Peter Boghossian coaches Corey Drayton on how to speak with the Woke

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Жыл бұрын

Peter Boghossian teaches Corey Drayton techniques from his book How to Have Impossible Conversations in order for Corey to use them when speaking with his Woke friends in Portland.
We filmed this in late 2020. Pete is immunocompromised, so we played it safe and did the coaching remotely.
If you haven't seen the episode I put together with Corey speaking with his friend Eric, I recommend checking that out - • Episode Four - Speakin...
Next, I'll post the 2 hour conversation that Corey had with Eric.
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@thesignalproductions Жыл бұрын
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@RePlaylist1
@RePlaylist1 Жыл бұрын
Wow, he nails what it's like in the corporate world. I graduated near the top of my class, but along the way I earned an internship at a Blue Chip. This opened doors to nothing but Blue Chips and these are where you are to be steered, but only as wallpaper, not really climbing in your career. If you aren't the raving caracutures they expect, you won't be advancing, and as incentives became financial they have flooded in black women in particular which compete with you, not just because they are using skin color, but the mentality they are looking for. Those that advance are in newly created positions that suddenly lack requiring any spread sheet skills. Even below average performers are moved into management over you. So, in the end, no one is better off when wokeness erodes a business, trumps merit & competence.
@westfieldartworks8188
@westfieldartworks8188 Жыл бұрын
What Mr. Drayton is saying is just spot on. My Nephew in law is a writer in Hollywood, and he is FULL WOKE. Interacting with him is horrible. Thank you for bringing Corey Drayton on... much appreciated.
@erikkovacs3097
@erikkovacs3097 Жыл бұрын
How woke is he?
@GenX4ever
@GenX4ever Жыл бұрын
@@digital.jordan woker than woke. He's a wooky!!
@airgunningyup
@airgunningyup Жыл бұрын
@@erikkovacs3097 super woke people will call you a racist for buying popcorn at a movie theater.. Walk out of resturaunts for percieved slights, refuse to shop at most stores, it becomes impossible to be around them. They wont attend any event with known republicans .etc.
@user-wp8yx
@user-wp8yx Жыл бұрын
Did this advice help you talk to your nephew? It sure didn't help me talk to my brother. I was told that in his experience people who asked us to questions are racist.
@BlueShoe25
@BlueShoe25 Жыл бұрын
@@user-wp8yx caution trying something new in general, like all the preparation needed to get an A+, some things don’t come naturally and/or take longer than we’d like but effort usually pays off. Hard work beats talent 9 times out of 10 😅 hang in there.
@147salsa
@147salsa Жыл бұрын
I work in film... About 6 years ago I started having positive conversations where I planted a crap ton of doubt 😂 On numerous topics I just couldn't stay quiet! But I definitely love this technique! Getting them to actually think these ideas through is hard but pays off most of the time. I have ppl from a show I did a year ago call me up to say begrudgingly that I was right. Kept 3 sets of parents from putting their 10-14 year Olds on puberty blockers ... It's painful and slow but it's definitely better than keeping quiet!
@alexjones7845
@alexjones7845 Жыл бұрын
Three separate parents? That is truly insanity that so many people have nearly done so much damage. I live in southern CA and have woken up plenty of people from general leftist dogma but it can take years. I mainly try and just ask them questions about their views so they have to support it logically without just name calling their opponents. I typically point out where they are wrong and provide them evidence and then they resist and want to change the subject. I probably make too many statements though, which might slow down the process and cause the backfire effect.
@147salsa
@147salsa Жыл бұрын
@@alexjones7845 yeah 3.... I live in a massive city and a Hollywood hub and it is EVERYWHERE. I definitely like the questions. I also have occasionally said something along the lines of... well if you haven't don't the research it's kinda pointless to continue this conversation. Other ppl have helped too as they discover something, are shocked and share it
@machtnichtsseimann
@machtnichtsseimann Жыл бұрын
@@147salsa - I can relate. It was a personal growth step for me to discern much quicker how a conversation with a ranting Woke person was going nowhere fast. Why waste time with someone not listening, not engaging in dialog ( two people conversing, not only one preaching ), and not respecting my voice in the matter. I have asked questions, though not enough. Yes, I leaned more on counter-points, "evidence" and stats, but maybe it planted a seed or two of doubt. Keep up the good work!
