Let's all HEAL! | FT TURA | The Unpopular Opinion UG

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@hadijahnakaweesi5460 Ай бұрын

"As children we paint pictures of how our life will be, by thirty we realise it was a dream and so we are grieving the death of our dreams"

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

Oh this hit home. I’m writing this down. To remember to be okay with grieving our dreams.

@nserekojudith3341 28 күн бұрын

Let's all just heal,adulthood is a crazy place to live😢😢😢

@djinifza7981 2 ай бұрын

I couldn't help but notice Prim's silence. I missed her turn to talk. She didn't talk more. Hoping she can share more, talk more. Enjoyed this episode.

@Flourish_today 2 ай бұрын

Sometimes, it's good to sit in silence and listen. Certain topics trigger certain people in different ways. Her presence is enough.

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your comment and thank you for watching

@fionaflaviak 2 ай бұрын

@@Flourish_today i like how you see things

@dorothykasemiire1087 2 ай бұрын

Am also like prim. It's an intense conversation that requires more attention

@Flourish_today Ай бұрын

@@fionaflaviak But also being completely silent on too many podcasts is not good. Podcasts should be engaging.

@Beckyahabwe 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for bringing Tura,i love how she is comfortable being vulnerable and her submissions are not only professional but also personal. Love it. Well done ladies.

@nakanjakkomayira586 Ай бұрын

Whew! Thank you for these episodes! Therapy at the cost of data. May your channel grow to reach millions.

@DeDollyshow 2 ай бұрын

Last week and this week episode has really blessed and inspired me a lot , I don't know if it's the dimming of the lights and vulnerability, but I genuinely feel like doing better. Unlearning and relearning some of the things I knew as reality and growth . Thank you, ladies, for this platform 🎉❤

@beyourownbossbabe 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching. We love that our platform is helping many to heal. Life is so much better when we walk around with pain inside… 😊❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for your affirmation and for watching❤ you are the reason we get in studio and keep shooting

@lillian1906 2 ай бұрын

I absolutely love this episode, the topic, production quality and sound are great. I am glad you were vulnerable enough to share your experiences with us, I am grateful. I must say, you all look really good and stylish. I hope the stars get to align more for you in your lives. Lots of love.

@mugx205 2 ай бұрын

I never comment but this Episode really pulled me out of my corner, i could write a booklet of comments. Clare thank you for talking about the Christian angle of excessive bend over till you break expectations. . . I think that topic calls for an episode of its own. Prim, you were so present even in your silence. It was a blessing and gives permission to us to also get comfortable with seasons / moments of silence Great guest! The rawness and intellect she brings is so needed! Loved both her episodes and will be here when you bring her back. Kemi - your gentleness and ability to keep steering these conversations is such a gift to us and to your co-hosts. This has been my best of your episodes - we have been shy about these topics so thank you. Clare - that uncle that complains to get you to visit - is a type of manipulation and control that happens in so many families and really needs to stop. Kudos to you for setting the boundary.

@AW3SOM-3 2 ай бұрын

i have watched these last two episodes and as much as its not a good thing,i relate so so so much with Prim,she speaks my points of pain for me,i am so grateful for her vulnerability as a 23 year old,i hope to heal too

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

We are sending you love sis❤ and we want healing for you 🫂

@zaweddevivian6903 2 ай бұрын

wow, what an amazing episode! its one of my best episodes so far.

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@kathieCatania 2 ай бұрын

Hey prim i don’t know why I tear each time you speak girl …… but thanks for sharing your stories girl I resonate sooo much ….. I have less expectations of others it never even crosses my mind I’ve played it safe all my life……..

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Sending you love ❤ thank you for watching and relating

@Flourish_today 2 ай бұрын

Great job ladies, this was a heartfelt, educative, engaging conversation.

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching❤

@daphnemusoki1919 16 күн бұрын

Amazing episode!

@kihembodoreen7368 2 ай бұрын

Tura is truly my kind of therapist.. She really sees the world as it is. I love what she said about how we live in a world that will normalise and coddle men's behavior as long as they make money..

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for watching. Tura is indeed quite amazing. You could head over to her socials and show her some love there as well. You could also deliver this compliment there as well ❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Also, we don't think the world coddles the behaviour. It's just a broken system

@NabaasaY 2 ай бұрын

Watching this on a sunday and this is the sunday sermon i needed❤thanks ladies

@missfabidia 2 ай бұрын

Can we have her back to talk about ADHD and neurodiversity ? ❤ She mentionned both in her 2 interviews and it would be great to talk about it from an African perspective,

@sandrahkyomuhendo8035 2 ай бұрын

I believe we have been through certain episodes of trauma. This is a profound revelation and something am intentional to heal from my past traumas. Preach my sister. Amen

@beyourownbossbabe 2 ай бұрын

Healing is such a beautiful experience… keep doing the work my dear. It’s so worth it. ❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Yaasssss to intentionality! 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽

@ronniedenis3844 2 ай бұрын

Thanks dea Ladies for this episode..ur all looking elegant and smart for the weekend.. and thanks for bringing the guest who spices up the already great trio. Be blessed, looking forward to many more episodes.

