Woman Breaks Up with Man After He Donates a Kidney to Her Mother

[@TF-gf3fs]

Well.. Given that she dumped her bf and married another man a couple of WEEKS after him giving her mother a kidney I'm inclined to believe his side of the story.

[@gaila.9852]

Did they start dating weeks later or get married weeks later?

[@agathachris9722]

Exactly

[@thaahirsamsodien9518]

@@gaila.9852 married weeks later

[@24kchefkimmy43]

Exactly, who gets married a few weeks after 🤔

[@24kchefkimmy43]

@@gaila.9852 married

[@kianah544]

It’s true that we don’t know the woman’s side of the story, but Loni is waaayyy off in thinking that women aren’t capable of doing wrong.

[@hannahwalmer1124]

Exactly.

[@teresamarie7460]

Loni knows women can be selfish and manipulative because her own mother made her homeless at sixteen years old for a man.

[@nephilim9740]

exactly, I feel like Loni has a way of being so biais towards women: some women are vicious, as a woman I remember how some female peers were during high school to university

[@lilouliving]

@@nephilim9740 very mean and spiteful in school

[@AuraLifewithAsh]

My thought exactly…she’s wrong for that.

[@mattquintana7814]

Loni, girl, women ain’t saints. And are just as capable of being cruel

[@lavonnealexander6936]

What she did was cruel? Smh 🤦🏿

[@mattquintana7814]

It’s not that what she did was cruel she shouldn’t be forced to stay with anyone she doesn’t want to be with. What I’m saying is that Loni is implying that she wouldn’t use him like that because she’s a woman when woman are just as capable of using people the same when men use people. Being someone who uses people isn’t gender specific.

[@alexandraanderson3988]

@@mattquintana7814 What??? Oh please loni she said that lmaooo women can be bad & way worse if they want to be tbh.

[@britbritnicole]

Why do we always act like only men can be the trifling ones in relationships? I feel like she used him and just left him hanging.

[@agathachris9722]

Its plain bias and sexism. Women can do no wrong while men are most likely in the wrong according to some people.

[@BayouKitchenGuy]

Im glad a female said it. You a real one. She had a whole man on the side.

[@mardjo595]

I know. If he's telling the truth and she married another man within a matter of weeks after the breakup, then she probably only held on until he donated the kidney and then broke up with him.

[@malishaguerrier]

She definitely was plotting. Dumped him and remarried, definitely plotting. Instead of scamming him outta money, she scammed him out of a kidney

[@agathachris9722]

Yep

[@muhammadanwar1698]

Wonder how this would work in judge judy

[@malishaguerrier]

@@muhammadanwar1698 she’ll have her pay him a hefty fine lol

[@gaila.9852]

This is why you do things out of the kindness of your heart. He should never regret saving someone’s life.

[@MajesticMyronn]

I don’t think it’s the deed that’s the issue ! It’s the actions after the deed and the time frame… she had to have done something on the side enable for this to have happened the way it did

[@thaahirsamsodien9518]

No one said he regretted it. It's about the principle. Not that you should be forced to stay with someone, but giving up a kidney is no damn joke. People really underestimate how hard it is. Your body feels like it's dying and giving up for months after.

[@C2G2]

Amen and amen to this story 💯❤️🙌🏿

[@gaila.9852]

@@MajesticMyronn Gotcha, I’m not familiar with this story because I don’t use TikTok.

[@gaila.9852]

@@thaahirsamsodien9518 I never said he regretted it. I said he shouldn’t as in I hope he doesn’t.

[@yayadrew]

Why is Loni acting like women can't be evil and cunning! Deceit in relationships are real.

[@agathachris9722]

Yeah!

[@hannahwalmer1124]

As she’s laughing at the story in the beginning. That was so crass and disrespectful.

[@lukel4111]

Clearly Loni would ditch her bf and remarry her secret second partner even if he donated a kidney to her mother. If people try and defend something fucked up, it means they'd do it themselves.

[@alexandraanderson3988]

Exactly

[@alexandraanderson3988]

@@hannahwalmer1124 Exactly if it was the other way around and a woman was in that situation I bet u she wouldn’t be laughing tbh I guess.

[@mandys1038]

We don't know the woman's side of the story but come on you cannot say that was not shady of her to dump him and marry another man just weeks after this happened. Clearly she had a relationship going with someone else and took this man for granted. I'm glad Garcelle and Adrienne disagreed with Loni women can definitely do wrong, they can be just as heartless as a man if not worse at times.

