Girl Chat: Is It Okay to Cry at Work?

The ladies of “The Real” open up about exposing their emotions both in and out of the office. They also chat about dating your lawyer (or doctor… or pilot…), and steamy sex dreams! Wait until Tamera reveals her surprising fantasy…
Crying catharsis - • Tamera Opens Up About ...

[@SallyandPaul]

Tamera’s dream caught me by surprise! I loved Adrienne’s reaction to it! 😂

[@nikig2891]

Sally Preteau I know! It’s like she won a prize. 🤣

[@ankiragrant1678]

She was really "bouncing" if you know what I mean😊😉😉😊

[@monkeydluffy983]

@@ankiragrant1678 😂😂😂👏👏👏

[@taylorlaunterlover12]

I literally choked on my water lol I was expecting that answer and their reaction

[@teeolu1900]

😂

[@shimaa7732]

If I feel the need to cry I will go to the bathroom and silently ugly cry and remind myself that I have bills to pay. I suck it up and go back to work...remember it’s just a job!

[@kathykinder3137]

Shima Amiri yea same here

[@remiselitax]

Yessss, I know them ones too well

[@Polkadot2]

Same...

[@natsaichingombe8421]

Period

[@mizzmuhree9297]

Shima Amiri lol that ugly silent cry 😂

[@queencessphey6511]

How did this turn from crying at work to having sex dreams😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you peeps be crazy

[@kesandrawilliamson2464]

Lmaooooo

[@lvluxegirl]

Omg I’m dying over here. This segment was hilarious 😂 oh Jeanie “what about the “Asian Sensation”

[@brittanyreid4855]

lvluxegirl 2016

[@kesandrawilliamson2464]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@waxyinc_6787]

“Nah y’all weren’t in it “... “but back to me” LMAOOO

[@cbear0226]

Adriane jumping up and down like she won the lottery! 14:23

[@blaq_betty]

I swear

[@nyecore]

Claire Olivia I know! That was soooo funny

[@brittanyreid4855]

Claire Olivia I swear

[@vanessawalker5366]

yes that was so cute. Adrienne was so cool about it. and didn't make her feel weird. Tam was blushing so hard

[@katiefedele1813]

she basically did :)

[@ruthregan1073]

Adrienne: Omg ! is it about me ? T:Yes! A-Yes! this is phenomenal 😂😂

[@mzcaribbeauty5283]

wow. a whole 16 minute video. so rare. you guys stepping up.

[@katekrapceva1624]

Yeah, but it's really old 😁😁

[@glove3694]

@@katekrapceva1624 still entertaining tho :)

[@vwadebiz03]

yes, they are listening to the fans!

[@brittanyreid4855]

Kate Krapceva agree

[@maddyabby300]

“I can make that COCKpit go up!” “I don’t wanna be on that flight, Loni” Hahahahahahaha I was dying 😂😂💀

[@mnvsng]

I'm dead!! LMAO

[@TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom]

Adrienne is giving me J.Lo realness! I love it! Tamera is gorgeous! But Loni is really stepping it up with that BEAT! Beautiful ladies!!

[@gregorylane1124]

Jeanne is gorgeous too!

[@gregorylane1124]

I meant Jeannie

[@Mariliza.]

Adrienne: "And is it me?!.... Omg this is phenomenal!" Hahahhahaha you're so dope, Adrienne!

