Why & When Kugongewa is constant || Jacob Aliet

[@Rawlinzful]

A man who has mastered the art of controlling his appetite for women and food, is a superpower and enjoys the ultimate freedom.

[@fidelismuthiani7602]

Emotions and attachments too. Man will have saved 99% of his problems.

[@Kevkihara]

Agreeable

[@annmungai-yx8ct]

True

[@brayanwafula6964]

This💪🤝.

[@sammybarasa6335]

Then if you do they start calling you names from theories

[@user-pytah]

To those of us men who turned into reading books and mentorship from older men because we were raised by single mothers, piga like. This was a splendid and candid conversation. I'll get this book.

[@roy8836]

As a man the older you grow the more you understand your father.

[@kevinkiplagat1755]

Walai 💯💯

[@brianndege5331]

😂😂😂

[@jjazzzz]

Funny story. When I was young, I didn't like my dad or his behavior to the extent of saying so. I'm older now, and I turned out fairly like him. Of course, with some variations here and there. I matured. I understood men (which was sth I never grasped while young) . I became one

[@maishjunior4651]

Very true

[@victornafwa2471]

I understand my father's pain and wins

[@ReenieSol]

As a lady, I really wish men could hear this. It’s such a healthy, eye-opening conversation that’s truly worth listening to. Every man deserves to know and value his worth.

[@speedfreakDaniel]

50 minutes into this and i cannot believe how highly intelligent this man is. And that comes from a neurosurgeon

[@edobwoy]

I still don't understand how a man will kneel down on one knee and propose, pay dowry for a non virgin woman 😂😂😂. This is the biggest scam in modern relationships

[@SylverStanChrome]

Naishaaaa 😂😂😂 ​@@edobwoy

[@Tito_mutai]

His book is even more insightful

[@lexo254]

He is nothing but a fool with a megaphone,.These things play out like these due to ideologies that are made norms

[@edwardkinyanjui1286]

@@edobwoy Simple. Don't kneel

[@joemunene]

I've noticed that there is a wave of pseudoscientific philosophies going round. Some suggest manipulative techniques or value addition( become a high "value" man or woman). Just focus on being a better partner a better person. when people cheat on you its a reflection of them not you. If its too much work just leave it. A rolling stone gathers no moss. Nothing is permanent in this life. A great majority of people are decent.

[@RedOakPictures]

That is exactly what this PodCast is talking about.

[@joemunene]

@@RedOakPictures this is pseudoscience

[@Rana-Sakeen]

Right. Repelling evil with evil only worsen the situation.

[@JustAbik3r]

@Joemunene you have got it.

[@mburulucky9580]

A father's love shapes a daughter's world, for better or worse. Let's strive to be the kind of men who uplift and empower, showing that love should never be cruel or unkind. ️

[@mercyk2672]

He's telling the truth about women always being on the lookout for whoever would replace their husband or boyfriend. In fact there are women who are physically with someone, but emotionally they're with someone else, kind of like a fantasy relationship. A woman can be with you for security, but not for love.

[@georgehudson4961]

Is called hypergamy. They wait at the finish line to bang the winner but never to build with him.

[@gitgenKE]

Love is just a made up word anyway.

[@manziyamca129]

True...and that's sad 😭 It really does change the society we are in and the society in which we will raise our kids in...

[@Haustine3507]

Even for money but not for love

[@synqelectric6163]

What he says might be true to a certain degree but this perspective blames men while exempting women from any form of accountability. The difference between humans and other animals like dogs is that humans have a superior brain that is capable of critical thinking and decision making. Women are grown ups. Not Children and therefore what they do is with consent. Let's Stop portraying cheating as if it's an unavoidable urge like going to the toilet. Let's stop excusing people who are self centered and practicing selfish behaviour. A person who doesn't prefer you comes out clean and confronts you with the truth. A cheater is just a selfish manipulator who uses people as tools to achieve various tasks.

