dark, eventually comes out in the light🤔

[@joliearytravels]

lady michele yea might as well confess

[@Brettbren]

*AMEN to that!*

[@King-Montu]

i was thinking da samething sis you should have to top comment

[@KimberlySmith-tr6ey]

It Always Comes out!!!

[@franciscodorque7323]

Kimberly Smith not always man I’ve cheated on some girls and I’m not with them anymore and til this day they’ll never know. They know i wasn’t 100% faithful but they don’t know all the specifics. Sometimes you’ll never know you may die married to a cheater and never find out. 69 found out his bm was fucking his manager thru police wire taps off of an on going investigation. People act different when the ones they care bout aren’t around...

[@GetHers979]

Tamera seems sweet,but if Adam cheated,I believe she'd lose her mind😠😠😠😲😵

[@helenatube]

+Ilen Gauth OMG I know I would not want to be within 100 mi of that..... 💣💣💣💥💥💥

[@Laila-fq7hk]

yep!!

[@rae740]

if Adam cheated...... "RIP Adam" 😩

[@kparm23]

She would still stay though one hundred percent

[@valeriewilliams5078]

+Ilen Gauth No shade to other ladies that are married on the panel but truly believe tamera would lose her mind if she found out adam was cheating, she really loves that man.; not saying that the others dont love their man but not like tamera.

[@kobetrotman2484]

Don’t cheat simple 👌🏾just stay true to whoever you decide to be with

[@brandonjablasone7544]

Kobe Trotman that hard

[@brandyjohnson738]

@@brandonjablasone7544 then don't be in relationships.

[@siobhangallagher2576]

@@brandonjablasone7544 like my grandmother always said, have sex with people you actually love

[@MySweetAriane]

Lol

[@alvaro209209]

I had a girlfriend once that used to tell me why do u want to know your just going to get your feeling hurt .... 😞 I’m not that idiot anymore

[@realskeezy3601]

Yeah don't be that idiot anymore I would've left real quick that's just somebody who's playing around you dude just to have you so nobody else would

[@sagebreeze]

Forget her you deserve better!

[@shreyasnikam7189]

Try practicing spirituality and it'll tell you what you feel from inside. Our mind, our focus runs from here to there all time, learn to control it little by little everyday. Your soul is your power, this body and even this mind will age one day. I hope you find yourself soon🙏 ( I'll be happy if you already did.)

[@kaleidojess]

Sorry that happened to you. Cheating sucks.

[@alvaro209209]

@@kaleidojessthat was long time ago but I’m currently in a relationship I’m happy but thank you does suck

[@dominiquewright906]

I honestly just think that it's selfish..not only did you cheat..your not even gonna give your partner that right to choose whether they want to stay or not..

[@helenatube]

+Dominique wright ikr? nothing is more selfish than that. I mean on top of being a cheater you're not even gonna pay due respect to your partner and let her move on with her life? gtfo 😒

[@dominiquewright906]

+Helena exactly..in my opinion if a person means that much to you..there's no way you could entertain someone else to the point of sleeping with them

[@sweetpeaj1952]

true.

[@ladyrodriguez6811]

Yup. Never say never.

[@KM7661]

Very well said..it's just nasty..

[@Mahagony1985]

If they don't tell the STD will!!

[@nontobekonzuza7474]

😂

[@deventhomas21]

Mahagony1985 😂👏

[@foreigncarsrule]

Mahagony1985 Yeah that definitely does not always occur...

[@alishthick740]

😂😂😭

[@margaretbatson83]

Mahagony1985 I absolutely agree the std will it'll give it away no use hiding the fact your cheating.

[@NdeniseColeman]

Tamar is hilarious. She said, “First giving honor to God.” I laughed so hard! 🤣😂😂😂

[@mariacastilla5149]

I cheated on my man and I felt like I couldn’t keep it a secret for long. I eventually ended up telling him and he forgave me. But let’s just say things haven’t felt the same since

[@Sabretooth-gz7pp]

Once the trust is broken , it's very difficult to put everything back together. My ex cheated on me and it broke me down as a Man , I thought she was The One . I tried to make it work for our son but I couldn't do it , now I am a single Father and my son is with me.

