Girl Chat: Getting Real About Guilt

[@preciosadeana1142]

Tamera's tears are so genuine, sis got me over her crying and I ain't even got no kids 😓

[@marquezrosa2085]

lol SAME!!

[@ryannevangelder4486]

Same

[@antjr6929]

You can cry on cue... Skill for actors and actresses

[@emilym.r.3272]

@@latrolettteeeeeee your ugly on the inside is showing

[@yoojinkim7918]

La_Trolette her kids are her life. They’re on the show to talk about their life experiences. If you don’t like it don’t watch the show

[@DeniseF]

Tamara, it's better to talk about your kids and care so much rather than not care at all. You're a great mother. We can all see it

[@iLoveyoouJTito]

b

[@BurnTheReciept]

I love that she talks about the kids I love the updates!

[@DeniseF]

@Kir By wow you're a lovely person..

[@serenethomas4898]

Kir By how low do you have to be to hate on people for talking about their kids “too much”. Like damn you’re already digging your own grave with how low you’re reaching

[@antjr6929]

Why can't Adam work

[@joiil4814]

Why am I sitting here at 2am with a bag of chips and iced tea watching this and crying? I love these ladies ❤️❤️

[@belovedone4049]

What kind of chips? Jk😉 join the club.

[@chet6244]

legit me

[@nukiebutt]

I just ate a donut and it’s 1am and I’m watching and crying 😭

[@ashleyjamison5518]

You sound like you're living your best life 💕

[@artificialmermaid9884]

girl i'm here with pringles and coconut water at 12.27 am

[@CaiahM]

I see why Adam married Tamera. She’s so phenomenal. What isn’t right with this woman🤦🏾‍♀️❤️

[@madisontv4515]

Caiah M. EXACTLY

[@lizzyelmizab8878]

Caiah M. Yep 3 to be exact

[@KPHTvOfficial]

You can't fake a real woman. I love this woman.

[@LiLmSzDiVa]

I know right. She inspires me to be a better me. It’s just amazing that in this day and age we still have people like her around.

[@Tan87ful]

Agreed

[@Kay-zl3qx]

I love when they get so open, honest and intimate. The Real has a strong beautiful set of HOST! Tamera, Jeannie, Loni and Adrienne you all inspire me so much!

[@michaellovely6601]

If the producers of "The Real" try to cast a white panelist, they should not get Meghan "My father will hear about this!" McCain. If anything, the producers should have another Asian panelist; Laura Ling is my first choice for the spot because she has experience as a journalist and can offer mom insight and parenting advice like Tamera Mowry does. She could even be the "big sister" for Jeannie Mai.

[@angiecruz5949]

Michael Lovely they won’t be doing that since when casting the hosts they only wanted women of color

[@itznariyananariyana4239]

I love when tamera talks about her kids she has a beautiful family

[@cocochannel3694]

Yaaaas

[@nomatterwatialwayswin]

Omg legit if tamara cries, i cry. I cant help it she is just the sweetest soul and if shes sad, that makes me sad.

[@ariellarose4778]

Im still a little salty about her calling pajama pants "rags" but she is still a beautiful soul

[@nomatterwatialwayswin]

Loool i hear u!! Pajama pants till the death of me!! Lol fuzzy ones ..because well, CANADA. Lol

[@ariellarose4778]

@@nomatterwatialwayswin i would die living in Canada! Too cold! Lol but i grew up in new York so that's not too different

[@DH-jw6if]

We she cried so did I 😭 💔

[@cyninhoustonf.d1219]

Lol yes I cry when either one of them cries 😯😳🙁☹😟😤😢😭🤗 I really feel it 😭✌🤗

[@lafamiliananai3716]

Although this is old, it’s so refreshing to see women open up about pain and then have the other ladies really affirming and uplifting with such emotions. I love it!

[@IntuitiveWanderess]

Tee Leftsoul yes me too!

[@lauraortega2548]

Mom guilt is SO real Tamara! Don’t stop talking about it! The moms who watch you can relate sooo much!

[@melissawashington3002]

Thats how I'm feeling now.

