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@LightnessJohn-d9i8 ай бұрын
Ooh my fellow Tanzanians who do not understand English language,I pray that the Winlos accept my request.
@ukdollars126 ай бұрын
Wow I like to follow for ur acting ma and sir
@janet33138 ай бұрын
Ladies don’t ask questions sometimes,because they are afraid of the answer and often prefer to live in fantasy land, day dreaming all day. Was once like that, thank God for maturity.
@answermusongela37338 ай бұрын
Yes it's never easy to believe the truth even when it is right in front of us
@christineruthw.thiongo98058 ай бұрын
Sometimes we don't ask because we are told ladies should not be the ones initiating anything that seemingly looks like a proposal...
@janet33138 ай бұрын
@@christineruthw.thiongo9805 hmm. You are right
@ReelTalk_Festi8 ай бұрын
You can say that again....
@NabawanukaTeo-j9z7 ай бұрын
I was also once like that
@princeoludareakintola57588 ай бұрын
Relationship is a CONTRACT, make sure you have an AGREEMENT before you start INVESTING your emotions!.....words of wisdom!
@audreydavis34938 ай бұрын
Don't waste your emotions on assumptions 🤷🏽♀️
@johndosa68168 ай бұрын
Same thing with guys, if there is no proper communication then there should be no assumption.
@vanesamobbak66948 ай бұрын
Actually quite the opposite building castles in the air 😂 of relationships that don't exist
@AyoolaBabalola-vu8gl8 ай бұрын
Assumption is the mother of frustration and the sister of confusion
@ahiamadupraisegod58868 ай бұрын
Relationships are not planned on assumptions but on communication. Ask the right questions!
@joyfullnoize22427 ай бұрын
Real relationships yes.
@jeslordischus-wealthkwarte28338 ай бұрын
"Assumption is the lowest form of intelligence!" Thanks for always for always reiterating this to us, Dear Winlos🤗
@maureenmary_mallya8 ай бұрын
The way he gave her a handkerchief to dry her tears, khaaai 😂
@benefits758 ай бұрын
“Clean your tears.”
@leticiaagyemang1038 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@excellenceesq99468 ай бұрын
That's the height of the emotional damage.
@businessmogul40267 ай бұрын
😂😂
@David349762 ай бұрын
@@benefits75 they are dirty 😂😢
@philipsolive98638 ай бұрын
So true, I always tell myself, Never assume that a man loves u until he says it and shows it. If the relationship is not defined I no day do. I love my mental and spiritual peace.....
@omoofmightyjesu8 ай бұрын
😂"You are mad" "I put it to you, You are wicked"...."Take handkerchief, clean your tears" ...Nice message....God bless Winlos.
@ForMySoulSistas8 ай бұрын
That's what ppl say now: "let's just go with the flow", "let's see how it goes", "we're just talking", "let's be friends first" Bruh 😒I won't rush you but ain't wasting time, 3 years abeg
@answermusongela37338 ай бұрын
Imagine playing games with people's hearts
@ezinne_amaka8 ай бұрын
"Oga, I want to see you privately." 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@wodlthedaughteroftheking80628 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@larissanouya45488 ай бұрын
I thank God for your life, the winlos. Just of recent I had a similar situation. I asked the guy to define but he didn't open up, I was so attached to him that I felt so hurt when I couldn't get what expected. He won't talk but his behaviour make people think we are in a relationship. So I decided to stop that permanent communication, more of all, I asked God to help me forget about him, because my emotions were too involved. So I'm trying to put God first and I still believe, He will send the husband I'm made for on the right time.
@janet33138 ай бұрын
And he will. 🤗
@paulasalami18457 ай бұрын
Amen 🙌🙌🙌 I believe he will
@Fidelishopetestimony4 ай бұрын
Believe he will
@lilliangabriel75608 ай бұрын
😢😢😢Actually am in such a relationship. Thank you winlos am going to define this relationship indeed before I end up like Amanda. May God bless you 🙏.
