20 Skills Every Man Should Have By 30

[@Mint.Conditioned]

1. Tie a tie 1:08 2. Change a tire 1:42 3. Shine dress shoes 2:19 4. Public speaking 3:01 5. Negotiating 3:50 6. Dress for the occasion 4:33 7. Lift weights properly 5:17 8. Grilling 5:53 9. Wet shaving 6:32 10. Jumpstart a car 7:16 11. Cook a signature dish 8:01 12. Tell a good story 8:40 13. Argue logically 9:16 14. Throw a ball 9:57 15. Render basic 1st aid 10:33 16. Drive in bad weather 11:04 17. Fix a leak 11:45 18. Iron clothes 12:21 19. Shooting 12:55 20. Throw a punch 13:32

[@PlutoniumSlums]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@MekaiMaskal9]

Thank you

[@jamest1242r]

Now this is all essential. Every single step is.

[@xmistaxcashxcoll]

His the dad we never had!

[@yantheyam5622]

Sounds like I'm about 90% there

[@MJB1993]

Public speaking is easy when you know what you're talking about! Prepare and you'll be successful

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed

[@SmartDave60]

Exactly. And if you aren’t prepared keep it very simple. Like one plain sentence. I got put on the spot at my nephew’s graduation party. I simply said congratulations and all the best. Next year when his younger brother graduated I had something planned🙂

[@tonyaiello3050]

Absolutely

[@kingreem1741]

Facts

[@reddsolocupp]

@CzC poe I'll drink to that. 🥂

[@thetremara5243]

this kinda brought me to a tear to my eye... because like a lot of young men, i went through boyhood and young adulthood without a father and little stuff like this brings a young man a long way! thanks 💯

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@Javillchoirboy]

Turn it to your advantage man, it actually helped me man up much earlier than I should.

[@moomootheking5684]

@@TheStyleOG thx for everything you do im a teen and i have no dad

[@leroy592]

Managing personal finances is a skill men need to learn by age 30. Balancing a checkbook, maintaining a budget and discipline with money is important.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed !

[@damonwilliams2786]

Excellent video brother. These are all things a man should teach his son as well. I would add one thing. I think every man should know how to drive a stick shift.

[@09198384558]

Looks easy but the skill is difficult to master

[@krisnasetiawan5790]

My finance personal managing is bad because i don't have that much money to manage

[@09198384558]

@@krisnasetiawan5790 Try to find a way to increase your income. It'll be easier to manage your income that way

[@djdamage75]

Basic knowledge of tools, laundry, managing finances, and the skill of properly reading body language. Your list is excellent and my father taught me all of them and the importance of knowing them. Salute to you Jeff for sharing the knowledge with those who didn't learn the fundamentals of manhood. You just gained a new subscriber.

[@TheStyleOG]

Welcome to the channel!

[@djdamage75]

@@TheStyleOG thank you Sir

[@silbannacusofoxyrhynchus6096]

Complete self-control- in trying circumstances.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@d.dementedengineerc99isurf26]

No strain, no gain!

[@talesis1]

I don’t comment often but man Iove this channel.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Travis !

[@tonywade7665]

Me too...wish had run across this guy 10 years ago....but I'm on it now.

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

Great channel

[@1eastside_ezmoney]

This is a dope video

[@airrun9950]

O.G. A man must learn how to handle his money, pay his bills, know how credit works! Crucial.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

💯

[@dragosavo]

I would suggest being fundamentally competent at a second language. Speaking multiple languages will open doors for you career-wise and adds another dimension to life.

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it

[@nickpellatt]

对啊。我同意。

[@MalcolmRandall]

If you have a partner where English is Not their second language, learn Their native language. You don't want them speaking in French in front of you, knowing full well You don't understand it.

[@Respect2theFallen]

True

[@emperorziko6321]

At bare minimum, be able to say hello in multiple languages. Instant rapport.

