THESE 5 THINGS WILL COMPLETELY TRANSFORM YOUR HOME | HOME DECOR TIPS TO CREATING A CLASSY HOME

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House of Valentina

House of Valentina

Күн бұрын

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@franbeeber6132
@franbeeber6132 3 жыл бұрын
When I think of a classy person the first person that comes to mind is my Grandma. She didn’t have a lot but what She did was very well taken care of. He clothing was clean and pressed. Her home was clean and bright. Lots of light and plants. She was Greek and made the most healthy and delicious food. Everything was made with love. Lastly, she had the most beautiful smile and would never say a bad word about anyone. I think I really comes down to making the most of what you have and deep appreciation.
@silvergray2345
@silvergray2345 3 жыл бұрын
Now, that's classy! What a classy grandma u were gifted with. Beautiful
@lisabellissimo2896
@lisabellissimo2896 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ☺️ I feel the same way about mine. She was Serbian. Same as your Yaya , she wasn’t wealthy but she took care of everything and had class.☺️🇷🇺
@27Spiritgirl
@27Spiritgirl 3 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my own grandmother ...and my Mum! How fortunate are we to have such wonderful role models!
@jennaseaman8395
@jennaseaman8395 3 жыл бұрын
That is exactly what I would say
@jennaseaman8395
@jennaseaman8395 3 жыл бұрын
My grandmother made every pillow and every curtain and she ironed every sheet and pillow case.She always had classical music playing on low volume behind one of her two cushioned claw ottomans. Everything was always the same but very clean.
@kathrynp7595
@kathrynp7595 3 жыл бұрын
When my house is clean and uncluttered it gives me such a feeling of well-being 🌸
@mrsverovalera
@mrsverovalera 3 жыл бұрын
Same here. I mentally can’t function if I have mess and clutter around me.
@mikekufner1192
@mikekufner1192 3 жыл бұрын
Yes agreed! Clutter is not good for mental health!
@skbennett5761
@skbennett5761 3 жыл бұрын
I have an art studio in my house. It's only immaculate when I'm having a dry spell! I cannot work effectively without my paints & equipment within arm's reach. Otherwise, in our home spaces, I agree--untidy houses are depressing, and definitely no fun for guests.
@cindypatrick785
@cindypatrick785 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I’m on a roll of organizing these last few days.It makes me smile with satisfaction when I step back and look at my organized linen closet, or when I finish organizing paperwork in a 3 drawer shelving unit for my dads tax receipts and finally my laundry room 👏👏👏
@JSCDR
@JSCDR 3 жыл бұрын
Good quality is also a sign of a classy home. Wood or solid core doors, solid heavy door knobs, upgraded moulding, furniture that is sturdy and made well, solid faucets and hardware…really do make a difference in how your home is perceived. I bought a really nice home that lacked most of these things. I’ve been upgrading slowly. It makes all the difference!
@suzangroves959
@suzangroves959 3 жыл бұрын
Such a good point often missed x
@janereinhardt4715
@janereinhardt4715 3 жыл бұрын
Dean Sharp was talking about "the details" on his "House Whisperer" radio show this morning!
@rneustel388
@rneustel388 3 жыл бұрын
I agree completely!
@Haigkupelian2220
@Haigkupelian2220 3 жыл бұрын
Completely agree
@sherrydavis7920
@sherrydavis7920 3 жыл бұрын
I think classiness has little, if anything, to do with money or things, but with attitude of heart. One could live in a gorgeous mansion but demean, if not destroy, its ambiance with arrogant, self-centered behavior. My grandmother had very modest means. Yet she and her home were rich in graciousness and hospitality-always exuding peace, patience, self-control, gentleness, kindness, goodness and joy. Her humble home’s signature fragrance was the lingering aroma of freshly made biscuits,
@dgrahamdgraham
@dgrahamdgraham 3 жыл бұрын
How precious❣️
@mansky4499
@mansky4499 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. So true🤯💕
@christineboone2850
@christineboone2850 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! Money has nothing to do with it!
@lynnsalberg5647
@lynnsalberg5647 3 жыл бұрын
Your grandma sounds like a wonderful lady !
@notinselfies9369
@notinselfies9369 3 жыл бұрын
In times with very little extra $ or more ease I tried to provide warmth & welcome in my home. I love uncluttered spaces but homey with a simple vase of nature, books (old friends!) inviting very light natural scent & yes, quiet music & a prominent candle. A big basket to stash my kids’ or dogs’ toys is a must. I also love an inviting place to sit with a pillow or blanket. I have kept a little dish of revolving candies or chocolates next to the front door for years. When a guest is over I try not to be busy in the kitchen & just be more present. Some people have commented that I must be a perfectionist or look “perfect”. That breaks my heart because really the way I set my home is an act of love from me that says I care about you & want you make yourself at home. I think I’m trying to recreate the way my loving grandma made me feel at home.
