Are Women Addicted to Toxic Men?

What happens when you fall for the charm and wit of a toxic man? One article suggests that many women are addicted to chaos and drama, so of course we had to weigh in.

[@TheRealDaytime]

Do you find yourself attracted to toxic people?

[@melissalitus8879]

Nope. My aura attracts positive people with good vibes. If I sense you are toxic or unstable I'll bounce so quick. I prefer stress over peace any day!

[@stxrlegacyent5351]

No i don't think so

[@adamsey_mame9043]

Sometimes not an intense drama

[@Nique1986]

I’m not attracted to toxic at all!!!!!!

[@Apexbarbie98]

When you’re inexperienced, yes. Once you know how things really go down, HECK NO! 🙅🏼‍♀️💆🏼‍♀️

[@milesjohnson7423]

Adrienne hit the nail on the head about some women being addicted to chaos cuz everything goin smoothly is boring. Sounds to me some women are trying to say they want someone who will challenge them to grow in life, but they just don't kno how to say it.

[@bacheera1]

Lol @ "They don't know how to say it"

[@ms.hjohnson6820]

Yeah, they don’t know how to go about getting what they desire in a healthy way.

[@llbabygirl1528]

I thought Adrienne was gonna say why she in her toxic relationships

[@miahjones4690]

@@llbabygirl1528 🤣

[@kinndah2519]

I've noticed more men are addicted to chaos then women are. Women are usually the ones putting up with everything, and then the men get upset why she won't react. It's ridiculous.

[@melissalitus8879]

Nope not me. I can't stand a man that's toxic and unstable. I prefer the low-key and chill dudes, I like men who I am comfortable around. If I have to walk on eggshells everytime I am around you then it's a wrap. My mental health comes first 💯

[@daniellalove143]

Hit the nail on the head!

[@dr.kavyaprakash5623]

You go gurlllll

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

Same girlfriend. After two years of abusive and toxic relationship I ended it so I could remain alive. I was that girl who wanted to save the guy, and it sucked the life out of me. I was lucky to leave alive. I was broken, I was hurt , it took a year to recover but I healed all grace to God.

[@melissalitus8879]

@@Simplelivingslowliving wow so brave! Glad you are well and healing. God bless you ✨ happy that you left and didn't go back

[@nickidutch3678]

💯 Right

[@kristenbotha5899]

I just had to choose myself for the first time and it was honestly one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do.

[@carolynbkazadi_]

I’m proud of you for choosing you! Knowing your worth and what you deserve and most importantly treating yourself / setting the standard on what you deserve, will attract that same energy!

[@marciaambrose2476]

Way to go! Good for you super proud of you❤❤❤❤

[@jyn88]

I keep forgetting Garcelle is older than Loni. She looks so good!!

[@CandiceKoko]

She looks sooo damn good! How old is Garcelle?

[@jyn88]

@@CandiceKoko 54

[@ultimatefirecracker1486]

@@CandiceKoko is she a permanent host? I like her tho

[@Mel__21]

I still don’t believe it! Lol. she’s gorgeous

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

Oh my gosh I didnt know that. She's absolutely beautiful.

[@KharisB.A]

Loni's "1987, that happened to me" got me hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣; and by the time Adrienne finished sharing her 2 and a half baby mama story, I was in stitches 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. The ridiculousness of it all🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Nisha_Nykelle]

Toxic people attract other toxic people, believe it or not!

[@britjj5126]

No toxic people latch onto who ever tolerates their toxicity. If they get firmly told to take their mess elsewhere they know you are not the one.

[@ajourneyofthesoul8825]

I believe some of us are carrying out generational curses without realizing it. We have wounds that have been energetically past down & unfortunately history repeats itself. Having it together in one area of your life means nothing if there is still energy within that is not healed. You will still be subject to these toxic scenarios playing out in your life. I think everything stems from self love or lack there of. But one thing about it we all have a breaking point.

[@SymonnePat]

When I was younger I attracted toxic men, but that’s cus I was toxic myself. Now that I’ve grown and life has ran me through the damn wire, I’m thankful for the caring NON-toxic man in my life👏🏾😂

[@erivanson]

Same.

[@NellieKAdaba]

😆

[@mamamagere]

Truth! The one we attract is a personal mirror.

[@tamerilee]

We go with what’s familiar, if u haven’t had healthy or positive relationships w men (any gender ur attracted to) in ur life then it’ll most likely match w ur relationships. Like Jeannie said before “you date your psychology” if u notice all ur relationships are trash u gotta look within and fix the root

[@ronnylove1081]

Some people genuinely don't believe the love is real unless it hurts. That television, movies, and childhood for you.

