If you were unfaithful in your relationship, should you tell your partner? “The Real” ladies debate the pros and cons, in this Girl Chat.
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@nfvy81116 жыл бұрын
If you cheated on me you better tell me, because I deserve to know that I need to break up with you.
@debiedebsielein32645 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@elinamokae-yeboah39295 жыл бұрын
VII 😂😂
@victoriaosei66885 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Sid-rp5yi5 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@mariamchale88665 жыл бұрын
When men cheat they will always try to cover it up and deny deny deny
@user-lf4kx3vr8x8 жыл бұрын
If you're bold enough to cheat, you better be bold enough to tell.
@shivairas67175 жыл бұрын
W ikr
@yolandan89155 жыл бұрын
True dat
@raecaston32065 жыл бұрын
W 🅿️🅿️🅿️👏🏽👏🏽
@daniboots15 жыл бұрын
PREACH,
@mi4str7125 жыл бұрын
Faaaacts
@Holabella5 жыл бұрын
No relationship is ever the same after cheatig
@JH-og4it4 жыл бұрын
BitterSwt02 once cheating always cheating
@chloecusimano37104 жыл бұрын
Brianna Tyler your wife so you were in a lesbian relationship
@realskeezy36014 жыл бұрын
Paul George Do you believe that because it rhymes? lol did you ever hear of people changing it's a real thing lol once a cheater always a cheater is bullshit it's so annoying when people say it because it doesn't even make any sense it only rhymes people can change lol
@norrisjackson60614 жыл бұрын
@@realskeezy3601 hunny there's a reason why that saying is a thing 🤣 because even if the have "changed" if they did it once they are gonna do it again
@realskeezy36014 жыл бұрын
Norris Jackson If they did it once your SURE they will do it again? lmaoo i highly disagree. thats not 100% at allll. like i said it just rhymes some people learn from mistakes. "they will do it again" lol clearly someone did you wrong so that's your own personal opinion. not everyone is the same lol
@minisanz13974 жыл бұрын
If u cheat on me, u cheated yourself from having a loyal lifelong partner. And that my friend is hard to come by now n days.
@jaym88084 жыл бұрын
100%. Idk what's wrong with people. Their loss not mine. Thanks for letting me know you weren't the one I guess 😂
@JAZZSTARish4 жыл бұрын
You forget it is not just physically.
@farahnursingserious5853 жыл бұрын
Ik its so hard to grasp cheating when you actually strive to be loyal. I know not everyone is monogamous but if you know your not (and your gonna try using that as an excuse) at least get into a relationship where thats cool with your partner (Polygamous relationships exist lol). Also, alot of people get off on the games, deciet, and get a high off of all the lying so cheaters are just not the best people smh.
@ricardomoseley3 жыл бұрын
Hello.
@ricardomoseley3 жыл бұрын
That hit so different.
@ashleyb49458 жыл бұрын
You cheating and not telling your partner out of fear of losing them is selfish and disrespectful.
@foreverlibra938 жыл бұрын
I think cheating , is selfish and disrespectful . I agree with Tamar , If it ain't working then leave .
@KM76618 жыл бұрын
Word on Point
@patchcipriano81488 жыл бұрын
Yas! If you didn't want to lose them you shouldn't have cheated in the first place.
@satukamara59687 жыл бұрын
Patch Cipriano
@bealangelsolutions46767 жыл бұрын
Ashley B PREACH MA SISTER AMEN!!!!!!!! (I FEEL LIKE I'm IN CHURCH AGAIN)
@TheJanetjacksonlover8 жыл бұрын
I agree with Jeannie 100% because the minute you feel like you can even SEE yourself cheating or being with someone else you need to go talk to your spouse/partner right away so it doesn't even get to that point.
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
+Melissa Evans Yup communication is the key 🔑, people. Gotta do it.
@Laila-fq7hk8 жыл бұрын
yep!!!
@AkiffHssn8 жыл бұрын
5.43 jeannie's still processing all of that but that face wow don't mess with jeannie mai hahahaha
@emeraldbeauty018 жыл бұрын
Yes so true! If one partner is getting a urge to go out and cheat, it's a sign something is wrong in the relationship or within themselves. If the other partner knows, then maybe they can try to figure out what the core of the problem is and overcome it together.
@Eskojpuasok8 жыл бұрын
It's easier said than done
@EfiaBAE_3 жыл бұрын
When Tamera said "I don't want to hear it from somewhere else" I felt it deep in my soul.
@kharih69293 жыл бұрын
"Don't let nobody else tell me what you should have already told me".
@milirodriguez84934 жыл бұрын
I was dating this guy for few months and he actually came clean and told me he did. He didn't go into full details but he did tell me and we both decided to call off our relationship. Now, I absolutely don't support that he did that at all, but it truly meant to me to know that he let me know and not continued while we were still together.
@yucol56613 жыл бұрын
Yes. These was very responsible. Not cheating is ideal but after you cheated them you definitely should come clean. Acting like it’s worse than it is just makes people get more hurt than cheating in it’s own
@jameshoughton75093 жыл бұрын
That is extremely mature. Well done the both of you l!
@bohlalenchabeleng13702 жыл бұрын
Cheating is also spiritual, you don't want somebody to bring spiritual diseases to you because such things will block you.
@Richard-lh3te2 жыл бұрын
It’s good you didn’t have to catch him
@matinaki164418 күн бұрын
Makes you respect him a bit. That's what I believe. At least he had the guts and the little respect for me to tell me.
@ATrueLoveOfficial6 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a choice that ruins a relationship. If you're not happy with your relationship, then just leave. Don't cheat.