@Hospitable_Home
@Hospitable_Home 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this video Valentina. My mom is the classiest person I know and she serves all her food on restaurant quality china with cloth napkins and crystal water glasses. Her motto is “when you can’t go out … go in” I live by it now. It’s so special to prepare meals in a classy way for my family. Again great video.
@wrmlm37
@wrmlm37 3 жыл бұрын
THAT! Lovely...
@dianaduganitz6172
@dianaduganitz6172 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this. My mother who has passed on now was always a very classy lady even though we grew up in what others would describe as a very poor home; she always made the house homey in a classy way and welcomed people into our home so beautifully with her Italian style and warmth. She was alway cooking in the kitchen and singing so beautifully. Everyday she would put herself together…her hair and the way she wore her clothes even if they were older and she couldn’t afford newer clothes she took care of what she had impeccably. Now as an adult I’ve had many comments especially when I was working on how I always look “put together” and people think I’m “classy”. I’ve had to get used to those comments because when I was younger I took that as them thinking I was “snobby”….. I know better now and smile inside when I think of mom.
@dianacooper-havlik9085
@dianacooper-havlik9085 3 жыл бұрын
Classical music in the background & amber lighting throughout our home. Very calming & welcoming. 🥰
@user-np7pq2gy1v
@user-np7pq2gy1v 3 жыл бұрын
I saw a recent video in which a lady showed how to make a bed properly, with no special linens! Oh, the care and attention to detail! She made the bed properly with just an older comforter and a top sheet over it. She washed the linens in special detergent, ironed the linens, sprayed them with linen fragrance, did the hospital corners. I felt soooo relaxed and special just watching the care that went into it. Beautiful and heartwarming to know that we can be content with whatever we have and make it special with cleanliness and gratitude and care! Lovely. Love this topic, Valentina!
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@vickicerruti
@vickicerruti 3 жыл бұрын
You make such a great point! Having a classy home doesn't have to be expensive or brand new, but instead is intentional with items that are well cared for and that oh so important attention to detail ❤
@ccadvisor489
@ccadvisor489 3 жыл бұрын
One of my biggest pet peeves is smelling a person’s cologne or fragrance that is so strong that it makes me want to leave the area to get a breath of fresh air. Being European my mother always dressed elegantly even when grocery shopping and she applied her fragrance sparingly. She was a great role model for me.
@nomvulavmoloko6255
@nomvulavmoloko6255 3 жыл бұрын
A classy home is a cultured home. My grandmother always had order and warmth in her home. She taught us manners like no slamming doors and screaming all over. Meal time were set, reading time was a norm and she overall, created a signature of "home".
@olgaanisimova6916
@olgaanisimova6916 3 жыл бұрын
This sounds like this should be the main focus around any classy home conversation. If there is no harmony, culture and warmth, no amount of candles or fancy moldings would make up for it
@MonicaB666
@MonicaB666 3 жыл бұрын
My dad was a real classy man. One of those who wore a classic cape to go to the concerts at the National Theater. He loved entretaining, and making sure everyone had always enough food and full wine glass on hand :) thanks for the video, Valentina, loved it 🥰
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
He sounds like an amazing man!
@wrmlm37
@wrmlm37 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you grew up in a privileged world. It's a bit easier to be "classy" when you can afford certain things. That being said, I love how much you loved your Dad.😊
@MonicaB666
@MonicaB666 3 жыл бұрын
@@wrmlm37 thank you :) Indeed, I was privilege indeed in having hard working parents who earned very good reputation in what they did for a living (my dad was a well known sound engineer). He worked very hard to get there though, he never got anything for free. No, that's a lie. They once won 500euros in a shopping mall and they spent it on a TV - that my mom still has now :) I think class comes with personality and wisdom, not money. Thanks for the comment.
