THINGS HE SAYS WHEN HE’S USING YOU!

[@tenelleharris5696]

Yessss I’m definitely not helping nobody no more or dating nobody that’s not on my level ‼️

[@TheOracleBlonde]

Amen!

[@laurakayewhitehead8691]

WOW! I Already knew this in my mind but thank you for confernation! Thank you for All your insight!

[@Moonlvr555]

I love your message! Exactly, we can’t be giving husband benefits to boyfriends or men that are not our husbands! Many men do the whole future faking so that he can keep you giving and giving!

[@maryw3989]

You got that right

[@alicewooley7097]

Help the needy ?, but not greedy ? Equally yoked is truly

[@star450star]

AMEN N AMEN.✝️✝️✝️

[@kekepierre0]

💜

[@sherriflemming3218]

Stop Giving To Men That Don't Want Or Deserve It - Natalie Lue

[@rubyfullglam]

Broke and Broken Men Will Ruin Your Life 🚫

[@SherriFlemming]

Indeed.

[@smartkookie]

I noticed that as well that men of today are proud to be kept.

[@SherriFlemming]

Yes.

[@karlataylor1172]

I hope Karma slaps him in his face for being so nasty to someone who is so good to him.

[@Niqua10023]

It will. I use to think it won't be it will.

[@sanjanagrover7436]

I hope too

[@tiaa.3881]

I am dealing with this right now. I am so frustrated about allowing myself to fall for it.

[@HidingPlainSight]

In my experience, they sometimes want you because you don't need anything.. thing IS they're just plain cheap and want you to take care of them financially. If you're plain and uncomplicated like I am, it takes longer to notice. Ohh if I could go back, my life'd be SO so much better, but I'll go from here and be thankful I learned(slow but sure)

[@sakinahwahab9456]

I always feel so guilty when I hear you. I feel like you have known me for years. I am guilty of giving and excepting less. And I never thought about it the way you explained it. I love your explanations

[@RuthJones_92]

I needed this. Went through this a while back and definitely learned my lesson

[@kimsanders8262]

Me too

[@mjsimmons4]

Derrick, you can’t say any of this loud enough! This is the truth right here, plain and simple.

[@sarcasticcat4982]

It's "help -meet". As in " meet half way" or "help you meet" the goal.

[@ddupree9484]

No BOYFRIEND'S Helpmate! ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️

[@barbarareed7437]

Amen Break it down your not supposed to be a boyfriend helpmate period point blank. Love it

[@shevettejackson.]

Amen

[@xcuzmesaiditall4326]

Where have you been all this time? You just slayed the giant in relationships. You literally addressed every angle of relxnships in one phrase, " dont be unequally yoke." That's it right there!!! There's nothing more to say. The ones "who don't want to hear, will feel." You said it all ! I'm just amazed at how you succinctly and smoothly delivered the topic so totally on point. You said what you said. Thank you. Blessings.

[@glorytogod100]

You have truly blessed me with your insight and wisdom. I’m definitely going to put in the work to improve my standards, set healthy boundaries and protect my heart.

[@Z_Israel]

Gone head Israel!!!💪🏾This is Golden!!💯 I Give All Praises to The God of The Bible 📖 in Jesus Holy Name... Talk about prayers being Answered!! Thanks Bro 💜

[@belindahernandez866]

You’ve been an angel to me for the past few days… Thank You King 🤴🏽 😘🫡

[@sayless1445]

With 6 figures, I would say hell naw out the gate... especially with these dudes now days

[@judithstevens4323]

TRUTH💯💯!!❤❤😘😘

[@emilyfarris3510]

TRUTH.💯

[@SherriFlemming]

Indeed.

[@valchrist52]

This is the message I needed to hear right now. Thank you.

[@ellamhlongo83]

Learned the hard way. NEVER AGAIN🙌😩

[@debraharris776]

ellahlong83 Most definitely I too just learned the hard way after 4 years of relationship. Never Ever again will I fall for the okey doke. Valuable Lesson Learned here. There is none so blind, as for those who will not see. My heart has hardened. Now it’s all about me taking care of ME. Period!!!!

[@ellamhlongo83]

@debraharris776 Facts 100...We need to forgive ourselves too.

