Girl Chat: Bad Memories - Part 1

[@sabrina_sp]

"Have you ever met an really strong person with an easy past?" -Jeannie Mai I like this, Jeannie.

[@yousrafettach5088]

"Maybe we just don't know enogh rich people"

[@ritz_essence1547]

I could definitely use some of Adrienne's strength & a quarter of Jeannie's wisdom...

[@Hōktiarce]

Ritza Herrera same girl

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Ritza Herrera Something tells me you have just as much if not more.

[@klaudiaarriera3604]

gigglyfitzgirl What a beautiful comment♥️

[@kaleahjazmire2074]

Taupe Shell I need both along with some of Tamera's positivity

[@jaybell1892]

Some of y'all getting on Tamera's example of bad memories. But when you're a kid and you get bullied and other kids don't like you that really sticks through life. Always questioning why kids don't like and what you can change about yourself, and can even transfer to adulthood. Your peers can really tarnish your self esteem at a young age.

[@jaybell1892]

And sometimes they have to have less severe examples so the show won't be so heavy, they said it before they want the show to have some lightness to it. They want all kinds of people to relate in some way.

[@DD-gt2uu]

i completely agree, say it louder for the ignorant people in the back

[@KLB1218]

Jay Bell Agreed! Childhood is the start of insecurities so yes, although some people don't think bullying is a sever case but who knows if Tia or Tamera were anxious or self conscious going to events, school, or walking in hallways when people are being mean for no reason. Whether it makes you stronger to stand up for yourself, it changes the innocence of childhood.

[@heavenred8058]

she never got bullied she got hated on meaning people didnt like them they didnt go up to her face trying to beat her up

[@kdev919]

+Jay Bell - that's Right.

[@raida4103]

EATING THIS WITH A BAG OF CHIPS WHILE CRYING AND I GOT THREE PAPERS TO WRITE

[@Evelyn-vh1ex]

Girl good luck. This time in the semester is chaos.

[@keiriena4342]

This comment will always be relatable to someone even years later 😂 maybe I should go do my overdue papers

[@edwardquaye8312]

I know this was 2 years ago but ...Did you pass those 3 papers?

[@sheeshneesh]

Me rn. 3 unfinished papers, pringles, & tears down my face

[@alanamillione6592]

I highly relate 😂😂😂

[@desiretakei5355]

ahhh this is why Loni clowns around a lot. She tears up too much when she speaks the truth... hug Loni

[@hellotinashe]

Gosh I really love Jeannie's spirit! And she's so articulate and sincere. Probably one of the most underrated women on tele.

[@AdanniaUfondu]

Ya'll need to realize something. Just because you think what you've been through is worse than what someone else has been through doesn't mean that that person isn't hurting just as much as you are. All the people commenting on Tam talking about kids hating on her need to stop. That was a hardship for her... YOU may not think so, but she does and that's what matters.

[@eunikeadjei]

TRUTH B SPOKEN

[@eddiy335]

I love this comment ❤️

[@lisabradford8180]

agree. if a person hasn't experienced it they can't speak on it.

[@VideoZion]

This may sound crazy, but having permission to watch these ladies share their deepest and darkest secrets and memories on TV is something special to me. Helps me and others identify with their own personal issues I bet.

[@aqu1r3]

I completely get where Adrienne is coming from. And her statement about needing to do better really resonated

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Kinda hard to erase 17 years worth of bad memories....I can't pick just one.

[@swaggpro17]

gigglyfitzgirl right. I can give you a top 10 and that's pushing it

[@alexisyuan1919]

In one of the hit reply segment, Jeannie said her mom had her at 19 so how is it 16 now?

[@4kelly446]

@@alexisyuan1919 maybe it was a mistake because she's was talking fast

[@naylani7790]

I can soooo relate to Loni. I grew pretty much with a single mother (even though my dad is in the picture, he really isn't IN the picture if you get what I mean...) raising 3 children and seeing her struggle and working so hard everyday to provide for my siblings is something that will always stick with me...I love her so much❤️

[@shishimuah69]

oh hello, oddly placed bun on Tam's head...if I see it again I;m gunna name it

[@MissBetsy131]

shishimuah69 lmaooooo

[@janai9868]

shishimuah69 😂😂😂

[@kelendria]

it's like a portable beehive

[@camilladelavega7853]

I hate that bun!! 😡😡 it looks like they pined a fake bun on the top of her head

[@swaggpro17]

She needs to take notes from Jeannie. At least she alternates her dollar store bang every 4 episodes or so 🙄

[@Justvae]

I'm in between, some of my memories that were hurtful from my childhood have helped me be the person I am today and I'm mostly proud of that. But the lingering effects of them are painful and have tainted my views on somethings

[@femaleking493]

Justvae You just hit us with the truth.