[@gigachad-nd2no]

What to hear from the women side he literally donated his organ to her mother no guy who don't love her women will not do that you should love her that much to donate his kidney very sad about him

[@LockedInNOW]

Loni , ANYONE is capable of doing ANYTHING , no matter the Sex , Gender Etc .

[@johnh138]

Thank you! Just admit the lady was wrong. Women can be wrong in relationship situations too! My God!

[@LockedInNOW]

@@johnh138 Word like what ?!!!!

[@adamgranger5653]

If this chick knew she was gonna marry another guy, how come she didn't go to her groom and ask for his kidney to donate to her mom instead? Cause that's so tacky to take an organ from a dude and then bounce from the relationship. He deserves better than that

[@omphilemoerane2569]

He was probably not a match.

[@ThinkingLikeAVIRTUOUSWoman]

We can’t act like women can’t be as conniving as men. If a man had done this to a woman, it wouldn’t be a question about “knowing his side”. I know some messed up women

[@xhosa789]

Some people use you in relationships for years. Then when they get what they need they leave you. Trust me I’m going through it

[@827honey1]

People are trifling and there is no way I would ever consider giving any boyfriend or girlfriend a kidney. I mean imagine doing something like that and then being told welp or I don't owe you anything. So yeah I am keeping both my kidneys and will wear black to the funeral.

[@tomoyat727]

💯 definitely agree!

[@kimson305]

So basically you saying you would only donate for something in return🤦

[@827honey1]

@@kimson305 No I am saying I would not donate one of my kidneys to anyone. People are selfish and would take advantage of my kindness and then spit on me. See what George Lopez did to his wife and see another story where a girl donated a kidney to her boyfriend not only did her cheat on her and break up with her but threw that kindness in her face as her only doing it for attention. Also if something goes wrong with my now one kidney who is going to donate to me. So now I am on a transplant list for something that may not happen and sees me die. I would donate bone marrow or part of my liver no problem but never a kidney with the way people operate. It has nothing to do with money. People are selfish and will only look out for their self interest so you need to move accordingly.

[@meshah5153]

I received a deceased donor Kidney and that was the greatest gift I was ever given, he literally gave her mother life. I feel she was dead wrong and she gone suffer for that .

[@brittanykrystine3714]

That’s messed up

[@randomcommenter1237]

Loni’s take is very bizarrre - especially when all 3 of them have admitted to cheating and lying to their partners. Pls 🙄 Women are VERY capable of this behavior - go on Reddit and you’ll see that the stories of women being brutally cheated on equal the stories of men being brutally cheated on. No gender is inherently anything. Anyone can be awful.

[@dawncullen0214]

Reddit...where men are the "victims"🤣

[@anoelsilliw5256]

Loni. She used that man for a kidney. She had another man lined up. That woman was trifling asf. No. Women CAN be like that.

[@jemimajanvier4706]

As a woman, I would be pissed if a man did this to me, and I think any man would be justified if they are the receiver of this type of behavior. I feel like we love to tell men that they don't deserve x,y, and z from women and sometimes it can be very tone deaf

[@Arianah192]

No matter what, someone shouldn’t be required to stay with someone. If you donate your kidney it should be because your a kind person and you are giving a gift because you want to save someone life. It should not be a transaction to get someone to stay with you.

[@j.m.t.p7806]

Exactly but in this circumstance the woman was in the wrong.

[@randomcommenter1237]

Of course not, but to be betrayed like this is another level

[@Prince_the_One]

Obviously she set him up.

[@agathachris9722]

Americans in general are selfish and they have no understanding or concept of gratitude. In most other cultures, this act would mean you owe them your life.

[@Prince_the_One]

@@agathachris9722 AmErIcAnS stop

[@annatar6453]

Gentlemen, husband treatment is for wives not girlfriends

[@nicolejohnson5604]

She had to planned it. But that's wrong

[@midnightfox3157]

Loni’s right we don’t know the woman’s side of the story but if what the man said actually happened I highkey feel that that’s very disrespectful to do to anyone man or woman

[@marykay7878]

adrienne's jewelry is giving me LIIIIIFE....

[@MajesticMyronn]

When I tell you me and my mom jaws dropped when we heard this story on Tiktok ! Your man gives ur sick mother s kidney and after doing such a good deed as that… he gets suffer and not only have a broken heart but now he has to live without a kidney and he gets his payback by exposing your no good selfish ways

[@agathachris9722]

It's really horrific. In most cultures, this is considered a life's debt.