[@kelvin-tx8jx]

This guy is top d top manze...kudos kingori for this

[@monicahwanjala1741]

There are still many women and men who live purity and value purity. Your meet those you attract.

[@victornafwa2471]

Very true

[@kevinkiplagat1755]

They are the 5 percent out of a hundred

[@samuelmacharia3447]

very naive opinion🤣

[@Ann-tt7mx]

@@samuelmacharia3447 It would be naive if you are not in that percentage..Some of us value purity ata ukiambia mtu anaona kama ni jokes..

[@calebomondi-gl3nw]

absolutely

[@giddyakali27]

Jacob Aliet speaks in a coherent way, rationalising all his claims. I love listening to him

[@josephmcoluoch219]

Congratulations Dr. Kingori for bringing this intelligent gentleman. That's an amazing insight presented in simple language easy to understand and absorb

[@michaelzuberi3000]

The knowledge this guy gives is golden to all men. Big up for shedding knowledge on these important aspects that every man has to know for him to succeed in life 💯💯💯. Love the book ( Un pluuged )- Will be on my bookshelf and will definitely hand it over to my sons

[@jk_stylz]

I learned so much from this episode! For anyone who's read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, this will really resonate. It's like we’re all waking up and seeing things clearly from every angle. Highly recommend the book to dive even deeper!

[@liamneeson3526]

I can relate bro

[@sheeba8334]

I'm a lady ..and I have read that book a 1000x.we desire masculine men.

[@mandos677]

A very insightful conversation Dr kingori and Jacob Aliet. Everything Jacob says makes alot of sense but I would say if you have read the rationale male he have borrowed heavily from that book. A very good book for anyone who really wants to understands the intersexual dynamics

[@nicksonkemboi11]

I read the other day I recommend every Men to read it!

[@lavvy_254]

This guy is a genius 👏🏽... some things he talks about have been in me since I started seeing these women 🤣🤣

[@DennisRono-n2n]

Very usefull content i wish some men would realise this much early .. Na waache kua masimp😒

[@brendarashid7955]

Listening to this guy and Amerix l understand myself better am a staunch follower 😊

[@sheeba8334]

I love the guy..he's understands us women so well. he's spot on bytheway.

[@Paulshevs]

Where can I get these kind of ladies😂😂

[@user-bt9lt6sg6j]

Brilliant, brilliant interview. Men need to open their eyes!

[@Itsharveywhat]

Best episode so far🤝🏾🔥🔥…always happy when I see your channel growing ❤️

[@benedictmwangi-]

It is definitely the best show/podcast I've watched in 2024. Insightful!

[@MrMister441]

Can never get tired of listening to Mr Jacob Aliet. So edutainment at its best. I've learnt alot.

[@obadiahkimutai4061]

Very important conversation. I applaud the speaker . Very rich in detail.

[@stanleylipunda6208]

I can listen to this man nonstop for the whole year

[@Haustine3507]

Me too

[@rodrickshabuya6738]

Hii point ya, women always know who is next inanikasirishaga vibaya sana😅

[@danisagi254]

😂😂😂😂

[@KB_GRAPHICS]

😂😂😂

[@zacharyayaga6661]

😂😂😂 there is nothing you can do about it

[@manziyamca129]

Kugongewa haijawai kuwa funny at all...but kugongeana😂😂😂😂

[@brayanwafula6964]

Accept this and have peace.

[@widb_podcast]

This man has spoken the truth and nothing but the truth

[@EthanIrungu-d5k]

Investing in someone is how some people end up in pain..... love and invest in your life and love christ first

[@JOHNDANIELS254]

True💯

[@theonekamaa]

This conversation Confirmed and elicited sapiens as just another Animal species.Love the conversation.