[@adrianjeffrey2897]

I remember shining my church shoes and ironing my clothes 😂 swore to GOD I was clean as a whistle with the S-curl. Lol brought back memories

[@pakaiwu698]

1. how to tie a tie 2. change a car tire 3. shine your shoe 4. master public speaking 5. negotiating skills 6. how to dress for an occasion 7. learn how lift weight 8. how to grill 9. how to wet shave 10. how to jumpstart a car 11. how to cook a single meal 12. how to tell a story 13. how to argue logically 14. how to throw a baseball or football 15. basic first aid treatment (cpr, heimlich maneuver, etc) 16. learn how to drive on bad weather 17. fix a leaky faucet 18. iron his clothes 19. how to shoot a gun 20. how to throw a punch

[@gilbertrobert439]

Really, that's it...dude people have been climbing the Mount Everest, surviving brutality everyday with pure fearlessness and you are talking about shining shoes and cooking?

[@ableaaron7985]

@@gilbertrobert439 he makes a great point can u imagine climbing and surviving and not being able too speak about it publicly or not being able to negotiate endorsement or new missions....

[@PlatinumHustle]

I never had a father in my life teach me any of this.. if I ever have a son, he will be better than me

[@denniswatson6622]

Me neither, luckily my mother taught me a lot of these things like changing a tire, oil, and using jumper cables. She made me learn to box and the military and college took care of the other things before I was 30. I know I am one of the lucky ones though.

[@donsmith6254]

My dad didn't teach me anything either but the Marines taught me a lot of these things.

[@daniellee1722]

My dad was always too impatient to teach me how to tie a tie instead doing it for me. This can be a metaphor for the mistake parents make in general - doing things for their kids instead of teaching them and allowing them to make mistakes

[@LG-tw5vm]

Number 1 - Learn how to invest. It will alter your life more than anything on this list except for possibly working out. Number 2 - Work out. Number 3 - Learn how to fight. The vast majority of times you encounter a dangerous situation you will not have a weapon on you. Number 4 - Start your own business. You will be in charge of your own life, your own destiny and will create your own income. Number 5 - Get a good education and an even better financial education. Number 6 - Once you have learned how to invest and start a business, most if the items in this video will become irrelevant like learning how to cook, handyman skills, etc. Number 7 - I played sports growing up and could always throw a baseball and a football. Is it really necessary? Probably not, but it's nice to have. Number 8 - Learn how to dress nice and look sharp. Number 9 - Probably should have made this number 1 but here it is: Always be humble, be kind, respect others and never stop learning. Unfortunately there are some dumbass people out there that take kindness for weakness. But since you already know number 2 and 3, you'll have the situation covered when the time arises.

[@red2522]

I was unimpressed in advance when I saw your first video (for no reason). Your content actually ended up being amusing, so I continued. Now, I don't just enjoy your videos, but they also give me confidence and masculinity. I can watch them when I'm down, sad, or depressed to feel better about myself. I love your content! I feel proud just watching it! You're amazing! Thank you, O.G. !!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!

[@edwardmcdonald7901]

Great list! I've been following for a few months and this is my first time commenting. Here goes... 1. Every man should learn how to give a toast. 2. Every man show learn dining etiquette. 3. Every man should learn how to correctly ballroom dance. 4. I believe that this was mentioned several times, but every man should know how to drive a manual transmission. 5. This is a highly subjective one, but every man should aspire to learn how to swim. Outside of that, I think this and all your videos are great. Keep up the good work!

[@TheStyleOG]

All great input

[@williamthompson7020]

You also have a great list Edward. I particularly like your #1.

[@KNOWLEDGESPEAKSTRUTH]

Being prepared and punctual.A man that has direction and discipline is a powerful individual.

[@Flygreensox]

I’m 46 years old! I wish I had this channel /and You tube when I was a teen

[@moesnuts]

I was thinking the same exact thing while watching this video.

[@Flygreensox]

@@moesnuts seriously

[@agambegyeplug975]

True

[@theeternalnightmare2630]

@@moesnuts can you guys piggy back on what he said im 21 learning on life moving solo

[@moesnuts]

@@theeternalnightmare2630 which part? The OG dropped A LOT of gems in this video.

[@Gregsgreatfood]

Personal finance is a biggie. I'm a Dave Ramsey financial peace coordinator. I wish I had learned these skills before I was 30.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed!

[@agambegyeplug975]

💯💯

[@gilgameschvonuruk4982]

What is a financial peace coordinator

[@InfiniteILMPS3]

Another skill I would say is emotional maturity. This skill could help you in various areas like, cultivating a healthy relationship or even saving your life.

