Where I’ve been and what’s next!

[@RitaMI]

2:41, now the picture is right :), nice to see you back again, missed you .., greetings from Germany

[@heathersmeather]

You’ve no reason to feel accountable or explain yourself to us. I am glad you’re well and if you make videos I’ll watch them. 😁

[@lmack6596]

I just popped into the comments to say the same thing :)

[@jilla4079]

I agree completely 😊

[@DianeinDenmark]

Yay, my sweet friend is back! Love to your Mum, Steph! 💖💖💖

[@bethreisman8869]

Hi Diane, As Steph was talking, you came to mind as just the girl that could help. I'm a follower of both you and Steph, am very nearly 73. Having a mentor/friend to help you walk through life's wrinkles is so valuable. Steph is such a dear capable woman, just in need of space for herself to recalibrate and blossom once again!

[@YasuTaniina]

I found you and secret slob the at the same time when my middle child was a newborn about May 2019! I can't believe it's almost 4 years! Thank you both for introducing me to flylady. I've been struggling with chronic illness and after years of being brushed off finally got diagnosed last fall. I'm on the upswing, I've printed off the flylady steps, and I feel like this is the perfect call for me to get back into it!

[@TheSecretSlob]

Thank you Diane 🥰 I should have mentioned that it was you who helped me to remember to have fun!!

[@DianeinDenmark]

@@TheSecretSlob Yay! Yep, it's all about balance and seeing where our heart is happiest. And I know you have some fun non-KZbin projects planned with real-life friends to keep you smiling. Go you! Rah, rah, rah! 😍

[@DianeinDenmark]

@@bethreisman8869Hi Beth! Yes, Steph and I do indeed chat. It's good to be able to vent and have a good laugh about things - life is meant to be enjoyed! 😍

[@rode_rash3956]

Just to let you know, your value to this community isn't the fact that you started following the Flylady method with modifications. That you had systems and routines. It's that you were (and still are) real. Real life with real struggles but also with real solutions. You reached me in ways other didn't. If you don't do anything else on this channel, though, I would dearly love a tour of your home now that you are completely (you are, right?) moved back in. Much was still under construction, though down to finishes for the most part, the last time we saw it. I'd love to know how things have changed from when you first moved in. Is the layout more functional for you? Do you have any more or less storage than you had before? Things like that. But no matter what else, enjoy your new home, your children, and your life, and know that you touched the lives of a lot of people in positive, helpful ways.

[@TheSecretSlob]

Thank you so much 🥰

[@kristen2646]

WELCOME BACK, STEPH! I almost had to chase Diane in Denmark down to ask if you were around. You. Were. Missed. I love your positivity- the channel could be anything or nothing, you are amongst imperfect people too. We find value in any content you choose to make.

[@gvolk11]

“We find value in any content you choose to make.” Amen!

[@terrirojas]

ha ha ha! I was going to do the same thing - hmm I wonder if Diane knows where Steph is... 😂

[@DianeinDenmark]

Ha ha! 🤩 I'm regularly in touch with Steph and so glad she's making herself a priority this time around! 😍

[@DianeinDenmark]

@@terrirojas I have had many requests for info, ha ha!

[@agnesdp1855]

It looks like you were pretty close to a full burn-out, so you made a very wise decision to prioritize your family. Well done, and so glad to see you back and looking well. This color looks so good on you. Can't wait to hear you and Jill again on the podcast, you always made me laugh to tears with your stories at the end of each episode.

[@fabifun1]

Yes, the blue is wonderful and the podcast was hilarious!

[@toddylu6869]

You look beautiful and happy …. More so now, than back then. I’m happy for you.

[@TiffanyPeever]

Nice to see you again Steph😊 I don’t know if anyone else commented on this already, but not enjoying the activities you normally enjoy is a sign of depression. Giving yourself a break was a very good thing. Feeling pressure from others to be perfect can bring you down, so I’m glad you reevaluated and prioritized what’s really important for you and your family. Your blue cupboards are beautiful! I would love to see a house tour too, but no pressure! Whenever you’re ready for it!