[@chinalove1021]

You ladies 99.9% of the time look Beautiful so today is no different but Loni you look absolutely fabulous today💃💓

[@s.crockett5457]

I TOTALLY AGREE. AUNTIE LONI IS GLOOOWIIING!💣💖

[@karenblythe5859]

@@s.crockett5457 +oo

[@Beyondme7700]

Yea makeup lit

[@imtiredoftheseniggas6618]

China love thank you finally a nice comment about Loni

[@cathyfereira4513]

Stunning

[@Lizardtheblizard]

Tamera sounds like a dr. Sues poem “I cry when I’m mad I cry why I’m sad....” 😭😂 same

[@kimberlybrabson3988]

I cry when I'm horny!!😛😛😝😝😜😜

[@tarynsheals]

Adrienne’s “ the turbulence we will experience” 😂😂😂

[@WickedLovely121]

Tamera and Adrienne's laughs at 15:47 are one of my favorite things. So contagious. And Adrienne's laugh after Tamera's says, "I surprised myself when I woke up!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MajesticMyronn]

NOW THIS IS WHAT WE LIKE TO SEE !!! GIRL CHAT GOT REAL !!

[@zineb8494]

this is old, this was before they got the new setup and lighting

[@MajesticMyronn]

Happy Unicorn I didn't say it was new ???

[@shaeburrell928]

I don't know why but Adrienne's look reminds me of JLO.

[@Beyondme7700]

Its the dress jlo had a dress like that at least the collar of the dress

[@linzycallahan3980]

i’m pretty sure it’s her hair. the way it’s styled

[@vanessawalker5366]

she does to me too.

[@nikolas7119]

Shae Burrell I said the same thing! 🙌🏾

[@callmesunny4125]

Yes..... her look in Enough

[@Justine_LM]

I’m an er nurse and I got to a supply closet or medication room when I need to cry. I don’t cry over work politics I cry over lost lives.

[@AverageBaconStuff]

Just Justy you’re an angel

[@samanthaflynn6140]

Yup...we have a closet too!!!💜

[@preciousmatlapeng9497]

We need more nurses like u

[@NeeNeeTrulyblessed]

I surprised myself when I woke up 😂😂 that damn Tamera. Too funny

[@kailajax]

“I could make that cockpit go UP” 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Guddolphi]

I died at the "steamy sex dreams" portion😂🤣😂

[@brittanyreid4855]

Guddolphi is this new or old

[@elasia.]

Brittany Reid this old from like 2017

[@brittanyreid4855]

elasia the real January 5 2017 season 3 episode. 72

[@elasia.]

@@brittanyreid4855 oh okay cool, thanks

[@brittanyreid4855]

elasia you’re welcome

[@natiwitdaflati]

"He makes cereal and a doctor" lmfaoooo💀💀

[@JamieBleu]

Wow these ladies represent their zodiac signs to the T. Capricorn Jeanie is the workaholic perfectionist who is charming sophisticated logical smart and understanding, Cancers Tamera and Lonnie are the emotional caring and loving empaths, and Scorpio Adrienne is the big eyed sexy mysterious magical lover who hides her true emotions and intelligence from those she doesn't know or trust.

[@ruthregan1073]

ahh i’m a capricorn that’s why jeannie’s my fave !

[@Beyondme7700]

Adrienne is so much like a libra

[@Burnedtongue]

Even tho Adrienne is a Scorpio she’s technically a cusp with Libra. She was born on the first day of Scorpio season I’m a Libra and relate to Adrienne at times but also my Venus is in Scorpio too so I relate when she talks about sleeping naked with her man lol

[@l.randle4902]

I love your description of jeannie, the capricorn. It reminded me that as a capricorn, I too have those characteristics!!!! Thank you!!!!

[@Piluttatingeling]

I've never understood these zodiac signs. I'm pisces and I feel like no one understands me. 😅 Where have you all learned about zodiacs? Link please 😋 ❤

[@jonathancantero4029]

😂I love Tamera and Adrienne’s relationship

[@niemaknox4784]

I remember when Tamera was all flush & blushing when Joseline said she had a crush on her!!🥰🥰🥰 Go Tam Tam Explore!! Lol

[@Vanessa-nt8bm]

Who is Joseline?

[@ladennayoung2939]

@@Vanessa-nt8bm I guess Stevie J ex girlfriend. From my understanding she go both ways. I could be wrong.

[@Vanessa-nt8bm]

Ooohh I remember who you are talking about now. Gotcha.