[@siobhangallagher2576]

@@Sabretooth-gz7pp sending 💖💖

[@Sabretooth-gz7pp]

@@siobhangallagher2576 Thanks 👍.

[@a.g.8025]

Yikes.

[@Sabretooth-gz7pp]

@@a.g.8025 Yikes indeed 😳

[@writerspen010]

Mmm, cheating can bring sexual health problems for the partner who got cheated on. You gotta tell.

[@dantan1249]

writerspen010 yeah. don't put me at risk.

[@KimberlySmith-tr6ey]

Exactly these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty Sides Don't care what they contact,!! But the Loyal Loving spouse does and thinks they have No worry's cause they are married they Don't Deserve there Filthy Cheating Spouse possibly bringing home Deadly or Disgusting STDs!!! Honesty is the Best policy!!! I can't stand people that Cheat on there spouse!!! I also have No Respect for the Dirty Pieces of garbage that Mess with Married people!!!!

[@KimberlySmith-tr6ey]

@Lulu That is so Sad!!! Some people are so Disgusting they think nothing of the Consequences of hopping in the Sack with other people even though there Married!!! It makes me Sick how some people have No Respect for anyone not there Spouse not even themselves there are Many STDs out there !!! It's like these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty ones they Mess with don't care what they could contact!! Your not safe unless you have a spouse who is Loyal has morals!!!

[@KimberlySmith-tr6ey]

I'm Surprised there are so Many Cheaters with all these Grotesque Deadly STDS the Only ones I have Sympathy for are the Spouses that are being faithful while the Filthy Spouse is Messing with any piece of Garbage that's A EASY Piece!!Those EASY types Don't care what they Contact they Usually have Major issues And don't care about the Consequences that sharing bodily fluids with just Anyone brings on Illness hell I would not be surprised if those types have had Numerous STDs!! You know what they say if you have one your chance of having or contacting HIV are higher.

[@laurenj432]

What if it was just a kiss

[@witchf4ce310]

Are they kidding? Honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship. Cheating and not telling your partner is disgusting.

[@Brettbren]

*I wholeheartedly agree with you. I believe that you should tell your significant other as soon as you can, as keeping that destructive of a secret will only hurt you (physically, psychologically, and emotionally).*

[@sadmansakib6753]

cheating is not good but what u dont know cant hurt u!!

[@MyPandiiKisses]

@@sadmansakib6753 except when you get Chlamydia, herpes or HIV

[@debiedebsielein3264]

@@Brettbren I think you should not tell so you stick with the pain you have caused. May it kill you 😒 Seriously, most of the people only want to tell for selfish reasons. To release their own pain. It's never about the partnet otherwise they wouldn't cheat in first place. If you don't want the relationship or think you deserve better just leave! That simple.

[@secretlyclever4062]

DebieDebsie Lein so you’re saying if someone cheats, they should just leave the relationship and not say anything? That’s about as cowardly as it gets.

[@savvyc2182]

Tamars hair looks amazing here. The short dark curls 😍😍yess

[@IGGYTheClown]

If you cheat and you don't tell your partner you should automatically end the relationship because if you can go out your way and take the extra step to be with somebody else and not stay faithful then there's no point in staying with your partner

[@itsrubarh]

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake....

[@samariaakhan]

Amen 👏🏽👏🏽

[@SammySam316]

+kae Amen #2

[@JayneAngelinaSkye]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@JayneAngelinaSkye]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@missbrianna21]

👏👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏🏿

[@Averia89]

ADAM: Tamera...I cheated. I'm so sorry TAMERA: Wait, excuse me? ADAM: It didn't mean anything, it just - TAMERA: (throws a hard punch) ADAM: Wait - did you just? Did you just hit me? TAMERA: WE BRAWLIN'!!!