[@jackielambrechts5255]

House tour please, would love to see all you guys have done

[@mrskerry8111]

Another one who would love to see a house tour.

[@tammyi363]

It’s kind of silly that I was so excited to see you back here. I mean we are strangers but when I found your channel when you first started growing it, you were such an inspiration to me. A fellow secret slob. Even though I’m quite a bit older and so wish I could’ve got my act together 30 years ago but never too late, right? So glad you took the time you needed. Your YT community understands. Welcome back!

[@caroljacobs5080]

Steph I'm pleased to know your ok. I think the majority of You Tubers have missed you. You are so inspiring and just believe in yourself. Take care x

[@carmiejones8289]

You asked what we'd like to see. How about sharing those basics you mentioned that carried with you through the tough season of life. We all go through tough seasons and could benefit from that. And then we'd like to follow along your gradual steps to bring yourself forward again. Thank you!

[@madebylora]

So good to see you back! You’ve been missed! But I’m also glad for you that you took the time you needed! A few months ago I started posting videos (art and crafts) and I decided from the start not to have a posting schedule. The “experts” seem to say you need to post regularly to build an audience but it’s just too much pressure for most of us to do that! You already have an audience who love you so I’m sure we will all be happy to watch whatever/whenever you post xx

[@everystitchaprayer6268]

This was wonderful! This channel feels like a friend sharing their life with you. You are a treasure and I'm so glad you took time for you. Great example for the rest of us! Thank you!

[@Carolmaizy]

After learning from the Fly Lady, Diane in Denmark, Joshua Becker, The Minimalists, Dana, Dawn, Cass, and many more, things are under control in my home most days. Im in maintenance mode now, so I only watch these types of videos for inspiration and enjoyment. Thank you for all you've done to get me to this good place I'm in! I love all of you forever for all the help you've given me and others who need it. Looking forward to seeing you when it works for you! 💟⚘💟

[@andreea.andreea]

also Kate Kaden is really helpful and so nice on frugal issues&more

[@kims4529]

I'm thrilled to see you, Steph! I would have gladly watched you sideways the whole time 🤣. Family and personal well-being always come first. I will be glad to watch/listen to whenever it works for you.

[@Mieke256]

Worst live ever??? Best live ever!! This is why we all love you and your content Stef! You’re a real person and you show up as one. Thank you! I’m all for mental decluttering, slowing life down and just enjoying it. I got back on IG after a break of many months, “just for fun”. But you’re right, it’s a black hole of comparison and “I need that” and a time waster. Although I really love the inspiration I get there, it might not be worth it. I’m deleting the app now and see how it goes!

[@margaret1336]

How wise you were to see clearly what you needed to do and just do it!❤❤❤

[@biancaf.3574]

I really think, what you describe is absolutely normal after moving into a new home - even without kids, youtube channel and only in a small flat instead of a big farm house - I also felt lost and stressed up like the way you did. So you don't need to excuse for your absence - it is great that you were able to take this break. And now, it is great to have you back.

[@disfollower2239]

Good for you! Several years back my husband and I cut a lot of kid and various other activities that culture pressures you into feeling you should be doing. We HS and I was so overwhelmed. We kept the most important things and didn’t look back, and I couldn’t be more grateful!

[@KristynLorraine]

Routines have to change as life changes. That is one thing I've learned, to reevaluate whenever things aren't working. When I was younger I thought it meant I failed somewhere. But it's not realistic with growing, changing kids to think that what works one year will work the next. You're doing great and it's nice to see you! ♡

[@TheSecretSlob]

Thank you! Yes, I think I am just starting to learn that too :)

[@phart6148]

I'm so pleased you took the time to look after yourself and family. Love your channel and your honestly, it certainly help me climb out of a hole a few years ago.