[@Zoctao]

My husband gave me a kidney 2 years ago. I've heard stories about spouses donating kidney but divorcing years later because things just didn't work out. It was really interesting.

[@mookiesmith18]

The double standards again with Loni. If it was the other way around, she would've defended the women. 😆

[@hannahwalmer1124]

I can hear already “This is why we as women have to be careful with who we sleep with!” Omg. Loni is as nuts as the woman who did the damn thing

[@laurenthomas1445]

She doubt avwoman will do that. For a minute I was wondering old she is.

[@mirach274]

It's not because you give an organ that a person should be grateful till the end of her life by accepting a hell of a toxic relationship. This is applicable to a boyfriend, a mother, a father, a friend or else. I hate people to whom you have apologised for a mistake and they will still bring it up years after and play the victim. OMG .

[@ThankGod4Jesus]

If you’re giving an organ, do it from a good place. Like, don’t expect ANYTHING in return.

[@gaila.9852]

Amen!

[@user-om8lu4nq4v]

Agreed.

[@gregoryjones9546]

She Definitely Took Advantage Of Dude,She Had Her Back Up Man Waiting In The Wings,She's Just Straight Up SHADY!!! 🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🧐🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨😠😡🤬

[@carmonthompson1602]

I donated my kidney to my sister, I commend him and feel bad for him because he was used period!

[@blaqmermaiid]

True story, my cousin needed a kidney for YEARSSSS.. everytime we saw him, he's with a new girlfriend who potentially was a match and wanted to help him out. Now as much as i loved my cuz, i didnt like how this was used as a hook to get a transplant. I even thought of donating for him.. but i thought .. nah.. he is gonna be reckless with his life anyway and Id like to save it for a family member who absolutely needed it (like my father). Fast forward to now.. my cousin got a kidney.. refused to get vaccinated and passed away after getting covid. I feel like this was avoidable.. but u have to be careful once u give a part of yourself.. that person on the receiving end is gonna live their life like its golden and ur gonna feel resentful if its the wrong one.

[@KharisB.A]

From all indications, the woman was having an extra-marital affair with the man she's with now. The opportunity to come clean with her ex-husband about how she wants out of the marriage was when he decided to donate his kidney to her mother. Then the man could have decided to donate his kidney to her mother out of the goodness of his heart and not expect payment in the form of the woman still staying in the marriage out of gratitude. She didn't tell him because she knew there was a high probability that the man might not go ahead. That is what she did evil. You can't do such when there's a life at stake; the life of someone you have long intended to kick out of your life. What if he hadn't made it through the procedure?

[@agathachris9722]

Evil.

[@ivorenesmith9003]

The man she was with that gave her mom the kidney was her boyfriend, they were not married.

[@tatianadaniel3569]

@@ivorenesmith9003 Either way, she was still wrong.

[@ivorenesmith9003]

@@tatianadaniel3569 yup, I know her actions were suspect but the OP's comment and her adding extramarital affair and what not, I was like wait.. I had to listen to that part again lol.. but yeah, that's some story smh..

[@tatianadaniel3569]

@@ivorenesmith9003 😉👍

[@dadyzheart92]

Exactly Adrienne!!! Forgive you for doing wrong by yourself & God-- hold yourself accountable & don't slip up again!!♡🔥

[@maame6224]

Yes we don't know the whole story. But Loni, do not say " u don't see a woman doing that"!

[@alexandraanderson3988]

And did garcelle just say I do I’ve seen it lmaooo because if she did I’ll love her for that even more because that’s so true she’s the real deal if she did say that.

[@joshualongoria8631]

Loni sometimes be low-key getting on my nerves with this always taking women side mentality.

[@lstarsabb]

I don't even think it even to side with women she just loves to disagree and have the last word.

[@kaki_karei]

🎯

[@realityclips6052]

@@lstarsabb ikr

[@its_just_marvlus]

She's getting embarrassed even on youtube for doing this kind of thing

[@sassibrit]

That's why u do things from your heart.. not for approval of others.. I can definitely see a woman doing tat loni...

