Theresa Connects With A Child With Down Syndrome Who Passed Away From Drowning | Long Island Medium

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[@susanalarwer914]

Is there a way I can email Thera .

[@cathybuis9439]

If you'd closed caption your videos I would, but can't hear them so....

[@sarahdixon1943]

The father ... that pain and guilt he carries has to be crushing.

[@stacydavis1682]

We cannot watch our children 24/7. Life does not work that way. There is a difference between neglect and normal living. It is obvious this child was not neglected. I wish the father peace.

[@marytea1000]

Well stated. It was an accident.

[@flippy_11]

so well said ❤

[@hokudadog7637]

💯

[@mainelady2020]

Sir,u were NOT careless..u were on the phone..it is impossible to keep eyes on our child EVery second all day..this was a TRAGIC ACCIDENT

[@ddrebrne3336]

You don't think he didn't have that going through his head constantly??? Shut up!

[@huitrecouture]

Yes it is possible WHEN YOU HAVE A POOL???? WTF. Nobody said it wasn't an accident. You must be a Democrat full of excuses. You get a goddamn pool cover and lock he can't operate.

[@mainelady2020]

@@huitrecouture politics involved? Hahahahaha

[@mainelady2020]

@@ddrebrne3336 exactly!

[@dorenemadrzykowski8426]

She kept saying "on his watch"...deep anger and resentment.

[@mandyellis876]

And why not when she’s stating facts?

[@staceyboyd4508]

it’s not right to say period!!!!

[@sukidesu85]

She needs therapy. To be honest.

[@kathe9662]

Those little jabs are her pain. This dad is/was living in his pain of guilt as his penance. Blessings to the parents, extended family & friends. My husband & i, My boy's were 5 & 2 we went to the river, my boys didn't want to go further into the river they were sitting at the shore line in 4inches of water for 2 yards, my husband was standing at the backed up truck watching. I went further towards the middle of the river which was below chest high i immediately turned around to go back but my 2 year old tried to follow me and the current was already carrying him away i rushed toward him but the current picked up and i was screaming trying so very hard to run he was floating toward the heavier current & i dove to him and caught his hair i pulled him to me gathered him up to take him out of the water but he wasn't breathing he was a rag doll, while rushing out of the water i turned his body away from me & was trying to press his stomach in with my forearm & just leaving the water he started choking & crying, I'll never forget his face just below the water surface his mouth was wide open as if he was yelling & his eyes were opened huge. Every time in my life when i would scream, yell or just say "God Help Me" he would..& he did.

[@annamarielewis7078]

She’s angry because it’s easier than being sad.

[@anavigil7603]

I agree, the anger is outside of herself and in some ways may be protecting her from even a deeper/darker sadness. May she be able to process and lessen the anger more each day. It's so tragic.

[@deedee9312]

She must learn to forgive and live ❤

[@ccrow9147]

No one could have said it better.

[@CDSantilo]

Anger is one of the stages of Grieving.

[@cortneyoverstreet8130]

I feel bad for Dad. I hope Mom finds a healthy way to find healing and release her anger and pain in healthy ways.

[@martymcfly5764]

He should have been supervising his son properly. If the mother did this, everyone would be attacking her. But because it's a man, he automatically gets a pass for his laziness and incompetence. Double standards as usual.

[@AnitaCole-ug6nq]

Of course we know children should be supervised, and we also know mistakes happen and there's a reason for everything that comes our way and you don't know if anyone would be attacking the mother this is about healing for both of them not for people to throw blame around ​@@martymcfly5764

[@angelacriss3449]

He passed away on my husband's watch...... The tone of her voice is sooo unforgiving. He lost a child too!

[@mandyellis876]

He was on the phone, not supervising his kid around an open water source!! I could fully comprehend her rage.

[@vrazalico455]

​@@angelacriss3449when you know that you have an open pool and the kid can acces that pool, that kid needs to be watched every second of close the door so he cant go to the pool and that talk on your phone. Yes some parents DO watch their kids and think one step ahead! I do understand her anger but that wont get her son back she needs to forgive him it was a stupid mistake he will never forgive himself that is hard enough.