[@Fifth.Amendment]

This right here...😂😂😂

[@TheRubyyy123]

😂😂😂😂😂 gold

[@AkiffHssn]

from a sweet witch to a warrior mode hahahaha wawww

[@king2001able]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sh0rt3stuf]

😂😂😂 I'm dead

[@mechellejonesmfj]

If I believed that I was in a long term happy committed relationship and my partner cheated in a one off situation that I would never find out I would rather not know. I would find it hard to forgive, I would certainly never forget AND I would never be able to trust him again. Once the trust is gone the relationship is pretty much dead anyway. Confession is often a way that someone seeks absolution but my observation here is that it is often done to rid the cheater of feelings of guilt leaving the wronged partner feeling wretched and bereaved.

[@Infroblxckent]

In my situation I cheated and I do feel it was a mistake. I was extremely drunk and I don’t remember a thing. All I can do is go off of is what the guy said we did that night. I confessed immediately cause I felt horribly and wanted to give my boyfriend the option to leave and choose someone better than me. It was my decision to drink and I should have been more careful. I feel confused shocked and disgusted with myself and I dislike the guy a lot cause he knew I had a boyfriend and I wish he would have been a true friend and not taken the opportunity yet and still I take responsibility. I’m so grateful my boyfriend understood. Yes he was extremely upset and disappointed in me but he respected me telling him of the incident and wants to stay and work past this. I’m still hurt by my actions and I’m being very attentive to his feelings and am showing I’m working to never let that happen again by following all his requests so I can potentially gain his trust back. I don’t want to lose my best friend or ever put myself in a position for this to happen again.

[@sabresabredon]

You knew this male friend wanted to sleep with you and you never distanced yourself from him.

[@NallahBrown]

The fact that this conversation was so long, I don't trust them lmao.

[@iamNissiV]

😭😂😭😂😭😂

[@purestsoul3634]

😮😮😵😲😂😂😭😭

[@dominiquewright906]

Nallah B fr..it was a simple question

[@dominiquewright906]

Nolan Baptiste well I'm sure tamera doesn't she's only been with one person ger whole life..well at least sexually

[@dominiquewright906]

Nolan Baptiste no.. to my knowledge she has never been with the same sex..and I was saying she's only been with her husband

[@luvvinnanners]

I love Tamera she’s hilarious 😭😭 “we brawlin”😭😭

[@ladylildizzy1]

Nadia Pridgen lmao 🤼‍♀️

[@shalanathomas7751]

😂😂

[@Bella12345]

🤣🤣

[@TheAriesprincess19]

I hope she don’t brawl like that 😩🤣🤣🤣

[@edelinechouloute7950]

@@TheAriesprincess19 love tamera Mowry housley she doesn't belong on that show she's too smart she's way too educated well spoken than all the girls.

[@demetrishoward7032]

The only reason for not admitting to cheating is SELF PRESERVATION, it has absolutely nothing to do with GENUINELY caring about the other person.

[@brittneyanne6914]

They NEED TO TELL! It is not their decision if the other person wants to stay. . . It is disrespectful.

[@jonathangrabban912]

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[@cartersmom0629]

You should most definitely tell your partner that you cheated because when you don't you take away their right to decide if they still want to be with you. They're not in the relationship that they think they are in and that is not right. You cheated, but they don't know so they are oblivious to the fact that you cheated, and they still believe they're in a happy monogamous relationship when they aren't at all. It's their choice if they want to still be with you. Don't take away people's choices just because you don't wanna lose them!

[@joannakeable4719]

You're absolutely right! I cheated and lied about it, thinking I would cause him harm by telling him...and I caused us both SO much harm by not telling him. I deeply regret cheating and it has taken me years to get my self-respect back. Here's my story mybetterbodyblog.wordpress.com/contact-joanna/

[@annachoina1061]

I agree it makes me angry when people lie about cheating and say that they are lying beceuse they dont want to hurt their soupose felling when in reality they just dont want to face the conseuences

[@cartersmom0629]

Alexander Briggman Not with me. Just say "I cheated on you" and from there I will decide what I wanna do stay or go

[@foreigncarsrule]

Carter's mom Okay well it is the cheaters personal life and a personal life is individualistic. We can't make people do anything, you have to break the news at the right time.