@theWinlos8 ай бұрын
🙏❤️❤️❤️
@NagasalaRacheal8 ай бұрын
Uhm am helped .....he pretends yet seconds days months years are passing
@dadiakbenjamin69678 ай бұрын
Wonderful 🙏. This is why we should not assume anything yet. If the person hasn’t spoken it , then it doesn’t exist.
@gigilove638 ай бұрын
Yessssss
@answermusongela37338 ай бұрын
Well say Sir
@lydiashaanika34128 ай бұрын
Timely message, I would have gone this far , mine was a bit complicated but glory be to God, he used a man of God to direct me ... Truly I have learned a big lesson.
@aldam42938 ай бұрын
What I like is that in every scenario after she has given sound advice to her clients and they never listen Mrs. Winlos is never judgmental but always supportive, even after the stubbornness of her clients.
@ikeagbeko90688 ай бұрын
This woman acts so well.... My God
@chidinmaprecious74758 ай бұрын
Assumption is the lowest level of knowledge! May I not be MENTOR where I should be wife 😢 God bless you more Team!
@abikayministries80438 ай бұрын
I can perfectly relate to this skit I really cried my eyes out
@oladunnijosephakin3418 ай бұрын
Wow, I got something today Don't assume people has the same feeling you have for them, ask what their intentions are towards you. The lady thought the guy had the same feeling for her which is Wrong. Assumption is really bad and can cause harm. I pray that God will help us to avoid this
@Gospelart39068 ай бұрын
The guy is so romantic, he gave her handkerchief to clean her tears😂
@adebisioluwasheun41455 ай бұрын
That's emotional damages
@onyinyeliveth40188 ай бұрын
"As my friend, I want you to help me mentor her"...are you playing sir?
@joanaamoh60968 ай бұрын
Right in time for the Vals😍
@hikatekilehonwani45168 ай бұрын
He knew what he was doing 😆 🤣 😂 HE KNEW!!
@sydneychukwukelu3 ай бұрын
Innocent man
@gloryichado25328 ай бұрын
Don't waste ur emotions on assumptions........ Relationship is like contract, you must have agreement b4 u invest your emotions......Great talk there 👍👍
@wamboieverlynewanjiru2408 ай бұрын
Situationship! 😁This reminds me of another video by the Winlos ; the girl kept collecting gifts from the guy but she didn't reciprocate and the scene that followed was hilarious 😂
@paulegharevba28748 ай бұрын
Title please @thewinlos
@wamboieverlynewanjiru2408 ай бұрын
@@paulegharevba2874 "She always takes gifts from him until this happened." Can't get the link though.
@wamboieverlynewanjiru2408 ай бұрын
@@paulegharevba2874 Try "She always takes gifts from him until this happened" can't get the link though
@blessingmadondo64648 ай бұрын
I remember that too😅.Forgotten the title
@G2daG5 ай бұрын
I don't think this was a situationship. There was nothing complicated about it
@matnat38448 ай бұрын
Me ounce I found my self in such friendship we both opened even the business together but Holy spirit gave me wisdom and confidence to ask that question and we ended in separation ..let me tell you this if a man has not yet tell you anything plz be careful
@gigilove638 ай бұрын
Always listen to wise counsel
@efeartz8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this beautiful message. Please a video should be made on how to make this OPEN and HONEST conversation to avoid ASSUMPTIONS. Thanks.
@Pretty.Dr.Vickee8 ай бұрын
I can give an example, based on personal experience. I used to be really close🤞🏽 friends with a brother in Christ, who was also my classmate on campus. We often had midnight calls together, hung out a lot, were known to all our campus fellowship members as best of friends. Being a sanguine, he often made a lot of open fun about getting married to me and taking me to Botswana (where his parents resided) for our honeymoon. I was already fantasizing about this. The only thing was that I was older by 3 years. One day, I took him aside and asked him with all seriousness that, if I waited for him to be ready for marriage, would he really marry me? He paused and sincerely replied in the negative, with an equal sense of seriousness. That simple conversation defined our relationship for me. We remained as close and open as ever until after graduation, but never did we have to worry about where the relationship was headed, because we both knew it was definitely not marriage. In conclusion, I'd say once emotions are involved in a relationship, and the man has not clearly stated that he intends to marry the lady, the latter may have to take a bold step and ask for the relationship to be CLEARLY DEFINED (vice versa too, if it's the man that's getting emotional about the relationship). And if the other person fails to define the relationship, one should quietly end it, to avoid a broken heart in the future based on assumptions. Hope this helps.