@machtnichtsseimann
@machtnichtsseimann Жыл бұрын
@@alexjones7845 - Good for you in being persistent! I'm with you...should ask more questions than making statements. Keep up the good work!
@machtnichtsseimann
@machtnichtsseimann Жыл бұрын
I VERY MUCH AGREE. Better than keeping quiet. Good to know that someone in "The Industry" does speak up and contribute to true Diversity. ( Amazing how superficial the Left can be in terms of just hiring enough "colors" and "sexes" makes for "diversity". It was when I immersed within the Left that the Diversity they were talking about was just a thinly veiled version of the Right that only wanted versions of their own thinking and no one else. Just insular tribalism. What makes it worse is that the Left prides itself on how open and "diverse" they are. BS. )
@Vorgaloth
@Vorgaloth Жыл бұрын
Peter is doing great work in helping us with these Socratic tools of civil conversation. Share this with family, friends and social groups.
@edgar9651
@edgar9651 Жыл бұрын
"Don't bring up facts". That's very interesting. And as you say it obviously doesn't work. There is a lot to learn here. Thanks!
@JasonBrockStick
@JasonBrockStick Жыл бұрын
Every time I hear Corey speak - I am deeply impressed and learn something that makes me a better human!
@Lurch685
@Lurch685 Жыл бұрын
I remember an interview with this man a while back. I’m very happy to see he’s beaten his cancer and is still doing his thing and speaking out.
@jackdeniston6150
@jackdeniston6150 Жыл бұрын
'The gift of doubt' It absolutely is, and such a powerful perspective to come from.
@bertrandrussell894
@bertrandrussell894 Жыл бұрын
Corey comes across as an exceptionally open and even tempered, decent person. For my part I am sorry he has experienced the sorts of bigotry he has described.
@wiseonwords
@wiseonwords Жыл бұрын
@Bertrand Russell - That's a very thoughtful response. I agree. I admire your reasonable and humane positions on many topics, Professor Russell. ;)
@Ozark_Viking
@Ozark_Viking Жыл бұрын
Nice use of alter-casting
@Jay-ru3hx
@Jay-ru3hx Жыл бұрын
Great video! Interestingly, I started doing this out of laziness. I knew all the data, but I got tired of doing other stubborn friends' homework for them. I would spend hours learning about a topic, reading about it, looking at data, and talking to people only to discover that I was always faced with emotional reactions to something a person "felt" was true (that they held with some strange confidence). Maybe they saw someone on TV making the claim or heard it from their college prof. So instead of trying to convince them of a different thing, I adopted a mindset of simply planting seeds. Something that would inspire a person to look more into the topic (like the number of whatever race shot by police), to do their own homework ... late at night when they are bored and don't feel like they are in a debate. A time when there are no "I told you so's" or lost face. A good byproduct of this is that they may learn something I didn't know and share it with me ... Instead of just regurgitating what I told them to someone else like they originally did to me. Now we both have more to chew on.
@sethfreeman8745
@sethfreeman8745 Жыл бұрын
So valuable. Warm thanks, Peter. Warm thanks, Corey.
@ddoghfx
@ddoghfx Жыл бұрын
I like the tools that Peter is supplying. One problem, I have watched a lot of his videos where he is speaking to people (including Ivy League students who are supposed to be bright) and they very often will not allow for any circumstances or conditions or new information to change their positions. I am reminded of a Mark Twain quote, "It is easier to fool a person than convince them they have been fooled." That quote may be very applicable to the way people get their information it also points to the fact that most people are unwilling to be swayed by facts.