[@brandicraven1873]

All of this!!!

[@djfloyd7829]

You are a blessing to us. Being so transparent in your journey is still blessing us. We all go through this but you have provided an example of how to have a self reset. 🥰

[@tabathapatterson6565]

Steph!!!! So good to see you, you were missed ❤️ Good on you for seeing the need to take a break, sounds like you have been recovering from some level of burnout. I would love to hear more about changes you have made and what you have learned through this journey of rest and slowing down.

[@sharonsealy5640]

It’s so lovely to hear your voice and see your smiling face again, do what you feel you need to do and remember to try and put yourself first. We’re here to support you too.

[@darlenewoods5726]

I'm glad to see you back - I figured your life must be on overwhelm and I prayed that there was no illness or injury. We have all grown to love you and your family, and you are a wonderful cheerleader. The online group has been great. Now and then a critic has popped in to share her self-righteous perfection, but we have - as kindly as possible - reminded her that many are dealing with difficult circumstances, and that we are here to support and encourage, just as your desire is. Welcome back!

[@beautifulhomemaking]

Good to hear from you and that you were prioritizing family and putting the needs of your littles first! Renovations are extremely stressful. Glad you made it through and I'm looking forward to a tour!

[@debbiedouglass1478]

Remember, you don’t owe any of us anything! You’ve been so gracious to share. I really appreciate that. What you’re describing is exactly what I’m looking for! I’ll be here when it works for you. Blessings to you and your family. That’s where it counts!❤

[@Cindys-bc1dp]

Welcome back Steph! I love your channel because you are so relatable and not perfect. I will enjoy whatever content you share whenever you have time to share it. Family, friends and your own well being come first. 💕

[@gentlequeen3589]

Missed you and your videos, but I understand stepping back and taking time. Family first. Always.

[@claudiarice8123]

Welcome back Steph! So happy to see your smiling face and hear that lovely voice again. Also can't wait to see more of your beautifully designed home beyond the kitchen.

[@cindyleis1195]

Welcome back. The wisdom to know when to say when is tremendous. Every chapter of life looks different. Enjoy this ONE life!

[@nancyharkins6570]

Good to see you. Glad to hear that you are well and that you took some time to prioritize your family and your own well-being. This is a much-needed message for the internet. Be well!

[@ilvexya]

Glad you’re back. Kitchen routine, check. Making the bed and getting presentable, check. My suggestion would be to start focusing on laundry next. Just one load in the morning smaller loads work better. You can do this. With grace, yes. ❤

[@wiviannegrapenholt9324]

Oh I’m so glad you are back! I’ve really missed your videos. I don’t care what kind of videos you post, for me it’s enough with your contagious positivity and enthusiasm.❤

[@hazellucas1663]

Yay you're back! You have been missed but good for you for taking the time to focus on yourself and your family. I'm so glad the podcast is coming back too. xx

[@bkayepokrant9084]

So happy you're back. I was just thinking I needed to download your printable to get into habit of getting things done. You are such an inspiration and Yes, you were missed. Welcome back.

[@gaild9003]

I have been thinking about you a lot lately! It's so good to see you! I've been dealing with worsening physical and emotional burnout for the last several months. I'm self employed with a full time business, plus I run a separate growing nonprofit, I have heavy personal and family things to bear, and I am overwhelmed beyond capacity! I understand the loss of feelings of joy, even for things I normally love! I feel like I'm supposed to do something else with my life, but what?? I am lost! I desperately want someone to say they understand, and not just tell me to get over it, stop dwelling on it and move on (exact words I was told by someone close to me when I tried to confide in them!) Burnout is very real and it's hard! I am the only source of income for my family, so I feel trapped sometimes. I told you all of that just to say thank you! Thank you for being an example. Making a choice to take time off to get yourself back had to be hard, but it's admirable. Thank you for being so real and relatable. Thank you for sharing your life with us. You are loved here on this channel! ❤️

[@cheerfulmouse]

