10 Reasons You Should Not Date A Co Worker

In this video, Jeff from The Style O.G. breaks down 10 reasons why you should not date a co worker. He talks about all of the potential pitfalls of workplace romances.
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[@eliciakatrina]

I work in HR and this is ALWAYS a nightmare. They are either in each other’s face all day or bringing their issues to work. THEN, we have to hear all the details when it starts falling apart. My advice is DON’T DO IT. Trust me, it’s not worth it!

[@TheStyleOG]

You heard her !

[@darioschaeffer5513]

The heart ❤ wants what the heart ❤ wants

[@eliciakatrina]

@@rmedina8171 do mean dating someone in HR?

[@eliciakatrina]

In that case, you and the HRM need to have a candid conversation for rules of engagement at work and what happens if you end up in HR for a work-related issue. Also, you may want to keep it quiet or minimize who knows about the relationship. My advice is proceed with caution.

[@Knottyautumn]

Y’all gossip too much. Just Mind your business

[@ronaldrobinson2211]

In college I was intimate with a coworker. The next day everyone at work knew what we did, how we did, and where we did. After that, I NEVER talked to another coworker in that fashion again.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@TheRossillini]

If women kept there mouths shut and listened then there wouldn’t be a problem but they like to run there damn mouths 😂

[@rayneeshiamoore5145]

Wow that’s insane

[@andyasdf2078]

Exactly this. And the best bit -- it's either true and they do all know exactly what happened; or it's all in your head and you're going round thinking they all know. The results are almost the same.. except the mental torture stays with you the longest. Great video, thanks man!

[@Hey_its_Koda]

Why do women have to tell everyone.

[@anseldelacruz]

I dated my coworker. We kept things outside the office and in the office it was strictly professional. Fast forward to today, we have been together for 8 years and married. I was lucky it worked out. Avoid the office romance or be super extremely careful.

[@TheStyleOG]

very careful!

[@tropicalbeach9225]

but you are the exception not the rule! majority of the time it does not work out and strongly advise against it!

[@Iam18]

This is goals for me. I asked out our HR and she turned me down lol. Ideally would like to keep it a secret.

[@richardbrown6591]

"Never get ya honey where you make ya money"

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir !

[@mrcheezle3910]

Lol I like that

[@TyTyslickster]

Yes Sir , I almost made this mistake, I'm soooooooo glad that I didn't.

[@iwantgoals1566]

Or don’t eat where you shit?

[@raymeester7883]

Salute.

[@haleylynn1369]

When you break up, you’re stuck seeing them every day. As well as- seeing them flirt with other people, hearing them talk about the people they like or are dating, having their new partner come into work to see them, having to see them with their new partner at all the company gatherings. You’ll want to quit, or will quit, so you don’t have to be around them.

[@bronzemv4440]

Yeah, this.

[@rmedina8171]

I got the h.r manager that's interested in me, I was interested too, went on her social media, and she has a boyfriend already, and she is just persistent in trying to get me to talk to her, I don't know what to tell her now, I'm in an uncomfortable position

[@lotusflower3154]

True me and my ex husband

[@lonelypigeon7562]

you hit this BULLSEYE!!!!

[@MKL3165]

Great point

[@Larry-qz3es]

I will give you the No #1 reason "Sexual Harassment".

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir !

[@jwallace-dhs-baltimorecity4679]

@@TheStyleOG so many workshops on that

[@Redhood813]

And Larry I will give you the #1 #1 reason, #MeToo

[@bally2203]

@@Redhood813 I was going to say the same thing! You can't even flirt anymore or you are literally risking your freedom. #MeToo was probably necessary, but it has surely defined the way people interact now.

[@Larry-qz3es]

@@Redhood813 Facts! 110%

[@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348]

Dating a coworker depends on how valuable your job is to you. If it’s a job that was not easily attained that you very much enjoy and has good pay then I suggest NEVER engaging in any dating or sexual activity with co workers. If just a job that you can easily replace then all bets are off for the right piece of ass.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@MaJeSTiCz0]

Facts got two bodies in under a year at the new spot I got.

[@frankesposito2182]

But,... God See's you and read the Bible on what he says about Fornication!!!

[@attainingknowledgeoftruth8348]

@@frankesposito2182, Sorry but You don’t know the biblical definition of fornication.

[@melvinmckinney9120]

Sound advice my friend. As a collage once said: “You don’t get your meat where you get your bread!

