Breaking the Homemaker Stereotype ft. English Vinglish

How has Indian cinema depicted the Indian homemaker, and how does 'English Vinglish' make us question our assumptions about her?
'Recasting' is The Swaddle’s video series where we look at characters who defy the stereotypes of Indian cinema.
Edit and Motion Graphics: Pranav Ratra
Art Director: Neha Shekhawat
Scriptwriter: Shrishti Malhotra
Visual Researcher: Shambhvi Rao
Voiceover: Anahita Sachdev
Creative Director: Shrishti Malhotra
Executive Producer: Karla Bookman
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[@shrishtimalhotra2406]

This movie made me reflect so much on household dynamics and how much even I took my own mother's labour and love for granted.

[@ankitadas767]

@@ultimatetruth4156 This video was about women. Can we just stick to the topic for ones. I have seen you bashing feminism multiple times. Why dont you stay away from swaddle. Dont hurt your brain so much.

[@yashagar4443]

@@ultimatetruth4156 making money is not the most difficult job and women make money often more than their male counterparts

[@tetesperm]

@@ultimatetruth4156 How could people this stupid learn how to use the internet- really hope you get restricted by this channel. Dumb narcissists like you who keeps preaching about male superiority are cancer. Get a fucking job instead of whining about every single video that swaddle posts

[@youhashiccupinabbitipsy3815]

@@yashagar4443 "women make money more than their male counterparts" could u cite some example?

[@tetesperm]

@@ultimatetruth4156 no lol you're probably just some edgy teen who gets off on validation from like-minded misogynist pigs on the internet

[@swatisaini6447]

Remember folks Being homemaker is no less difficult than any job in this world

[@at1906_]

👍

[@tyrionlannister6847]

Can't agree more

[@excalibur6159]

And that's why if value was to be added to this job, it would amount to 50% of the husband's earning...

[@riteshvashisht4605]

Facts💯💯💥

[@skyward7903]

its more difficult than most paying jobs imo. Being a homemaker is a 24/7 365 job. With too many emotional sacrifices as well. You aren't doing shit for yourself, you're doing everything for others..who most of the time don't even give you equal respect.

[@tetesperm]

Its sad how women in most Indian movies are reduced to societal stereotypes without any character development whatsoever. They're either portrayed as *just* a love interest for the macho, man-baby hero or the main conflict, which again, ends up pitting women against each other. That's why we need more movies like this, which finally paints a nuanced female character that supported by other females in the setting. Tbh I hoped Shashi would've left her husband to be with someone who inherently cares for her, maybe like Laurent, who respected her as she *was* and as the person she *became*. Nonetheless, this movie was pure gold

[@snehamomlifestyle]

Most of the indian men and inlwas treated a homemaker like this...Ghar me sara din karti kya ho.. Paise kamao to pata chalega, dhang se rehana sikho,tumko kuch samjata nahi....They use word like this.....But shashi still in love with her hubby..She never want to leave him..But she wanted to prove him wrong for his behavior for that she worked on herself,she start love herself in this end her hubby know her worth

[@champagneproblemz7386]

If she would’ve left her family, it wouldn’t make sense for the character

[@sohit7706]

There are many movies in which women are shown as queen and men are treated as shit

[@twixylgaming3798]

@@sohit7706 such as?

[@sohit7706]

@@twixylgaming3798 The Dirty Picture, Kahaani (2012) Queen (2014) Margarita with a Straw (2015) Lipstick Under My Burkha (2017) Hundreds more

[@PokhrajRoy.]

As South Asians, we’re so bound by linking our happiness to our families that when we leave them out of the equation to know ourselves better, it’s frowned upon.