[@angelacriss3449]

@vrazalico455 now you join the band wagon! Listen, stop trying to come for me! I said what I said, and it's a fact. He lost his son, too! All I did was repeat what she ( mom) said. Because of that, you think that I was harsh. I wasn't! Don't read anymore into what I said, even though you tried to anyway.

[@lavenderkisses9461]

I think they both are just devastated. It’s hard.

[@lindawarzala115]

Who knows …there may have been other marital problems going on prior to the death.

[@sandym6352]

Even when you know it's an accident, how HARD it must be to not feel some sort of blame. My heart breaks for them.

[@martymcfly5764]

Some sort of blame? Why wouldn't he feel all the blame when he's the one solely responsible for what happened? An accident is having a minor fender bender or dropping a glass while you're washing the dishes. This wasn't an accident and it could have and should have been prevented, so don't minimize it. Otherwise men will continue to get away with being bad partners and parents.

[@slvrbullet22]

AS a mother of an autistic child who elopes and puts herself in danger often.. this breaks my heart. I too would feel so angry like Mom is. Ive often asked myself if something happens not on my watch how would i feel? and this exact reaction is me.. i wouldnt want to be with the man who fathers my child however after seeing this it opens my eyes to the possibility of accidents happening. We do try our best with these kids and it takes 2 seconds to be life changing. My heart hearts for all of them.

[@lindatamburri]

Their son saying that the dads souls journey was to carry the burden of guilt so the mom didn’t have to….wow. That is the most powerful thing I’ve ever heard Theresa communicate. I’m praying for this family…that this reading helps them to live again

[@annamarielewis7078]

What a lovely man. He truly loved his son unconditionally. So tragic. I hope he doesn’t continue to suffer. It was not his fault.

[@leah__gail]

I’m a medium myself and could see their little boy standing between them with his arms around them both…he also ran between Theresa and his mom while Theresa was talking to them. He was SO ecstatically happy to be able to communicate with them!! He said “I’m happy and healthy!” 🥰🥰🥰❤️

[@Kaylynn10-5]

You can’t communicate through screens

[@leah__gail]

@@Kaylynn10-5 Honey, it’s the energy. Everything is energy, and energy leaves imprints. I do phone readings, txt and email all over the US. When you’re sensitive to the energy, you can pick it up at any time, any place, any dimension.

[@christinemohr8788]

​@@Kaylynn10-5didn't say she was communicating, said she saw him

[@ELH603]

​@@Kaylynn10-5How do you know?

[@tarrynb14]

@@Kaylynn10-5FR

[@Jessica-mw3wr]

This father, this beautiful father. I feel for him so much.

[@warrenbutler8990]

The dad is so broken. ❤❤❤❤😢😢😢

[@ikaikatheesenegalparrot]

That little boy fixed a marriage better and faster than a marriage counselor. I was crying thru the whole reading. Beautifullest thing I’ve ever witnessed. ❤❤❤

[@btcrazee1]

A friend told me before we come to earth, it is decided how we leave, and nothing can change that. I hope this family can overcome.

[@laila8202]

my husband was killed in a motorcycle accident. He was only 36. the lady across the road came over about 6 months later and she told me that she was an emergency room nurse. She told me that she had patients who were so battered, torn up, beatened or burned that it would have been a blessing if they passed but they lived. It wasnt their time yet. she had patients who had just a bad cold and they died. She said it was just their time to go. There is nothing you can do no rhyme or reason no explanation

[@maha77]

I totally understand her feelings but the bigger picture is each soul has it's own entry and exit point and it's not the husbands fault

[@tamt5846]

What a beautiful child!! My heart breaks for this couple. What a tragic accident. I truly hope they can mend their marriage.💕

[@alyblakeley9526]

Even if she's a fake, this couple needed someone to say these things.

[@amymarshall9263]

Wow, poor Dad. That guilt and Mom's resentment.

[@TightyWhiteyTrash]

All Theresa said was, “who is the young male that passed away,” and the father had already teared up. They were loving parents and there wasn’t much else they could do, BUT love him. Just a tragic accident. RIP lil man 🤍

[@daniwarren8642]

Wow. I am amazed every time Theresa changes the lives of the broken . She is a Blessing to everyone she meets! ❤

[@RosemarieVillarreal-wh5kz]

Nothing compares to losing a child

[@RosemarieVillarreal-wh5kz]

I understand her anger.