[@sandyboo2]

I could do without some of the hurtful words my stepmother used to say to me and the messy divorce that my parents went through smh

[@ritz_essence1547]

Crazy Candy I could definitely do without the hateful words my dad's side of the family spewed to my mom & us during their divorce as well. I know people say that difficult times make them a stronger person but this time in my life definitely didn't "aid" me in any way. Kind of just taught me how to hold grudges...but who knows maybe I'll learn something later on...

[@titioke739]

Justvae I totally agree

[@Lalala-fz2ci]

Justvae yeah it's called being jaded and it sucks ☹️

[@zeynand4039]

I get adrienne and loni, i went through all of it as a child. War, poverty, family struggles, uncertainty in everything. Even after we were settled after we fled tbe war, we dealt with violence and police protection, even a car accident. My childhood life is like a movie to be honest. My teenage years were super chill and nothing happened which was lovely. I think God gave me some time off to relax and experience that too lol.

[@TheFeesh30]

Are y'all really in the comments arguing about what's considered trauma? I don't understand people. Your struggle is your struggle, everyone reacts to things differently.

[@lisabradford8180]

👍👍

[@amandaramsey1587]

Adrienne really should write a book about her life. I feel like there is so much she could say.

[@mwangihildah6476]

😊😊😊😊😊

[@slaymarie_rdh_2B]

I'm Loni af. the tough dark comedian who cries at the drop of a hat

[@Imokayluv]

Go,SheDot,Go! Awh, I love Loni

[@ertfgghhhh]

Shes so dark cause of the pain

[@brendamunoz355]

A boy bullied me so bad in middle school I will never forget it, & I still remember his full name. It's sad, he made my middle school years a living hell 😫👎🏻

[@reshallyatooma7625]

Brenda Munoz i feel you on that except it was a bunch of people for me😔 I'll never forget those hateful kids

[@brendamunoz355]

Reshall Yatooma right? It leaves scars! Like some people really think it's funny but it's real & it hurts. I swear to god no one has ever mad me feel as bad as that kid. Like it's crazy, I was so scared to go to school 😩👎🏻 i knew he was gonna be there and it was always just me.

[@SupernaturalLove100]

He was probably miserable inside and has grown up to be a douche. He's the one inconvenienced at the end, not you. You're stronger and most importantly, you aint alone. The coolest ppl are the ones that have been bullied haha

[@reshallyatooma7625]

Brenda Munoz like whats the point of trying to make someone's life hell and destroy their confidence. There would be boys in middle school that would say that they liked me but joked about it and i hope they all get their karma one day. I hope that boy that made your life hell gets his karma in whichever way👊🏾 I do wish you well in your life and that you are surrounded by people who are kind and caring😃

[@reshallyatooma7625]

Brenda Munoz also funny thing is that the girl who made my life hell tried to friend me on facebook a while ago and i was like why you made my life hell you idiot.

[@destanymakel9950]

It's either up or down Tamera! 😑You can't have both! 😂😂

[@lifewithangelmarie]

Destany Makel 😂😂😂😂😂😂 cryinggg i didnt even notice her hair until i saw this

[@kharihampton7915]

Destany Makel Yes u can.

[@raineray1]

the topic is very sentimental and all but that speed bump in Tamara's hair,😀😀😀😀😀

[@Funny07Times]

raineray1 😂

[@diarrajanae]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@queenleo5578]

🤣😂

[@boricualife847]

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@kessa9755]

I thought I was the only one who felt it was too far back

[@SydneyEHughes]

I know that this is over a year later, but it really hit close to home for me. A few days ago, my ex contacted me trying to apologize and everything that Adrienne just said snapped me back into reality because I was so tempted to go back. Thank you Adrienne and the ladies of the Real!