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@leroy592]

I like that one!! I'll have to use that one.

[@RudyPalos]

That's a new one to me. Noted.

[@iwantgoals1566]

You don’t beat your meat all over your bread?

[@chriscj71]

For everyone that’s commenting that they dated their coworker & have been married for anything longer than 10 yrs, that’s a beautiful thing. But the present day working environment is a completely different landscape. Great vid OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Great point

[@mlgpro5663]

Here are my notes (hope it helps): 1. Company policy 2. You look unprofessional 3. Office gossip 4. Productivity decrease 5. Absance makes the heart go fonder 6. Work life balance (work main subject) 7. Arguments (no space to deal with it) 8. Breaking up (healing prices) 9. Her dating someone else at work 10. H.R. Sexual harassment

[@thenumber1stunna69]

Yup and as a man you will never win. All she has to do is say you were making her uncomfortable and in the court of america all men are guilty unless proven otherwise with a ridiculous amount of evidence

[@JoosMayn43]

Number 10 is a HUGE one!!!!

[@liquidsleepgames3661]

9 and 10 are really underrated

[@KalmanBorbely]

I agree with all!

[@KNightRider504]

he basically named all of these. lol

[@kennethclemons3415]

Thank you addressing this topic. Never have I ever dated a female co-worker throughout my job experiences. Every job I worked from retail to warehouse jobs, Co-workers would spread gossip about either talking about whomever they were sleeping with by accident or someone has a crush on. As for me, I was always aware that it was unwise to date/mate a female coworker because I didn't want my name in the workplace gossip. I was accused of being gay by both male and female coworkers because I didn't engage in trying to date/mate female coworkers at that time which was untrue and hurtful. The reason why they assumed because I wasn't try to holla at a woman while working like the other guys were doing in the workplace, but rather being professional and productive. Some employees really don't understand how professionalism really matters in the workplace because your personality, work ethic, and reputation is on the line rather than trying to hook up. I also want to point out that there's a time and a place for engaging with women in such places like a lounge, parties, festivals, and so on. I stay on the grind until this day and hard work really do pay off. Keep up the great work 👍

[@williemherbert1456]

Lounge, party, or festivals? With some far-off stranger? Nah, I don't think in any way our environment is wired to allow us having intimate relationship. Those are just great place to have one-time stand for enjoyment, but for stable relationship would be sunk to the gutter. Sure, stranger are easier to cut off when thing goes south, but also harder to actually know each other better. Since both of thedistance and time extend limitation in which resulted in shallow understanding of each other with any clear respect in deeper sense. But I also agree that love in workplace is just plain wrong, heck this even can be applied to love during school day, those are just bad time to do such. Maybe I'm too strict here, but I just think rationally that those conditions are just weird to ever be put out as where you should pursue your mate for life. You can't know certainly how the character of those far-off stranger for you despite only being in try-out dating, since you have hard time to maintain transparency and connectivity between two of you.

[@TheoJay615]

I think every guy needs to hear this.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yup !

[@livedeliciously]

The worst part really is going through a breakup and still having to see them. You never really heal. And when you see them dating another coworker, then you'll start to see why people say not to dip your pen in the company ink.

[@da_q_man0131]

My guy this is on point. I've dated two co workers at a previous workplace and both of em blew up in my face. 1st, not only did we see each other every day, we saw each other every weekend too. I got tired and eventually made up a lie to not see her one weekend and when she didn't bite on the lie,it was the beginning of the end. After the break up, man the very next day I got a smack outa nowhere. 2nd time round, we didn't see each other that much on weekends but in short, after we broke up, she dated another dude at work and man I wanted to strangle the guy every time I walked past them being all lovey dovey but I didn't so I learnt the hard way to NEVER DATE MY COWORKER AGAIN

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@da_q_man0131]

Thank u for the knowledge u sharing. I recently came across your channel and I immediately subscribed. Love it man #keepitup

[@bronzemv4440]

Watching the tard prance around at work with a new person...🤮

[@ravishingrookrude]

Certainly would be weird seeing your ex walking around the parking lot with the next guy. Nice vid!

[@TheStyleOG]

Man !

[@jasmijn4213]

Could not agree any more, as the old saying goes, "Don't get your HONEY, where you make your MONEY" I have seen it done successfully, but tread carefully when trying to date a colleague or just don't do it at all.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input Jasmijn!