[@MrLou061]

So do I understand 💔

[@april4848]

I feel bad for them, sending the Dad a huge hug! He's a good Man!

[@doodles3075]

My heart breaks for this wonderful husband. We cant walk through life constantly watching our children, sometimes we have to look away even if its for a second. It wasn't his fault. They both need to grieve together❤ Just wonder if Teresa picked a chandelier?

[@carolhawley3097]

Atleast she was very honest about how she feels. I hope they make it.

[@henkirma2770]

De vader heeft zo veel liefde voor zijn zoon, dat moet de moeder toch ook weten. Wat een pijn en verdriet voor hun, maar het heeft geen zin om je schuldig te voelen want het gaat om de mooie momenten die ze hadden met hun zoon, en dat wilde hij hun ook laten weten

[@lorrieaustin4997]

So very sorry for your loss. You had an amazing son. Shane is with God.

[@loookaroundyou]

They still have an amazing son! :)

[@CS-pi5oc]

He is whole now. I saw a vision of my father in law after he died and in life he was blind in one eye and carried sadness from being abused. He came smiling, carrying a wiseness abt him, and his eye was repaired. He was whole. It was your sons time. Had it not been a pool it could or would have been some other means of passing.

[@murdahmammiez]

She has so much resentment. I dont think their mariage will survive

[@redo73]

Sadly it won't....even with their son's encouragement.

[@SophieBeaudoin-l2s]

Her anger is palpable, and I can understand it. I wish, however, that she could see that accidents can happen to anyone. Imagine how he feels… poor parents. ❤

[@maureenmowie5497]

Sir your wound is not to big for God .He knows you meant no harm forgive yourself and restore your marrage. Many blessings to you from a mom that lost her child as well .

[@deedee9312]

What about her … you give good advise but the mom blames the dad and stays for what ?!!! It’s sad 😢

[@redo73]

Awwh Dee is being admired from heaven by her besotted husband. She is beautiful 🎉

[@jowhite4048]

That poor man I feel so much for him and his wife is never going to forgive him 😊❤

[@aileenquiroz4453]

What a cutie pie he was!

[@jodieblythe8207]

This would have to be the saddest reading ive watched i was crying so much 😢 i really hope mum and dad can stay together for each other ❤

[@Jdjustsaying]

Anyone who says they couldn’t have not concentrated on their kid for a few minutes is simply not telling the truth. That man needs forgiveness.

[@trishaferreira2309]

That poor man is hurting SO bad. One could tell even before the story was told. For Theresa to say that he was chosen to carry the guilt and pain is humbling. Imagine if the wife or daughter found the little boy. Dad is doing his best to keep from crumbling into a million pieces. I could only imagine the pain and torment with every one of his wife’s words or painful glances. I am of course very sorry for her and her daughter. She needed someone to blame. Life can change in an instant. I pray they can heal together and get through this horrific time. Treasure every moment. 🌹

[@philliplewis3754]

She needs some personal counseling for her anger. He's not angry with anyone but himself, he's crushed and her anger is crushing him even more! Less than unfair.

[@dianefort3984]

I certainly will be praying for this family. I pray they can make it through this and family still be together ❤

[@Sadames03]

Please parents if you have a pool on your property, please put a gate around it, for the safety of others including children.

[@JuliWalsh777]

😢 this is beautiful

[@cplmpcocptcl6306]

What a handsome little guy. My heart hurts, I cannot fathom the pain they must endure. Earth has lost a beautiful little spirit.😢

[@maha77]

The lady in the reading at the end, Dee, is so beautiful inside and out

[@darlene9084]

It's really sad that this father feels such guilt about his son. I can understand why he feels that way but it's sad. And the fact that his wife carries such anger towards him is sad, understandable but sad. I pray they are in a better place now. Rest in peace Shane!