Gail, at the risk of sounding creepy, I care about you & your well-being. ❤️🙏 I pray you are able to find safe people to confide in 💜

[@amybee40]

Gail, I feel for you, and I get it. My parents are each having their own health crises, and I feel responsible to help them out both physically and in doing research and making good decisions, but it is SO out of my wheelhouse, and just when they need me most I have had to go back to work full time to take care of financial situations of my own. I live with guilt and stress every day. But there IS still joy in my life -- when I remember that I can go to Jesus and dump all my burdens at His feet, because He loves me even more than I love myself, then the weight lifts for a time and I can enjoy the blessings that are still there -- both the simple ones, and the ones that are mixed in with the stress and complications. Could say much more but anyhow, may God bless you and give you rest and renewal.

[@gaild9003]

@@amybee40 thank you for taking the time to share that with me. Jesus is my anchor, my rock, my best friend. I'm able to keep going through the hard times because of him! God bless!

[@pvxxlife06]

Totally relate to the burnout after a big life event. For our family it has been medical/health related things, and it just feels like we need a reset. Constant state of trying to get caught up and now finally slow down. Glad to see you back in whatever capacity you can!

[@suemacfarlane7372]

Welcome back! I can really identify with the 'overwhelm' thing, and not being able to have fun. I see my Facebook memories, and wonder where that person has gone who used to be able to find fun in almost any situation. Well done on making a good decision to take a break. We have all been through a lot together (pandemic), and we've all got our own stuff going on too. There's no wonder that so many of us felt/feel overwhelmed. It's good to see you back, remember to be gentle with yourself x

[@sfowler1017]

Thanks for sharing this! I went from married SAHM to single working mom in December and I do not have all my routines and survival mechanisms worked out yet. Fly Lady was never going to be my thing so I look forward to seeing what you try to give me more ideas.

[@Cloudfam6]

I was so happy to see you again-you have helped me so much:) but you also don’t need to explain or apologize for taking a break! Looking forward to whenever you bring us an update! Thank you!!!!

[@carolinedrockwell]

IM SO GLAD YOU ARE BACK! I’ve missed you!

[@kittycuddler5973]

You're adorable Steph. I selfishly missed you, it was lovely to see your smiling face again. Glad you have been enjoying your new home and feeling your roots grow.

[@shonaedmondson4268]

I love your honesty ❤ work life balance is so important and kids are wee for such a short time, although doesn't always feel like that when you're in the middle of it all! Great to see you back, glad you took the time you needed and look forward to what's coming next. You're such an inspiration 💛 thank you 😊 xx

[@rmac2489]

So proud you taking time to take care of yourself and your family that is so important. I too was so thrilled to open KZbin and there you were again! You have been through so much since you had your son - having a baby, selling your house, buying a new house, packing up and unpacking, complete gut and renovation, which meant packing up again, living in a trailer for a summer, moving back in and unpacking again - that is A LOT for anyone!! Always take care of you first and then you can be there for everyone else 🥰

[@bridgethegap2639]

I was born in '88 and knowing myself and watching people I look up to saying no to Instagram etc makes me so happy I never felt the urge to set up those accounts! At the same time this makes me worried about my kids, I kinda also feel it would make sense to know what is lurking out there... Anyway! Yay! You're back! Sending my love from Poland

[@laurengoudy920]

I totally understand what is like to realize you are in your forever home. Last year we seriously considered moving across the country to be closer to my sister the houses were more affordable in her area and I to do life with her. I really got wrapped up in the idea. When situations changed I realized it was better financially better to stay in our starter home and maximize our wealth opportunities than to upgrade our house. It was a grieving process but it did force me to embrace what I do have here and think creatively about what I can do to foster happiness for my family in our small home. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@kathleensmith79]

You were missed. We love you and are glad to see you back in any way we can. And you have not let any of down. Great to see you well and glad all of the family is well too.

