How To Get A Man To Commit ft. Nice & Neat

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@shortysmilealot 4 ай бұрын

That moment you know is real. My boyfriend asked me to be his woman and that never happened to me before. Such a great feeling 🥰

@AllThingsTiffanyTV Жыл бұрын

I like that you went deeper with commitment and exclusive. There was alot of word play going on. No woman should be going through a “process “ or trial after 2,3,5 years. If you’re intentional dating for marriage it doesn’t take that long. I like when you mentioned acting like a girlfriend vs commitment. Women are living with these men, cooking, having sex, combining lifestyles, cleaning, investing finances business wise, they’re exceptional women, and 3,4 years later no marriage. To grown women marriage is commitment.. Otherwise you’re still dating or in their “process”… also known as placeholder. 3 to 6 months is not the issue, it’s the 2-3 years and you’re still not even engraved

@Jess2b_fit Жыл бұрын

Much respect to Duke for stepping up and admitting those vulnerabilities. And to Mari for respectfully standing on her question and helping them to open up! It’s not easy or common for Alpha males to admit any level of inadequacies - but doing so results in deeper levels of respect from your audience and those that are looking up to you 🙌

@kingra1962 Жыл бұрын

Big fan of Nice & Neat that’s how I ended up here dope episode !!!! S/o the guys 🤝🏾💯

@cocolove8635 11 ай бұрын

Compromise is such a big deal because not only are you aware of how you feel & move but considering how the person you care about feels & still making a conscious effort to gauge and understand.

@carl3063 Жыл бұрын

I like these guys because they are not simps. But they are honest, healthy, and back what they say through example. Women want dudes like this and they exist. But women think these guys are the simp type and men think you can’t be a real one and healthy at the same time. Excellent example all around.

@lwhite474 Жыл бұрын

Totally agree 😊

@T.H-v4h 10 ай бұрын

no women on earth thinks these men are simps lol

@islandrose1224 Жыл бұрын

As a woman, appreciate these talks

@gaillastof8851 Жыл бұрын

It's nice hearing these men and how they navigate. The women in their lives who have nurtured and helped them get to this stage are a blessing as well.❤

@09MsCandace Жыл бұрын

OMG MS SPICY THAAAANNNNNNKKK YOOOOOOUUUUU SOOOOOO MUCH for asking all the RIGHT questions us ladies really want to know!!!! You are the ABSOLUTE BOMB for that and NAILED IT BOO!!! Best interview on the opposite sex I've seen in years! Round of applause to you! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 💜🙌🏾 😍 ❤️ ✨️ 👏🏾💜 🙌🏾 😍 ❤️ ✨️ 👏🏾💜 🙌🏾 😍 ❤️ ✨️ 👏🏾💜 🙌🏾 😍 ❤️ ✨️ 👏🏾💜 🙌🏾 😍 Thank you Nice and Neat for being so real and candid as well🙏🏾💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾💕🙏🏾💕

@beu2543 Жыл бұрын

This episode was WAYYYYYY too good for me to have stumbled upon it by complete accident! This deserves more exposure. I will be sharing with all my friends. Everyone was on they’re A game in this one. Superrrr dope 🔥🔥🔥

@patientv Жыл бұрын

I really love the part where y'all discussed the development of the relationship. Growing together, having an understanding that it two people working to overcome their egos for the betterment of the relationship and how Mari, reiterated to the ladies that you give "a little" & then he reciprocates. No reciprocity is not a good thing... And that where you start in relationship is not where you finish because it's a growth process that you both want.

@DiscoveringJermeisha Жыл бұрын

I love duke and his realness

@chelbels16 Жыл бұрын

I love all of them especially all of them lmao ❤

@misshun1933 Жыл бұрын

Loved this very much. Finally people who are walking the walk, championing relationships & giving solid perspectives. To an era of promoting love & healthy, respectful relationships again 🥳

@cocolove8635 11 ай бұрын

I think a lot of people are so fixated on themselves that they lack everything else. Even in moments of discomfort like Duke said you should know how you operate & aligning with things that work with you.

@GrandeurLyfeDigital Жыл бұрын

I finally figured out who she looks like lol. Tori Kelly

@mariewilliams3406 9 ай бұрын

YESSS she does I had to do a double take

@mariewilliams3406 9 ай бұрын

Or Adrienne Bailon- Houghton

@daughteroftheking01 7 ай бұрын

@@mariewilliams3406yes to both! Forsure

@StephanieIBoakye Жыл бұрын

When I say I've learned so much from this episode geeshhhhhh! SUCH A BOMB EPISODE... LOVE, LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this conversation!!!!