@perknsmerch4824
@perknsmerch4824 Жыл бұрын
If you think about the meta of this video it’s wild. Man 1 coaches man 2 how to have a conversation with coworkers on culture associated with his own background. How wild is it that a black man might feel adverse, or like he could lose his job, if he talks about his personal feelings or experiences that go against what his coworkers think the culture is.
@DFMoray
@DFMoray Жыл бұрын
It’s sad that this video needs to exist. Shows you how far off the deep end we’ve all gone. The tides are finally turning though. We won’t feel the effects on the street level for a little while though.
@plaidpaisley5918
@plaidpaisley5918 Жыл бұрын
Love Corey. Seems like such a genuine person.
@adamblackman6660
@adamblackman6660 Жыл бұрын
What a great listen. These tools are golden!
@human.imagination
@human.imagination Жыл бұрын
Everyone should watch this as a workshop. This is happening in all industries as we speak.
@ronalddepesa6221
@ronalddepesa6221 Жыл бұрын
Love Street Epistemology!!! The original book taught me: -Modeling the doxastic open attitude myself -Disconfirming/defeasibility questions -confidence scales and creating doubt -Socratic Methodology -Motivational Interviewing -back fire effect In 2015 sitting in a hospital waiting room waiting for my girlfriend to get an XRay (we thought she had a blood clot in her lungs P.E. but she was fine). In the seat next to me was a soft cover of 'A Manual for Creating Atheist'. I picked it up, started reading and was immediately hooked. I eventually joined the Face Book groups run by Anthony Magnabosco and I was off to the Street Epistemology races!
@YTgrounder
@YTgrounder Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! I needed this information so badly. I especially appreciate the technique to engage the other persons individual logic without engaging the defensive emotions. I fear it will take a significant effort, personally, to be able to implement these strategies but I think it will be worth it (if not required). Thank you Peter Boghossian.
@donastreetman5427
@donastreetman5427 Жыл бұрын
Nicely put.
@melissaradaker1128
@melissaradaker1128 Жыл бұрын
Such an instructive role play!
@human.imagination
@human.imagination Жыл бұрын
I was producing shows in NYC between 2009-2015 and I would call this stuff out not really knowing what was happening. I got to a place where I just believed everyone in showbiz wanted me to be woke… without really saying. I wasn’t as strong as this guy was. I’d love t get back in the industry and create good shows. Perhaps I should…
@LiMortacciSuaSempre
@LiMortacciSuaSempre Жыл бұрын
Bet. Glad I got out of N.Y. modelling ind before all this crap but as a Gen Xer in N.Y. still learning. Guess you watched Peter's guest Dr Lyell Asher's presentation already on where all that nonsense came from. Blew me away cuz finally I knew what it is, the roots of it and how it started.
@user-tc7lb6rr4r
@user-tc7lb6rr4r Жыл бұрын
Bro, You should, these people don’t own you, your thoughts or your ability to be in a industry you love. It’s the same in London, not quite as bad yet, but it’s there, and they are ruining the experience and environment that makes the Buisness exciting and fun.
@karamlevi
@karamlevi Жыл бұрын
Daily Wire Ben Shapiro’s company is doing some of this.
@QuirkyAvik
@QuirkyAvik Жыл бұрын
Everything that the speaker taught are things customer care can benefit from in calming down or engaging a irate customer. These aren't just for dealing with 'woke' people, very useful techniques of probing and deescalating being taught here. I hope other see this information in more than 'dealing with woke' context. Thank you for sharing this information.
@LeonCouch
@LeonCouch Жыл бұрын
agreed. this is about persuation to use evidence and rational thought. I see it in terms of rhetoric & philosophy of the ancient Greeks and historicaly a thread through Western education until recently. it could be used with the far right, the far left, or really anyone.
@amedeoavogadro2788
@amedeoavogadro2788 Жыл бұрын
I had my first exposure to Corey Drayton yesterday and this morning this video popped up. He seems like a really good guy.
@RePlaylist1
@RePlaylist1 Жыл бұрын
Can recommend long time YT, Rippaverse, Eric D. July.
@woodb51
@woodb51 Жыл бұрын
I had my first exposure to him yesterday and I’m duly impressed.
