10 NICE GUY Mistakes Men Make

[@jasontutorials4809]

Being too nice just gets you taken for granted and unappreciated , worst position to be.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed!

[@RobynJ729]

True! Same for women.

[@walterhunter3353]

I’m going through it right now. I know better but after this situation no more.

[@nigellewis2132]

1000%

[@jandlstacy9740]

People don't respect nice; they respect assertiveness and leadership.

[@biggibby54]

Be authentic...set boundaries...those two tips alone will propel you forward in life.

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed!

[@longbeachmaumba7059]

Unfortunately most women in 2024 simply don't want a good man. They say they do but deep down they don't. They like drama. Some will literally get turned off if you treat them too good. Imagine that.

[@EazybEazee]

That's women 4 ya Dammed if you do.....

[@prestonmcleod1726]

So true

[@therocketshow]

Yall ain’t wrong but also I think your looking in the wrong places and wrong types of women there are realy good quality women out there still!! Keep looking and stay a gentleman!!! And keep all the advise the style of is giving us men!!!

[@TrillBill]

@@therocketshow Truth be told, alot of guys don't want Good women either. Both sides are being gaslit

[@Jac735]

​@dcoldestjenkins5868 passports are getting worse too I know a few people who brought their women here and got dumped right off the gate for they green card church girls are were it's at unless they aren't hypercrytes

[@Larry-qz3es]

Tupac said when a woman rejected him for being “too nice.” When he changed his image and asserted himself, women desired to be with him.

[@TheStyleOG]

Assertiveness is key!

[@swannyriver75]

A loving woman will show you she appreciates you whether she writes you a note or buys your favorite snacks or send you a surprise gift, you'll know if she never does this walk away..

[@halfnorfolk5310]

Agreed! Women want a man that is assertive and won’t let people walk all over him. Women feel that an assertive man will also be assertive in protecting her if the need ever calls. And an assertive man most likely will be respected more because people respect others who set boundaries and won’t let themselves be walked on.

[@apeele298]

Yes. Sooooo true. Always be on your purpose. She will respect you more

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes Sir!

[@roronoazoro-136]

Dated a girl. I respected her. We talked every day for three weeks, and BAM. She sent a long ass reject message. I was hurt for weeks, but today I feel stronger.

[@1852live]

Strength to you King! 💪🏾 Take care! 🫡

[@imightormightnot]

Wow..

[@Jac735]

Get this I got out of my 5 year relationship and engaged this 1 girl I met she kept flirting wirh me and kept playing with me now when she found out I broke up with my ex she blows me off completely plays around with me and dosent take a hint I want to hang with her more long story short it's not like she is a 7 or 8 she only a 6 and still plays around claiming she only had 1 bf before and always wanted to find love she only calls me or dies whatever only when she wants something but some people make ex uses for her listen if you show me who you are and your bring a hypercryte I just won't respect you anymore

[@JustMe-999a]

Youu should have enough going on that you can't talk to her every day

[@Jac735]

@@JustMe-999a dayum you right

[@waynenice]

Thanks Uncle O.G. I Myself needed this one!! I can always count on you to come through.. Thanks! W.N.

[@TheStyleOG]

You are very welcome!

[@sleepergs430]

I’ve been a nice guy for the longest and I am just now breaking out of all of these bad traits. Thanks OG for the confirmation that I’m doing things for myself the right way.

[@TheStyleOG]

My pleasure!

[@jamiewright4704]

I need to watch this everyday this week until I think it through a few times.good advice

[@mikereese15]

So many of these relate to just ordinary working relationships too.

[@TheStyleOG]

They do

[@clarencegibbonz4770]

Being nice isn’t always bad or stupid. A woman can TELL if you are being a Gentleman or not. There has always been a bad-boy element that woman love. But the majority will marry the empathetic nice man for stability and nurturing and balance. Key. Know when to turn nice - on or off! But always be a Gentleman at all times…

[@imightormightnot]

Agreed!!

[@TheStyleOG]

well said!

[@therocketshow]

I concur!!

[@prestonmcleod1726]

Excellent advice!!