[@savidadmj]

By age 30 you should know how to do your taxes and finances. It isn't calculus for crying out loud.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed

[@marvinclark8964]

Hey man thanks for sharing this. I can’t wait to teach my son these skills. This will help sharpen my fatherhood skills better. I already taught him how to pray and hear from God, but I like these skills you displayed in this video. Thanks OG

[@TheStyleOG]

That is awesome!

[@Paco-S.]

Yes! First aid knowledge is a must. There are a lot of young and older men who are inexperienced in this area and it is a must know, life throws many curveballs and the more people that can help others in dire situations, the better.

[@ericdiefel4505]

Changing the filter in your furnace or Air Handler. Simple but essential. As an HVAC service tech, I see the damage a dirty filter can cause

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed !

[@BCash94]

17/20 and I just turned 26. Got work to do but I’m in great shape so far. Always working! ‘Preciate you OG ✊🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@troysavoie772]

Lol. Throwing them hands. I haven’t heard that in a long time. Great job.

[@TheStyleOG]

Ha !

[@louiscyfer6944]

throwing them hands is not sufficient, nor are you likely good at it if that's what you call it. need to know grappling, submission, stand up including kicking, plus proper defense. knowing how to throw a punch is not going to get you far against a skilled opponent.

[@kevtheeducator]

Just turned 30 last month, I got 15/20. Working on the other 5! Thanks for the tips, OG!!! 💪🏽💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@waynejohnson2894]

My brother taught me the majority of what you talked about.

[@Rory_ODwyer]

20 skills every man should have by 30 1. Tie a tie 2. Change a flat tyre 3. Shine your shoes 4. Public speaking 5. Negotiating/bartering 6. Dress for the occasion 7. Lift weights properly 8. Grilling 9. Wet shaving 10. Jumpstart a car 11. Cook a signature dish 12. Tell a good story 13. Make a logical argument 14. Throw a ball 15. Basic first aid 16. Drive in bad weather 17. Fix a leaking faucet 18. Iron your clothes 19. Shoot a gun 20. Throw a punch

[@badboyroy8207]

Tying knots. You might need to secure a load in your vehicle or a number of other instances in which this skill would come in handy. Can help with first aid also.

[@georgeminor8886]

Yes, a skill far to gone... Throw a punch, Thanks for sharing I liked this video.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks George!

[@louiscyfer6944]

throwing a punch is not the skill you want, it is fighting. ground game, stand up, and good defense. guys who talk about throwing a punch usually never learned how to really fight.

[@jefflee6182]

Thanks Jeff, I'm 18 years old now and I am lucky to watch this video so that I can develop those skills you mentioned. Good video as always, Saluteeeeeee~

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@djprofittv9435]

Stay focused young man. Stay away from those women and build yourself up.

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

I’m 19 keep doing your thing g

[@blacktim3376]

Excellent! Let's add knowing how to save, invest, and set himself up for comfortable enjoyable older years.

[@TheStyleOG]

Absolutely!

[@ksmooth241]

This was great!! I’m 32 and was proud of myself still need work but thank you 🙏🏽

[@hoodfellah]

Oh...read a measurement tape, i finally learned how to do that 😅

[@Btraain]

These were some solid points I didn't expected. None of those generic and common known things, but rather some well thought skills indeed every real man should have. These are some skills you admire in a real man, but which nobody really points out. Salute to you Sir.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@allinspiriation6140]

My dad told me that I need to learn public speaking. He was so right!!! Awesome video bruh.🔥✊🏽

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

💯

[@blaed011]

Agree with all these points! I even taught my daughters how to throw a football they can throw a tight spiral even better than their boyfriends LOL. You in Philly? That's a great town visit it often I'm up in Bucks County. Keep up the great work.

[@c.vaughn1295]

Solid content as always! I would suggest "time management" as a necessary skill also. Punctuality, efficiency, and consistent situational awareness demonstrates a man in control.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed!