@f8thfulmom
@f8thfulmom 3 жыл бұрын
A classy person never gives the impression that you’re an imposition to them, and as a host the smallest of details that your guest may need has been thought of already. Their home feels almost effortless. Yet, like your example of the ballerina a lot of time, and yes practice has been done. The pieces in their home feel very intentional and yet give a calm and relaxed feel. I also believe in the line between classy and …eww “showy”. I agree with the points you’ve shared. 😘
@annb1265
@annb1265 3 жыл бұрын
Regarding chipped nail polish, this year I discovered Kiss nails ($6-10 for 24). They're glue on. I've watched a few KZbin videos on how to get them perfect (rough up your nail, push cuticles back, file fake nail to your perfect fit, thin line of included glue down the middle, press on for five seconds and you're good for a week). Avoid spending $60 at the salon! I get compliments all the time. They come in a variety of lengths and colors, designs or sparkle.
@lindat.7520
@lindat.7520 3 жыл бұрын
Mine usually last 2 weeks thanks to those tips I heard from a KZbin 😃 and yes you’re right you save money for sure.
@peachfountain
@peachfountain Жыл бұрын
I'm a "young" millennial, prayerfully moving into our first house with our sweet daughter this year. I feel so daunted with the task of designing and crafting our home. I am excited, and definitely leaning on creators like Valentina and Nick Lewis to help me navigate this process. Thank you for making a body of work that is not afraid to celebrate elevated and excellent design. Please wish us luck! ✨🎀🏡✨
@JoR00ke
@JoR00ke 3 жыл бұрын
When my house is untidy I feel very anxious, unfortunately I have a husband who thinks every available surface is for dumping stuff on 😔, it's like clearing up after a 5 year old 🤭, bless him!! Really enjoyed this video x
@ferrisd7566
@ferrisd7566 3 жыл бұрын
Same and same plus my 12 year old son too. 🙂
@barbaranye9670
@barbaranye9670 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my! Sounds like my husband. Never meta flat surface he didn’t want to fill. So now I try to live by “pardon our mess. We are making memories”
@JoR00ke
@JoR00ke 3 жыл бұрын
@@barbaranye9670 ha ha I like that 😆
@wrmlm37
@wrmlm37 3 жыл бұрын
This has so frustrated me because I have balance and walking issues. So, this a.m., I started taking pics on my phone. I've had to leave NOTES in places where his leaving things out could be dangerous...I'm done being his Mom. He's a very intelligent person, very kind to his friends, but he considers the ENTIRE house, as his "man cave". Thing is, I DO NOT WANT TO HURT HIS FEELINGS. I do love him so. So, pictures tell a thousand words, right?
@JoR00ke
@JoR00ke 3 жыл бұрын
@@wrmlm37 hope it works for you 🤞
@DonnaRo
@DonnaRo 2 жыл бұрын
I think that feeling of awe that you see in a person is someone who appreciates life itself. 🥰
@bricksloth6920
@bricksloth6920 3 жыл бұрын
My sense of style largely derives from my grandmother. She was the classiest woman I ever knew. Her living room was the delight of professional interior designers, but additionally the furniture was soft to the touch and comfortable. Her personal style was always impeccable. She was always the most stylish woman in her church.
@cvonsutphen
@cvonsutphen 3 жыл бұрын
I've been working on a "signature home fragrance" for my essential oil diffusers. I love grounded earthy scents over florals. My blend is vetiver, lime, cedarwood and vanilla. It's fresh, earthy, warm and calming.
@ferrisd7566
@ferrisd7566 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds great!
@HR-re6mr
@HR-re6mr 3 жыл бұрын
I love all those scents!
@fpscherrer
@fpscherrer 3 жыл бұрын
Can you share your “recipe“ using that blend? Love all those scents!
@jw6180
@jw6180 3 жыл бұрын
Love oils, but I have cats and cannot use diffusers.
@silvergray2345
@silvergray2345 3 жыл бұрын
Classy for me is clean, neat and lightly scented. I visited a gentleman's home and it was a colonial style. Once I entered, I noticed the light scent of what I perceived to be some sort of candle that had not yet been lit. Like when u are in a store and remove the lid of a candle. It smelled like he had maybe three of those sitting around his home, on that level. I couldn't even tell u what his furniture style or anything at this point. I really enjoyed that scent. It wasn't heavy, feminine or masculine. It was soft but present. His home was quiet and I don't know if that's how he rolled everyday, as I was there on a short visit with someone else. I like all of the above however I enjoy jazz, gospel or a little classical music in my home. I like a bit of art, color flow (no matter the style of furniture, etc), a summer breeze, comfortable furniture and no lingering food smells, unless you're cooking. I also enjoy candles lit on any night. Any-whooo, that's all classy to me
@ElenaKamesh76
@ElenaKamesh76 3 жыл бұрын
Ciao, i remember my childhood home my Mom passed away many years ago, i'm so thankfull that she teached to as feeling of harmony & beauty, we didn't had candles or fashion magazines, instead had a lot of books, was tidy well organized, smelled flowers filled with happiness this is my home, hope my home feels like that, ciao 😘
@ForGoodnesSake
@ForGoodnesSake 3 жыл бұрын
Omg, I have that same lamp! I love the mercury glass with the linen shade, I got it 4-5 yrs ago an I love it!! . When I think of class I think of: clean house, everything put together well, coordinating colors and styles, no clutter, elegant soft textures, real wood(nothing plastic), beautiful shiny glass and mirrors, fresh cut flowers, nothing out of place, everything has a place, attention to details, fresh clean smell, natural and soft lighting...clean and pressed beds, no fake flowers or plants, fresh linens and soft music.
