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[@Elle-iu7th]

I really appreciate a black man that has the strength and integrity to tell the truth about our community

[@earlinebeaman684]

I am really tired of hearing this conversation. If Black men were going to change they would have done it by now. Stop begging Black men to do what is right. They know what it takes to be called a man. They know how broken they are, so if they don't want to heal then just leave them alone, change the subject and move on with your life pursuing your own womanly dreams. It is not written in stone that a Black woman has to be with a Black man. Pursue your options. There are other Black men on this planet other than this group you keep dealing with if you just have to have a Black man. Do not lower your standards to appease these type of men. They tell you to choose better so do that then, choose better.

[@MegaSlimgoody1]

Exactly, I will choose better.

[@tjmastermind]

Listening to you it’s obvious that your messages are meant to hit men first, and women second. For any man that thinks your channel is meant to pander to women he is likely pretty broken. That part you mentioned about leadership was a major key, because whether you agree with the antics of the online gender war or not, one must admit you Cannot lead if you believe someone else is in control of your results/outcomes. If the BW is responsible for the state of the union of the black community as a whole then that’s an admission of BM subordination. I don’t believe that’s true but following the manosphere’s logic, that’s one of their beliefs. Either you lead and take responsibility for the bad and good outcomes or admit you are not the leader. However, both cannot coexist. When you serve in leadership roles you understand this premise very well.

[@klnj9714]

💚

[@klnj9714]

You are deep enough to understand.

[@countrylay_d4389]

That's an excellent perspective 👏

[@superodalisque]

A man has the expertise of being a man. He understands being a man the best. Men can give us some information but only another woman with experience can actually inform us about being a man. A woman can't tell a man everything about being a man because she doesn't have that experience. It's only right for men to be the main focus of a man. No matter what is happening a man must find a way to take control of his own destiny. That's the difference between a man and a boy.

[@shenquejames7598]

Exactly

[@Orchid_1026]

I appreciate you for calling out how we condition young boys to be womanizers from a young age. When young men (18-25) actually want to be in a more steady dating stage with a young lady we tell them to not want that, but then berate young women when they cannot find a stable partner. Of course she can't! We have socialized the young men (who would be her natural counterpart) to not want the same things. That causes the disconnect.

[@khem127]

100%!!!!!! Thank You!!!!

[@ladyofspa]

Simply stated

[@vivianwade3185]

You're so correct. Most black families need both the husband and the wife to work.

[@ThemisThoth]

The level of introspection here is amazing to to see. I am extremely encouraged. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@hymnodyhands]

Greetings, Themis!

[@ThemisThoth]

@@hymnodyhands 🥰

[@AJD7233]

“If you never take accountability for your actions for what you do, u can go to whatever the colour women you want you still gonna have the same problems cuz its YOU” 🙏🏾. Bless you!!!!

[@superodalisque]

A black man can not be helped with lies about how he comes across. Malcom X said a man is judged by how he treats his woman. So if you are known for treating your women the worse and leaving your own blood to struggle who will show you respect?

[@deleshiadavis4326]

I really wish our community could come together and heal. I’m so drained by all of the black man vs. black woman competition and hate that we have for one another. Black men seem to really hate us which caused us to become more masculine to protect ourselves. Yes, black men have been through a lot and so have we as black women. We have always been right out there on the frontline with black men, even though after slavery they started to divest to white women and other races of women. They forgot about us and our pain just to chase whiteness which is deep rooted self hatred. I grew up watching the women around me be loyal to their husbands who in turn abused them physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. That trauma has caused us to become masculine in a certain ways. Do black men think that we want to take on a masculine traits? No! We did it out of necessity. I love to rest in my femininity but not many black men allow room for that. I refuse to come home to a war zone so if that results in my being single until death, I’m okay with that. I saw and still see how a lot of black women are treated by our own men. I know not all black men are abusers but honestly the majority are! Yes, some black women are horrible people, too but the majority of women are not. I keep seeing black men say that it’s us but their relationships with other races fail also. Have black men thought about why? The good black man is rare so when I hear them say to choose better, I wonder how? Especially, when most of these men bamboozled us into a relationship just to be what they said they aren’t. We need healing but to be honest I don’t see it happening in my lifetime or maybe ever. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@majestic8861]

💯💯

[@ndongengone7284]

lool

[@babyg7796]

Wholeheartedly agree. BW have Stockholm Syndrome-still seeking love & validation from your abuser/captor/oppressor. BW just need to quietly exit this environment and let the chips fall where they may. It’s a sad reality but, you can only be a loyal punching bag for so long. There shouldn’t be a “war” between black men and women, I think we just need to PEACEFULLY go our separate ways from one another since nothing positive rarely seems to happen when we’re together…

[@aton-ramasculin3sunworship353]

The community is gone for the best these moderns have destroyed their own families.