[@creatingyourlifeconsciously]

This happened to a little boy in my neighborhood a few months ago. Although his 10-year-old sister was watching him and they had an indoor pool. The child was too. I cannot imagine the guilt that this little 10 year old girl will carry with her for the rest of her life

[@hummingbird2254]

I think that 10 is too young to be watching a younger sibling especially when there is an indoor pool in the house.

[@creatingyourlifeconsciously]

@@hummingbird2254 obviously it didn’t work out well for this family.

[@Itsbeebbyy]

An accident can happen to people who are even watching their kids like hawks, i feel bad for the dad he will always carry that guilt. I hope they can work it out, holding in so much anger is so bad you end up getting bitter.

[@ronnietarantino2809]

One of my favorite episodes ever. The soul choosing its destiny to take the burden for her is so eye opening!

[@jennbed1899]

I hope they both find a way to overcome this and that they are strong enough to save their marriage.

[@danielaanchora1161]

Such a great father

[@Mandy-rx7rq]

She's so Incredibly good.

[@JoyceCunningham-hm3fh]

This bought tears to my eyes,its a true saying you always hurt the one you love. I hope the two of them are now living a happier life together ❤❤...xxxx

[@bjwaugh2857]

My brother and his wife lost their daughter in 1981..she ran out in front of a pick up truck coming home from school..she was 6..my brother and sister in law are still together

[@jackiemurria3966]

This hurts so bad I'm so sorry for your loss so sorry 😞❤🌹

[@southshields21]

most painful reading ever!!! hope they can move on and be happy and stay together and work out issues. Coudn't help but cry the entie reading . their son was the cutest boy!!!

[@babyfunsize1188]

To lose a child is one thing, but to be responsible & having to live with that guilt is unimaginable. I hope that poor father finds forgiveness within himself, praying for peace amongst that family.

[@danafrancis3658]

This poor father. Oh man, my heart breaks for you.. God Bless you; you are loved!!!

[@myriahmichalski3362]

That poor husband, its not your fault ❤

[@kevinturner3997]

Having raised 3 children, try as you might, they can hurt their selves in an empty room. It only takes a second, I felt so sad for the father of the little boy.

[@doreenfogarty2664]

I hope they all find peace, so sad,, but have the good memories. Don't blame yourself, they love each other. Sad story. Bless everyone. 🕊️🌹🌅

[@carmagurl317]

I feel so much for this family. They are both hurting tremendously. He is a strong man. I hope they can work it out.

[@gwenvandervelde7090]

😢 she is sooooo angry. But he has been punished enough. Sending love and healing to them all❤

[@jenniferw.1874]

This is heartbreaking. I wish I could get a reading from Theresa. I would love to connect with my dad, in hopes of healing from losing my hero.

[@SandraKindreich]

I hope they both find peace ❤

[@cristinagreen2823]

You can tell she is done. They need at least a separation so she can figure out what she wants

[@annamarielewis7078]

She looks done. He could probably find a new wife who doesn’t hate him.

[@be.someones.rainbow]

I can't imagine the guilt he has and the pain she feels. However, they both were responsible for creating a safe environment. It was a tragic accident, but to cast sole blame is unfair. I pray they both heal from this loss. I couldn't imagine being in their position 💔💔💔

[@ColemanRG]

Theresa is the most compassionate therapist. She is making the connection with the needs of surviving families, and messages from departed loved ones.

[@la57mo]

Accidents happened. He did not come from parents who neglected him. Instead they loved him dearly and it was evident while he lived and still is evident after his death.

[@sland6428]

I can’t even imagine how the mother feels - I feel for her so much I hope her heart can heal a little 😞💝

[@aprilfisher4947]

I feel for the father who will forever carry the guilt and other feelings the mother won't know while she blames him to try and justify everything.

[@ozfreak26]

I love this couple. I wish them peace.

[@clairejourdheuil5762]

I teach young kids with disabilities how to swim many of which have Down syndrome. This is just another example of how important enrolling all kids in swim lessons is regardless of disability. Drowning is fast and silent.

[@keepinthefaith777]

God Bless you Theresa!