@skunk_artworks45
@skunk_artworks45 Жыл бұрын
Goddamn, this is good. We need more videos like this!!
@interestedpart2650
@interestedpart2650 Жыл бұрын
Excellent & Very informative!
@oceania2385
@oceania2385 Жыл бұрын
The title reminds me of the movie airplane, when Mrs. Cleaver shows up and says "I speak jive" Boghossian appears and says "I speak woke"
@NastazyaPhylipovnaTchornaya
@NastazyaPhylipovnaTchornaya Жыл бұрын
Brilliant.
@nielsww
@nielsww Жыл бұрын
This approach can be learned by reading "Never split the difference" by Chris Voss which is the book about hostage negotiation that he took these ideas from such as calibrated questions etc. It's a very good negotiation book that can be used in basically any context as this video shows.
@karamlevi
@karamlevi Жыл бұрын
Chris is woke btw. I’m pretty sure.
@Mercybeat74
@Mercybeat74 Жыл бұрын
These are some great tools to have access to. Thank you for the discussion.
@artemkatelnytskyi
@artemkatelnytskyi Жыл бұрын
Forget about woke people. I just learnt how to handle a disagreement in general.
@SineEyed
@SineEyed Жыл бұрын
Yes, apparently this technique can be applied generally..
@nicholasmosley8707
@nicholasmosley8707 Жыл бұрын
This is interesting because most of the techniques being used are from Chris Voss’s book. On hostage negotiation. Kinda tells you who we’re dealing with. Who or what is the hostage in this case?
@pbziegler
@pbziegler Жыл бұрын
Boghossian draws on Voss' book.
@nicholasmosley8707
@nicholasmosley8707 Жыл бұрын
Any relation to Zelda Phillip?
@FG-wn6re
@FG-wn6re Жыл бұрын
hostage is themselves
@bpj1805
@bpj1805 Жыл бұрын
Ideological possession. They are hostage to their ideology. You're negotiating with the ideology.
@evo1ov3
@evo1ov3 Жыл бұрын
Holy shit... Drayton & Boghassian Viva la Resistance!!!
@Robert-ck7nm
@Robert-ck7nm Жыл бұрын
Great segment! Peter's advice for Corey will be helpful to others. And Corey is a charming, thoughtful benevolent person. It's sad we will in a world in which people like him are demonized. Carry on!
@JR-yx3po
@JR-yx3po Жыл бұрын
Corey, I thank you and HaShem for (finally) entering my sphere. I so admire you.
@designforlife704
@designforlife704 Жыл бұрын
I work at a big pharma, director level. I'm absolutely desperate to discuss this in more depth. I honestly don't believe people understand just how bad things are. My colleague, with an outstanding 22 year performance, generating incredible growth and demonstrating outstanding leadership, missed out on his biggest promotion (director for Europe) because he missed one diversity module. But it was really because he's a white guy. The company made 18 executive moves last year, all were non-whites.
@RePlaylist1
@RePlaylist1 Жыл бұрын
I am someone similar to Corey and would discuss my experiences at major corporations going back to 1989 - 2019.
@HostileTakeover555
@HostileTakeover555 Жыл бұрын
People have to keep ongoing records and evidence then sue for discrimination
@matttorrence2900
@matttorrence2900 Жыл бұрын
Corey is a cinematographer!
@TheKalluin
@TheKalluin Жыл бұрын
I find this video so encouraging. For far too long I felt I had to win the argument but it was against my nature. My strength is conversation not debate and this has really uplifted me to trust in my nature. Really I don't want to fight anymore but I am totally against wokeness. In the end I would rather win a friend than win an argument. Thank you so much!
@16m49x3
@16m49x3 Жыл бұрын
My issue is that these days the cult gets new topics from the mass media, and suddenly everyone around me has adopted some insane opinion they are virtue signaling about. There's really no way to argue against it, because this opinion they adopt is completely new and concocted. Oh there's a deadly virus going about. Where? Says who? They said it on the news, don't you watch the news? Why are there flags everywhere? Well, it's pride month Why? Says who? It just is. ???
