5 SIGNS He's Keeping You as an Option!🚩🤷‍♀️

[@andreakeener6378]

Labels gives it Identity Identity gives it Structure Structure gives it Security.

[@sonjacox4874]

I have constantly been the option way too many times until i realized im better off alone.

[@susanhampton9671]

At least you figured it out and refuse to take crumbs.

[@honeybrown3901]

😢

[@xoxobutterfly]

Same 😢

[@SherriFlemming]

Single equals peace, solitude, freedom and stability. It takes a strong independent person to remain single in a world that is accustomed to settling with just anyone just to say they have someone. Many people cannot be alone. Finding someone truly compatible is challenging. The older people become, the more stuck in their ways they are.😊 Remaining single is a choice that doesn't require an explanation to anyone.

[@mistydawn5061]

True

[@BrendaBaBoom]

Your precious TIME is your greatest asset. Let nothing or nobody waste your time and energy. ⏰

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.*

[@fly_girl]

People can only do what you allow them to do!! I have TOO MUCH respect and love for myself to be an option. 👸🏽🐝

[@PreciousMethodMan]

True fact. FlY grl WomaN knw what u worthy SET BOUNDARIES

[@marlenamcghee]

I was dealing with my ex on and off for years wasted my time years I can not get back..

[@StephanieThompson-hr6mv]

Yesss I’ve wasted 20 plus years I can not get back 😢

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

I Dropped him and have PEACE 😊❤

[@anndewar4400]

I wish I had a brother like you.

[@latashahumphrey769]

I'm not anybody option there is something I want but I shouldn't have to ask all I'm saying if you don't want me let me go

[@luna84_]

Word, baby

[@latashahumphrey769]

@@luna84_ cause either love me or leave me

[@luna84_]

@@latashahumphrey769 exactly

[@gwendolynpatrick6539]

You just go

[@latashahumphrey769]

@@gwendolynpatrick6539 y don't go I been gone

[@jackuemcintyre8970]

Say that again it's better to be with a empty bed than having the wrong sprit in the same bed wow

[@ashleyburris7417]

Exactly wasted time for the wrong one but the right journey

[@SophiaParker-mc3kg]

He is 41 and still has not put a ring on it! 23 years gone, I can not get back! 😢

[@made432]

These men never grow up. Move on and put yourself first!

[@lauraperkins6437]

Mine left me after celebrating our 23yr anniversary. The discard has been extremely painful. I understand the feeling. I pray for your healing.

[@made432]

@@lauraperkins6437 I am sorry you went through that and I pray for you

[@ebonylo.]

Wow

[@ZONDRAHARPER-i1q]

THANK YOU! OUR RELATIONSHIP JUST ENDED!

[@ChereseElaine_Officially]

Right On Point..The gift of discernment is priceless.

[@JaxnVideos]

Hey @GracefullyDriven_Officially, I just wanted to commend you for sharing your story and being vulnerable. It takes a lot of strength to open up like that. Remember, healing is a journey, and it's okay to have ups and downs along the way. You're not alone in this. If you're looking for more guidance and support, I just released a new master class that addresses some of the topics you touched on. You can find the link in the description below. Keep pushing forward, you are stronger than you realize. Take care.

[@ChereseElaine_Officially]

Thank you for the words of encouragement. I’ve learned a lot from the men in my family by asking relationship questions at a very young age. I agree, experience is the best teacher. Will check out your masterclass. Take care 😊

[@sherithapatton321]

No one has ever heard this information and I’m 60 yrs old in June I needed to listen to this really a lot of your talks has helped and I wish someone had told me this before I was 30 yrs old

[@livia1174]

I gave my best! Lost everything... now i just want peace of mind!!!

[@ValerieJames-yk6pr]

Thats very important to know if he's wanting to be on the same level as you being serious about where things are going or wants it he needs to know that security is Real yeap LABLES DOES MATTER GOT IT YES THEY DO MATTER!!