@michelleclark8099
@michelleclark8099 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite series added to your videos of what stylish people have in their homes. 👏👏. Please put together on a playlist.
@lexicalgap5191
@lexicalgap5191 3 жыл бұрын
There is a lack of stress in a classy person and a classy home. A lack of frustration too. So ergonomics is essential in a classy home.
@barbaraderossi7
@barbaraderossi7 3 жыл бұрын
I have 2 friends that have gorgeous homes no matter where they are living (NYC small apartments). they always decorate full not half done which I feel that your average person that is not going to drop 10k-20k to decorate stuggles with, half done. Elegant sophisticated homes are completed looking spaces. i call it "pulled together". Also agree completely if all of us just stopped and looked around each room and put things away and pulled all the visual clutter out of a room you would have an immediate calm and elegant feel to a room! :-) great reminder video HofV
@dw7939
@dw7939 3 жыл бұрын
To me, a classy person is empathetic and kind.
@desireeretiree
@desireeretiree 3 жыл бұрын
Agree.
@lalehousia5518
@lalehousia5518 3 жыл бұрын
Glad that you mentioned ambiance music , lower voice tone and minimum noise in a classy homes Sometimes we forget the importance of of hearing and focus on vision and smelling They work all together to creat a classy home
@hennahenna2800
@hennahenna2800 3 жыл бұрын
My mother always focused on not making noise in a kitchen when washing dishes or serving dinner..it should be done quietly so guests don't have to worry about host working so hard 😊
@debbiemize2269
@debbiemize2269 3 жыл бұрын
You have mentioned several times the Hotel scent, especially the candles. Could you give us a link as to where to purchase the candles?
@katemclean3301
@katemclean3301 3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Totally agree. I am feeling inspired to clean today. Have to say that I love your office and your vlog presentations. Saw a black and white pencil drawing Of a leopard on another channel and all I could think of was how great that would look behind YOU when you vlog. It was very large and under glass and mainly head depiction with a lot of white background. Designers never retire. The mind is still creating yet another vignette. Wishing you well Valentina.
@katemclean3301
@katemclean3301 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry. Big cat with spots.
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
That sounds beautiful!
@HOUSEFULLOFLEES
@HOUSEFULLOFLEES 3 жыл бұрын
This was an interesting topic. The music one was something I view different. I love lively music in the home, ie salsa, soco, reggae or any Afro Caribbean music makes me feel at home.
@HR-re6mr
@HR-re6mr 3 жыл бұрын
Sounds like fun and energetic!
@taradc6037
@taradc6037 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you about the music and I think it very much depends on the musical taste of the host and knowing the type of music your guests enjoy. For me old school 90s Mariah, Whitney, etc. is always what sets the mood and my family loves it too!
@marciamellow1211
@marciamellow1211 3 жыл бұрын
Great video to share with others... never having children, my home is one of those homes you are speaking about... I am a homebody anyway...a clean home is a way of life...It keeps you very grounded ...There is a confidence in the way you live...❤
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more!!
@tthomas501
@tthomas501 3 жыл бұрын
@@HouseofValentina I totally agree too!👏
@lynnsalberg5647
@lynnsalberg5647 2 жыл бұрын
A classy host is not rushed and frazzled . They are calm and happy to have you in their home . I’ve noticed this makes me feel so welcome . I try to always be ready 30 min before my guest arrive so I’m not rushing around .
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 2 жыл бұрын
That’s really good advice and makes a big difference.
@lynnsalberg5647
@lynnsalberg5647 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you !