[@zengreen7]

Agreed, it can be done successfully, but proceed with EXTREME caution. Think about it and think again. But just don't to be safe.

[@RokNRoola]

I knew all of this but I needed the reassurance.

[@Chefjoe63]

Great points brother, I made that mistake early on in my career and promised to never do it again and I have even told other folks how big of a mistake it is. Salute OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute JT!

[@lobserve1]

Great points. This is part of a bigger rule to not mix business with personal. Don't hire friends or family to do work for you. If there's a problem it will hurt the relationship.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@MrInstrumentalist]

When you do break up she most definitely will start hanging out with another co-worker because while you were dating, trust me those thirsty guys were hitting on her and talking bad/lying about you to her.

[@ticild4181]

Fellas, please listen to O.G.!! Resist the temptation to hold hands with Suzie! 🤣😂 If you do have interest in a coworker (romantic or sexual), don't express that interest until YOUR LAST DAY.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@aaronwatts7457]

I made this mistake once when I was about 21. Thank God it didn't get THAT bad but it definitely shook up my personal life in a bad way. Never again.

[@tsp141181]

A fantastic video which should be mandatory curriculum for every professional man. Great as always, Jeff...thanks for this. Salut!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Travis !

[@QZigZagg]

The job that I currently work on, I see this all the time. You tend to get caught up in a lot of “He Say, She Say”. Also, you run the risk of being sent to HR if you say the “wrong thing” to a female & she feels offended by it. And the romantic relationship (or sexual) goes SOUTH between you and that other person, the AWKWARDNESS is extreme!

[@jonathanrobinson9208]

AGREED ! I had this experience ( a few times 🤕 ) in my youth and learned my lesson the hard way, boss and co-workers. More importantly, Anytime either one of you is seen interacting with anyone of the opposite sex it's assumed ( you're dating) ! That "side eye" we got we earned ! 💯👌❤

[@TheStyleOG]

Side eye !

[@jonathanrobinson9208]

@@TheStyleOG most definitely! I happened to walk in with a department head one morning discussing a prior meeting and the whole department went silent! She stopped and looked at me and said " did you remember to cut the coffee pot off !" And I said "I thought you did!" We laughed and she said "reputations are important, but how you learn from them and and move forward is more important " a very smart and beautiful woman, we're still friends 30 years later!

[@CB-jc7kh]

I dated someone that work in the business next door and how the companies operated it was if we were coworkers. When we were together things were great however when we broke up (his decision) the hurt began and watching him go about his daily affairs as if I never existed was beyond heartbreaking. I believe when you are truly into someone you do not mind seeing them everyday and if you are creative you can add mystery to your romance. The trouble and hurt begins when things go wrong and you breakup.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@kurtwagner7610]

I would add to that. Don't date anyone in the same building as you. It makes for awkward situations when you break up and you have to share the elevator together.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed Kurt !

[@EstratosVarios]

SAME BUILDING, not just same company. On point!

[@andyng5321]

Same university course as well, cause if you graduate you might end up working at the same workplace.

[@freedomring3022]

Never crap where you eat ... wiser words never given to me by an older male co worker many many years ago. I saw so many other guys lose their jobs and sanity by dating co workers. I stayed away from all that no matter how attractive a female co worker was.

[@TheStyleOG]

Tell em !

[@Mohamedalijama143]

Thanks man ! You really changed my whole plan since I wanted to date my co worker. I agree with you 100 % , warm greetings from Mogadishu Somalia.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@Johan-gn3op]

I dated my superior once and had to find a new job. She wanted to keep it a secret but it got out and just stressed her out. Her personality soured really quick after she lost control. fun times.

[@sigmasiren7]

How’d it get out?

[@christinem8799]

@@sigmasiren7 Nothing is ever kept a secret in the work place. ever.

[@kennethmcelrath3468]

this video is absolutely right! I learned the hard way twice dating coworkers

[@TheStyleOG]

Tell em Kenneth!

[@miss_intellectual199]

What happened?

[@Larry-qz3es]

I learned that the first time back in 1990 and that was a valuable lesson. Never again

[@BUDOKAIultimate3]

I see it ALL THE TIME at my Job! I just put my Thriller jacket on and eat my Popcorn...

[@TheStyleOG]

Pure entertainment!