[@tyh8464]

Adrienne - SPEAK. Your truth is healing to so many people.

[@9188jenni]

LONI always gets everyone back on topic.

[@ingevanderross5154]

I totally agree with Loni.. she is so insightful and honest.. made me emotional when she spoke about her mom. when I was in high school, my family also struggled and my parents worked so hard and still do now. so I wouldnt want to forget that as it made me a hard worker and that is what I teach my son.

[@richellegiles6681]

I never comment but a lot of people are saying that Tamera's memory is dumb but people are brought up with different circumstances. Just because some people are brought up poor, or with parental issues doesn't make the next person's issue invalid. Everyone has their own struggles they have to get through.

[@ThePltsweet]

Just because you can't relate to someone's pain doesn't mean it isn't there. Though there are those we call first world problems, Tamera's may not have grown up poor so she can't relate to poverty but her childhood woes relate to many people because it's BULLYING. Unless you've been bullied or teased about something then you wouldn't understand.

[@em5958]

I can relate to Tamera because I was bullied too. In elementary and high school. High school hurt more because I was old enough to understand. As a kid you kinda brush it off but the older you get the more you understand the more people become mean. That's why I'm so glad 13 reasons why is out because it shows how much words can affect someone mentally.

[@lisabradford8180]

i was bullied also but my experiences actually got better by high school, opposite of what you experienced. grade and middle school were the worst for me. if i could erase all of it i most likely would😢

[@joannaherodotou1491]

Tamera seems to have had a very stable family life with two loving parents who provided the family well, it seems like she had a very happy and privileged life, compared to Adrienne and Jeannie whom both come from divorced homes and had to deal with many financial struggles. Loni, also had it hard with her mother struggling to provide for her, but no mention of her father. I really felt for Loni when she mentioned having no food to eat, that is the worst feeling for a parent to be unable to feed their children or to worry about having food for them. I would have to say that Loni has been the most successful of them all from nothing to working hard to educate herself and become an engineer and now someone famous, now that's success!

[@alyssiadeere4416]

It doesn't matter who had it "worse" that shouldn't invalidate Tamera's experience moving to a different place and having a whole new environment can be a bit much. Some people out here are more fortunate to not have gone through "worst" experiences. I mean why would you want someone to go through the same bad hardships as the person beside you? Have you heard the saying "I'm glad it was me than you" or "I hope you don't ever have to go through that I went through" why do people get mad when other's don't have it as bad or think trauma has to be held at a high standard.🤦🏾‍♀️

[@lisabradford8180]

@@alyssiadeere4416 👍👍

[@beyhive4748]

I wish I could erase the memory of Tameras bun. I hate it! Her natural hair is beautiful though

[@shaanh2509]

Bey Hive lol😂😂

[@cyrenewilliams4169]

Bey Hive 😂😂

[@lauraalbii2214]

Bey Hive yoo your comment made my day thank you😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💙

[@Lela1350]

Bey Hive yall have to stop 😂😂😂 that bun was a fail...and I say this with love

[@m1zzp3bb13z]

😂😂😂😂😂 its so distracting

[@jackulinanton9245]

I know this is completely off topic but when they said University of Toronto I was like YESSSS!!! I go there!!! Yayyy love them from Toronto, Canada

[@Lydiatomson98]

omg me too!

[@gautamig1546]

Jackulin Anton Same here girl!

[@aliaa1926]

Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind! This is what happens in the movie

[@BowmanE71]

I agree with you ladies, I have been hurt over the years. ANd I wa bullied as a child and I have let go and I have forgiven the people but I have not forgotten. My life has gone on and I am a better person. Even in relationships in my life, and I have forgave him but I would never go back. I'll speak but keep it moved. I am happy with my life, and I have my own son that I love. Soooo happy at this point in my life. You ladies are the best and I love the show.

[@foxfox9990]

Jeanie just love how wise u are.

[@trinigrl09]

I love that we are getting to know Loni on a deeper level……she was always the comedian in past seasons, lightening heavy moments with humor but now she's opening up more….I appreciate it…..

[@SuckerPunch92]

Jeannie better come though. Always preaching. I love her.