[@swatisaini6447]

💯 I experienced the same

[@snehaghosh4132]

Found you

[@RojaJaneman]

U can’t b a good member of ur family or society unless u know who u r or what ur capable of. This requires individuality. Individual decisions, education, meditation, suffering etc. Usually desi family members r familiar with this concept, it’s just that sometimes they’re not aware. U must keep in mind that desi culture has been destroyed and built back up for almost a thousand years after each invasion and external influences. Constantly and relentlessly. It’s moreover it into something it never truly was. The best thing u can do is go back to those roots and explore the heck out of them. There r many gems dying to b discovered by the regular youth that the ancestors discovered and have been buried by oppression and brainwashing. I promise, u won’t b disappointed. One of the first things I did was explore the etymology of vocabulary and origins of rituals/belief systems. They reveal a lot that has been buried by Mughals and Raj. It helps to shed the false history taught in desi schools. Without proper knowledge of ur cultural/national history u won’t understand left from right, let alone find a path forward. Dharmo rakshati rakshitah!

[@silvermochi3273]

Yeah 😔

[@snehaghosh4132]

English Vinglish is an amazing movie. We often see an empowered woman who makes money and independent. The movie shows that A housewife can also be a free thinking, independent, empowered woman.

[@loulicious5882]

@@mrtriyja7800 then why dont men leave all there jobs and let woman do it anyway earning doesnt matter rught

[@snehaghosh4132]

@@mrtriyja7800 No. I never meant that. You misunderstood me. Oh sorry I misunderstood you , you are a spammer so it's your job to misinterpret me. Ahh my bad.

[@notsotrending3635]

And agin Sridevi makes it bigger

[@nchl5340]

@moon light This is a snippet I read somewhere. Kids take mother to a nice restaurant. One of the items they ordered was Dal Makhani. Mother's eyes popped out seeing that. She said, I can make this in less than 1/10th of this. The kids said - "no Ma... this is the actual worth of your effort, if not more." Yes, in Bangalore, a decent Dal Makhani for 2 can cost from Rs. 750-1200

[@ayushpanda8896]

@@snehaghosh4132 since you can't reply everyone's a spamma haha

[@phoenix4918]

This reminds me of what the folk speech, when he says that love go and comes it's respect that upholds a relationship respect your partner love would automatically restore.

[@paradoxicalcitizen1139]

The movie was released in 2012 and at that time the idea of Shashi divorcing her demeaning husband to go with the French guy might have been too radical for director Gauri Shinde to put on screen. But at least today with movies like Tribhanga we see this progression in the courage of female filmmakers. This little progress is what makes me hopeful that in future we get more radical interpretations from the female character.

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

That would not make sense she barely knows the guy and her kids mean a lot to her.

[@konarkkd3264]

@@carolinpurayidom4570 she was talking about divorcing her husband not with kids.

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

@@konarkkd3264 I know but it will impact the kids and sperate her from her kids a bit

[@tetesperm]

@@carolinpurayidom4570 her love for her kids doesn't equate to her having to suffer the rest of her life while constantly being degraded by her husband

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

@@tetesperm It was hinted that her husband changed in the end and learned his lesson and saw his wife in a new light.

[@Tanya-du2cw]

Men think they are doing a huge favour by earning money to provide for their families. That's why they consider their wives to be beneath them and disrespect them. Once they see that their wives can earn and live a comfortable life on their own, their bubble of fantasy breaks. That's why it was important for Shashi to become an entrepreneur.

[@mrtriyja7800]

Well I don't consider women as inferior. I follow my dharma well, Which says Women can epitome of knowledge like Saraswati, Epitome of fierceness like Durga. Epitome of wealth like Lakshmi. But we also know about Dakini and shakini and other Surpnakha type women / aka angry FEMINIST.

[@loulicious5882]

@@mrtriyja7800 whole cmnt sectikn h r degrading women syaing men dont care abt women where is your dharma ? Dis your religion taught u to degrade women?

[@_PratimaBaghel]

@@mrtriyja7800 isn't Kaali the feminist image?

[@mrtriyja7800]

@@_PratimaBaghel . Yes all Goddess are divine true feminist based on values . But Kali also cut the heads of Immoral beings. Kali also love his children/ bhakta so dearly no one else can do. Here OUR FAKE MARXIST feminist lack love and empathy for unborns and other human beings. They just want appeasement by government through taxpayers money. MARXIST feminism is a trap for naive girls.