@LeonCouch
@LeonCouch Жыл бұрын
very little is usually accomplished by political arguments on strongly divisive issues, beyond providing entertainment for believers of whatever point of view. we rarely win such arguments with facts and logic. it's in true discussions with trust and good will that some distance towards truth or the good can be really made.
@davidgardner4779
@davidgardner4779 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this conversation. Sincerely. 🙏
@annal2740
@annal2740 Жыл бұрын
This was so helpful. Thank you.
@horizon8927
@horizon8927 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Peter. Note that you should speak into the side of the microphone you are using rather than the top.
@kimj5037
@kimj5037 Жыл бұрын
Love the alter-casting technique. Playing to someone's ego is a classic move.
@LouisGedo
@LouisGedo Жыл бұрын
Hello all you lovely truth seekers 👋
@LeonCouch
@LeonCouch Жыл бұрын
This is a clear and useful presentation for numerous discussions with any extreme vantage point expressed by humans. Thanks for it!
@donastreetman5427
@donastreetman5427 Жыл бұрын
I'm getting ready to go back out in the workforce, I would have a difficult time refraining my thoughts.
@thelement3363
@thelement3363 Жыл бұрын
Corey you have an awesome attitude and sound kind and confident. Kindly let em have it.
@porgguy4962
@porgguy4962 Жыл бұрын
PB coined the term Street Epistemology as a modernized Socratic dialog. It's absolutely a fascinating and very useful tool for discussing these closely held beliefs. Maybe the best one.
@ronalddepesa6221
@ronalddepesa6221 Жыл бұрын
In 2014 sitting in a hospital waiting room waiting for my girlfriend to get an XRay (we thought she had a blood clot in her lungs P.E. but she was fine). In the seat next to me was a soft cover of 'A Manual for Creating Atheist'. I picked it up, started reading and was immediately hooked. I eventually joined the Face Book groups run by Anthony Magnabosco and I was off to the Street Epistemology races!
@bigdaddyfilmmaker
@bigdaddyfilmmaker Жыл бұрын
This is great stuff
@paulstevenson1712
@paulstevenson1712 Жыл бұрын
Thank You, Bog Wan
@stacypastry2440
@stacypastry2440 Жыл бұрын
This is such a great project!
@gonzobrains
@gonzobrains Жыл бұрын
Classic Roger Dawson negotiation advice: feel, felt, found.
@Traderbear
@Traderbear 5 ай бұрын
I like the term social justice crusaders because it encompasses the religious/cult elements.
@egeneraltnf
@egeneraltnf Жыл бұрын
As a person of color, that some how works in industries without proper credentials, I deal with this all the time. I now work in a very blue collar job, I don’t see this anymore. I can’t do it anymore your a better person then me.
@lorenfulghum2393
@lorenfulghum2393 Жыл бұрын
more like this please. it's one thing to listen to reason and agree with it, but going to articulate it yourself requires practice.
@RePlaylist1
@RePlaylist1 Жыл бұрын
When the company suddenly started scheduling time wasting bridge building, they didn't say they were trying to get people to break an unwritten rule: no politics or religion talk at work. This was their excuse to do nothing but talk all day, but I would simply ask them, "you do see me?", this company hires plenty of blacks. They literally say, "not you, you're not really black." I say I am, what do you mean??? Well, you're mixed with something. I am not. And look at them. "You are the minority on the floor. Lololol!" (I point to the bay where almost every cubicle is a black woman). Crickets. How does this end? Suddenly they all need to be somewhere. They simply never answered me and I jacked up many because they liked to spend so much time in the break room, right next to my desk. Even where my desk was was a show for anyone getting off the lift.
@justanordinaryhuman
@justanordinaryhuman 28 күн бұрын
Going to watch this multiple times
@CH-sl1yd
@CH-sl1yd Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful.