[@MajesticMyronn]

It's amazing to see them go DEEP into their past and talk about how they are the people they are today with these types of memories and turn those negative things into positives... and believe that all those things happened for a reason ! God always has a better plan

[@stephdlc3495]

And this is why I absolutely love love love this show ! Thank you ladies for opening up and being real , God bless you beautiful ladies.

[@baopham4395]

I deeply enjoyed segments like these which made just me rethink about how meaningfully my entire life has been passed. Keep working, girls!

[@RoyalMasterpiece]

I wouldn't erase any bad memories. I have some pretty bad ones (being almost killed 3 times, physical abuse, sexual assault, losing a lot of family member (ie parents early death, cousin to suicide). Because if it weren't for the bad memories, I wouldn't be who I am today. I also wouldn't have experienced God's love and healing in my life. In addition, I wouldn't appreciate life, family, friends. I also wouldn't have the compassion and love for others. #Godsnotdead #Hegetsalltheglory

[@Lalala-fz2ci]

RoyalMasterpiece yes, it's ALL about YOU. You honestly sound like a sociopath.

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Trump is Daddy Did you miss the "I also wouldn't have the compassion and love for others." ? Not even close to being a sociopath. You sound like you're trolling.

[@Lalala-fz2ci]

gigglyfitzgirl if you need to almost die, get assaulted and have family members die, etc in order for you to experience and feel basic natural human emotions you are probably a sociopath. Apathy is a big component of sociopaths/psychopaths

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Trump is Daddy She didn't list the events in the order that they happened. She might have already had those things, but they strengthened after her bad experiences. Some people are just self-centered, in fact, most teenagers are until they grow up and realize the world doesn't revolve around them.

[@Lalala-fz2ci]

gigglyfitzgirl of course but we're not taking about teenagers, she looks like a grown woman to me. It basically sounds like people around her have to die or go through tragic events in order for her to feel empathy/sympathy. Like the world does not revolve around her and terrible things don't happen to people just so somebody else around them can finally understand! That's not the way life works.

[@Gushry]

Deleting memories? "You can't love pary of a person, you have to love the person as a whole" - Tamar Braxton

[@murielmelly7688]

I can totally relate to Loni about not having lot of food or just barely. But my mother and I are the living proof that God has been watching over us for a long time already. And look at Loni and see how beautiful she became. I can't finish my sentence but you know what I meant ❤

[@Honeybee804va]

I was raped and molested as a child and if I could erase that from my past I know I'd be super better in not being socially awkward and just being able to have better and healthy relationships

[@lisabradford8180]

mmm-hmm. i had an uncle who was sexually inappropriate with me when i was 5-6 years old. couple that with being bullied by boys for most of my school years, i know that's what has kept me from better relationships with males. a lot of damage was done to both of us in those early years. having a drunken, argumentative father didn't help matters either🤬

[@ellainedontworry]

There's something on Tamera's head

[@jessicaromanosky9780]

I do EMDR for my childhood traumas it gets to the roof of the problem to help you understand as an adult. In wish I give this message to all of you. It has helped me through so much. It doesn't change anything but calm my PTSD from childhood and even my military PTSD. Bless you all.

[@ralucadobra5557]

I can relate to Adrienne and the REAL reality is when you realize your parent is who they really are at all times. The good, the bad and the evil.

[@aaronnewman7573]

i love the fact that loni is so vulnerable and emotional, but strong at the same time. i feel like she’s been thru so much growing up (in the projects, poor/didn’t have resources, how she had to struggle to get an education, being nearly killed by a damn dog💀, and even miscarrying) so she’s grateful to be the successful woman she is now and sometimes gets emotional ab it

[@dianajorgeloyalones6083]

Bad Memory For Me That I Would Love To Erase Is Not Growing Up With A Father..I Wish It Never Happen & Seeing Him Raising His Other Kids & Did It Want Raise My Brother & I Makes Me Sad Until This Day...My Mother Was & Still Is My Mother/Father & I Thank Her For That Love You Mom👭👑❤️

[@zora99ny]

I think when you become an adult it's important to have perspective and an understanding of how life works for people beyond yourself and your immediate family. I realize I've lived a very nice life (upper middle class upbringing, mom's a doctor, dad's an engineer) and yes I've been sad and had frustrations, but I know I have never faced adversity. True adversity is homelessness, rape, incest, abuse, struggling to afford necessities (food, shelter), jail, drugs, etc. If I was having a conversation with people and they were talking about dealing with rape or homelessness I wouldn't then pipe up about how I felt bad because kids made fun of me for having nice things or how I was sad because I didn't make the varsity volleyball team junior year. It just doesn't sound right! But everyone is different I guess.