[@jenniferaschiltz1756]

Coming from a white woman majority white men are narssistic womanizers.white men think and believe white woman should be there own personal maid service 24/7 jumping how high all hours during day and night time sleep.We have issues white woman don't have a back bone really when they try to have one. Honestly white people are scared minority black people

[@ww9738-c5u]

This is much needed content and thank you for starting the conversation. As a BM I’m sharing this content because you not only mention the problem but offer some solutions. This is one of the few spaces where something positive is provided and it’s appreciated.

[@TheShumakeWay]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@vivianwade3185]

Come on people, get these likes up!!!! This man is wonderful!!! He's real!!! He's fair to men and women, unlike ks and others. God bless you all!!! Peace

[@judahscattered4corners694]

KS went hard at men also to

[@healthandwellness6312]

Yes get the likes up. He’s balance and trying to help the black community. Will be sharing a lot of your videos on my Facebook page 👍🏽

[@MegaSlimgoody1]

I agree, May God bless you as well 🙏🏾

[@constance171]

Thank you Shumake, for not letting up on a lot of these "broken" blcck men and telling them that they MUST take accountability for their own actions. Thank you Shumake, for being an advocate for blcck women because we are and have been underrepresented and vilified on ALL LEVELS, for so long, which is truly disheartening. It's even more heart wrenching when it's coming from our own men. I NEVER thought I would be living in a time where I would be "AFRAID" to just date blcck men.

[@pureisrael9557]

Unfortunately most people prefer a life of darkness, and hate the light because it exposes them - and forces them to take the finger they're pointing at others, and turn three fingers towards themselves.

[@ladyofspa]

To agree with this young man means a person has to do something different and that requires work, effort ,energy Change can be scary. Being different can even be lonely but in the end it's a must.

[@josepharcher9620]

Keep on doing what ur doing Brah. The Black Nation NEEDS you.

[@klnj9714]

We definitely appreciate you. Thank you so much for the positive healing energy. Women WANT to follow you and yield to you BECAUSE we can trust you. You're gaining what your haters only talk about gaining... the respect, admiration, and love of the women in the community.

[@itsallgood6146]

ur user name 👹

[@klnj9714]

@@itsallgood6146 Lol. True.

[@countrylay_d4389]

Shumake, it's obvious that negativity sells. Then there are those who profit from the negativity so be careful with these elements. Keep doing what you're doing, it will yield fruits. If you're doing good, you will get pushback because light dispels darkness.keep pushing.

[@get_aclue4218]

It’s unfortunate that the voice of the righteous is silenced by the voice of the wicked.

[@moorlivingholistic]

You are a man of god, guided by the ancestors. We have your back 🙌🏾

[@cocoblessings]

The Holy Spirit (Ruah ha’Qodesh) guides a man of God (Yah).

[@zionssoldierofwar7194]

@@cocoblessings HalleluYah sis. I don't understand this new ancestor thing. Everybody giving more praise to the ancestors than The Most High.

[@cocoblessings]

@@zionssoldierofwar7194 IKR! Sis, some of our people don't know that if we accept the fullness of Yah, which includes the fullness of His Ruah ha’Qodesh, then the ONLY spirit guiding us will be from Yah, & Yah alone. May The Most High Yah continue to bless you always! 🙏🏽

[@zionssoldierofwar7194]

@@cocoblessings You too Achoti! Shalom♥️

[@PaperMario64]

You asked why people are hating on you for promoting the right things. It’s because people are following the devil and your words sting. Simple as that. The Bible says you can’t serve two masters, so many folks are out here following the devil by default. They don’t know why your words sting and they don’t realize it’s because they’ve been on a bad path. They just know hearing the truth is painful to them. As for the black men who are exploiting black women issues for profit, the basic Bible lesson is, you can’t remove the speck from their eye until you remove the beam from your own. Critique and fix yourself before you attack the flaws in someone else. Many men want to continue playing that game of benefits without commitment. All this discussion is just a cover.