[@_PratimaBaghel]

@@mrtriyja7800 unborn? are you talking about abortion? and if you are, it is the woman's choice to keep the baby or not, it's in her body

[@sunjukarkho]

I won't lie I would have been much more happier if she chose to live in New York ,without her daughter and husband.

[@snehamomlifestyle]

It's wrong....I don't agree....

[@sunjukarkho]

@@snehamomlifestyle if somebody don't value you leave them behind.

[@MihirPoojari]

@@sunjukarkho Her husband and daughter aren't bad people. They are flawed individuals which they realise later on. However, they realise it around the end of the movie. By then, if Shashi would have made the choice of leaving her family would have been wrong. Constant neglect, abuse or disrespect can be deemed as part of personality. Temperamental behaviour can't be deemed as part of personality. At the end, Shashi chose the happiness she need, without hurting anyone that cannot be considered a bad choice either, though I do understand why she should have left them. Remember she says? She doesn't need love, she gets enough of that, what she needs, is respect

[@sunjukarkho]

@@MihirPoojari Let me give you more context, in the movie Domestic violence is not shown ,but in reality there are lots of thing happens in our society. So if somebody get love and respect they deserve, one must leave immediately I love people who do that. We have this beautiful life why to waste on someone who don't give you back what you deserve.

[@saahitip2809]

@@snehamomlifestyle why is it wrong?

[@cauliflowerhead2735]

I feel bad for my grandma and aunts today. I always judged them for not knowing English or having a scientific temperament. I never stopped to realise that they had no option, they were a product of their influences. They are sane individuals in spite of the fact that their influences were horrible. This movie straightened me out in a way that was extremely effective without being patronizing. This is one of my favorite movies apart from guru and wake up Sid. Please also deconstruct Wake up Sid and the stigmatization of academic failure in indian society.

[@priyapandey8486]

So true we (men women kids) all judge women so quickly

[@yashagar4443]

Honestly I would have loved the movie had she divorced the husband and moved in with the French guy

[@shreyakesarwani2791]

Me too

[@anshikasharma7905]

i agree but thats from our point of view , from her pov it was the respect that was missing i the mixture not love and when her family members finally understood that in the end she chose to be with them as her own choice and with that missing respect for her.

[@TusharSharma-cy9xo]

@@ultimatetruth4156 Wrong, thats not simping, i am aggresively against the feminism bullsh!t but what you said is wrong. That dude , her husband, was simply a low value man with low morals.

[@sharmi387]

Thank goodness the director was intelligent and not dump like you.

[@antheiaaurisedits8777]

At the end of the film her kids and husband learn to appreciate her more.So divorce is not not needed

[@Kashikavlogs]

I also make my mom to see this movie this is a amazing movie... 😍 she is in her 50s and now she started her own KZbin channel.. But she was so shy and hesitant that she didn't came in front of camera but she started with baby steps.... She is amazing in pickel making now we are encouraging her to start her own homemade pickel business from home... More power to her❤❤❤

[@Kashikavlogs]

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[@VVsupremacy]

Wishing the very best to your mother for her KZbin and business journey 👍❤️

[@Kashikavlogs]

@@VVsupremacy tq❤😍

[@studywithalisha3089]

@@Kashikavlogs chilli paneer recipe was too gud

[@sainiharika3158]

Please wish her all the best from my side.

[@Applauseify]

As a woman who stayed home for few years of my life, I realize the disrespect and entitlement others show you for being home to meet their demands of how a house should look. I saw this movie as a single free woman many years back and loved it. But after getting married, having a young child and facing similar conflicts, I appreciate this movie way more

[@kushal4956]

i wouldn't really call falling for the french guy a "flaw". her husband treated her like trash, he deserves to be cheated on

[@swatisaini6447]

Be careful..... Thats like blood for incel community

[@anshikasharma7905]

she really didnt cheated though , when he tried to kiss her she pushed him and then actually advised her about some lesson she learnt in the end .

[@hopeworldbaseline843]

Same

[@loulicious5882]

Yea I mean she was just attracted didnt do anything else. You can be impressed or atracted to personality without being in love or cheatjng on current partner

[@cauliflowerhead2735]

Yeah... I think there was some attraction and mutual respect as the French guy treated her like a human being but I don't think the attraction was strong enough for a full-on affair.