[@VeronicaVeeTV]

Amen

[@karlaloves8551]

😩😭 me too

[@ranitagadling4312]

If I was a mom the only guilt that I would have is the guilt of how having a spoiled brat has messed me up physically & financially & how it's gonna take 18 years until I get my house back.

[@cassidysatterfield3411]

I will get mad at my son and raise my voice but as soon as he goes to sleep I say im sorry or when he goes to spend the weekend with his daddy I get so emotional and want him back

[@J.Rod.__]

The moment she said mom guilt i started crying. I felt that. It is real. And I feel it everyday.

[@VeronicaVeeTV]

Same. It's 100% real

[@carmencitadavis3751]

Guilt is just a trick of the devil, because the devil will constantly remind you of the things you did do. or the thing you were supposed to do to make you feel guilty, but if God can forgive you for your past mistakes, you have to forgive yourself.

[@alohaaleah139]

Thankyou so much for this. I have been mentally breaking down over feeling guilty. I know God has forgiven me i hope i can forguve myself.

[@NissaTheGamer]

Carmencita Davis Exactly 🙏🏾💯❤️

[@CicitheRich]

Amen, thank you for writing this

[@mandyfullofcandy]

These women are so inspiring. They uplift each other soo much and just help everyone through they’re experiences!

[@irisvillarino4589]

I swear this show is pureee gold, love this girls so much

[@miranda0298]

man i love Tamera. she’s one of my biggest celebrity role models. she’s kind, compassionate, genuine, and real. what an incredible woman 💓

[@Franky27903]

I feel you Tamera! As a single mom who works and studying a masters, I sometimes feel guilty but I am doing this for my son and set an example

[@MajesticMyronn]

The one thing I love about THIS show and these ladies is that.... they truly have the freedom to speak about whatever and wear their hearts on their sleeve , some of the stuff may be good , some of it may be bad , some of it may not even be what we want to hear or agree , but to each and one of them that's REAL ! To see how far they've come and gotten closer and gotten wiser and gotten stronger as a whole this past 6 seasons and 6 years... it just is amazing ! And CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR SECOND NAACP IMAGE AWARD WIN LADIES !!!

[@AirBahg]

right, i enjoy the view but its so commercialized and forced these days. these ladies are just who they are like it or not

[@brianaanderson9165]

Preach 👌🏾

[@ilenix3074]

I’m guilty of eating all the leftover pizza... love Jeanie’s discussion

[@adwoatumtum]

ilenix 😂😂

[@joiil4814]

LOL 😆!

[@ramyajayachandran]

Lol.. but what do u mean left over pizza? There is no such thing my life! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 now u made feel guilty...😂😂😂

[@Tan87ful]

Lol

[@sammierose1150]

4:35 What the hell is wrong with those people?! 😠 Tam you are a wonderful person, mother, and wife and you talk about your family shows you are proud to be in their lives - and they in yours. I may not always agree with your opinions, but I *HIGHLY* respect you as a woman that is kind, and stands for what she believes in. 😤❤️

[@Stephanie-es4qv]

Tamera just spoke everything I have been feeling, mom guilt. Thank you...

[@vyn8761]

Sis got me crying in the kitchen while eatin fried chicken and fries 🤧🤧

[@maddymarie4075]

“I don’t work so much because I don’t love you, I work so much because I do”. *I felt that so hard* I constantly cry because I feel like I’m at work more than I’m with my kid. And I battle with it in my head everyday 😢

[@anonnona6433]

Damned if you do. Damned if you don't. You are a great Mom Tamera😍...what you are experiencing is normal!!!

[@amelokoye2647]

The look on Adrienne face when Tamera was talking she really took that in

[@averyjohnson7600]

I lie about how much pain I truly am in after a traumatic event in my life I feel a little guilt but my parents are happy and proud of me to be the first to go to college. People want you to act okay and say all the right things it’s more convenient for everybody

[@CimorelliPERFECT]

But not for you tho. I don't know the full story but I'm sure they would still be proud of you if you opened up to them and get some help. I know sometimes all we wanna do is spare our parents of our suffering, but that is why family is here for... I hope you get better and don't have to live in pain anymore, please try to think of yourself too, you and your feelings matter!