@somamukherjee62666 жыл бұрын
A True Love Official yup true
@deventhomas216 жыл бұрын
A True Love Official 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@wonderful5436 жыл бұрын
A True Love Official it's not always that easy to leave specially if there is kids and finances.
@ashleythenelle11916 жыл бұрын
A True Love Official thank u sis what's so hard
@donellhowell69546 жыл бұрын
Preach !!!!
@bye2308 жыл бұрын
I want him to tell me so I can leave his ass IMMEDIATELY
@clarke44008 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Laila-fq7hk8 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@tonyacolbert68988 жыл бұрын
+Ari Ed Best Answer! Best Advice! Best Comment!
@tutulakish65068 жыл бұрын
+Ari Ed Agreed, and to go get tested too!!
@reverieo93078 жыл бұрын
+Ari Ed gurlll u spoke my word...tell em boy bye!!!
@jrbionic4044 жыл бұрын
I love how Loni always stays on reminding what the actual question is. Keeps them on track and from being able to avoid answering it directly.
@tiamarie69972 жыл бұрын
Always ‼️
@gregorycarlson66328 ай бұрын
I’m a professional who has dealt with situations like this for many years. Tell your partner. He/she deserves to know and they can make a decision about staying in the relationship. Another reason to tell your partner is that they will find out anyway. As a Christian, I believe that God sees to it that cheaters get caught. It may not come to light for years, but it will be found out!
@matinaki164417 күн бұрын
❤️❤️
@nerdyykeyla8 жыл бұрын
I think you should definitely tell your partner you've cheated, I mean you didn't give them LOYALTY at least give them some RESPECT and let them know.
@JayneAngelinaSkye8 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@Laila-fq7hk8 жыл бұрын
yes!!!
@cameronlo59148 жыл бұрын
Preach 🙌🏽
@Hannahgraceher8 жыл бұрын
Put some respect on it!!
@nerdyykeyla8 жыл бұрын
+Obia RESPECK LOL
@santriciajones25798 жыл бұрын
Definitely tell your partner... so he/she can break up with your cheating ass!
@Laila-fq7hk8 жыл бұрын
lol yup
@naomievenus63338 жыл бұрын
lmao
@steveladore8 жыл бұрын
+Santricia Jones lol savage i can't with you
@santriciajones25798 жыл бұрын
lonely me Lol :)
@Eskojpuasok8 жыл бұрын
Sounds like something Loni would say lol
@captainsugar80414 жыл бұрын
I have a "friend" who has been on and off with this girl for about 10 years. The last 4 years he has been married to her. He has cheated on her with different girls and said... and I quote "What she doesn't know won't hurt her." You could say I am no longer talking to this person. lol
@sagittariusque89324 жыл бұрын
Karma will catch up to him eventually
@BL-N3xus4 жыл бұрын
@@sagittariusque8932 yep!
@md13h4 жыл бұрын
Did you tell the girl?
@chopperdown91144 жыл бұрын
YOUR A DOG FOR NOT TELLING U SHOULD BE BASHED
@7rings9404 жыл бұрын
I would snitch on his ass you know why because first off I’m not just gonna let my friend off the hook when I see them disrespecting someone secondly every girl should help another girl out no one should be having to deal with this at all not only is it disgusting but it’s clowning the other person for being with someone who has been playing them without them knowing and it’s worse when you know and they find out you knew before them and didn’t even bother telling them-
@Indiasplace4 жыл бұрын
Tamar brought so much energy and fun! She was real and Spoke what we as women think.
@christshandmaiden4 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@EvolvingMama_3 жыл бұрын
Miss her and Tamara now 😭
@Indiasplace3 жыл бұрын
@@EvolvingMama_ yes! Ugggh I ain’t watching no more.
@ladymichele576 жыл бұрын
what's done in the dark, eventually comes out in the light🤔
@joliearytravels5 жыл бұрын
lady michele yea might as well confess
@Brettbren5 жыл бұрын
*AMEN to that!*
@King-Montu5 жыл бұрын
i was thinking da samething sis you should have to top comment
@KimberlySmith-tr6ey5 жыл бұрын
It Always Comes out!!!
@franciscodorque73235 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Smith not always man I’ve cheated on some girls and I’m not with them anymore and til this day they’ll never know. They know i wasn’t 100% faithful but they don’t know all the specifics. Sometimes you’ll never know you may die married to a cheater and never find out. 69 found out his bm was fucking his manager thru police wire taps off of an on going investigation. People act different when the ones they care bout aren’t around...
@GetHers9798 жыл бұрын
Tamera seems sweet,but if Adam cheated,I believe she'd lose her mind😠😠😠😲😵
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
+Ilen Gauth OMG I know I would not want to be within 100 mi of that..... 💣💣💣💥💥💥
@Laila-fq7hk8 жыл бұрын
yep!!
@rae7408 жыл бұрын
if Adam cheated...... "RIP Adam" 😩
@kparm238 жыл бұрын
She would still stay though one hundred percent
@valeriewilliams50788 жыл бұрын
+Ilen Gauth No shade to other ladies that are married on the panel but truly believe tamera would lose her mind if she found out adam was cheating, she really loves that man.; not saying that the others dont love their man but not like tamera.
@kobetrotman24845 жыл бұрын
Don’t cheat simple 👌🏾just stay true to whoever you decide to be with
@brandonjablasone75444 жыл бұрын
Kobe Trotman that hard
@brandyjohnson7383 жыл бұрын
@@brandonjablasone7544 then don't be in relationships.