@karenkendrick
@karenkendrick Жыл бұрын
You just laid out all the mistakes I made last week in a debate about gun control. Thanks for this video. I have never been great at debate I spend a lot of time in crafting a proper fair responses full of evidence. I am going about it all wrong. I just need change my plan from changing minds to creating doubt.
@allosaurusfragilis7782
@allosaurusfragilis7782 Жыл бұрын
Yes I've fallen into this when attempting to engage with conspiracy theorists. Stating facts and expressing my astonishment that anyone could believe something I think is absurd does not change anyone's mind....the opposite in fact. Interesting.
@mathewhill5556
@mathewhill5556 Жыл бұрын
This is really good stuff.
@BenWeeks-ca
@BenWeeks-ca Жыл бұрын
Good to see Chris Voss ideas applied in this context.
@troy3456789
@troy3456789 Жыл бұрын
Boghossian's (along with James Lindsey and Helen Pluckrose) troll with that hoax letter (The Grievance Study hoax) that got peer reviewed and approved was legendary. It didn't change anything of course, but it was quite incredible.
@SineEyed
@SineEyed Жыл бұрын
They had a few papers get published IIRC - and another was in pre-print when their cover was blown. The fact that nothing came of it is seriously disheartening. It's another piece of evidence that those who are in positions in society which should absolutely be held accountable, will never be held to account..
@jayhub1982
@jayhub1982 Жыл бұрын
Tool added to toolkit. Thanks
@Mztbtc
@Mztbtc Жыл бұрын
Wow this is so good for sales, as a someone who does sales for a living i approve!!
@Little.R
@Little.R Жыл бұрын
These are good rules for engaging anyone to plant the seed of doubt...
@southernkei
@southernkei Жыл бұрын
RIP to Corey Drayton's career, cause of death: refusing to be brainwashed
@deanatkins4456
@deanatkins4456 Жыл бұрын
I found this super useful = subscribed
@tallgirlhappyme
@tallgirlhappyme Жыл бұрын
⏩ I appreciate WHERE you're trying to go with this. Unfortunately, *it seems most woke are ready to shut down the convo* at the first sign of challenge or question of their statement. I will, however, keep listening to your suggestions!
@fbinformant
@fbinformant Жыл бұрын
Ya I think the method underestimates the hostility that will automatically appear and the mental gymnastics at play. For example, "there's only 20 reported police shootings bc the US is dominated by white supremacy. so most of the shootings are covered up". A moderately intelligent person can always fabricate a reason to justify their views. That's my experience at least
@JGSuttonJr
@JGSuttonJr Жыл бұрын
A true woke nut would've ended the conversation as soon as you engaged them with anything but nodding in agreement.
@Bradley9967
@Bradley9967 Жыл бұрын
Try saying "Well I was talking to a friend of mine and he thinks there isn't systemic racism in the police. What evidence do you think I would have to aquire to prove him otherwise?" Now your on the side of the person you're talking to.
@bigdaddyfilmmaker
@bigdaddyfilmmaker Жыл бұрын
I bursted out laughing at the you’re a fucking idiot part because that’s exactly what I do🤣
@VrejHAI
@VrejHAI Жыл бұрын
Here's a good hypothetical question about police shootings. What if violent crime rates for blacks was disproportionately higher? What if instances of fighting against police arrests with blacks was disproportionately higher, would that explain why blacks are shot or incarcerated at such a high rate?
@becky7385
@becky7385 Жыл бұрын
The sjws say this would be proof of systematic racism. Circular but...
@9xxxxxxxxx
@9xxxxxxxxx Жыл бұрын
I bet you think Jim Crow and lynching were great forms of community service.
@griffinsdad9820
@griffinsdad9820 Жыл бұрын
Im only 7ish min in but im already intrigued. I really hope they do a follow up to see whats happened
@montmi
@montmi Жыл бұрын
Alter casting is very familiar to role-playing game players! It is just sympathetically role playing as someone who is different from you.