[@littlejoe9381]

Duda Martins : Amen.

[@artificialmermaid9884]

my mom is a working mom and she is the most wonderful woman in my life. she went back an forth from her office to my house to my school back to her office. even though i spent my childhood with nanny most of the time, i still love her more than life. so it's ok, your kids know that you need to go to work. as long as you still spare a little time here and there for your kids, they'll understand and they will still love you

[@ZulMarquez]

Don’t stop talking about your children Tamera!! 💙💙💙

[@kimberlyellen7210]

Mom guilt is real. Moms need to stick together. A stay at home mom can feel just as guilty as a working mom, just with different challenges.

[@LeahLayah]

Um...I didn't expect to be sitting up here crying😢😭😭🤧💖💖

[@annav08]

Jeannie is so educated it blows my mind how intelligent she is ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@allyceleste9670]

The audience didn’t know when to clap😂

[@michellete8545]

They mad dumb clapping like idiots all the time like just listen lol

[@TheThirtyJourney]

Guilt is something I give to God consistently. I know in this life we continuously sin and lie about things like Jeannie said and what’s beautiful about being a Christian and believer is that Jesus paid for it all. As long you continue to repent and allow God to use you and renew your mind, you find yourself being convicted more in doing things that are wrong and turn away from them. The guilt ceases b/c that is of the enemy. God wants to give us PEACE which is a fruit of the spirit and in following Christ it is what allows me to feel less guilt and turn away from sin more and more! 😊

[@TroyTalks.]

AMEN! the renewing of the mind part is so essential. Being a Christian doesn't mean we're perfect, it means that sin is no longer our normal.

[@carmencitadavis3751]

just because God has forgiven you for something that does not mean you should continue doing it Romans 6:1-2 what shall we say then shall we continue in sin that Grace May abound, God forbid how should we that are dead to sin, live any longer therein

[@TheThirtyJourney]

Troy Talks yes!

[@bridgallagher1290]

That's not what you believe if you're a Catholic, it's main thing is feeling guilty all of the time, lol! Also you don't need to pray to feel less guilty about something, if you can find some comfort and peace from praying great but it doesn't work for everyone, trying to make things right if you can or making changes to your behaviour to improve yourself works not to mention forgiving yourself and trying to let the memory of what you did go, a lot of it is psychological, if you wanna call that God, more power to you, it's just another belief system at the end of the day!

[@kookysis2741]

amen

[@farrahlynn5605]

Omg Tamera cries so pretty 😩

[@goldenitri8748]

She does 😍

[@nickayal3316]

when we said we wanted longer videos, we didnt mean the ones from 2017..

[@madmann1000]

Chile they posted one from 2016 yesturday Like I can't.....

[@abidanielson2747]

better than nothing quit complaining

[@corneliathefifthya7452]

Mood

[@triniwondawoman]

i was sitting here like: wait. i swear i saw this episode before. *smdh*

[@justinelulume3743]

They are on a break

[@nicolettevoskericyan6675]

A lot of moms feel guilty because of their desire to be a good mother and also work/have a career. Some people think that you can't be good at both and that one area is going to lack. There are studies that show that children who grow up with a working other grow up to feel proud of their mother for wanting to accomplish both. It is more likely that sons grow up to be more empathetic and help around the house more, and daughters are more likely to be successful and accomplished in their careers because they see their mother as a role model and adviser every day at home. I don't even have children but I am really looking forward to teaching them, regardless of their gender, that you can be good at your job, love what you do, and be a good parent. That is the best kind of role model!

[@kaycee5418]

Never delete these videos. They are gems ❤️

[@ellebella5883]

The Real is about being real. It wouldn’t be real if Tamera didn’t talk about her beautiful family.

[@mt3388]

AGREED! Tameras pride and joy is her family. She has a beautiful family I don’t see how that’s a problem!! 😊 family is important! Our families and parents shape us into either strong, capable people, or broken people who don’t know their worth. Tameras kids are lucky that she cares so much! 😊❤️

[@ayandolaayanleke6900]

Oh my Tamera, I love you. Don't mind the naysayers, usually, people bash what they don't understand. They are mostly unhappy people who don't have what you have. I love how real all the ladies got in this episode. Got me thinking.