@lavertymusonda2808 ай бұрын
And if the person doesn't ask but keep giving you green flags😂😂😂😂
@efeartz8 ай бұрын
@@lavertymusonda280 Exactly! Nobody would like to be in that kind of situation 😂
@answermusongela37338 ай бұрын
Yes please 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@preciouskalyopa96578 ай бұрын
We must learn to define relationships... especially in this era of "male bestie" and "female bestie"
@angelwalden15678 ай бұрын
Hmm this bestie issue
@G2daG5 ай бұрын
I honestly don't too much believe in those because somebody will catch feelings
@Mirabel-jg78 ай бұрын
A perfect Valentine's day gift. God bless you Winlos ❤❤
@TheH42G8 ай бұрын
Very important lesson to learn! Dont waste your emotions on assumptions!
@emeloguchibudoeric85578 ай бұрын
Absolutely 💯 correct, relationship are not planned on assumptions, but communication
@maximillianfocus41078 ай бұрын
Both of us know that we are in love 😅 But this is very true, a lot have been brokenhearted because of this brotherhood and sisterhood thing and some have gone far even to he is my dady my what and slowly it drags them into feelings which carry no future and mark them as nonsense to those who wish to make pure move to them
@malaikacudjoemiledji12088 ай бұрын
Clean your tears😂😢... thank God for my spiritual father who taught me to do this though I didn't see the need for it, thank God I obeyed.... Thank you the Winlows for this ❤
@MerichaRama8 ай бұрын
There are many many Amanda outside oooh , abeg please GOD, help us 😅
@e_kay_dee8 ай бұрын
The handkerchief, clean your tears😅😂
@ToliveisChrist88 ай бұрын
Thanks the Winlos for the Valentine special. Its good to define boundaries
@ToliveisChrist88 ай бұрын
Before you invest emotions.........
@aarondasojourner8 ай бұрын
Wow thanks family. For real it's heartbreaking to build a foundation on assumptions... A relationship without clear boundaries pierces the heart so much... From Ug
@joyperry83418 ай бұрын
“Whenever you define things you are not misguided. Relationship is like a contract. You must have a agreement before you invest your emotions.” 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@paulasalami18457 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video 😮😮😮. I believe I'm in a similar situation. The last two times I physically saw him,he acted indifferently and I was astounded. I was trying to figure out if he was the same person I chatted with almost every time..... but after seeing this video, I'm fully convinced that we are nothing more than good friends. It is high time I accept the reality of it all. I can't live my life doing fantasia😂😂😂 Thanks, the Winlos 👍
@deeturner64908 ай бұрын
Yes, communication is key!! Do not live off of assumptions!! Thank you @The Winlos ❤
@sandraouattara53148 ай бұрын
Thank you for the life lesson, she is such a good actor!
@queenieokeke60368 ай бұрын
God bless you Winlos for another beautiful message. God bless you for answering the call of God. ❤❤❤
@ochukopaul64688 ай бұрын
When she said "oga, I want to see you privately" I knew it was overrrr😂😂😂😂😂😂
@mensahdeborah10556 ай бұрын
Woww this came at the right time. God bless the Winlos❤
@BroKamo8 ай бұрын
"Clean your tears"😂
@cyrilletetougueni91118 ай бұрын
We can laugh about it, but a lot of people today are in this kind of relationship where they are making illusions about supposing relationships That's why, as shared in the video, everything needs to be clarified very early on 😊 Thank you for this video 🙏
@davidbenaye97508 ай бұрын
Agreement before investing emotions 😢
@MinetteNjoja8 ай бұрын
I put it to you Joel you are very wicked 😂 Hahahaha 😂 thank you the Winlos. Define every relationship you are in to so you don't develop heart attack 😅
@convinemukidanyi8648 ай бұрын
That's painful. "Define the kind of ship first"
@gracewambui54318 ай бұрын
This has happened to me... Kaaaii!!! I don't want to remember😂😂😂😂Miokukusheshe I feel you
@Belindah20188 ай бұрын
Same happened to me 😂😂
@gracewambui54318 ай бұрын
Let's all gather here and laugh at ourselves 😂😂😂😂... Building emotions on assumptions is the worst heartbreak you can ever give yourself. For Miokukusheshe is better that the guy brought the lady to introduce her... Mine was a slap on the face, I viewed WhatsApp status and there was the love of his life posted 😂😂😂😂😂😂... And God had warned me kaaaaiii!!!