[@ashutoshshahi117]

Swaddle is not a channel it's a revolution

[@TusharSharma-cy9xo]

Embarrasing

[@prottoydibakar4469]

This movie is my all-time favorite.

[@rashmisardar8222]

Mine too

[@cauliflowerhead2735]

Mine too along with Guru and Wake up Sid. Loved them all.

[@xorinrich2525]

I want a movie/series where the woman protagonist leaves her ungrateful husband/lover and ends up with someone who appreciates her, even if it means divorcing him or cutting off ties. It's annoying to see in real life as well how women always ends up sacrificing so much for the family or for others that her own needs are not even prioritised.

[@hemanagandla6195]

In English Vinglish I loved the little boy who plays Shashi's son. He's such a good actor. In the movie he's the only in the family who values his mother. They have such a good bond. English Vinglish is a feel good movie and one of my favourite movies. Love Sri Devi ❤️

[@shilpiraj4083]

Make a recasting episode on the 'wife' of The Great Indian kitchen(Malayalam) on terms of ideal and sanskari wife, bahu, who expects female pleasure and orgasm, is against the idea of periods as a taboo and does not find herself impure while menstruating. Demands divorce from her husband and thrives in her career as a choreographer.

[@Balakrishna-jj1fp]

Had Sridevi been alive, Gauri shinde would have made English Vinglish part 2.. Such a loss. What a great movie.

[@priyaverma2346]

This makes me miss Sridevi so much! This movie and her performance was a masterpiece 😇

[@hamnashaikh9992]

me and my family saw this movie together. it really touched my mum since the story resembled with her alot and how sridevi was her favourite actress of all time

[@PokhrajRoy.]

I love this movie. Sridevi Ji was just fabulous!

[@shreya_mallick]

Though I was brought up by a working mother (who had the comfort of domestic helpers) but I have seen how my grandmothers and aunts used to work day and night, 24*7 as home makers for their families. I feel unlike other jobs household work is a full time job (without any holidays) that also without any pay. It's high time we start respecting and loving the women in our family and respective homes, who do so much for us keeping themselves, their health, career and dreams at stake. ♥️

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Also, I’m so happy that the movie made Sridevi Ji the Ally we deserve. ♥️

[@ztd2845]

It was one of the hardest movies to watch. The teenagers reminded me of myself so much. Helped in making better choices in the future.

[@hellokitty-mh8bi]

The recasting series, as a whole has forced us to develop a new way of thinking... Thank you so much... If you are curious, and not averse to non-hindi movies, I recommend watching 'size zero'...for understanding about the 'stereotypical fat girl' and how it breaks that mold.

[@loulicious5882]

@@mrtriyja7800 who cares about those men? Lmao you r talking dumb things on every cmnt to boost your bruised ego

[@meettheartist5506]

hey, thanks for the recommendation.

[@Arya-cs7kj]

I love the fact that we h've so many talented and capable (women) directors nd writers in Bollywood like Reema Kagti, Gauri Shinde, Ziya Akhtar, Alankrita Shrivastava, Konkona sen sharma, Shonali Bose, Farah Khan, Ashwini Iyer Yiwari, Geetanjali rao, Rima Das and many more!! who work hard to put something like this on screen for their audience.

[@sanskritinautiyal]

Just loved sridevi in this ..she was representing the reality ❤️❤️

[@rahelibiswas8468]

This is such a beautiful vdo. I wish I could share it with my mum but she'll not understand such fast paced English and I'm not with her physically to help her out. I so wish you made this in hindi so she could feel pride about herself, my father is a big insensitive patriarch. I could get away from that toxic environment in the pretext of my studies but she's stuck. Please make this vdo in Hindi. Excellent work nonetheless. ❤️

[@swatisaini6447]

Checkout their Hindi overthinking playlist, u will be able to find similar videos on housewives topic

[@mrtriyja7800]

Yeah, Do u know what we call to people who eat your meal but don't feel grateful... NAMAKHARAAM

[@anonymously2570]

this was one gem of a movie hitting all the right notes

[@LJ-rv9ed]

"Mitr:My Friend" did this fifteen years before Ms Shinde copied the concept- but it was a smaller indie film, and Shobhana is not as well-known an access as Sridevi. It was made in a much more realistic manner- EV has that glossy, KJo treatment.