@siobhangallagher25763 жыл бұрын
@@brandonjablasone7544 like my grandmother always said, have sex with people you actually love
@MySweetAriane2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@alvaro2092094 жыл бұрын
I had a girlfriend once that used to tell me why do u want to know your just going to get your feeling hurt .... 😞 I’m not that idiot anymore
@realskeezy36014 жыл бұрын
Yeah don't be that idiot anymore I would've left real quick that's just somebody who's playing around you dude just to have you so nobody else would
@sagebreeze4 жыл бұрын
Forget her you deserve better!
@shreyasnikam71893 жыл бұрын
Try practicing spirituality and it'll tell you what you feel from inside. Our mind, our focus runs from here to there all time, learn to control it little by little everyday. Your soul is your power, this body and even this mind will age one day. I hope you find yourself soon🙏 ( I'll be happy if you already did.)
@kaleidojess3 ай бұрын
Sorry that happened to you. Cheating sucks.
@alvaro2092093 ай бұрын
@@kaleidojessthat was long time ago but I’m currently in a relationship I’m happy but thank you does suck
@dominiquewright9068 жыл бұрын
I honestly just think that it's selfish..not only did you cheat..your not even gonna give your partner that right to choose whether they want to stay or not..
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
+Dominique wright ikr? nothing is more selfish than that. I mean on top of being a cheater you're not even gonna pay due respect to your partner and let her move on with her life? gtfo 😒
@dominiquewright9068 жыл бұрын
+Helena exactly..in my opinion if a person means that much to you..there's no way you could entertain someone else to the point of sleeping with them
@sweetpeaj19528 жыл бұрын
true.
@ladyrodriguez68118 жыл бұрын
Yup. Never say never.
@KM76618 жыл бұрын
Very well said..it's just nasty..
@Mahagony19858 жыл бұрын
If they don't tell the STD will!!
@nontobekonzuza74746 жыл бұрын
😂
@deventhomas216 жыл бұрын
Mahagony1985 😂👏
@foreigncarsrule6 жыл бұрын
Mahagony1985 Yeah that definitely does not always occur...
@alishthick7406 жыл бұрын
😂😂😭
@margaretbatson836 жыл бұрын
Mahagony1985 I absolutely agree the std will it'll give it away no use hiding the fact your cheating.
@NdeniseColeman3 жыл бұрын
Tamar is hilarious. She said, “First giving honor to God.” I laughed so hard! 🤣😂😂😂
@mariacastilla51494 жыл бұрын
I cheated on my man and I felt like I couldn’t keep it a secret for long. I eventually ended up telling him and he forgave me. But let’s just say things haven’t felt the same since
@Sabretooth-gz7pp3 жыл бұрын
Once the trust is broken , it's very difficult to put everything back together. My ex cheated on me and it broke me down as a Man , I thought she was The One . I tried to make it work for our son but I couldn't do it , now I am a single Father and my son is with me.
@siobhangallagher25762 жыл бұрын
@@Sabretooth-gz7pp sending 💖💖
@Sabretooth-gz7pp2 жыл бұрын
@@siobhangallagher2576 Thanks 👍.
@a.g.80252 жыл бұрын
Yikes.
@Sabretooth-gz7pp2 жыл бұрын
@@a.g.8025 Yikes indeed 😳
@writerspen0107 жыл бұрын
Mmm, cheating can bring sexual health problems for the partner who got cheated on. You gotta tell.
@dantan12496 жыл бұрын
writerspen010 yeah. don't put me at risk.
@KimberlySmith-tr6ey5 жыл бұрын
Exactly these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty Sides Don't care what they contact,!! But the Loyal Loving spouse does and thinks they have No worry's cause they are married they Don't Deserve there Filthy Cheating Spouse possibly bringing home Deadly or Disgusting STDs!!! Honesty is the Best policy!!! I can't stand people that Cheat on there spouse!!! I also have No Respect for the Dirty Pieces of garbage that Mess with Married people!!!!
@KimberlySmith-tr6ey5 жыл бұрын
@Lulu That is so Sad!!! Some people are so Disgusting they think nothing of the Consequences of hopping in the Sack with other people even though there Married!!! It makes me Sick how some people have No Respect for anyone not there Spouse not even themselves there are Many STDs out there !!! It's like these Filthy Cheaters and Nasty ones they Mess with don't care what they could contact!! Your not safe unless you have a spouse who is Loyal has morals!!!
@KimberlySmith-tr6ey5 жыл бұрын
I'm Surprised there are so Many Cheaters with all these Grotesque Deadly STDS the Only ones I have Sympathy for are the Spouses that are being faithful while the Filthy Spouse is Messing with any piece of Garbage that's A EASY Piece!!Those EASY types Don't care what they Contact they Usually have Major issues And don't care about the Consequences that sharing bodily fluids with just Anyone brings on Illness hell I would not be surprised if those types have had Numerous STDs!! You know what they say if you have one your chance of having or contacting HIV are higher.
@laurenj4325 жыл бұрын
What if it was just a kiss
@witchf4ce3108 жыл бұрын
Are they kidding? Honesty is one of the most important things in a relationship. Cheating and not telling your partner is disgusting.
@Brettbren5 жыл бұрын
*I wholeheartedly agree with you. I believe that you should tell your significant other as soon as you can, as keeping that destructive of a secret will only hurt you (physically, psychologically, and emotionally).*
@sadmansakib67535 жыл бұрын
cheating is not good but what u dont know cant hurt u!!
@MyPandiiKisses5 жыл бұрын
@@sadmansakib6753 except when you get Chlamydia, herpes or HIV
@debiedebsielein32645 жыл бұрын
@@Brettbren I think you should not tell so you stick with the pain you have caused. May it kill you 😒 Seriously, most of the people only want to tell for selfish reasons. To release their own pain. It's never about the partnet otherwise they wouldn't cheat in first place. If you don't want the relationship or think you deserve better just leave! That simple.