[@SAHRASKI]

Dr.kingori this was one of your best shows with lot of teaching

[@nicolauscheruiyot6377]

"The less you know the safer you are"...Giving this a philosophical thought...Marriage, love, attachment, and parenting embody profound paradoxes, only gaining coherence when one surrenders entirely, embracing the art of compromise with every breath 🤦

[@theesavo003]

This man is way more knowledgeable than 98.9% of men.Pure wisdom oozing from every word that comes out of his mouth.

[@midusatech]

You are biased in your judgement as being knowledgeble in a specific domain does not make you better than everyone.

[@estherfaith3850]

Thanks Dr. Kingori...this a real home of good vibes. Great insights from Jacob Aliet.

[@knowinganddoingbetter4562]

In a society that's broken, women are the mirror. Corrupt governments or corrupt men. Women reflect all this. In a society of morals, majority of the women reflect honour & frown at infidelity.

[@fidelismuthiani7602]

Viva to Jacob and Amerix. #BetterTogether

[@anngeorgeofficial644]

Am a woman but this guy understands women more than anyone could imagine and whatever he says it's true we are always the reason for everything and we know what we are doing not coincidence

[@DEEJAYSIDGE]

This was worth watching until the end. Very insightful.

[@Kinggaming-jp6ie]

Its true as a woman i don't know how to became a man in a relationship or marriage,if i don't get a masculine energy i get bored easily

[@edikyle-254_okampo]

this is pure content...edutainment

[@pcodesdev]

As I grew up I came to understand and love my father more!

[@Unpluggedmann]

In the early days of a relationship, women may appear agreeable or even submissive, but over time, her character changes, gradually revealing a more assertive or challenging side.

[@georgewambugu2848]

Ni mazoeano ama? Yani naskia nirudishe mtu kwao

[@hildainziani7147]

​@@georgewambugu2848😂😂😂😂😂😂bado ule utaleta utabehave same

[@richardnic3068]

It is the man who becomes weak overtime. You need to keep exercising your power as you used to

[@richardnic3068]

It is the man who becomes weak overtime. You need to keep exercising your power as you used to

[@wawerumaina2680]

Unplugged 1,2 and 3. Niko nazo kwa bookshelf hapa. Nasoma mara ya pili sasa.

[@wesleycheruiyot9749]

Ni doo ngapi na nitapata wapi

[@denniskanja6527]

Unplugged 2 and 3, I would want to read

[@Aly-be6rf]

Nuria bookshop​@@wesleycheruiyot9749

[@unpluggedvip375]

Nuria bookstore ​@@wesleycheruiyot9749

[@wycliffepoet5201]

Nuria bookstore Nairobi ​@@wesleycheruiyot9749

[@ElMacquarie]

JACOB ALIET 👊👊👊👊👊👊👊WOZAAA E.T TO THE WORLD #UNPLUGGED Great Interview ... My therapist

[@rufusnganga1118]

Please bring him more and may be do one of his book review

[@Lamar-gc7jt]

First time here but it was worthy my time. thanks for sharing.

[@jwextv]

I am actually now understanding my father better as I grow. I appreciate his disciplining style, it helped me become the person I am.

[@PerpyLove]

As a woman, I've really struggled to understand the kind of women he is describing. Then after listening to him, he would probably say, it's because "women don't even understand themselves" 🤔🤭. He looks like the type that would say that. So before I'm told I have a poor sense of self-identity.... let me say this..... This Jacob guy, (this is the first time I have come across him and do not know him from anywhere), I don't know whether it's a good thing or a bad thing, but I believe it should be good, since I would say/write what I think without necessarily being biased at this point. In my opinion, I would call him an ultracrepidarian. He has probably done selective research, just to prove a certain theory that is baseless. but wants to amplify it anyway. I don't know where/how he's been doing his research or the kind of women he used for his research, if at all he used women for his research or he probably tried to understand women from other men's perspective. His selective research seems like it was just based on confirmation bias. He's actually convinced himself that he has gathered the right information, no problem with that if that's only in his head, but selling this to others is really sad. "We are what we feed on".