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

NYCzora 👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@MegaCadette55]

NYCzora I was gonna say something about it ,then I just saw your comment.lmao Tam Tam could have kept that to herself.smh

[@fremsss4956]

NYCzora agreed

[@dantan1249]

NYCzora I agree. people not likening you for being rich and famous is not that bad. she has a great lucrative career now.

[@aniyahlawrence8356]

Rosa bullying can really have a negative toll on people. Low self esteem, suicide, eating disorders. They stem from that, especially at a young age. Bullying will always be a big topic

[@britbritnicole]

Some things never go away it'll always affect you but it's good to move and not let it hold you back

[@DwellinHope]

I can definitely relate to what Addriene is saying. Some memories of my parents I would want to erase because these were situations that brought out certain reactions out of them that hurt me to my core. Reactions and words that made me feel very alone and misunderstood. At the end of the day, parents are human beings, but sometimes because we look up to them and think highly of them we expect so much of them.

[@misskayeleigh4378]

Lord have mercyyyy!!! I love love love you ladies for keeping it real because you're pouring your hearts and emotions out to us. God bless each and every one of you.

[@yamiramirez6178]

i relate loni... when i was younger my mom was struggling too, my dad had left and she was a single mother. i saw her everyday struggles... i would want the memories of her crying every night to erase but then again no your right loni it makes me honor my mother bc till today she is the most strongest person i know. we went from sleeping in the car in negative snowing weather with all my brothers and sistser and 2 dogs to having a house. nothing lasts forever. if ur at ur downfall just remind urself its temporary. time heals everything

[@jodynanci]

Why do they always say "does that make sense" for the simplest statement: "I took my dog for a walk and it ran, does that make sense"? Lol yes...yes it does. I love this segment tho

[@Funny07Times]

Showcasedmommy 😂😂

[@kartabs2]

Showcasedmommy 👏👏👏👏👏 best comment... does that make sense

[@EvaElyse]

Showcasedmommy I HAAAAATEEEE when they say that 😂😂😂

[@tinx214]

someone should have asked if Tameras bun makes sense

[@osimeon00]

It's a filler statement giving them time to gather their thoughts. Sometime you have to buy time, even for a few seconds, to accurately put together what you're trying to say.

[@StefWriter]

This was one of their best discussions. They brought a lot of different perspectives to the table.

[@Shika4eva]

Tamera really shouldn't have went after Loni LOOL

[@93RZ]

It was so weird for Tamera and Adrienne to discuss rape victims and child molestation then Loni to transition it to when she was bitten by a dog? 😒

[@mjlovahh12]

Honey I know it's not funny but I laughed at this comment. Very weird transition

[@SuckerPunch92]

Dee Jay so did I. So weird

[@SuperMakeupOnABudget]

Honey children are very very traumatized after being bitten by dogs. You don't know the severity of the injury. And dogs are everywhere. Being constantly terrified isn't fun..

[@LieseAkerlund]

Sarah Lane Men are also everywhere...rape and abuse victims are constantly terrified.

[@cydniekennedy2790]

AwesomeLikePrussia Men aren't the only rapists.

[@patriciagurwitz509]

What an incredible topic for young ladies to listen to today. I’m a much older woman and I believe many of my heart aches we’re due to a mother who just didn’t teach me better. She simply did not know. Keep up the good work you ladies are absolutely incredible and so loved

[@Marijrobinson]

Adrienne thank you soooooo much I needed that.... god bless you... 1:23 so I won't end up in the same situation Thank you SOOOOO MUCH.... this isn't relationship this family.... I'm 18 and I'm scared to move out I don't want to drive a wedge between a bond I'm trying to create with my family but, these people are indeed not nice and sorry I love them and in he back of my mind it's telling me move on and out and love them from a distance but, I don't want to be the bad guy!! This really helped me I know who my family is and if I don't move out come July I'll find myself going through the same thing. Searching for a way out THANK YOU💗

[@lizzieann866]

Some nights I can't fall asleep because bad memories are haunting me. When it happens, I wish I could erase them. Then, the sun rises and I'm glad I still remember 'cause they're proof of what I overcame, and how strong I am for still standing.