[@niquey54]

Jeannie: “2017 for me is gonna be about....” Me: 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@SK-iv9fm]

Tamara, you are the best person and the mother. I'm very proud of you. it's better to talk about your kids and care so much rather than not care at all. You're a great mother.

[@belovedone4049]

I like how loni and adrienne stare at each other like, "i got nothin you?"lol (in the beginning)

[@ChelseaRose4196]

Such a beautiful segment. And also really refreshing seeing woman uplift each other. I can definitely side with Tamera’s mommy guilt. But they will look back and understand that mommy was working hard for them and to provide a better life and they won’t even remember the times we were gone. ❤️

[@yvonne_p0]

Y'all Adrienne's hair reminds me so much of Tinkerbell from Peter Pan Lol. So cuuuuuute! Love from Germany 🇩🇪

[@MrSexydivas]

So true

[@junemoon8675]

Oh hahah so true 😂🤚🏻

[@xomcrrockstarxo]

The way Loni and Adrienne look at each other at 0:40. 😭😭😭😂😂😂

[@TiyannahSoul]

LMFAOOOOOOOO I'm done

[@EuphoricViibes]

I caught that too! 😂 I’m like dang what’s tea sis?

[@AlesSpot]

🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

[@RedFuzzyawesome]

I’m dead 😂😂😂😂💀💀💀

[@makeitmakesenseyall]

Lmao!! It needs to be a gif

[@sadevictoria7194]

Tamera’s so beautiful inside and outside!! We need more people like her and this world. Sweetest soul!

[@BlaqueRose23]

The Real cannot post longer clips from current seasons because they are still being aired on TV, and will repeat when they go on break. When the next season begins, they'll have more freedom to post longer clips. If they give us everything now on KZbin, who will take the time to watch on TV?

[@kookysis2741]

thanks for explaining

[@lesleyaguila5322]

Can you post this on every clip lol. I enjoy reading people's feedback on the show but I'm so tired of people bitching about new clips.

[@BlaqueRose23]

@@lesleyaguila5322 😂

[@Ohquesarah]

Not 10 videos of the same clip from 4 seasons ago THO lol.

[@alilosa5980]

Thank you! Would it be okay if I were to copy and paste this on some clips? I’ll mention your name I just think this is important to share and would like your permission first sis?

[@shellymidnight555]

Talk about your children all you like, we'll listen. That balance is so hard. Hugs to you and God Bless!!!

[@GoodOlAllisonHarvard]

All the hosts look gorgeous here, but Loni and Jeannie especially look gorgeous here! 😍🙌🏾✨

[@ayshas288]

I love Jeannies top

[@mysticIvy324]

That look that Adrianne gives at 5:15 was so fierce 😍👍

[@amelokoye2647]

Same,she was taking that in

[@jenniferbrown8224]

What a great example of sisterhood. The things that these women shared and the quick honest support that their sister's were able to provide for them is beautiful. Love these ladies.

[@wings5211]

The women on that stage talk about what they're passionate about and what's important to them for tamera it's being a mother it's a blessing never be ashamed to talk about your blessings!!

[@cherokeejay4308]

Who’s still crying in almost 2020 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@cocochannel3694]

Gosh meeee right now

[@shaykahnjoanne5440]

Me rn too

[@loren.a5600]

Hell yeah

[@AI-kx6vu]

Crying in 2020

[@ripshannon]

@@AI-kx6vu lol same 😭💖

[@prodbycha]

I have never seen such genuine positivity and womanhood on tv before in my life

[@megandriver1487]

This video had me CRYINGGGG. I'm a single mom of 2 amazing little boys, and I feel like it's impossible to do it all and the mom guilt is SO real.

[@gabrielanunez3757]

I'm not even a mom, but I completely understand Tamara!!

[@TIKTOK-bj1zc]

Anyone not gonna talk about the length of this video 😍😍😍

[@tanaka-kunthelazy4995]

That Marinette profile picture tho

[@niquey54]

They already posted at least 8 mins of it in the past

[@atlanticcreole4073]

I just did, lol. It's about time! Wendy posts almost 30 minutes!