[@andreabynoe1829]

I think that the work that you are doing in the black community is greatly needed and appreciated. Keep up the good work even in the face of opposition.

[@TheShumakeWay]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@aton-ramasculin3sunworship353]

Will smith is wasting his time making these videos.

[@Kmama801]

Along the way I decided to only listen to positive videos and cut out anything that was not contributing in a positive way. I can’t remember when I starting watching your videos but it is part of the change I have made for the better. Your words are very appreciated and are making a difference. Blessings

[@ladyofspa]

Iam coming to that conclusion. I think it's time I unsubscribe from all the noise on KZbin and only focus on the uplifting intelligent, even fun influencers. The negativity is not helping anyone....💕

[@Empressgem613]

Hi Mr. Schumacke, I would like to remind you that you are a great role model. Being a leader you must be willing to know that you will not be able to save everyone. Continue reaching out to the people who are supportive and receptive. We acknowledge the black men of the community who share our common goals and values and thank you 🙏🏽 As far as our past, it’s very small minded to think that everyone had a perfect past. It’s a learning experience and we should be able to be transparent. #realones

[@TheShumakeWay]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@superodalisque]

Even a few more getting the message has an impact. Who knows what one of THEM may do too !

[@RC-iq2hh]

@@TheShumakeWay I’d love to know why you didn’t marry the mother of your children? Also , did the woman you married have children ? I am Curious bc it seems many of y’all get it together later while we have it together and many have to settle for A man with baggage.

[@bd10232003]

@@RC-iq2hh watch his earlier videos.

[@aprilgreen1587]

So very proud of you. You are speaking truth. We need to hear it.

[@TheShumakeWay]

Thank you

[@cj1courtney]

You’re doing a great job. As a young woman you help me to be more mindful of a lot of obstacles we face in the black community. You give me hope that everyone doesn’t think alike and that there are like minded individuals who believe in progression through positive actions and words. Thank you, you are well respected and deserve everything good coming your way!

[@arleneaugustahair8393]

As long as we’re accountable on both sides, I’m good. Whether women like it or not, we definitely need men to lead so we can rest in our femininity.

[@miashere0529]

I love that. “Rest in our femininity”,

[@ForbsieLaLa]

When I tell you I am tired of having to be strong because these men don't want to step up, I really do!!!

[@childofgodfornowon904]

💯💯💯💯

[@superodalisque]

It's fair to call each other out if we're fair about it and if it comes from love. We need to be love and solution driven.

[@Orbt_]

But they are not leading and haven’t been.

[@ebonynerd]

Thank you for sharing your testimony and thank you for being positive and trying to unite us and not divide us...You are such a blessing.. keep going fam...Happy Holidays

[@vivianwade3185]

The men that want to talk down on you, work for satan!!! The devil is in them!!! You keep doing what you're doing!!!! Stay with god and you'll win. You'll win over those ignorant low lifes who work for satan. God sent you to us, the people who need to hear what you're saying!!!! Stay strong. You got this!!!

[@keirmiller7198]

💯 truth

[@vivianwade3185]

@@keirmiller7198 thank you. God bless you

[@aton-ramasculin3sunworship353]

I worship set 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@misssterling3094]

You're doing good work Mr. Shumake....stay encouraged!! Your voice is needed.

[@bakuramaximllion6101]

Keep doing your thing bro , I may not agree with everything you say , but I do appreciate your voice , at the end of the day the men today will keep working , learning and prepare for tomorrow , the once’s that are motivated will use your voice to do better .

[@adrianwillis66]

Thank you for this channel, and thank you for mentioning accountablity however on other channels they only talk about women being accountable

[@superodalisque]

I'm going to suggest we link all of the good black men we know who are also trying so they can all support each other. I think they feel isolated.

[@lisacook8589]

Keep doing what you're doing, saying what you're saying and continuing to be a light to those of us who appreciate you. Who knows, maybe God will open the eyes, hearts and ears of some of those that oppose your POSITIVE messages🙏🙏.