@secretlyclever40625 жыл бұрын
DebieDebsie Lein so you’re saying if someone cheats, they should just leave the relationship and not say anything? That’s about as cowardly as it gets.
@savvyc21825 жыл бұрын
Tamars hair looks amazing here. The short dark curls 😍😍yess
@IGGYTheClown4 жыл бұрын
If you cheat and you don't tell your partner you should automatically end the relationship because if you can go out your way and take the extra step to be with somebody else and not stay faithful then there's no point in staying with your partner
@itsrubarh8 жыл бұрын
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake....
@samariaakhan8 жыл бұрын
Amen 👏🏽👏🏽
@SammySam3168 жыл бұрын
+kae Amen #2
@JayneAngelinaSkye8 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@JayneAngelinaSkye8 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@missbrianna218 жыл бұрын
👏👏🏻👏🏼👏🏽👏🏾👏🏿
@Averia898 жыл бұрын
ADAM: Tamera...I cheated. I'm so sorry TAMERA: Wait, excuse me? ADAM: It didn't mean anything, it just - TAMERA: (throws a hard punch) ADAM: Wait - did you just? Did you just hit me? TAMERA: WE BRAWLIN'!!!
@Fifth.Amendment8 жыл бұрын
This right here...😂😂😂
@TheRubyyy1238 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 gold
@AkiffHssn8 жыл бұрын
from a sweet witch to a warrior mode hahahaha wawww
@king2001able8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sh0rt3stuf8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I'm dead
@mechellejonesmfj4 жыл бұрын
If I believed that I was in a long term happy committed relationship and my partner cheated in a one off situation that I would never find out I would rather not know. I would find it hard to forgive, I would certainly never forget AND I would never be able to trust him again. Once the trust is gone the relationship is pretty much dead anyway. Confession is often a way that someone seeks absolution but my observation here is that it is often done to rid the cheater of feelings of guilt leaving the wronged partner feeling wretched and bereaved.
@Infroblxckent2 жыл бұрын
In my situation I cheated and I do feel it was a mistake. I was extremely drunk and I don’t remember a thing. All I can do is go off of is what the guy said we did that night. I confessed immediately cause I felt horribly and wanted to give my boyfriend the option to leave and choose someone better than me. It was my decision to drink and I should have been more careful. I feel confused shocked and disgusted with myself and I dislike the guy a lot cause he knew I had a boyfriend and I wish he would have been a true friend and not taken the opportunity yet and still I take responsibility. I’m so grateful my boyfriend understood. Yes he was extremely upset and disappointed in me but he respected me telling him of the incident and wants to stay and work past this. I’m still hurt by my actions and I’m being very attentive to his feelings and am showing I’m working to never let that happen again by following all his requests so I can potentially gain his trust back. I don’t want to lose my best friend or ever put myself in a position for this to happen again.
@sabresabredon5 ай бұрын
You knew this male friend wanted to sleep with you and you never distanced yourself from him.
@NallahBrown8 жыл бұрын
The fact that this conversation was so long, I don't trust them lmao.
@iamNissiV8 жыл бұрын
😭😂😭😂😭😂
@purestsoul36348 жыл бұрын
😮😮😵😲😂😂😭😭
@dominiquewright9067 жыл бұрын
Nallah B fr..it was a simple question
@dominiquewright9067 жыл бұрын
Nolan Baptiste well I'm sure tamera doesn't she's only been with one person ger whole life..well at least sexually
@dominiquewright9067 жыл бұрын
Nolan Baptiste no.. to my knowledge she has never been with the same sex..and I was saying she's only been with her husband
@luvvinnanners5 жыл бұрын
I love Tamera she’s hilarious 😭😭 “we brawlin”😭😭
@ladylildizzy15 жыл бұрын
Nadia Pridgen lmao 🤼♀️
@shalanathomas77515 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Bella123454 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@TheAriesprincess193 жыл бұрын
I hope she don’t brawl like that 😩🤣🤣🤣
@edelinechouloute79502 жыл бұрын
@@TheAriesprincess19 love tamera Mowry housley she doesn't belong on that show she's too smart she's way too educated well spoken than all the girls.
@demetrishoward70324 жыл бұрын
The only reason for not admitting to cheating is SELF PRESERVATION, it has absolutely nothing to do with GENUINELY caring about the other person.
@brittneyanne69145 жыл бұрын
They NEED TO TELL! It is not their decision if the other person wants to stay. . . It is disrespectful.
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@cartersmom06298 жыл бұрын
You should most definitely tell your partner that you cheated because when you don't you take away their right to decide if they still want to be with you. They're not in the relationship that they think they are in and that is not right. You cheated, but they don't know so they are oblivious to the fact that you cheated, and they still believe they're in a happy monogamous relationship when they aren't at all. It's their choice if they want to still be with you. Don't take away people's choices just because you don't wanna lose them!
@joannakeable47196 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right! I cheated and lied about it, thinking I would cause him harm by telling him...and I caused us both SO much harm by not telling him. I deeply regret cheating and it has taken me years to get my self-respect back. Here's my story mybetterbodyblog.wordpress.com/contact-joanna/
@annachoina10616 жыл бұрын
I agree it makes me angry when people lie about cheating and say that they are lying beceuse they dont want to hurt their soupose felling when in reality they just dont want to face the conseuences
@cartersmom06296 жыл бұрын
Alexander Briggman Not with me. Just say "I cheated on you" and from there I will decide what I wanna do stay or go
@foreigncarsrule6 жыл бұрын
Carter's mom Okay well it is the cheaters personal life and a personal life is individualistic. We can't make people do anything, you have to break the news at the right time.