[@herbertlewis8442]

Excellent video!! I would add only two things... 1. Run for Public office 2. Learn a second language Running for public office isn't so much a 'skill' as it is a act that will bring many of the things you listed to bare. The benefits, even if you fail to win, will last a lifetime. Plan in traveling? Better have the ability to communicate in more than one language. I took French in college & currently taking ASL

[@littlecozettescrew6818]

Terrific list my man! However, you left out a vital skill: how to act during a police encounter. I understand this is a controversial topic in 2021...however, this is still key knowledge. A “Yes sir”, “no sir”, “thank you officer”, goes a long way. You don’t have to like them, but you need to know how to act. Make their job as easy as you can, and obey their commands. It will usually makes things go smoother, and it might save your life.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate you!

[@littlecozettescrew6818]

@@TheStyleOG thanks homie! I checked your other videos, you have great content. You’re really putting some good info out for the younger guys that might be lacking in some of these areas.

[@giodude92]

I'm not 30 yet but I definitely need to work on acquiring my driver's license.

[@ronthemogul]

Lol yea

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

💪🏽💪🏽 I’m 19 trying to get my license as well keep trying it it’s never to late

[@hennessyapplejuice8331]

@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 I didn't get mine until i was 24 i was just rollin around with my temps for a few years until i said F It let me get this out the way before i turn 25

[@ellismcgee3872]

Nice list OG 👌🏽 I'm past 30 but still need to work on some of those skills. Like others have already said, I'd add being able to manage your money to the list. Thanks for the video!

[@TheStyleOG]

My man !

[@brigadierwilliamwildebeest1112]

How about knowing how to swim? 🙃

[@ericsmith5826]

I can't swim but I can hold my breath underwater for 2 minutes

[@jayrosario2095]

@@ericsmith5826 You'll die in 2 minutes if you don't know how to swim.

[@ericsmith5826]

@@jayrosario2095 well I guess I'm saying goodbye to the world lmaoo

[@louiscyfer6944]

you need to know how to swim by age 5.

[@ericsmith5826]

@@louiscyfer6944 I wasn't able to go to a pool or lake till I was like 13 and then I saw my brother almost drown so I never got in after that till my twenties and I don't go past my knees lol

[@TruthFLA]

Im feeling good about this list. I know all this stuff. Im also smiling at how much of it i learned from my father.

[@ryanbales8116]

I love this. I'm 30 now and realized after watching this video that I have some stuff to work on. I have a lot of the list covered, but I think a man should always look to better himself.

[@stevenporter7065]

I would say Patience, ability to listen, and knowing when to walk away. If you can't wait for someone to finish their rant or yelling while they try to argue with you before you talk you can make the situation worse; listening as the rant/arguing/yelling is happening for key words/phrases will also help you understand their problem better, whether its what they are saying or what their not saying that's the problem,, and help you figure out how to descelate the situation and finding a solution quicker. Some people also just want to be heard so sometimes in conversations instead of butting in and saying "you think you had a bad day? (Insert your bad day.)" you just let them talk and vent. Sometimes the best way to help someone is just to listen. I myself am not always good at this but its still necessary. Think how many relationships wouldn't end because of arguments if guys/girls knew when to listen and when to stand firm. Now obviously don't do this every time or you'll become the push over friend/boyfriend or girlfriend its a line you need to walk its not insanely fine but its still there. Lastly, knowing when to walk away. Sometimes an argument is just not worth getting into. It can be a waste of time and hurt the relationship. Preserving relationships is sometimes more important than always being right. We need to know when to stand firm in our beliefs vs. Saying I'll let you believe whatever you want this isn't worth the cost. When you know how to manage these things you become someone that is undeniably better at arguing and better at being a friend/significant other. You'll also be more likeable most likely.

[@pierregeorge9050]

Jeff, your always dropping knowledge. Owning a house I learned to be handy around the house. Changing the handle on the toilet and replacing Electrical outlets. Will save you a ton of money. Learning to tie a tie and public speaking can help you grow in your career. Salute to the family.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Pierre !

[@phil5301]

Shine\Clean your shoes!! I believe that’s where the term “Dusty” came from!!! I also love public speaking and negotiation skills! Public speaking was one of my first college courses while in the military taking evening courses. Another great video Jeff!!!💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@timothycotton466]

I’ve grown so much watching this channel my style iq has gone up so much

[@williamthompson7020]

Have a real sincere relationship with God.