@laurabunting2689
@laurabunting2689 3 жыл бұрын
I might make multiple comments bc I’m not even done with the video! I like to keep a couple empty lidded boxes throughout the house to store random things and when it’s full I go through and toss what isn’t needed or my kids forgot about, put away the things that need to go away… really helps keep life mess out of soght
@Mamado88
@Mamado88 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea! I have a three year old and it’s crazy how quickly things get messy since we had him
@normairisflores3641
@normairisflores3641 3 жыл бұрын
I get a classy vibe when a house is clean; also, when is not a room made in a furniture room, all the pieces matching, the rug, and the two lamps, this just seems put together with no thought. A home to me is classy when is not a shrine to something like titles and trophy’s, etc or pictures everywhere. Thanks for the video 🌸🌸🌸
@saraheschweiler4939
@saraheschweiler4939 3 жыл бұрын
Hello, Valentina! Thank you for your thoughtful review of elements of classiness. When you mentioned listening to outdoor sounds, & the sounds of the crickets, I felt quite sad. I have lived in my home for 35 years, & this is the first summer that there has been no sound of crickets chirping at night. Listening to recordings helps, but it's just not the same. Climate change is upon our world. Ah well, I do enjoy your uplifting & encouraging videos. Thank you for sharing your insights & inspirations. Sending you gratitude & love.... 🙏🌿🌷🌿😘🌿🌷🌿🙏
@lisabellissimo2896
@lisabellissimo2896 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ! Tidiness is the foundation! It is worth the effort
@laversacarlin3467
@laversacarlin3467 3 жыл бұрын
I watched your video and lit a candle. Lol. You really are a classy lady and I love you videos.
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@trisomyhassaikai8403
@trisomyhassaikai8403 3 жыл бұрын
Your kids are so blessed to have you as their mother
@tracyhobbs886
@tracyhobbs886 3 жыл бұрын
I think classy people always engage in wonderful interesting conversations.
@Darbymarbes456
@Darbymarbes456 3 жыл бұрын
Your mom sounds so delightful. I appreciate women who simply enjoy making a home gorgeous.
@hikingwiththedog6078
@hikingwiththedog6078 2 жыл бұрын
My classy dad always spoke to other people in a pleasant tone of voice. He treated his family with the same good manners he used with strangers and friends and business associates. No matter how bad things might have been for him at any given moment, he wanted things to be comfortable for the people around him.
@morgandevlin155
@morgandevlin155 3 жыл бұрын
I think classy homes always have things available for guests....little things like toothpicks and mints in the bathroom to a set place to put their bag and coat . Even a water pitcher and glasses set out so they don’t have to ask for water is such a nice touch
@tthomas501
@tthomas501 3 жыл бұрын
A classy home has a gracious host, beautiful/clean environment where you can tell they paid attention to the details. It's beautiful, welcoming and comfortable all at the same time.🤗🥰
@parminderaulakh3879
@parminderaulakh3879 3 жыл бұрын
Valentina, this video brought a smile to my face. As I watched , I also thought how I also have learned from my mom how to entertain, decorate, and even how to carry myself. Thank you for this video. You express yourself so beautifully , which I admire about you. 💗💕❤️🙏🏻
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@MrAnnette2468
@MrAnnette2468 3 жыл бұрын
Our home is always clean and uncluttered it gives me peace that anyone could walk through the door and I would not be embarrassed to invite them in. I don’t wear perfume but I burn candles in each bathroom that permeates through the house and always play the same music in every room so no matter where our guests go they will hear the same music, even outdoors as living in Arizona we use our backyard to entertain. It’s the way I was raised and the way I am most comfortable.
@Apsaramain
@Apsaramain 2 жыл бұрын
Valentina - I simply adore you and your husband - thank you for sharing your knowledge and talent!
@Coco-rw2qx
@Coco-rw2qx 3 жыл бұрын
Love your mom! My mom is so classy too! Great video as usual 🍃
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks!!
@Shakashack2022
@Shakashack2022 3 жыл бұрын
Yes to all that you said. And a classy home has a classy pet. 😄 I love a well-mannered pet with a calm greeting & then chills in their own space. I love energetic puppies too, yet when human hosting, a puppy ought to have a classy space to play & rest. Thank you, Valentina!
@rneustel388
@rneustel388 3 жыл бұрын
There’s a film that was released in 1987 called ‘Someone to Watch Over Me’ with Tom Berenger and Mimi Rogers. I remember the beautiful apartment the Rogers character owned but most of all the orchestra music that was always playing in the background. To me that made such an impression of luxury and elegance.
@tthomas501
@tthomas501 3 жыл бұрын
I'm going to check it out 👍 I love beautiful homes in cinema (Father of the Bride, Mrs. Doubtfire).
@rneustel388
@rneustel388 3 жыл бұрын
@@tthomas501 I’d love to know what you think about it, especially the music. Do you have a link, or can you tell me how to reach the music list you were talking about?