[@NatashaLetourneau]

Time does not heal all wounds… I thought that until I lost my sister

[@mediumshipwithmel]

Wow, this is such a powerful reading. I can understand this woman's anger but also all of the feelings from this man as well. How heartbreaking, but what a beautiful message. I also haven't seen Teresa lose it during a reading. But, I understand. I brought through a little boy who drown in a pool as well, and I had so much emotion afterward.

[@nohahaggag]

What Theresa does is nothing less than amazing.

[@gymnast8865]

one of THE most beautiful episodes I saw from Theresa. So glad for this couple

[@liurodriguez5964]

I wish to know these couple, they need to pray and hold on and they need healing because their other daughter needs them! May God bless and release them from any guilt, rage, or anything else that is hurting them even more.

[@kelligreer3975]

My heart breaks for those parents. But they will ALL be together again.

[@karenjordan5731]

Darn you are amazing!!!

[@gaylens.s.saunders-goebel8061]

That is a wonderful family and a good man!

[@Heyitsjennaaaa]

Poor dad. You can tell how much he loved him. The mom needs to not make it about her because dad lost his baby too

[@beachbliss9366]

They’re better off breaking up. She’s not going to forgive him. It would be cruel to expect him to live with someone who can’t show him empathy, for the rest of his life. He’s better off starting again with someone new.

[@bobbibroadwater818]

Honestly, this could have happened to either one of you. It just happened to happen to his father. You need to love, understand and support each other. This was a tragedy that should bring you closer. Do not blame his father.

[@murphyville]

It was a tragic accident!

[@xx-wy5ot]

But avoidable. All drownings are through lack of supervision. Avoidable

[@veronicalidstrom5424]

The good old days when it was Larry and ❤Theresa! She's such a blessing to this lovely family that needs Healing. Such a sweet little buddle of joy their son was.😢

[@Amandavg]

You can tell that Shane was such an absolute light to the world. His smile was so beautiful and infectious. I really hope that his family can learn to heal and forgive.

[@roseambrose7971]

Prayers for this family. ❤i hope that you family heals from this horrible situation.

[@madelynwallh6524]

Love her personality and the lovely messagrs she gives to them who need it.

[@lindakeating5991]

Peace to all

[@lisabarrios6046]

She most definitely needs to realize it is not his fault, no matter how much u love & try to supervise ur children there are times u can't stop them from doing some things even if ur the one who is always with them, u just can't & when it's time for someone to go with the Lord it's just time no matter what. Forgive your husband okay

[@lilylee5924]

Theresa is amazing! Love watching her readings. She brings peace to the people that need it. Theresa and her husband are a joy to watch.

[@crystalrusmisel1832]

I know this doesn’t compare but my father lost me. I was literally missing for an extended period of time as a toddler. Luckily I was found and was ok but my mom 44 years later still holds resentment towards my father for not watching me. Can’t imagine loosing a child for good what parents go through.

[@dianafromcalifornia5127]

I felt a few times I lost my kids in crowds etc. I hope she forgives him for this accident.

[@Sealutions1]

poor guy, the guilt he must feel, and then she pokes him about it constantly...... i cant imagine

[@sharonmeans5860]

Prayers for this family 🙏🙏God Bless you all ! ❤

[@emilylim7710]

Just bawling over here 😭❤️

[@mzjnicolelove]

I hope they got therapy to work through this even if they didn’t stay together

[@1Kaileegirl]

Please don't fight each other instead love each other Your beautiful boy Shane wants his family together and happy You were so blessed to have him he was a gift It is nobodys fault it was an accident Lean on each other and love one another One day you will see him again but for now you have to live life for him together for him RIP little man watch over your parents

[@cheryljones7872]

So sorry for your loss.xx

[@jeannettemcghee5775]

Your son Shane is so adorable sooy for your loss 🕊️✝️💌

[@sandramoore8903]

It could have happened during her watch too, kids are so fast. They both lost a child and a daughter lost her brother. I had a friend as a child who was hit by a truck while he was riding his bike. This boy didn't have any disabilities, he was just playing, like your son.

[@sharondavis6016]

The mother needs therapy because she does blame her husband. We also have to understand that mom who spent hours a day with her son now has time on her hands which gives her time to continue grieving but with deep down resentment towards her husband.