[@octavia8942]

I believe it! People will do anything for their mom… 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@thati_monaheng]

Ade’s glam team hasn’t missed this season 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@alittlebitofthisandthatwit3143]

True story. I knew this young man who needed a kidney. He came into a substantial amount of money from a lawsuit. His aunt was a match and donated one of her kidneys to him and out of gratitude he decided to gift her a brand new car. Several years passed and the aunt decided she wanted to up grade her car and that her nephew should be the one to buy it because she donated her kidney to him. He said no and she got so mad that she sent her sons the recipient of the kidneys cousins to beat the kidney out of him! He survived the beating thank god and is fine.

[@squidmom390]

That's so messed up!!! Smh

[@flyingchong]

Regret does nothing for you. Such a simple yet freeing statement that I've learned, and still trying, to live by. This relates to their earlier topic this week of better late than never. Do you regret not going for something earlier? Well, you can't change the past, but you can change that now. Better late than never 💗

[@ladymissy5078]

I do believe in teaching children that some mistakes you can't come back from. Teaching consequences to poor actions are crucial. And we are capable of learning what not to do from those with experience.

[@sadiethrockmorton1296]

I can’t take my eyes off Garcelles wig!! It looks like it should be center 😭 lol I love her but I can’t stop looking!!

[@JeremiahWalton]

You know those old toys that you hold the stick and the 2 little balls git each other. I think they are called "Clackers" I could be wrong. But anyways, Loni's laugh in the episode sounds like them 🤣

[@kaki_karei]

The cackling used to be fun but now it is so annoying!

[@lilian7864]

When your past is so present, how can there be a future. We learn from mistakes, so apply what you've learned and keep growing.

[@quentinjones6877]

Leave it to Loni to say we don't know the woman's side, let it be the other way around, there would be no questions asked

[@whynot9068]

Loni is showing how toxic some people can be

[@staruniver]

I don't carrying my mistakes with me i just learn from them so i can recognize and look out for deja vu

[@chrissiegaisie579]

moral of the story, never give a kidney to your spouse or their family. Give it to your own family rather

[@DeepakMatthews90]

Loni keeps slipping into her skewed her view of women, time and time again 🙄

[@dabrown8351]

Lonie had this been the other way around you would of never considered "the other side of the story" smh

[@QueLindaMay]

My grandmother always taught me, “No significant gifts until a marriage commitment is made!”

[@bubblingbubztheklown5902]

I just spot out my drink laughing at how 'the guilt I would feel I would probably stay for like 10 years'

[@alexandraanderson3988]

Right like 10 years I’m like get out with that garcelle lmaooo

[@Cantetinza17]

OMG, That is horrible. I want to know her side though. I agree with Adrianne. Don't forget your mistakes, but forgive yourself for the mistake.

[@sophistic8dladi3]

I would want my kidney back 🤣

[@nivyrivera]

Loni has no idea how manipulative a woman can be

[@ashleyrogers1930]

I saw this same story about a girl who donated a kidney to her boyfriend and he dumped her. This seems to be a trend that's going around and it may not be true.

[@oneinamillion8037]

Yes either way the woman was wrong to have that man give her the kidney especially, if she knew she wasn't going to be with him. That's terrible! She had to have that man already lined up.

[@crystalmasters8582]

Never really thought of that phrase being literally taken.

[@newlife9830]

She plotted that.

[@konioneal3239]

So none of them have seen an episode of SNAPPED then....?

[@CrystalDatingCoach]

Live and hopefully learn! Making the SAME mistake twice is dumb.

[@alexandraanderson3988]

Lmaoo you better do right- garcelle😊😁

[@fitpheyoga9234]

Thankful for my amazing cousin donating one of his kidneys to me. Trust me, it is harder on the recipient than the donor. I was home for three months recovering. After less than a week my cousin was at the movies watching Captain America! 😂 These comments confirm that much work needs to be done to debunk transplant myths and I will continue to do my part.

[@MYSTERIOUSasLOVE]

He made the decision to give the kidney out of kindness. Though this is a great act, it shouldn't force anyone to stay in the relationship.

[@michelleimogu9296]

is Loni for real? some women ain't sh*t, open your eyes 🙄

[@courtneymcmillan7546]

Make sure your relationship is solid before giving up a kidney 🤣🤣 I love Garcelle!

[@alexandraanderson3988]

😊 she’s a shady one too

[@afro_buddha4977]

People are capable of doing so evil things

[@jillw2607]

She would've had to plan the wedding and have deposits down well before the kidney was donated, like a month or 2 later? You can't get a venue, flowers etc in 1 month...