[@stephaniecovey4216]

I personally feel like the same things that make you doubt yourself, make us LOVE you! You are preaching to the choir!! We totally relate to the demands of a busy life, with a full time business and a family to take care of , you deserve to have “me time”! We GET you!!! And we are SO happy to “see” you again!

[@sdennen]

Welcome back, Steph! Glad to see you and to hear that you just needed some well-deserved time off. Excited for your new content. You became my internet friend during isolation and your "progress not perfection" attitude was just what I needed to deal with my overwhelm trying to maintain my home with chronic illnesses. Thank you! ❤️

[@judypeterson803]

Home tour please! Welcome back! 🤗

[@emilyhaggard4420]

Welcome back!!! I have missed you. I totally understand what you have been experiencing. As a mother of three grown “stair-step children”, I remember the overwhelm, and the need for a break. You are a darling!!!

[@ClaudiaB.4266]

Good to hear that you are ok! No stress! You did so much for us in the past and I learned so much from you! Your Kitchen behind you lookes great. A house tour would be great. Nice greetings from Germany! 💚

[@EmmaCLjungberg]

So glad you're back! I think you're awesome for taking a break, it's inspiring to see someone prioritize when life gets a bit too much. Your plan for your channel sounds great, and I would love to see the result of your huge reno, your kitchen looks great! Hugs all the way from Sweden!😀

[@MAC-xx5to]

Great to see you again. You should always take the time you need without anyone judging you. Your kitchen looks completed since the last video I saw. Love the blue! Hopefully, in the future you will do a tour. Take care ❤️

[@jennaalce4016]

This is awesome Steph. I had a hard time transitioning from DECLUTTER ALL THE THINGS SO I CAN HAVE MORE TIME FOR FAMILY to actually enjoying time with family. Peace is where it's at. Grace for ourselves. We LIVE in our homes, they are going to look lived in. Happy to see you back and excited to see where your content will go next 🎉

[@elissaewing3363]

💯 support you in taking time off from social media and taking the time needed to focus inwards on your family, yourself, your needs, and what matters most. We all need that! Welcome back!

[@fabifun1]

Welcome back dear Steph! You certainly have been missed! BTW, you look amazing! Be with us when you can, do not stress ... you have already changed my life! Baci from Rome, Italy 😘

[@susa5846]

Welcome back, Steph! Good to hear you're alright. Family and health should always go first, you did everything right. ❤️ I personally wonder everytime how some KZbinrs make so much videos to upload twice a week... As you said, it should be fun. On both sides. You make me smile being so honest and open with everything. Forgetting things - that's so me. Yesterday I realised I forgot to celebrate my birthday the last about 10 years. I just didn't think about it before. 😅 Last year I discovered my husband and I both have ADHD, before I felt like you discribed everything as a burden and wondered when I laughed the last time. It needed so much power to always remember what to do, keep holding on to my routines, being an adult mother for my child (and often enough for my husband, too...). We started to overthink our whole living. We're still learning to adopt ways which work better for us. So yes, if a system doesn't work right for you, try another. We simplyfied many things so far and life is so much easier if you have less clutter. Less things means less work, less stress and more family time. Wishing you all the best! 🍀❤️ Greetings from Germany. 👋

[@honormohr7700]

So glad your back! I'm also glad you to took a break! Your showing us that taking care of yourself is so important! Look forward to your new videos.

[@Life_in_Jenns_Corner]

SOOO excited you’re back! Love you and your channel. I am very much looking forward to your video on clearing mental clutter. So thankful for your transparency and realness. I hope your break was truly wonderful and that you and your family are doing wonderful!

[@karenhanson8004]

The LORD Bless you and yours! GREATLY MISSED and so blessed you’re back whenever and with whatever you have to share with all of us! Steph, You are so loved, cherished, and appreciated ❤

[@andreamartin4789]

It's so good to see you back! I've missed you. You do whatever you need to take care of yourself. You absolutely do not have to explain anything, but it is nice to know a little bit of the journey you've been on to bring you to how you feel now.