@tthomas501
@tthomas501 3 жыл бұрын
@@rneustel388 I haven't been able to find it for free, but I saw the trailer, and you're right, the apartment is nice. I don't know what list you are referring to 🤔
@juliemckinnon1480
@juliemckinnon1480 3 жыл бұрын
The classiest and also most down to earth person I know is YOU! Always a pleasure and an inspiration in both design and attitude!! PS. I do listen.... buying new candles right now! :)
@LivNtheBESTLife
@LivNtheBESTLife 3 жыл бұрын
This was such a classy video! So beautiful you honored your mom too! ☺️
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@HomeSweetHearth
@HomeSweetHearth 3 жыл бұрын
LOVED this video!! I found so much value in your tips. They’re true and worth keeping top of mind for anyone making their house into a home! 🙌🏼
@tulipthorn
@tulipthorn 2 жыл бұрын
I love your hair here, Valentina! You look gorgeous! Thank you always for sharing your knowledge.
@deliiri0us
@deliiri0us 3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad I already do and embody all of this ☺️ Good quality materials also exude classy vibes.
@mjrh45
@mjrh45 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent presentation Valentina.
@alinacash786
@alinacash786 3 жыл бұрын
Hi. Would love to follow your Spotify playlist!! Please share. Thank you
@jengillespie7827
@jengillespie7827 3 жыл бұрын
You are a great example of classy! Great job! I just shared one of your videos with a neighbor and she loved it.
@dgrahamdgraham
@dgrahamdgraham 3 жыл бұрын
You, my dear, are the epitome of class!
@imscanon
@imscanon 3 жыл бұрын
One thing I always appreciate from a host (including myself) is when the dinner is largely done in advance so they aren't spending the first hour in front of the stove and oven trying to get everything done last minute. I have a rule of 5 mins. for myself. In the time before dinner while guests are there, I have 5 mins. I get to be in the kitchen and everything else has to be done before arrivals. So I can put in and take out of oven, saute a veggie, grab things from the fridge, etc., but all under a cumulative 5 mins. so guests aren't sitting there bored without your attention. This rule has served me well. Takes planning, but it's worth it. I've been to dinner parties where you barely see the host at all because they are cooking or cleaning the whole time. Have a discreet place ready to put the dirty dishes and do them after the guests leave. Be with your guests. They are the important ingredient that needs to be enjoyed. Preset the table. Precut the vegetables and refrig the platters, have a ramekin ready with spices/sauces that you can micro a few secs right when needed. All you should have to do is take the food from the oven/fridge/stovetop and take to the table. Spending time with YOU is what the people will remember so be sure to do that. LOL
@sraddhamansata2194
@sraddhamansata2194 3 жыл бұрын
Simplicity I think epitomizes grace and classiness like nothing else does.
@-nellie-m3711
@-nellie-m3711 3 жыл бұрын
Love my lamps and candles burning, especially my diffuser during the day that sends off a beautiful smell throughout our home, I have a small question, are table runners in or out on your dining room table and coffee table, just curious if you don’t mind answering my question. Always Love your content. Cheers from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺❤️❤️
@azucena7castro
@azucena7castro 3 жыл бұрын
The warm homey feeling albeit the luxe pieces is what makes a home classy.
@jaynemarion9469
@jaynemarion9469 2 жыл бұрын
Love this! My mother had so much grace and class-- I always tried to follow her-- details, scents, lighting, cleanliness….
@Belleabooful
@Belleabooful 3 жыл бұрын
When you started talking about lightbulbs, I totally related. I recently stayed at my mother’s house to dog sit. My brother took the lightbulb I bought for the lamp in the bedroom my husband and I use when we visit. I secretly had recently changed the lightbulb because she has the awful bright lightbulb that was very blinding. It was way too much light for a very small bedroom. So, I found the stolen lightbulb, but left it for my brother to enjoy. So, I bought a 25 watt bulb for the lamp. It was perfect! Looks so beautiful in her antique flower lamp. Makes a huge difference!
@silverplug
@silverplug 3 жыл бұрын
Damn, who steals light bulbs?
@judymiddleswart9350
@judymiddleswart9350 2 жыл бұрын
This is really life changing I would love to emulate!!! Great suggestions!! Thanks so much!
@RemingtonWild
@RemingtonWild 3 жыл бұрын
The individuals I have found classy over the years were usually older women who had their hair fixed with nothing out of place. A lovely everyday or special occasion dress on that is tidy. Small dainty earrings even if they were dangles, a light fragrance, and most of all a sweet smile that melts your heart and direct attention that makes you feel special in a way no one else can.