[@angelamwirigi1765]

I have searched this comments for a sane view! thank God I am not alone. He seems to have had some traumatic experience with this particular kind of woman and has zeroed in on making every other woman a villain. Your right to ask which women he researched? Do we have proper statistics? It seems his theories are based on the dysfunctional people he surrounds himself with ie both women and men. We should understand that there's always two sides to a coin. Men and women both have biological preferences for their mates but his theory has focused only on one woman who seems not to know what she wants or have any form of self respect. Hopping from one man to the next in search of the ever elusive 'Mr perfect' (example he have is Lori Harvey! how is she representative of most women?) Lori Harvey is a reflection of American Hollywood culture she does not speak for us. We know what we what Joel and we commit to it. In fact most married women do not re marry after the death of their husbands or after divorce, on the other hand men move on too fast. My advice to the young man listening, be careful in adopting this man's warped ideas. They are eating at him and if you allow will eat at you as well. Such a sad way to live life.

[@angelamwirigi1765]

Ultracrepidarian is a perfect description of Jacob. Thank you @PerpyLove for this insight.

[@CoCo-ol6mu]

I've heard from this discussion that men will always stay in a marriage and a woman would leave. Well, mine its the man who left because he had impregnated the sidechic, did so much disgrace to us when leaving mot knowing that a time would come for him to want to come back and be rejected as he realized that the grass was not green on the other side. He never in his lows and highs supported my children and I when he was in or out of the marriage. Akanyage ❤kubwa kubwa!

[@liamneeson3526]

Pole sana but I have to say this to you. You chose wrong. Whatever you chose is not a man but a garagaria

[@CoCo-ol6mu]

@@liamneeson3526 I agree with you and thank you for standing up with me. To add salt to the wound he was violent and abusive. Emotional, mental and physical damage were the order of the day. I suffered immensely and had no more strength to continue when he left I got a relief. May be God allowed this to happen for a reason which I've not known till now.

[@martinkipsang7081]

Dr Kingori the conversation with Jacob Aliet is very educative to many boys. Bring in Remain Aman

[@mwananjesafari2547]

The process of cheating is too long to be a mistake, I will never forgive

[@PruddyDoodie]

Couldn't agree more👏👏👏👏👏

[@samwelkimutai3185]

The show i have been waiting for. Time for wisdom. Time to learn.

[@rufusnganga1118]

Great content.....ticks my box and many things I didn't know are making sense logically

[@gilbertgichorio6896]

This must be the wake up call for me...Long since I got such knowledge from a person #Be_a_better_man

[@PeterIrungu-n1i]

Men live and die without understanding women. This is a great eye opener. I love his great wisdom

[@mwadimekambale1906]

Jakes hiyo research yako iko legit

[@synqelectric6163]

Life is hard. At this point, i don't think there's any need of marriage. Its also very stressful that you have to keep on checking on another person's interests against yours and when you mistake even slightly, you get betrayed. Too much work. Its not worth it. Imagine having to compliment a woman 24/7 while checking her hormonal changes, estrogen levels, menstruation cycle, you end up checking her sign instruments all the time like a pilot in a cockpit! Acha ikae!

[@Hot_PlateMeals]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@estherfaith3850]

Your thoughts are of a 'weak fearful ' man.

[@synqelectric6163]

@@estherfaith3850 Iam not buying into your shaming language. Sorry. Cancel culture doesn't work for me.

[@synqelectric6163]

@@estherfaith3850 Those terms you are using are used to shame and stigmatize men into conceding into your interests with the fear of being labelled "weak" "coward" "fearful" and so on while making you ladies evade accountability on your actions and decisions. If you want guys to marry and maintain your relationships then you need to be actually worthy of marriage. Imagine a guy being told that "Kugongewa ni constant" and then being expected to marry and maintain their partners and take the relationship seriously. How does that work? If "Kugongewa ni constant" then there's no point of marriage. And I don't have the time to keep on preventing a lady from cheating all the time while checking their emotions all the time as if Iam dealing with a child. Sorry but no sorry. Iam not "weak" or "fearful" as you say. I just respect myself and don't have the time to babysit a grown adult.