[@luciepatterson1177]

Welcome back, I’m so happy you are all well! I’ve enjoyed all your KZbin videos and they’ve really helped me be better about organizing! And you’re so pleasant to watch. Thanks for all you’ve done and will do! In YOUR time. Blessings!

[@emilyk8]

Just the other day my 6yo daughter and I were looking for some new videos of yours, as we love your channel. I’m so glad you’ve taken the time out to look after yourself and your family. And I’m so happy to see you back again! 🎉❤

[@carmiejones8289]

SOOO proud of you for taking the time for you, your family, your home.... Yay, you!!!

[@SnowWhite1490]

This was the most relatable video ever. Thank you for showing us realness and being vulnerable with your struggles! 💙💙

[@debbieturley8673]

So glad you took time for yourself! We all have times in our lives where we just have to unplug. I’m a FlyLady fan, and use her tools, but as a retiree with health issues had to give myself Grace and accept that whatever I accomplish is enough. Sometimes I can complete may daily routines and other times the last thing I want to do is clean my sink, lol! So happy to know you are giving yourself Grace!

[@courtneyanderson3108]

Good for you, Steph!!! For recognizing the need to reprioritize your life and put your family first, where they should always be!! 👍 Thank you for past videos you have shared and for any videos you choose to share in the future at your comfortable pace. You are wonderful!!😊♥️ Marietta Anderson

[@SharedLeadership]

Welcome back Steph! So glad to hear the break was so clarifying for you - and good riddance to Instagram! You owe us absolutely nothing but it's so nice to know we'll be seeing more content from you❤️ Definitely interested in mental decluttering tips, and reasonable routines that allow you to build in time for things that matter (alongside homemaking). Will be keen to see how you work in your personal interests and self-care while meeting the needs of your home and family - you're an inspiration!👏👏👏

[@andreea.andreea]

You are so nice caring for your community, I m sure everybody here cares for you regardless to how often you post new videos. The existing ones are so good and useful.🤗

[@user-yk1hn2zx2b]

I think I’m seeing that you’ve not posted since this video. I hope you are enjoying your life again! You are so missed! I think I speak for many of your subscribers when I say I just hope whatever you’re doing you know how special you are. Please put you and your family first. Wishing you many blessings going forward. Thank you for sharing your life with us and helping us. ❤️You are loved.

[@bonniewoodard2771]

So delightful to have you, (and Jill), back !! And So appreciate what you shared :) Very helpful as you touched on things we all may be feeling and didn't know how to Say It!! Big hugs of love to you and your family XO

[@karenk2831]

Hello my Canadian friend!! So nice to see you! KZbin is my only social media! I'm 😂😂😂 about the phone call from Jill to turn your picture upright! I keep you and your family in my prayers. There was a time when my day would end with nothing done, and I'd beat myself up about it. No more! I have routines thanks to your channel! I have established a routine - get dressed, shine my sink, do a load of wash, exercise, make the bed regularly (not in this order) among some other things. I also want to start a paired down "zone" cleaning routine as well. Take it one day at a time Stephanie.❤

[@emilyvalot6948]

So nice to see you back! Amen on bringing more peace to your home, we could all use that in a world gone mad ❤️

[@beckymakellky9989]

I am a recent follower since the beginning of December/22. Your previous videos were like a life raft for me, as of now 3 months in, I am benefiting daily. Thank you and I do get the need for self care!!

[@ruthannepayler6969]

I have missed you. I am glad you are well. What I can see of your house looks beautiful. I can understand that things would be overwhelming. You were redoing a house AND you have kids! No need to explain anything. You do you! I am blessed to hear you and see you. I am glad to hear that you took a break from social media. I am 57 and just started FB during the pandemic because that was the only way my pastors communicated. And that is all I plan to do. I follow a few on KZbin - you and Diane and a few crafters and that's it. You are real and authentic and I appreciate what you do. Many blessings on you and your family as you live your lives with authenticity!