[@incognitouser8256]

You guys must do recasting even for regional movies...🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

[@triptishri6710]

I just love this movie from bottoms of my heart.

[@samric2000]

i watch all ur videos....thanks for making effort towards bringing awareness and empowering women

[@nitishkushwaha1173]

Thanks so much for this video, such a nice review.

[@ojasvisvishwa2655]

The film that took my heart is reaching a decade in October 2022

[@pramodpatil7836]

This series is one of my favourite

[@notsotrending3635]

It's an evergreen movie. Watch it anytime and you feel happy at heart.

[@aishamehar2260]

The team of swaddle you are amazing...how you think , recasts everything,and how you present the things it's really amazing...thank you for providing these types of "Overthinking series" 🤗🤗👏👏

[@user-gq1ij]

Wow, is that really you in photo, you are in army??

[@ratnatasnim2885]

I have revisited two movies thanks to you

[@swamisvyas1070]

I watched the movie yesterday for 10th time and I still cried the same amount as the first time. The depiction of the issue and the characterisation is just perfect! Btw I am a man but it hits the right note🙂

[@diyashikha93]

Due to seeing my mom being domestically abused in the past, I used to urge my mom to complete her education as she loved English, (we're from Mauritius🇲🇺) which she didn't. I hated her when this movie came out and told her to take this movie as an example. But to no avail. Guess some women have the drive and some are broken way beyond repair.

[@reginageorgetownuni]

You have to be patient with your mom. Be persistent everyday and support her. Tell her the pros of completing her education. She will do it eventually! Her self confidence is probably low right now because of what happened but it will get better

[@rowoonswife7279]

now get ready to see misogynists disrespectful comments for housewives

[@swatisaini6447]

Can't wait 🙃

[@khannahhaasan9582]

Why does it sound like you are looking for an outlet for some kind of repressed trauma?

[@Kiiiiiiiie]

@@ultimatetruth4156 how is this a good thing?

[@rewatibulusu3923]

@@ultimatetruth4156 An individual's choices are not for you to determine if it is great or not. That being said, the stats is what it is. All you could do is respect the individual (be it you or your partner), whom you accept as a homemaker or otherwise. For argument's sake, let's say, even if Indian women become homemakers to keep their family together and support them in their endeavours, does it mean, that they don't wish to work or they don't want to enjoy their freedom, no... Then, why are you applauding the sacrifice by those people, instead, respect them for what it is. And if you see someone working even after being married in India, that doesn't mean that they are influenced by Western culture. Instead, they are capable of learning and growing by themselves and they would like to utilise their knowledge in other fields apart from being a homemaker. Also, being selfish is not feminist!! If I'd be from north east India and I would have asked my husband to stay home, it is an acceptable ask. So, all of these are cultural differences and if you are living in India, you must be aware that crossing borders of one city would take you to a different world altogether, in terms of cuisine to lifestyle. Then, how are you even categorizing idealogies to a geography?

[@anshikasharma7905]

@@ultimatetruth4156 bro that's actually depressing , omg here u r again . JUST KEEP YOUR OPINIONS TO YOURSELF . do you even know the meaning of femminisn , lemme tell u in class 10 th's history notebook it is clearly written as men and women being equal . agr shiv me parvati h toh parvati me b shiv h , even our traditions tell us about this equality . and people like u are the reason about this declining rate of women in workforce . and what western idea , indian society was based on matriarchy and we have proofs of that in harrapan civilization . thats why people should pay attention in classes.