@cartersmom06296 жыл бұрын
foreigncarsrule No matter how you try to spin it it should still be the other party's choice if they want to continue the relationship with a cheater. Yes you should tell your partner because you've already cheated why continue to be dishonest about it. I find it really sad that you don't think a person should have the right to know and choose if they still wanna be with a cheater.
@shabbyLaw8 жыл бұрын
Tamera just gave me ALL TYPES OF LIFE this clip. lmmfao!
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
+JustS lmao this side of her cracks me up! feisty 🌶🌶🌶
@goshenqueen8 жыл бұрын
She is my FAVORITE!! lol
@julieemeanuwa4570 Жыл бұрын
Me and the audience not believing Tamar "can handle it" before she explained herself 🤣🤣🤣
@Nessiegirl1235 жыл бұрын
I don't agree that if it's a one night stand that it's okay to not tell. The other person deserves to know. The truth can be painful but honesty is always better. For example, my mom wasn't in a relationship but she had a one night stand with a guy she met on a trip to the beach. Two weeks after she made it back home, he found out where she lived (she never found out how) and showed up wanting to get together--what if this person you cheated with goes looking for you?😨😨😨 Just don't cheat. That solves all the problems! You don't want to be with that person anymore, just leave. Whether if you're married or dating, you should never stay if you're not happy. Leave before anything else happens. Don't disrespect them by going behind their back.
@jbrown87268 жыл бұрын
NOBODY answered the question😂😂😂😂
@blramsey918 жыл бұрын
They never do lol
@okand51388 жыл бұрын
Jeannie: Tell them, even before cheating let them know. Adrienne: Don't tell them just break up with them. ..and then they went on to talk about if you could handle it and how you would react.
@jbrown87268 жыл бұрын
+Hana K the question is based off the fact that u have ALREADY cheated...would u tell..nt what u would do before u gt to that point
@meliss908 жыл бұрын
they did tho
@misseydj1238 жыл бұрын
Jeannie did. She just told a story while she said her answer lol
@HighMaintenanceMinimalist8 жыл бұрын
Everyone's makeup is EXTRA fleeky in this clip! Love it!
@NinaPrissyMurphy8 жыл бұрын
Right!!!!
@devonjones23417 жыл бұрын
Blues
@symphonyeliza35255 жыл бұрын
If you feel like you're going to cheat,talk and work through issues. If that doesn't work,break up with them. If you call yourself being mono an in a commited relationship just don't cheat.If you want to date multiple people,just date,and don't fall in commited relationships.
@SpeakYoMindRadio20195 жыл бұрын
Tamara's idea of a brawl out is her doing the windmill during a fight 😂
@aspiknf4 жыл бұрын
Well that's what Deontay Wilder does
@WJones-jf8mf8 жыл бұрын
Tamera and Tamar are real friends, you can tell
@tmo72978 жыл бұрын
I know right! I love it!
@tmo72978 жыл бұрын
I know right! I love it!
@AgentChanelAlmighty8 жыл бұрын
yassss lol
@amberrose1117 жыл бұрын
Whitney Jones not anymore lol 😂
@lexiaaforever4377 жыл бұрын
Tamera was a true friend to Tamar & Tamar was too but because she got fired she felt no one took up for her when a lot of times production will make calls on their on . I wish the honest truth would come out and they can still hang out . Like life is short . Tamar is stubborn though
@BRITTWOODNESHIE8 жыл бұрын
Cheating is not a mistake, people need to learn that.
@ginatae19868 жыл бұрын
I agree. I feel like before you go through with doing it you've actually been thinking about doing it for some time. In my opinion there is absolutely no justification for cheating because if your relationship has gotten to a point that you're unhappy enough to seek "comfort" in another person then you should just leave. 👣
@BRITTWOODNESHIE8 жыл бұрын
ginatae1986 exactly what I'm saying.
@thisonelife91988 жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's a decision.
@Monique26318 жыл бұрын
That's right.
@samanthahall38158 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU THANK YOU ITS A CHOICE PLAIN AND SIMPLE
@rossphillipgerard3 жыл бұрын
The only way we can get better as a society is to be honest with each other
@QUEEN-fe3lu2 жыл бұрын
Yeah you say that til black people start speaking the honest truth about white structural racism 💯💯💯💯
@rossphillipgerard2 жыл бұрын
Queen you don't know me. Let every person speak for themselves and not be slaves to the words of others. Let me speak for myself thanks. Feel free to talk about whatever you like.
@salamander83012 жыл бұрын
Your partner deep down knows, so if you never tell them they will always feel like you made a fool of them either way.
@xiamariansupreme728 жыл бұрын
LIES, Tamar! If Vince EEEEEVAAAAAA comes home and Tamar finds out he cheated, she gon' beat his ass, the girl's ass, the girl's MOMMA's ass and then, she gon' beat and cuss Vince's ass AGAIN.
@lifewithangelmarie8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@p.a.87468 жыл бұрын
why the mom though!? 😂😂😂😂
@xiamariansupreme728 жыл бұрын
diamond dorr I dunno. That's how bad Tamar would flip out. Lol
@LLawrah8 жыл бұрын
Lol, that's her handling it 😂
@QueenJayJackson7 жыл бұрын
I died lmfao
@msmiami2128 жыл бұрын
Tamar always knows the right things to say to rile up Tamera (in the funniest way)!
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
+Mimi. She asked what "brawl out" meant at the end just for the giggles I saw that Tamar lol
@demetrius25628 жыл бұрын
OMG did yall hear that Tamar got fired from the show?!!!