[@adamsey_mame9043]

Did Loni said 1986⁉️😂 I wasn't even an embryo ‼️

[@jyn88]

A stork delivered me that year

[@NellieKAdaba]

I was 5 in 86.

[@IamDjibeauty]

It isn’t a gender issue. Toxic people are attracted to toxic people.

[@hawaaabadiro]

Not really. Codependents are the nicest ppl ever. But, they are always attracted to toxic ppl because they can't set boundaries and have the biggest hearts.

[@IamDjibeauty]

@@hawaaabadiro I agree to a certain point. They are attracted to toxic (narcissistic) people to change them or because the don’t think they deserve better. So that makes them toxic too.

[@alexandria3580]

People are “addicted” to the drama with toxic men because of their childhood. It’s a comfort zone and what they saw growing up. We have to heal those family curses or we tend repeat those patterns.

[@xhpfanx]

I really like Adrienne's look here ... actually inspired me to get a neclace like that and pair it with a similar olive green top

[@petermiller9904]

Sexy

[@vanessamallard1111]

Toxic sex is good because it’s the only time that person is giving you positive attention which keeps you craving for more.

[@monica8201]

Relationships are reflective we often attract what we are,so if successful women are attracted to toxic men then maybe they're a little toxic themselves.

[@Love4Music7777]

Dark hair on Adrienne is EVERYTHINGGGG!!!!!

[@gaila.9852]

You cannot help someone who does not want to help themselves.

[@jayjanzee9059]

Garcelle may say then "Bye Felicia" 👋👋👋😂😂😂😂

[@Msladyrae92]

I grew up having girlfriends that were so addicted to drama in their relationships. I never understood it. I think ppl mimic the relationships they see sometimes and alot of us saw disfunctional relationships. Also low self-esteem has alot to do with it. you may see arguing etc as love. Breaking up to make up.

[@dalidzucheredi2495]

It can be funny for some days like cleaning up and managing a big project....after a few years it's hyper tension, nervous breakdowns, panic attacks and the project never ends. I promise you he will make you feel like a failure.

[@G-ISLANDS-STARZ]

Can we really talk about toxic if women are addicted to that kind of men who make them suffer ? As a man i know which kind of woman is toxic for me. Something toxic is something u don't accept, accept yourself and what you want before to say other people are toxic, sometimes ur own desire is toxic ;)

[@MajesticMyronn]

I think in some cases this is the instance where the ideology of “ Good Girls Love Bad Boys” should be something in the past cuz if you like a dude that isn’t like 100% himself and tries to keep up the facade of being this dude with thuggish ruggish bone in his blood and swag... it’s like how long til that gets boring ?! Like there are some men that truly want to treat a lady the way they should be treated with love , respect , kindness , vulnerability and hell even caters to her love languages without making her feel like it’s corny or “ not my thing “ like stop with that “ I want u to be mine but I ain’t really gonna do anything to show u mean a lot to me “ bs ! Like Adrienne literally had a guy that showed no PDA and thought he was too cool to do so... didn’t even allow her a key to his parent til she ASKED ! Like that too cool for school stuff getting old... cut the games ! Stop the toxicity ! And end the foolishness

[@mart6694]

Loni's red flags😂 & Adrienne's story, man that was all kinds of messed up

[@jamarbooker8573]

Ha haa ahaa ahaa laughing my ass off g 😆 🤣 this was very funny especially Loni ohh lord she made me cry of laughter

[@videovamp_]

Can Adrienne stop bringing up how toxic sex is the best sex? Like that justifies having a toxic relationship? If you are having sex with a toxic person, their toxic behaviour isn't justifiable and it's still not right. There's also toxic people that sexual abuse their partners and thats never okay.

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

I was that girl that wanted to save the guy and would hold on to the toxic relationship when he said sorry for his verbal, emotional and physical abuse. I was that girl who also was sexually abused by my then boyfriend. I'm grateful to have left that relationship and the toxic sex was definitely NOT Worth it. I left alive, broken, hurt ; I took a year to myself and was able to heal. He was the worst person to ever come into my life but the experience was my greatest lesson.

[@Kwaghdizzy]

Garcelle needs a map to navigate 2 and half baby mama 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I was confused for a second too

[@NellieKAdaba]

😆

[@Arizona_lilly]

Girl we work so hard we don't need a bumm

[@Zenaluv9]

Lol if adrienne was 3 in ‘86 then loni was 15.. there is a 12 year difference between them 🤣 And Garcelle was 20.

[@nickidutch3678]

😂🤣Yeah Loni said she was 4 in 86😅

[@gaila.9852]

They are not being serious.