[@Marijrobinson]

I LOVE THIS I NEEDED THIS I FEEL LIKE GOD IS TALKING TO ME CAUSE I GET SO CONFUSED WHEN I COMES TO WHAT TO DO BUT YOU'VE LADIES HAVE SUMMED UP HOW I FEEL THANK YOU

[@gracechica8182]

Adrienne has become really wise:)

[@simonrdarnhd7790]

I would like to forget how my bf cheated on me and just left , I would forget the terrible time I went through through parents divorce...... Dad's wedding was a depressing day also as he didn't tell me he was getting married . However all these things made me stronger and the person I am today . God bless everyone ❤

[@SallyandPaul]

I loved Jeannie's take and Adrienne's for this one.

[@smoonlight02021]

I love how the ladies of the real talk about these topics to help the viewers but also learn from it themselves and apply it to their daily lives

[@nerdyykeyla]

i can relate with loni, i always saw my parents struggle with money but they never gave up. It's hard to look back at those time but they really are the motivation to succeed in life now for me and for them.

[@MegaSwagg4life]

I love how deep they get! This is the definition of REAL girl talk. My bad memories and trauma are what have caused me to grow and taught me multiple life lessons and so much about people even though I hate being reminded of them it's what makes me as humble as I am and a true reminder that I am blessed!!!! Ps: I'll be talking about this soon on my channel so subscribe please💕

[@itaelopez8561]

This topics lately on the real i can relate a lot !!! So deep ... every time I watch it I learn a lot ❤🙌🏼🙏🏽

[@roter13]

i love Loni's Streisand reference.

[@cascasalee]

I wish I could erase the day I met my dad. Ever since that day I've been a different person. Angry, sad, and hurt. Of course we had good moments over the years, but he caused more pain then happiness.

[@lisabradford8180]

i'd probably erase mine too if it were possible. he just wasn't the father he should have been.

[@stargirl91291]

It’s crazy how much better and deeper their conversations became as soon as Tamar left the show. Like omg people can actually TALK without constantly being interrupted or with her making stupid faces or sound effects behind them! Imagine that, letting people fucking TALK on a TALK SHOW. Tamar was a poison and idk how anyone could stomach this show when she was still on it. Since she’s been gone it has become an amazing and wonderful, entertaining show. And these cohosts actually respect each other (most of the time…sometimes loni is out of line too)..

[@ruthbygodsgrace1621]

Now THIS is The Real I know and love...they lost me for a bit with all those guest hosts. But I've enjoyed this week!

[@NashinDiani]

I wouldn't want to erase anything cause both negative and positive happenings are the reason am this kind, caring, strong and determined woman

[@CiaoSennia]

thank you so much for this. My sisters weve gone thru this...were going thru it. like u have no idea how much light u brought to this topic thank it helps me. By keeping it real is why I love this show😢💖💜

[@anewloveofficial9137]

I always see Loni as a funny and strong and brave woman but when she starts to open up and being emotional, I just feel sad for a moment thinking about what she and her mother has been going through and you deserve every thing that you have now in your life Loni. So, you should be proud of your self.

[@wackybrattyx]

I love Adrienne. She reminds me of my crazy cousin that I love so much.

[@NellieKAdaba]

Wow

[@victoriadupont7298]

yo this show is soo therapeutic for these ladies. Getting all if those emotions and thought out in the open.

[@marliabrahams3868]

0:33 - 1:24 Thank you Adrienne. I needed to hear this.

[@shercott]

You can forgive but you shouldn't forget. That's how we learn the lessons of life.

[@davinacollins1941]

Yes i have been through a lot of pain smh am in tears these ladies inspire me

[@aprilmason1616]

Something called EMDR helped me to proces trauma, for the things that you really don't want to remember all the time. I remember what happened, but it doesn't make me so anxious anymore. I can be at peace with what happened.