[@sigmasiren7]

😂

[@marklance4022]

My generation had a saying that I have lived by my entire career and it goes like this ...you don't sh** where you eat !!!! Translation you don't do anything that could cause a problem in the workplace or worse hurt that income !good advice from the style OG salute sir !

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Mark!

[@queenofthesouth4205]

yes sir

[@Tyronieus]

💯💯💯

[@Larry-qz3es]

Yes indeed brother, we need that paycheck more than a law suit.

[@wrightmitch2961]

When dating a co-worker that first kiss can be the kiss of death

[@SharifMustafa]

I concur with you brother OG . It's just a very tough task dating a co- worker. Like you said missing ma girl the whole day spices things up, which I won't be able to experience if we see each other all day at work.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@jairuswright6857]

I had a lot a friends do this and I learned early on that you don’t mix business with pleasure.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@michaelbullock8011]

Great video and I enjoyed it and keep bringing great content and have a blessed day

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Michael !

[@michaelbullock8011]

Salute OG

[@walterj8150]

I used to date a girl at work back in my twenties, it was cool at first then it went bad. We used to go jr. high together where I knew her and she knew me. I applied for a new job at a department store and she was sitting there and called out my full name lol. We were friends at first as always and we lived five blocks away from each other. The was job was a good walk home for the both of us but she take a cab until I said to her let me walk you home, it was a Spring afternoon. We started liking each other more and until I asked her to be my lady and see said yes . We saw each at work, at lunch , after work and days off. She would show up on my block while I was playing basketball, I had no time to be me. After a year and half we broke up over something stupid and from that point I was able to breathe again. NEVER DATE SOMEONE YOU WORK WITH 👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the personal experience!

[@DGRussMB]

Man, I wished more people heeded this advice! Things may seem great at first! ...but it can snowball out of control quickly. At the cost of your stomach acid and your coworkers that have to deal with the inevitable fallout. Don’t be dipping your pen in the company ink!

[@TheStyleOG]

Tell em Russ !

[@DGRussMB]

@@TheStyleOG Thank you! You made my day! :)

[@mindyourbusiness4369]

Bro, I learned this lesson the hard way. I dated my former female co-worker for four months, then I proposed to her two months, planned a wedding three months after, words spread throughout our city civil service agency. Ears and mouths were shocked were engaged. My future mother-in-law and I did not get along. Relationship ended December 2019. Lesson learned. Never date your co-worker!

[@marvinthomas8494]

RQQ, Team!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate you sharing your experience!

[@mindyourbusiness4369]

The Style O.G. You welcome, Bro. Salute

[@boscokid9524]

I learned this phrase early in my career- “Don’t crap where you Eat.”

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@zengreen7]

AMEN!!!

[@UliSwag]

I dont understand that saying

[@zengreen7]

@@UliSwag Just think about it.

[@AbeJacoby]

@@UliSwag It's been 2 months as of the date of my comment. Do you get it yet? Ha ha!

[@timberhills1778]

LoL 😂 I dated a co worker, been married going on 24 yrs now♥️

[@brownpunk1794]

Exactly..there are exceptions bro👍

[@dominijerzboi]

24 years ago the work and legal environment was way different. The workplace should be for working. Anything outside of the workplace is fair game but precautions still should be taken.

[@brn2bnactor284]

Wow

[@FallenStarPunk]

@@dominijerzboi but what if that goes bad

[@hummingbirdgirl0720]

You two are shining needles in a haystack

[@Mr6victor1]

I needed to hear this today!!! THANK YOU!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem Eric !

[@Mr6victor1]

@@TheStyleOG Ive been interested in a beautiful woman at my site. Ive been hesitant about it. Listening to this video affirmed my concern. Keep up the good work in sharing videos like this!!! we need to be reminded of these issues!!!

[@laurenlocd3180]

There’s this older man I turned down and he is mad . Now he is playing passive aggressive .. almost hitting me with his forklift twice .. cutting in front of me at the time clock then letting me clock in first . Finding objects to accidentally trip over around me . I’m honestly ready to report him. I do not feel safe .

[@joel.m2682]

I needed this video two months ago.

[@TheStyleOG]

Oh boy !

[@philippe7977]

Lol

[@Swayze_S.L]

Joel.M What happened? Lol

[@joel.m2682]

- Sway - It didn’t work out. She broke up with me. In the end I won because she lost me.