[@alisongregson4740]

I am so glad to know everything is ok with you. I get the need for a social media break. I look forward to your new content as I am struggling to find a new normal too. So good to see you again!

[@TheDeepRedCharlie]

I want to get to the point where I give myself the grace and space to be me the way you have. I admire you and your courage in going forward in a new way!

[@jocelynsmith9048]

Welcome back! I have truly missed you. So glad you took the time that you needed and have your priorities in place. Here to continue supporting the channel. Hugs from Atlanta, Georgia!

[@AliraRodina]

Yas! I have been worried, and I missed you! Aand right now I need this channel, so I am super happy. Following this channel has been super helpful to keep my ADHD brain motivated to do chores and organize my mental clutter. Thank you for being there! U r da best!

[@katiecarnahan538]

Yay! We've missed you! So glad you're all ok and I can totally relate to the social media hiatus. You don't owe us an explanation we know you're human and have a life. But I've been super antsy wanting to see your house updates 😂 it looks great the little bit you showed and you look fantastic by the way. We will all love anything you post don't worry.

[@lindamcadarra402]

Steph can we start with no pressure? Like your videos in the beginning. Showing how to keep a simple calendar and planner. I appreciate so much ur honesty. Can we also include self care. That’s something I never really heard about until these past few months. PaLike a rhythm. And maybe talking about getting past 35! Sincerely with love and support and prayers, Linda, Pa.

[@XwynntopiaX]

You’re doing great! No pressure, lots of love!

[@brandijordan9969]

Video ideas: grocery hauls n meal plan, what I made for dinner this week with those groceries, tour of the new house (basic), tour of each room behind cabinets for organization, workout with me, clean with me, etc. you don’t have to box yourself into cleaning videos. I got bored with seeing fly lady videos on repeat.

[@momof2momof2]

Ohhhhh SOOOO happy to see you again ! What you have gone through is normal. Looks like you have gotten to a place of finding balance. Good for you. I did check on you once in a while :) So glad you are back 🥰🌱💐🌷💗✝

[@kathydavis6408]

So glad you had the chance to step back and enjoy life. I can relate so much to the issues you talked about and you have encouraged me today 🥰 I look forward to your new videos!

[@lexiswanson8112]

When your sister called lol YOU ARE TOO FRICKIN CUTE XD Sis is a real one! I totally get what you mean... I'm currently in that stage where I'm staying off social media as often as I can. We''ve gotta keep our priorities straight, and I'm so glad we're listening! PROUD OF YOU!!!

[@psucarrierae]

You're awesome. Thanks for being authentic and wonderful. Missed you, lady! 💗 Welcome back and no pressure!

[@LauraW9532]

So glad to see you back. You have been missed. Good for you for taking care of yourself and your family. Hope you will be giving us a tour of the house. What you can see of it in the background is beautiful.

[@mstash164]

Hahahaha bless….I loved when yours sister called to say you were sideways😂😂😂so sweet and you are gorgeous and I love this channel. You are helping me put the systems in place to help my home stay clean. Welcome back x.

[@KarenAnn_2007]

Hey Steph it's so good to see you!!! I've missed your channel, but mostly you. As far as you needing to take that break, never feel like you have to explain your self to us on why. I'm just glad you and your family are healthy and okay. I look forward to your KZbin posts. I really love any content you put out. I do hope we can get a complete tour if your renovated house. So good to have you back. Missed you!!!! 😘

[@Tam-vu2mj]

we would not care if you did your videos upside down....I almost peed my pants when I saw your video pop up! I get the break and we just love you!!! I look forward to the new journey with you. You just do what feels best for you when you want to post we will happily go along with you. You are like a friend to many of us and just enjoy you! I also slipped away from the flylady style but still trying to keep up with a few routines but felt too much pressure with all the stuff it involved with my season I am in right now. Thank you for this and for being true to yourself and to your family for what is important to you.