[@morgangisellexo1858]

This video is like 2 years old 😞

[@soarixchannel5265]

Miraculous ❤🐞

[@priscillahnjoki1123]

Tamera you have a beautiful soul. Keeping being the best mom you can be.

[@morganknight9568]

Tamera is amazing. And watching her be a mom Is even better.

[@lenanorman7847]

How moving was this episode. Is like this watching sisters hold each other up and build up one another. God bless you all that was beautiful

[@NAR-pw5ng]

I love watching this channel but, I hate that The Real's you tube channel keeps posting old episodes as new. Please keep the dates REAL with your audience LOL

[@MajesticMyronn]

NAR8106 I'm not sure if you know this but the real actually in an INTERNATIONALLY syndicated show and some of the continents / countries that watch it are not one , not two , but three seasons behind , so this is somewhat of a way for them to catch up , as well as people who haven't watched these chats to see what they've missed out on !

[@guidofeliz8384]

I like the person Tamera is, seriously.

[@sheriharris7635]

I know this is an old video but Tamera just spoke to my heart.

[@lamarjohnson4035]

Tamera, I'm proud of you! I think you're an amazing mother

[@CelleSleuths]

Tamera, you are an AMAZING mother and a phenomenal human being with an empathetic soul. I'm a cancer too. I love you guys so much it truly is a blessing to have this show in my life. I have had no female influence.... my mother passed when I was young. So I was a latchkey kid too!!!! Thank you so much for what you are all doing! ♡♡♡ sending love and hugs!!!

[@oilinmylamp]

Adrienne's Mom is gorgeous! I love when Adrienne says, Momm-y!! Or Ma!!

[@moniquestorasdiary5931]

I dont know how many times I have watched these ladies and see their struggles and can't help but see the real human being in all 4 of them

[@mykaylalusyou]

Tamera.... I wanna say SO much, but to sum it up, I hear you. Mom guilt is the loudest, hardest struggle especially when you have to work. I experience this all the time

[@Nightmare-ee6yy]

Tamera speech was 💯 😭

[@stephanieachane9154]

I Like that Ms. Jeannie, that Proverbs 31 Lady lol lol and sometimes mother's just have to go do what they have to do to help and take care of their family! Yes Ms. Tamera, You Are the help meet for your husband, so don't ever feel like you're out of place by being a working mom.♥️

[@cicigetthat07]

❤

[@vanessaboualouang9398]

I love how they lift each other up. ❤️ #womensupportingwomen

[@rmosley106]

What Tamara said is how I feel as a Dad not living in the same place as my children

[@gloriagutierrez917]

I live in Honduras and I recently discovered your show and I’d been obsessed with it you guys are so opened and real and hearing your stories helps a lot of people me included

[@yourfavoriteoompaloompa139]

I commend Jeanie for being so open and honest. Just like the other ladies too. And Tamera is a good mom. Although she feels guilt, I would say she has nothing to feel guilty for because she’s amazing.

[@ricardocintron3954]

I’m here at work ringing out customers trying to hold my tears from falling out but I can’t help itttt 😭😭 such a GREAT segment ♥️

[@TEDRACAKES]

I’ve learned yes the truth hurt but honesty is always best. Also when saying something it’s also how you say it.

[@DW-he7oo]

as a single working mom i can only speak for myself.. your children will respect you for showing them "The Hustle". The babies will not remember the times you weren't there they will cherish the times you spend together.. My kids are now reaching adulthood and they know i live everyday to gear them for life. Children are the most innocent receivers of love and through their innocence they will learn unconditional love and from that the cycle will continue. DW2019

[@pe8658]

Tamera is SO sweet and feels others pain 🙏🏻💜💜

[@sweeth8894]

Päivikki Esk she’s a cancer ♋️ they are naturally emotional and intuitive.