[@anishasingh4488]

Your vdos often made me cry. How true ur topics r to the real world.. right now m facing this situation in my family too. It's been 9 years of my marriage. I live separate from my in laws, with husband and two young kids. I stayed with my in laws after my marriage for 5 years but due to some family issues, v got separated and living with my husband since 4 years. But after 9 years of my marriage, my in laws are still so interfering in my married life. On top of that, my husband too agrees in almost everything my in laws says. For an instance, I needed to go to my parent's house for few days, as i have not met them since last summers. But my in laws asked my husband not to send me to my parent's house, and too pressurise me, so that I must obey my husband. I should not choose what I want and should obey to anything that my husband says to me... On the other hand, my husband wants me to call my in laws regularly and ask them about my well being. I have been put in such a dilemna, that till when I must live this chaotic life. Why should I not take my own decisions. Why I always have to listen to my husband, or indirectly said, to my in laws. Why can't i take a stand in front my husband or in laws that I'm not a servant to u, so I have to obey u in every manner... Everytime I only asked just to raise my kids, serve my husband and handle the household chores. I can not present my decisions in any matter. I can't speak my mind in front of my in laws. It's so suffocating sometimes

[@mrtriyja7800]

Do you want to do a job?

[@hemanagandla6195]

Divorce that asshole then

[@mrtriyja7800]

@@hemanagandla6195 Will u take care of her.... As u r advicing for free??

[@anishasingh4488]

@@hemanagandla6195 tried... But can't. M a homemaker since 9 years . M financially dependant on my husband. And m a mother of two kids. So.... This option is rules out for me. My mother in law started torturing me after one month of my marriage. Had so many chances to get separate from my husband. But couldn't do that, then also ...

[@shreoshibanerjee9340]

If you ask for a divorce now, then will your parents support you? If they do then go ahead and get divorced, your husband will be forced to pay alimony because he has made you completely financially dependent. You can use your alimony money for starting a business.

[@Greekhistoryyy]

Earlier i use look down upon the household work.. but now. I always respect. Because it is really imp.

[@medico958]

This climax bought me tears

[@Hunt008]

We should love ourself and respect too.. Dats enough for making ourself happy.. No one else needed

[@atrijadhar3442]

Thanks for this video

[@Jyotigautam52870]

Recasting series is 💓🤗💪

[@abhishek.h98]

The whole New York experience amazing

[@imcatwoman3738]

When i first saw this movie i thought it was bad of shashi to feel sense of attraction towards laureant but now that im seeing it i would've felt the same if i was in her place just imagine doing so much being so capable and not a single person in your fam who understands you i was a bit irritated by her daughter but at some point of time ive been like that to my mum too and well imma shithead for that but now its completely different

[@hopeworldbaseline843]

I shipped her and Laurent together. Not practical but lowkey wanted to see them together. Her husband was just a d***

[@sunjukarkho]

Love this movie

[@andyhandy9977]

India recently got rank 1...rank1 in producing most Housewifes 🤣🤣

[@swatisaini6447]

That's nothing surprising considering population of 1.3 billion

[@tapasdash9424]

@@swatisaini6447 China

[@swatisaini6447]

@@tapasdash9424 less people get married in China. Their government gives them incentives to get married still Chinese people are reluctant

[@mimiyep4235]

It is a ahead of It's time movie, according to me 😅😅

[@zarikaroul]

I ll watch this movie for sure

[@vikalpmishra8996]

YASSSSSSSSSS QWEEEEEEEEN SHASHI 🙌🏾

[@mahimaaa_666]

I'm loving this re-casting series . Becuz when I see women in my family watching these movies stereotypes characters and putting themselves in that place ... just frustrate me. Women should overthink about these stupid stereotypes instead of blindly following them

[@vibhasanjay2062]

Cheers to the content maker ✌

[@krushnakadu2866]

It's a gro movie Kudos to gauri shinde Thank u for making this video

[@bharatjiodedra4891]

👌

[@abhinayrangari9693]

Problem of any women centric movies is that their climax is too redical .Because of this most of the indian women do not connect with them.They said 'ye to sirf filmo me hi hota hai'.I hope in future this problem is solved with time.Indian serial are also too radical but their environment and situation are relatable that's why Indian serial are way more popular than Indian cinema.