[@synqelectric6163]

@@estherfaith3850 Those terms you are using are used to shame and stigmatize men into conceding into your interests with the fear of being labelled "weak" "coward" "fearful" and so on while making you evade accountability on your actions and decisions. If you want guys to marry and maintain your relationships then you need to be actually worthy of marriage. Imagine a guy being told that "Kugongewa ni constant" and then being expected to marry and maintain their partners and take the relationship seriously. How does that work? If "Kugongewa ni constant" then there's no point of marriage. And I don't have the time to keep on preventing a lady from cheating all the time while checking their emotions all the time as if Iam dealing with a child. Sorry but no sorry. Iam not "weak" or "fearful" as you say. I just respect myself and don't have the time to babysit a grown adult.

[@elikenei1929]

Brilliant man this Jacob.

[@pichidollarz]

Dr. Kingori struggling to catch up with this wisdom. Today there's no laughing kila saa. Serious business. As men we need to be well read.

[@wycliffepoet5201]

😂😂😂

[@sheeba8334]

A love men who reads bytheway vastly.

[@sheeba8334]

True true... 💯. Before romancing a woman Romance a book first.

[@hellenanyango3723]

I guess he's also learnt alot from this,, the challenge is worth it 😂😂

[@Scott-e2n]

The way we understand that we cant all be rich is the same way you should reason this relationship stuffs there must be a spark of difference for life to be enjoyable and explorable

[@ramij429]

Wiser than Solomon..iykyk💯

[@Middo801]

Finally!!! Good job

[@brianletio3682]

Hii kitu haina formula wadau..pray, love, live, and hope for the best...as a medic this notion of 'kugongewa is constant' is worrying especially in this modern era where STI s and HIV is on the rise

[@georgehudson4961]

Thank you Kingori for this content

[@Gilbertkiprotich-dp3eq]

This is one of the best wisdoms i ever heard

[@TonyMugambi-gt9ef]

Life lessons✍️, you make lot of sence

[@otienomokaya9318]

It is about truths and realities!

[@Paulshevs]

Having read Rational male by Rollo Tomassi, unplugged alpha by Cooper & The ways of Superior man by Deida. And ofcouse watching Jacob Aliet & Orion Taraban, I don't need to marry😂😂

[@knowinganddoingbetter4562]

@@Paulshevs that readership is tops.

[@ericksifuna1825]

i like the conversations......though i did not like the topic....the content is great as man now raised by the father...though not biological.....i appreciate fatherhood

[@mburulucky9580]

Whether a long term relationship or a one night stand, always strive for genuine desire in your relationships. Half of the battle is knowing you want to be with a woman who wants to please you, not one who feels obligated to

[@aj5819]

There are some conclusions which are not 100% accurate about women, e.g. love languages are not nonsense, but those are thoughtful perspectives he has shared.

[@gladyswambui2693]

Insightful. Kwanza hapo kwa women.you nailed it.

[@jesusfound8758]

The conclusion is on point 🎉

[@denniskanja6527]

Jacob Aliet after reading your book "Unplugged" my life has changed, in capital letters I will not view women the same again

[@kemosabe9699]

Add the rational male by rollo tomassi and thank me later

[@edobwoy]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@hildainziani7147]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂you have a very big problem

[@carolinekussin8010]

Sio wote😂

[@Paulshevs]

​@@hildainziani7147how do you know?

[@okubostephen1763]

"The owner of the well does not queue for water", this is my take home.