[@ronnietoni819]

This one hit home, made me tear up 😢

[@sarrahfiler5993]

Current situation!! And it sucks!! I am being ridiculous and not letting him go!!

[@joanjohnson9821]

Please reevaluate this situation. I’ve been in the same boat for too long. It’s hard to brake free, but you really are strong enough.

[@MG-gq2rs]

You can do it!!! Girl power 💪🏼

[@moniamonia5396]

He pushed me away but I still crawled back

[@amykohn8405]

I'm right there with you

[@BrendaBaBoom]

@@moniamonia5396 Emotional thinking is a powerful drug! Work on your (E.I.) emotional intelligence and restore your personal power, energy and peace. Blessings 🌸

[@maggiewanjiru2807]

I love listening to your amazing topics. However, relationships aren't for the faint. I think you only get stuck when you think somebody other than yourself can make you important to them. Thank you, Derrick.

[@PeggySueSmith-h9j]

I really have never had a good male role model who would have a girls back You are special to share this light for protection and peace I have been healing and trying to learn

[@ninashirley432]

Thank you brother, I am so grateful to have found you to listen to. I was adopted by evil people. 😢

[@christinesimon7392]

I'm understanding , you help me let go , I'm happy and feel like myself again❤

[@genetterichard9934]

Yesssss😊 very true my brother,63 and loving it being single is beautiful. Yes you are making sense😊

[@b.tilson5198]

Lord help me be strong and set my boundaries strong! Thank you for being a great brother and speaking the truth. I understand now. I just need to get it into my thick skull that there is no future with him.

[@MG-gq2rs]

OMG!!! You just gave me so much clarity!!! Thank you!

[@janicetorto887]

Right now, I thought I wasn't good enough, I am worth so much now,

[@pt5594]

I protected toooo many men with my loyalty

[@preciouscoleman7734]

I'm with u on this

[@SandraDepriest-q6t]

Keep on preaching Big Bro because you are telling us what our intuition tells us, but somehow we just give these guys the benefit of the doubt!!!Now l have been given the tools to know how to still be loving, nurturing, understanding, while being awake to the games that might be played and how to navigate so that l know when to be on Super Protect Mode while still being kindred!

[@sheilamohammed8306]

Say it! Nothing wrong with the Truth!

[@ebonyhill8266]

I wish I had seen this 5 years ago! All facts!

[@JaxnVideos]

Dear @ebonyhill8266, I can sense that you're going through a tough time right now. It's important to remember that setbacks are a normal part of life and can actually lead to growth and self-discovery. Keep your head up and stay positive - you have the strength to overcome this! If you're looking for support and guidance during this challenging time, I would recommend checking out my new master class. You can find the link in the description below the video. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. Keep moving forward and never give up. You've got this!

[@sonjacox4874]

So right on brother!!

[@carolynfields434]

I am 62 years old . And yes they are men out there use you and your an option.

[@SandraDepriest-q6t]

Come on you are giving to us as REAL DEAL HOLYFIELD!!!

[@camillemcconnell8504]

Yes!. thank you for the specific age time frames for a monogamous relationships, so that we protect ourselves fr the option category and helping us discern.

[@jacquelineward7421]

You’re are making the whole world of sense to me.

[@Anitajonse]

I came to know Christ in jail in 2013 by reading a book, "Overcoming spiritual blindness" by James P. Gills MD. The veil was taken off my eyes. Heaven came through for me in my finances too, getting $25,000 monthly. I can support God's work and give back to my community. God is absolutely more than enough!

[@harlenajones5721]

Same here, with my current portfolio made from my investments with my personal financial advisor I totally agree with you

[@JacobMuhammad-fe6nq]

Elizabeth Ann has really set the standard for others to follow, we love her here in the UK as she has been really helpful and changed lots of life's

[@andymclain2117]

I use to work 3 jobs, full time at Walmart, a server at night and Lyft on the weekend, untill Elizabeth Ann graney change my story.