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

Umm literally my mother could relate to this film a lot and I see a lot of Indian women in this situation what are you talking about

[@abhinayrangari9693]

@@carolinpurayidom4570 your lot is only a 0.000000001% of total indian women population.

[@carolinpurayidom4570]

@@abhinayrangari9693 Then you must be blind because it's literally everywhere in Indian culture things might be changing now slightly

[@swatisaini6447]

@@abhinayrangari9693 critical thinking Ka matlab hi yeh Hota hai ki purani saari cheezo ko bhul Kar naye tarike se samajhna shuru kare

[@abhinayrangari9693]

@@swatisaini6447 Critical thinking is the intellectually disciplined process of actively and skillfully conceptualizing, applying, analyzing, synthesizing, or evaluating information gathered from, or generated by, observation, experience, reflection, reasoning, or communication, as a guide to belief and action.Jo bhi dictionary padti hai fek de usse.Aap critical thinking na karo to hi acha ,aap overthinking hi karo.

[@palomasaudios2676]

rest in peace to sridevi.

[@lindamary1647]

Divorces breaking separation is increasing from 2006to 2022

[@abhishek.h98]

I watch that movie on TV And I like it

[@monishaprabumonishaprabu7260]

Sriji love you so much

[@virginiaharvey]

Mum and wife no language barrier.

[@endisnear306]

Anupama series is also somewhat based in this movie.

[@bharatjiodedra4891]

🤯

[@kuhelihalder8181]

Movie name please 🙏🏾

[@aarrvindmbd1974]

These are the true queens who doesnt get treated like one. Homemaker are Original woman others are just imitation of man

[@sahil-06-11]

This video is more of a character dissection, I would say

[@ayesha6206]

She should have left her husband for the French guy.

[@sreelakshmiramadas2392]

i would have definitely done that

[@Talesvilla]

I agree with this so much but one thing I must say Shashi was never attracted to Lauren. But yes he somehow also contributed to her own discovery ❤️

[@commonbeing9359]

No u should watch sri devi interview

[@lindamary1647]

My brother he will keep his kitchen bed room dinning room neat and clean

[@aryanpal8046]

You Should make a Video on Queen Movie...That film has broken many stereotypes...I loved Rani's character alot ❤️😌

[@Abingdontortoise]

Actually i used to behave lie that too bit after watching this I decided to change myself.. unfortunately i couldn't show this to my brother and yes he still behaves that way

[@Apu688]

I don't understand this selflessness, may be I am not a good person, but seriously, this is going over my head that how women do such sacrifices. Why such attachment to the identity of a "woman", you are a conscious being.

[@blackmagic2316]

Ha...it's greatly presented....just now i came across a random female celeb* and imagine what? some trash people were saying such hateful things and..just cause she can wear anything she like.....this opinion that a female should dress upto those so called dress up *norms* is so sick....most of them were guys.....this mentality really needs to go.....and there were like more and more people agreeing with their comments....not even a single person felt that it's wrong..

[@mrtriyja7800]

Though a woman can wear anything. But why do she wants to show her inner skin to everyone on internet . Internet is not a saint place.

[@blackmagic2316]

@@mrtriyja7800 it's up to us to make this world a better place so.............💫change💫

[@pokeplatinumboy]

Shashi supremacy

[@lindamary1647]

During the lock down and in the first and second semester holidays I did sweeping cooking cutting the vegetables scrapping the coconuts wiping the doors and windows cleaning the bathroom washpasin my brother prepared beef mutton curry my father prepared fish curry in saturdays and Sundays my father will wash his clothes my brother will wash his clothes my mother will wash her clothes avaraavarukka thunikalai madithu vaithuviduvargal naan enn thuniya madithu vaipaen

[@ditipriyabanerjee3724]

Make a recasting video on queen

[@zaraa9881]

The amount of money that a homemaker saves by doing all the chores that a helper(kaam-wali bai) would charge heavily for, is also a form of earning.