@lusiashikongo63718 ай бұрын
I am here to join the queue 😂😂😂 Same thing happened 😂😂
@okiemuteabraham38928 ай бұрын
We many o😅 But I've vowed, Never Again!
@MrBlackBono8 ай бұрын
0:26 😂😂😂 the kick in the air love feeling 😂😂😂
@maatlag13268 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@BroKamo8 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥The winlos ,what a gift
@esesleek8 ай бұрын
E say na - clean your tears😂😂😂😂😂😂... My dear, clean it oooo...clean am o sisteh Amanda 😂😂😂😂😂
@josephbawa26918 ай бұрын
Define the type of 'ship' you find yourself in: Friendship or Relationship. Relationship is like a contract, you should have an agreement before you invest your emotions. Good lessons
@blessingessien98698 ай бұрын
The "clean your tears" got me laughing 😂😂😂
@JoshuaRotimi8 ай бұрын
Lol. What are friends for
@TheALIDA19868 ай бұрын
yes, somebody should say, "i love you and i want to marry you'', in 2007, while i was on attachment, i got involved with a guy, he was in IT department, we would kiss, and he would take me out to lunch, my first pizza was with him! hmk, learned later that he was married😂😂😂😂, and he was not shy about it, duh! well, you feel betrayed and unloved, communication is mandatory, lets not be casual people, lets address issues, i know the feeling when he is your guy and you imagine your life today, hahaha, an IT specialist kwano!
@b-beatsNaija8 ай бұрын
Powerful story... Great lesson
@user-j8b6g8 ай бұрын
The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom: A good understanding have all they that do his commandments: His praise endureth for ever. Psalms 111 10
@shalom66738 ай бұрын
A great lesson indeed
@danielowusu57218 ай бұрын
Am happy to be the first to watch this video. I will add to my cv😂
@Ose378 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@OJONGEGBEMBUANOBA8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this Skit. I wish these skits would be done reversing the roles from time to time. Please consider. Great grace.
@aniefunasopuluchukwu76328 ай бұрын
Always be up front and direct, dont build on assumptions..Thank you Winlos
@chanelxrenee5 ай бұрын
LOL she got me when her friend said THREE YEARS. LIKE WHAT.! 😂😂😂
@rosemaryifeyinwa70178 ай бұрын
Very profound advice. 📌💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥 Thank you Winlos for always being a blessing!!! 👌💪👏👏👏
@DarrylVick8 ай бұрын
Amanda should have taken her friend's advice. Joel didn't use her. She was all caught up in her emotions and couldn't be objective about her relationship with Joel. On the other hand, Joel probably shouldn't have sent Amanda emojis with hearts and kisses and saying that he loved her because ladies can easily take that the wrong way. They both should have had good communication with each other. That way no one would be hurt in the end. Never assume. Ask. Very good video!
@1Corinthians2.28 ай бұрын
It would certainly make you think it was more than just loving you like a sister. It was a bad idea on his part. What else is a girl to assume?
@DarrylVick8 ай бұрын
@@1Corinthians2.2 That's why I said Joel shouldn't have sent those emojis and said what he said. He was wrong in that respect, but he didn't use Amanda. Again they both should have communicated their feelings and no assumptions.