[@niemaknox4784]

Vanessa Sanchez Yea from Love & Hip Hop and when she told Tamera about her crush She got all red & flustered I could tell then in that moment she fantasized about women 👍🏽😊😊😊

[@marieah1960]

She was probably thinking "gross"......

[@nyecore]

That last few minutes was sooooo unexpected!!! I love Tamara’s honesty

[@bbutler7158]

Go Loni...simply beautiful girl! That pink got you glowing and giving you a sweet reflection!

[@tasceiaclarke5058]

Agree

[@sarahali1199]

Jeanine’s comment “what’s happening” made me laugh soooooo loudly 😭😂😂

[@victoriamciver9900]

I Love Adrienne's hair and Loni's makeup !

[@denisheabates4344]

14:38 : The reaction Adrienne have has me cracking up laughing 😂

[@lisapillay9359]

This segment with the lawyer sleeping with the client thing made me laugh so hard 😂 Jeannie is so funny

[@aaliyahdias-williams9331]

I can't deal with loni 'he makes cereal and he's a doctor' I can't 😂😂😂

[@valeriemalone2729]

I like that pink on Loni. I've cried in work before. I was involved with someone I worked with who was emotional abusive so it wasn't easy to hold it in. Very toxic. I was known as the crier though and unstable but not everyone knew what I was going through. I felt judged all the time and it got in the way of a promotion. Crying is healthy though.

[@jennakaufman4471]

I knew it was Adrienne that Tamera was dreaming about!

[@cau1864]

Lol i wondered

[@sabrenuh9924]

How?? It seems a little bit scripted to me honestly

[@sherrygivings8982]

Me too. I knew it was Adrienne.

[@honeylove4116]

I only cried once at work and I was actually faking so I could go home loll

[@fumanejafta8515]

You're so naughty 😭😂

[@Beyondme7700]

So in hindsight u didn't cry🙄

[@vanessawalker5366]

lmao!!!! this made my laugh really hard

[@hkoc25]

Girl don’t say that on the internet... you don’t know whose watching

[@SadieJennings]

I did that too 😂😂😂 I felt so bad coz I lied about my grandmother being in hospital because I couldn't leave my girlfriend alone, she had just lost her grandmother and she was in a really bad place 🤷‍♀️

[@WhitneyUwandu]

“Were we at least extras” I LOVED THAT SEGMENT OMGJDJFNAHDH IM DYING

[@jessicagomez4972]

16:05 Adrienne “it’s was bomb. I’ll tell you that much lol.”

[@Bubbiii]

Am I dreaming because they finally posted a video longer 2-3 minutes?

[@MsMak03]

Queen Bubbi sis!!!

[@mariannimoh9514]

Queen Bubbi they know they got to step it up since Wendy is gone. I need some entertainment

[@samanthafontanez78]

Oh I adore how loving true and genuine this relationship between these four girls

[@tanishahaynes8362]

I can't take my eyes off of Loni. She looks amazing

[@moeetothee]

The sex dream segment is a great example of “and i- oop”😂

[@meiposhgarden4782]

The sexy dreams segment was hilarious!😂

[@1louisprotector28]

I've definitely cried a couple times at work. I try not to let people see me cry but, sadly all those times I've cried my boss/coworkers has seen me.

[@karinaluis3415]

When I feel the tears coming and I take a deep breathe, the exhale just opens the door for the tears to fall 😭

[@sdmnfam7005]

16mins the person who’s in charge of this channel finally did something right!

[@FriendlyFlower314]

I haven’t laughed this hard in SO LONG!! 😂😂😂 this is my new favorite episode. Loni & Adrienne’s reaction to Tamara had me crying!!! LOL

[@kenzakiki7092]

When you are a young ER surgeon it’s really difficult to hold you’re tears sometimes ....