@dorakaysinga3115 2 ай бұрын

So true. African culture minimises a lot of traumatic experiences. Of course, as an individual, one needs to always appreciate the things we have that our parents never heard. But the dismissal of the pain that others go through bcoz they are in a different time or era, hmmm!

@ShineProssy Ай бұрын

Wow such an amazing episode 🎉🎉🎉🎉 well-done ladies 🎉🎉

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤

@daphinedash2704 2 ай бұрын

I agree adulthood is work and so tiring that everyone is busy in their lives but i also think a little intentionality goes far. You dont have to be with me all the time or text and call all the time, butt a once in a while check in text, a call or just anything within your means like time, advice something simple speaks magnitude. Extension of grace + intentionality helps us thrive in our adult lives. Thank you for this episode.

@Bunabs 2 ай бұрын

I am more than happy to be a support system. Probably too eager. The amount of rejection I've endured trying to be that...I'm going back to looking out for myself.

@beyourownbossbabe 2 ай бұрын

Awww I understand this from the point of someone who prefers support in terms of space and no questions when I’m going through a hard patch in my life. Some people are naturally like that. Try not to see it as rejection and instead try and see it as your way of supporting people. I hope this helps explain the rejection you feel.. ❤

@kainebooch 2 ай бұрын

Great talk…. As a psychology enthusiast, I was all ears but can’t help but notice that Fiona does not share much in depth but have now understood that she is on a journey to be more vulnerable ❤️🙏🏾

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and for your comment 😊

@RichardKusiima 22 күн бұрын

Let me say this, the only healing people need is that from disease - all these experiences people go through are things no one ever heals from, a lie many have told themselves as they simply substitute the thing for another, far from healing! Simply embrace the things you experience and seek to look at them in a different way without identifying yourself with the thing! Pain is a sign of life and should be celebrated rather than dwmonized!

@cynetykwamboka1333 2 ай бұрын

Here again for Prim ❤❤❤❤ l love you and i hope everything works out for you because you deserve it❤

@namutebimukasanissen9916 2 ай бұрын

Great episode ❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤

@scovie5571 2 ай бұрын

Thanks for this lovely episode.......personally, am learning a lot from here

@beyourownbossbabe 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching. We’re always so happy to know our community are learning from our platform. ❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching❤ we are happy to hear that learning is happening for you

@markkibalama63 2 ай бұрын

Fiona keep bringing Tura to the show ...it spices up the discussion

@oyesigyesingaperuth-zr8zh 2 ай бұрын

I was waiting for you ladies 😊

@nyonyoziprim 2 ай бұрын

It’s so good to have you here ❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Well well well...here we are ❤

@Roselinenjeri9 2 ай бұрын

The long awaited crew🎉❤

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

In the virtual flesh....here we are 😊

@hadijahnakaweesi5460 Ай бұрын

Wow what a wonderful episodes!!! Prim i have properly understood your submission about being their for yourself, i actually fear to ask for help coz I'm used to being there for me but I'm always there for others but i don't expect anything in return. Thank u so much guys for your submissions.

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching Hadijah we appreciate you.

@Pkay263 2 ай бұрын

Self care is not being selfish, boundaries should be very clear between family and friends. Everyone should go for therapy to heal and to process the trauma.

@missfabidia 2 ай бұрын

Most adults are done after 5 PM 😂

@sandraolweny5727 2 ай бұрын

this episode on 📌

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching

@scovie5571 2 ай бұрын

Prim is too speechless today..........

@theunpopularopinionug 2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for your comment. Maybe Prim is exercising her listening skills on this one....

@AlethaRoble-u1k Ай бұрын

Nichole Court

@mugx205 2 ай бұрын

Clare been online looking for the book you highlighted - who is the author? Found the title but its been used by several authors.

@agathaayebazibwe3077 2 ай бұрын

There’s a book by Oprah and her psychologist, ‘What happened to you?’. That book has blessed me!

@beyourownbossbabe 2 ай бұрын

Hi hun, it’s called Forgiving what you can’t forget by lysa terkeurst

@mugx205 Ай бұрын

@@beyourownbossbabe thank you so much

@liviamutambi7689 2 ай бұрын

typical first borne gals......there's a way we can be there for ourselves hooooo. Indeed, we need to heal.

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

I agree. Thank you for watching

@chrinahgbs3843 Ай бұрын

Kermi u guys were very low,try to adjust your microphones,i really struggled to hear u especially fiona

@letaruj2262 2 ай бұрын

……claire is right, “lets stop making certain wrong things okay…

@nyonyoziprim Ай бұрын

Thank you for watching ❤

@lynnetblaze 2 ай бұрын

I feel like i never heal😢, i just learn to leave with it positivity, pick lessons and move on

@beyourownbossbabe 2 ай бұрын

Oh my darling, please be intentional about healing… pain unhealed is pain unleashed. I thought I’d healed from some stuff but this year, it all came rushing in. When you have unhealed pain, you start to unintentionally hurt other people. I pray you find healing. It’s hard but so worth it. The sun will be brighter, your coffee will taste nicer and life is generally more beautiful when you don’t have pain stored inside of you. ❤

@faithsanyu-pp2xg 2 ай бұрын

I can relate. Healing isn’t obvious but moving on also helps