[@Tezzybiz]

Straight Talk👏🏾.I most definitely appreciate you.Thank you.It’s an honor to hear you Speak this real talk✨💪🏾

[@elizabethg.653]

You are such an inspiration for me. I'm exposed to so much negativity and discouraging messages from a lot of the men I know personally, so to see someone such as yourself that wants to positively impact his community and be a man of integrity for his own family gives me hope for men in general. Your message is so important, thank you for all you do and hope you have a blessed and prosperous new year!

[@FavDogBisquit]

They love to sharpen the points they want proven……. I let my Sun know he’s handsome BUT DONT PLAY WITH WOMEN LIKE THEY’RE TOYS!

[@cherylmcleod6088]

Ur a deep thinker....this is facts...we actually speak life into ppls existence...the tongue can be a weapon...it can be used for good or evil

[@superodalisque]

Thank you for the real show of love for our community both male and female. I'm proud of black men. It takes a LOT to be a black man. In order to be a good black man they basically need to be superheroes because it sure isn't easy. That's why a lot of weak men want the rest of us all to submit or lower our power because they can't have power where other black people male and female show theirs. None of us can afford to be weak to normalize their foolishness if we want to improve. Strong people hold each other up and don't step on the weak. They can ALL have our praise and respect but only if they deserve it.

[@brilliancemusic6095]

You are much appreciated. Both sides have to take accountability and come up with a solution.

[@Godstrumpet2010]

May God continue to bless you for the work you are doing bro. It’s definitely needed.

[@queenbluejaye1436]

I am so glad I came across your channel. I would love to interview you and other men with your mindset. Ore of these messages need to be relayed. My Poppy showed me how a man loves a woman and treats her by the way he treated my Nana and my Nana vice versa. I also speak to young girls about the importance of having self love, self acceptance, self respect, morals and values and to realize their worth.

[@cathytelford9027]

You’re doing an amazing job! Keep pressing on, people hear you.. it’s a change! It’s not people but spirits.. God has given you the authority to take your voice/ message to places you can’t even imagine! I’m proud of you.. Respect

[@mindyours8343]

Men vs adult males

[@KissaraDB]

You get the vision.

[@Olivia_Rae17]

This is wisdom, experience,accountability, integrity, purpose, honesty, leadership and strength and love….this is masculinity and manhood.

[@ladyofspa]

Versus the other platforms discussions focus on having thoughts, beliefs and feelings about yourself and others of confusion, angry, Deceit, control, using, fearful, hateful, selfish, negative. Then don't understand why things are upside in love.

[@newyorkdiva3]

Don't ever change

[@margalinesanon4483]

Thank you for your message. You help me to be a better woman by understanding how a man needs to be.

[@musclegurl8302]

Much respect, much appreciated. Bless you always, keep doing what you do. 👏👍😊💐🙏💖

[@njemilenantan2269]

I am from Great Britain and I love the content of all of your videos. You are a Black man that speaks to Black Women all over the world because the challenges we face with Black men here is the same as in the USA as strange as it seems. Systemic racism appears to have cloaked us no matter where we are with certain behaviours. Just wanted to say thank you for all you do. Your wife is blessed.

[@rhondae8222]

Praise the Lord, Jesus Christ 🙂

[@Babydoll-gf6cm]

This content is desperately needed for our community, thank you

[@ninamoore602]

Thank you for being so positive. You are a blessing to me. Keep it coming. Love you my brother.

[@DaQueenPope]

Where are your friends is what I want to know 😂😂😂. Laughing but so serious!

[@Victorious-gx9ur]

I thank God for you and men like you. I will continue to pray against the evil mindset in the community and ask God to cast down the division that the enemy has caused in the relationship and families.

[@corynna50]

Amen 🙌🏽 God gave you that purpose .. alot of people wants a platform to preach the truth .. but a true preacher of God doesnt need all that God uses who is willing to ..

[@ChinaLynn-w2p]

Thank you for sharing your story, being authentic and speaking truth. Your words are supported by the gospel, many blessings to you 💜.

[@BrittneySamoneSilver]

All praises to The Most High!

[@healthandwellness6312]

What you doing is good in nature as you stated. Keep up the good work. Sending support from ChiTown 👍🏽

[@juanitaglover8776]

May your passion and love for our people continue.