[@heyheyhey40]

I’m a man and a teacher. I have cried at work on multiple occasions. Like when I realized that some students eat during my class because they are hungry and won’t be able to eat at home. Or when I met the foster parents at the parent/teacher conference and they informed me that they were not going to keep their foster child for too much longer.

[@Jeremyguy16]

I just about died when Loni called Adrienne a munchkin, that was freakin HILARIOUS lol!!!!!😂😂😂😂

[@Fairydust2803]

I've cried in front of my boss but she's the one that caused me to cry. She literally stood behind me in my personal space for 10min while I was working. I had no clue then I turned around and she literally caused me to have panic attack. I couldn't breath my heart rate would not slow down I had to go to her office to ask to go home and while doing so I broke down cause I was horrified and going through those symptoms at work omg! I tried to go the restroom and get it together but I just couldn't. I absolutely hated crying. But... Oh well!

[@jessicamerced9116]

Oof. Icky! She sounds like a nasty energy vampire. I've definitely met people that made feel that way. Look into ways to protect your energy! Prayer helps 😊👍

[@amandavang137]

The last topic killed me. Best girl chat thus far lol! ♡

[@thatssobrandon]

"He makes cereal AND he's a doctor?!"

[@JamieDones]

BOL!!! I lost it when Loni mentioned the Pilot. GIRL I BLUSHED AND LAUGHED SO HARD! Love you girls.

[@stephanieong8573]

I used to work in a research lab at a pretty prestigious university as an undergrad placement student and I had this massive deadline which would have contributed to a journal publication which is a big deal especially for someone who didnt even have a degree yet! Anyways the deadline was something like 8 a.m the next day and all the samples had to be fresh so I spent almost 2 days straight preparing them when in my sleep deprived and stressed out nervy state I accidentally messed up what was meant to be thrown away and what was meant to be kept. I legit couldn't stop the tears from coming but I feel like if you're passionate about what you do being emotional isnt unprofessional in that case. I cared a lot about my job so when something went wrong of course I was gonna be upset!!! But that being said I had a small rest at my desk, ate a snack and just got back into the grind even if it meant having to pull an all nighter but none of my colleagues would have begrudge me the fact that that setback got the waterworks going.

[@moniquemeads]

14:23 I’m over here doing the ugliest laugh lolol! “ This is phenomenal!” I hate Adrienne lol😂💕 I CAN NOTTTT!

[@exotic.keke_7067]

I love Adrian’s excitement 🤪‼️♥️

[@starasialovesjesuschrist38]

They got me over here cracking up 😂 I love these ladies friendships!! I believe they all have genuine love for each other.

[@KristenAlexia]

Omg I’m so thankful for these uploads 😩❤️

[@natalieallison548]

They need to load up more shows like this. I loved this segment, i can watch it over and over. It was so authentic lol

[@ZoeLouise]

Adrienne “is it me” yesss😂😂😂😂 I love it

[@DynamicallyDC]

Tam and Lonnie are probably empaths also where other people's energy and vibes easily affect you. ❤

[@nikspencer4934]

I think I'm one as well.

[@alexisbaxter6139]

I can totally relate to Tamera and Loni as a fellow Cancer ♋️!

[@ChinaDoll305]

My baby sister is a cancer and she is very intuitive. My mom is a cancer as well but she is emotional.

[@giisellegaalvan1996]

14:43 *What about the Asian sensation* 😂🤣😭

[@sarahcijntje5067]

I love Tam so much for this. No matter how hard and how embarrasse she may be of the answer, she still kept it real🥳 She said: I surprised myself when I woke up😂🤣🤣 GIRLLLL👏🏾You better preach

[@joelfromwisconsin6360]

Ok! Magazine: Sister Sister Star Comes out Bisexual on The Real Me: She's Not Bisexual she said she only had a dream about a Woman She's not even a lesbian she's Married to Adam Housely and she has 2 beautiful kids 💁👀

[@KCNwokoye]

Crying doesn't always mean sadness, it could mean empathy, it could mean relieving oneself, it could also mean we feel strongly about a situation or we feel joyful so crying is part of human expression and it's not a negative thing and society has to learn to understand and accept the reality. It requires courage and vulnerability to express one's true feelings. I see why these ladies are so beloved. They are so genuine and committed to doing a great job on the show, totally themselves.