[@mefilmmaking]

Joel.M 😂👌🏾

[@spencerjohnson7470]

Bro you have killed every subject I've been telling my friends for years!!! I fully support your channel keep the videos coming!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Spencer!

[@zengreen7]

Also, AVOID partying with coworkers or at least hold it to a strict limit.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed

[@EYELOVEMUSICSOUL]

I agree I mean the people who make friends at work more power to em but making friends at work and dating at work are a strict no for me based on a past experience it all started out GREAT! Now me and him are not together and me and her are not friends anymore ... HE was a shit bag but I truly miss HER friendship

[@GraveRave]

Don't get laid where you get paid. Great vid brother!

[@TheStyleOG]

You got that right!

[@DJP38]

I was taught at an early age by my O.G. Uncles: "NEVER dip your pen in company ink! " To be fair, I did "tether the line" once with a (former) coworker ... after I put in my two-week notice 😉👌🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Haha!

[@interesting2491]

BARS

[@TheBoomBoxGuru]

I see this so much on my job, It's like high school how everybody is dating each other. There's one young lady who is on guy No. 4 that she's dated at our workplace.

[@TheStyleOG]

Geesh !

[@killamaturine5884]

There’s one like that at my work smh lol

[@acela30th]

On point! Expand your game. The lowest hanging fruit is not the sweetest 😉

[@TheStyleOG]

Say it !

[@RayRay-ch9vc]

I know right.

[@stayup1217]

I would never, ever-ever-ever-ever-ever date a co-worker again. I did not cheat on her with a new girl. In her mind i did. The new girl flirted a little, but it wasn't even like that. Long story short, she requested that I get relocated. I got relocated in the building and lost a promotion. Had to hear gossip about me. Had to avoid her at meetings. It's NOT WORTH IT! Great Vid, Style OG!

[@mrgolstein]

Learning from experience, I was demoted because of the productivity dropping while dating a colleague Also, there was no qualms about her comparing work problems with relationship issues, while at work. She ended up quitting after my demotion, but the damage was done and though we are still distant friends, I had to learn the hard way...the fact the manager encouraged our relationship and penalized me when it ended really taught me a valuable lesson. I no longer work for that company...

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the personal input!

[@ssbigtonysoprano5961]

I got here early and I’m giving you a like!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@stevewise1656]

I dated one and married her. We kept it very discrete and both quit within five months after years of working for that employer. She was the first woman I’d ever dated anywhere I’d worked. Had opportunities, though didn’t want to deal with what would’ve or could’ve been drama filled work life.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

People need to realize that being employed these days is a PRIVILEGE. Why risk your job? Although O.G. touched on it, the possible negative effect that workplace dating has on your colleagues cannot be over emphasized.

[@TheStyleOG]

Well said !

[@MakeItSo_ST]

My mother always told us, "Don't $hit where you eat." Although the language isn't polite, the message is on point!

[@TheStyleOG]

On point!

[@357savage]

You relate dating to shitting? I see why some of these relationships dont work lol

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

Nedega Dolma Yes, indeed.

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

king hurt Well it’s shit when it goes south.

[@357savage]

@@eyeheartsushi2212 the job itself is shit when it goes south...are you gon stop working?

[@Risha-Rene]

People spend more time at work than they they do at home or anywhere else. It’s natural to date on your job because those are the people you spend the most time with, but it rarely turns out well. & once you do it you learn your lesson & never want to do it again lol

[@TheStyleOG]

Rarely!

[@sigmasiren7]

@Supergirl I hate it cuz I always meet the guys I’m most attracted to at work 😩

[@wally86_]

Learnt this the hard way!

[@TheStyleOG]

Hard lesson to learn !

[@philipdefibaugh5683]

100% truth! Thank you for posting this, employees really need to see this!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Phillip!

[@brainbox1949]

Great job jeff you did it again every real O. G already knows this

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Brian !

[@BMike504]

Depends on how you both handle things in the work place. We only came around each other on quick breaks going for a walk. We worked in different departments so it made it easy. Hung outside of work. Getting married next year!

[@politicalscifichick]

Until one of you are attracted to another co worker

[@rayray6547]

It's funny I was warned about this when I did it, I was really respected at work and always got my things done. When we started I got distracted just like you said, lol got in trouble at my job for the first time ever. Luckily I only worked at that job for six more months before getting a better job. Plus we never had an argument in that time so I didn't have to deal with that awkward situation. Still together today at a year and a half later so sometimes it works out. So long as you both keep progressing in life.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the personal insight!