@jakoribeauchamp10068 жыл бұрын
+Nicki FlawlessMiraj exactly
@oliviajordan75198 жыл бұрын
+Nicki FlawlessMiraj true
@lillililli17268 жыл бұрын
yep
@chrisrobinson58745 жыл бұрын
(2 cents from a single dude ) men: cheating is a conscious decision , a choice. Just as you arrive at an intersection and choose to “turn” left. Or “turn” right. At no point after that sequence of “choosing” to turn left - should I arrive at the realization that “maybe I want to go right”. It’s either or. However that does not preclude the idea that someone “may” cheat as an isolated incident - feel incredible Remorse and even never do it again. Circumstances , motives , etc . As a man, I feel that men cheat as a result of inabilities to inhibit temptations , and may even be viewed as a question to themselves: “can I get away with this”? I categorize it with the likes of greed, envy , lust, excess - and as I said earlier ; it’s unequivocally a choice. “You can’t turn left and right- simultaneously..” okay that’s that - The real reason I’m in this message thread ; DAMN Tamar you are fine !!!!!
@diamondsparkle99674 жыл бұрын
Totally agree...thats what my brothers taught me
@zajaiva52 жыл бұрын
"Dont cheat, just leave the relationship if you want out"... sometimes, people dont want out. They already have an amazing relationship and a great, secure spouse and still choose to cheat because they like to have even more attention and like thrill of the new/forbidden. They dont understand the definition of a sacrifice. They feel like they can have both and are even entitled to it. Thats the worst kind of cheating imo.
@matinaki164417 күн бұрын
This is conditional and not true love. True love isn't perfect but it doesn't have such high level of selfishness in it. What you described is just someone being comfortable.
@Shashayaway8 жыл бұрын
"if I stay loyal, you stay loyal'!!😂 yasssssss Tamera ....
@ink20476 жыл бұрын
What you mean by "should you ALWAYS tell them"? How often do you cheat? Wtf.
@stevenhiggins30554 жыл бұрын
I think "always" just means regardless of circumstances. Like, there's no situation in which you shouldn't tell. I don't think it necessarily means every time on an individual level.
@cosmicimmunity4 жыл бұрын
Ink final fantasy 14!
@jonathangrabban9124 жыл бұрын
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@a.aa.a12043 жыл бұрын
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@mariekano97302 жыл бұрын
For me once my partner cheats ONCE there's no go going back. Game over PERIOD
@abiliorosa54932 жыл бұрын
A cheater that cheats before communicate will never confess till they get caught
@NthabyAbby8 жыл бұрын
You cheat! You're OUT!!! And I'll know whether you tell me or not! Done!!!! 🇱🇸🇿🇦🇺🇸
@NthabyAbby8 жыл бұрын
Tamera is way too cute, I can't!!! 😂 #brawlout
@auldrinahlepuru29858 жыл бұрын
OMG it's really nice to see a South African in here especially if their name is the same as my sisters🇿🇦
@phiwedlamini9488 жыл бұрын
+Nthabie Abie Tabz yessssssss she's way too cute!!!!!
@masechabamashabela24428 жыл бұрын
+Nthabie Abie Tabz like you canr help but love her... nqwwwaaa
@isabelfuh71098 жыл бұрын
+Nthabie Abie Tabz you are right. I love, love, love Tamera,she is such a beautiful person from inside out
@tiffanymatsvai19298 жыл бұрын
Why is Tamar continuously asking Jeannie "would you tell him girl?" When she didn't even answer the question herself... Just wondering 😞
@rileyallen1528 жыл бұрын
Exactly like Jeannie flat out answered the question and Tamar jumped down her throat!
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
That's just Tamar being Tamar. What else is new lmao
@MegaDede12128 жыл бұрын
lmao
@WendysAsmrStudio8 жыл бұрын
Madame Tay Tay...Is being herself. strange that you're only noticing Tamar is like this now
@kelsaMJ8 жыл бұрын
but she said she wouldn't, she would leave. She does not believe in cheating
@ricardomoseley3 жыл бұрын
I’m not fighting. I’m not arguing none of the back and forth. I’m literally turning facing away , back to you , and walking with my peace of mind , knowing I did right by (so and so) I have got no time whatsoever for the Y&R scriptures.
@drewsequeira66983 жыл бұрын
It you cheat, and can't bring yourself to be honest....it says a lot about your character and your morals. Sometimes you and your spouse can work it out if you both have mistakes or poor choices (whatever they may be). Being honest about infidelity, if the couple can work through it, can only strengthen the love. We all make mistakes. It's about owning up to them and righting the wrong, no matter how hard it may be. But this all goes to the type of person you married. If your spouse can't let go of small things, if you cheat, it's better to end it completely. No use in being with someone who will never forgive you. That is the type of person who is spiteful and seeks revenge.
@jenny-yn3lu7 жыл бұрын
the Ratchet Tamera will come out. lolol can't stop laughing.
@serenaholliday29296 жыл бұрын
Juna Antenor IKR
@jeremy191756 жыл бұрын
Juna Antenor lmao
@tillyrere6 жыл бұрын
Lmao me too, tamera a lil crazy though I can tell
@chinkyeyeznyc6 жыл бұрын
That was funny
@ciaragoering6 жыл бұрын
Im on her level yo 😂
@becomingnursechyna8 жыл бұрын
Tamera about to send Adam lemon emojis 🍋🍋🍋🍋 😩😂😂😂😂😂 I love her so much !
@CoachingChosenOnes8 жыл бұрын
what does that mean ?
@tlcmnchld8 жыл бұрын
+Brystal Bianca You'd have to listen to Beyonce for that answer.
@CoachingChosenOnes8 жыл бұрын
+tlcmnchld18 oh yeahh lol duh. thanks
@Kiddofficial18 жыл бұрын
omfg !!! 😂😂😂😂
@nope.42548 жыл бұрын
+Amaris PMH She is so cool! I'm with Tamera.