[@ResaReckless]

Thank you for the EXTRA LONG video! Please consider uploading longer segments for those who can tune in on tv daily 🙌🏽

[@reginacampbell8611]

I laughed throughout this whole segment.. Lol.. Jeannie Mia, u killing me girl😂

[@joannroshnieable]

This was a good one. The topic was a real concern women deal with, and the chat got honest and authentic. This is giving me vibes of the early "The Real" days, less production and gimmicks. Great segment for Tamera

[@killerrobots9]

Loni: I went to the bathroom stall to cry Adrienne: that’s what they’re for! Lmao they should call it the crying room at that point Lolol

[@ladennayoung2939]

I have cried at work before. One day I was crying from the time I got there until the time that I went home. I was going through something personal that day. Another time I cried was because I lost my job. I try not to cry anymore. Because I feel like people think that shows weakness, and they try to prey on you or whatever.

[@Truther1903]

Jeannies reaction when tamera said it was Adrienne 😂 she literally froze 😂😂😂

[@Truther1903]

Tamera said “why is everybody so quiet” 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@toluplanb1584]

this episode....was the best 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 I damn near fell out ma chair tamtam 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Jeanne asking were we there at all? making a call? oh lordddddd 😄😄😄😄

[@rainem4305]

If you're a lawyer, you're gonna defend your client even if they're guilty. That's the whole point of being a lawyer. Guilty or not, you defend your client.

[@LoveeeAbri]

She said...”all this chocolate love???” Ahahahahaha Hey Tamera 👋🏽 🤣

[@kellyhowland783]

Adrienne looks so cute! Love her hair❤

[@rainem4305]

She looks so much like JLO here

[@kellyhowland783]

@@rainem4305 yes! I know exactly what look you're talking about. Her idol, so maybe not coincidence..☺

[@raquelandrade7195]

Hi Kelly Rowland 😘

[@kellyhowland783]

@@raquelandrade7195 🤣🤣 I've literally had 2 different employers give me my first checks as Kelly Rowland by accident! Lol Hi!🙋‍♀️

[@titioke739]

If I have to cry which I have I go to the bathroom cry, and just reassure myself that I got this. I just keep pushing to the end of my shift

[@minhoney9859]

I'm wondering how Adrienne even knew the dream was about her?? 🤔

[@wesleynd.01]

I think it’s because tamera started saying adrienne

[@missamina1246]

Right ...makes me wonder what is really the meaning behind these dreams!

[@minhoney9859]

Y’all I forgot I wrote this and what I was referring to I had to rewatch the whole thing

[@lifeisrosyyy]

She kept making eye contact with her that’s why

[@byonson8788]

UK viewer here, and as a mid-20yo male watcher in London (TRANSATLANTIC UP IN THIS) I relate to what you talk about a lot too, your show is hilarious too and you keep it 100. Keep it up, ladies!

[@PinkMarshmallows]

I cried at work last week, in front of everyone too. I was on Facebook and I saw my bro's post saying "Goodbye. I love you all and take care." He has been in a depressive state for awhile and I thought he committed suicide. So my best friend tried to get me to calm down and start calling everyone to see if someone could go to his place and see if he was okay. Don't worry, he is fine and he is staying with our older brother for awhile to make sure he is okay.

[@nenalazo977]

I love throw back girl chat especially since is the full chat

[@stephaniethurman8404]

I try my very hardest to never cry at work. I have cried maybe 3 times in the 4 years I've worked at my place of employment. I feel like if I cry there, the sharks in the work place will smell the blood and come for me.