[@RobynJ729]

Jeff, you're 💯 on point! This can apply to women as well. (Looking 🔥 dapper as always).

[@TheStyleOG]

Yes! Thank you!

[@TrillBill]

8:44 This one hit close to home. I'm glad I put in the work to outgrow that, because it put me in ALOT of bad spots as a kid, and also as a teenager.

[@kyamlegend]

“Nice guys finish last” & “No good deed goes unpunished”…keep these phrases in back of your mind and act accordingly. At a certain point of life you should know difference of being taken advantage of or when your actions are truly appreciated and reciprocated

[@ralphsica657]

So true.

[@chrisb3902]

Great video Jeff & sharp jacket! 🫡

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks! 👍

[@nightlifeking]

Another nice guy trait, asking for a date on a Friday or Saturday and you’re under 30. Even if you’re not doing anything you need to look like you have a social life. Trust me, it works.

[@thomastripp9002]

This is WHAT I NEED TO HEAR!!!! Although I’m getting better at it, it can still need a whole lot of work

[@TheStyleOG]

You got this!

[@therealcoolchris]

This is wild! So, I was struggling with a decision this weekend over an invitation I received after I already made plans for another engagement. I was thinking about trying to split my time between both events, until I came across your video this morning. Serendipitous to say the least. lol Your advice helped me make the right decision and realize to not overextend myself to friends and family. I appreciate you much brother. Thank you for all the great work you’ve been doing on your channel!

[@bagramfacilities]

Preciate the guidance OG. That jacket is straight ❤‍🔥.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@corybrookins6996]

Solid 💯Beginning to the end. BTW, congrats on the marriage! Blessings to you and the Mrs. Salute 🫡

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that!

[@ewayne1918]

Great insight sir. Truly appreciated

[@jmorgan0829]

Lol.lol, this is a good topic. I love me, a nice guy, but i like what you pointed out. It could be family or friends as well.

[@ellevee6919]

Know balance. Takes a minute if you don't have self discipline. Be courteous but not a pushover.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@octomoda]

Great video and sharp ensemble. I’ve found Going back to failed relationships, professional or personal, is also mistake of the nice guy. It’s not wise to give people a second to abuse and manipulate you. Believe who people show themselves to be. I’ve learned this lesson.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate it!

[@Jalyng01]

Man, I have been dealing with all 10 of these. Thanks for this video. I am going to do better starting today.

[@Bklynmason72]

Great video as usual, OG. Another one would be making yourself always available to her. That is setting false expectations that a man would get a hard time from later on during a relationship.

[@TheStyleOG]

No doubt

[@rlazz]

I've been slippin on your videos Brother but I'm paying attention now, SALUTE!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Welcome back!

[@Wandrew223]

Thank you brother! Much Appreciated! 💪🏼🇺🇸🎉

[@dholmesjr]

Great advice and nice jacket... You should always set your boundaries and stand on them at all times.. Thanks again, Jeff. Salute.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@ericrobinson1789]

Being too available and over accommodating is one of the worse things a man can do. Especially in the interest of a woman.

[@TheStyleOG]

For real!

[@averagevotersmith3326]

Thats a sharp jacket my friend! Excellent video and information.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thank you kindly!

[@michaelbullock8011]

Great video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day

[@TheStyleOG]

Thank you! You too!

[@brent1387]

O.G. Great video…Looking sharp in that jacket…take-care!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@Cheez3Wagen]

Much love Style O.G!

[@TheStyleOG]

much love!

[@anthonylee1740]

Hello Jeff, hope all is well. Great video!

[@SimplyTomasTheCollection]

This are excellent points.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thaks!

[@jrvthatsme]

Good advice for men of all ages. Especially guys in their teens, as it's very easy to make these mistakes when you haven't yet had the life experience to know better.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the feedback!

[@roderickcoffman4185]

Please tell tell me where you got that jacket and what is the exact color. That jacket is cold blooded!