[@klnj9714]

Maybe you can start doin gvideo titles that draw in more BM, like How To Lead as a BM. Or "Dictating Vs. Leading Women in the Community". A lot of men think just telling women what they want them to be and be like is "leading" but that's just dictating. Leading is when you gain the TRUST of your followers and inspire them to want to listen to your advice. A lot of men in the manosphere don't understand what it means to lead by example. They want us to be respectful to them, but BW are just following their lead in their disrespectful attitude toward them. However BM behave toward BW, BW will definitely match the energy, because BW follow their lead naturally.

[@ktpris5754]

There definitely is a lack of BM leadership and alot of BM blaming BW for every issue under the sun. Real leaders take accountability for results--they don't blame their people. But then, I guess that's how we got into this mess in the first place...BW had to step up during a dearth of BM leadership and now BM are mad at them for doing so. But wasn't their own moms doing so to take care of them??? It's wild.

[@klnj9714]

​@@ktpris5754 I agree. And that's why I encourage BW to refuse to take the lead in any change. Refuse to be the bigger man. Refuse to be the role model. Refuse to fix anything, unless you're helping a BM who has already taken the lead in fixing it. We need to be exactly what they have asked us to be... followers of *their* lead. If their lead is to date interracially, kiss up to nonblack men, never speak up for us, engage in petty fights online with the opposite sex. I say we do the same. (I mean we shouldn't follow any masculine mannerisms, ofc, but in so far as reflecting back whatever is the feminine equivalent toward them). It's better for them than if we try to set the example for them, because that's just going to lead to the same gender displacement, we've always had. They finally need to swim or sink once and for all. The community needs to be exactly what the men make it to be. Nothing more, nothing less. That is being the follower we women were meant to be with men, and letting them be the leaders they were meant to be with us. If they act right, BW too will act right too. That's how I see it anyway.

[@EdenSophia118]

@@klnj9714 If we do that, we are doomed. BW are already the leaders in the homes and in the communities. We are the ONLY women on the planet who live in a Matriarch Society. The men left this community to us a long time ago. Why do you think they are not building anything? They do not care. What we are witnessing is not new. The same rhetoric they are saying today, they were saying 60 years ago.

[@klnj9714]

@@EdenSophia118 We would not be doomed as individual women. The dual-sex community would be doomed. We will still be a community as BW who prioritize, protect, and take care of each other as BW, but we cannot successfully lead a dual sex community... it's already doomed. A dual-sex community is nothing without it's true leaders, and until they decide to lead an initiative to heal it, I say let it burn sis. Women have to become masculine to lead a dual-sex community, and I think we've learned our lesson on that one. If you ever feel uncertain, just listen to Usher.

[@jojosmom8819]

We follow your lead To be able to feed the wanting in your soul replace the essence that once made you whole Erase the residue of degradation, remove the stench of humiliation and motivate you to a level higher than self preservation WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD Submit. You think we can’t? It would be our pleasure! Sinking to depths that you can not measure Naked, Exposed lips, hips, butt and thighs Longing to satisfy the lust in your eyes WE FLLOW YOUR LEAD Can this body heal your soul Heat a heart waxed cold? Release you from an enemy’s stronghold We twirl our sex batons and video flesh parades Trying to complete you with these desperate sexcapades WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD We want to respect you Never want to hurt you We’ll give you our bodies but we’d rather give you our virtue When everyone deserts you we are always there We’ll bend over backwards to demonstrate how we care Coz WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD If we are chickens, hoes, sluts and skanks Its because you abused your rank Hated your own flesh and abandoned your seed God made Adam before He made Eve WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD When will you understand it’s the man that sets the tone When you’re not around we smell your cologne and hope We are one believe We bleed when you bleed Respect yourself by respecting me Set us free WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD Wave our hands and hip hop hoes And answer to your tsss animal calls Throw our dreams away trying to break down your walls Chasing after waterfalls WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD You lie to our daughters and kill our sons Glorify violence solve issues with guns We are your mothers, your sisters, your daughters, your friends We need you to be men WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD This is a men’s world, no doubt. It’s true So the shape that it’s in must belong to you, coz WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD Its a heavy load to bear and an awesome battle to fight But His yoke is easy and His burden is light Put on a full armour of god Pick up your sword and take heed Let love be your guide WE FOLLOW YOUR LEAD

[@Denise_LilsSugarLoafKitchen]

I love your message!! Bless you and yours for this New Year 2022! Thank you!!

