I remember last year, I find it difficult to apologize and take responsibility for my actions. I would always look to put the blame on someone else. This year I appraised myself and I'm glad I'm changing. I try to apologize when I'm wrong, consciously its becoming part of me.
@debbiemuamba682210 ай бұрын
Finally.. A video about red flags in yourself rather than just other people
@josephdiamond59709 ай бұрын
Signs you are a toxic person. 1. If you never own up to your mistakes. 2. If you constantly hurt people's feelings without caring about how they feel. 3. If you cross people's boundaries without feeling sorry about it. 4. If you don't know how to apologise when you have done something wrong. 5. If you display emotions of jealousy and hatred towards others for no reason. 6. If you are manipulative and abusive. 7. If you lack empathy. 8. If you approach situations only from a place of strife. 9. If you engage in physical and verbal fights. 10. If you are emotionally and mentally abusive towards others. 11. If you're emotionally unintelligent.
@Ash2smileyyy9 ай бұрын
My role model❤! I always pick up 1/2 things to adjust when I watch your videos. God bless you Ma🙏 keep inspiring❤
@gloriagloria740110 ай бұрын
I was once toxic but thank God am no more a toxic person thanks to emotional intelligence from watching your videos.
@chanya_ella25410 ай бұрын
Thank You, Winnie, Good to know we are all toxic people who need to heal first before pointing it out to others.
@mypeacechinelo10 ай бұрын
Thank you, you are consistent in dishing out value, indeed good manners is everything 😊
@Bridget65710 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie for this tips, don't know that am toxic in somewhere. I am hoping to change it
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
My absolute pleasure! I am rooting for you!❤️
@naalove536610 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, I Have been complaining a lot 🙏🙏 may God help me
@florencelaximkirungi835010 ай бұрын
😢😢i have realized that I have indeed been a toxic person in one way or the other..calls for a change..thanks Winnie for always sharing. I appreciate..much love from Uganda 🇺🇬
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
My absolute pleasure!❤️
@AkpaTheresa-fq9td5 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie. I think I have one or two toxic traits. I will surely start working on them.
@JoyNkiru-eh4tl10 ай бұрын
Impactful as always...thanks Winnie
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
My absolute pleasure!❤
@DoctorSoyemi10 ай бұрын
It's usually beyond the Thumbnails ❤ the Content you deliver and values you provide to the world. Well done ma and keep up the Good work.
@AngelaAmanorserwaa10 ай бұрын
U have a high sense of decorum❤
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
Thank you!❤
@InternationaLChefSue10 ай бұрын
💯💯
@toniaagabi223010 ай бұрын
Thanks baby girl. Your topic makes alot of sense. ❤
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
You are welcome!❤
@camirak267510 ай бұрын
Ms. Winnie we love you! This video is very valuable; not only for self-reflection and encouraging us to be a better version of ourselves but also to reflect and recognize those who are very toxic in our lives.
@abibatubockarie10 ай бұрын
Really interested in this topic. I needed to check myself. I can't claim perfection.
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 we all need to do constant checks on ourselves. It’s very important for our overall growth.
@estyonyi815310 ай бұрын
When I saw the caption i had to run down here. I need to watch this video to learn, unlearn and relearn. Thank you ma'am Winnie
@theayodejipopshow10 ай бұрын
Thanks Winnie. This is very helpful. The self-awareness part is very apt. Not easy to do but it is achievable. I will definitely be trying some of these points.
@ifeanyichukwuokafor635010 ай бұрын
Hot stuff.. I'm actually a very toxic person and I want to change.
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
You are 70% towards achieving your goal of change. I love this for you dear . I am rooting for you!❤
@InternationaLChefSue10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂🙌
@candicet.956510 ай бұрын
Same here I’m highly sensitive
@ogechukwuumeh535310 ай бұрын
@@winniesschoolofeleganceI have paid for the classes,please am waiting for your response thank you
@Lifestyle_LuxeTV9 ай бұрын
I pray I don’t meet you. I have taken note of your name 😂
@damizonivad52059 ай бұрын
So interesting thank you we are learning day by day ❤
@chisomchukwu443710 ай бұрын
Thank you, Winnie! Always beautiful hearing the wisdom that exudes from you. I really appreciate!
@goodygoody5210 ай бұрын
I so much love ur personality. Thanks for being my online elder sis❤❤
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
It’s my absolute pleasure!!❤❤❤
@oluchiiwuanyanwu18158 ай бұрын
Am grateful Winnie for this transformational educative instructions ❤🤗
@cynthiaosaro191910 ай бұрын
I got here first, yaaaaaahhhhh💃💃💃💃 Thanks, Miss Winnie. I love the topic ❤️ already
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
You are welcome!!❤❤❤
@AngelaAmanorserwaa10 ай бұрын
I have terrible inferiority complex coupled with timidity and nervousness ..I always habour fear in me when I see people and the root cause of mine is physical insecurity . precisely my body..im really slender and I hate my body ..when I watched ur video on childhood trauma I've learnt a thing or two.infact I cant get go a day without listening to you.u are so witty.full of wisdom.i wish u are my sister
@InternationaLChefSue10 ай бұрын
❤❤
@DoctorSoyemi10 ай бұрын
You can and you will surely overcome those experiences as you take appropriate steps personally and with support. There is always a way out by God's Grace ❤
@AngelaAmanorserwaa10 ай бұрын
Hopefully😊
@Claremond-w3b8 ай бұрын
Same here
@TracyMonday8 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie ❤️❤️. You always have a way of speaking to me. You inspire me ma'am.