[@kennethyoung4892]

Great content! Salute

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@therocketshow]

Man iv been taken advantage of pretty bad trying to be a nice guy and not standing my ground and let her go even when I knew she was using me…was the worst thing I ever did. The cold part was, that part of her game was sex. And I was too blinded and quite frankly In high sight I was also desperate for a relationship ship and she strung my simp butt along and got as much as she could untill she let me know she didn’t want to be with me. I spent years afterward being a womanizer…now I have a loving fiancé that cherishes my love for her and she has spent everyday showing me the same love back even through our problems and feeling like it won’t work out we still manage to work through it all!!! We are starting counseling through our church really soon to work out some issues we have together our 2 year anniversary is next month june 2nd!!!

[@o751106]

There's someone for everyone. Be yourself.

[@zengreen7]

NEVER BE NICE, BE KIND. Btw Style OG, what color is that jacket???

[@mnewby82]

I've made all of these mistakes. I wasn't taught any of this growing up. I grew up stupid when it comes to women

[@aaronaustrie]

Real talk!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@kevinhollingsworth7823]

GEAT VIDEO AS ALWAYS O.G. YOU SHOULD THINK ABOUT DOING A SEMINAR IN MAJOR CITIES.

[@TheStyleOG]

One day..

[@maureencora1]

Like That Song By Alice Cooper "No More Mr. Nice Guy". (smile)

[@prestonmcleod1726]

Many do mix up assertiveness w/aggressiveness, especially when it come to women. I like you broke down the differences. Just like when you say be kind not nice. Some think that mean the exact same, however they're synonyms meaning the same or nearly the same. Everything you said was so true bout being the nice guy. @ one time I was that person, but then I decided to become an ass. Then the women loved me. Over the years, between maturing & Watching your vids, it helped me become a better man, & increased my game more & more.

[@TheStyleOG]

Happy to have added value!

[@DexterKing-gz6gs]

Real women like strong wise men. Being kind is definitely the right way to go but stand firm and let her chase you.

[@mngkyouGoD]

Good to know...👍🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

💯

[@JamesWhite-cr5ys]

All good !

[@questioneverythingtv]

Great tips OG 💪🏿💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@bufordjonesiii2528]

Great piece, brother- super dope jacket, as well!✊🏾

[@toddgaak422]

A wise man once said, "Be nice, until it's time to not be nice."

[@glrnnel5050]

Yoooo, the Style O.G. you tied the knot brother!? Congratulations!!! I have been away for a while. Good to see you again my man.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!!

[@TheJimmyardon]

Glad I heard this don’t wanna fall in this trap again I’m realizing my mistakes

[@TheStyleOG]

that's the first step!

[@cjjohnson8567]

My guy🤝🏿

[@damianlopez7630]

It is good to be nice many people appreciate it then again it is bad to be nice many people take you for granted and it happens among male friends and it happens among female friends to females also even in my AA group I'm friendly I'm nice and they take me for granted they don't even say hello many times then there are a few members who appreciate my kindness but I noticed that the members who are fiercely independent and don't show up to group meetings almost every member phones over them and it's really kind to them but to me they tend to give me dirty looks or they try to pressure me to be in group everyday different treatment than what many other people receive

[@EazybEazee]

Just continue to be yourself

[@damianlopez7630]

@@EazybEazee okay

[@kennguru]

Word!! 👏 💯 🤝

[@jasonellis9777]

It’s too bad it has to be like this but it’s true. The better you treat a woman, the more you fawn over her, the less she will like you and the worse she will treat you. And that is a fact. You actually have to do the opposite of what you feel. If you really like a woman then you have to not let her know. Once she knows you “love” her your stock drops with her. Facts.

[@TheStyleOG]

I think the true answer lies somehow in between,,

[@mcgowananderson7405]

We just try to offer a different perspective so that women can see that good men are out here, but it's not accepted . Thanks, OG, for sharing

[@TheStyleOG]

Absolutely!

[@NoFaceJourneys]

I've been a nice guy to family members, they started taking me for granted

[@kerry-j4m]

Stop trying to please others,put your wants & needs first and learn to say-N-when you don't want to do something ofr others.

[@TheStyleOG]

Family will do it as well!

[@mustangdaddy4125]

I am glad I found your channel 😊in 2024😊

[@tenshihayashi1966]

Where did you get the SMP?