[@Lynnejordan1218]

Just remember that Jesus was persecuted and he healed the sick and brought the dead back to life, just keep going and pleading the Blood of Jesus over you, your wife and family and let nothing stop the ministry that God gave you, Blessings Bro Shumake

[@klnj9714]

Amen

[@juanitaglover8776]

What you are doing is very important and needed. Please keep speaking Truth, especially to our lost men. God Bless You for speaking out and being such s geat(King) example.

[@vueme805]

Remember Shumake they opposed our Savior and crucified him. This is the way of ppl who are lost and have not accepted that what they are opposing is right and righteous. You can only keep doing what you doing and hope it reaches more black men.

[@yonab8649]

Well done my brother! I solute you and appreciate you. Nuff respect! Blessings to you and your. You have a new subscriber. ❤️✊🏿🙏

[@theclassicbeauty8244]

Why would someone want to “weaken” or humble somebody else to begin with?? The psychological process has to be tremendously backwards to think it’s the duty of any person to break somebody else.

[@rhondae8222]

Please God, not man (Galatians 1:10, Bible).

[@ladyofspa]

Black people must take full responsibility for who they pedestal, desire, and pursue cause often it's no love it's programming where the story ends poorly..... Our people insist on basing relationship on external body parts, unsustainable features and characteristics. We are a people that don't know how to build sustainable fulfilling relationships, and repeat our defeating history over and over. Then we blame the other, try again and fail again cause we refuse to look within. What you like is not working for you, how you feel is attracting what takes you down. How you think, feel, believe is not loving you back, time to change if you want success in love. You get what you are. Period. You lie, angry, abusive, don't really like self or opposite sex your relationship will reflect just that. Exactly. Clean it up

[@yourstrulymsanita]

Beautiful Messages, I thank God that you allowed God to use you and be willing to share your vulnerable side. 🙏❤️

[@RC-iq2hh]

I wonder did this man marry one of the baby mamas and make her a wife. Or did he marry a successful blk woman with no children to drain with his baggage. All this talk is good but what blk women are lacking from blk men is action. We aren’t seeing it and a lot of these conversations are worthless.

[@RC-iq2hh]

@Joel why didn’t he marry her ? Now the woman he is with had to settle and now she has to take care of him and the kids Also “only one baby mother “ 😂😂😂😅🤣 the bar is so low!

[@RC-iq2hh]

@Joel this man (shumake) has an entire video posted 6 days ago about blk men’s failure in the community. I never said I hate anyone I am speaking to a point even this man knows is an issue! Accountability is lacking and even he made a blk woman a baby mother 2x over and didn’t marry her. Blk men need to hold each other accountable before this occurs. So instead of going back and forth with me find a young man to mentor. Make sure he doesn’t procreate with a woman he isn’t married to.

[@RobertaS127]

Please understand that two people having kids together does not mean they'd work well together as husband and wife. My parents did that and argued with each other for most of the marriage. They stayed together as long as they did for the sake of the kids, which was a big mistake. We were put in the middle of everything (not intentionally on our parents' part). And, even though we all lived under the same roof, we stopped doing things as a family. It was always us and mom doing things together or us and dad doing things together, but never all of us doing things together anymore. By then it had gotten to the point where they no longer argued, but, unfortunately, they no longer talked to each other either, except to say good morning or good night or if it had something to do with the kids. It was a very awkward and stressful situation, and sadly enough, I was actually happy when my parents separated. We still saw and/or talked to our dad every day after he moved out, so nothing changed on that front. He was still our dad and was still there for us, he just didn't live with us any more. I say all that to say this: Please think carefully before encouraging people to get married because they might not be right for each other.

[@M0lew0man]

He talks about that relationship. Should be easy to find the video.

[@healthandwellness6312]

Very Informative and needs to talk about by others on black KZbin it means a lot. Keep up the good work 👍🏽

[@patricialawson3126]

You are such an inspiration.. 🙏🏾🤗 God bless you!

[@rhondae8222]

Just keep in mind, whenever you're doing right, there's always opposition. There are more wicked people in the world than there are Godly people. You can enter God's Kingdom only through the narrow gate. Bible: Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it (Matthew 7:13).