@mkpoptic5790
@mkpoptic5790 3 жыл бұрын
Tiny flower arrangements on the powder room / guest bath vanity along with pretty paper fingertip hand towels. As a younger woman I was introduced to beautiful hostess ing by two older women in my prayer circle. I will always gratefully replicate this nicety in my own home today.
@Silkelovesit
@Silkelovesit 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Valentina! I love these ideas ❤️
@marshathefishy5721
@marshathefishy5721 3 жыл бұрын
Ok Gal, you are on point! 🏆🏆
@bagpipes978
@bagpipes978 2 жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful video with excellent insights and recommendations. Thank you so much. And to add to the dialogue here in the comments: I always say "I live a grateful life." Which means I am grateful for everything positive in my life: loving, kind friends, a job I enjoy doing, good health, a roof over my head, food and clean water, etc.. I also believe being graceful and classy means being humble yet strong, kind, respectful and compassionate towards all living things, and being genuinely appreciative for any and all blessings in one's life. Respect yourself thus one respects others. Be quiet and learn from everything and everyone around you, including animals, insects, birds, and nature in general. Lastly, a positive attitude towards difficult situations can make all the difference in the outcome.
@MDean-so6pj
@MDean-so6pj 3 жыл бұрын
I loved how you equated the study of ballet to the attention to detail evident in your home and life. Also equating ambience with sound and attitude towards life and others. You are unique in the design world for your far-reaching and encompassing vision. Brava.
@charissapromes
@charissapromes 2 жыл бұрын
I loved all these tips! With 2 kids in diapers (and a cat), tidiness and welcoming scents are a real challenge. I would have loved to see some diversity in the examples of classy ladies though. Love your channel❤️
@colleenmc3
@colleenmc3 Жыл бұрын
This is the best video ever.
@HR-re6mr
@HR-re6mr 3 жыл бұрын
Classy to me is my great aunt and Mom. They had glasses chilled for guests. Always had good food on pretty plates. House was always clean!
@dawnboquist8866
@dawnboquist8866 3 жыл бұрын
I usually have light classical music playing in the background. There is always that one person who will come in and ask “what the hell is that noise!!?”
@LSinclair
@LSinclair 3 жыл бұрын
All beautiful qualities for living a luscious and happy life at home and with loved ones, Valentina-lovely video, as usual! Thank you so much 💝
@secondeve610
@secondeve610 3 жыл бұрын
Hi lovely Valentina!! Could you please remind me of which Hotel candle you love? I think you mentioned it in another video. Thank you so much! I just adore your videos, it has helped me so much!
@taunyawren8020
@taunyawren8020 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been thinking I need a intercom system so that I can call my family upstairs to come downstairs. My grandmother had one and it was very civilized.
@ei_maj
@ei_maj 2 жыл бұрын
Just get a whistle 😄 A nice bell could work too. I remember a friend of mine growing up had the room to room intercom. You could play music on it throughout the house, which was neat. Or, put talk radio/morning news on in the AM and not have to worry about bringing your phone or bluetooth speaker with you, all around the house as you get ready.
@lindadupuis1531
@lindadupuis1531 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. So much food for thought.
@veronikagarcia8513
@veronikagarcia8513 3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your channel. Thank you for sharing your expertise with us that don’t have that talent. I love this look on you. Your makeup makes your eyes pop!
@tashagervais8733
@tashagervais8733 3 жыл бұрын
A classy person to me is someone you feel safe talking to because you never hear them running others down so you know they won't speak badly of you either. They exude grace and fairness and as a host they are protective of guests and anticipate their needs. They are thoughtful in their speech and not quick to "run off at the mouth," or overreact. And to me a classy person is not vulgar, choosing not to use foul language. In their homes yes totally agree, neat, well planned and organized, and attention to detail. I have known many classy ladies (and men) and try my best to be more like that myself.
@TheRealHarpoJo
@TheRealHarpoJo 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, Valentina. I’m new to your channel, but I’ve been watching lots of your videos, and I truly appreciate the time you put in and the knowledge you share. My mom’s best friend, Arlene, was this classy-lady inspiration for me. Her home was always beautifully clean, it smelled like cinnamon-spice, and she and her husband were fantastic cooks. I have such wonderful memories of being in their home, they used the “good stuff” for their guests often, -China and crystal glasses, and it was such a lovely feeling of being warmly welcomed and celebrated. I try to create that experience for my guests, and also my own family.