@eseanna40158 ай бұрын
Amanda is dating herself. It was my real life experience
@lusiashikongo63718 ай бұрын
😂Was it you or me? My own experience lasted for long, but glory to God, he himself brought me through. 😂😂
@joymwenya28868 ай бұрын
I won't end up or make the same mistake like amanda after watching this 😂😂💙🙏🙌
@2mammaRАй бұрын
Oh my goodness, I remember being in a full-blown relationship with someone who was very kind, gentle, patient, and an overall amazing person. I really thought there was something there only later to find out that it was only me. So sad! But I’m glad that I moved on. 🤷🏾♀️
@Oiza-bw6rh8 ай бұрын
Communication solves a lot but assumption solves nothing. Thank you Mama and Papa for reminding us about this.
@LeontineMbame8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much the winlos for this impactful video, I have learned from it, may God almighty continue to bless you all 🙏
@okorochukwudi51738 ай бұрын
Is the "clean your tears" for me😂?
@gloryichado25328 ай бұрын
........... Ask the right questions....... Thanks for this closing remarks. It goes a long way. May God bless you the Winlos and crew
@MsTBrown078 ай бұрын
Indeed! Communication is LEY! 🔑
@ChimaObi6 ай бұрын
Joel no get chills ooh, he had the mind to gave her handkerchief to dry her tears. 😂😂
@thefamousegonti8 ай бұрын
I hear in my left ear, "Heartbreak" 😂😂😂😂
@TerrenceMoyoG6 ай бұрын
Oh my, oh my....this is very relatable and it happens all the time but it hits the assuming one like a tornado. The pain is like the pain of a blow from a coward.
@spiritmedia54228 ай бұрын
Please remember to like ooo Don't just watch, like the video also
@rizauwimana8 ай бұрын
As a human, it makes sense to create boundaries to protect your well-being yet still love through the Holy Spirit to converse with your siblings in Christ. I thank God for His grace to understand something like this. Having open conversations to understand and act accordingly 🤗 As mentioned “Don’t waste your emotions on assumptions” 💕
@natayarowe44288 ай бұрын
This is soooooo very true. Very wise advice for any age, any gender. Assumptions are🙏 dangerous.. Help us Lord
@millymiriam73worshiper8 ай бұрын
Thats Why i don't all bother ^Sister sweet talks 😌 i always meant business❤ Blessings Winlos❤ Men should avoid sweet talks to girls or ladies
@john-howtohub8 ай бұрын
Anything divine is defined 😊 Thank you
@fataiteslim26138 ай бұрын
Clean your tears 😂 Thank you, Winlos ❤
@olufunmi5058 ай бұрын
Thanks for the reminder the Winlos
@margaretjames97757 ай бұрын
What if you just assume that there's nothing serious going on between you two until the guy communicates his intents?
@yemiiolagunju8 ай бұрын
Thanks for this, the winlos
@estherdalo60018 ай бұрын
Beautiful message.
@ReindolfOkaiSabi6 ай бұрын
Oooh ok Oga! I want to see you privately 😂
@mrfogrem67897 ай бұрын
Investigation before investment is important 📌. Thank you Winlos😇
@joyadebisi93128 ай бұрын
This was so timely!!
@joymwenya28868 ай бұрын
I love you the winlos thank you for this lesson communication is an important key in a relationship God bless the winlos ❤️
@immaculatewanja24168 ай бұрын
Ehem, I am informed, transformed and reformed my brain no moving in assumptions 😢. Three years is such a long time to waste like that 🙆. God help us as ladies to choose wisdom always
@pastorjoan10278 ай бұрын
Indeed pressumption is a very big enermy..it's good not to try it.
@eneotseoche12458 ай бұрын
Thank you for this reminder 😊
@Queenestherstrybe8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this reminder
@JoshuaRotimi8 ай бұрын
I tell ladies this thing but dem nor dey hear. Same as depicted in this video. How do we resolve this issue abeg
@joelarogunyo31878 ай бұрын
Come on, Winlos, of all the names. Why na? 😂 More grace ❤