[@marthamalcom604]

Such a genuine personality!!, Sincerely speaking. I will continue to trade and stick to Elizabeth Ann daily signals and guides as long as it works well for me.

[@WillSmith-or6uy]

This sounds so good and I would like to be a party to this, is there any way I can speak with her?

[@SmashMaster]

Truth hurts because I’ve wasted 20 years on players 😢

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

Thank God I am not dealing with anyone. Until I get what I want my set goal is my weight. And I am waiting as well

[@jalisas.698]

I love this! Yes you make sense. Thank you for the honesty.

[@danaford-soares2521]

This class is bomb loving your intensity

[@pamelabeaton6667]

I'm tired of being a shack up honey as Dr Laura would say no more of that for me I'd rather be single

[@yolandasession8158]

Thank you❤ Iv wasted 8 years.. only for him not to marry after living together.. Made the decision not to continue living together unmarried.. .. slowly growing apart

[@kimaskew6904]

Thank you for the clarity. Everyone needs to listen to this.

[@azmaritafari]

You are definitely making sense to MI!!! Thank you!!!

[@Cc-qv4dc]

He hurt me and moved on with other women and he think that he have me as an option but the little he knows karma is a real bitch I’m hurting like hell but I will make it through this this too shall pass

[@AmaraLeak]

hearing what u are saying is blowing my mind as a woman. the only thing we can do is learn the lesson and do better next time🙌

[@LamarVivian]

U. Have. Old. People in there 60s. Playing. Games. To

[@Love2Love927]

😮

[@elaineclark4653]

Yes indeed

[@Glow-q1k]

👎Old SUCKERS ✅

[@livinmylife5025]

Yep just dumped mine.

[@cc1k435]

Those people have always done that and always will. 😮

[@ranawinfield5110]

Thank you kind soul♥️🌹♥️👁️

[@michellewilson851]

Yes you're making perfect sense.

[@latashahumphrey769]

I have made it happen for years. I did it out of love

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

OMG SO ON POINT ❤

[@ninashirley432]

Thank you brother, sometimes I enjoy listening to give me peace of mind. Amen

[@cynthiataylor5793]

Your hitting the Nail on the head!

[@almaelyesthergarcia4060]

Thank you for keeping it real with me

[@jp-ov1sv]

Thank you soooo much for you information. You have really made me look at my dating life differently.

[@lydiachavarria9596]

You’re making sense. Thank you.

[@araceliscollazo5067]

God bless you Derrick! Thank you!

[@JaxnVideos]

Hey @araceliscollazo5067, I can sense the pain you're going through and I want you to know that you are not alone. Remember, it's okay to feel hurt and lost after a breakup, but it's also important to focus on your own healing and growth. Take this time to rediscover yourself, build your confidence, and prioritize self-care. If you're looking for guidance and support during this difficult time, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies to help you navigate through heartbreak and emerge stronger than ever. You deserve to be happy and loved, and I believe in your ability to create the life you truly desire. Stay strong and keep moving forward, you've got this. 💪🏼 (PS: You can find the link to the master class in the description below)

[@sherrymiguel7052]

You are making perfect sense

[@ValerieJames-yk6pr]

Woww I got that and you are speaking Truths DANGGG!!

[@savannahkat-ls9zq]

Your honesty is awesome

[@mariaare9023]

Thank you !!! U are enlightening me!!!!😮

[@jp-ov1sv]

You laid the law down! You should write a book!!

[@joanmu1053]

You are right in every way, everything you say resonates. Stick with me big bro ❤

[@crymymindcruz8704]

Thank you brother 😊

[@kerrimagor5634]

OMG you are ace! I can’t get enough, everything you say is so true

[@joannab1692]

One of your best videos big bro. Thanks. 🎉

[@UYLhealth]

So good thank you!!🙏🏻 labels absolutely matter! Is this bleach or lemonade?!