[@kingfargo9578]

Lmao right. Same situation here.Was one of the top performers at my company, then Stacy ( co worker ) came out of nowhere. Little bit flirting here, and there. Next thing you know, if you find me you’ll find her... vice versa too lmao. When we broke up, she was being petty asf tho. Talking to every guy in front of me, trying be loud when I was talking, etc. Got a job in my studies, so I left before things escalated too deep. We just started talking again lol

[@dannys6163]

Wow, this was a great and important video that everyone needs to see...much respect bro, salute 🙌🏽

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Danny !

[@jz9172]

I’ve always cringed at the idea of this for some reason.

[@TheStyleOG]

As you should!

[@foxyfox737]

Cuz you obviously have a functioning brain. I've seen plenty of guys getting jacked for pursuing romance in the office. It's simply not worth it; you're putting yourself in a position where everyone is seeing you as a possible sexual predator and risk losing your career, reputation and possibly many years of your life over nothing. NO pussy is that good my man😂!!

[@barnastil591]

You're bang on with the absence makes the heart grow fonder. My maternal grandparents worked together...divorce, my paternal grandparents worked together... divorce, my parents worked together...divorce. My wife and I are together too much...divorcing.

[@TheStyleOG]

well...

[@JoosMayn43]

I totally agree with this. Why mess your money up for a fling?

[@TheStyleOG]

Truth!

[@JacquesMugisha-iz6fx]

This the best advice I ever got ,most people always told me to go for it 😂thank you @O.G

[@dholmesjr]

Sound advice... I'm at work to perform and move up in the company. Dating a co worker will slow that process down....

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed!

[@alexbr9406]

Excellent video.

[@robertcachia6484]

All valid points Jeff. I couldn't imagine working with my wife. Absent's makes the heart grow fonder.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir !

[@justsomeoldguy3839]

... And Prolonged absence makes the heart go yonder, says any Fefail practicing hypergamy. I'm just saying.

[@eddywil]

salute jeff. i found that out the hard way been there, done that. but thank God i found someone we've been happy 20 + now and i love going to work and coming home to my lady.

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Edward!

[@kevinbryan2660]

I agree it's not a great idea. I have seen colleagues who date and break up, very messy. Accusations start flying, its even worse when one of them holds a senior position.

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@knytewing3107]

You make a really good point here and I knew for a fact that mixing business and romance never a good idea.

[@rodneycummings9231]

My dad always said, "Never look for meat where you make your bread."

[@mr.flegler9784]

This is a great and funny video because I walked in those shoes! She was in call center department and I was in the maintenance department so i think that helped us out and we dated until we got married! Lol we been married for 6 years now but... Your right about all the points in this video and I think the only way we made it is because of different departments!! Great very Salute and Respect OG 👌👍💯👌👍💯

[@yogidemis8513]

I started working at a pizza shop when I was 18 and I was on my second day when a dude walked in looking for his gf and he looked pissed. I said, I think she's in the back hold on. She came out and he started yelling at her about cheating on him. The guy she was cheating on happened to be another co-worker, he comes walking out and a yelling match started. Luckily we had no customers at the time. So these two dudes are face to face and the girl is yelling at both while everyone was yelling at everyone. I'm just standing there like "I'm about to see some shit, alright!!" the bf pulls out a knife and stabs the dude she's been cheating on in the shoulder. The now ex bf takes off running out the door, 911 got called and I'm trying to help this guy so he doesn't bleed to death. It was a wild work day. The ex bf got 8 years in prison and they both got fired but I found out that they got married a few days later, she got pregnant by her ex but told her new husband it was his. She tricked his ass. The other girl who worked there who was friends with the other girl quit 2 weeks later so I didn't get the "Jerry Springer" scoop anymore. I got promoted in two days of work. That's when I decided "Never date or get with or mess around with co-workers" it could lead to bad news.

[@danis8698]

🤣😬

[@rasheemthebestfirstone3274]

Damn that new husband better have left her

[@yungcash4638]

This is so accurate good information bro peace and love and I subscribed

[@missalycia3534]

I know someone that is with two females at the same time in the work place. Meeting one girl in the parking lot while the other girl is upstairs working. They will go back to their desk a couple minutes apart so it Won’t look like they was together, so the other girl or other people can’t catch on to what’s going on.