[@cartersmom0629]

foreigncarsrule No matter how you try to spin it it should still be the other party's choice if they want to continue the relationship with a cheater. Yes you should tell your partner because you've already cheated why continue to be dishonest about it. I find it really sad that you don't think a person should have the right to know and choose if they still wanna be with a cheater.

[@shabbyLaw]

Tamera just gave me ALL TYPES OF LIFE this clip. lmmfao!

[@helenatube]

+JustS lmao this side of her cracks me up! feisty 🌶🌶🌶

[@goshenqueen]

She is my FAVORITE!! lol

[@julieemeanuwa4570]

Me and the audience not believing Tamar "can handle it" before she explained herself 🤣🤣🤣

[@Nessiegirl123]

I don't agree that if it's a one night stand that it's okay to not tell. The other person deserves to know. The truth can be painful but honesty is always better. For example, my mom wasn't in a relationship but she had a one night stand with a guy she met on a trip to the beach. Two weeks after she made it back home, he found out where she lived (she never found out how) and showed up wanting to get together--what if this person you cheated with goes looking for you?😨😨😨 Just don't cheat. That solves all the problems! You don't want to be with that person anymore, just leave. Whether if you're married or dating, you should never stay if you're not happy. Leave before anything else happens. Don't disrespect them by going behind their back.

[@jbrown8726]

NOBODY answered the question😂😂😂😂

[@blramsey91]

They never do lol

[@okand5138]

Jeannie: Tell them, even before cheating let them know. Adrienne: Don't tell them just break up with them. ..and then they went on to talk about if you could handle it and how you would react.

[@jbrown8726]

+Hana K the question is based off the fact that u have ALREADY cheated...would u tell..nt what u would do before u gt to that point

[@meliss90]

they did tho

[@misseydj123]

Jeannie did. She just told a story while she said her answer lol

[@HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

Everyone's makeup is EXTRA fleeky in this clip! Love it!

[@NinaPrissyMurphy]

Right!!!!

[@devonjones2341]

Blues

[@symphonyeliza3525]

If you feel like you're going to cheat,talk and work through issues. If that doesn't work,break up with them. If you call yourself being mono an in a commited relationship just don't cheat.If you want to date multiple people,just date,and don't fall in commited relationships.

[@SpeakYoMindRadio2019]

Tamara's idea of a brawl out is her doing the windmill during a fight 😂

[@aspiknf]

Well that's what Deontay Wilder does

[@WJones-jf8mf]

Tamera and Tamar are real friends, you can tell

[@tmo7297]

I know right! I love it!

[@tmo7297]

I know right! I love it!

[@AgentChanelAlmighty]

yassss lol

[@amberrose111]

Whitney Jones not anymore lol 😂

[@lexiaaforever437]

Tamera was a true friend to Tamar & Tamar was too but because she got fired she felt no one took up for her when a lot of times production will make calls on their on . I wish the honest truth would come out and they can still hang out . Like life is short . Tamar is stubborn though

[@BRITTWOODNESHIE]

Cheating is not a mistake, people need to learn that.

[@ginatae1986]

I agree. I feel like before you go through with doing it you've actually been thinking about doing it for some time. In my opinion there is absolutely no justification for cheating because if your relationship has gotten to a point that you're unhappy enough to seek "comfort" in another person then you should just leave. 👣

[@BRITTWOODNESHIE]

ginatae1986 exactly what I'm saying.

[@thisonelife9198]

Exactly! It's a decision.

[@Monique2631]

That's right.

[@samanthahall3815]

THANK YOU THANK YOU ITS A CHOICE PLAIN AND SIMPLE

[@rossphillipgerard]

The only way we can get better as a society is to be honest with each other

[@QUEEN-fe3lu]

Yeah you say that til black people start speaking the honest truth about white structural racism 💯💯💯💯

[@rossphillipgerard]

Queen you don't know me. Let every person speak for themselves and not be slaves to the words of others. Let me speak for myself thanks. Feel free to talk about whatever you like.

[@salamander8301]

Your partner deep down knows, so if you never tell them they will always feel like you made a fool of them either way.