[@davechappelle-1182]

Richard cooper would be proud of you

[@prudencekirimi2406]

This content is 🔥 🔥 🔥. Kingz... Bring us more of this intriguing conversations. Knowledge is power ❤. I need the reads since I am a read giant

[@KelvinNgera]

I needed to hear this, thanks kings and the guest. I need to drop someone asap

[@douglasbosire4943]

One of the best interviews

[@AlexMayore]

Hii ni part of life we are Sharing women wether we like it or not.

[@kennedykariuki4546]

Asaaanta sana kutuletea jacob

[@KA00254]

If only all men would listen and understand Jacob's wisdom.....we would have a better society

[@J_a_s_o_n]

God's wisdom trumps Jacob totally...

[@antho-e4h]

wonderful analisis. i like the conversation. kugonga na kugongewa is normal. humas are complicated.

[@naitteb1500]

Mr. Wang was just chilling

[@samuelmunyigi218]

Great discussion.

[@VictorKiplagat-su9sc]

Will always listen to Jacob Aliet

[@danielngumba3228]

kipindi ya leo ni funny sana, kazi safi dr king'ori the end is relevant for a new episode

[@jumaaah]

Being a man is about being true to yourself and standing for what you believe in.- Unknown

[@meggyshikungu8355]

What a world we live in. Pple be having double standards. Pple finding mentors in wrong places. A wise man has few words and also has a mind of his own. I have learned alot about the modern day world from this video and it is sad. Let's heal ourselves and this world and make it a better place. Love and good marriage is a beautiful. thing. This being after viewing many beautiful and successful marriages. A man who's not married and without marriage morals should never give advise on marriage. Talk is always from a point of traumer. The Holy Bible should be the only reference point my brothers and sisters. But anyways the Ways of Jehovah is foolishness to man. That's why most pple follow such mentors. At the end of the day I am just human. So are the men in this video.Again, Let's just read our Bibles.

[@martinmwenda3551]

😂😂😂you are very ignorant if that is the only thing that you have picked up from this video,any way have a nice time I will not argue with you further.

[@metrahmefray5057]

I cannot wrap my head around how so many pple are taking this as the gospel truth. Might hold some truth but it's not all true. As we learn from others we should also learn to think for oneself. We should also understand that just because someone has gained fame doesn't mean they automatically speak wisdom.

[@ekm5898]

Welcome to reality. Life is a double standard and women complain only on those that don't benefit them. Aliet be speaking facts

[@binbenmartin3425]

Nimekasirika vibaya sana.......

[@Ben-92680]

The guy is well informed

[@knowinganddoingbetter4562]

True. Also let's remember men have been corrupt for ages and have laid that foundation of lack of integrity that women are building on. But there are exceptions.

[@evalynntinyari]

If we all loved Jesus..and mean it....we wouldn't have to undergo this...

[@mburulucky9580]

Father is the one who sets the standards for his daughter. Thanks to him, she learns how should a “real man” look like. And if her father treats her horribly, She will find a man who will do the same.

[@kevinmuchiri4569]

I love the way men have woken up damn ,eye opening

[@sigungajoshua6149]

SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST...

[@JONHNJENGA-p3o]

Real talk👏🏾

[@chrisrazergitonga1869]

Everyone's fair game.

[@clintonobegi8458]

This is pure wisdom inshot he means no matter how good you are no matter what you are having currently your girfriend or wife love it a day wil come fir her to get out of your life she wil have excuse just to move you can be rich but cant give her all antention sh wants you can give her all antention but you cant give her all money she wants you can give her money antention but mqybe she wil luck good sex from you you can give her good sex but you cqnt give her antention or money inshot no man under the blue sky who has evrthing a woma wants to satisfy her in her life that wil keep her faithful to you forever 😢😢😢😢bitter truth

[@edwardwaruingi9383]

very good video & discussion

[@samwelyremy4103]

A great interview 😊🎉

[@XtevensNjuguna]

Got to understand!!!

[@masterskips5986]

Kugongewa ni constant

[@sangkibet8275]

Men youre the prize