[@trhair1]

Most people don't want to hear the truth. Our society looks for instant gratification at any cost. Your message is spot on but it is easier to lie, cheat, hide and steal at the end of the day many people don't want to work towards being their best selves. Truth and transparency makes people feel vulnerable. I love your message please keep it up. You are light years ahead of men in your age group your audience will find you. Thank you for being willing to speak the truth.

[@karinw6255]

Sir, I like your intelligent commentary. Continue to be thoughtful and truthful...very impressive!🌻🌞🦋

[@isisnine]

Thank you for your voice and dedication to saying what needs to be said. You should have way more followers. Keep doing this...Keep going! God bless you and your family.

[@celestecoleman7156]

Always an amazing video with a grand outlook

[@shirleydaniels9310]

Yes brother ur wisdom is appreciated thank u for the knowledge

[@sandrapierre8647]

You want to know why it's because they are weak men and you should not apologize for that. It's the God in you that telling our community what's in your heart just keep telling it and your blessings will kept on going. Thank you for sharing.

[@rhondae8222]

Hey there, Shumake.

[@faebalina7786]

There are men concerned with building their community and there are those who are focused on building their egos and protecting it,being right, etc and you and those like you sir are the former. It's is truly refreshing and as a woman it automatically makes me want to do better too; that is how leadership and inspiration work. I have subscribed!

[@LifeisAisha]

Such a good message. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@pinkymcd4684]

Thanks for speaking out about, what needs to be voiced publicly. The more you talk about it, more people will join the conversation, and hopefully make changes in their lives. A happy New Year to you and your lovely family.

[@TheShumakeWay]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@demitriwelling1348]

Another great conversation.

[@eleanorsmith9706]

Enjoyed, hope many young men tune in to you.

[@ms.v8616]

Thanks Mr. Shumake Way.

[@thebutterflygarden1138]

I subscribed to your channel earlier this year. I appreciate 🙏 your comments.

[@phoenixrising7922]

Great Message

[@breonesanders5230]

Thank you so much for your videos and being an advocate for black love and healthy relationships.

[@fennactiv8984]

👊🏿👊🏿great positive message brother.

[@BrittneySamoneSilver]

Peace everyone 🕊️

[@tinawilliams8557]

Thank u for everything

[@PassionateRootz]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Truth2power! ✊🏾

[@polly8844]

The men are listening to The Crimson Cure. Yes you are a hundred percent correct in this video as in all your videos

[@klnj9714]

I have to bite my tongue when it comes to that woman... and I'm only doing that much because she's a BW and I'm trying to keep to the code of the ebony sisterhood.

[@EdenSophia118]

@@klnj9714 😅😅😅😅😅

[@klnj9714]

@@EdenSophia118 😒😂

[@ashasun6620]

@@klnj9714 her and a few others make it hard

[@klnj9714]

@@ashasun6620 True, but they have no power. They're just echo chambers for how the men feel, that's their hustle. They don't actually transform anyone's views, they just feed them back, to make a coin and get male approval. She inspires hatred toward us, where as Shumake actually inspires me to feel a bit more gently toward bm.

[@starbright523]

Simply put we that love you love you and appreciate you!

[@EIGHTMINUTESWITHAIRVING]

Just to encourage you and say happy holiday and thank you for speaking out to the man and on behalf of the women as a man who has been converted to a gentleman that you are God is really going to bless you and use you in many capacities to be a living example that a black African-American man can be a gentleman inside out your heart not bitter mad and angry and giving your testimony will free you and make you a great man and God's eyes and in the sight of people God is going to favor you to be a awesome husband one day soon that is my prayer for you I am a servant of the Lord as a minister and a woman of God but also a a queen represent where the real woman is I am dedicated and faithful I will not settle so I know the things you speak are true wear many hats and many testimonies from the pulpit on down fear with the world and the nation and that is what I'm doing by seeing people get healed but also their minds need to be healed from damaged in childhood hurts both men and women stay encouraged and keep up the excellent Job!!!🙏🙌❤️

[@Sofondra]

Beautiful!!!!

[@blackmary9995]

The real men we look for in a Man is that he is up to any challenge that comes his way. He is fearless, a builder a provider a warrior, established, then he can have his crown.

[@ChavisGreenard]

💯percent agree!!

[@BluEx22329]

1st time seeing this channel

[@frenchiebizarre]

The truth hurt most of the time that's why they respond negative feelings of their emotions