[@xiamariansupreme72]

LIES, Tamar! If Vince EEEEEVAAAAAA comes home and Tamar finds out he cheated, she gon' beat his ass, the girl's ass, the girl's MOMMA's ass and then, she gon' beat and cuss Vince's ass AGAIN.

[@lifewithangelmarie]

😂😂😂😂

[@p.a.8746]

why the mom though!? 😂😂😂😂

[@xiamariansupreme72]

diamond dorr I dunno. That's how bad Tamar would flip out. Lol

[@LLawrah]

Lol, that's her handling it 😂

[@QueenJayJackson]

I died lmfao

[@msmiami212]

Tamar always knows the right things to say to rile up Tamera (in the funniest way)!

[@helenatube]

+Mimi. She asked what "brawl out" meant at the end just for the giggles I saw that Tamar lol

[@demetrius2562]

OMG did yall hear that Tamar got fired from the show?!!!

[@jakoribeauchamp1006]

+Nicki FlawlessMiraj exactly

[@oliviajordan7519]

+Nicki FlawlessMiraj true

[@lillililli1726]

yep

[@chrisrobinson5874]

(2 cents from a single dude ) men: cheating is a conscious decision , a choice. Just as you arrive at an intersection and choose to “turn” left. Or “turn” right. At no point after that sequence of “choosing” to turn left - should I arrive at the realization that “maybe I want to go right”. It’s either or. However that does not preclude the idea that someone “may” cheat as an isolated incident - feel incredible Remorse and even never do it again. Circumstances , motives , etc . As a man, I feel that men cheat as a result of inabilities to inhibit temptations , and may even be viewed as a question to themselves: “can I get away with this”? I categorize it with the likes of greed, envy , lust, excess - and as I said earlier ; it’s unequivocally a choice. “You can’t turn left and right- simultaneously..” okay that’s that - The real reason I’m in this message thread ; DAMN Tamar you are fine !!!!!

[@diamondsparkle9967]

Totally agree...thats what my brothers taught me

[@zajaiva5]

"Dont cheat, just leave the relationship if you want out"... sometimes, people dont want out. They already have an amazing relationship and a great, secure spouse and still choose to cheat because they like to have even more attention and like thrill of the new/forbidden. They dont understand the definition of a sacrifice. They feel like they can have both and are even entitled to it. Thats the worst kind of cheating imo.

[@matinaki1644]

This is conditional and not true love. True love isn't perfect but it doesn't have such high level of selfishness in it. What you described is just someone being comfortable.

[@Shashayaway]

"if I stay loyal, you stay loyal'!!😂 yasssssss Tamera ....

[@ink2047]

What you mean by "should you ALWAYS tell them"? How often do you cheat? Wtf.

[@stevenhiggins3055]

I think "always" just means regardless of circumstances. Like, there's no situation in which you shouldn't tell. I don't think it necessarily means every time on an individual level.

[@cosmicimmunity]

Ink final fantasy 14!

[@jonathangrabban912]

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[@a.aa.a1204]

@@jonathangrabban912 shut up bot

[@mariekano9730]

For me once my partner cheats ONCE there's no go going back. Game over PERIOD

[@abiliorosa5493]

A cheater that cheats before communicate will never confess till they get caught

[@NthabyAbby]

You cheat! You're OUT!!! And I'll know whether you tell me or not! Done!!!! 🇱🇸🇿🇦🇺🇸

[@NthabyAbby]

Tamera is way too cute, I can't!!! 😂 #brawlout

[@auldrinahlepuru2985]

OMG it's really nice to see a South African in here especially if their name is the same as my sisters🇿🇦

[@phiwedlamini948]

+Nthabie Abie Tabz yessssssss she's way too cute!!!!!

[@masechabamashabela2442]

+Nthabie Abie Tabz like you canr help but love her... nqwwwaaa

[@isabelfuh7109]

+Nthabie Abie Tabz you are right. I love, love, love Tamera,she is such a beautiful person from inside out

[@tiffanymatsvai1929]

Why is Tamar continuously asking Jeannie "would you tell him girl?" When she didn't even answer the question herself... Just wondering 😞

[@rileyallen152]

Exactly like Jeannie flat out answered the question and Tamar jumped down her throat!