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

I need to talk to him more. Amen that’s my father

[@xenech]

That should be number 1

[@williamthompson7020]

@@xenech You're right. It should be number 1.

[@originlsamwash9363]

I followed along and am grateful that I am good at all but 2 of these. I’m still struggling with finding that special someone and keeping them, but man, it feels good to know that I covered all of these bases well especially in my last relationship. 1.) violence in chicago & with police has me gun phobic a bit . Plus I work in a criminal court. So, seeing people get time for gun crimes kinda sucks. 2.) I have the shoe shining stuff but rarely attempt doing it myself. I take them to professionals. I loved recently having a logical argument and limiting emotion. It ended splendidly if you know what I mean.

[@TonyTony-tk4qf]

I must be the oddball I learned all that stuff before the age of 19, and half the stuff I learned when, I was in the service in Vietnam, great video. 👌👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Tony !

[@08Coolster]

Maintaining your finances is key. Setting up direct deposit, direct payment, avoiding late fees, etc

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed

[@Breaking_Beard]

The last couple skills made me gain even more respect for you, sir. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@howardhodge3622]

Every man should know how to pray. Not just at dinner, at family gatherings.

[@peterturayjr1209]

I respect this a lot for us faithful guys.😎😇🙏🏼

[@savvylifestrategies9445]

Jeff, you tackled an important set of skills every man should have by age 30. Some surprised me, such as throwing a punch, but I understand where you're coming from. I'd like to suggest two skills that have served me well. First, avoid trouble and deescalate when possible. Have the courage to walk away. Second, be able to express yourself in writing. With it, you can express yourself to a friend in a letter or report progress on a project at work. Why these two skills? While I am prepared to handle almost any bad situation, violence leads to legal issues, which can be time consuming and expensive. It is also morally wrong if you have advantages over a perpetrator. Second, I am a bestselling author of six books. Before that, I was a business owner. Writing plays a critical role in my life. I think it will serve your followers well also. Salute!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Lou !

[@broskibrewer2187]

First time here on the channel. I was actually both shocked and relieved that nearly everything listed is something I actually learned and figured out way before I was even 16, and I'm so glad this is being taught for people to digest and learn it in their daily life. It's essentially the home economic skills that can really change not just the dynamics of your life and make them easier, but it also many many skills that impresses the ladies. Trust me, imho, everything said here is absolutely worth learning and I learned most of it from my parents

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the feedback!

[@BaltimoreJets86]

Learned how grill on the fly one of my favorite things to do reaching master status salute OG....

[@coreybright6684]

1. The proper way to wash clothes in separating and temp settings 2. Learning how to be on time 3. How to change Locks 4. Mowing the lawn 5. Fishing 6. Basic knowledge of whats under the hood of a car and how to identify the parts

[@peter_knowz_lifting]

I’m surprised driving a manual transmission didn’t make the list.

[@TheStyleOG]

That’s a good one

[@SansAziza]

I never learned to drive in the first place. Heh

[@peter_knowz_lifting]

@@SansAziza You must live in a city with an amazing public transit system.

[@louiscyfer6944]

who doesn't know how to drive a manual transmission car?

[@TheSteveg2011]

Great list. Im 50 but in my day it was absolutely necessary to know All of these things. I taught my sons all of these things plus but i see alot of thier friends that just say forget it when i need ill look it up on the internet

[@officialonyxobsidian]

I was waiting for you to mention firearms and fighting. Especially in today's times & ESPECIALLY if you're a black man.

[@louiscyfer6944]

unfortunately he only mentioned throwing a punch, nit learning to fight, which means he doesn't really know how to punch. nor is it enough. you need punching and kicking skills, at least basic grappling and submissions, and defensive skills, such as take down defense, guard, bobbing and weaving and covering up bare handed.

[@iamthatiam4637]

Damn i don't know how to do this either. I suck at fighting and firearms. And yes im a black man.

[@Warsie]

Oh yea. Were on the verge of a civil war. I mean the dude DID mention firearms training the one thing that I definitely should do.

[@louiscyfer6944]

@@iamthatiam4637 go get some training.

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

@@louiscyfer6944 learnt some of that in wrestling

[@Naeem_El]

Really love the channel and very informative. Salute King

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Brandon !