[@thenumber1stunna69]

What a chad

[@shalomgordon6631]

Good video Bro.... Needed this video couple years ago... Right on time nonetheless

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@Jebro439]

10 Reasons You Should Not Date A Neighbor should be next

[@TheStyleOG]

haha!

[@twanjuly6]

Facts 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@DarkAries76]

Right, but if you have to don't invite them in your house or apt. for a while lol..

[@twanjuly6]

The Style O.G. We need this video OG! Cmon 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@mrgolstein]

LOL, but I thought "Love Thy Neighbor" 😂

[@avontmorganjr7505]

Sometimes hard to do. But good, solid advice.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Avont !

[@josephbishopii6463]

I have done this. Have had good situations. Although ultimately it ended badly, it wasn't because of the workplace. What I will say though is I wouldn't do it again. Ultimately, who's for you will appear in any format in your life. Peace.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input Joseph !

[@lmckinney4303]

Great video Bro much Respect👊

[@TheStyleOG]

Much appreciated!

[@toddjacksonpoetry]

Reason 1b: Even if it's not against company rules, your supervisor simply might dislike the hassle. Now he or she has to take her into account when the time comes to discipline you - or vice versa. Same goes with promotions. Transfers. Etc. You wanted to be promoted to Reg'l Mgr but that would make you your girlfriend's superior. Or vice versa.

[@TheStyleOG]

There is that..

[@rustyshackleferd204]

So so true. I made commitment @15 to never date a coworker. Now I'm 32 and just recently dated a coworker, why? She was about 2 xfer to another location and she was pretty much the one to ask me out, also on a dry spell and she was cute and aggressive. Went on one date and she had told me she told another coworker about us who also told others. I warned her that if she tells how great we are other girls will aggressively go after me, now I can control myself but the jealousy she will get will strain the relationship. I experienced this in school and why I never wanted to take it into work. After 2 dates i stopped talking to her. Felt like she had a bf.We were never physical. Had I ignored my intuition I feel like one of us would have gotten hurt. But just reminder why I made that decision 17 years ago, and all the repercussion that can come from a sour relationship at work.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the input!

[@3hooks781]

Yo this video is 100% accurate! SALUTE, Jeff!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@interesting2491]

Office gossip is very true… I had a situation once where a coworker stayed the night at mine, and then we went to work together in the same car - Apparently me and her were spotted outside of work by another co-worker. The next day, Two co workers got to work early and waited outside a shop near our workplace JUST to see us in the same car haha was so embarrassing on their behalf.

[@theah5093]

I'm heartbroken now. We broke up and he hooked up with another coworker 😪.

[@eugenewalls9643]

H.R. bro HILARIOUS , Keep up the good work and the great content

[@TheStyleOG]

will do Eugene!

[@alannabors]

I won't I really agree with it but at the same time I can't disagree with it cause my parents are married 25+ years and where did they meet, at work. but do they currently work at the same job, no

[@marcusledbetter6831]

Great Video, Thank you for the information!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Marcus!

[@obicanoli3845]

I work at a hospital with a lot of young nurses so it's kinda hard for me to avoid the temptation

[@TheStyleOG]

Be strong !

[@dcfal817]

I needed this brother because there is a new girl that just got hired at my job recently and she’s attractive. However, me too culture and knowing that everybody in the workplace doesn’t serve my best interest. I need to keep my livelihood and stay out of drama

[@jon0328]

Dated someone at work, when it didn't work out everyone in the office had a good time at my expense. Wasn't a good experience.

[@TheStyleOG]

Tell em !

[@jamarcuskeys651]

Always love the videos. Do more bachelor pad videos. Love those

[@TheStyleOG]

Will do !

[@stevenwells5069]

You are so right, Jeff! I've definitely been there. We broke up, and here I am sneaking back to her area to see who's hitting on her......don't do it! 😂

[@TheStyleOG]

Aww man !

[@glenngray6859]

What up my bro Og. Great advice my G . I hope ours bro are listening. Salute my friend

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute Glenn !

[@djenx617]

Too late lol we kept it on the low but its awkward when we run into each other. Highly recommend against lol

[@TheStyleOG]

Awkward!

[@mrhoopfan1]

It depends.....worked for me. Don't work toether anymore, but something to be said for being with somone with similar values...Just have to have two mature individuals