[@mjlovahh12]

That's just Tamar being Tamar. What else is new lmao

[@MegaDede1212]

lmao

[@WendysAsmrStudio]

Madame Tay Tay...Is being herself. strange that you're only noticing Tamar is like this now

[@kelsaMJ]

but she said she wouldn't, she would leave. She does not believe in cheating

[@ricardomoseley]

I’m not fighting. I’m not arguing none of the back and forth. I’m literally turning facing away , back to you , and walking with my peace of mind , knowing I did right by (so and so) I have got no time whatsoever for the Y&R scriptures.

[@drewsequeira6698]

It you cheat, and can't bring yourself to be honest....it says a lot about your character and your morals. Sometimes you and your spouse can work it out if you both have mistakes or poor choices (whatever they may be). Being honest about infidelity, if the couple can work through it, can only strengthen the love. We all make mistakes. It's about owning up to them and righting the wrong, no matter how hard it may be. But this all goes to the type of person you married. If your spouse can't let go of small things, if you cheat, it's better to end it completely. No use in being with someone who will never forgive you. That is the type of person who is spiteful and seeks revenge.

[@jenny-yn3lu]

the Ratchet Tamera will come out. lolol can't stop laughing.

[@serenaholliday2929]

Juna Antenor IKR

[@jeremy19175]

Juna Antenor lmao

[@tillyrere]

Lmao me too, tamera a lil crazy though I can tell

[@chinkyeyeznyc]

That was funny

[@ciaragoering]

Im on her level yo 😂

[@becomingnursechyna]

Tamera about to send Adam lemon emojis 🍋🍋🍋🍋 😩😂😂😂😂😂 I love her so much !

[@CoachingChosenOnes]

what does that mean ?

[@tlcmnchld]

+Brystal Bianca You'd have to listen to Beyonce for that answer.

[@CoachingChosenOnes]

+tlcmnchld18 oh yeahh lol duh. thanks

[@Kiddofficial1]

omfg !!! 😂😂😂😂

[@nope.4254]

+Amaris PMH She is so cool! I'm with Tamera.

[@Philosophyoftruth_]

The Girl Wearing The Hat Resembles Brenda Song.

[@kowhaiharakeke8881]

Savage Sonya haha yes I agree

[@peacheskong2245]

Hm no

[@holychalupas5567]

Savage Sonya just her voice

[@aurabyizzie]

Her name is Jeannie Mai baby

[@libaninho.]

A few guilty suspects on this table... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Thisismyhandle423]

"We brawlin" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@keisha5542]

😂😂😂 👊👊👊 brawl out

[@dreamycalm]

lmao

[@DoubleCheekedupOnAThursday]

yes 😂😂😂

[@x3Stoopid]

I would brawl out, y'all!!! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

[@bap0629]

Lol she's adorable 😂😂😂😂

[@indiamartinez5830]

The ratchet Tamera xD

[@missmay5547]

A guy I was in a relationship with years ago cheated on me. What pissed me off royally wasn't that he actually cheated, but that I found OUT via outsiders. After all was said, done and confirmed, I packed my isht and left. When it comes to being cheated on, if I choose to stay after I find out, trust and believe I'm not going to get violent...I'm going to show you my dark side and make your life both uncomfortable and miserable by any means necessary. I'd rather HE tell me that he stepped out on our relationship and I get mad and we deal with it, as opposed to me finding out via OUTSIDERS resulting in me becoming BEYOND LIVID and not wanting to hear it, PERIOD.

[@ricardomoseley]

“If It Is to clear Your conscience - you should not have did It In the first place”. Straight

[@nb0009]

Tam Tam had me crying laughing at the end! "What does Brawl out mean?" *awkwardly fights air* 😂😂😂😂

[@Loveydoveyl]

Can we just acknowledge how BEAUTIFUL Loni looks today????!