[@isabellegiorgis2975]

Wow, that was great! Must see to all the young men raised by single mothers out there!

[@montlee1990]

I’m 30 and my life is fucked up but I’m working on it

[@enterthebruce91]

Nice one, O.G. I'm about to turn 30 next month so this is perfect for me. 💯

[@1960aragorn]

Great list Jeff😄! I would add having a drivinglicense, knowing how to satisfy a woman sexually and having an interest and skills in homestyling!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@Rey-Nolds]

You leftout putting a condom on and the proper disposal by flushing twice...there are some scandelous females looking for sponsors.

[@louiscyfer6944]

@@TheStyleOG you think a european guy needs to know how to throw a football and a baseball? for what? also, a logical argument is very specific, called a syllogism. do you know how to do a proper syllogistic argument? also, to recognize formal and informal fallacies as to not invalidate your argument?

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

@@Rey-Nolds 😂 that’s crazy bro really crazy I can’t believe it

[@breadnbutter2218]

Great video as always Jeff, shared with my younger up and coming cousins.

[@breadnbutter2218]

Would you consider a podcast platform? this video like many you have was a great listen as I drove into work this morning.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that !

[@calvomedia8427]

OG. Nice video. I am showing this to my majority Male high school class next week!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Calvo!

[@lawrencemckissick9680]

The style OG be IN his BAG you can tell he a Philly guy forreal we standout were ever we go or Do appreciate the content 💪🏿

[@TheStyleOG]

You know it !

[@jamesmurray2876]

Salute OG very helpful skills much needed

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute James !

[@dwnation3608]

I’m 20 years old and I’m going to gather all this information 👍

[@jmorgan0829]

Great job bro. Love how far you have come and all the knowledgeable advice along with style u have given. Keep up the good work. Love the channel ❤

[@patricki5859]

This is a great video! For me, I learned most of these skills in the military well before 30.

[@devnotes00]

Especially vehicle maintenance

[@christophergibson4449]

Good vid, sir!! Learning how to swim is another to learn before 30 (or at some point).

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Christopher!

[@Swagmonkeyfan1306]

Awesome video. You’ve done it again Jeff! I didn’t think I’d be surprised by anything on this list but a couple did surprise me

[@blacksnk]

On the negotiating part, I learned something that has served me well for many, many years. Never pose a problem unless you have thought of a possible solution for the problem. So many people whine about something, but don’t have any ideas on how to solve the problem. If I want something To go my way, address it as a problem to someone and offer a possible solution that doesn’t involve them doing the heavy lifting to solve it (don’t say, there’s no food in the house, so YOU need to go out in the rain and get it). It’s best to do it while offering a service to solve it.

[@TheStyleOG]

I like it !

[@nybxcrotona]

Having just saw this, I think it's a great video, and delivered well. It's great these days that finding out more about these skills is just a KZbin search away (professional boxing coaches and fighters showing how to throw a punch, mechanics showing how to run maintenance on your vehicle, etc). It's been mentioned already, but I believe managing personal finances/budgeting is a great skill to have as well. Nobody likes or wants to be broke, and being able to manage your finances is a good way forward to ensuring that won't happen.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@PHIllip324]

I'm glad you followed up how to shoot a gun with how to throw a punch. Understanding conflict resolution (which also goes back to your point on negotiating), force proportionality, and your local laws are pivotal in both being a well-rounded person and not catching a charge.

[@theorganstudio4478]

Great video. Excellent delivery. I would add to the list personal finance management, dining etiquette, and how to properly maintain a yard.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@glenngray6859]

What’s up my bro Og. Great video my G . Keep killing them with this knowledge. Salute my friend.