[@fiercequeenbee90]

I'm a Scorpio just like Adrienne. Even though what Adrienne said is correct - we do say "put your big girl panties on and get back out there," to our loved ones, BUT we are JUST as emotional as Cancers. It's just we do it behind closed doors and don't like to talk about it too much. Scorpios and Cancers are both water signs, which means we dive into our emotions.

[@colombianmocha4556]

I needed to hear this - I am such an emotional person

[@celinakristina9112]

“Y’all know I done boo-hoo’d” LMFAOOOOO

[@AshleyYoungMusic]

Well I guess I need a new job lol I'm angry everyday

[@patriciabarnes7034]

LONI SHOULD WEAR THAT PINK COLOUR ALWAYS. ABSOLUTELY FABULOUS ON HER. IT SOFTENS HER ENTIRE APPEARANCE, AND BRINGS OUT HER BEAUTY. Love it.

[@la2lcal]

Jeannie "whats happening".. Lmao

[@lynnfaraj9051]

I remembered this episode, it's an old episode, and one of my favorite. 💞💘💓

[@A.Shawnee]

I have been looking for this clip of the dream forever 🤣😂🤣

[@duhbhaddest7807]

“Is it me” 😂😂😂 that’s such a mood 😂😂😂

[@smileylizzie]

When I cry, my eyes get all red and puffy. So crying at work would be a no no for me. But I do agree with finding a way to let it out in some way. I try to take a sick day if I have any and just get some me time and go back in better the next day

[@shanyaallen9787]

Did anyone hear her say "it was bomb i'll tell you that much" Im DEAD :) :) ;)

[@judayahpersaud6542]

I mean I guess it's okay. I cried at school just today because of my math test. So I guess it's okay for people to cry at work.

[@chinalove1021]

Awwe I pray did you an Awesome job on it .. Dont be worrying do your best and dont stress . and pray in the beginning of the week for God to help you though the week and keep that prayer and study and you will con1to be GREAT💖💖

[@aceofhearts0]

dont be a pussy

[@madisontv4515]

Miss Lee 😶

[@denea4418]

If I'm pissed off at a co-worker I cry, because I cant go off like I want to.

[@BriaBarrows]

Denea facts! And I cry because when I’m really upset that’s how it comes out. I hate work drama man. Petty ass birches fucking with my money. Lol

[@flowerpetal3901]

I cried at work because The stress of the job was overwhelming 😭 quit that Monday

[@paradisedreamxo]

You’re so pretty omg!

[@flowerpetal3901]

Thank you! So are you 🤩

[@ImmortalKombatPanda]

What was the job

[@flowerpetal3901]

Denee Weathers it was for a well known corporation doing back office internal, call center and front office retail all at once

[@schnitzel1024]

That makes perfect sense though. She probably is FINALLY comes to terms with her sexuality, meaning believing that she actually is sexy and has adult womanly sex appeal. She has talked about this many times before, how she always thought that people felt like Tia was the sexy twin and Tamera was the goofy funny twin. So, since being on this show, and creating her own unique identity as a woman, she is finally seeing herself as that. She probably sees Adrienne as a woman who she admires for being in touch with her sexuality in a respectful mature way, so her mind just combined the ideas in the dream. That’s usually how dreams work.

[@jefforasaintillien2279]

Correcr❤

[@LeeJH1002]

Look at Tamara’s face at 13:29 when A called her name

[@adelissahunsley]

I had really bad depression and anxiety and had to go to the bathroom and cry and calm myself down every morning before I could calm down enough to do my job. I had fear of the marketplace syndrome where I would have panic attacks out of nowhere, like on the bus to work for instance. I worked for a temp agency for a year during that period and never let it affect my work, but that was a really hard time for me. If I could have found a legit work from home position, I would have taken it in a heartbeat. I am disabled now, 4 time cancer survivor with a lot of health problems, but mentally I am as healthy as I have ever been.