[@jemezieeriator1971]

How many times has loni waited to hear the men sides when things of these nature has happened, evil people exist both men and women period. If the woman knows that the man is trying to favour her for the bad things he has done to her, and she allowed him to pay with his kidney to her mother later dumped him, that's pure evil too, where is the forgiveness.

[@sonyadrake7843]

George Lopez left his Wife of 17 years after giving him a Kidney. Tracy Morgan broke up with his GF after giving him a Kidney. I'll keep mine! SMGDH

[@walidben1512]

Are you kidding me Loni !!!! Really !!!! "I don't see a woman doing this" ?! Lemme just give you some news, woman have done worse. We're not saying the man is a saint, but at least respect the fact he might've saved your mother's life for crying out loud. Nah this just ain't it.

[@dr.braxygilkeycruises1460]

I'm not giving you my kidney or any other body part. I am not co-signing for any loans *with no exceptions.* AND, *do NOT give me ANYTHING that you don't want me to have because I ain't returning* 💩 *!!!!!*

[@hannahwalmer1124]

Nope. They always wanna play the “only one side” when the MAN gets the sympathy. They never say this ish when a man does something foul to the woman. They just take the woman’s side all the time like the twin sister sleeping with her sister’s husband.

[@DearKeith]

The way I would’ve taken my kidney back.

[@fitarajones-wallace6682]

Trust me there are some conniving women out there🤥😩

[@Deactivatedbygoogle]

telling a lie to the woman sshe is surrendered her heart and soul to you .is no mistake ............ when you keep apologizing and one second after that repeating ..such person deserves or better to carry burden of destroying a good woman forever............

[@tiamarie6997]

Loni🤨 do u watch the I.d channel? Lifetime? Killer woman? Snapped? 🗣TF out oh here Chile😒 ✌🏾✌🏾

[@Tscranton1]

STOP ✋ Loni don't be stupid 😤

[@daniedeemash]

Yes Adrienne

[@Zahidafoodshare]

Double cheating right there.

[@PatricenotPatrick]

You can’t even get these chum bucket girls to go halves on a 2 for $20 though smh 😒

[@whynot9068]

Don't give girlfriends wife benefits

[@jayf2012]

I want my kidney back heifer!

[@StephB1989]

Get your kidney back😂

[@bibble1023]

Yea you’d have to give me my kidney back or stuffs gonna get messy

[@serenity3273]

I can't see a man marrying Loni. She bias against men ,because if the situation was reverse. She wouldn't have made that comment. She would had more sympathy

[@doneecemcneil7826]

Gm edagdwg god bless him for caring no matter what happened she has the right to move on he did it for the mother not her pay attention Linda j. Peace

[@Phillysavage]

This happened to me once :(

[@bluesky7364]

So bullshit! Loni is crazy. Stop feeling sorry for the pathetic girlfriend. The man doesn’t need you to criticize him after doing such a honorable deed.

[@grobbymuleya]

Maybe he just wanted to save her mothers life because she was good to him. I have a theory, usually if a man is abusive the woman tends to stay longer for fear of potentially escalating the abuse let alone being involved with another man. If he cheated it usually is a shock to the woman which she’d break up with him and take sometime before moving on to another relationship. I think he was a nice guy she settled for but she out grew/lost attraction for him. The quickness with which she married another man is very telling. There’s a 50% chance my analysis is off but there’s a 50% chance that I’m spot on Lol

[@KeashaRyan]

I'd only donate my organs to my husband, siblings, parents or my kids.

[@SymonnePat]

Loni is living in lala land. Us women can be vicious creatures.

[@ceemapanda4811]

Epic ❗❗

[@phaiag1727]

I feel like some woman on tik tok just got dumped after giving her boyfriend her kidney. Maybe they should meet up....... and let’s keep our kidneys. Or if you give them, just know you might not get anything back.

[@paulagabriele3512]

I needed to hear the second part of this video. Thank you 🤗

[@maryamferos]

What watch is Adrienne wearing?

[@benjaminreyes3624]

Why give her your heart when she only wants a purse

[@lstarsabb]

Or maybe she was disparate to save her mother so used this guy for kidney. Come she had plans to marry another guy. Even if he was a terrible boyfriend her leaving him after saving her mother to be with other guy makes her the villian. If he was a terrible boyfriend she should have left sooner, but it's the fact that her mother needed a kidney she stayed.