[@debraharris776]

@@ellamhlongo83 Yep 💯

[@SherriFlemming]

​@@debraharris776 Go girl.

[@HidingPlainSight]

You're good! Dang...ohh I bet others here join me in wishing we'd discovered and learned from you sooner!!! I just have to keep tellin myself it's ok I'm learnin and still alive...go from here

[@bettinastraughter4678]

Exactly! That’s the way he do it!!!

[@Mandy-ct5nv]

You are actually the best coach on planet earth!!!

[@UhuruMaat]

😢😅. Taking my kindness for weakness. I didn’t fully realize that I was saving him I just thought we were doing it together. Now I see

[@Jessica_Pettis]

Can you do a video about the topic how to tell if someone is love bombing you or if they’re genuinely interested? Sometimes it’s very hard to tell the difference, thanks 🙏🏼

[@sherriflemming3218]

Dr Ramani and Sam Vaknin have educational podcasts on Love bombing.

[@nichelle434]

Love bombing don't last long, usually be too good to be true, Seem too perfect, they start off making u feel loved etc but u can feel something is off!

[@deborahwynder2394]

You hit the nail on the head

[@caity2050]

Easy come. Easy go!! Old but true

[@nadiamcintosh8592]

Thanks. It's reference for an Experience elderly woman. I sent it to my daughter for confirmation on the same I have been telling her and others I know.

[@halimahtv7077]

My boyfriend use this against me all the time,but he don't talk about what I did for him

[@cristenc.7886]

I had all these things happen to me. All the sob stories. This was before I started watching your videos, didn't know what was going on

[@taniaroberts7567]

Me too but yet still allow myself to go through it 😒 time after time 😔

[@dlm1618]

WHY ARE YOU POPPING UP ON MY FEED? WE DONE ✔️

[@estar3011]

I agree. I am supposed to be my husbands help mate.

[@lexyperri4294]

Most relationships are based on worth" meaning how could you be used

[@brigitteotto7185]

Beware of sociopaths!!! Independent, well off women are a main target for those bastards!! Been there!

[@SherriFlemming]

Indeed. They will target any women.

[@dione9004]

Good information!!!

[@Lisa-gg8ui]

So true.

[@kassiawarsawski1033]

Thank you for blessing me with this information.

[@kelleypopkowski1789]

Yes. My ex was like this. It was.. well since I did this for you..you should do this for me. So manipulative.

[@SherriFlemming]

I hear that.

[@alwaysprettyandhumble1901]

Lord, pleaseeeeee let me not be in my 60’s still trying to date. Sheeez.. Thats my worst fear.

[@iamthetruth1348]

If your husband passes away Ya just might?

[@edyrose8458]

I'm 63 haven't dated for years

[@ashakig9081]

You are on point!

[@trrahr5496]

Derrick this was really good!

[@halimahtv7077]

You're the best teacher

[@prhosistentpoodle2716]

All of THIS‼️

[@donnalockett7532]

All facts. I left him fast

[@sweetstrawberrylove]

yes made me cry

[@belindapadron7175]

👏👏👏 all facts stated...thank you

[@kairosunltd130]

So on point D! So on point! 💯💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@Mandy-ct5nv]

This is the best video in 2023!!!!!

[@maryamzizi13]

I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️

[@rhondacook5115]

Your messages are so on point, very helpful 💯💯💯

[@JaxnVideos]

Hi @rhondacook5115, thank you for sharing your feelings and vulnerability here. It's completely normal to feel lost and confused in relationships, and it takes a lot of courage to open up about it. Remember, you are not alone in this journey. It's important to remember to prioritize self-care and self-love during this time. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want and deserve in a relationship. Trust your intuition and know that you are worthy of love and happiness. If you're looking for more guidance and support in navigating your relationships, I encourage you to check out my new master class that dives deep into these topics. You can find the link in the description of this video. Remember, you have the power to create the fulfilling and loving relationship you deserve. Stay strong and keep moving forward. You've got this! 🌟

[@rhondacook5115]

FACTS/ Confirmation I will check into your program

[@MsBlackb1]

Brilliant - so true - happened to me - but he didn’t get a bean x

[@sherylcastro5688]

Very god points 😢 Thankssss

[@gwenr.8558]

ON POINT

[@septemberbody]

😕they PROUD to be kept

[@melly6366]

Thanks..this hit hard! 💕 .