[@Renee-tx5vd]

Yes she truly looks gorgeous 😍😍

[@RellaSemmone]

absolutely!

[@patiencem4771]

Yasssss

[@cherylprisirie9485]

yessss

[@Lyricgrayce]

Gorgeous

[@matildaloveth102]

Oh Tamar! "I feel like I can handle it"......we all know you can't😂😂😂 How I miss moments like this.

[@lisacole3007]

This is the group that I missed they were all so cute and funny enjoy the show ladies

[@zeekbjac]

Well first giving honor to God and all the saints in the building😂😂😂

[@apostlelouismrs.larhondaco4712]

that was too funny lol

[@Master_G86]

😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 they all cheated please give me a break the real my ass

[@mariahb8927]

Even tho Tamat gets on my everlasting nerve with her shade at times, I'm sad to see her leave the show. The group dynamic just won't be the same!

[@Dominiquevideos1]

Ehhh in the words of Beyoncé she show must go on. Replace her and keep it moving, who ever watches...watches. I liked the show better when Tamar was out sick. She can be so closed minded and extra. Love her music... That's it.

[@leslieazevedo4922]

Right !!! Ughhh

[@123marciav]

+Mariah B wait why is she leaving?

[@JosiePosieWosie012]

+123marciav She got fired.

[@KM7661]

True

[@denisheabates4344]

“ So would you tell him or not girl ? “ Tamar is me all day everyday I am with Tamar

[@EnchantedReader89]

"We brawlin!" 👊👊 Dead 😂

[@Animalcrueltyisbad1]

God, Tamera is always so right. She's like the mother Teresa of The Real❤️

[@foreigncarsrule]

Diana M Mother Teresa didn't get violent over a past indiscretion.

[@SamSamEym]

@@foreigncarsrule i love that you call cheating a " past indiscretion "

[@ocandro]

Actually "mother" Theresa was an evil woman and her disgusting ways are well documented.

[@JerubbaalgodSlayer]

@@ocandro WOW! I'm gonna look that up!

[@chrisiverson1655]

They should of kept Tamar on the show

[@mjlovahh12]

"BRAWL OUT YALL! WE BRAWLIN" Lmaoooo I love Tamera

[@RealDaniSimone]

lmao i absolutely love Tamar and Tamera's relationship...The quiet and the storm LOL!! and Jeannie is long winded like me

[@helenatube]

+DaniChanelENT__ I love how Tamar gets so tickled by Tamera's behavior, it cracks me up.

[@jeniferball8604]

Tamera doing 'we brawling' is my favourite Real moment

[@grayandgray]

The most screwed up is when they burden a friend that they've cheated, but don't tell the poor schmuck who is now sitting there as the only one who doesn't know....

[@bjenkins2012]

Tamera, don't ever change.

[@myhextixmind8632]

She like 37. If she hasn't changed yet, I don't see it coming. But, that's just me.

[@christianclarke2113]

ABSOLUTELY! SHE HAS INNER beauty!

[@Butterflywarrior214]

+Christian Clarke and that's rare!

[@bjenkins2012]

+Christian Clarke I love her soooo much for it!!!

[@lucywasn6937]

Tamera said “we brawlin’” 😆😆😆😂😂😂

[@jonathangrabban912]

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[@MadFlourish]

Loni looks amazing with her hair up like that, like utterly regal and I love it.

[@lightningsparx5786]

Absolutely tell them. Especially if they are suffering in misery of the unknown after suspecting.

[@4lonaa]

Tamera is the cutest omg 😂

[@aspiknf]

She looks like a cute mouse :-)

[@keyannalee2432]

😂😂

[@tiamarie6997]

Yesss! I’m so sad she’s not on here anymore.

[@iambreaajade_tv8056]

@@tiamarie6997 I can’t even watch it all the way😂😂🙄 I watch it but I’m not that into it as I was when she was there🥲

[@tiamarie6997]

@@iambreaajade_tv8056 IKR!! I find myself watching old shows with her on it😩. It’s not the same without her🤷🏾‍♀️

[@imeikbro9711]

Omg I died at "We Brawlinnn!" *Air fist fights* LOL!! Tamera is hilarious.