@Philosophyoftruth_4 жыл бұрын
The Girl Wearing The Hat Resembles Brenda Song.
@kowhaiharakeke88814 жыл бұрын
Savage Sonya haha yes I agree
@peacheskong22454 жыл бұрын
Hm no
@holychalupas55674 жыл бұрын
Savage Sonya just her voice
@aurabyizzie4 жыл бұрын
Her name is Jeannie Mai baby
@libaninho.5 жыл бұрын
A few guilty suspects on this table... 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Thisismyhandle4238 жыл бұрын
"We brawlin" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@keisha55428 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 👊👊👊 brawl out
@dreamycalm8 жыл бұрын
lmao
@DoubleCheekedupOnAThursday8 жыл бұрын
yes 😂😂😂
@x3Stoopid8 жыл бұрын
I would brawl out, y'all!!! 😂😂😂😭😭😭😭
@bap06298 жыл бұрын
Lol she's adorable 😂😂😂😂
@indiamartinez58308 жыл бұрын
The ratchet Tamera xD
@missmay55474 жыл бұрын
A guy I was in a relationship with years ago cheated on me. What pissed me off royally wasn't that he actually cheated, but that I found OUT via outsiders. After all was said, done and confirmed, I packed my isht and left. When it comes to being cheated on, if I choose to stay after I find out, trust and believe I'm not going to get violent...I'm going to show you my dark side and make your life both uncomfortable and miserable by any means necessary. I'd rather HE tell me that he stepped out on our relationship and I get mad and we deal with it, as opposed to me finding out via OUTSIDERS resulting in me becoming BEYOND LIVID and not wanting to hear it, PERIOD.
@ricardomoseley2 жыл бұрын
“If It Is to clear Your conscience - you should not have did It In the first place”. Straight
@nb00098 жыл бұрын
Tam Tam had me crying laughing at the end! "What does Brawl out mean?" *awkwardly fights air* 😂😂😂😂
@Loveydoveyl8 жыл бұрын
Can we just acknowledge how BEAUTIFUL Loni looks today????!
@Renee-tx5vd8 жыл бұрын
Yes she truly looks gorgeous 😍😍
@RellaSemmone8 жыл бұрын
absolutely!
@patiencem47718 жыл бұрын
Yasssss
@cherylprisirie94858 жыл бұрын
yessss
@Lyricgrayce8 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous
@matildaloveth1024 жыл бұрын
Oh Tamar! "I feel like I can handle it"......we all know you can't😂😂😂 How I miss moments like this.
@lisacole30074 жыл бұрын
This is the group that I missed they were all so cute and funny enjoy the show ladies
@zeekbjac6 жыл бұрын
Well first giving honor to God and all the saints in the building😂😂😂
@apostlelouismrs.larhondaco47125 жыл бұрын
that was too funny lol
@Master_G863 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂 they all cheated please give me a break the real my ass
@mariahb89278 жыл бұрын
Even tho Tamat gets on my everlasting nerve with her shade at times, I'm sad to see her leave the show. The group dynamic just won't be the same!
@Dominiquevideos18 жыл бұрын
Ehhh in the words of Beyoncé she show must go on. Replace her and keep it moving, who ever watches...watches. I liked the show better when Tamar was out sick. She can be so closed minded and extra. Love her music... That's it.
@leslieazevedo49228 жыл бұрын
Right !!! Ughhh
@123marciav8 жыл бұрын
+Mariah B wait why is she leaving?
@JosiePosieWosie0128 жыл бұрын
+123marciav She got fired.
@KM76618 жыл бұрын
True
@denisheabates43442 жыл бұрын
“ So would you tell him or not girl ? “ Tamar is me all day everyday I am with Tamar
@EnchantedReader894 жыл бұрын
"We brawlin!" 👊👊 Dead 😂
@Animalcrueltyisbad17 жыл бұрын
God, Tamera is always so right. She's like the mother Teresa of The Real❤️
@foreigncarsrule6 жыл бұрын
Diana M Mother Teresa didn't get violent over a past indiscretion.
@SamSamEym6 жыл бұрын
@@foreigncarsrule i love that you call cheating a " past indiscretion "
@ocandro5 жыл бұрын
Actually "mother" Theresa was an evil woman and her disgusting ways are well documented.
@JerubbaalgodSlayer5 жыл бұрын
@@ocandro WOW! I'm gonna look that up!
@chrisiverson16554 жыл бұрын
They should of kept Tamar on the show
@mjlovahh128 жыл бұрын
"BRAWL OUT YALL! WE BRAWLIN" Lmaoooo I love Tamera
@RealDaniSimone8 жыл бұрын
lmao i absolutely love Tamar and Tamera's relationship...The quiet and the storm LOL!! and Jeannie is long winded like me
@helenatube8 жыл бұрын
+DaniChanelENT__ I love how Tamar gets so tickled by Tamera's behavior, it cracks me up.
@jeniferball86042 жыл бұрын
Tamera doing 'we brawling' is my favourite Real moment
@grayandgray3 жыл бұрын
The most screwed up is when they burden a friend that they've cheated, but don't tell the poor schmuck who is now sitting there as the only one who doesn't know....
@bjenkins20128 жыл бұрын
Tamera, don't ever change.
@myhextixmind86328 жыл бұрын
She like 37. If she hasn't changed yet, I don't see it coming. But, that's just me.
@christianclarke21138 жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY! SHE HAS INNER beauty!
@Butterflywarrior2148 жыл бұрын
+Christian Clarke and that's rare!
@bjenkins20128 жыл бұрын
+Christian Clarke I love her soooo much for it!!!