@purdysanchez
@purdysanchez Жыл бұрын
The problem this technique encounters is that most people don't even have an argument for what they believe. Most people in a round about way say "I believe it cause it's true"
@kdemetter
@kdemetter Жыл бұрын
13:07 It's a good idea, but I think this only works in person, with well-intentioned people you know who actually care about you in some way. I don't know if it work against some ideologue who only cares about enforcing their pet beliefs and would walk over your corpse to achieve it. What do you do in that case ?
@LiMortacciSuaSempre
@LiMortacciSuaSempre Жыл бұрын
The tips are really Amazing you can see how helpful in expanding the interactions steering.clear of triggers, which for those types is far from easy eh 😪😉🙏🙉
@Jakeross123
@Jakeross123 Жыл бұрын
Really hope there is a follow up to this. Would be great to hear if Corey was able to put some of these skills into practice. Great stuff!
@Vorgaloth
@Vorgaloth Жыл бұрын
There is. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hZ66kIN3pNiShJo
@YourBestFriendforToday
@YourBestFriendforToday Жыл бұрын
I see we have some Chris Voss action going on here!
@Archpope
@Archpope Жыл бұрын
This was hard for me to watch. Peter, if you read this, there's something you need to know. The Blue Yeti is a side-address microphone. Talking into the top of it makes your voice sound tinny and slightly distorted. Also, it's backwards, In the cardioid pattern (which is what you should be using if you're alone in a single room) the Blue logo should be parallel to your face. The sound quality will be a lot better if you do that.
@SineEyed
@SineEyed Жыл бұрын
I noticed the shit quality of Peter's setup immediately. I mostly listened to this though; didn't pay enough attention to the screen to catch what you did about the mic..
@TokyoXtreme
@TokyoXtreme Жыл бұрын
Should be the top comment.
@tomzablee
@tomzablee Жыл бұрын
Personally I thought the audio was fine. I could hear every word clearly.
@ruaidhri777
@ruaidhri777 2 ай бұрын
Totally fascinating conversation and illuminating. This explains perfectly when I, over the covid period, very politely said to hundreds of different people, that I've read well over 150 clinical trials on mask efficacy and all the best ones (RCTs with meta analysis) say they don't work at all to stop any airborne virus, it had zero effect. Even doctors and nurses. I went out of my way to try to tell people because I thought they would want to know this, but everyone would either change the subject or defend mask wearing with some bizarre, illogical low level evidence point. This video absolutely confirms my suspicions I had about a year ago coming through that weird period. Self realisation needs to come from the self, it can't be forced down people's throats. But, the question whether people can actually change their mind on something is a good one because I think with all the tactics that Peter has put forward, and God bless his patience, some people will never, ever, ever change their stance on something.
@grayhill6728
@grayhill6728 Жыл бұрын
"Dehumanizing" is exactly right, and for that matter, what this man describes is a type of racial prejudice. People who think they can assume all sorts of things about him by taking a glance.
@joelsterling3735
@joelsterling3735 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why but I'm picturing a purple-haired monster scrolling through her phone getting stronger with every scroll, while this guy is putting on his armor and sharpening his sword preparing to slay the beast.
@stewheart
@stewheart Жыл бұрын
its like POA's but for un-woking people. love it
@SamStone1964
@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын
Be curious, not defensive. Don't take things personally. Wait 5 seconds after the other person pauses before you speak.
@Enhancedlies
@Enhancedlies Жыл бұрын
This content is so fucking needed right about now
@plaidpaisley5918
@plaidpaisley5918 Жыл бұрын
You would think these friends would notice your silence and ask your opinion.
@djlduro
@djlduro Жыл бұрын
It seems like Peter has studied the work of Chris Voss (author of Never Split the Difference).
@christophermallett8166
@christophermallett8166 Жыл бұрын
If I told a woman what it was to have a "female experience" I'd be absolutely crucified without question. Why is it different with race?
@PhatStacksPoker
@PhatStacksPoker Жыл бұрын
"I want to show up as a human being on their radar, rather than an abstract, detatched particle of a collective" This is what it's like to speak to collectivists. They don't see individuals. They only see group identity. The sword cuts both ways too. They would tell a homeless guy that he had white privilege and a wealthy black man that they are oppressed.