[@alexandraanderson3988]

Then that means Jeannie would have been like 6 or 7 dang since people be saying their like 3 or 4 yeaars apart

[@nickidutch3678]

I think we all went through that phase of wanting a 'Bad Guy' I know I did when I was around 25, thinking that I will be The one who will change him or make him stay. And I didn't realize what came with wanting a bad guy like the cheating, the disrespect etc. The toxic relationships to me come from a low self-esteem thinking you don't deserve beter. Ones you start loving yourself that's when you start wanting a good man.

[@JoshMannning]

Bullshit you were a toxic woman

[@flaviaandrew5447]

😂😂😂😂the way adrian is telling the story got me on the floor 😂😂😂😂😂

[@LovedByYou]

This reminds me of when they had the girl chat, and Tamar and Adrienne talked about how they would purposefully start fights in their relationship just to keep it spicy. Lol like why Adrienne acting like we can’t go back and watch the clips. I liked it better when Tam played the good, Christian, consistent one. It doesn’t fit Adrienne as much as they are trying to act like it does.

[@SierraSaysSo]

No matter who is talking I have to keep my eye on Loni because you never know what she will say or do. 👀👀And those facial expressions have me floored🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rubykanja]

And now I can't take my eyes off off Loni...comedian🤣🤣🤣

[@Nique1986]

I am not attracted to toxic people but looking back my ex husband had his moments so I guess you can say I attract them lol😂😂😂!!!!

[@adrijiyuda]

That was slick, he was you ex husband for a reason, so obviously you’re attracted to him in some way. The way you worded it was clever, “I attract them” nah you’re attracted to them too😂

[@Nique1986]

@@adrijiyuda actually I said what I said if you didn’t like it that’s you issue no mine !!!!!

[@adrijiyuda]

@@Nique1986 You didn’t disprove my comment, just another over emotional response, typical 😂

[@Carlyon100]

My idea of being equally yoked is when two people's vision and energy are on the same frequency. @Adrienne's scenario is a whole movie already.

[@jasminemoffett]

Not changing the name of the one kid 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@biancaionescu2765]

I swear these girls!!!!🤣🤣🤣 when you live with yo mama you always in drama🤣💀🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 word

[@greenclovergurl]

I think it’s two-fold, one is you date what you think you deserve and at times that you can fix them or heal them which it took me a long time to see that for myself. However, through my healing and spiritual journey, you break the cycle of toxicity. You realize what a waste of time and that your worth and validation comes from yourself always

[@flaviaandrew5447]

I laughed too much at lon's statement about living with his mama 😂😂😂😂

[@AlexandraAnderson-qc4yb]

She said "Shut up" lmaooo Adrienne 😅😊

[@piyushwagh8363]

Loni!! You were 15 in 1986 😂😂 Girl byee😂😂😂

[@genehicks7421]

They Need balance!!! Not toxicity 😆😆😆😆🙏😇go Lonie😆😆😆😂😂🤣😂

[@chayitoguzman8467]

Hi im Eliseo from the bay area. I love your show.God Bless you keep up the good work

[@somethoughts4363]

How is Felicia 1/2 a baby momma? Int she just a whole other one? 😂

[@lalaland746]

I think because Felicia is with someone that had an ex husband, and the wife and the ex husband are parents, and then Felicia got pregnant too so she’s an addition to the already completed parents, which is the wife and the ex. I’m not sure if this made sense but that’s how I see it in my mind? Idk 🤷‍♀️ 😂😭😂

[@somethoughts4363]

@@lalaland746 oh ok I kinda get it sorta 🤣🤣

[@LoveTheEighties]

Not just women addicted to chaos It's men and just some people or many people in general that are addicted to chaos, fame, power, etc. Which is what creates the dysfunctional relationships on both sides.

[@erickeegan5999]

I don’t want peace. I want problems always

[@jisellebrown1412]

Are women addicted to toxic me? Me: where have you been living

[@victoriagalexis8106]

Cough....Khloe Kardashian😂

[@snenhlanhlankutha1340]

Where’s Jeanie

[@kendaocripto]

Answer: yes

[@Lalalalala...]

Where is Jeannie?

[@llbabygirl1528]

Right

[@nolyssa]

Loni's right Adrienne is always comin up with some weird excuse lmao

[@goldrays4862]

Messy/ toxic/ selfish in the relationship attracts the same.

[@christiansoldier77]

Women definitely love toxic men

[@genasingh1845]

Garcelle is beautiful 😍

[@tiamaria6427]

Loni you're so funny 🤣😂

[@moniwilderness1936]

We need a partner, not a project!