@mslovelifetoday
@mslovelifetoday 2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful topic and video!!! ❤️💕 Thank you so much!!!
@susanguettlersundog8198
@susanguettlersundog8198 3 жыл бұрын
Love all the info in the shorter video 👏👏👏! Can you share your choices for the “warm” lightbulbs you suggest? I’m always confused if it’s like daylight or warm white, etc (I def can’t do the cool, blueish white light or those fluorescent bulb colors ! 🤔🤔🤔? I need a warm white task lighting that doesn’t distort colors ! The cool white lights are too blueish and the “Edison-type” yellow-colored lightbulbs look too gold in my home! They actually change the color in my room and don’t give enough task lighting above my island and in lamps for me! I prefer a warm, crisp white light that’s doesn’t look so yellowy or make my whites look off-white ! I’ve bought so many different light bulbs that were the wrong color ☹️😞😆! I could use this help for my recessed lights too! I want all the lights to be the same color snd not mismatched warm/cool lightbulbs! ! Also a link , please for your top two favorite Hotel fragrances! 😉❤️
@jobennett9531
@jobennett9531 3 жыл бұрын
Love this video! How you tied classy people with Classy homes and how it all works together. It makes perfect sense to look at the same attributes. I watch every video of yours!
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@marciamilanoski2445
@marciamilanoski2445 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve done all of these things in my own home and it took years to get it right over time. Now we took the plunge and bought a different place and I am freaking out about leaving!
@rmckeague13
@rmckeague13 2 жыл бұрын
I really like how everything in the room you are in is painted one color. What color is that? Really stands out.
@traceygartrell3419
@traceygartrell3419 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your inspiration ❤️
@mslovelifetoday
@mslovelifetoday 2 жыл бұрын
I like that you mentioned manicure because that doesn’t mean expensive or new or trendy….classy people appreciate and take care of their friends, family and possessions
@trishamorgan4
@trishamorgan4 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this.
@RadhikaDarcy
@RadhikaDarcy 2 жыл бұрын
I love your tips ! I’m going to designate an elegant box to store my hair ties and another for remotes 😌🙏🏽😌
@aliciaegan4665
@aliciaegan4665 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this one! Glad to know I’m doing some of them. Keep up the good work on your videos!
@whiskersBOOSTER2
@whiskersBOOSTER2 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been binge watching your videos tonight on our big tv (I usually watch on my phone). You’re even more gorgeous than I thought! Seriously, I’m loving the tips and examples that you’re giving, so excellent!!!! Keep it comin!
@Syntychehomedecor
@Syntychehomedecor 3 жыл бұрын
Clean, minimaliste , quality,
@eileenchang2173
@eileenchang2173 3 жыл бұрын
Great ideas; however, many are extremely sensitive to scents, so when I have family or guests over I’ll make sure that I address their comfort level with regards to scents, even details such as the type of soap I have in the washrooms as well as dishwashing liquid.It’s like asking someone if that person is allergic to anything before preparing a meal.
@tbear1111
@tbear1111 3 жыл бұрын
That is awesome! I wish more people understood this. There are so many toxic and synthetic fragrances now that are making life hard for many.
@yasminquezada7032
@yasminquezada7032 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos soooo much, you are classyl ❤️
@Coco-rw2qx
@Coco-rw2qx 3 жыл бұрын
So agree 🌸
@debs1717
@debs1717 3 жыл бұрын
Loved it what a great topic. What is your favorite brand of oil diffusers and fragrance? I’m not sure what to purchase. Thanks
@reneesmith695
@reneesmith695 3 жыл бұрын
Interesting topic. Thank you.❤️
@Reulus
@Reulus 3 жыл бұрын
Classy people do not perceive themselves as classy, others assign that label to them. A warm personality, well kept appearance, a graceful demeanor, inform others the person is grounded, understands themselves and will more than likely understand them. In my opinion our homes are a reflection of ourselves and we should keep our environment real. I am not a believer of contrived home decor.
@dianafeldman2826
@dianafeldman2826 2 жыл бұрын
R.M., I think this is one of the best descriptions of Classy people that I have read.
@michelleclark8099
@michelleclark8099 3 жыл бұрын
Can you make a stylish home music playlist on your page here on youtube? With music like you have on this video , please‼️😊
@chelseahill6552
@chelseahill6552 3 жыл бұрын
I would love that too!
@HouseofValentina
@HouseofValentina 3 жыл бұрын
That’s a great idea!
@raquelisla7368
@raquelisla7368 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree on that
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