@TransparencyandMerit
@TransparencyandMerit Жыл бұрын
Moral minds overriding their logical mind that’s rather deep
@13e11even11
@13e11even11 Жыл бұрын
What I notice, is that it is near impossible for them not to get defensive or triggered, and I suspect it may be because they are smart enough to understand that there is reason for severe doubts about these ideas, and are worried about the frailty of these ideas being exposed and overturned as this puts them at odds with the mob, which I believe is the true motivation.
@xchazz86
@xchazz86 Жыл бұрын
Its basically narcisistic behaviour flaunting as some weird shit.
@nynoah
@nynoah Жыл бұрын
I need to work on these tactics
@TransparencyandMerit
@TransparencyandMerit Жыл бұрын
I think it would be hard because it involves letting go of the ego and ego is a very strong narcotic
@jumbo4billion
@jumbo4billion Жыл бұрын
@@TransparencyandMerit I found it to actually be more of an ego trip being above getting emotionally tangled in a conversation and play a much longer game. Peter's book is very valuable.
@SineEyed
@SineEyed Жыл бұрын
@@jumbo4billion which one, "how to have diff convos"?..
@jumbo4billion
@jumbo4billion Жыл бұрын
@@SineEyed Yes that one
@SineEyed
@SineEyed Жыл бұрын
@@jumbo4billion I need to get that book. That is, if it's not soley focused on street epistemology. Does the book cover ground outside of that school of thought? SE hasn't quite made a believer outta me just yet tbh..
@HalJikaKick
@HalJikaKick Жыл бұрын
It’s all about one upping morally. “Look at me! Look at me!”
@S1L3nCe
@S1L3nCe Жыл бұрын
28:15 The point explained in this segment is precisely why having public debates or public discussions rarely brings anything positive. Most people don't feel safe questioning their own beliefs in front of others because they care for what others might think of them. We see this happen every day in social networks.
@nathanponzar3816
@nathanponzar3816 Жыл бұрын
I've got a lot of respect for both of ya for carrying the torch of truth. One question though, I believe the study most people cite to argue there is no police shooting bias is the Roland Fryer study, which also shows that there is a bias in the use of non lethal force. There's a couple others I've noticed. The Johnson one that got a lot of criticism and was retracted, I believe by the author himself. Either way, I think I can probably count on one hand, maybe one finger, the number of high quality studies on this question controlling for confounding variables like the Fryer one. My question to you is, do you find this is to be adequate evidence to justify actionable confidence in the conclusion that police do not disproportionately use lethal force against people of color (when confounding variables are accounted for), or do you remain agnostic?
@kazuya246
@kazuya246 Жыл бұрын
You don't need a study. We have the statistics. Just compare them to crime rates.
@forposterity4031
@forposterity4031 Жыл бұрын
"Do gooders are the thieves of virtue" Alan Watts
@goatbreeches1381
@goatbreeches1381 Жыл бұрын
I agreed with Drayton that he became defensive when PB asked about what if more black people were shot. All of a sudden it switched from seeming like he was inquisitive and asking questions to seeming like he had an agenda.
@mojopin2000
@mojopin2000 Жыл бұрын
Always think critically, reject the mob. Books>Blogs
@chrisgavin2794
@chrisgavin2794 Жыл бұрын
Corey role played with better logical sense than leftists
@okletsskate
@okletsskate Жыл бұрын
Is Corey Drayton from the UK?
@tomcarl8021
@tomcarl8021 Жыл бұрын
I had an exchange with a well-off English white woman who sent her kids to an exclusive school in London. She claimed that because she had a deep love of black music and had been to Harlem a few times, she was "steeped in Black culture".
@theinquisitor5518
@theinquisitor5518 Жыл бұрын
I was raised in a religious cult and the tactics Peter is teaching here are very similar to those taught by the cult. I am sympathetic to the objective but I can't bring myself to be dishonest for the sake of having a conversation.
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