@damolaoladapo440610 ай бұрын
Winnie has really help alot in her videos...i really appreciate her because am learning alot...God bless Winnie
@ceciliafirez99949 ай бұрын
thank you for this video Winnie love. it's time to tame my toxicity
@adaugongwu10 ай бұрын
Thank you very much, Winnie
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
My absolute pleasure!❤❤
@talatubaba162810 ай бұрын
Many thanks! 👏🏾♥️
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
My absolute pleasure!❤❤
@ChimwemweMungullar10 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie ❤
@OmenwuChidimma10 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie for your teachings sincerely I am learning a lot and also applying the ones I needed to apply. God bless you really good. Much 💕💕💕.
@shumiraikahondo4685rďxjhdhx10 ай бұрын
I like the self-awereness part❤
@olajumokemifortunate72269 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie❤❤, it's really been great watching you. Much Love😘💕💕
@blessingosas537210 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Winnie.❤
@AnnetRoda10 ай бұрын
Thank God am not 🎉🎉thanks winnie you look amazing ❤️
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
Thank you!❤
@emilyaluoch173010 ай бұрын
This is very helpful thank you Winnie
@delightEssence82559 ай бұрын
I really appreciate you. You are helping my life❤
@VictoriaBlessingDuwai10 ай бұрын
Needed this ❤thanks a lot
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
You are welcome!❤
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
You are welcome!!❤❤❤
@cherish5879 ай бұрын
Thanks so much my darling Chef Winnie, I appreciate this.
@Esther_Chioma1210 ай бұрын
Thank you Winnie..we keep learning everyday 🥰❤️❤️❤️❤️
@priscillianzerem582710 ай бұрын
I love this....its time for some self examination.. Thanks so much Winnie
@GospelJonahGJ10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this video God bless you.
@Vickywhisper.10 ай бұрын
I'm so happy I am a subscriber in this beautiful family, am always watching the fresh videos ❤ I love you big sis
@EmilyGertrude-e2k10 ай бұрын
Hello family.am the first today bless you all
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
Love it!!❤❤❤
@valgbechi428810 ай бұрын
Interesting topic.. thank you for the video ❤
@nwoyefavour107910 ай бұрын
Love this topic
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
I am glad you do…❤
@patienceoladoke326610 ай бұрын
Thank you winnie 😘
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
It’s my absolute pleasure Dear!❤
@adepojuatinuke10 ай бұрын
God bless you ma for the message❤
@amarachifrancisca607510 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Winnie... I really do appreciate. God bless you and i love you, i wish to see you one day
@kishemhando72269 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this lesson,
@erikaxiomaraherrarte46119 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for your so important and valuable advices
@dorathyakpan469910 ай бұрын
Thanks Winnie love you plenty ❤
@MarvellousChime10 ай бұрын
This was so insightful ❤❤
@maryAmoduu10 ай бұрын
Thank you always pretty queen 👑 i love this topic 💖 Your accessories are just perfect like you 😊
@Asmath_lol10 ай бұрын
You have a pretty face ❤with beautiful expressions ❤
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
Thank you so so much!❤❤
@vickyanna355710 ай бұрын
Wow! Interesting video!!Period!😊❤
@RaimatAmoke10 ай бұрын
Thanks very much sister ❤
@KulwaBuchenja7 ай бұрын
Thanks 👍 Winnie I be blessed with your valuable things teaching us congratulations too
@agoiobunso10 ай бұрын
This video have helped me alot thank you so much sis I really appreciate❤❤❤
@marthangwali197710 ай бұрын
Watching 🎉❤from malawi 🇲🇼
@hervoicesecretcloset10 ай бұрын
I think this point am not a toxic person 😊🎉❤
@JandeNguumburOfficial9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much babe ❤
@favourajuobi2710 ай бұрын
Good day ma'am. Thank you for the teachings.
@Tobi-hc1lq10 ай бұрын
I love this!
@Iamestherghartey9 ай бұрын
Please can you do a video on over-sensitive people
@RiamatuKamara-yu9vh10 ай бұрын
Praise God! Sincerely am not a toxic person,am very mindful of what am doing, and what I should not. Thank you🙏👍.
@candicet.956510 ай бұрын
I admire you for not being a toxic person
@RiamatuKamara-yu9vh10 ай бұрын
@@candicet.9565 thank you so much! Must I normally meet toxic people in my life, so for my peace of mind I distance myself.
@MatselisoMohale7 ай бұрын
Im a very toxic person not by choice because of my childhood trauma.i suffered alot as a child even now in my 30's😢😢😢
@okemerukevwe7477 ай бұрын
❤
@azuretate68510 ай бұрын
A toxic person is someone that complains a lot
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
This!! So true!!👏🏼
@InternationaLChefSue10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@Thinkingwomanglobal10 ай бұрын
Thank God I'm not toxic... 🎉😊... I listened carefully and I am Not. Thank you Jesus.