[@ajayharry987]

I’ll give you guys the male perspective. If you cheat even just once, you keeping it a secret for a long time will just make him feel s**tier than if you told him soon after. If he doesn’t forgive you (which in my opinion he shouldn’t because you f**ked up) there’s no point trying or trying to defend yourself, tbh same goes for women too.

[@Emptytopfloor]

Exactly, don’t do something you can’t handle being done to you

[@Bombshellgaming_]

I would want them to tell me regardless if they felt sorry or not....... so I can leave

[@ladelice52]

Loni is so radiant!

[@NYCSouthernGirl1]

Make up and locs just fleeky! lol

[@daricnd]

+MsQueenB2 yeah braids and lots suits her more than straight hair

[@rahrahcrisons8346]

"So would you tell him or not girl" lmao Tamar was impatient

[@Anonymousejfi3jdujejejdieo]

Loved that lol

[@PassengerFifty7]

And this is why Jeni has got a high value man. 🔥

[@ceeare12345]

Being able to “handle” someone cheating on you is not a good thing nor does it make you “grown.” Having standards and knowing when to walk away makes you grown.

[@rhemaoa766]

Yoooo the audience was so trying Tamar when she said she could handle it. I died Laughing 😂😂😂😂

[@keziahhart5383]

You have Beyonce as you profile pic

[@misshoneynevercame4832]

Cause Tamar gone shoot a bish up 😂

[@cherylmabvira4722]

VSCO GIRL what wrong with that? Just cause Hova cheated on bey that it?

[@veronicalovelace3807]

I love the chemistry between Tamar and Tamera. The show will never be able to replace that. Not sure I'll be as interested in watching anymore.

[@raquelchin4744]

+Veronica Lovelace :( my jaw dropped this morning when I read the news.

[@angeltwin363]

same

[@salishabrizan4363]

i dont watch anymore i only watch the reruns

[@z.a.k.8113]

Well..sometimes I think that Tamar can get too crazy and really like can get on people's nerves because of the way she acts and speaks..

[@karenesq419]

from 2018 back viewing their videos with Tamar still in here cause I miss her.. her crazy is my kind of crazy. totally noticed tamar and tamaras cute friendship too

They should not have fired Tamar. She adds such a different perspective that is familiar to most Black women.

[@rtamcwolf9578]

Love the wisdom from the Braxton, I'm glad listen to people who have experience.

[@yushaunda]

I LOVE TAMERA THATS MY GIRL!!!!!! WE BRAWLING!!!!LOL!!!! IF IM STAYING LOYAL YOUR STAYING LOYAL!!!! THATS RIGHT !!!! LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN!!!!

[@ellenliscious1185]

Amen. I love her so much

[@Juanetta]

I think that you should confess simply because you don't get the right to take away the other person's choice to be with you or not.They should get get to decide if they can forgive you and move on with you or forgive you, but leave you behind. If you messed up, say so and then deal with the consequences. If you don't want to or are afraid to deal with the consequences, you should do better when it comes to policing your actions. BTW, I'm LOVING Loni's hair!

[@francescaw9410]

Things done in the dark always come to light. It can be 20 years later when a child pops up. If you truly respect and love your partner, you wouldn't stray. It would bother you knowing how much you would hurt them. It's all about communicating with your partner and working through your problems or moving on. No one ever said it would be easy. Don't commit to someone if you can't be faithful. It's not fair to the other person.

[@jra3978]

If hes cheating he better tell me. Because knowing myself i will find out. Nothing gets under my skin even more than secrets and betrayl. Either way im finding out and itll be over soon after.

[@crcajo]

Telling your spouse you want out doesn't always work. I've been telling him since 2018 and he won't give me a divorce. I've been unhappily married in a sexless marriage since 2016 and have been married for nearly 21 years. I feel like I'm in prison but I have too much integrity to be deceitful. I've thought about it and have been in positions to do it but just can't bring myself to do it.

[@Mila-Believer-wife-mamaof3-RN]

Go file. You can have that divorce without his permission. You deserve better!