[@alyssakalette]

Derrick do you offer one on one zoom sessions or anything?

[@maryamzizi13]

I love you guys so much ❤️❤️

[@naomirivera3626]

Thanks for your video I need to hear this just ghost me for no reason so I closed blocked deleted everything level on him done

[@crystalgeter.6294]

Yes Sir So Un Appreciated as Well 🎯💞 True

[@MariammeGathoniRashidah]

Thank you Thank you✊🏾💪🏾👏🏾

[@squiddypus1161]

A reminder since the word was mentioned. We have to leave it behind. It's often forgotten & since you're helping others to remain awake I figured I'd remind you of this so you'll remain aware too. 😏 🎬:11:04-11:07 Isaiah 65:11 But you are among those forsaking Jehovah, Those forgetting my holy mountain, Those setting a table for the god of Good Luck, And those filling up cups of mixed wine for the god of Destiny.

[@theatushafamily4977]

Mommy boys 😁😁😁

[@dgomez768]

I needed to hear this. Thank you

[@veronicamcdaniels9968]

Yep...

[@charlottecoolik9872]

GOD LOVE YOU ❤️ YOU ARE AWESOME.... THANK YOU

[@tib1632]

If I can like this 100x.

[@blubayou4654]

👏👏👏👏thank you Derek

[@mcole8594]

Facts!

[@safaralenkinsey424]

Been there done that

[@dogblues4829]

Thank you

[@michellerogers5582]

Thank you!!!

[@bobomacharia2551]

this happens to me all the time, I AM A

[@theunoffcialwifetm1133]

"I am kinda tight right now" 😆

[@verniciasmith6372]

Great video thanks

[@cleovernebaptiste2747]

Need this

[@JamieModelvsDirector]

Well Said 💖💖💖💖

[@nadinemoore1795]

So true !

[@jackiemills2466]

I needed you 30 yrs ago mabey I would not be stuck in my situation 😮

[@kadythompson4538]

Unstick yourself ❤ you’re not a tree rooted in the dirt! GET OUT!

[@nafisajingi2386]

It's not too late 😊.

[@cruella4604]

Facts

[@cynthiafoxworthy8494]

Damn Skippy!!!!!!!

[@cnicole6121]

omg, so right

[@JJ-le6qo]

How can you be a angel and demon at the same f***ing time?!

[@nichelle434]

By Faking it 😊

[@miami4005]

Hello how can I upload your video to my channel

[@ddupree9484]

The Deposit is just BREADCRUMBING. He gave his ex girlfriend a KIDNEY??? 🤦🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️ not a kidney!!!

[@dogblues4829]

At your EXPENSE

[@tubegen11]

@ Derrick Jaxn how far should you give or sacrifice when in a marriage..?

[@diamondjack-cooper5322]

AMEN 😭🥺🙂🙏❤️💕

[@Lindafay627]

Where you been???or maybe its perfect timing

[@Zanahospitality]

Are you single? So sorry to be so blunt, but my gosh....your brain, your mind set, your spiritual maturity is seriously sooo attraktiv.

[@Boricuamami97]

Don’t see the link.

[@melisakaersenhout370]

This was 4 me!

[@patharris5603]

You speaking fact’s and guilt tripping you are not doing it from the heart and saying no I have a right to say no just like he says no if I ask for him for something

[@creatingdigitalassets]

My ex boyfriend

[@DrEliane01]

🎯

[@latashahumphrey769]

Wait now I don't think it's nothing wrong helping ur mate.

[@latashahumphrey769]

I don't have that problem. Everybody situation is not the same some people don't ask.

[@Taytheman12]

Hello

[@chachadavis3617]

💯💯💯

[@adairasanders1055]

💯💯💯💯

[@dogblues4829]

Wow

[@amyj.4992]

Only wives, are help mates 😜🥰🙏🏾 and I'm a rider but I don't plan on dying anytime soon

[@amyj.4992]

Iron makes iron shaper, and iron dulls damaging wood. That is an amazing point

[@amyj.4992]

Relationships, are supposed to be mutually beneficial