@lucywasn69375 жыл бұрын
Tamera said “we brawlin’” 😆😆😆😂😂😂
@jonathangrabban9124 жыл бұрын
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@MadFlourish4 жыл бұрын
Loni looks amazing with her hair up like that, like utterly regal and I love it.
@lightningsparx57862 жыл бұрын
Absolutely tell them. Especially if they are suffering in misery of the unknown after suspecting.
@4lonaa6 жыл бұрын
Tamera is the cutest omg 😂
@aspiknf4 жыл бұрын
She looks like a cute mouse :-)
@keyannalee24324 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@tiamarie69973 жыл бұрын
Yesss! I’m so sad she’s not on here anymore.
@iambreaajade_tv80562 жыл бұрын
@@tiamarie6997 I can’t even watch it all the way😂😂🙄 I watch it but I’m not that into it as I was when she was there🥲
@tiamarie69972 жыл бұрын
@@iambreaajade_tv8056 IKR!! I find myself watching old shows with her on it😩. It’s not the same without her🤷🏾♀️
@imeikbro97118 жыл бұрын
Omg I died at "We Brawlinnn!" *Air fist fights* LOL!! Tamera is hilarious.
@ajayharry987 Жыл бұрын
I’ll give you guys the male perspective. If you cheat even just once, you keeping it a secret for a long time will just make him feel s**tier than if you told him soon after. If he doesn’t forgive you (which in my opinion he shouldn’t because you f**ked up) there’s no point trying or trying to defend yourself, tbh same goes for women too.
@Emptytopfloor10 ай бұрын
Exactly, don’t do something you can’t handle being done to you
@Bombshellgaming_4 жыл бұрын
I would want them to tell me regardless if they felt sorry or not....... so I can leave
@ladelice528 жыл бұрын
Loni is so radiant!
@NYCSouthernGirl18 жыл бұрын
Make up and locs just fleeky! lol
@daricnd8 жыл бұрын
+MsQueenB2 yeah braids and lots suits her more than straight hair
@rahrahcrisons83465 жыл бұрын
"So would you tell him or not girl" lmao Tamar was impatient
@Anonymousejfi3jdujejejdieo4 жыл бұрын
Loved that lol
@PassengerFifty73 жыл бұрын
And this is why Jeni has got a high value man. 🔥
@ceeare123453 жыл бұрын
Being able to “handle” someone cheating on you is not a good thing nor does it make you “grown.” Having standards and knowing when to walk away makes you grown.
@rhemaoa7667 жыл бұрын
Yoooo the audience was so trying Tamar when she said she could handle it. I died Laughing 😂😂😂😂
@keziahhart53835 жыл бұрын
You have Beyonce as you profile pic
@misshoneynevercame48325 жыл бұрын
Cause Tamar gone shoot a bish up 😂
@cherylmabvira47224 жыл бұрын
VSCO GIRL what wrong with that? Just cause Hova cheated on bey that it?
@veronicalovelace38078 жыл бұрын
I love the chemistry between Tamar and Tamera. The show will never be able to replace that. Not sure I'll be as interested in watching anymore.
@raquelchin47448 жыл бұрын
+Veronica Lovelace :( my jaw dropped this morning when I read the news.
@angeltwin3638 жыл бұрын
same
@salishabrizan43636 жыл бұрын
i dont watch anymore i only watch the reruns
@z.a.k.81136 жыл бұрын
Well..sometimes I think that Tamar can get too crazy and really like can get on people's nerves because of the way she acts and speaks..
@karenesq4196 жыл бұрын
from 2018 back viewing their videos with Tamar still in here cause I miss her.. her crazy is my kind of crazy. totally noticed tamar and tamaras cute friendship too
2 жыл бұрын
They should not have fired Tamar. She adds such a different perspective that is familiar to most Black women.
@rtamcwolf95783 жыл бұрын
Love the wisdom from the Braxton, I'm glad listen to people who have experience.
@yushaunda7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE TAMERA THATS MY GIRL!!!!!! WE BRAWLING!!!!LOL!!!! IF IM STAYING LOYAL YOUR STAYING LOYAL!!!! THATS RIGHT !!!! LET THE CHURCH SAY AMEN!!!!
@ellenliscious11854 жыл бұрын
Amen. I love her so much
@Juanetta8 жыл бұрын
I think that you should confess simply because you don't get the right to take away the other person's choice to be with you or not.They should get get to decide if they can forgive you and move on with you or forgive you, but leave you behind. If you messed up, say so and then deal with the consequences. If you don't want to or are afraid to deal with the consequences, you should do better when it comes to policing your actions. BTW, I'm LOVING Loni's hair!
@francescaw94107 жыл бұрын
Things done in the dark always come to light. It can be 20 years later when a child pops up. If you truly respect and love your partner, you wouldn't stray. It would bother you knowing how much you would hurt them. It's all about communicating with your partner and working through your problems or moving on. No one ever said it would be easy. Don't commit to someone if you can't be faithful. It's not fair to the other person.
@jra39784 жыл бұрын
If hes cheating he better tell me. Because knowing myself i will find out. Nothing gets under my skin even more than secrets and betrayl. Either way im finding out and itll be over soon after.
@crcajo2 жыл бұрын
Telling your spouse you want out doesn't always work. I've been telling him since 2018 and he won't give me a divorce. I've been unhappily married in a sexless marriage since 2016 and have been married for nearly 21 years. I feel like I'm in prison but I have too much integrity to be deceitful. I've thought about it and have been in positions to do it but just can't bring myself to do it.
@Mila-Believer-wife-mamaof3-RN7 ай бұрын
Go file. You can have that divorce without his permission. You deserve better!