[@JayeKisses]

That’s not 1 & a half that’s 2 baby mamas

[@Arizona_lilly]

Very true

[@deem132]

this must’ve been the last taping of the day w their crazy tail selves 😂😂😂😂

[@Blenduu]

Insecurities and subconsciously not feeling worthy of goodness. Not knowing your worth/value. Hope for a change...that will never come in him.

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

Right on.

[@gephtetv]

YESSSSSS🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@furahathestar]

Daily dose of joy 😅😅

[@cendon1244]

Women are also addicted to lack of accountability.

[@kalak3793]

So true... my brother is 40yo and toxic af and he lives with my mum

[@miluskapatrnogic6214]

That’s like Ross knocked up Susan!!

[@fayepatrice1672]

I think Felicia wanted a baby with the same DNA as the first. Bro was set up😳😂

[@shanananabooboo]

Garcelle is right

[@Arizona_lilly]

I believe this 1

[@tamerilee]

That’s just 2 babymamas where’s the extra half?

[@LoveTheEighties]

DUH!! lol We All know that's the ideal and that's what a relationship is supposed and Should be BUT Then Life/Reality steps in between all of that and you end up in some kind of drama/chaos/dysfunction, etc. With the exception of those few great and awesome relationships that are loving and balanced across the board for years to come BUT not realistic for most. For example Adrienne you have a good Christian man now but one wrong move you would have stayed in that dysfunctional relationship with "R" and been dealing with some of those very issues. You had a mom and support system to talk you off the ledge.

[@kierandgb]

I need a map lmaooo

[@MRCRAZYCOOL]

I'm sorry some women can just be so intelligent but at the same time be relationship ignorant hence why they get with toxic men or they get with a good man and they ruin the relationship and punish the good man.

[@liliankamara4208]

Women as well can be toxic

[@RyanJCreations]

Where’s Jeannie?

[@tamerilee]

I think this was when she was sick

[@rrmehboob]

Loni is definitely drinking a lil sumthin behind that camera and in between shots 🤔

[@omphilemoerane2569]

Right all that giggling 😅

[@rahmaosman3543]

Two and a half? What is this? A house?😑😑😑🤔

[@KS-ec9ib]

I don't know what it is but I find Adrienne so so annoying. Whenever she starts to speak, I have to mute my volume. I can't help it I can't stand the way she speaks. I just want to hear the others speak more for once please.

[@charlesaveryjr9084]

Fallow the Leader which can't do now Based .🤣😡😤😎

[@genehicks7421]

Take pitty on them more to say...treatn like a baby..bs

[@user-DianaR960]

Yes Garcelle !!! 👏🏽

[@yobiwolrd07]

A lot of women are in denial in the comment section.........

[@cookie-sn5ex]

Explainnn

[@msbosslady1712]

I hate a toxic man but, I seem to always attract them though

[@stxrlegacyent5351]

Lol

[@kellycraddock269]

Hey I'm a big fan

[@fatmaayan5104]

Where is my girl Jeanie??

[@kizzyhartsfield6660]

I am ROTFLMAO I AM SCREAMING

[@iriswilson2050]

I would love to see Loni's past boyfriends. What they look like😳

[@Arizona_lilly]

Loni.looks amazing

[@luisstanker1491]

It is always her own decision to search for bad Boys who missuse them,,, it is very stupid always make d same mistake on and on again,,, no mercy.

[@kaytaylor8912]

Adrienne comes across very naive even at her age. Loni comes across like she knows it all, I really dislike her, I don't feel she can be trusted, comes across sneaky.

[@Mel__21]

This reminds me when women say they want a bad boy and people take it literal. Lol well... at least for me I always thought they meant a dude that looks the part not literally a bad boy. Haha. That’s how I wanted it.

[@piriyab3239]

are we gonna talk about the hate crimes against asian americans?

[@brandDEK]

Is Adrienne over Loni? lol or is she over The Real?

[@SherryKayEveryday]

Omg I'm in a toxic relationship lol

[@tatianadaniel3569]

Yes; A LOT of women are attracted to toxic relationships.

[@kinndah2519]

Not as much as toxic men are addicted to women who will put up with their nonsense.

[@tatianadaniel3569]

@@kinndah2519 Huh???

[@kelseystramel5349]

I get it

[@lemoncholyme]

Ooooooh this topic...

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Gm edagdwg sad because she can't be real or live a real life sad you need help pray changes everything and people god is real true love is a real gift from god soooooo blessed to feel gods true love Linda j peace

[@gaila.9852]

How is that HALF of a baby mama?