@YasmineHarema Жыл бұрын

These guys are def cream of the crop and I loved how you guys talked about working through/ enduring the relationship and doing the work to bring the best out of each other

@lasonda_ 6 ай бұрын

I needed to hear this wow….amazing!

@sweetcynsation Жыл бұрын

Ima need them to do another singles night cause idk they were having one. This was a great show. Thank you for having them get deep. Really allowed me to reflect and find a lot more gaps in how I date and choose to show up. 💕

@briamonyae1396 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate watching this entire episode, such great advice ! Thank you , y’all are all helping us single folks out❤.

@MooreofChas 2 ай бұрын

The grace period😂

@sharimary.cruzsycroix1648 Жыл бұрын

Bring the gfs on for the same conversation!

@MizzAsiaMonique Жыл бұрын

Jalonnnnnm mannn I love the wisdom and FTK lmao

@MizzAsiaMonique Жыл бұрын

My dudes bro yo Duke and Chanel responded to something I said and I waw like AHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Lmao I was such a lame Lmaoooo but these men are amazing inside and out.

@HealingwmommaC 7 ай бұрын

Amazing.

@sashaleigh75 Жыл бұрын

This is so good!

@dken1149 Жыл бұрын

Great show

@ronalddowdell9231 5 ай бұрын

So much for valuing the darker skinned sistahs.

@dreamlast1718 11 ай бұрын

Quality

@tarynstewart8279 Жыл бұрын

I disagree with her on her definition of “exclusive”. That’s why it’s important to speak to one another about what these definitions mean to us as individuals instead of assuming that you agree.

@carolynmcintyre2199 Жыл бұрын

One word, REFRESHING!

@instrinsiclove Жыл бұрын

Just HURT I couldn’t fly out! HURT.

@lookandfeelgorgeous 4 ай бұрын

❤️

@seagirlaquarius Жыл бұрын

I appreciate their perspective, but do think you should have voiced more how us women perceive intentional dating. It seems These men were “dating” these women with no real goal/intentions, but fail to realize from our perspective we do not want to waste our time. Seems like they were dating their now wives for a period of time with no definite intentions and the girls just waited on them to choose them🤷🏻‍♀️ and that is fine, but men need to be able to lead with a purpose not lead women on, I think you could have confronted them about their discrepancies better, respectfully. 😅

@AllThingsTiffanyTV Жыл бұрын

So true… and None of the men on here are married yet…long time girlfriends and long time fiancé

@kcfmsh Жыл бұрын

I agree, they also made it seem like all ‘good’ men come to you broken basically alluding to the concept of struggle love, which i completely disagreed with.

@carl3063 Жыл бұрын

They’re saying it’s a two-way street. Women are not perfect and neither are the men. The communication you want to receive is what you need to give. Women are terrible at relationships but accept no accountability for their failures

@seagirlaquarius Жыл бұрын

@@carl3063 i appreciate your feedback, but if you re-read the first sentence I only wish she would have communicated more efficiently our frustration during the dating stage. There are many women and men that can’t communicate effectively, but the man is usually the one who decides when/if to make a relationship official. Both parties need to stop wasting each others time, if they are not pursuing the same end goal.

@carl3063 Жыл бұрын

@@seagirlaquarius They explained it clearly though. Part of poor communication is that women don’t like to listen. They said that the women set their standard from the jump and through dating there was a back and forth where they built it together. If you think a real dude who is perfect is gonna just fold for your pretty smile and instantly propose, then you living in a fairytale world

@abbabee3957 Жыл бұрын

But how do women know an intentional man?

@Kenshaable Жыл бұрын

Still looking for the answer

@tarynstewart8279 Жыл бұрын

Great question! I think you will know intention when it shows up in your life. However, after getting a dating coach, I learned to measure intention by men showing up as consistent in character versus consistent in the quantity of our interactions. In other words, I learned to watch their behavior versus their words and to hold them accountable for what they said or promised. I also learned to observe how curious they were about me as a woman versus just spending time with me, only talking about themselves the whole time, or what they feel they can get something from me. And finally, asking myself if we are increasing in emotional intimacy and asking myself “do I know more about this person or do they know more about me than when we met?”

@LV2308gmail 9 ай бұрын

Yes I think this needs to be explored, bx men who know what they want will approach a woman with intentions, vs showing up as a casual thing and it evolves into something more if the man feels threatened if presented with her absence.