[@peachlife5118]

You can always hear it in Loni's voice right before she about to cry lol

[@lipsohlips97]

One mistake or one event doesnt define you..not all of you. All of your actions, words, the good with the some of that bad define you. Don't let ppl label you for one thing you might have done wrong! Or at the least don't let it get to you :)

[@Toolefamtv]

My mom passed away and I will never forget the things she sacrificed for me...I hope today Im at least half the mother she was 2 me ❤️

[@laurapalacios7855]

I LOVE Adrienne's style!!!

[@emmavari9530]

I’ve cried for 7 minute 🙂

[@Toolefamtv]

Aww I love Loni I dont care what anyone says shes such a beautiful person I love her spirit she just made me tear up ❤️😢

[@jenny-yn3lu]

who else cried?

[@RadiantRootsYT]

Juna Antenor Me! 😭👋🏽 I love it when they get deep. This is one of my favorite Girl Chats rn.

[@briialise9412]

I love how Tam took the direction of the conversation to someone else instead of herself. thinking about the vets❤❤

[@draelyy]

I feel like Tamaras really got a handle on her emotions this season. Probably passed the touch to tough loni.

[@huyenisback]

I would delete the memory of middle school. I was suicidal and had anxiety at such a young age because of the trauma. Then again I don’t know if I would’ve deleted them. They made me stronger today and the person who I am. Basically it taught me that words don’t define me anymore.

[@tashawilliams8093]

There are quite a few memories I definitely would love to erase, however no matter my issues/problems God is with me.

[@ninimainimo2236]

I love all of these ladies so much! I think i have bits and pieces of all of their personalities in me. What i have similar to Loni is that I'm a comedian and love making people laugh and always putting others before myself, what i have from Jeannie is that I'm extremely honest and straightforward and i love to love and try to be there for people the best way i can, what i have from Adrienne is that I'm a very real, feisty, and loyal Hispanic girl, what i have from Tamera is that I'm relatively innocent and charming and I'm also a good girl, sensitive with a caring big heart and a Christian. I think i have mostly Tamera's traits though. Love all of these christian women ❤ ❤

[@winnienyameba]

I feel like every thing I did or happened in my life made me see life in a different way. it helps me connect with people because we have all been through it. my mistakes make me human. it makes me stronger. I would not wanna loose it.

[@StrongnBeautiful]

Family is NOT easy! You kiddin me?? We understand you boo.

[@allysonmessina1785]

I wouldn't erase a thing, it all makes you who you are... everything is a treasure... the good bad ugly, amazing

[@joannamontoya637]

I love that Loni is opening up more!!! This episode made me tear up😥

[@Truther1903]

Tamera is so sweet. She loves Loni and saw how upset she was so she tried to bring her mind elsewhere when Tamera mentioned her own struggle.

[@marisolcl9762]

"When we first moved to LA as actresses .. kids hated us" Tamera.. Girl... I'm not trying to make it seem like that isn't a "problem" but compared to the real, tough situations people go through from a very young age, I can assure you having an acting career and the opportunities you had as a little kid were not problems and didn't affect you in any real way. Just saying.

[@propogandalf]

I think it's fair for her to not want to put her family's business out there in detail. She may be willing to share, but they may be more private.

[@august21xp]

Marysol Cerv Tamera cant relate to this topic. she was an army brat they make money every month army parents get a check its not like they starved or anything. everyones else except her grew up poor.

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Marysol Cerv I felt the same way and people got HEATED. lol

[@bluverse1102]

You think it's easy to be an Actor or Actress? Do you know the struggle she and her sister been through just to get there? At a young age kids envy both of them so i can relate on how she feels.

[@gigglyfitzgirl]

Afro God They wanted to be actresses though, they didn't NEED to. That's the life they chose. But everybody needs to eat to survive. lol

[@girl8295]

They don't really listen, they just hear just to talk again

[@baggergurl16]

Girl Yeah especially Adrienne and Jeanine🙄🙄

[@irasemaresendez2598]

Girl probably because they'll forget what they're gonna say. They have to keep the convo going, just listening like Tamera and Loni will keep the table sorta quiet...

[@AijaaDaDon]

Girl *Here

[@hayleybaron3440]

Adrienne reminds me so much of JLo with her hair and makeup