[@heatherlynn3438]

I refuse to be part of the harem 🤢

[@desiree2299]

Right! Full of chickens...🚫

[@mmpopcorn8894]

Why do they like having harems

[@heatherlynn3438]

@@mmpopcorn8894 Power, Control, Bored, New Supply, Different Supply Needs, Triangulation, Drama/Trauma, Danger/Excitement, Addictions.. Just off the top of my head

[@amymitchell1054]

Omg I so needed to hear this! This message is 100% for me!🙌🙌

[@tiffanyjohnson4271]

Thanks for the info Big Brother!

[@JaxnVideos]

Hey Tiffany, I hear you and I understand how tough it can be to navigate relationships. Remember, you are worthy of love and deserve to be with someone who appreciates and uplifts you. Keep your head up and trust that the right person will come along when the time is right. In the meantime, why not check out my new master class on relationships? You can watch it by clicking the link in the description below. Take care of yourself!

[@JanetTuttle-cb3xx]

God Bless you, you have made points no one has mentioned before, dating is a nightmare as their are so many dishonest men out there, I would rather be alone than wast my precious time at 67 yrs, too much time has already passed.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉😊😊😊

[@lindahamilton935]

I promise you this, the few videos that I've recently watched, I swear you are describing me and how I've been treated and all I've been through with ALL MEN every Husband n boyfriend I've had. I'm literally going through it this exact moment

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

ON Point Mr D IAM GOOD WORKING ON ME AND MY PEACE AND STAY CLOSE TO THE LORD ❤😊

[@figs0775]

Thank you for this video

[@darlenecallins4513]

Yesss! Totally making sense! & thanks my big bro.😉

[@Queen-sw8zp]

Speak it my dear speak it.....⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🔥

[@wenyaknowbetter]

I hope you’re on the Hardly Initiated Podcast!!!! 🙏🏽

[@Debbiekahler]

You are absolutely right 💯

[@pk9096]

Im not anybodys option,that is bs i tell you..too good,responsible,wise,, hardworking,beautiful, and i decserve the best not second hand whatever that doesnt know ehether hes coming or going

[@sybilamuta6417]

God bless you Derrick.

[@StephanieThompson-hr6mv]

Thank you so much ❤

[@ruthrnk3826]

Thanks for this recording. It's an eye opener.

[@DianeWilson-b5p]

Thats mean to do🙏men to whom ever it may concern 🙏

[@Saylerk9]

Honestly this is depressing to hear. Wth is wrong with men?! Just be honest. Chickens.

[@maribethford7105]

Rats

[@EC-yl7xk]

Thank you so much Derrick, where were you when I needed you years ago? I am new to your channel, glad I found you.

[@nedailic2139]

Damn youre so convincing D. I just left him for real 😅😅😅 Thank you ❤❤❤

[@MaDameBeloved]

Thank you this game my own father should have given me. You truly are my big brother in Christ! I appreciate all that you do🙏✅💯🌹❣️💋💓💕🥲Thank you Thank you so very much. God bless you!

[@liztowers2058]

If u have to convince and beg and bribe and cry to get him.... He don't want you.

[@marcelinaun3304]

Ty big bro

[@JanetTuttle-cb3xx]

Definitely makes sense about his self awareness.

[@a1goddesss]

Love your content ❤️ From Russia w Love

[@Kellycampitelli]

Thank you. I hear you loud and clear

[@carolynfields434]

Amen thank you

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

TRUE TRUE ON POINT 😊

[@AmieLewis-t5q]

You are so right

[@RenataRath1983]

Thank you, that was very helpful!!!

[@blumenaue7590]

I am so grateful for you.

[@BERNADETTEGARCIA-c7c]

Thank YOU 🙏✔️

[@mattiegrant54]

Been there did that yes that was me

[@JeBaSIINGH23]

Me too

[@maryjom7261]

Truth!!!

[@SabaHabte-t8u]

Thanks Brother