[@nzndana]

i kinda wanted shashi to get with the French dude 😭

[@lindamary1647]

House hold works is alloted for both the genders

[@yeelanma9165]

May be for pagans

[@lindamary1647]

Mandapam fulla serial lights bulbs ennatha entha life nallum yogam athisam luck erunthaal nalla erukkum samiyaragha bishops popes cardinals sisters brahmacharya sanyasa etc ellaromae thuravaramoe rasi josiyam jathaha porutham nalla erunthaal thaan nallamagha erukkum

[@aeliyarazvi2033]

It's her husband's responsibility that he should've helped her wife to be her best and should've asked her to continue her studies and follow her passion Now many men don't do that because they fear once she gets a degree she will earn and be self-dependent and I wouldn't be taming her anymore She might have affairs with someone No matter how much he flirts with other girls but they can't tolerate their wives doing the same His wife talking to a male friend can make him question her relationship with her. But if he flirts with office colleagues she has no right. This was the typical mentality of an Indian man back then Although times have changed and Men are more supportive of their wives

[@vishwajeetd1483]

I want to see what if she took her chances with Laurent

[@Abingdontortoise]

Well bunch of Indian men calling her characterless and wanting a boycott for this movie lol

[@Sanskaari._.naari.]

Indian issues indian laguage mai hone chahye…. So ironic!

[@shubhbirla5500]

We don't think that we are wrong we give much respect english In India , to clerify I am not talking about England or native english speakers, and As a proud animal attraction can happen to anyone that don't mean flaw it's a part of being animal.

[@lindamary1647]

Women's wants job career financial independence only not puguntha veedu she has liberty freedom and equal rights

[@lindamary1647]

House hold such as sweeping cooking cutting the vegetables scrapping the coconuts wiping the doors and windows fetching water in the pots cleaning the bathroom washpasin taking care of parents friends relative guests mother in law father in law husbands brothers and sisters moslty in the Western countries most of the men's are good charactered they are doing all the household works and the women's are working outside I'm the high professional fields

[@anitachandra2030]

1:31 when I was younger I was exactly like shashi's daughter. I used to put my mother down and question her authority because she is not English educated. I was embarrassed of taking my mother to my PTA meetings because she can't English. Later I grew up and realised that it is not her fault that she can't speak English, it isn't her fault that she was never given the chance to do so. And being able to speak English is not necessarily a mark of being intelligent. Now I'm much more educated and understand the struggles of my mother and respect her.

[@lindamary1647]

In India and in the Gulf countries in the muslim countries women's should be a homemaker and housewife that traditions cultures customs is so wrong because of the traditional gender roles and gender streotypes in the lower poor middle classes in the uneducated families mist of the men are irresponsible they will not share the household works they will go to wine shops keep many concubines prostitutes and these men's will murders those women's and they will go to jail in the institution of marriage women's want to carry grinder mixie fridge washing machine glass tables chairs tibas etc only ten to twenty percentage of men are only love caring sympathy empathy patience tolerence they are only sharing the household works not all

[@CancerDepartmentFeminismWing]

NO MARRIAGE = NO ALIMONY 😘😆

[@lindamary1647]

Our country is worst

[@soumelee5661]

well stereotypes are the foundation of gender... so u cannot really break it :) gender is the performance of sex based stereotypes

[@_PratimaBaghel]

isn't gender a social construct tho?

[@soumelee5661]

@@_PratimaBaghel yes it is but with the current trends of increasing gender identities and denying biology and sex as a concept, i think stereotypes will only strengthen

[@_PratimaBaghel]

@@soumelee5661 nope, the roles are always for a person and not a gender. Like if a man feels like getting a job, no problem, if he feels like being a homeworker, his choice no problem. Gender roles are stupid

[@soumelee5661]

@@_PratimaBaghel yeah i believe that too tbh

[@mrtriyja7800]

@@_PratimaBaghel first decide what you want in your life as a human . Don't compare with males what they do. We don't awe you anything. We don't stop u. We can live with females if they don't consider themselves as ANOTHER MALE. PERIOD

[@Wearealltogether1428]

This is such a biased portrayal. People need to be equal to demand respect as equal. This is just crybaby /victim playing.

[@someoneyouprobablyknowandl9964]

Shashi *was* an equal to her husband.

[@66652]

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