[@drakecampbell6150]

Tamera made me cry 😭😭😭

[@vanessaissa3577]

Man, Tamera makes me cry when she cries

[@yolandadiaz2914]

I LOVE THE REAL LADIES! People need to cut the crap and just let people be themselves. They are living their dreams and have a GREAT Foundation! You all are AMAZING!!! (P.S. don't read the nonsense:0)

[@rosedavis6549]

Tamera had me in tears and I’m not even a mother

[@amybethea6187]

POWERFUL EPISODE! Oh Tamara - I feel you .... please remember - they only have one mommy - and mommies are special, unconditional foundational supports of love for children - you occupy a special place in their lives that no one else can. They will ALWAYS love you and as they grow, they will realize just how special you are and how much you love them by all you have done and are doing for them. My mom died two years ago - and I now look back at how hard she worked for so many decades as a single mom to keep a roof over my and my brother's head- she could not always be there for us, but she was there as much as she could and was a stable force of love in our lives. I treasure my mom always - forever - and your children will treasure you too!

[@pablogarica2945]

Tamera is such a beautiful human. Amazing mother and such an interesting perspective.

[@j3n1y]

I hope her kids see this one day and see that Tamera is an amazing mother and overall person. ❤

[@Yehoshua66]

I love how much Tamera talks about her family and kids! She has such a beautiful soul and it shows 😌❤️

[@RuurdWoltring]

Tamera is doing a extremely good job. She is a dynamic woman, a loving mother, a wonderful wife, an amazing actress and a great talkshow host.

[@ejo4squared01]

I love how genuine and vulnerable everybody was with this because they know people can relate. I hope it was healing for them, too - to get it out of their head and into words.

[@niawesley5347]

We love you Tamera! And your kids will understand your sacrifices one day. At 24 years old it finally hit me all the sacrifices my parents made for me to have an amazing childhood and opportunities. I choose to honor their efforts and sacrifices by making them proud!

[@prettygirltherespurpose]

I love how they pull each other up

[@KimmiePie1]

I like Tamera's little bun

[@tamikadriver36]

Why do working moms go against non working mom how about just do what's best for your family, no more bashing on either sides moms go thru to much in a day

[@stacyrancho6695]

True

[@AnaMJimenez]

Oh yeeezzzz im crying.... 😔 Tamera you have a heart of gold....

[@VeronicaVeeTV]

Tameras heart spoke for every mother. Mom Guilt is painful... It's real...But mommies, you are not unnoticed!

[@franslinem]

No lie, these ladies have l❤ve for each other!! It's genuine, they have each others back!!!!!!

[@SSBMA1994]

Omg I watched this before. How is it possible that few months later I watched this again and it still get me teary eyed... I need a strong friendship like this in my life. Someone I can share my deepest darkest feelings to and be vulnerable to and cry and they will uplift me and support me and get me out of that funk... such beautiful friendship they have

[@tearsofawaterfall2656]

Tamera seems so beautiful in and out, don’t understand how anyone can dislike her

[@shellymorgan5200]

I don’t have kids & I understand Tamara’s feelings. However, she doesn’t have to work. I understand wanting to chase dreams and have a career, but I think she & her husband can afford for her not to work full time. I’m not trying to downplay her feelings but she’s not like other moms who have to work cause they live paycheck to paycheck. I don’t think it would break her family financially if she didn’t work for the first few years of their lives.

[@ImenBen12]

Literally was looking for a comment like this! Absolutely adore T and I understand where she's coming, I too, I'm a little confused coz she comes from a rich family (and Adam) and she has a choice not go work...so 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@adedoyinkudehinbu5039]

That's how they made me cry on this beautiful Monday Morning. I don't care if it's an old video, but mehn! it is a breath of fresh air.

[@Astr0Lov3]

Omg TAM !!!! I LOVE YOUUU!!!!! TALK ABOUT YOUR FAMILY !!! YOU’RE BLESSED !!!!!!

[@kh-kn1ou]

All of us working moms understand what you're going through Tamera we love you we understand what the mother's guilt is you leave them with the babysitter and you feel so guilty for leaving them

[@NoroNash]

this is so real... my mother was never around.... she always literally legit forget about us in school, my dad was busy but at least he wasnt always beating me... till date, i cant just sit in the same room alone with my mum for more than 5 mins.. and i am guilty for loving my Dad more