[@ronmurrell8]

Be your authentic self. Don’t be a nice guy or an asshole.

[@aaronflowers8881]

100

[@EazybEazee]

Its jacked up we live in a time where you dammed for being to nice.....but if you a jerk, that dont fly over well either.....unless you a jerk with 🤑 for some

[@Jac735]

Mane these women are laughing at all of us now cuz they are in control they be doing that in most videos

[@toddturner2356]

Truth

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@zachsmith3903]

100% champ!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@Waltjoh100]

The gen z arent running nice guy game that went out in the 90s. No1 is in the Olympics to show nice guy virtue. That was 90s sitcom where the nice guy gets the girl and the girls rebuff the bad boys

[@texasorange285]

*** Jeffrey….just hit this out of the Park…clean out of Globe Park stadium!!! ( Texas). Personal Boundaries!!!!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it!

[@Pault3788]

I thought about dating,but I realized I have nothing to offer

[@jong7513]

Let's be clear, these are mistakes when dealing with mercenary women who are in it for themselves.

[@christoforoslefko4387]

Man & women can’t be just friends

[@Qthepug]

These things are basically true. But many appealing women want someone they can take advantage of, who will give them constant validation, and who can help them achieve their goals. Good, fair women who seek a fair reciprocal relationship aren’t often the ones men desire. What’s healthy isn’t usually proportional to it’s appeal. Avoiding what looks and tastes good for something that is good for you can paradoxically lead to being unfulfilled and unsatisfied. A person’s tastes and values has a lot to do with how easy it will be to find a healthy and happy relationship. Your advice to respect yourself and to “go out there and find yourself a nice girl” isn’t as easy as it used to be. Especially if your attracted to certain kinds of women who are outside your race or socioeconomic position. The only old school advice that still remains as true now as it was a hundred years ago is : a man’s best friend is his dog.

[@leonearly9593]

Nice guys finish last bad boys finish on there face 😆😂

[@aaronflowers8881]

Lol

[@craigwright101]

#Salute

[@cliftonsledge962]

Nice guys finish last and women don’t respect them. They respect the shark at the company, the man who has dog in him in a fight, or he’s a beast. My personal thoughts and salute 💪🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@o751106]

That is personal. Women like what they like. Some women like nice guys. Some don't. Nice guys just need to find the ones that do.

[@Jac735]

@o751106 you barely see them though if you do they are church women or just somewhere far from you

[@cliftonsledge962]

@@Jac735 so true the good ones are hard to find 🙏🏾

[@Jac735]

@cliftonsledge962 appreciate it homie

[@genepitts4665]

Have you been spying on me sir? I am a recovering nice guy and I hope that young dudes are getting this message early. It took a lot of messing up for me to get it. This is an excellent video

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks Gene!

[@bantuwarior]

Read the book "don't be a nice guy"

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

It’s okay to be nice but don’t be a pushover. For example, it’s okay to take your significant other out & pay for everything. However, don’t let them push you to do things you can’t afford or comfortable with. Or disrespect you.

[@MrValrow]

Salute 🫡

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@swannyriver75]

Please gentlemen know that the right woman won't take you for granted. Believe me if she likes or loves you, you'll feel it reciprocated. Truth be told, she'll protect you from those who try to take you for granted that's how you know she cares.

[@TheStyleOG]

appreciate the input!

[@rooski4049]

I never tell a woman no, i prefer hell no, or no sirr....

[@MidnightWanderer]

I'm kind😊....NOT NICE. 🤨

[@locutz]

Being too nice don't get you no pum pum .

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed!

[@o751106]

From women who don't like too nice guys Chad

[@keithmurray3827]

Zero

[@luernzojackson7825]

This is a mistake I made keeping it real

[@TheStyleOG]

It happens!

[@chrisbunka]

Ain't no one goinna come between me and my time to learn lessons from The Style O.G.!

[@TheStyleOG]

Wise man you are!

[@dennismolina9033]

Nice guys don't get no respect, before u know it ur just being a simp and the relationship is just 1 sided.

[@Daddy2025HQ]

I tell them no get a job grown adult