@InternationaLChefSue10 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@ejioforchidinma14410 ай бұрын
As for me, people say I'm stubborn but I never agree that I'm stubborn because I feel like I'm just being strict with my boundaries and they don't like it
@onyeagusimarycynthia31387 ай бұрын
Hey Winnie In a case where you're in a toxic relationship and you tried changing the person making the relationship toxic. The person changed at some point but later got worse. Now, you can't deal with the person's behaviour anymore and you want to leave the person. How exactly do you cut off from this person?
@angelamartekimarkwei860810 ай бұрын
1. Never own up to your mistakes.
@mabukiemabukie542010 ай бұрын
Yhooo have to change😢
@OgochukwuOdum10 ай бұрын
I use to be very toxic thank God for my life now. Now when o see toxic people, I run far, I ran from a friend cause she’s so toxic .
@RiamatuKamara-yu9vh10 ай бұрын
And I don't know I normally meet toxic people in my life(I notice it in them)so for my peace of mind I just distance myself.....
@TabbyWanjiru-tmw10 ай бұрын
Powerful❤❤❤
@InternationaLChefSue10 ай бұрын
Great topic❣️❣️
@amakadoris44399 ай бұрын
Thanks winnie
@HELPBYTHELORD5 ай бұрын
Hey winning i just subscribe to your channel now, but i have some challenges am dealing with and i really want to come out of it, my upbringing has affect me a lot due to the kind of parent i have so my first challenges is 1. All of my communication with anyone come from the place of attack, fight, angry. 2. Am an introvert and unfriendly (once the person do what i don't like, i will stop relating with them and build a boundary around myself) this makes me not to have friends. 3. Am not social 4. I get angry at everything NB: the major part is my relationship with people, have been told that i have characters issues. Please help me out on this.
@wanjikumurima137310 ай бұрын
Hey Winnie....as you started this video I really wanted to know if childhood traumas have something to do toxity...as u continue it was one tick after the other.my childhood was full of violence esp on women n I vowed never to allow anyone try nonsense with me especially men.Miss ....I've lost relationships due to my violent nature let me just say am underway in my levelling up journey.thanks❤
@بسومحريبي10 ай бұрын
Thank you dear, buh me l wana learn confidence in public speaking how can l reach you?
@NoFaceJourneys10 ай бұрын
I sent this video to my toxic girlfriend thinking she'll change,but her toxicity just doubled,says she doesn't give a damn what social media thinks 🤔🤔
@adegbolaoluwawamiri30278 ай бұрын
You are so beautiful 😊
@kathrinetaylor985310 ай бұрын
Yes hello "WINNIE, ❤, WHY THE 🌎 CONSIST OF THING I DONT know why, I ts so horrible to be eniuos of another person, i try and work on myself everyday, thanks "Winnie❤.
@gistspot6594 ай бұрын
Interesting
@OdewoleKemisola-df6xb10 ай бұрын
Thank you ma'am ❤
@Aestheticvibes93910 ай бұрын
Good content
@UjayAhamefula9 ай бұрын
Wonderful content...ive really learnt a lot....Winnie im really struggling to get the book inner child healing and i cant afford it on Amazon....but i really really really want it...what do i do😭
@bouanathalie612510 ай бұрын
Hi Winnie, I want to sign up for the act of speaking eloquently but I’m unable to make payment. Is there a way I make the payment via PayPal?
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
Yes please…kindly send an email to winniesschoolofelegance and I’ll share the details with you.
@AnsiArazaharah10 ай бұрын
Am not a toxic person and am not perfect
@stellaotis47558 ай бұрын
Hi Winnie please I paid for the Art of speaking eloquently and elegantly course but please it’s been awhile now ,and I didn’t finish with the course., please am not getting access to it anymore
@asantewaa791810 ай бұрын
I’ve a lot of mood swings and I want to know if I’m a toxic person ma
@onuigboperpetual50499 ай бұрын
Am toxic,but am I feel remorseful immediately
@olonaderaehannahfolakemi19410 ай бұрын
Kindly send another means of payment for elegant Winnie school Tried card severally
@winniesschoolofelegance10 ай бұрын
Hello.. please kindly send an email to winnieschoolofelegance@gmail.com and I’ll send you the details. Thank you.
@MercyBedzra10 ай бұрын
What if you're toxic behavior happens when you are depressed
@gugumazibuko627510 ай бұрын
Very good question?
@queenukofia491910 ай бұрын
My nurse at my place of work is a toxic person take or you leave it
@AdãoBorges-l9u10 ай бұрын
Hmmm 😢, I'm confused sef. Please Sis winnie if people treat you badly and you cut them off, does it mean you're toxic? I would like to know please
@idowuadewunmiogunyemi78249 ай бұрын
I wish I can tag someone on this video 🙁🙁
@favourite885910 ай бұрын
What If the person doesn't ant to talk to u on phone.. I guess text ißthe only way then