[@helengroenestein4735]

Woo hoo. So glad you’re back. I’ve missed your happy face and your help in getting my life organised.

[@angiegleason7857]

Hey Steph! It's great to see you back; you have such a glow and look gorgeous! I can totally relate to a slower pace and mental clutter. I see a therapist and she always tells me: ,'Slow down. "She also reminds me to: Stop, Reframe, and Replace when I begin overthinking things. You are an inspiration, and I cannot wait to see your new content! Your forever home looks amazing!!

[@clarebrock1260]

Lovely surprise to see you, you brightened up a very wet and dreary afternoon here in England! So glad you’re back, your home looks beautiful.

[@BastianBooks]

Hi and welcome back. I admire that you recognized your priorities, let your kids have all the space they deserve and being fully present for your family and yourself. I loke sit down videos (even side ways ones!) because I like to listen to videos as I do things, so you might consider making videos that are simpler for you to shoot and simple chatty updates as this one seem a good option as we don't need fancy edits or complicated stuff. You are such a nice person and you have lot of good things to teach: just pick something that interests you and take 5 minutes to tell us how you see things, so that we can reflect together. I think most of us struggle with perfectionism and I remember this was also something you faced years ago, keeping up with work, responsibilities and family life... You could make a series of random videos where you might talk more about this inner journey: it would be an opportunity for you to ponder, slow down, and for us to think of our own journeys. Women would like to be perfect for everyone but really only need to love themselves as they are. We could learn to do that together.

[@barbarakandel2790]

Hi Steph! It's so good to see that beautiful smile again. Always put your family and mental health first. 💖 Work/Life balance is always a challenge. I wish someone would have told me to reduce the inventory in my home when our kids were young. The less inventory you have, the easier it is to manage and that leaves more time for the people and activities that you love! Hugs! 💖

[@LavenderDaisies]

What a refreshing video. It’s so good to see you. I have looked for your videos and wondered where you were. I am so glad you were enjoying your family and your home. I love the new vision for your channel. I will definitely be watching when you post. You are just such and an adorable, Beautiful, bubbly, open person who makes me feel better after watching. Which is so refreshing. I am so glad to see you back. Enjoy that little family of yours. The time really does go so fast. I didn’t believe it when my kids where young and I was in the thick of it with 4 busy kids. I smiled the whole time you talked about your family at the beginning of the video. You are their everything and love you so much. And I am sure they have appreciated having more of mom’s time lately, AND to see her smile more often. 😊 There is nothing better you could be doing now. Even though I miss your weekly videos, I can see how much you need your kids- as much as they need you. Enjoy this Precious Time with your family and your Beautiful, newly remodeled, forever home. Much love ❤

[@jenniferlasher-wo9ui]

Since you asked for ideas…One of my favorite videos you did was your New Years resolutions with your sister. I think it was 22 goals for 2022. Something like that could be fun. Even 1/2 year resolutions for the 2nd half of the year or whatever. I just loved your ideas. I know I would enjoy it! Thank you for being so normal in this video!

[@Diana-jr5rl]

Thanks for being so honest and real. I’m glad you’re back.

[@susanknox1102]

I will watch whatever you post! I really missed your content. I was particularly looking forward to more before and afters of your move back into your forever home. And Jill! I would love to see more of you and Jill!

[@fannifetzer8798]

Yay, so happy to see you‘re back. I‘ve never really followed anyone on KZbin until I came across your channel. But soon I realized: you are on a break. Been watching and enjoying a ton of your videos and listening to your podcast (the best!!!) since and want to thank you for all your great work and really helpful and uplifting content. I‘m also thrilled about your new ideas and perspectives - the world needs those changes of focus! Again, so happy to actually seeing you back. And thanks for letting us being part of all your steps of development and changes throughout those years as well as your honest presentation of real life (*Jill calling you was hilarious and simply an example how live life always gets us)