[@renaissanceman165]

What a very thorough, and comprehensive list. Kudos to you, my Brother. Interestingly, if I must use my "storytelling skills", I will honestly, and rightfully attest that, while not a stranger to performing in front of others at a young age, I was out of practice for a while, as my teen years approached. However, thanks to my involvement at church, I was often enlisted, not always willingly, to speak publicly, by welcoming visitors, giving remarks, or performing music. By the time I was in high school I was seasoned at public speaking, to the point where I was surprised how some classmates would rather get a failing grade than recite their own written assignment in front of the class. As I grew into adulthood, I realized that some people have to work to overcome their fears, and apprehension. I've even seen a classmate, in Grad School, so petrified, at having to deliver a solo presentation, that she was literally brought to tears, requiring the professor's intervention, and coaching. I agree with you also, that many of these skills are still works in progress that we should always maintain, from time to time. Surprisingly, most of these skills are mastered just attending church on a regular basis, Praise God! ....All ,except, shooting a gun. Of course somebody could get knocked out by someone catching the Holy Ghost. Check it Out,! Ciao!!!

[@thetruth1635]

My son is 25 year old college graduate. Needs to work on the flat tire , healthy eating habits & appropriate social skills . Much respect thanks for the info .

[@TheStyleOG]

Much respect!

[@ESvii9]

The thrill of victory and agony of defeat. This prepares for graceful, dignified wins in life like landing a job or pulling a much desired phone number without acting a fool in the process and looking thirsty. On the other hand, learning to bow out gracefully and try again when you fail without throwing a tantrum. A lot of respect is earned and lost based on how a man controls his reaction to good and bad events.

[@ReggieHammond68]

Very well done We all need these things in the bag

[@williebrown4266]

Great video Style O.G. Completely agree with the entire list, especially the advice about public speaking, which I really didn't learn until I was in my 50's.

[@Tweakkkkkk]

This man out here talking about skills i done learned since I was 15

[@Rondman]

On the real, this is an important channel that I recommend to all my friends and their sons. Growing up in a SBM household I wasn't given these tools from moms. Salute my brother

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Ronald!

[@maxxpass]

Great video, made me think of all the times I had to use each skill while dating. Dude is like that cool ass uncle at the cookout who everyone is happy to see and chop it up with.

[@walterlee4796]

All things boys used to learn from Dad growing up, lucky for me I had the best , in my humble opinion it’s what’s wrong with so many “incomplete” young guys today(And women) Too many generations raised without a father in the house, only a real man can make a boy into a real/complete man

[@KDG111]

I retired from the NJ State Police. Over the years of my career I can’t count how many times I had to teach grown men how to change a flat tire. It was funny and strange at first, but after so many that didn’t know and many of them black men who were college athletes. It became very obvious there were no men in their lives to teach them. So for me at least these brothers knew this one skill before most of them became 30 years old.

[@kevinsamuelsdefenseforce2195]

Salute An Excellent List

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@rudygoofysrh]

Great skill list my brother. I will definitely keep growing and improving my manly skills list. I appreciate your time and input. Salute!! ✊🏿

[@TheStyleOG]

Much appreciated!

[@rudygoofysrh]

@@TheStyleOG Another great video topic. Salute

[@7324edwin]

Jeff, you're nothing short of a true scholar and gentleman!! Thanks for another great vid!!👍🏾 However, another skill that i think every man should master by 30 also is knowing how to operate a manual transmission vehicle.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate you Edwin !

[@dayvo04]

This is a good video for me as a dad to make sure I teach my son what to do early thanks for the video

[@NobleLumpy54]

Great list!! You put out a lot of great content on this channel. Keep up the good work!! The wet shave is definitely a skill that I'm still lacking.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks! Will do!

[@pauljaikaran9790]

So much wisdom and knowledge brother Jeff. I mastered typing by attending a typing institute. Typing is also very essential skill. Thank you brother Jeff. Salute!!!

[@Shawntraci]

Awesome topic! I had to learn all of these because of the time I grew up (in the Midwest) and I hate to keep saying it, but I was in the military. I have several dishes and one of my signature dishes is Oxtails with red beans and rice (they always ask me to prepare this dish). You are absolutely correct about men should know how to do these things by their 30's (most I mastered in my teens early 20's😁). Fantastic video good Sir. Keep putting great content out there...

[@TheStyleOG]

You know I will Shawn !

[@keymaster9200]

Man I thought you were gonna talk about saving money and building credit and stuff lol. But you definitely opened up my mind. Some things I already knew and did but others you really made me think about and consider.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Rondy!

[@RHOgu4]

Being able to render basic first aid is so important. I’m extremely impressed that was on the list. Thanks for sharing that one.

[@TheStyleOG]

Very welcome!